Friends, parties, social experiences, sexual experiences with women my age, all the things a normal, developing brain needs. I wasted all 4 years of high school and college hiding from everyone on my computer, now my chances are gone. People my age are getting married, I have no outlets to even meet women or make friends. My life is over, I wasted it. Every day is the same, I work, come home and rot. I wasted my life.
>>34852897The problem of work is, legit people just focus on working from here on. They stop making time for friends or take free time, because now every choice has the consequence of pay cut or workplace politics consequence.Coworkers are in different stages of life, with different priorities. You're there lost, being emotionally undeveloped so your priorities are not even the same as someone your age.If you live in a shithole, infrastructure issues like traffic, extreme economic disparity, makes you stay trapped in a ghetto where there are no clubs and people are always moody at worst and apathetic at best, while places with rich, sane people are gated to invitation only.Personally I was attending japanese classes, there were only autistic introverts there. There wasn't enough people for the next level so I have to wait 2 months to resume. Meanwhile I am a NEET, my work competence is forgotten, and even if I worked I would be underpaid and overworked. I feel absolutely trapped and personal ideas of pride and perfectionism I cling on to aren't helping me to have options open, an economy or any way out. I am rotting.
>>34852885Their fathers failed
>>34852894Women who go to book stores when the Internet exists are performative pornslop-reading feminazis who fantasize about being an underage boy getting raped by an older manAnd they have club tier bodycounts
Damn, are you me from 2001? Be a late bloomer. Change. Do new things and try new things. Change jobs or get a shitty 2nd job doing something odd. If you want things to be different, do different things. You don't need to fake being anything you are not, but you can try new things and see what life has for you. Growth happens by accident at times.
>>34852885Develop your brain now. Chase those things now. Get married or whatever the end goal of all this "development" is
How do you even learn about wines? I work front of the house in a restaurant, I often get people asking me "which one of your wines is the closest to a chardonnay? which one is dry? which one is fruity?" and I have no fucking clue, nor does anybody else in the restaurant, the bottles have absolutely no information written on them about this shit
>>34852474>Works at a restaurant >Not a loserBetter start drinking boyo
>>34852474Not really. There's 3 layers : people who drink wine. People who worry about the wine they are drinking. People who actually know about the wine they are drinking. The last category are mostly professional tasters or sellers. The middle categories are what you call the """psuedo-intellectual""" (wtf that means). The first category is the vast majority of wine drinkers.
Truth be told, wine enthusiasts are pseuds. Anyone know that event where some sommelier won with a cheap gas station wine that he labeled something fancy, and they all began comparing tastes and praising the fruity nutty blah blah flavor and astringency and shit? It's bullshit most of the time.Rules to make yourself appear knowledgeable to normies: 80% of all wines are dry. When in doubt, call it dryAll frizzante are dryPorto is sweetRed is more astringentWhite is more flavourfulRose is for women, but it's generally dryer and more tasteless than red or white, but for some reason women love it (probably marketing magic)Spritz is wine with mineral waterYou drink wine to wash the palate after eating greasy acidic food, in a restaurant setting, you don't drink wine to "get drunk"Wine "names" are from the type of grapes that they're made from. So a "chardonnay" is a wine made out of the chardonnay variety of grapes.
>>34852439It's all bullshit. Make it up as you go and watch them lap it up
>>34852439Taste all of them and memorise the adjectives used to describe themOr just ask your dumb n@ger customers to ask AI instead
dropped out of highschool a few years ago and have been a neet ever since. im turning 20 in a few weeks which im dreading.my parents said that theyd be willing to pay for me to go to community college if i can find some way to prove to them i wouldnt just drop out again. proving that to them would probably take at least a year as id need to enroll in some kind of program and stick with it long enough.im super autistic and retarded, never really had any friends, and super afraid of social shit so im wondering if it would even be worth a shot or if id just be some weird old guy amongst a bunch of teens.google says its perfectly normal for college freshmen to be in their 20s or whatever but i dont trust it so im hoping to hear from people with real experience of what college is like.
