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How do I get over the fact that my girlfriend is getting hundreds of horny comments on her ig? She has 15k followers and posts mostly cosplays, sometimes normal photos of herself. It's not something sexual. But every time I look in the comments of her posts there's dozens of horny comments of men basically admitting they're jerking off to her. How do I deal with this?
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>>34577619
beta, tyrant, short man, etc. energy
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>>34577498
She's obviously very wanted and she's yours, isn't that something to be happy about? Depending on your dynamic, either talk honestly about your feelings (without getting pouty or angry), claim her and remind her she's yours iygwim (consensually obviously) or get on your knees begging her to claim you
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>>34577746
Maybe if you're a fagot it is.
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>>34579296
Yes and no. Technically you can set a boundary for someone else such as "If you cheat with another person" but saying something like "I don't like you going out with your coworker so you can't" isn't a boundary.
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>>34577498
Well u made the mistake of taking bitches seriously... If I were u I would enjoy my time with her until she inevitably left because I don't feel like I have ownership over anyone or their bodies and trying to like deal with relationships in a real way is fucking so annoying

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Anybody know what it takes to make a successful PMV? I've been trying for years to make one that people like, but I only ever manage to get like 1K views on them while other PMV creators get like 10K or 30K views on theirs.
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>>34577663
Well you clearly didn't read the thread.

The first guy was talking about OP's pmv games video, which was exclusively just twerking. There's only one "theme" there. Which is ass shaking. And yeah, it feels like a slideshow, because it's a compilation video with different songs in it. It's gonna feel like a slideshow. Which is the entire point of compilation videos.

The second guy, didn't even watch the video. He's talking about cumshots and penetratrion and blowjobs. This is just twerking.

But let's not forget the caveat
>or at least mostly together
It's one way to do things, but not the only way, and different people have different tastes in that regard.
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>>34559103
Making good progress with this. I'm about 80 to 85% done.
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OP do you also make normal music videos or just porn
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>>34582792
No, but I do look at and admire music videos. Always wild how they make visuals to match the music.

Ever since video sharing platforms became a thing, I always found it interesting that someone, anyone, could post a video and people would watch it.

I made a music video out of one of my favorite video games, about 15 years ago, and put it on youtube, but it was deleted for copyright a few years after.

Interestingly, a video I made on youtube, 15 years ago, about a different related game that I like, somehow got over 130K views. It was just me recording the menu screens and music cause I loved it so much. I only expected a couple hundred views, but not 130K views. There's just something so satisfying knowing all those people watched your video even though you were just fucking around for no good productive reason.

Back in 2017, while I was browsing around pornhub, I came across a bunch of videos they called "PMVs" and one of them was a compilation series of 4 videos using drum and bass, some dude just anonymously made and posted online. I fapped to those videos for months, and I was like, my god, I want to make videos like this too. That dude disappeared off the face of the internet and I have no idea if he made pmvs after those 4 videos, but I made it my goal that when I get the time, I would make a series of videos just like he did.

I still haven't gotten to make my own set of pmvs like that, but I'm hoping to get the chance to do that sometime this year or next year.
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>>34576650
5.0 now with 70 votes
The lowest video has a 2.6
And the highest is 7.7

How can I make a lot of money with an EE degree?
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>>34582087
You can move to Taiwan and learn how to make chips and stuff
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>>34586853
probably
>work a bunch of overtime
>create your own company and exploit other tradies
>save money by fixing your own home

it's slightly a psyop
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>>34582087
What country and what do you consider a lot of money?
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>>34586853
>go buy a van
>pay for a bit of advertising
>wait for people to call you
>schedule work on weekends until you get enough customers
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You need a PhD (sadly) to do real work.

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Am I an idiot if I listen to two of the biggest youtubers regarding medicine and the law?
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>>34587087
Omg
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>>34587091
It's true... they are...
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>>34587087
and yet they both say things that are factually wrong, but between the two, I prefer the doctor one
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>>34587203
Can you give examples? With evidence that they're wrong?
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>>34587266
Well? I'm waiting.

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>>34589768
Needs moar cowbell https://youtube.com/watch?v=Ebljl7p1yEk&si=TnPOY9IGPTzppjiy
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>>34589783
You are ai
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>>34589780
1,000 years old and flat chested
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>>34589793
I have no idea why drift phonk suddenly got big in 2021
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>>34589789
Eh, as a moid I'm much more like a chihuahua

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Got addicted to yuri when I was a teenager basically. Only read the yuri lemons (or smut for zoomers), never watched official animes, read a bit of mangas, but skipped mostly through because of how boring they are. Mostly my addiction is reinforced through yuri artwork. I see on instagram.

