Could I be gifted?I have always had trouble accepting my level of intelligence, I am extremely sensitive, and I have always felt emotionally isolated from other people. I am also curious in various areas and although I have ADHD it prevents me from extracting all the underlying lessons from each small investigation I can retain a lot of information in the long term. Now, the problem that can be seen in pic related is that inequality caused by an injury a year ago in the right hemisphere and made me get that 101. How much potential do you think I have? sorry if I seem somewhat abnormal or retarded when expressing myself
>>32339387Yeah, bragging about having paranoid schizphrenia is a real cool thing to do. Which again, is why I they were testing me in the first place.>what a fucking loser lmaoThis is how a woman types. I'm pretty sure it's the part where I said my GF broke up with me because of jealousy that triggered you. You can barely put together a sentence and you question the intelligence of others and call them losers. You sound like an absolute midwit with an inferiority complex.
>>32339395>now a senior in university >a few years left from a degree.How can you be a senior and still a few years from a degree? if you're trying to be a doctor, you would get your degree and then get your MD, which is more than a few years. Also thinking because you're going to have a degree will give you a career then you are extremely naive. At a sub 86 IQ, that would make sense.
>>32339387This is one butthurt blue haired double digit IQ landwhale.
>>32338764tard award
>>32338698You could be gifted with a large potassium chloride injection.
how do i come to terms with realizing i will 100% never experience romantic love in this life? it hurts lol.
>>32338609its not actually possible for me bro just take my word for it
please help me
I love you anon
>>32338556I won't read yet another sobbing incel subhuman thread. Please report to your local euthanasia center.
>>32338556You'll never have your heart broken which is 100x worse than being an incel. I've seen both sides and can honestly say I wish I could go back to being a KHHV
Losing interest now that it’s obvious he’s into me. He’s still on my mind but not the same way. Why does it always have to be like this
>>32335552maybe change the way you internalize this. I play catch and release. Sometimes you can do it several times with the same guy.
*gets upset*
>>32335552Cultivate your interest, getting someone who likes spending time with you is nice.
>>32335552you weren’t into him. you were into the attention
>>32335575please tell me this is true. I avoided an avoidant (kek) because my insinct told me it was fucked and I'm going to get back stabbed over the smallest thing.
I'm really envious of people who can think of seemingly endless things to say to strangers and acquaintances. My mind gravitates towards truth, honesty and justice and I tend to disappoint/alienate/bore people. I really want to meet people, entertain people, comfort them, have sex with them
>>32338725>There are people who can have your back in this case, and in a lot of places it's easily manageable for even most people to get this for free.I'm afraid of what I'm giving up in exchange >>32338744If only people knew that I'm willing and able to take them to the next level for free if they only trusted me and reached out to me, the problem I think is that I can only offer myself for a short time. Nothing lasts forever and I can only hold one mindform for an hour or so if I put in massive effort
So I guess I'm just a fraud who puts in huge effort to be something he's not and fails. I'm not happy with what I have. I'm greedy. I want to steal spiritual energy from people who have less intellectual energy. I want to form a trade but they don't want to trade with me because they know I'm a fraud
>>32338643Don't worry, you'll break eventually. Bullshitting is a survival strategy, not a choice.
>>32338774I really hope that you're right
>>32338643Ignore them.
How can I find my place in the world as an unsocialized autist?
>>32338951So, where are they? Huh?
>>32338965Where are who? People you might click with? How the fuck would I know. Idk what your interests are or what your line of work is. That’s on you to figure out. If you have multiple interests that involve interacting with diverse pools of people and you’ve never met someone you even somewhat like, then you’re just a fucking asshole lol. I don’t mean that as an insult either, I feel quite bad for autists who struggle to ever connect with people. But it doesn’t change the fact that you’re not likable sadly.
>>32339006:( I'm not an asshole...
>>32338946Why do you have to be so mean? T_T
>>32338659YOU can't. Just wait for the euthanasia van to collect you.
If I look similar to pic related would I get mogged more in New Jersey than in the Midwest? Where I live it’s somewhat easy for me to be the prettiest girl in the room because there’s a lot of Hispanics and black people and fat white women with poor genetics. But also in some areas there are a lot of pretty polish and Irish girls(but especially polish girls)that mog me, and I want to know if that would also happen in New Jersey before I decide to move there. The last thing I want is to spend all my money moving to New Jersey only to be a 4/10 there when I’m a 7 or 8/10 here. My only dating options here are yuppy fags and I just want a fat Italian man to marry and to be surrounded by older Italian Americans who are Catholic probably along with a good amount of Hispanics and blacks and fat white people in the mix so I can avoid getting mogged, but I don’t know if it’s like that over there.
