Most tall woman prefer taller men . They may settle for an average height man but I doubt they want a short man . Why would I sign up for a future of being infantilized by my partner . Tall woman don’t respect short man at all . Any tall woman I interacted with treated me like a little boy . I never seen a healthy short man tall woman relationship . The guy is always a submessive cuck and the tall woman wears the pants . I don’t care for tall sons . I want a woman shorter than me. I will give my son GH as a kid . It’s the greedy tall guys that fuck stuff up and steal the short woman . If you’re a 6’2 guy any woman is tiny compared to you . Why do you need a 5’2 woman when you’re 6’2 . Everyone talks about short man being insecure but tall guys be the most insecure they need a toddler sized woman to feel manly grrrrr .
Tall guys are so creepy and they get away with it . Tall man privilege . That’s like a 5’8 guy going for woman with dwarfism to feel manly.
>>34313877>why short men should go for a tall woman Its In order to give their child a chance at having height. If you have a son, and he has the mother's height then congratulations you've set them up for a slightly better time. If you have a daughter, and she has her father's height then she's fine but if she has her mother's height then that actually boosts her chances to become a literal runway model.Btw it's not doomed if you're not 6' that's just another incel fable told as a means to comprehend and cope with their current (lonely) circumstances
>>34313877in my personal experience they are the ones that care the least about how tall you are.I was 20 cm shorter than my last ex, a whole head of differencewe stayed together for years.
Why is it so hard to mantain annd create friendships as an adult in modern society? How do I fix this?
how old are u
>>3431297026 (I'm OP)
>>34312482>hey guys, what's the deal with modern society these days? wasn't old society better in the olden days of old? The good old days! The start of the new millennium! The 1990s! The 1980s!>>34312982>I'm 26lol every time.Brother you would still having these troubles and even moreso even if you were born in another generation. This isn't a "modern society" problem.
>>34312993It actually is, at least the modern society and it's setup is contributive in a non-trivial wayIf he were born some other era he'd likely already have a wife and kid setup by now, with a network of family friends and a local network of friends from various jobs and duties. Not to say that setup is "better" but it does show that the "setup" is equal (or potentially more, but at the very least non-zero) parts circumstantial/environmental as it is individual
>>34313819true
I am currently thinking about quitting my job, but need advice on some things: A) should I have another job lined up, and just grit my teeth until this is done, B) is it a lack of training, ability, or something else?I have only been in this job for a few months. I like it, and accelerate at things that others do not/ cannot. What I do not like is when I do not have resources to get the answers/ solutions for my issues. It is a one person department, with a rather steep learning curve. I had two weeks of hands on training, with remote training from the previous human in this position. Although this helped, the issues I faced were “unique and things I would not usually experience” - her words not mine. Every month had these “unique” issues, many of which she had to work through for corrections herself. This could point to a bigger issue in the company. I am currently behind on several different tasks, as each one is new to me, and they are rather important. No one in the office has advice on what to do. The previous employee has since stopped replying. Should I quit? Last thing; it is not like I am inept, as there are difficult aspects of the job that I picked up considerably quick, but one-off major tasks are proving to be overwhelming. advice plx n thx
JustOverBrokeimagine wasting your divineness, your time, your energy, your spirit, your sweat and essence, your blood pumping, the best time(s) of your life on something so uninteresting, so uninspiring, so pro fane and boring, mind dulling, on having a job and working, for someone elses pockets, even. lol, lmaocouldnt be me.
>>34313430You like the job so why would you quit? You said it's not your fault you're behind on work, so why would you feel any pressure? It's clearly outside your hands.If I were you I'd do my work with zero urgency and if they don't like it they can go ahead and fire me. (Although I guess that decision depends on where you live and what the laws say.)
>>34313693This man’s a gd genius. Gd IQ of 150!
>>34313430Of course you must have another job lined up. Maybe you can learn to chillax and learn a little extra on your own time to improve the situation. Don’t let them push you around tho.
I need help on overcoming antisocial and misanthropic behaviors. I work security in a warehouse where I'm constantly ignored or given attitude. Warehouse workers joke at me or cuss at me for "taking my job too seriously". Women in particular ignore me when I greet them and think of me as a weird autist. It's been like this for over a year and gotten to the point where I rarely talk at work. I don't enjoy conversations or even think about doing anything with my life outside of this job. I started going on walks to get my mind off it, but even on my days off I just get angry at myself for living like this.
>>34311165Maybe you need a change of scenery, are you dead set on the place you’re living for one reason or another? Could you spend a year abroad?
