how do i reduce the activity of my amygdala?
>>35028261be indian
>>35028327already done. what else?
>>35028334Kek anyway isn't it the thing that responds to threat or something. Experience so many false alarms that you no longer believe any of those such things are alarming anymore
how do I improve my articulation and quick thinking and stop being an autistic retard with no memory?
>>35028232I feel like my brain is broken because I've never consumed brainrot or AI content and never done drugs yet my brain functions by default as if it's in a brainrot stateit's like I started with a debuff and got punished for existing
>>35028223Treat it like any skills: consistent intentional practiceI find that anxiety seems to be the biggest limiting factor for my ability to speak well, though. When I'm comfortable I can speak far better. Dunno if it's the same for you
Stick to one subject.
>>35028223learn to play piano. Being able to do two different patterns at the same time with both hands improves brain function because you need signals to cross from the left and right halves of your brain to do it. These neural pathways naturally improve other functions like articulations, thinking, memory, problem solving etc.
>>35028223Spend less time alone and indoors. Even just existing quietly around other people in public will eventually make you feel less socially retarded and anxious.
my head gets extremely itchy at night it's driving me insane trying not to scratch it idk what to do
>>35028214moisturise my hair? it feels like half the people itt are speaking an alien language
>>35028227You can get special ones for your scalp usually called scalp moisturizer or scalp serums
>>35028246kinda sounds like a scam
>>35028254Well you can try regular moisturizer but most of them are too heavy for hair roots
>>35028262fine I'll buy the fuckin hair moisturiser
How do I stop worrying about my height? I'm between 5'10 - 5'11.5 (Results were between these depending) I haven't measured myself properly since I was like 19 almost 4 years ago because Im afraid of it being a number I don't like. I am constantly upset when I see men taller then me, it creates an deep anxiety. Women my height or taller then me while uncommon also upsets me. How can I cope? How can I stop worrying about this?
>>35024787It's just one unidealized quality. It can even be sort of endearing. You're still very young. Networking matters most. Don't burn bridges. You're perfect cuddling height for most women.
>>35024787You're fine. Unless you have literal dwarfism, you're fine. And even those guys pull.
>>35024787>Women my height or taller then me while uncommon also upsets me.Gayy
>>35025405>i'll never understand why foids prefer tall men.Women are more materialistic when it comes to relationships than men are. I blame social media.
>>35024787Damn anon thats crazyIm 5"2.5
a bit of a metathreadsince I'm a yurifag, my instagram feed is full of yuri and the result is that sometimes I get a post from some american queer artist™ (usually lesbian, sometimes "transbian"), usually some unfunny webcomic about how hot they find women and how much they love lesbian/sapphic/queer(you get the idea) sex. Most posts made by faggots/troons on /lgbt/ or their respective discord servers, they all are fixated around the idea of very gay sex.And then I realised, you never see straight women act this way. At the last "party/rave" I was at (because a normie I used to know pitied me), all the girls hung around only with girls, if they talked to a guy there were like huge friendzone vibes. None of the guys tried to show interest (including me), since nobody wanted to handle the embarrassment of getting rejected and being called a creep. The lesbian (which I knew from a previous party (same normie dude, I was really lucky, I'm still an autistic retard, proof me writing this shit) where she also tried to kiss some girl, got to kiss some girl this time. I just know had I acted the same way, it would be over for me. I hate her, but I think I'm also even crushing on her, which is even worse.Even if you look at the "cultural" institutions of LGBT, by that I mean pride parades and gay bars and queer metups and shit like that, all of them are pretty straight forward in their purpose, bringing faggots together so that they can fuck afterwards and I guess that works out pretty great for them. You could also write it off as LGBT being a hedonistic sex cult, but come on, everybody would like to have sex once in a while (except straight women).Straight people don't have such institutions and even those which exist (bars, night clubs and so on) don't work.Never thought I'd be envious of faggots, but here I am.
>>35025955>be unapproachable>don't get approached>complain about it
>>35025917real answer: straight women also love sex. but they don't trust men, for a reason. a lot of men can be physically and psychologically dangerous to them. a lot of them will rape. so a woman needs to feel comfortable with a man before being more intimate, usually. this is the main difference with the other interactions in your picture:>gay sex: men aren't afraid of other men>lesbian sex: no dangerous men so easy to be comfortable>tranny sex: men aren't afraid of other mena woman usually have to trust you before moving forward with sex, even for a casual encounter. since you are giving aspie vibes, it is hard to be comfortable around you. improve urselfstraight women like sex, but it often is not worth risking getting raped or having a creep stalking you because you hooked up once
>>35025979>lesbian sex: no dangerous men so easy to be comfortableNope, statistically, lesbians have single highest rates of domestic violence, far higher than gay couples or straight couples. Lesbians constantly beat the shit out of eachother.Women also get married to serial killers in prison lol.