>>32338492Why would a man even ask this kind of question? And I thought the internet was over that “no one is a real girl” thing by now and this is the only space I know of that I can ask this type of question without sugarcoating it. I agree that “mogged” is a cringe word but it’s the only thing that really describes it. I am not a racist person; I have nothing against the communities of POC; I find some of them very charming and welcoming hence wanting to live around some of them. But I don’t consider wanting to live around people less conventionally attractive than me to be racist or shallow. Not everyone cares about being good looking but a lot of factors in my life has caused it to be a priority for me. It’s hard being a woman in this day and age as is because of beauty standards and this is just one aspect of moving out of state. What even happened to this place? Why is it so PC now but somehow still super sexist/porn pandering?
You should just move anyway, you're not going to find Italians in the Midwest.You need to work on yourself emotionally so that you can live somewhere that doesn't suck.There is also a Italian community in Johnston Rhode Island that has a little Italy in nearby Federal Hill.
>>32338425well, this is who you are up against.
>>32338425Get the fuck over yourself you silly cunt.
bestie if you are on this site youre just as ugly fat of retared as the rest of us get over yourself
My close friend of 8 years is overweight and short. He has given up on himself despite his personality and career. Despite how many people deeply care about him and enjoy his company he doesnt appreciate himself. I have tried pushing him to do what worked for me. Gym, hobbies, sports, dating apps and trying to work on what you can fix and accept what you cant. He has slowly given up on all of these. This is an issue but recently he has gotten far worse. He recently got drunk and high and started groping a friend's friend. When confronted about it after he got upset but it doesnt seem to have hit him how severe this is. He recently hired a prostitute and now is planning a solo trip to Japan which we all think is for sex tourism. I dont think this is going to help him and I dont think I can stay on good terms with someone that SA's. My social group are planning to confront him about this. None of us feel like this can ever be allowed to happen again. WE are going to advise he doesnt drink/smoke again and actual take steps to improve his life.
>>32336553You think we just cut ties now?
>>32338254you shouldve all blasted him and made him say sorry when it happenednow its hard to give him a chance to apologizeI'd phone him and say: no one wants hang out with the dickhead he is becoming, either he swallows his pride and gets some help with the attitude (literally just go gym) or he can fuck off
>>32334486I won't read how to fix third party threads. You know why.
>>32339632He's actually asking for advice in a relationship, what he should do with his friend. Also, your replies are really dumb, you just keep bumping threads you don't want to contribute to, you're either mentally unwell or a newfag, in the first case, seek help.
>>32339632shut up retard schizo fag
How does one go against the status quo? What is the status quo? Is there even a status quo?
>>32338270Have the determination to live forever and you will gain the perspective that whatever the current state of things, "this too shall pass."
Apparently we're living during the 6th mass extinction. At the current rate of species loss we could end up with a kill count as bad as or worse than the great dying (the worst yet known mass extinction). The current rate of species loss is unprecedented apparently.Since industrialization began we've lost approx. 1-2% of species so far. However with the current rate of exponential change it's possible that we'll lose 25% of species by 2100.I don't really know what to do with myself since learning this. How am I supposed to deal with it mentally? Everything else seems so meaningless compared. It's like being there when the asteroid hit, except I'm realizing I'm 'part' of that asteroid.
>>32335431I won't read the latest midwit cause de jour on an advice board.
Where do Pajeets fall into this equation?
>>32335431>How am I supposed to deal with it mentally?not much you can do really. doesn't help that half the country is unilaterally against anything pro-environment on culture war grounds
>>32335431by 2100 only the able will survive, not the industrialists, not the ghetto dweller, not the degenerate, only the willing and the smarter, these will not rely on most post industrial technology to survive, sure they won't represent as much of a threat to nature as we are todaydon't worry anon
>>32335431what can one do but strive to rise above their station and do things right? good luck & godspeed
https://www.wattpad.com/1460754647-princess-cathrine-the-princess-and-the-witchthis good or what?