>>34850337correctif it's any consolation, everyone over the age of 21 unanimously thinks it's retarded when people your age ask "am i too old?" when it comes to literally anythingyou could potentially even become a professional boxer if you got to work right now. Deontay Wilder had a hell of a career and began in his 20s, despite most other pro boxers starting under the age of 10
>>34850311perfect age, go for it>i'm too old or young for Xyou will waste your life if you respect these thoughts
>>34850311Job market is fucked, your best bet is to become a professional sports player, I know a lot about sports so I can give you a few tips.
>>34850311no dude thats probably the average age there holy shit
>>34850311Get a job
So I was talking to this girl I matched with and we talked for a few minutes. Made me feel like she was interested. Turns out she was never interested, she was just fucking with me for shits and giggles to humiliate men who have the audacity to try and find women online and then called me a loser before she blocked me.How do you detect if a girl has this intention early on so I don't waste my fucking time and energy on them?
>>34849326That sounds like what a mentally ill woman would do anon. You missed out on unforgettable sex.
>>34849326>she was just fucking with me for shits and giggles to humiliate men who have the audacity to try and find women online and then called me a loser before she blocked me.What a bitch. Sorry you had to deal with that, OP. Damn.
>>34849326report the profile to the site, I've had good results getting rude people banned.
>>34849326all I know that people who make fun of other people are deeply insecure about themselves, why would a mentally stable person waste their time trolling like this?, probably even a botwish you the best, OP
>>34849326It was only a few minutes so, it's not as much of a waste as other flakers
A therapist once asked me to think of a time when I was happy. I had no answer. Years later, I have very complicated answers.I was happiest when>I was with my first gfI also drove myself insane trying to get her to hold my hand when she wanted to date with no physical contact. Don’t really want to dwell on this one, so let’s just say it’s as weird as it sounds.>when I was the best at my job.The company was greedy and paid little. And it was a dead end gig.>when I saved a dog. This one was okay. But working to support myself means I have less and less time with an aging animal. He’s mostly taken care of by family now. Things I can say I’m proud of follow a similar pattern.>saved a guy in a hurricaneWas only there because I worked with people who hated me. >paid my own way through college. Took zero hand outs.Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>34848752(2/2)>buying products Expensive and don’t care unless they save money in the long run. >entertainment I like discussing it more than watching at this point. Both are fleeting. Just small distractions from life.>gambling I will lose money.>alcohol Only good for its effects. numbing everything, courage. But it still comes with terrible decision making. >weedEither nothing happens or I fall into a memory hole loop and stare out into oblivion. No in between. >workThe only thing that makes money now is building data centers with people who believe the earth is flat and binaural beats is a way better health plan than evil vaccines. “It’s not just sound it’s frequencies.”>familyComment too long. Click here to view the full text.
who's your therapist
>>34848752>date with no physical contactYeah she didn't like you much so you're not wrong to suspect>proves I am not an incel.Needing to prove you're not an incel just proves you are an incelAt least you know you may have dick problems with the not cumming part>numbing everything, courage.Pussyshit. Do whatever you use alcohol to do but without it.>familyFinancial independence from them and their drama becomes irrelevant to youComment too long. Click here to view the full text.