Anyone has got similar experience?
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>>34587779

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I am in my 20s. I have some friends, it's hard to talk sometimes. I have one friend I can sort of rely on, I have absolutely no one to talk with about emotions. I have been met with betrayal over my life non stop. I tried getting validation from the people that did not give a shit about me. At the end of the day I was the butt of the joke. People look at me as if I'm the crazy one. I cannot talk with people without getting nervous. University fucking sucks, no one is normal. I will not have a girlfriend anymore because I'm not putting myself out there nor actively looking nor do I intend to make a fool out of myself and perform just to get pussy and my mental capacity is not worth it. Friends with one female only because she's fun to drink with, talkative and I'm stuck with her, one part of her acts like she's in a relationship and rejects everybody, another is her getting jealous when she sees a hairband in my car. She can be nice in person but out with other people she will drop some shit like "you have such a stupid name" or "where are you looking at perv". Only time people genuinely hit me up is if they need something, have another female friend that drives me fucking crazy, she behaves like a child that needs to be taken care of. I am paranoid as fuck. I am angry when I get home. I have no fucking idea what do I do. Only reason I don't sudoku is because I don't want to leave my parents and because I'm too afraid to do this, believing there's more to life or that things will get better.

genuinely what fucking advice do I get for this, anyone with similar experience? anything to put my life in a better direction? I was even contemplating another gap year just to reroll the people I'd get in uni.
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>>34587560
Death to America
And butter sauce
Don't boil me
I’m still alive
Iraq Lobster
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no one is forcing you to interact with these people
you can journal about your emotions, write them here or anywhere online
people are shit and will use your vulnerability to put you down, do not rely on people for your wellbeing

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Is it worth paying to experience sex at least once in my life? Even with a condom? How bored will she be?
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>>34586380
>I've had exes and had sex with people that loved me and it was nice and all but it's at the end of the day not that much different than having sex with a good escort
Ever consider that
>I’m addicted to sex
is coloring your perspective at all?
I don’t care what anyone says, they are ALL clock watchers, even $3k/night premium GFE.
To all the anons on here that I’ve seen claiming that they’ve gotten emotionally close to escorts and “developed good relationships with them” are getting set up for being massively stolen from at some point. Women that have sex for money are just different, just like men who pay for sex are different from those who get it naturally or don’t mind not having it.
I’d go so far as to say that using prostitutes caused or at least is worsening your sex addiction.
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>>34586361
no. sex is terrible
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Don't. Your thirst for sensual pleasure will increase
>Ever fed, never satisfied. Never fed, ever satisfied.
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>>34586978
don't get me wrong, 99% of them look at the clock but that doesn't mean they don't make it fun the hour or two they're there
the ones I've seen complaining the most about the clock thing are cheap dudes who only rented them for half and hour
In half an hour I'm still doing different poses and stuff, nowhere close to cumming
also never claimed I developed feelings for them but it's the same as having a favorite waitress at a restaurant
you know she's there because its her job
you know she wouldn't be there and talking to you if you weren't paying
that doesn't mean you two can't get along and even talk a bit outside the workhours
when I was young (early 20s) I remember an escort who came to the hotel I rented and after we fucked and all offered to stay all night long
I told her I didn't have any money and she told me "I never asked for more money"
I was very tempted to accept but I lived with my parents back then and I didn't want to risk them discovering my mongering so I told her no, she stayed an hour more and we both left.
over the years from time to time there are girls who stop caring about the clock and just stay there talking and cuddling, it's very rare, and I don't like the emotional responsibility that is created from it (they talk to you about their daily problems the subsequent days, ask you about your problems, etc etc), but when it happens I obligue
just like with my favorite waitress at the cafeteria closeby.
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>>34586900
sadly I can't help you there, it's illegal in your country so you have your own pages and rituals (money over the nightstand and all of that weird shit)
it's legal in my country and if you have contacts and money you're offered even pageant winners
they're mad expensive but they're there

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>NEET for 4 years
>mom finally killed the card after a $500 gacha spree
>allowance is gone, survey sites are a joke, selling plasma means going outside and getting poked by needles, not happening
>inb4 "sell ass" – market's oversaturated and my hole is exit-only
>inb4 crime – need something low-risk, I'm too pretty for jail

looking for the real underground methods here. the stuff that ain't "ask your parents" or the usual beer money scams. I know some of you have figured out ways to pull in enough for the essentials without ever clocking in , obscure online activities , grey area reselling, maybe testing some app exploit, I don't know. that kind of hidden tech.

