Good jobs for an introvert?And please don't say>Just get out of your shell
>>33928725What about the possibility that someone will shoot you?
>>33928743I would've loved that. My life means nothing.
I hate being around people but I do ok as a mail carrier. an hour and a half of hell in the morning and a few brief interactions on the street, but none of it hurts your job safety to fuck up a little
>>33926930Just say no gilfs please
>>33928738You're confusing introverts with antisocial people
My friends think I'm a lesbian, because I've never had a bf and I don't do much girly stuff.I told them I'm a trans man and they told me "that trans stuff is fake" and are pressuring me to go with them to this thing to meet some guys Wednesday.Should I go with them just to get them off my case or should I stand my ground and contest their whole "trans people aren't real" thing.
>>33928243>The problem with spaces like Tumblr and others, they normalize minority and extreme opinions in an echo chamber just like how 4chan normalizes racism and other such things.My friends said it, "Tumblr is for people who obsess over shit that don't matter". I agree there are a lot of people like that there, but there are also a lot of really talented people posting there.>Are you attracted to men? Are you attracted to women?No, I'm not attracted to anybody. When I was growing up and I didn't like any guys, my family always said I'd start liking them in a year or two.I'm 20 now and I really just don't have any care about sex. The whole concept just feels kind of revulsive, fluids and...not into it. I'd rather just enjoy my own company, avoid people putting gross stuff in or on me, and stick to my hobbies. My friends think if I "try things out" I'll change my mind so they keep bugging me to go out with them.>>33928395It's like a sub 1% part of my thoughts. It's there, and at least once a day I feel like I'd be happier as a guy, but it's not crowding out my other thoughts.
>>33928573Maybe you’re asexual? That’s another good area to look for self reflecting. Some asexual people find that for the right person they can be sexually active with but for some it seems like it’s not for them at all. There’s an /lgbt/ board you might already know but it might be just time to figure out if you want to present differently or not and what you want out of a relationship.
>>33924445>Idk what tomboy extinction has to do with anything,It's what women like you used to be instead of a surgical disaster. Or else a dyke. Or a domme. I'm not really sure what you want to be but surgery is awful, nobody should do surgery voluntarily removing major important stuff from your body.
YOU WILL NEVER CHANGE SEX
>>33928573>there are also a lot of really talented people posting there.Tumblr is the platform that generally is more favorable toward the liberal left and those who push those ideas. It is not at all surprising that these influences are pushing you toward trans things, but you are simply you and no amount of propaganda will ever take that from you. Just be yourself.>No, I'm not attracted to anybody. When I was growing up and I didn't like any guysNor do you like girls. It sounds like asexuality. I had an asexual girlfriend before. Very similar, she also had a preference for men's clothing and style. She was not a lesbian or trans, just preferred those things.>I feel like I'd be happier as a guyThat's because this is a man's world. My fiance often laments that she has to be a woman because of the way women are treated and viewed. Especially growing up on WoW. People do not respect women and actively threaten women often so it's natural to not want to be a woman.
hi anons, i’m writing because i have absolutely zero self respect >tell myself i’m gonna quit smokingive been on my “last pack” for months now >gf cheated(not physically)stayed with her and forgave her>have no drive or motivation to achieve anything or do anything >only thing going for me is my theatre thing and the connections that i got from iti never seem able to achieve anything. i don’t see the point in it, nor can i do what any self respecting man should do. i even dropped out of college and i only have a middle school education what do i do anons?
You’re stuck in a loop of disappointment, and that eats away at self-respect. Start with one small win—something you can finish in a day. Clean your place, show up to rehearsal early, anything. Small proof that you can follow through builds confidence.You forgave your girlfriend because you don’t want to be alone, but deep down you know you deserve better. Don’t chase big fixes yet—just do one thing each day that makes you feel like you respect yourself, even a little. That’s how you start digging out.
