Stemfag that went to a hiring event today at a major defence company. There were 13 candidates, 10 whit*ids, 2 chinks, and me (nigger). My grades are subpar and I have decent work experience but somehow managed to get a same day offer. I don't know why they were so interested in me besides needing a somewhat competent nig. I mean, Timmy's money belongs to me so it doesn't matter either way
>>34974706Want to fuck my wife?
I guess diversity quotas
good bait lol I kek'd
>>34974706I speak as a hiring person. One of the mantras of our HR department is "We hire the person, not the transcript." Something abiout YOU - the person there in front of them - was impressive enough to rank you above the less impressive people with better grades.
>>34974706>Timmy's money belongs to me so it doesn't matter either wayWhat?
Just a few seconds of sleep paralysis feels like hell. Not being able to move your body, sometimes I could only twitch my head for a while before I could move again. Have been getting more and more lately. It stops me from falling asleep when I'm right about to because I'm scared that I'd experience if I do
>>34976082Apparently lucid dreaming is similar to sleep paralysis, so doing lucid dream can help reduce the incidence of paralysis
Have been taking Magnesium and fish oil idk if it's related
How do I tell a girl that she is being off-putting?
With your mouth
>>34976011"You're being off-putting."
How do you not be intimidated by low IQ subhumans that have attitude and nothing to lose and even muscles?You know the kind I'm talking about? The narcissistic kind that "don't give a fuck" and only understand violence and aggressive behavior?
>>34970694lol shut up
>>34965253YES i fucking get you. they are like gorillas. being intimidated is the correct response, one could even say, high IQ response.the high IQ solution is to never go near them, build a wall around your place and keep them out. maybe carry pepper spray or a gun if legal where you are.
>>34970694this is actually good though, learn to fight and defend yourself a bit, smarts can be strength.
>>34975852Can you really learn how to fight in the real world from some karate teacher from california who watched a few bruce lee movies and thought it would be a good idea to open up a shop?
>>34965253Nothing is stopping you from acquiring your own muscles and learning how to fight. Low IQ's cannot match a high IQ in their weight class in a 1v1. They get picked apart everytime.
How do you deal with aggressive combative people without looking like a weak bitch? You know the kind that just got out of prison and have this alpha beat the shit out of you attitude every time they talk?
De escalate and just walk away. God fucking help you if they're a coworker, but they probably won't be for long.
>>34974837>if they're a coworkergod I fucking hope not
>>34974829You try your best to avoid interacting with them. You aren't in prison, so you don't have to prove anything
>>34974829Structure your life so you are not in the company of such people. That is actually quite easy to do
>>34975964I failed college though :(
Hi, I'm 26M. I have never had a job and I have a useless degree in which I spent quite a bit of time and money in.I've had a couple of relationships but pretty much all of them were a fiasco, I didn't even manage to have sex in any of them, my only sexual experiences have been with sex workers.I live in a third world shithole that gets worse by the day, the future looks grim.Health issues have started to creep up and it feels harder and harder to meet new people and stay presentable.What's your prognosis? Should I just off myself by 27?
Well. You're damned if you do and damned if you don't. I say give it your best shot and if you fail, well at least you tried.
>>34973628What kinda health issues?What continent are you on?
>>349745768th legion won
>>34973628There is no such thing as a useless degree. 90% of all "white collar" jobs don't care what your degree is in. The fact that you graduated tells them you have some focus and ambition, but WHAT you studied doesn't matter. You need no specific major or degree subject to work in sales, management, marketing, advertising, HR, etc etc etc
>>34973628just work in government bro
so i left my groomer (we weren't dating that may be important) yay right? NO THIS CRAZY GAL HAS THREATENED ME AND MY FAMILY AND KNOWS WHERE I LIVE but i can prob beat her but its against my beliefs so i need ideas on what to say, she used her trauma to groom me if that's important so what should i NICELY say to try and get her to leave us alone? i can get rude if it gets worse tho
>>34975537You say please leave me alone. However, as she has ALREADY THREATENED YOU AND YOUR FAMILY, you call the cops and report it
>>34975537I agree with the other anon: if she's threatening you and your family then the FIRST thing you need to do is get the police involved. Threats should always be taken seriously.
