anyone have experience with hiring camgirls? i have never given money to someone over the internet. there is this one girl i am obsessed with. if i had a mansion i would fly her out to be my bride. but i dont really know how it works. they are on chaturbate, so if i bought tokens and tip them and then built a repor with them, would that be the avenue? they usually say like 500 tokens to add me on kik which is a messaging app ive never used. but i dont like the idea of a financial trail like have a chaturbate token purchase on my credit card
Drop name or f off
>>34068823laylagreyxx_
>>34068834>Girl
>>34068603>>34045900>Hoes belong to the community - pimpin ken, Pimpology
Where are you supposed to meet women if not through school/work or some arrangement from a third person?>he's a guy on the look out for a gfew what a creep lol 1M+ likes
>>34067037You wont find a woman who will find the mindset of 'I'm in school so I can't do anything else" attractive. That's like actual repellent because it shows you're either too stupid or incapable of balancing a normal schedule.How are you going to have a fulltime job and a girlfriend dumbass
>>34067345OK so then IG I'm never going to have a girlfriend. You seriously have no solution?
>>34067378Wtf do you mean. The solution is learn to balance a schedule like every other adult. What is your plan? graduate highschool and then? Will you just uber eats every meal and have a maid to wipe your ass?
>>34064586Nobody will tell us how they just call us a pedophile while they swoop in for that legal teen gf.
Modern life of jealousy is the most disheartening thing ever. There are literally so many available women. This toxic culture makes them mentally ill and unapproachable. Do you know how many miserable people that will literally sit there and ruin you reputation for an itchy foot.Now you have to deal with the lgbt calling people a pedophile because they can’t same sex them. It’s just so repugnant. Getting older will not make someone settle for what they did not want when they were younger, it only increases their hatred.
Yeah I'm an autistic adult and I have interest in model trains. It's price is unjustifiable and this isn't going to fix any of my real life problems or have utility beyond making me temporarily feel good. A dcc ready ho scale model without the bells and whistles can cost hundreds of dollars, the smallest 0-4-0 tank engines go for over $100 now and the price isn't going to come down anytime soon. I've been selling off my books and models for this reason as continuing this intense hobby doesn't make sense. I still have that urge because of my autism, it can make it difficult to move on and I wished this was easy.
>>34065936>this intense hobby doesn't make senseit doesn't. If you are going to be a materialistic sperg, at least pick a more worthwhile hobby. Bodybuilding/fitness, automotive enthusiasm and sales, firearms, business ventures/entrepreneurship, electronics engineering, software programming, robotics. These have been real avenues for autists- but you fell for the 1970s Boomer retard shit of toy trains that no one really gives a fuck about outside of the 1970s.>this isn't going to fix any of my real life problemsit wont. I know some that are mega autists too-but atleast have picked obsessions that would make lucrative business. Some of them do Japanese racing car tuning/drifting parts and manufacturing. They took that finicky and obsessive drive about models and construction of- to professional car racing machines. Then they took their products to worldwide production and distribution. They get to feed their autist hobby needs but also feed themselves.
>>34066288Avoid anything that would lead your sequence of thought towards model trains. Reenginer your environment so that the idea never even occurs to you. Remove all relevant pictures, move furniture to break relevant habits.Get a new obsession, one that can attract hyper focus but is better for you. It's like putting a big black hole next to a little black hole. Your old obsession will still exist, but the new obsession interferes with it, attracting your thoughts towards to it with more pull than the old one.Whenever you notice your thoughts are about to slip towards the old obsession, divert it to something else, but this only works if you notice right on the precipice before hyper focus really kicks off.It helps if there's YouTube videos or some online community surrounding your new obsession that you can identify with. If you feel like you are "one of them" that puts pressure on you subconsciously to think and behave as they do.Once you kick an obsession you have to keep avoiding it forever. An image, a familiar sound, a comment about it online, will reactivate it. It will then start appearing in your idle imagination again, generating narratives and images, which trigger hyper focus again. Then it will start feeling super important again. It can take only one day of exposure for this to happen.> t. Asperger's, kicked obsession with card games, card magic and vidya
Yeah, no. Forget about the CAD stuff, I can't do that either.
>>34067080That actually sounds interesting. Which celebrity has this on call? Is it james may?
>>34065936No. Be a train man.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1NNPxVR8nYs
I'm 31 years old, haven't been employed in 8 years. I'm ugly, live with my parents, have no college diploma and no way to excel in life. I have severe social anxiety and am a very nervous person. I'm very wary of people. But I'm thinking of my options and realize I don't have anything left. So should I bite the bullet and join the coast guard, or try something different?
>>34066929if you're talking to me it'd be 8 weeks of basic training and then into a college course on cyber security and then desk job.