Why does society teach us that we should ignore problems and be the bigger man when faced with confrontation when doing these are the fastest ways to lose respect from others? I look back at all the times I've apologized when I was clearly in the right and I highly doubt it ever made the other person think about their actions. And even though other people saw it, they never gave me a pat on the back or acknowledged me being the "better" person for not escalating or defending myself, even when it would have been justified. They always just pretend they didn't see anything. Or even worse, they probably just assume I was at fault because I apologized and internalize it subconsciously, forever painting their perception of me as a weak bitch.I feel like it's the latter because I've never been respected and people treat all my achievements as flukes instead of real competence even though I feel like I've proven my abilities time and time again. My merits just don't speak for themselves I guess... I also think people are inclined towards the more cynical way of thinking because they lack empathy, act in bad faith by immediately assuming the worst, and don't care enough to put in the effort to see who was actually in the right once the dust settles. Even when I'm shown to be right in the end, everyone who saw just pretends they forgot or that it never happened and never acknowledge it. But they still keep with them that mental image of me and my "weakness" that they picked up on and was imprinted subconsciously.
>>33925080>Why does society teach us that we should ignore problems and be the bigger man when faced with confrontation when doing these are the fastest ways to lose respect from others?there is actually a tangible societal stability reason for it but I don't think you care
>>33929067i'm all ears
>>33929127So basically the human mind is very generalistic with violence, more or less non-discriminant. For example in execution towards a mass murderer, Someone very uncomfortable with this concept unlikely to start a fight in their lives unless they absolutely must, and vice versa. Situation that justify *some* violence justify *all* directionless violence in a person's psychology.Add to this that aggression can develop or be conditioned, and violence is inherently cyclical and changes your worldview, and crimes spiral in severity and you're starting to see my point. In arab shitholes where violence is required to constantly produce more jihadists and terrorists the society intentionally practices things like executions, wifebeatings, and indoctrination to facilitate those needs. this a calculated known metric that influences policy.You live in a high trust society that relies on you not being mugged or raped at random and that society wants to keep it that way, that's why you can NEVER EVER EVER fight back even if you are currently being beaten, go to a teacher or something. Even if you kill yourself from abuse, simply allow him to scream at you, let the woman punch you. If you fight back you'll be severely punished and shamed. If the abuse traumatizes or even kills you on a societal level this is better than allowing *some* violence no matter how justified.Of course, humans were meant for some violence. But you aren't supposed to think that.
>>33929240I wrote this sleep deprived but it's readable-ish
>>33929240that's cool, but I was talking more about defending my decisions or stances from verbal accusations, not really physical confrontations. Society just likes to preach tolerance and civil conduct, but there will always be the primal revulsion to someone who is reserved and seemingly unaffected by stimuli. Not fighting back or defending yourself is strange and the psyche finds it dangerous and will always respect someone who is imposing because it's a clear demonstration of strength. Even if we understand that someone not fighting back doesn't mean they can't fight back, the damage has already been done. And sure, this certainly traces back to unga bunga violence = strength and signals to others the alpha of the tribe, but it still applies to how we conduct ourselves in a society. Sure, it's nice that you put aside your beliefs for a quick compromise or solution, but everyone will see it as weakness in some form especially if you do it repeatedly. It's stupid that we have to be selfish and hurt people over shit that doesn't matter just to get our point across and get the respect and recognition owed to us.
How do i get a wifey that looks like this?
You're not alone. I do too.
>>33928538>wifey(You) don't, too effeminate.
>>33928538>How do i get a wifey that looks like this?Look like that, but male
It hurts
Gingers are BBC addicts sadly
How does one cope with the fact that the world is hurling in the direction of a 1984 shit hole?People have lost their god damn minds, and they're cheering as one right after the next is being stripped away.
>>33925934You don't see Hitler everyday so I'm not surprised you don't immediately recognize him. But Unfortunately, I do because of amateur "Western Manga" artists who literally can not think of any way else to portray that a ruler is evil, other than making him look like Hitler or Trump.
>>33925982No, I do see Hitler every day. I am on /pol/ pretty often. The mustache being the most important thing, they did not do Hitler.