>>34311625No, I'm a wagie living with parents. Don't make much but can't afford to take time off. I also know a trip won't change anything in the inside
>>34311486>you are whiteNo
>>34311699Having your own space would change a lot of shit, even if it was a downgrade
Bump
How do I cope with the fact that my mom would have probably aborted me if she knew?
>>34311539Why do you even need to cope?
>>34311539Use it to not feel pressured bro. >I’ll tell you an anecdote that played a role in my life. I was about twenty-two and one day I was in a terrible state. We were living in Sibiu, a city in the provinces where I spent my whole youth, and where my father was the priest of the city. That day, there was only my mother and me at home, and---when I remember things, I remember them very precisely, I even remember the hour, it’s very strange---I think it was around two in the afternoon, everyone else had gone out. All of a sudden, I had a fantastic fit of despair, I threw myself on the sofa and said, “I can’t take it anymore!” And my mother said this: “If I had known, I would have had an abortion.” That made an extraordinary impression on me. It didn’t hurt me, not at all. But after, I said, “That was very important. I’m simply an accident. Why take it all so seriously?” Because, in effect, it’s all without substance.
>>34311539~50% is a coin flip not a "probably"
>>34313739A quarter is slightly weighted to land on heads, I heard.
>>3431153953% of mothers who would abort their child for autism are typically autistic mothers. Autists have a real hard time at sympathizing with other people's experiences, they also have catastrophic thinking and always assumed the worst case outcome will happen. While they possess empathy, that empathy can only ever be indulged by the autist themselves in their own head, they never actually extend it to other people outwardly due to verbal issues or social barriers.So pretend you are an autistic mom. You have an autistic kid in your womb. You already hate yourself for being autistic, so you instantly project that onto the autistic baby. You catastrophize only the worst case scenarios if the babies future in your head and the sympathy for how the baby's PoV could be never happens. Autistic mom just aborts every time. Autistic mothers are famous for this, even if they do carry to term, they struggle to pairbond with their kids. Often giving up on breastfeeding altogether due to sensory issues, they give up on holding the baby habitually and thus cannot pairbond with the baby through touch. Which gives the baby an abandonment complex. Just like autistic momma. In true autistic fashion if you point it out to autistic women, instead of being able to self reflect or resolve to do it different, they say: "That's it I'm a horrible mother I'm not meant for parenthood, I will abort abort abort".
Do any men here have experience dating women larping as they/thems? I should have smashed this woman when I first met her but I'm not used to doing that. I have her on instagram and notice she says she's they/them. Of course she's still 100% a woman but that kind of tells me she's at least sort of mentally ill. Also I can't imagine how cucked it would be to have to say she's my "partner", and if I double down on calling her my girlfriend I'll probably get labelled abusive or something. I imagine she might be growing out of it but it's probably seen as cowardly to go back to normal after pretending to be something super cool and special for so long. Shit sucks mannnnnnn
>>34313833haha so i actually do. its funny that beyond all the bluster about their non binary identity at their core they are still a woman who can cum from clitoral and g spot stimulation by a phallic shaped object in this case being your penis. the first time i experienced this i was actually quite surprised because on the surface she (oops they) were a total hardass and one of the meanest people i thought id met but underneath was a soft underbelly that turns into goo once you get them in the sack.
>>34313837Were you actually dating or just fucking? Did you ever call her your girlfriend? Did you have to say partner like a fucking loser?
>>34313837Well obviously, those types are usually the most histrionic womanly of all, basically retards who can easily be manipulated hence they got manipulated into the LGBBQ retardation in the first place
>>34313833i lovebombed a chick with bob haircut and bisexual pins on her bag. she was cute like velma from scooby doo. i have a 6th sense for women who have something wrong with them internally and I magnetize them somehow. i somehow charmed her and got her to sleep with me only for her to act extremely hot-cold towards me while being intimate. in the end I couldn't penetrate her as she would flinch whenever I would do something like kissing her neck or fingering her in the right spot. She would slap me or put her nails on my skin which fucking made me want to kick her out and I eventually did. NOT WORTH honestly.
>23yo shut-in in uni, loneliness and anxiety caused me to delay my degree by almost one year now.>never worked in my life, always been that quiet lonely insecure kid because I got bullied.>mom constantly calling you weak, lazy and anti-social expecting you to get better.I don’t think I can take it anymore bros.
Anon that's rough, but I think I have some basic advice for you. Believe it or not, videogames have a surprising effect on socializing. Since you share a common objective, it eases convos like you have no idea. I'll be lurking around here for some days, so if you ever want to do something like play a game together (preferably Roblox) I'm in. Take care and have a great day!