>>34975537Instead, I welcome her in because it would be nice to have a friend who actually cares about me and wont just leave me
>>34975537You put a taser choker around her neck to zap her when she misbehaves again
How do I get better at dealing with door-to-door sales people? Every time I have to talk to one, it fucking ruins my day. I get stressed out and anxious and feel like a jerk if I try to be "tough" . I used to have a No Solicitors sign, but they would usually ignore it anyway. I get a lot of dudes coming by that will neg me and say my house looks like shit for one reason or another to sell window replacements or whatever, and it makes me feel bad. The nice ones I talk way too long and I get suckered into buying stupidly overpriced service that I end up regretting. I like my house and normal people and friends/family say they like it.Pic somewhat related. We found out a neighbor had rats and are now trying to shop around for a decent exterminator because we apparently have or had some up in our attic too. First guy that came by tried to sell us this package that was $20K but I called around and thankfully my family member who does realty said that was fucking ludicrous scam price and to bail on it.Oh, and our brand new A/C went out and I have to have a guy out for that too. Fun stuff, all at once.
>>34974004If you're not planning to buy whatever they're selling, you are wasting THEIR time by letting them keep talking. So you don't need to feel guilty for interrupting them. Hold up one hand, palm forwards, and say firmly "Let me just stop you right there. I'm definitely not interested in buying, and I would be wasting your time by listening to you any longer." Then step back and close the door.
>>34974004The problem is you live in a shithole where there's sales people. I never have those. Just save up money and move away.
>>34974057The salespeople understand, anon. They get ignored 90% of the time, it comes with the territory. Personally, I ask if they have a warrant and then tell them to please leave
>>34974004"No" and close the door
>>34974004get a "no soliciting" sign and put it outside your door.Then you won't have people bugging you.
I can't understand Americans. The other day at a show I saw a kid being bullied in high school because he was Asian? Or being bullied for wearing a hijab. I can't understand that concept. Here in Brazil, I studied in a classroom where literally no one looked alike in any aspect; a large amount of Black, Indigenous, Portuguese, Asian, and other nationalities ran through everyone's veins. You suffered bullying for other things, of course, like being too shy or if you did something stupid, but generally, your attitude was the main target. Here, you can walk down the street wearing whatever you want—pants, shorts, a burqa, a durag, literally anything—and generally, you might be judged, but generally, no idiot will bother you. There's a lot of talk about Brazil being the country that kills the most transgender people in the world, but let me tell you something: Brazil IS the country with the largest number of transgender people in the world. In other places, that's not even a thing, because people are totally controlled by the norm. I can have whatever ideology I want, as well as religion, morals, etc. Here, there's no such thing as everyone being the same in the way they think or do things, but in the United States, there are people who simply can't do anything outside the "norm" without being ostracized by their community. Do you have any idea how many movies I've seen where a person is judged for doing things that are completely normal here in Brazil? And you still say it's the land of freedom? You don't know what freedom is.
>>34975676And you need advice with?
>>34975676There are individual bullies and assholes everywhere. At least in the US most of the assholery is not officially state-sponsored
I heard most Brazilians were trannies
>>34975676Hey OP I'm sorry to hear that you are Brazilian, I hope they find a cure for it. As for why the call the USA the land of the free, is because once it had more liberty then rest of the world.