Long story short im 30 and bipolar, major depressive, bad anxiety blah blah blah. I have a good job, friends, hobbies, exercise, etc. but finally got on meds and it has helped a lot. Only taking 25mg Zoloft (I know this is not usually used for bipolar but it has definitely helped keep me baseline and totally killed depression and suicidal thoughtS) but social anxiety still spikes for me. Should I legitimately consider Xanax or will it fuck me up that bad long term? I took it once with booze and it was the best id ever felt
>>34852842>drugs make me feel gooddon't read too much into it. only heavily hallucinogenic psychedelics can reprogram your mind, and that can be a rather unpleasant experience.https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=R3pfsUgtL9A&ra=m
>>34852842can't you just meditate on it instead how painful even is it you didn't clarify
>>34852976Ketamine isn’t a psychedelic and it’s the only drug used medically to” reprogram” patients in the sense of restoring brain plasticity. You can’t walk into a doctor’s office in the USA and ask for hallucinogens, but you can ask for ketamine if other drugs don’t work. Ketamine in a clinical setting is a lot safer for brain reprogramming than recreational hallucinogen use. John C. Lilly, practically the founder of human brain reprogramming, mainly used ketamine and isolation tanks
>>34852842Zoloft is shit, get on nortriptyline unless you have a heart condition in that case go fuck yourself because I don't know of any decent alternatives.
>>34852842You should just talk to people raw
What do I do if the reason I can't get pussy is my (broken) mind instead of my appearance?
bump
>>34851260women are on pussy strike because of donald trump and in solidarity with that child murderer lady and because it's literal handmaid's tale out there!
>>34851665I just heard about that one. Her doctor had her on drugs but that seems like a flimsy excuse. I don’t go around killing everyone when I’m on drugs.
>>34851260Women are superficial creatures unless you dont damn near rape her during the date or are so socially awkward to the point of being repulsive you should be able to get sex if you are handsome.Make sure not to say stupid crap like I love you or show even the slightest bit of attraction. Not to the point of being casual or boring, you should make her feel weirdly tense. If she is too comfortable then you've lost her.
>>34851260Vaguepost just don't get any then
my gf's mom is threatening my gf if she leaves and moves out, she will be off the will and dead to her. We both are trying to move out of state and we can afford it, but her mother insists on her living here in her house until the day she dies. I told my gf that is a very selfish and narcissistic thing of her mom to pull. It pretty much isn't fair that her mom was able to live her life, and my gf has to rot and waste her prime doing nothing all day at home. Her mother refuses to do outdoor activates, complains about politics all day, fights with my gf because she isn't living some girl boss 6 figure life, and tries to basically control every other aspect of her life. I love my gf and she has been super loyal and amazing for me, I really don't want to lose her over something like this. I understand it really isn't my place to interject, because this is a family matter after all. I would just like any advice on how to help my gf solve this situation as peaceful as possible.
>>34849057With the girl's mom
>>34846470I'm with gf's mom. No mature person in society will respect your relationship if you aren't married. She is protecting her daughter from some horny dude that isn't committed to her. It's good that society is like this. It's for a reason that every culture around the world is like this.
>>34850274>just marry the gf with the insane mom who you will have to deal with for the rest of your life and will never let her daughter do anything she wants with her lifeNigga...
>>34846470Maybe just move somewhere nearby?
interesting how the more evil someone is the more likely the good is blind to it.
23 yoI feel bad.One of my friends had liked me since we were both 14 but I never liked him back.He was diagnosed with cancer in 2023 and died two months ago in June. I took care of him a lot his last year as his condition worsened. In April he asked me if I could be his girlfriend during the short time he had left. I told him that I would think about it.And I did think about it.But I decided that I didn't want to have a relationship with someone I didn't love that way.I never answered him clearly.And now he's gone.And I think maybe I was heartless.Did I do the wrong thing?
>>34852215>Did I do the wrong thing?No, you did the right thing. If I were in your place, I wouldn't even have taken care of him in his deathbed. I won't go as far as saying he tried to use his illness to get some pusy, but that absolutely happened, lfmao
sorry for your loss
>>34852215bro died a simp instead of appreciating friendship no forget about that nigga kek
>>34852215This is a fake story made up by an Indian man so people will reply and the metrics for this site don't look as bad, no one should feel anything
>>34852215Well he's a dead n&gger soBeing his gf wouldn't change anythingEither way would have just been aight time ta yeet
I'm going to have a baby daughter that's scheduled to be born in 2 weeks. what am I in for for the first year? am I gonna be able to sleep at all?also I live in Japan and my wife is a local.