>>33928216>His mustache is different>definitely not Hitler
>>33922650Get rid of the evil orange rapist and the world will start to heal.
>>33929247All US politicians are evil rapists, why does the color orange bother you so much?
How do i Chase black pillers subuman off my boards?
>>33924975>A quick reminder that less than 5% of men are virgins after the age of 25 statistically in 2024, and after the age of thrity the number plummets to below 1%, in the margin of statistical error.That's funny because you see I'm one of the men who, in 2016 was 23 and not a virgin. On the survey that is. I lied. Had sex with prostitute since then, but a cripple can have that.>Ugh but I bet ur fat complete outlier in unattractiveness neet projection projectionThe only moment I could've been considered a neet was one month between graduating and finding my first job. I have an average bodybuild and looks, by now I can also say a career. The reality is that the demographic statistics are wrong there's maybe one woman for every 3 men nowadays or so and all the muh why sre you so retarded blackpilled retard types refuse to realise that. I literally don't know a single guy who is in relationship or married and it's not a girl he landed in high school. Where did they all go? No fucking idea. Maybe schizos were right and they got killed by the vaccine.
>>33926050>he reality is that the demographic statistics are wrong there's maybe one woman for every 3 men nowadays See attached pic. And that how you recognize cope, kids.>I literally don't know a single guy who is in relationship or marriedProbably because you're sitting in some rural shithole where all the women fled the second they turned 18. Newsflash, you're not getting laid in some hick village where the average age is 50+.>I have an average bodybuild and looks, by now I can also say a career.Thats great. When did you last talk to a woman?
>>33923398>off my boardsThis nigga full of himself kek
>>33927541>Probably because you're sitting in some rural shithole where all the women fled the second they turned 18.Warsaw is rural shithole where all the women fled the second they turned 18 then, I guess.There are almost no women in the city. You won't find them working anywhere, you don't see them on the streets, they don't even go to clubs it seems. Your map must be a bs.
>>33923398It is often professionals, intent on bringing down the west. Best thing is to leave and focus on yourself.
How can someone succeed in the dating realm at 5’3?Please no bs platitudes. I just want a gf. I’m in Aus if it matters
>>33914990Short and Australian? There might be a way…
>>33914990Do you have high standards? Just date someone, anyone. preferably with similar hobbies to you. being short is really not a factor desu. People always aim for 8/9/10 women. but imho most people are pretty good looking. I dont really like numbering people like this but I find more normal/average men and women more appealing which allows yourself to cast a wide net in the dating pool. Be ready to accept their flaws as well.
>>33914990Indonesia.Average female height there is 5'0". You'd only be moderately short compared to most men.
>>33914990Carefully consider whether dating is for you. Your default value is low, so you will either have to massively overcompensate with years of effort, or wait until women's value fall into your default range. Regardless of what you decide to do about women you should still aim not to be a loser, take advantage of your manlet gains and at least be the strongest in any group by far.
>>33914990step 1. stop being autistic
I have no interests and no hobbies and I do nothing except browse the internet and I think people think I'm too interested in things I talked about a few times but lost interest in laterI don't know what to talk about about myself, I'm just a fucking loser who can't commit to anything. Let me give you guys some basic info>I hate music and avoid it because it's feminine and a waste of time and my female relatives were fucking cunts>I'm not really allowed to go outside as my parents think it could affect my face within society>I lost interest in art and painting because I hate artists and I think it's degenerate>I hate smartphones because I had been addicted to them and I stopped using them>I hate the language of my country because I'm in Southeast Asia and it fucking sucks and is pointless>I hate reading anime and manga because I'm above 18 and I'm too old for them(I don't read comics anymore too)>I hate food because I'm pretty much anorexic and I hate eating and I never made food once>There is no home depot or any place over here where I can get things to be autistic with>I have no interest in vehicles>I use Linux but I don't even care about OS autism and I just prefer it because I'm poor>I don't like writing because my parents check what I write and I can't write anything>I don't like singing or speaking because I hate the fact my family could interfere in something>I hate reading books now because other people are doing it and judge meComment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>33927205trees are free. man made structures are free. jumping is free. fast cars are free. lots of easy free ways to do it. plenty of CHEAP ways too!