>>34311812I'm sorry, I cant help you anon. I haven't found this out yet. Maybe someday, someone will. But he won't use reddit spacing when he presents it to us, I believe.
Are there any tricks to lasting longer during sex that actually work
>>34313705I'll add : practice alone before hand. While masturbating, figure out when you are close to orgasm. Mentally push the orgasm back while continuing or diminishing stimulation.And everyone's first time is shit. In fact, everyone's first few times are shit. Don't worry about it. Be upfront about it with your partner. Laugh about it with your partner.
>>34309400Yeah, a big part of the "arousal experience" comes from odors. Try to obstruct your nose before fucking.
>>34313753Keep a nigga from nutting by fucking up his nose. Now, I've seen some real fucked up shit in my lifetime. But you, motherfucker, have really taken the cake with this one.
>>34309400what for?
>>34313824Um, I dunno, enjoying sex for longer than 30 seconds perhaps? Not experiencing the law of diminishing returns with dumbass cope like "round two" and shit?
I came to the conclusion, that women hate good, intelligent, emotionally mature and open, empathic men the same way they hate short, ugly men.I think it comes down to the fact that they see these men as litmus test for themselves that they know they wouldn't pass.Also, men with higher intelligence are impossible to be used so these women avoid them.They would rather go for a dumb, high masculinity, low inhibition, high aggressiveness men even if they looks like neanderthals. These seem to be popular with women here in Poland.Women simply didn't develop beyond their primal urges and it's especially noticible today where they can have a free choice of the litter.So my question is - since it;s a adv board - are there any countries left where women value good, intelligent men? If so, where is that?
How is even a discussion after all the revelations about "women's romance"Yes if you can't kill another man with your bare hands you're ngmiKnowing how to read or write isn't special anymore and hasn't been for over a century
>>34310842The irony. I can shoot any many easily, before he even touches me.
>>34299562Women use men as an extension of themselves. Schopenhauer already talked about society hating intelligencehttps://www.gutenberg.org/cache/epub/10715/pg10715-images.html#link2H_4_0037
>>34299562Cwel detected
>>34313654Co tam szczekasz, polski szympansie.
>be me >short>in my 20s>work as a busboy>most if not all of the girls who work at the restaurant ignore me>i say hi/bye to them and they just walk by and say nothing as if I am invisible >notice they never ignore the other busboys and even initiate conversations with them>i notice that these busboys are also taller than me>i therefore ignore them and stop saying hi/byeAm I right to think that these bitches ignore me because I am not attractive enough for them?
>>34310804Quick question: how old are you? If you’re at least 30 then that explains your reply here.
>>34312085>If you’re at least 30 then that explains your reply here.NtaWhy do you think guys under 30 are incapable of talking to girls?Because the issue clearly isn't with the girls.
>>34313163I don’t think they’re incapable of talking to girls. I just think some of what they think about girls is outdated. That guy said that only shallow women on tinder care about height, which is clearly not true. First of all, women both young and old are on dating apps, and women generally prefer tall men. It’s not just a subset of shallow women (as if women are not generally shallow) who care about it.
Grils have zero to offer you blud. Not in an incel way, but more like birds run into clear windows all the time. Also, waitresses are typically ran thru - focus on something else
>>34313620>That guy said that only shallow women on tinder care about height, which is clearly not true. That's not what he said.He said height is irrelevant in real life. And as I've known a handful of guys that were short yet still pussy magnets, I would say that it's true.>First of all, women both young and old are on dating apps, and women generally prefer tall men.True enough.>It’s not just a subset of shallow women (as if women are not generally shallow) who care about it.Women are universally less superficial and vapid irl than online because they're interacting with the man, more than just his stats and a line of text on a screen.In my experience and observation, women who genuinely refuse to date a man shorter than then them are vapid, superficial cunts not worth fucking with.Many women don't admit their preferences to themselves and/or don't expect to get a perfect guy. So if they meet a charming guy who makes them feel great to be with, they'll overlook a few things.But if you remain just a list of traits to them, yeah, they'll pick the taller, richer, and more handsome list of traits. Be a man instead.
i'm stuck in a cycle where I hook up every year with a new girl every few months and really enjoy the time spent with them and then eventually meeting a really nice 7/10 girl with good manners and get into a relationship with them up until i get really really bored of it because its not as stimulating as the crazy girls but the crazy girls are absolutely not maintainable long term and have a lot of trauma and slutty pasts. i'm here again with another relationship going in my hands and I'm forcing myself to stay but I'm already stressed and feeling pressure inside like a bottle slowly to leave this one again and continue the cycle but i'm concerned for myself as I'm now aware of this whole thing. I'm 28 now and I don't want to end up like the 32+ year old dudes living like they're 20. I want to have a family and all but I'm conflicted inside myself with my actions. Any anons with similar kind of issues?