if you've got something, even if you keep it cryptic, just point the way. I'm not here to ruin anyone's setup, I just need a starting direction. and spare the "get a job" replies, I know where I am.
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>>34586797
Why do you want to live like this bro
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>>34586797
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>>34586797
I have a friend who draws anthropomorphic animals with oiled glutes that reflect the parental neglect of the customer who pays lots of dollars for said pictograms. What are your artistic capabilities, anon?
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>>34586797
Unironically get a fucking job you worthless shitpile or put this kind of effort into creating something someone might wanna buy or something jfc I hate you fucking shiteating retards
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If a human being is hungry, he will work

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Honestly idk if I should even post this. So I have a small YouTube channel with like a very intimate subscriber amount. But I love doing it and I love to just yap so it works. Basically I make dressmaking and sewing stuff. I'm a tranny and there's not a lot of sources for transfem specific dressmaking content. Honestly in the beginning back when I started it during covid it was perfect like, YouTube for some reason promoted my channel and people were chill and comments were really lovely but in the past 12 months or so a huuuuuge influx of troll commenter that started flooding my comments and started dislike bombing my content. Honestly at first it was like manageable but now it's not even fun anymore to make content. For some reason I had way more faith in humanity and I'm seeing it crumbling down as we speak. I disabled comments on every single one of my videos and it just sucks because I like reading comments and all the positive and constructive things people say and I love that I was able to help even just one person who was like me and wanted to dress more confidently. I'm actually this close to deleting my whole channel. I deleted some of my videos already because it was just unbearable and YouTube makes creators unavoidably obsess over likes. I don't know what to do. The channel meant a lot to me because I literally started it after I dropped out of high school because of bullying and stuff and it was a place for me to just channel all my brain power into instead of being depressed and anxious all day. Now honestly its coming full circle and the channel is causing me to become depressed and anxious. Like I used to almost never cry that often but I'm starting to cry a lot now because of the channel
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>>34582480
As a chaser, I see two sides

Being trans is a new idea the world has never experienced until ~2020. Before that it was mostly a Thailand thing.

If you're a white man, it's tragic. I want my brothers to be strong men, not to debase themselves. Others see this as a moment to bully you, rather than be gentlemen.

You should honestly expect some bullying. In a literal sense, you deserve it for considering yourself a woman.

I'm only attracted to chinese mtf because they're very androgenous. Most still don't pass.

I need to get help, and so do you.

The internet giving you validation makes things worse.
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>>34584736
>caring about the race of troons
lol
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>>34584934
>gagagoogoo
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>>34582480
You're not a woman.
You will never be a woman.
This fact will become evident to you at some point.
The longer you wait, the worse this fact is going to hurt you. You need to grow up. You need to deal with the fact that you were groomed by powerful sickos who wanted you to end up ostracized, sick, alone, and obsessed with hating yourself and blaming the world for your problems.
Stop doing this to yourself.
>But I love doing it and I love to just yap so it works.
So why are you letting "troll" comments bring you down? Yap back or ignore their flirting.
>there's not a lot of sources for transfem specific dressmaking content.
That makes sense since "transfem" is not a thing which exists outside of your dopamine depleted, jew-ravaged brain.

Delete YT, >>34584073 is correct
You will only cause yourself to spiral more.

I want you to get mad at yourself for believing this bullshit at your age and take action to fix it.
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>>34582480
Why do you care what NPCs think of you? Do you get mad at rabid dogs in the streets for trying to bite people and give them rabies? That's just who they inherently are. decenter your idea that people are going out of their way to be mean to you and Learn better coping mechanisms and get into some extra hobbies. there's always going to be some retards who give you shit for it, but it's up to you on how you respond to it. remember that these are the same retards who watch vtubers and have long sprawling debates on 4chan.

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Would I be considered a pedo if I was one of those people who subscribed to Danielle Bregoli's OnlyFans account when she created it the day she turned 18?

You know who I'm talking about? The Bhad Bhabie Cash Me Outside girl?
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>>34585236
>Her and icespice are fucking gross inside and out
That's why they're hot you idiot.
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>>34585099
>paying for porn
Kek
>Would I be considered a pedo
Only if you are rich and in charge of the taxing authority in your country
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>>34585099
You don't have to feel guilt or remorse for treating a whore like a whore.
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>>34585099
I'd say you're pretty much bordering it if you're way older than her.