>>34066999Mhm. Even as a POG, get back to me and tell me everything I said is untrue.
>>34067112well I am in quite good shape and not looking for or interested in companionship at all. but mid-late thirties now. I have about 100k cad but that's all my savings and grandparent inheritance and I have no income so effectively no money. The other issue with the cyber security route is the main training place is across the country so I'd lose my cheap as fuck family leeching life here and that seems to be the main place of employment for that career path too.
so to expound on that thought that while it does pay decently I wouldn't be able to do the kind of savings catchup I could do if I could find a decent job that doesn't make me move. if I could get a decent job here I'd be able to save basically 95% of it if I wanted to which would go a long way to make up for not working for a decade LMAO. but also kinda wanna just die.
Time to die
I'm 26, and I have zero friends. After I graduated high school, I isolated myself for a number of years until I got my first few jobs during the pandemic. I rarely receive any texts, and if I do it's either from my parents or manager. My first few times putting myself out there socially went terribly and did a number on my self esteem overall, but it was through those experiences I learned more about myself and general social awareness. I'm still growing and I can say I have more confidence now than I did a couple years ago. However, even still, I've had a lot of trouble making connections and friendships with people. At work, I tend to be on good terms with others at first, but it never seems to last and falls apart.I had one coworker who reached out to me, and we were texting for about a month. We bonded on anxiety and her having adhd. Long story short, her boyfriend didn't want her messaging me, and then she said to another coworker that she thought I was lonely and didn't have friends. I just avoided her from then on. It seems like some of my other coworkers end up not respecting or liking me as much either. I noticed recently that one person I worked with for almost 3 years removed me off their socials.So, I don't know. I hope I'm not alone into my 30s, but I'm trying to think of other ways I can go out meeting people.
>>34068957tl;dr>How to cope with having no friendsYou can’t.
>>34068961Joever.
>>34068957Depends on what you really want out of life to me all the friends I ever had bitched about one another and I chose to cut them out and I was a lot happier being alone than with those people. I will give an example as to how they were like one friend wouldn't talk to another because he never said hello to him when they met. Sometimes friends are more trouble than they are worth all they want are yes men not real friendships.
>34>NEET for basically entire life>no high school or college education>dropped out of school in 9th grade>never worked>have left house maybe 6times in past 15 years>0 social skills>never had a face to face interaction with someone my own age throughout my teens and 20s>ginger>never had a job>can't drive>never had friends>parents are broke so I won't inherit anything>no skills>tinnitusComment too long. Click here to view the full text.
Your glory days are over fatso
>>34059927>34 >NEETI stopped reading.
This is fake but I’m sure they’re some people like this in real life but it would be wrong to make fun of them since they might be on the spectrum
>>34062856R u bi
>>34059927I just need to lock in and no shit literally insane people ruin everything as I'm even trying to do that.All you have to do is what you think you need to do. If you are Nick Reiner release your dad's precious goo. If you are high strung you do better than you. If you're me you'll work hard but maybe lose time trying to even communicate. If you're totally retarded you'll end up homeless and not even care. You're close to knowing that you gotta do something because it's about to shit in your face. Most people take path of least resistance. Take advantage of this by doing a little more. Also be a dick don't work too hard
If I see another little virgin sob his 15 year old heart out how nobody wants his wheen...I am breaking out the shotgun.
>>34068859you wont do shit
do a flip
>>34068859I feel attacked
>>34068859How about I blow your brains out. This is the United States of America not buttfucking queer England land Go fuck yourself tranny mohammad lover
I have a friend that concerns me a bit. I fear that over the next few years he might kill himself.Is there anything I can do to prevent that
>>34068053damn bro good advice
Duck his dick if you are so sad about him...either ways you will shock him out of desperation.
>>34066301Be there for him. Be present and encourage him to seek help. If you ever have any genuine, actionable belief that he's going to hurt himself or someone else you call in a welfare check on him. That's worst case scenario but its better than him dying.
If you really can't help you really can't help either cuz he's dumb ur dumb or he's too ridiculously poor or you're not rich enough maybe if you talked to him and he said well you've never helped nobody ever has all my problems are just being stuck in this bs but if he actually asked for help like that, well, of course you would take slight so, he probably could use some help and isn't begging because well maybe you should actually help I mean you are here asking us for help in helping, sometimes it seems people have the right idea, they might even tell the person hey you should move, well maybe they want to they just need the littlest bit of help eh
>>34066301No, what happens to your friend is entirely up to him
My mom died and her debt for my preexisting condition it was the dumbest thing ever but it literally went straight to collections and ruined my credit before I had any cards. No shit my life is straight shit even if I'm positive just because things really do suck the people in my same house are nuts and make so much fucking noise. My mom went insane just from being in debt basically. The whole house fucking slams every five seconds. Idk what to do but I'm sick of getting flat out threatened n shit by people this is fucking ridiculous. Nobody should have to deal with this and I'm actually pretty awesome but holy shit is everyone just psycho. The people are legit killers and pedos n shit and my best friends are basically the Reiner's. Too self involved so I'm just in the middle of nowhere getting fucked screwed and ruined by methheads. For 15 years yeah shit has been bad you try holding a shit job for more than two years
>>34068907is the pic related?
