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How common is for a prostitute to have a BF or a pimp? I asked a prostitute for her number and she was happy for a bit? Isn't it common to get their numbers? Also what is the correct way to ask for a phone number, I told her if I could have her phone and she was confused she thought I wanted her actual phone. Anyone knows what the rates are? She wouldn't say prices she said there was different prices and that she could spend the whole day. Is that common? I asked what is the shortest time she could do it for and she said 20 minutes but I think that price was a bit excessive. What are my chances to get it for free if I buy her pizza or something when she is not doing anything, would that work. Maybe I could make her my gf, I don't care. I don't care about anyone's drama, I want advice please. She is young woman with a big ass and amazing sounding voice. Pic not related. I couldn't resist her, she was so brazen wearing a pink top and I don't know what the hell was her bottom was but her ass was fully exposed I never thought I see that in real life I thought that was just something you see in 4Chan gifs from LA women women. It was on a busy street and I had to ask her in front of a lot of people. Anyways when do you think I should contact her.
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>>34334746
Her profile say she doesnt do prostitution.
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>>34338162
You are forever to be known as Weak Ass Zingga. Also screenshoting this to reply that to you everytime I see you.
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>>34338219
I ain't weak but I am zingga tyvm
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>>34338215
>Her profile say she doesnt do prostitution.
its not prostitution
she is a consultant
> if you end of having sex, well, then...uh....yknow thats what adults do sometimes
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>>34338194
>NTA but the ones you posted are expensive.
i've blown waaaaaaay too much money on this shit. I've quit the past year, but the thrill of the chase can be addictive. It can be whatever you want it to be because you can't make mistakes when you know what you're doing.
mongers fuck it up when they don't control everything and know exactly why they are doing what they're doing

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I met them at a boardwalk/marina, it was late and nobody else was there.
I try meeting other uncanny people by walking at night. They walked up and tried talking to me, I kind of brushed them off first so they walked away. They walked past me again, so the cute one said "you're just out here all by yourself you seem lonely, want to walk with us?" She asked my age because they were 18 and gen Z is obsessed with age, but I'm 20 so it worked well. We talked from midnight to around 3AM, I convinced them to buy me shit when we left, on the way back the cute one said she thought I was fun to be around and interesting, so she told me where she works at the city center and to see her there. I had been awake for 48 hours, I forgot to just ask for her number. My apartment is like 2 minutes from where they both work, so I kept going there and annoyingly failing at getting to talk to the cute one. Weeks later I ran into the normie one and told her to put her phone in mine to get ahold of her friend, she does. She said, "I've been seeing you around here alot" I live right there, so only because that place is dogshit. Next evening the cops knock on my door over "shady guy", then I noticed the number she gave me was fake. What lesson can we learn?
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>>34336916
They’re working with the girls dude. I don’t know the full angle. But there are a billion creative scams like this.
Ask yourself, how did the police know where you live? Why are the police wasting their time when you didn’t commit a crime? Women can barely motivate the police to investigate actual rape.
I would encourage you to talk to women but why is a group of women walking the street at night? If they wanted to find men they’d be at a bar. They’re looking for people to fuck with and they found you.
You said yourself you were trying to find other uncanny people, I’d say you found some.
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>>34336997
>there are a billion creative scams like this.
>why are the police wasting their time when you didn’t commit a crime?
I'm still curious what the actual motive would be as if I'm something worth the radar.
>how did the police know where you live?
They found my address because we drove past my apartment and I pointed it out, if they asked her and she told them the location and my name that gets it. If they hadn't known that it wouldn't be worth finding. I still need to reorganize tracks in databases to work against that also.
>I would encourage you to talk to women but why is a group of women walking the street at night? If they wanted to find men they’d be at a bar.
Typically yeah, but they aren't old enough to drink, and I prefer to think backwards from that normal way of looking at things because things you can actually take control of start where nobody looks or intended for it. It's not strange where I live for people around my age to go out and walk near the tourist area even late at night. I even walked to the kangaroo across my block at 3AM and saw a cute alt-girl buying some snacks. There's just something about abundance of people that turns me off, this county is pretty urban and I hate driving to work. I cut off every single person I can in this traffic.
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>>34336365
>awake for 48 hours
Speed users have the strangest outcomes, you sound like a targeted individual
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>>34336642
probably put a 10 block restraining order or something, make you move.
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Shiggy diggy

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Had a one night stand with a girl a few weeks ago and she keeps texting me demanding money. She first demanded money for an STD test. Sent her the money plus a uber drive (I also got tested, all negative), then she demanded a doctor visit expense because the lube we used gave her a bad reaction supposedly the next day (I said no), and now 3 weeks later is demanding payment for a pregnancy blood test because she supposedly missed her period (even though I pulled out). I didn't think she would be this crazy. Should I ignore her? We were both consenting adults here.
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>>34338078
Just block her
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>>34338078
Congratulations you're gonna be a daddy.
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Why do you retards never wear condoms when fucking whores on ONS?
>UUUHHH BRO, IT'S NOT REAL SEX IF YOU DON'T DO IT RAW
Have fun paying child support for 21 years.