>>33927204I can't be around more people because I can't find them in general and I don't know if I'd ever share hobbies with themI can't speak to them because I don't think I'd trust them because of my family>>33927208I have considered jumping from an apartment but it's risky.I don't know if I should go out to a truck at midnight. I hate how everything is made harder
>>33927180>i lost interest in owning animals since it wouldn't be personal for me>i have no interest in sports because i couldnt develop one because of the social aspect>i hate meditation and breathing and ritual bs since i feel like its all a cult>i hate photography since it feels like something for rich people>i hate vtuber shit since i feel like its weird>i hate gambling and i'll never gamble>i don't like alcohol or drinking because i feel like it'd be a scam and i'd get into trouble>i don't like ai slop and i'm tired of it>i dont like medicine because i feel like its all fake and it worsens everything and i avoid pills as much as i can(i sometimes need them for vitamins and supplements)i guess im gradually beginning to hate the internet as well but im addicted to this site
>>33927266I also feel entirely purposeless. I don't know what to do. I hate how suicide is made illegal. I just want to be free. I wish I had a sense of self like people with autism, my friend told me once about how he wished he had autism so he could draw something he'd been making, I wish I'd something similar. I hate how it's all so miserable and pointless.
>>33927180Bump
So apparently women think being in a relationship is going to make them miserable. That's what one of them told me when I asked them why they don't want a relationship.How the fuck then do I get a girlfriend if this attitude is what I have to face before they even meet me?
>>33925649>Woman kisses defendant who attempted to murder her with five gunshots during triallol come on that can't be real
>>33926523Brazil is a special sort of hellscapehttps://telegrafi.com/en/tried-to-kill-him%2C-the-new-weapon-kisses-his-lover-in-the-middle-of-the-trial%2C-I-forgive-him-because-he-is-good/
>>33926544Daaaamn... that's crazy
>>33925723This is a cope. Women seek multiple partners so they are able to acquire different resources. You are correct that ideally women want a man who can provide all resources in one package (genes + status + physical resources) but this is rarely the case. So women engage in strategic pluralism (surely you've heard of this if you know evolutionary psychology), ie beta bux alpha fux.
>>33927164>So women engage in strategic pluralismAnd society responds by making female infidelity punishable by death for most of written history across multiple cultures.
For some reason I don't like being in relationships with non virgins, it's like if a girl has even kissed another guy or especially had sex with them I see them as disqualified from a life partner or someone worthy of love so the relationship is doomed from the start and no matter how much fun we have or how good the intimacy gets its like I know something is past its expiration dateHow can I change this mindset, there are so few virgins that aren't insanely fat or mentally ill
>>33926003Actual good advice. I can see the chad in you
>>33926061Catholic schoolgirl syndrome?
>>33926126She's a Jehovah's witness actually, her dad abandoned her at a young age and her mom is a convicted felon, counterfeited money, did drugs, and I think she's a former alcoholic, so clearly the dad did the right thing leaving that psycho, and the mother is one of those "born agains". I always attract girls from broken homes.
>>33926195>Should I go through with it? She claims she's a virginProbably this kinda attitude is attracting them
>>33925692The hymen is also biology
>Was a tranny>Dated a bi guy for a bit>Seemed to view me as a woman but said weird things like "no guys into trans girls are completely straight">I also had mental issues that would be hard for others to deal with tbf>Criticized me for not doing femininity completely correctly (my nails didn't look right, sometimes my makeup was too much, I didn't dress enough like a girl even though I wore women's tops, etc.)>Claimed trannies needed dysphoria a lot, which made me second guess myself, and so I detransitioned>In general, I felt like I had to agree with all of his opinions and basically shaped my worldview around him, probably not super healthy>After I detransitioned, he was really into me as a guy>My dysphoria didn't come back, ig I made the right decision to detransition even though I was fine being a girl and still lowkey want tits>Fucker detaches from me, develops feelings for a different trans girl, wonders if we should break up>I agree to break up>I knew this whole time something was wrong but was hoping it would go back to what it was like initially>Now I just want him back, but ONLY the version of him that knew and liked me as a girl, that didn't witness the detransition, that didn't get detached, etc.Wtf do I even do? He could have been the one...