>>35026386Trannies get beaten up the most from casual sex and yet they still seek it out. Stats don't kill boners- until straight men/straight women
>>35025917Most of the women in my life won't stfu about x,y,z man (fictional or nonfictional) they wanna get pumped by. My gf pervs out on me constantly and baits me into sex anytime we're alone for 30 minutes. Her exact wording about lesbians last time the subject was broached was: "can't we just fucking burn them like Salem?"You gotta get the fuck out of whatever gayass social circle you're in OP.
Unfortunate enough to be a bong and our government is retarded enough to demand every website age ID users.4chan appropriately told them to fuck off and UK regulator OFCOM has been unable to collect any fines. But we're now realistically looking at 4chan getting blocked here.I frequent the video game related boards; it's silly but here gives me a sense of belonging; I love getting to talk about my passions with fellow autsits. Not like shitty Reddit where you can't speak your mind less someone checks your post history.I know that VPNS, DNS, etc can help me bypass such things, but 4chan prevents VPN users from posting; I don't just wanna watch. I'm kinda bummed out about it. Amy advice or how to prepare encase this comes to pass?
I'm a brit also and I already accepted it that time when the site went down last year. Honestly it felt freeing coz the good stuff on this site is few and far between and it essentially become like doom scrolling for me
>every websiteNo.
>>35027819Alright fine, it's:>Every website that hosts user content that could be adult/ not suited for kids.It's not just porn websites but also things like Reddit, twitter and of course here.
>>35027786>But we're now realistically looking at 4chan getting blocked here.It takes no time to implement a DNS block, as they have done for numerous sites before.I reckon someone had a word in Ofcom's ear about the true reason this site still exists and has its Cloudflare fees paid each month.
>>35028119Pretty sure they have to request it first and (it will most likely given all the pearl clutchers got us in this position) be approved by court.Not that it's a hard thing to do (or bypass) but rather they haven't purused it yet for 4chan as they go for fines first, which has clearly failed.
My mother got fired. What can I do to support her? I'm a college student and don't work.
Fucking nothing. You don't have money. Call/visit her when you can, I guess
work
She can support herself. Find another job for her.
>>35026654Work part time and give her your paycheck to help with bills faggot.
>gf hid away all my pictures and gifts from her apartment, removed my picture from her lockscreen and deleted our travel pictures from her instagramIs it over? She said she did it because it made her sad to see them when she was alone, but I feel like she's distancing herself from me and spiritually breaking up with me. The same thing happened in my last relationship.
>>35024643She's a lying, cheating whore.Like all women.
>>35024879This, you should tell her you to just remain sex-friends.
>>35024643You're clearly dissatisfied with the distance, OP. It's okay to have some self respect and move along with your life. How often is she looking at all her travel pictures on instagram anyway? She literally doesn't even have to open the album. I won't jump to foul play, but that just doesn't make a whole lot of sense. You just love yourself more and/or find someone that doesn't erase the existence of your relationship from the internet.
>>35024643Yeah it's over. She wants to appear single to potential partners. You have been downgraded to a backup.
>>35024643You gotta run this through the mom analog OP. Right now your mom has a fuckload of pictures of you arranged around her house because she loves you and wants to be constantly reminded of your existence. That's how a woman regards the people she loves and wants around her. Point is this chick no longer see's you as someone to reminisce over or cherish her memories with. Heighten your guard and prepare to ditch her at the first whiff of cheating. Assume it's already happening.
I've lost 4 people in my life in the past 5 months. 3 long term friends and 1 bf. I still have other friends but now I just don't even get the desire to talk to them anymore. I'm so mentally drained. I wanna meet someone new.
>>35022024I'm lonely as hell too, but I don't know how you even got in the situation where you got a peodphile boyfriend and the like in the first place. What type of personalities are you attracted to? Sounds like you're in bad company.
>>35023660I would rather not get too into it since it was recent, but his friends outed him saying that he was in another relationship with a minor whilst keeping it a secret to everyone else.
>>35024548I really honestly could not have predicted 2 of my longest lasting friends turning out to be bad people. I was friends with one of them for 6 years, and the other for 4 years. They've only recently shown their true colors to me. As for my ex boyfriend, I didn't know him for that long so I guess I should've gotten to know him better.
BumpI'm in the same spot OP, I don't really like online reddit or discord-esque spaces, dating apps seem like a humiliation ritual, ordinary social media is to keep in touch with friends not make new ones (I don't have that anyways). I'm from a semi-conservative place too, so it's a little bit more difficult to find people.
>>35025045Discord online spaces is actual purgatory, everyone on there is a lobotomite. Genuine sheeple
I can really only focus when playing video games, anything else is troublesome. I can spend 40+ hours in a row playing a videogame, but I can't get myself to spend 30 minutes to clean or cook a nice meal. How can I get that kind of focus into other areas of my life?