>>34313715You should probably ask yourself if you actually do want a family. This might also be a deeper issue like e.g. you subconsciously thinking you don’t deserve a family, because the cycle you describe sounds like self sabotage. Go to therapy or try to stick to this one and see what happens. Sometimes you just have to make peace with the fact that life is ultimately boring as fuck and there’s not much you can do about it if you want to pursue a traditional lifestyle
Yeah please don't make a family and just stay in your containment zone with the other deranged cunts, self-automated quarantining from the rest of civilisation
not sure where to post this, but what hairstyle do you recommend for me? Im pretty sure I have to cut it am i right
>>34309981i am a girl so here we go : medium length curtains, middle part. wash your hair at least every third day and DON'T GROW A BEARD and DONT TOUCH YOUR EYEBROWS. men with long hair is ok but you either have very thin or greasy hair so it looks off.
>>34312548Rock n roll is dead, boomer.
>>34312877>Fuck you, i'm better than you. I'm putting a curse on your family.
>>34309981Am feminine, in my opinion don't grow a beard it would cover your nice jaw. Eyebrows are fine. You could get a viking haircut to seem less gay, either shaved sides or an undercut with long hair on top, long hair suits you.
>>34309981Quentin Coldwater, is that you?
I've gone on two dates with this woman and we still haven't held hands, hugged or kissed. As a late bloomer with little experince, should I escalate and how? What if it is already too late?
Reach for her hand. If she doesnt mind kissing will be acceptable.No gril will go on 3 dates with a guy she doesnt like.
>>34309681>sex offender registry speedrun
>>34309651Make her know that you want to inspect her genitals.
>>34310599>not squeezing your main squeezeIshiggydiggy
>>34309681what the cat doin
I'm a guy who wants to start injecting this weekly for my appearance. What should I know before starting? What could go wrong?
>>34309878I think I can take raloxifene to prevent that
To be completely honest I still don't know if I want breast growth or not. I'm still thinking about it.
bump
>>34309891Chuck Palahniuk had a main character that just kept taking using more things to fix the outcomes of other things. I think you should just be yourself and only do things like this if it's not a one and done miracle with no maintenance/side-effects.
>>34309790One thing I still don't know is whether it will cause permanent infertility or not. I tried searching for answers on the internet, but I couldn't find any conclusive answer except "If you want kids assume it will make you infertile, if you don't want kids assume it doesn't work as a contraceptive."
My current situation is pic related. Any helpful advice is appreciated. Perhaps from someone who has gone to a hooker already.
start fucking dudes
>>34309087Disclaimer that I lost my virginity to a “normal” girl (what would become my first gf), but speaking as someone who’s banged a few chicks in the wild and a LOT more prostitutes, the difference is night and day. Sure some anons will brag about getting “le best service evar” and brag about how big their dicks are and how much the hooker “actually wanted to fuck them!” as if she hasn’t taken fifty bigger dicks than yours, but in my experience that is usually an exception. The way it usually goes is a passionless blowjob with a condom before they try to ride you to completion in two minutes. If you’re just desperate to fuck then it’s alright but it’s not even in the same league as lazy, “I’m really too tired but I’ll let you hit anyway” sex with a girl you’re in a relationship with. I guess if you really must know what sex is like before you die and this is really the only way, go for it. But don’t expect it to change your life or teach you anything about sex in relationships. I think the guys that say it does that for them, are a bit broken inside and can’t really emotionally bond with women anyway.
Go for it man, I think it'll help you to gain some experience. With regards to trafficking - most girls are not trafficked; they do it because they can earn $100s per hour just by opening their legs. I've had gfs and hookups over the years but I've also slept with prozziss. Like another anon said, its not like fucking a girl you're in a relationship with or even a one-night stand. It feels transactional (cos it is), there's less passion involved.
>>34309087Become a males nullified bitch.
>>34313189I have had the opposite experience, sed with average girls just doesn't compare. Mind you I love just having sex with beautiful women so that alone does it for me, but also sometimes their service is really amazing. I know you said "muh service" but I just haven't met ordinary girls who can do what a top tier prostitute can. Your mileage is going to vary greatly comparing prostitutes and normal girls depending on what you're into and how good your game is and how good of a girl you can pull (probably not good if you're like OP or me) versus the level of service you're able to pay for (good for me). I don't think your advice is very applicable to OP for that reason but I could be wrong.