>>33926885It's related because my desire to detransition came from specific things he said, and he seemed to be interested in a trans girl right after I destransitioned for awhile
>>33926740He could have been the one to... what? What did you think was going to happen? What do you even think you're doing?Reducing the other person into a fantasy of yours is not a relationship, and neither is sex a relationship. You were both living a fetish hobby sex dream.Get fucking real with yourself, stop escaping reality into these fake worlds you create, and get the fuck ahold of yourself, man.
>>33926893I don't care what he said and neither should you. he's full of shit
YOU WILL NEVER BE A WOMAN
>>33928683The one to be my boyfriend?It's not just a fantasy when it's based on a real period in our time knowing each other. I simply wish it stayed that way
Picrel describes me pretty accurately. 27, never been in a relationship, virgin. Not extroverted or outgoing, never really learned to socialize effectively. Stumbled through college with nothing to show for it. Made just a few friends (and eventually drifted from them), didn’t gain any new skills or hobbies. Manages to luck into a good job and career, which is the only thing I have to show for myself. Tried going to meetups, clubs etc but felt really awkward and wasn’t sure I was wanted. Eventually got comfortable with being myself and stopped trying. But that’s probably even worse, and not sure where to begin fixing myself now
Go to prison, come out as a chad, a suburban single mom will take u
You can try dating apps. They are cancer but who knows you might get lucky. Its like playing the lottery.
Same boat as you, man.
Don't use dating apps LMAO, get a damn hobby
>>33927213Its not too late anon. Other people will tell you it is, but they want to drag you down with them. My best advice at your age (Yeah I'm an oldfag) is to keep your hygiene up to date. Make sure you shower, shave, and hair is trimmed or at least not like a birds nest. Keep your skin clean and clear, your teeth white, and your breath smelling nice. Dress simply, but in something that fits; never more than two handlengths from your body, preferably one. Too baggy and you look fat, too tight and you look like a tryhard. Speaking of fat, exercise and at least keep trim. You don't have to be a /fit/ fag, but you should be maintaining aroud 2,000 calories/day and getting at least 30 minutes of exercise every few days. Eat more fruit and veggies, switch to 0 sugar shit, and drink more water. You should also get a social hobby that gets you out of the house. You don't have to give up video games, anime, or stop jerking to porn, but pick up something where you meet people. Whether thats a book club, an art gallery viewing, local concerts, or shit like that. Also pick up nonfiction books in something that interests you and learn it. Give something beyond your popular media interests to think about. Overall the goal is just to make yourself look put together, and like you have shit going on in your life. Best case scenario is you meet someone, worst case is you pick up a new hobby and interest and feel and look better/cleaner. Good luck.
I’m not the fun girl. I’m not the charismatic girl. I’m not the happy girl. I’m not the cute girl. I’m not the sweet girl. I’m not the innocent girl. I’m not the clingy girl. I’m not a traditional girl. I’m not a feminine girlSo I repeal normie HV men. There is no hope for me
>>33929047the horrors of not being able to fuck chad
How much can I sell this for? It's closed link solid sterling and weighs 41 grams.>No, $60 is not an acceptable answer.
>>33929005>Fuck you.no thanks I'm married.retard.
>>33929007checked>>33928993it's worth about $55 on ebay
>>33929008Listed for $55 not worth $55.
>>33928993did you make it? if handmade you could probably sell it for $100-200 on a market like etsy or something.if it's just some random piece of cheap jewelry you happened upon, the silver content doesn't really matter because no one besides a coin or jewelry shop that can test it will believe it's real, and they will only pay you slightly under spot price anyway. sterling isn't worth much either way.
>>33929006lol. Why?