>>34068922I wish. I saw the fuckin lady downstairs by her door I think looking at me while I'm sitting in my car. So fucking sick of not having a basic place and basic job for long enough to make a change in any way. I gotta leave sometimes just because freaks are looking for me, like I didn't do shit but I go sleep in my car somewhere for a day bc crazy drama. Texted my landlord probably just gonna get stabbed shit I forgot when I put my pizza in
I'm 30 and obese. I decided I'm going to try and do something about it but on my own terms. Today is one month give or take a few days and I've lost between 7 and 9 kg, not sure because I didn't take my starting weight accurately. I don't exercise and I don't eat healthy. I just feel like I was able to find the space in my mind to realize that I was eating way too much volume-wise and to bring it down to a reasonable level that still makes me feel happy mentally and satisfied physically. So far I've been eating at a 1400-1500 kcal deficit daily, I've stopped snacking and I've replaced sugary soda with diet soda and some water. Yeah, I know - it's going to slow down, I'm not getting all the nutrients I need from processed food, aspartame causes cancer, whatever. I just don't have the mental capacity to be able to eat healthy or exercise but I really want to lose weight. I probably have some kind of disorder when it comes to food. Doing what I've dobe so far took a lot of effort too, but it doesn't feel like effort now, which is why I'm slightly optimistic. I'm just wondering if you think I should keep going. It feels good to see some results from something I'm actually able to get myself to do.
>>34066461Thanks yeah I picked up all of those actually. Cool to see that my own research led me to the same things you suggested but I guess those are the basics anyway. Started with the fiber already and actually enjoying it, helps me drink more water as well>>34066797>>34066337Thanks guys. Really appreciate the support and reassurance.
>>34062806>Caloric deficit is literally all there is to do when it comes to losing weight.That is factually untrue.The KINDS of calories have a great deal of meaning.CICO is about as correct as BMI, which is to say, it isn't.CICO really only works if you are eating the SAD diet. While I'm not advocating Keto or paleo, per se, I had a BG scare recently that indicates a fatty liver and insulin resistance.(I'm overweight but NOT obese.)So worried about the possibilities of type 2 'Beetus, I decided to take a hard stand and throw myself onto ketogenesis by going OMAD(one meal a day,) with >3 carbs in total.I've been eating ~3500-4000 calories a day for the last 12 days and have already lost 14 pounds.It's NOT a pleasant diet and I don't intend to stay on it forever, but going into ketosis is one of the only ways you can begin unlocking all the stored fat in your liver, which is the root of the problem.>>34062784Yes, Anon, keep going. I'd seriously drop the "Diet drinks" and Aspartame isn't nearly as bad as sucralose. That stuff WILL destroy your guts.You're going to have to become a label reader from now on, anon.Drink clean water, try brewing up some un-sugared fruit teas like Hibiscus or orange spice teas, and start drinking just sparkling water.*Remember: a true teaspoon of real sugar only has 15 calories. It isn't evil, but most of the bottled syrup Americans drink has around 3-600 calories of just HFCS as the calories.Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>34062784If you look like that can you do me a solid? Stop losing weight and become a gay power bottom instead. I need that riding me.
(cont'd)...leftover rice, cottage cheese, sunflower seeds, nuts and/or whatever other things you might like in a salad.Best salad dressings don't have a lot of sugar, but apple cider vinegar and olive oil are a good go to, and if you NEED to have ranch, make it yourself. The store brand packet mixes are just like the HVR ones and it's literally 1 cup mayo, 1 cup milk (whole please, fuck that 2% garbage,) Whisk and chill for a half hour.The thing about these salads is you can eat until satiety and not blow past your daily calories. You won't feel deprived either.Buy popcorn and a decent popcorn popper too. Don't bother with microwave popcorn, it's a waste of money and is super shitty for you.(the more you toxin load, the harder it will be to shed weight.) The fiber is very filling and HEY! didja know that the dollar store now sells MSG? Most Krogers have it too for ~$3. TFW you realize that the 68's reports on MSG were just a hitpiece put out by Jap Haters?No shit, the chinks just loved it...https://www.sciencehistory.org/stories/magazine/the-rotten-science-behind-the-msg-scare/Eventually,(now is actually pretty good due to cold and extra passive calorie burning,) you'll need to start going for walks at least an hour long. You can do this at night if you don't want to see anyone.Hope that helps, anon. You can do it. You have the Intarrweebs, obviously, so you can look up all kinds of simple recipes for low cal foods and condiments that will help you not feel deprived.