Same shit>>35027455>>35027248
> have gf for year > likes the same things as me> is younger and sexy> rich family > kind and tolerates my political views > everything seems completely perfect> 2 weeks ago> suddenly invents a story that 3 people are following her substack > these are 2 people who stalked my ex wife, and 1 of my friends> no evidence other than them following her seems suspicious timing > accounts look nothing like them and have been running for 5+ years> gets angry when challenged , doubles down> proposes to me randomly It's over isn't it. She's got to be bipolar. Too good to be true. Was contemplating marrying her before all this happened but I can't be married to someone bipolar.
>>35027886If she's actually bipolar, medication can help. But if she were, I don't think it would have taken you an entire year to notice.
>>35027886Well does it matter that they're following her substack (if it were true)? She thinks she's getting stalked or sthn?
>>35027917yeah the two people were people who relentlessly stalked my wife when we were together. she's concluded that from two randoms following her after we got together that they are those two people. But she's hard committed despite no evidence, their profiles have been going for years before we got together. shes talked about going to the police about it. the third person is a friend whom she's just decided she can't trust and that my friend wants to be with me. writing it down makes it sound less unhinged but it's coupled with getting 0 sleep and still being full of energy. talking really fast and going off on completely unrelated tangents randomly.
>>35027925Well these beliefs are technically falsifiable, find out if the accounts are those people or not, and find out if the friend actually wants to be with you or not. Then tell her you don't want retarded babies so you're gonna find someone else to be with.
>>35027993already done brah they aren't them and she's off her rocker. just sucks because we were great before she turned nuts.
am i crazy for going to therapy websites talking about the comparison between bad and good ones and try all the bad onesidk why i do that and it lowk necane an obsession
You definately try therapies that were labelled worse? If it's free of cost then sure whatever. If you're paying for "worse" therapy, then, why? You feel sorry for them or something?
*deliberately
>>35027924>idk why i do thatIf you don't know why, I don't think there's any way we're going to figure it out. Do you get some enjoyment out of this? What's the appeal?>>35027924
My girlfriend is a great person overall. But I'm not satisfied by her sexually. I'm her first and everything is quite vanilla. Other than that she is also bodily not my exact type but I felt comfort in this relationship as we hardly have any arguments and she is quite traditional. For one example, she's flat chested. I had a lot of baddies in my life but it never ended well. I still yearn for that type of women but I'm consciously battling my lust to wave it off. I feel like if I leave my relationship, I might regret it later but I know for sure that I have been more physically happy with other women in the past and there is definitely someone out there who might be more compatible. But then again, there is no end to that loop is it?
>>35026684WHY WOULD YOU MARRY HER?! If you're going to be a fag and lead her on at least do it in a way the law can not fuck you over.
>>35026813This. So much this
>>35026813Kek.
>>35026576chill out you fucking faggot
>>35027944Alright then go be like >>35026684 instead
>talk to women>I have to pretend I give a shit about what they have to saySeems to me like an insurmountable obstacle>inb4 "they're just human dude"I don't care about what men have to say either
>>35026257with you 999,999 out of 1,000,000 times, bro. but sometimes shes a tradwife nazi who is preparing for the lizard people to rug pull society.
Yeah OP that's every married man's MAIN daily grievance with his woman. You either learn ways to cope or you bang whores
>>35026257Actually you don't have to pretend. In fact, it's better when you stop pretending.
>>35026257I try to associate mainly with people - male and female - that I find interesting
>>35027847What do you do when conversation topics run out?
as it nears winter my yearly depression is starting to kick in again. when this matter occurs i start to lose all of my motivation to arrive at school on time or even doing exceedingly basic tasks like flossing my damn teeth, regrding which my molars are very flat and hollow as a result of this neglect. showering is not my biggest concern either since everybody is repulsed by my objectively ugly appearance enough to maintain their nostrils a fair distance away from me. although i say this to provide context and not to sound like a whiney SOBwhen i feel a little better i keep telling myself i will do this productive activity and this and so on... but soon as i get home i sleep for hours. i will sleep instead of eating . would really appreciate self discipline advice or something otherwise that will help me get better all the same, advice from other femanons is appreciated but i understand that beggers can't be choosers thank you
When I was a teenager I read a beauty magazine that shamed going to sleep without washing the day's dirt out of your face. It went on from there.>motivationIt's easier to give yourself more problems, such as being needing your teeth flossed to feel alright
Figure out what's actually necessary and what isn't. Teeth you'd probably want to maintain because of all the consequences if you don't. Showering you might be able to get away if you aren't that sweaty. Etc.
>>35026738Get a SAD lamp
>>35027166 >>35026831thank you both for the advice>>35027843thank you, will look into getting one eventually. was recently forced to quit my job though so i'm pretty skint right now