You're counting down the seconds until she turns 18 and there's no difference at all between 11:59 PM when she was 17 and 12:00 AM of the next day when she's 18.

If you're 18? It's dumb you're waiting since it's not morally wrong nor illegal to have the hots for a 17 year old. 19? Same as before. 20? Okay, yeah, to specifically go for a 17 year old and waiting for her bday is a bit strange, but it's 2 years, you can make it work. Going up from there just gets worse and worse. I was 20 and I knew damn well 17 was waaaaay too young for me. I am close to 24 today and looking at Uni's 1st years already feels wrong, they're fresh out of HS assuming they didn't have any sabbaticals or anything. That's fucked up.

But hey, police won't be on your ass, right?
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>>34587389
>I'd say you're pretty much bordering it if you're way older than her.
>t. zoomerfaggot

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Is it normal to not want to date anymore at 29 years old?

I was engaged to my first gf from 16-17 years old (didnt work out, long distance), had an LTR of 1 year when I was 18-19 and another LTR of 3 years at 21-24. I then just dated casually for a few years, just going on dates and having short term relatonships.

Now at 29 I don't even want to put up with dating apps or nightlife to even invite girls over to my place despite being able to do it often before. I'm just bored of it. Is it normal? I'm just wondering if I should embrace this or if it's a comfort I'd never get out of. I think I just lost hope finding a good wife or building a family and the one night stand sex never feels worth all the effort to get it compared to escorts or porn.

There's this really hot girl in my friend group, we flirt all the time, and she seems to be open to casual sex. The problem is, she's broke as fuck, hasnt even finished her bachelors, and recently got let go from her job as a children's entertainer. And she got some visa problems to boot. I'm way more financially stable than that and I'm worried I'll end up being her wallet.

I don't really want to have to bail her out of all of that, but I do want to smash, is it worth the risk?
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>>34586650
>one of them is her ex
how did this guy handle the breakup
if he's still in the friend group you could try to pull something similar off
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>>34586653
He seems chill with it, they didn't have a huge fight, just got bored of each other. They had an open relationship kinda thing to begin with, but I don't know the details.
She's also 10 years younger than me, and there are a lot of red flags honestly besides her being broke. Classic situation, my mind is telling me no, but my dick is telling me yeah.
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>>34586586
Walk away if you don't want to be a wallet.
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>>34586586
Yes, you will 100% be her wallet and her surrogate daddy and she will come to resent you for it and cheat on you and tell everyone in your
>f r i e n d g r o u p
that you have a tiny dick and so did your father.
>I do want to smash, is it worth the risk?
No. Fuck someone who doesn't know all your male friends.
>>34586627
She's going to do that anyway no matter what if you fuck her. Don't shit where you eat, anon.
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>>34586586
Idk, I think it's fine. Just keep gifts at a minimum.

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gf doesn't want to kiss after I gave her head
she says she will if I wash my mouth, but by the time I return from the bathroom the moment is gone
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>>34583521
Kiss her regardless, make her learn to love her taste. You'll have to deal with her kissing you with a mouthfull of cum tho
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>>34583866
>You'll have to deal with her kissing you with a mouthfull of cum tho
we did that a few times. that's why it hurts so much that she won't reciprocate
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>>34583521
Dump her. My ex who fucked like three other dudes while she was with me acted like this too. Also threw multiple shitfits because I just jacked it to porn sometimes instead of begging to brush my teeth so I could kiss her fat slutty ashtray mouth.
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>>34583521
Probably because she knows she tastes gross. Dont give her head anymore. Stop eating her out. Fart on her face, she's nasty.

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I mean I can blame myself but I was born into this
And I am religious I know there is a God
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>>34587135
Cause he is God!! Who else is responsible for everything

Why would I blame someone who is like me and has same power over circumstances
Would you blame God if you were born with no hand nor legs?
I understand that maybe you would choose to acknowledge that god knows best
But God is still responsible for you being born like this
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>>34587240
>Cause he is God!! Who else is responsible for everything

You and your shitty parents.
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>>34587260
You blame your mommy because you turned out to be miserable?
You are both retards, you and your mom.
She did her best. If you are any better fix your own problems instead of blaming another human
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>>34587287
And yet you're the one whining nonstop. Thanks for the free comedy. LOL.
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>34587305
>Op asks a question
>A religious fanatic never answers and gets insecure


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