>>34852850If your wife isn't obese, have her sleep next to the baby, this will stop her from screaming.research how to approach "cosleeping" in a safe way without risking rolling on the baby. If she sleeps in a crib she will cry nonstop and you won't get any sleep
1st year:Change a few diapers, make sure your wife has all her basic needs met, manage anything that might kill the baby (some aren't obvious like being close to a heater) , play with the baby a bit every day to keep her calm.>>34852870Cosleeping doesn't stop crying. It kept everyone at our house from getting getting enough sleep from having to move throughout the night. When they're old enough to sleep in a crib let them. The first few nights will be crying nonstop . Pull all nighters playing video games and ignore it if the kid's needs were met. The crying stops in a few days and they learn soothe themselves to sleep. If they keep cosleeping they don't do it on their own.
>>34852870we're thinking about doing cosleeping in the first few months and also we bought a small baby bed to put in between us 2. but she will still wake up crying I think>>34852925the summers here are hot and wet af, I'm thinking if I should lowers the air conditioner temperature to around 25C
>>34852968Keep a thermometer on hand
>>34852850Hm well if the other partner waifu is stay at home then you could just sleep through it
My son is turning 9 and he wants Lego Friends for his birthday. How do I explain to him why he isn't allowed to play with girl's lego sets? I asked him if he wants Lego Star Wars/Minecraft/Ninjago but he wants the lego sets made for girls
>>34852272you never heard of colour theory and mk ultra symbolism? colours and symbols has impact to you.
>>34852519>you know 9 years old aren't stupid, you weren'tI think OP will still have to be pretty careful if he wants the kid to understand. It's reasonable to explain to the kid that he might get teased for playing with a girl toy, but you definitely don't make the kid feel insecure about it.
>>34848659My boy wanted Lego friends too. I told him that, really, they are targeting girls but it is okay because the price per piece is lower and they are compatible with other lego. He got his license, graduated and is having heterosexual sex now.
>>34852272shit you're right i just looked closer I'dve made it a helicopter personally tho even if I wouldn't have "actively picked it out" but then again, I don't really remember it existing.OP would think DS games like Rhythm Heaven are gay.
>>34848659That one's pretty gender neutralAside from the random love heart on the i of "friends"Implying there's something wrong with something this neutral will probably set him up to be a paranoid faggot
I'll try to be as brief as possible. I have a best friend who got married a few months ago. He's extremely happy and so committed that he's looking for a promotion at his job, thinking about his future family. I have mutual acquaintances with his wife because we all studied together. I spoke with one of these people, and we ended up talking about their wedding. The girls revealed to me that my friend's wife had a "love affair" with a guy at a party. I asked who the guy was, andt hey showed me a picture of the guy talking to her.I asked when it happened, and they wouldn't tell me the date. So? Should I tell my friend, whom I consider a brother? They didn't say the date, and I checked the profiles of those involved and didn't find any party to try to find out the date, but it seems that this guy just had sex with her in the bathroom or something disgusting to that extent. Before he married her, we all played Chivalry 2 almost all the time... He must know about this, but it would certainly ruin all his happiness. What would you do?