Why should I, or any male, attempt to pursue women knowing the cards being played. Why the fuck should I play a game rigged against me? Why is the advice people give to self improve and play a rat race when the goal at hand is supposed to be love? Why would I want women as a attractive man knowing that the only thing they like about me is that I’m attractive and wouldn’t have talked to me otherwise? Imagine being so brainwashed that you would boost the ego of females and give them gifts when women as a whole hate your people or don’t want you for your actual self? There is nothing more humiliating than being a straight man and it’s comical that this is paraded around as masculinity. Why the fuck should I follow my so called biological need? That is drug addict speak. I think deep down most people know the cost is never worth the effort. Name one bigger humiliation than being a straight man.>inb4 you do youI know i just wanted to talk about this in this particular board. I guess my bigger issue is that I feel trapped in a society where every living being on earth is brainwashed and drug addicted. How do you even begin to cope with that?
Fuck man nobody cares
>>34975287You don't have to. Dating and sex is just the most popular drug addiction. That's why some people have multiple partners, to avoid ever experiencing withdrawal. But at the end of the day it's like going on heroin because you think it will make you happy.
>Why should IYou have your reasons >or any maleYou don't speak for anyone else
>>34975287bullshit in bullshit outyou spend time online in a world (online world) constructed in this way - engagement = value.People will post engagement bait. Which is often outrage. Which means it will be worst cut of humanity, or simply fake blatantly fake content made to make your blood boil and hate opposite sex. Guess what - normal women exist who just want a normal dude. They aint perfect but they are a net positive and you might be too if you are mature enough.Mature people can easily form healthy relationships. its easy. EASY. EASIEST THING.Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>34975287You don't win the prize if you don't enter the contest
How common was it for classmates/friends/peers around you to claim they had special powers growing up. I encountered it a lot. A lot of them claimed to be psychics or manifestors. Manifestors a good 15 years before it was a trend. How? Why? What do you think of the tiktok trend of gen z and a getting into paranormal things and why do you believe this is happening?
>>34975231Idk, I think it's all bullshit to be honest. I've come across Youtubes where people claim to know spiritual things, but stuff came out about those people where they lied to their audience, and continue to uphold that lie to this day. If they were so spiritual, why don't they ever admit the truth? Probably because they're lying about their spirituality too.I've come across others Youtube where people claim you can change your entire life by "changing your vibration," which sounds really cool, but the contents of my mind never had any impact on the outside world whatsoever. An easy example is when I was in love with a woman, but she was completely repulsed. Why wouldn't my high vibrations psychically transfer over to her? Because they have no effect.I believe we live in a GTA game, and the rules of that game are such that the material reality is independent of the thought reality. People can perceive your energy, sure, but that is caused by the mammalian limbic system and not some kind of mysterious force.
>>34975231Kids have all kinds of crazy ideas. The world is very complex, they're trying to figure it out, and get things wrong. When I was about six I remember believing for a while that I could influence dice to give myself an advantage in board games. God knows how I came to believe that.
>>34975816I can guess coin flips in yugioh duel links correctly about 80% of the timefairy box is overpowered in my handsI don't think it's supernatural as it only works for duel links, but I do think that I've learned to vibe with the game's RNG and am subconsciously manipulating the RNG in my favor through sheer intuition
>>34975231Many of my childhood friends had the special power of being able to grow up to become losers.
I claimed to have pyrokinesis when I was like 10, it's called play pretend, sorry for expecting my playmate isn't autistic and gets that it's a bit
I saw an attractive young black woman the other day in the mall and she had huge breasts and it put into perspective how unattractive I amThe women I'm actually into have plenty of options and I'm on the uglier side unfortunately How can I make peace with this reality?
>>34969689It's not for everybody but I got a lot of this out of my system by seeing escorts. I have fucked literal supermodels, it was great.Of course it depends on if you really value connections or you just want to have sex with beautiful women. What I tell people is that if you think you'd be bothered by seeing escorts don't do it, but if you think you'd like it do it. Don't let people talk you either into or out of it.Me, I wish I started sooner, but I let people convince me it would feel hollow when I know I don't work like that.