I feel like I do so much already. I am the sole breadwinner, we easily have plenty of spending with enough saved aside each month, and I don't want her to just get a job just for extra cash "for the household" (if it's for her education or for her own want of money that's fine by me). I let her make nearly every purchase in the house. I don't EXPECT her to do chores but she does them anyway.Despite this she recently has told me she doesn't feel appreciated. I'm not sure how bringing in all the money and letting her make all the purchase discussions is not appreciation enough. I want to buy her nice things but the problem is we keep going a little over budget every month so I just have spent less and less, not just on her but for myself.Perhaps her pregnancy is part of her thinking, and I'm not blind to the toll it takes on a woman's body, but I'm not going to risk overpulling from the budget if we already can't balance it every month. How do I tell her that I want X amount of money set aside a month solely to spend on her?>inb4 just tell her!!Yes obviously but most of the time when talk about money she gets incredibly distressed and feels as if I'm threatening her agency when I just want to have a cool understanding of what to do with our cash rather than reactively spending money to make ourselves feel better. Surely there's a specific way to go about it.
>only work 25 hrs a week >Barely get by >She doesn't get anything expensive >But I cook special meals for her, write love notes and we hike together >She keeps saying how much she appreciates meIt's about the small stuff that shows you're thinking of her
it is normal if you are only in your 20s as you get older you get your sht together
>>32335650Tell her. Say it out loud, in words.
>>32335742She was working, but it wasn't for the purpose of income. It was experience for her education track. Needless to say she stopped working (at my urging) once she was farther along in pregnancy, and stopped working full-time (again at my urging) once she restarted full time schooling.>>32336157Finances are the only thing we fight over. In fact, her not being appreciated is my fault because I do not think we have enough to cover bills at the end of the month. I understand that I have to make leeway and just buy shit sometimes but I struggle with the possibility of being a brokie from overspending.We had a whole thing where we cleaned up our debts and only then did I propose to her. We both point and laugh at people, especially couples, who appear to have no kind of discussion around finances (re: Caleb Hammer guests). At my core though I am afraid of becoming one of them. My thought processes around money are very binary and it's partly informed of past financial mishaps.>>32336929We do a lot of these kind of activities together already, but they rarely take any kind of financial investment outside of food. We do dinner dates a few times a month, we'll go to see movies, and plenty of times we just sit at home and watch stuff together.But I understand that even doing all of this I act frugal.>>32336981Some things I have not done since we moved in together is write letters, or get flowers delivered. There are a couple other things that I have not done as frequently since we dated. I think I need to reintroduce some of these activities.>>32336983I suppose so, we are both in our late 20s.
>>32339378>Finances are the only thing we fight over. In fact, her not being appreciated is my fault because I do not think we have enough to cover bills at the end of the month. If you are the one that is most keenly aware and knowledgeable about the finances then you should have been the one that handles them. If the role was delegated and you are second guessing your wife all the time about how they are handled, what exactly do you expect?My wife and I share a single bank account, but I am the one who makes the decisions. I will ask for her input, but we are on the same page with our financial goals and aspirations. I pay our "future selves" first by loading up our Roth IRAs, my 403(b), and our shared taxable accounts automatically with every paycheck. I make sure we put some into an emergency fund and some into a sinking fund for shared goals (e.g., vacation, new vehicle, holiday gifts, etc.). Importantly, I make sure that we have enough so that we can treat one another and that the money that is discretionary is truly discretionary and not simply something that will get earmarked into some other savings or bill.Inflation has taken a bite out of everything lately, but I adapted to that situation by shaving a few % off our investment rate while also eliminating expenses which were less necessary. >I understand that I have to make leeway and just buy shit sometimes but I struggle with the possibility of being a brokie from overspending.Make a new budget. It isn't a one time thing. Money is a means to an end, not the end itself. Defend yourself against your own neuroticism by creating a liquid emergency fund that covers 3-6 months of total expenses. >We had a whole thing where we cleaned up our debts and only then did I propose to her.I honestly won't criticize you on this. Finances are important. That said, you cornered yourself because you will only be happy if you can take the reins on managing the finances of the family.
It’s not about who you choose to talk to, it’s about who chooses to talk to you. Out of 8 billion individuals on this planet, they choose to talk to you. Nobody is obligated to give you their time or company, and you’re not entitled to it either. It’s a two-way street. Also, don’t try to force anyone to talk to you otherwise you’ll scare them away. Whether it be a good friend or a woman you love, please appreciate your current relationships/friendships because you never know when it’ll end. Even if the girl you love doesn’t feel the same way and you get friendzoned, finding friends is hard in this day and age. Hang on to whoever appreciate your time and company. friendship with her anyways because you’re lucky to be in her life. You can’t her to love or else you’ll push her away. Your friends or girlfriend can leave you, anytime, no matter how much you beg for them to stay. You’ll be sitting there missing out on their lives. Show gratitude and don’t take anyone in your life for granted.