>>34068488I fucking lost so hard >>34062784I TOOK A SECOND LOOK AND I WAS LOT DAYUM BOY.. AND THEN THE FILENAME "FATASS.JPG" SHOWED UPI FUCKING LOST EVERYTHING XDDDD
Is it even worth trying to pursue relationships with women when you're ugly? It feels like you're just setting yourself up for failure.
I guess I just feel like I can never be the kind of guy that attracts women
>>34063348Get a torrent opener and get hot seat at home from pimp my mind and a mystery method pdf then just do the practices
>>34065018have you ever thought about settling down with an ugly girl that matches your own looks? just a thought, but i see ugly people together all the time, bc guess what she cant get chad and you cant get stacy
>>34068678Maybe I'm shallow, but I just don't understand the point of that. Its like people are so desperate to be with anyone because they're so afraid of being alone, that they get with someone they have no attraction to or connection with.I can't imagine being with a girl who I'm not attracted to. That feels like an insult to her
Ohhh braatherrrr you just have to IMPROOOOVE. Did you IMPROOOOVE today ?
Do you have an ideal life that you dreamed of? I had one. I discovered porn when I was 7, and tranny porn when I was 12. I've always wanted to be a male pornstar basically. Getting to fuck as many women and trannies as I wanted seemed like the perfect life. But God didn't give me the penis for porno films. Now everything I do with my life seems like a cope to make up for that failure. I watch other guys live my dreams, and I'm not sure what to do with myself.
>>34068785So be a female pornstar
TLDR: Can antidepressants offset the mental effects of physical illness?I have gastroparesis which leaves me in a lot of pain, as well as malnourished and sleepless. This has me despaired, abulic and thoroughly disconnected from life.I’ve been to my doctor on numerous occasions, and they keep putting me back on Amitriptyline (which I was on for a couple months at a low dose, to minimal benefit.) I quit it a couple months ago for some reason. I then spent the following months teaching myself cbt and mindfulness, desperately trying to get my life back. It’s certainly working, but I feel to be plateauing. It does little for my lack of pleasure and enthusiasm, which is my main concern.My question is whether I should actually restart. Considering that the lack of nutrition, exercise and sleep from my condition is undoubtedly causing my symptoms, would antidepressants even help?
If you do take them, just prepare by making sure everyone in your life is aware and BEGGING them to help you not go out of character. I've seen people get given SNRIs for shit like fibro without considering their risk factors and suddenly they're really acting out of character especially during the titration but once its active.And the issue is you wont be able to tell yourself that you're being a menace or destroying your life at the time. So making sure you have actual good people will matter. Otherwise it can help, but if anything ask about taking it temporarily. Just to help you feel well enough to implement your lifestyle changes, then you could come off it and the implemented changes would help buffer
>>34064860>cheaperAlcoholism is expensive, even if you do it at home. Generic Prozac is about $4 a month.
>>34063758Try breakthrough pain by Shinzen young
>>34063758>It does little for my lack of pleasure and enthusiasm, which is my main concern.smoke/vape/eat weed, also try alternative medicine like acupuncture, more meds will fuck you up further>t. had a nasty gut infection that lasted months, vaping weed helped tremendously with the dread
can someone explain why employers are like this
>>34062614bump
>>34045181I won't read wondering threads about no-one in particular. Ask for advice next time.
>>34066824k let me just pay for groceries and my rent with feelings im sure that will go over well
>>34056769Hey, cool it with the antisemitism!
>>34045181Emotional salary? What the hell kind of gay Gen Z nonsense is that?
found out my wife has been cheating on me, living a double life, drug dealing and flirting with countless men/customers. i know this is 4chan and ill get ripped to shreds but what do i do. i really dont know what to do.
>>34066608I mean, the answer you need is already in your picrel. Give your life to Christ and forgive her first and fore-most. Lord knows that you've sinned many times against Him, so shall you not forgive her for her transgressions against you? Read Matthew 18:21-35, and Matthew 6:14-15. Go from there and see where the Lord leads you on what to do.
Do the same shit. She won't have the right to complain
>drug dealinggather proof and evidences.get a good lawyer and explain situationforge plan with lawyerdestroy her.ez
>>34066632>Matthew 19:9: "I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another woman commits adultery.”Read the Bible before saying retarded shit
>>34066608get a amazing divorce lawyer and dump her ass, then read dating skills books and get ripped and wear better fashion and post pics of you dating a younger hotter woman and treating her to fancy stuff you never got your wife to make her jealous