>>34974523oh yeah forgot to say: hitting 150g protein per day (most days 160-170) and ofc tracking it made 80% of the difference, as I was working out consistently 4x a week before as well. I realize the reason I was skinnyfat before was because I was starving my muscles with low protein/high fat and carb diet. Instead, I eat high protein/high carb/low fat. Feels like I'm going through a second puberty at 32. Literally growing more muscle AND chest hair.Anyone struggling with skinnyfatness needs to remember this:>starve your fat>feed your muscles
>>34969996>>34974485It stops once you realize you don't need to go back to correct your errors and regrets. It stops when you don't go toward the light
>>34974492Why not?
>>34969689some of the ugliest guys i know have gotten girls with massive tits. confidence, charisma and frame trump everything else. especially frame. learn from charisma on command and hoe_math, i know i keep shilling them but i'm not writing everything here when they do it better. other dating coaches can be good but they lead you on- exactly how they do with women too. you need to pick out the good info. basically just have a chad attitude and keep frame. looks barely matter, just shower and shave.
How do I accept that I wasted my life? I'm 33, was a neet up until recently. I got a into a career field that will have me making middle class income, even got a GF, but all I can think about is how I wasted the prime years of my life rotting. I have no good memories of my adult life, it's like it never even happened.
>>34969827trump isnt a neolib
>>34971068Neocons are neolib adjacent. They're just subservient to jews more explicitly.
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Dealing with the same shit OP around the same, except I don't have a career or anything yet either and probably never will
>>34968030>I got a into a career field that will have me making middle class income, even got a GF,you fucking retard kill yourself. you wasted your life and came out on top? stop complaining.
Hypothetically, would there exist a reliable, fast and affordable VPN out there that's ideal for torrenting and downloading high quality copyrighted material? I don't wish to get noticed from my ISP and need some good recommendations.
>>34975597It depends what you want to do with it. I use SurfShark for torrenting: it works fine, download speeds are as fast as any I've tried, and if you pay for two years upfront, the cost per month is low. If you want to use it to access Netflix material in other countries, then it's not the best choice. And its upload speeds, while certainly not bad, aren't as good as download speeds.It's possible that if you have a very fast line it might limit you more, I don't know. My broadband speed without a VPN is about 2.4Gb/s both ways. With SurfShark on, that drops to about 1.8 downstream, or 0.8 upstream. Whoever you go with, I recommend going with one that can use Wireguard as a protocol. It's a lot faster than OpenVPN.
i dont watch porn but i have a scat fetish and it causes me a lot of shame and self hatred. i wouldnt eat poop but ive had it on my body and jerk off to the thought all the time. what do?it makes me not trust any of my own thoughts or ideas, i feel like theyre impure and tainted because theyre coming from the same brain that has a scat fetish
>>34973520Not judging you but I don't think that's normal, you were a kid so you didn't know the weight of your actions and you were more of a slave to your impulses, sure but I wouldn't say it's particularly normal, I would encourage you to focus on a more specialized therapistMaybe the one you saw didn't know how to give you a proper answer and said it was normal in order to avoid addmiting they didn't know how to tackle that issue
>>34973637i think a freudian perspective might be good for this, theres an old school psychoanalysis guy in my city but he’s really expensive. could be good tho. my previous therapist used to work in a prison reforming pedophiles so i think i was quite tame to him
>>34973520>>34973637Don't listen to this retard, that stuff is perfectly normal and it's part of growing up. It's a little bit like kids fighting or breaking rules. It's not something to be encouraged, but it's part of body discovery and boundary testing.To address your actual question, do you absolutely need the scat/raunch stuff to satisfy you every time or is it more of an occasional thing? The goal would probably be to compartmentalize your fetish away from the other parts of your thoughts. And this would start with channeling your energy towards a skill where you're not feeling like you deserve the humiliation.
>>34973301>>34973520Genetic inferiority UntermenschHylic
>>34973870It’s not that normal, anon. It doesn’t always imply an aberration on the part of the child, but early sexual expression is almost always a symptom of something wrong in the household. For example early/excessive masturbation usually belies a stressful environment in some way, be it parents fighting or yes, sexual abuse