>>34847777Agreed. Nice quads
>>34847587None of this matters. She isn't married yet and she is keeping her promises to me-m
>>34847752I'm not the one you were replying to, but I'd really like to know, what's wrong with being a virgin? There are a few reasons I can think of, but I don't think they have any merit. Is it because it means you don't mesh with other people? I think that's a good thing. Other people tend to be horrible, and they do everything they can to extract value from you. Is it because you're failing to extract value from your environment and not being courageous enough? I think entrepreneurship and courage are the values of high functioning sociopaths who dictate our culture. giving up or being entirely overwhelmed are more reasonable responses to the circumstances of being alive, the idea of me being what you and others seem to want people to be is completely out of my headspace. You say basement dweller as an insult which is also common. I don't agree with that either. It's the idea of never having achieved anything, but nobody can hope to achieve anything even if you do leave the basement, get a job and a family whatever. That isn't an accomplishment to me, it's just following exactly what you were told to do. Unfortunately the only way to really accomplish things in the eyes of our society is to kill a lot of people or create / organise something which does that. But it also has to be in line with our values so you can't just go Adam Lanza and slaughter our slaves in training. I do agree with the idea that living for entertainment is very pathetic though. But a lot of people's attitude to sex is really entertainment adjacent though. The most reasonable thing I think you could say about the failing of virgins is that they're neglecting their role as a biological organism. But this is also somewhat unconvincing in my eyes because I think it would be better if biological life didn't exist. Anyway sorry to ramble. I'm curious why you feel the way you do.
>>34847587So she could have had seX with the guy whilst she was single, soWithout details on when it happened, it's pretty useless info other than she's that loose type
>>34847752Why not date a prostitute with that logic? They’re great at sex which is what you want.
i havent felt like myself for the past weekmy best friend and i had a bad argument following them being abused by their boyfriend.i can feel them slipping away from me and i really just dont feel carrying on without my friendid normally never post on 4chan because i know how degenerate we can all be here, but i legitimately feel like im out of options, and im desperate for relief after spending so much time rotting on the couch and crying so hard i throw up.help, please :(help :(
>>34852460What meds are you taking.
>>34852527I hate it when girls talk about suicide.>omg I feel so awful I wanna die, please give me validation chat. If you are going to kill yourself, do it properly and commit to it. Dont just go, >uhh, guess I'll take some pills and see what happens XD.Attempting suicide by drinking pills or cutting your wrist is just bait for attention because you know it probably won't work.If you cannot set a date, use lethal means like a gun or a noose and do it without any warning, then you dont really want to die. You are just escalating the situation because you are upset.
>>34852542got snatched by the sheriffs office; they release me to my father because he’s law enforcement. on my way to hospital now.>>34852739venlafaxine
>>34852853Bro why are you on a SNRI, how many times do people have to say, dont take SSRI dont take SNRI they dont work. Before you guys stop taking SSRI and SNRI. Doctors are literally just paid shill.Take nortriptyline.
>>34852353Maybe change friends to one that doesn't choose abusive boyfriends then let others cop the consequences of their own bad decisions
TONE CHECK: based on this text message how does this person feel about me
>>34852440I'm just curious how it reads from a completely objective third party
>>34852448It was less objective when you omitted the gender. When I thought it was a male, it was this >>34852019Now that I know they’re female it changes fucking entirely. Objectivity does not involve concealing relevant data.
>>34852501ok sorry anon. What is your take on it now?
>>34852524I won't make any big assumptions, but she seems to at least consider you a friend (or potential friend if you haven't known eachother for long).btw op, since you're autistic you should ignore this kind of advice>>34852020Men like this are just autists who were hurt/lonely during highschool and never recovered from it. It's easy to interpret a woman being your friend as sadistic manipulation when you can't intuitively read social cues. Guys like this cope by dragging other men (especially younger men) into their self-inflicted despair. Just ignore them.
>>34851987They wanna keep talking to you
>>34846944There are men that are porn addicts and there are males pretending to be women/old karens that want other men to waste time on unproductive obsessions.
>>34846944Ive looked at fatfurry porn almost daily for 10 years and women still like me. Just take a shower bro
>>34846856I don't think this is degenerate. What is degenerate is watching porn and being isolated from women, being afraid of women. Enjoying and embracing women whether is your gf, side chick, escorts, auntie/cousin it's all natural if you are a man with high testo. A man with urges and high testo doesn't suppress his needs, he fulfills them.
>>34846760You just do it to replace porn with a reality porn
>>34846760Treat them like hired whores who are there to fuck you and all you have to do is say hi how's the weather.