>>32337434OP is the friend everyone blanks
>>32337434>>32337521based but samefag
>>32337434Stop spamming this.
>>32335945>Out of 8 billion individuals on this planetRealistically, it's only a couple thousand. Nobody's gonna be talking to some random in Bangledash.Still a lot of fish tho.
>>32335945I won't read unsolicited advice.
>>32335945>It’s not about who you choose to talk to, it’s about who chooses to talk to you. Out of 8 billion individuals on this planet, they choose to talk to you. Nobody is obligated to give you their time or company, and you’re not entitled to it either. It’s a two-way street. Also, don’t try to force anyone to talk to you otherwise you’ll scare them away. Whether it be a good friend or a woman you love, please appreciate your current relationships/friendships because you never know when it’ll end. Even if the girl you love doesn’t feel the same way and you get friendzoned, finding friends is hard in this day and age. Hang on to whoever appreciate your time and company. friendship with her anyways because you’re lucky to be in her life. You can’t her to love or else you’ll push her away. Your friends or girlfriend can leave you, anytime, no matter how much you beg for them to stay. You’ll be sitting there missing out on their lives. Show gratitude and don’t take anyone in your life for granted.I understand all of this and have decided to cut my ties and be as distant as possible, leaving before others can leave me, so no instead of being grateful I will just wear and tear every relationship into the ground, fuck you nigger
I'm in college and there is a girl in two of my history classes. I talk to her every day and I'm pretty interested in her. The only thing is that most of the conversations I have with her are surface level stuff about classes and music. How do I bring the conversations to a more personal level so I can move toward asking her out at some point or at least see she isn't interested?
Bro if you have to solve this girl like trying to solve a CIA cryptic message from the dark web, she's not your type. The interaction should feel natural and brought about like it would with your friends.If she is a great person but doesn't like you just give her the benefit of the doubt and focus on your own life okay.
You’re over analyzing this. Sounds like your interactions with her thus far have been organic, which is good. Don’t start treating this like some science experiment. It will influence the way you communicate with her whether you realize it or not and women are generally much more adept at picking up on things like that. In conversation with her you can just explore a bit. Perhaps it’s a Monday and you mention what you did over the weekend, then you ask her what she did. If she did something you find interesting, ask her if she does it often. If she replies enthusiastically, test the waters a bit. Reply with something like “wow next time I’d like to tag along, that sounds really fun.” If she is receptive, there is a great sign for you to continue exploring. Etc.
>>32338977OP here. Best reply I've heard so far. I've only known her for a couple months I've jus been nervous to push it to far. I guess I have been thinking of it like that and not realizing it. I'll see where it goes if I try that. Thank you, anon!
>>32339647NTA but the best way to test the waters is to push but give her an out. Instead of saying "Hey, can I come with you next time?" and cornering her into a yes or no say something like "Yeah that sounds fun, hit me up if you wanna go together sometime". If she responds positively that could give you an indication to maybe escalate things in the future in which you're inviting her out to do things. Pursuing women is a delicate interplay between active and passive communication. You don't want them to feel put on the spot and cornered into giving an immediate answer to everything but you also don't want to play passive and force her to initiate everything. If you're just getting to no somebody then the passive approach works. You give her your number and say "Hey, text me sometime". If she texts and initiates a conversation first then that's a good sign that she's willing to put conscious effort into interacting with you and you can escalate further.
>>32339671It would be good if both of us weren't Christians
I go to the library to study and a guy talked to me once and now he keeps talking to me and now I don't want to go to the library anymore.
>>32333614I mean, yeah, but you can tell if she doesn't want to talk. OP is probably not responding, twitching and leaning away, looking away, etc. All tell-tale signs of being uninterested. But the guy is likely autistic and just keeps sperging out by talking nonstop and trying to force socialization.
next time he talks to you for too long you say:"im trying not to be rude but im not looking for someone and id like to be left alone"pretty simple
>>32333614kek, it's probably just rage bait thread cuz OP is not responding tho
>>32332677I won't read threads where OP is so feeble as to be unable to simply say "I don't want to talk."
>>32339614why are you in every thread schizo
