There's just no recovering from this, is there? I can't believe this has happened. People from my high school are probably going to be settling down soon and I still haven't even had sex just once, something that was supposed to happen when I was a teenager. I can feel my anger at women and society rising exponentially each day. I just hate this all so much.How can I turn my life around? I'm in decent shape, I go to college as I made obvious, I socialize with my friends, we go to bars together etc. Some girls hit on me/ ask me out every now and again.I have kissed 7 girls and held hands with two. So why the fuck am I an incel still???
>>32621292so it seems like having sex is ur only problem cuz everything else looks more or less according to plan. this isn't a big problem to have in the grand scheme of things desu. i would assume since you've posted here that means you reek of desperation irl which is probably ur biggest problem. other than that if you could also just be getting in ur own way by over thinking everything.me and my friend came up with this word for you. it's called a sex-cel basically you done a lot of the things leading up to sex but just never crossed that final benchmark.
>>32621429If anything i'm the opposite of desperate. Lots of girls have told me that I come off as gay or asexual .
>32621292You should get it through your head that women will never like you, and that it is impossible for them to do so. You obviously have a lot going for you, the reason why you haven't found anyone is probably because of your personality and opinions/ beliefs. I'm 22, 6'5, decent shape as well, and wrapping up a master degree. I'm also diagnosed with ppdnos (autism lite) and have socially unacceptable beliefs, which likely you hold as well. Being attractive/ well accomplished doesn't mean shit. They want you to be socially adept and care about their bullshit. Only care about yourself, that is all that matters. The quicker you realize meaningful human connection with a female is impossible, the more clearer the rest of your life will be. I had this revelation a couple of years ago, and since then I recently had the opportunity to date (to marry) a girl I would have fallen hard for before I got what is, in essence, blackpilled. But now, I'm not even attracted to her. Dedicate the rest of your life to intellectual achievements and other things worthy of your time and effort, not towards becoming a slave to a female.
>>32621440Why are women so repulsed by men with autism or anxiety but are sacrifical lambs for cluster B men. The actual dangerous mental cases. The violent, manipulating fuckers. Always strikes me as odd that women accept, or even adore, one kind of deviancy but hate the other more benevolent kind
>>32621292>Girls ask you out regularlyI don't really get asked out, only rarely>Kissed 7 girlsHa, what a whore!
>>32621473I get approached by girls sometimes but it never goes anywhere. >>32621473>>Kissed 7 girls>Ha, what a whore!maybe if I was 11.
>>32621457Women are not attracted to men with autism because autism is completely the opposite of their way of life. Individuals with autism who are high-functioning and intelligent understand the social game but refuse to play into it, even to their own detriment. For women, their only method of communication is indirect; the meaning they convey is outside of their spoken word. They are inwardly repulsed by anyone who doesn't participate in that, and more so, someone who refuses to allow them to participate in that as well. Additionally, women are largely surface-level when it comes to insight; their interests are infantalized and menial, and hard to relate to. They are the precise opposite of pragmatic. In this regard, what matters most in someone is not their specifc interest, but the intensity of the passion and depth of understanding and appreciation for whatever it is that one devotes themselves towards. For nearly all women (and for almost as mamy men), this sole trait is impossible, yet it is a necessity for someone with autism.
>>32621439>>32621478>If anything i'm the opposite of desperate. Lots of girls have told me that I come off as gay or asexual .>I get approached by girls sometimes but it never goes anywhere.It sounds like you aren't making the first steps towards sex. You're the one who is supposed to make it go somewhere. Have you ever tried to escalate things past kissing?
>>32621596>It sounds like you aren't making the first steps towards sex. You're the one who is supposed to make it go somewhere. Have you ever tried to escalate things past kissing?well I just treat them like human beings. I'm not overtly sexual but I do feel I show sufficient interest. Once a girl I was on a date with told me that she masturbated thinking about me and asked us to go back to a hotel. I was honestly taken aback so I didn't say much of the same to her but I did kiss her and show affection in other ways.I rarely get to that point. usually the convo just turns dry quickly.
>>32621621>well I just treat them like human beings.Humans beings are horny. If you're attracted to her you should have the human decency to reciprocate when she wants to fuck. >Once a girl I was on a date with told me that she masturbated thinking about me and asked us to go back to a hotel. If this didn't get you excited then you may very well be asexual. Were you actually attracted to this woman? Did you feel the NEED to have sex with her? You might want to think on if you want sex because it's a visceral sexual urge you need fulfilled, or if you want sex because you think it's an important milestone that you need to achieve. If it's the latter, then you might actually be asexual.
>>32621647>If this didn't get you excited then you may very well be asexual. Were you actually attracted to this woman? Did you feel the NEED to have sex with her?yes I was attracted to her but it was our second date and I was happy just sitting in the bar making out with her. We actually did go back to the hotel then but the fag at the reception said they were booked out. I don't know why because I know they weren't, I think he was just mad that I didn't book online. We said we'd do it on the 3rd date but later she texted me saying that i'm a nice guy but we just don't match etc etc.
>>32621647I'm definitely not asexual. I masturbate often and it's to women and I paid for sex 20+ times while being a broke teenager on neetbux.
>>32621683>I paid for sex 20+ timesSo are you a virgin or not?
>>32621292peak of satisfaction might very well be correct. Any negatives in my life are tiny
>>32621729I'm an unpaid virgin. I kissed, held hands and hugged without paying though.
>>32621292I lost my virginity graduation week. Just keep yourself open to possibilities. In my case a girl I always thought out of my league suddenly asked me out. (She said she had tried to flirt with me before but I never noticed because I assumes it was unlikely.)
you don't want sex enough to make the sacrifices necessary to attain "it"procreation and ""socialization"" are not the meaning of liferelax buddy
>>32621292I did it. Its awful.If I could go back in time, Id start fucking whores at a younger age.Anon what you need to realize is that nobody loves you. I mean this literally, in a physical sense. Listen to what the universe is telling you & live for yourself.Also, have you considered fleeing the country?
>>32624475What an ugly thing to say to another human being. "unlovable". Literally impossible for a social creature to be incapable of feeling love. Crawl out your own ass.
>>32621621> I'm not overtly sexual but I do feel I show sufficient interest. If they think you are gay or asexual this cannot be true lol. Crank it up a little bit. More direct and still respectful, your dick will be wet before the snow melts
You keep posting this thread so I’ll keep posting my reply to you. Please Instagrammaxx (you’re clearly not a truecel if women are hitting on and kissing you so this can work for you)I’ve never had the most success with women until I started using instagram. I go to large local instagram accounts (colleges, unis, bars, clubs, local ecelebs, etc. Use your imagination). I then look through the followers and likes, and then I follow girls who I think I can get but who are also still attractive (ie girls with lower amounts of followers are easier than girls with larger amounts). If they follow me back, I dm them. If we get a conversation going, I ask them out. All you need for this to work is a decent pfp of yourself.
>>32624443What sacrifices? >>32625606I literally don't have anything to post of myself though, not even a pfp. I just don't have good pics and can't really get them either. I don't meet the looks requirements for any online shit. I need to meet foids irl .
>>32621292>There's just no recovering from this, is there?For you: no.You have the shitty "judge my self worth by what I lack" mindset, which will make you miserable and anxious for the rest of your life, and it's your fault for refusing to switch mindsets. For you, it's over.For someone else in your position it'd probably be fine.
>>32621457>Why are women so repulsed by men with autism or anxiety but are sacrifical lambs for cluster B menWomen don't want to be happy; they want their stress to be someone else's fault.