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This is going to sound ridiculous, but. I read Meditations a while back, and while it gave me an extreme level of calm and serenity throughought a very tumultuous time in my life, I feel I took the wrong things from it and just became an unresponsive passive doormat for people to walk all over. It's like I just yield but I don't ever stop yielding. How do I re -read it aaaand gain some backbone/assertiveness? And not implement a twisted version of stoicism/assertiveness manifesting as lanquidness/cowardice? Anyone have any books/advice for this?
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>>34334605
hmm
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>>34334600
he had the gladiator killed and made his wife bathe in his blood.
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>>34336303
that's what I'll do now if my future spouse ever cheats.
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>>34334585
just reread, dum dum. the courage to be disliked is also good
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>>34334600
>>34336303
The entire thing was a fabrication by Jewish historians FYI

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I am a naturalized US citizen and I'm brown.

Is it possible for ICE to detain me and then strip me of my citizenship and deport me even if I didn't do anything wrong?
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A more relevant example than Abrego Garcia is the case of this lady:
https://www.cbsnews.com/baltimore/news/maryland-mom-ice-deportation-dulce-consuelo-diaz-morales-u-s-citizenship/
https://www.theguardian.com/us-news/2026/jan/09/maryland-woman-us-citizen-released-ice-custody
>Dulce Consuelo Diaz Morales is a United States citizen by birth. She was born in Maryland on October 18, 2003. That fact is supported by a certified Maryland birth certificate, contemporaneous hospital records from Laurel Regional Hospital, affidavits from individuals who were at her birth, elementary school records, and Maryland public health immunization records beginning in infancy.

She's a us citizen and her case is ongoing. She has a birth certificate, but the government is claiming it's fake or something.
I don't know if there's anywhere I can read the documents that have been filed in the case, or if they're public.

So, I would tell OP this: make sure you have get your US passport to help prove you're a citizen.
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>>34323197
>Obviously yes it’s happened to many people
That's not exactly true. Specifically the part about citizenship being stripped, that's extrememly hard to happen Deportation is also rare.

Citizens have been arrested by ICE though. Sometimes its because they assume any brown person was born outside the usa. Sometimes its a show of force.
The more meatheaded types who like to skirt around (or ignore) laws get emboldened when the president's top men are doing nazi salutes as in >>34330074 (see picrelated for alternate angle).
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>>34330074
>>34334871
>elon's nazi salute
oh fucking kek
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I am a motherfucking US Citizen!!!
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>>34326358
>be me
>sees thumbnail of president trump making a fist
>thinks trump gonna do the elon nazi salute
>motherfucker just opening a bottle of water instead

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he’s a cringe RP WoW player who recently met a woman from New Zealand who’s a decade older than him, & has a tween kid. I find out about this woman like a week or two ago, then a few days ago she tells him she loves him. I’m told “being in love again triggered her anxiety pretty bad about bad ex, had nightmares”
Wat do? my buddy is acting like a retard. Ik he has some dough saved as well.
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>>34337868
Whatever the case may be, I take it one step at a time.

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Does anyone know a free phone app or phone text messaging app. I asked for a girls phone number but I don't really have phone service, could anyone help please, I tried a few but they weren't really free.
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Help

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I've already been in support groups but for less heavy topics so idk what to expect

not worried about talking about these parts of my life when the setting specifically calls for it

but I'm afraid to do the thing again where I revictimize myself by learning about awful shit that happened to people I care about and my short-term memory gets fucked up afterwards because of that

maybe at some point it'll help being confident with speaking about what teenage me went through at the time to my family but they're shit at actually listening

do you think I should go meet other damaged people or just keep all this to myself?

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I'm getting an associates degree in maths at my local community college. is there any reason to finish this? Or any bachelors I can go for afterward that won't completely fuck up my life? I'm 32.
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>>34332288
I am a data engineer
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>>34332288
>>34332929
Math gets a lot harder after calc 3. Many of the things you do will be proof-based. Calculus is pretty easy because you are really just applying the same patterns over and over again. It gets harder in later classes since you actually have to be more creative in your solution.

But remember, math is not immediately applicable anywhere. As a math major, you need to learn another skill on top of that. The most obvious choice would be programming. It sounds like you can code already, so you already got a great start.
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>>34332948
>>34332929
I haven't programmed anything in 10 years. I still remember the basics but looking at my old code I'm too fuckign retarded to think of the solutions I did back then.

I really think I fucked up choosing this major. I will probably finish this semester out and then give up. Only 2k down the drain out of my savings. After that I don't even know.

But thanks for the advice I really needed to hear it. If I'm struggling with calc II and while I can occasionally think flexibly and come up with a "creative" solution I just don't have the spark of insight anymore.

I also fucking hate programming.
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One final bump for anymore advice.
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I have an associates degree in math. Isn't it one of the most useful associates because you have all the required math classes covered for STEM degrees? I'm confused.

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Title says it all. I'm spent. Entirely. Even my credit cards are maxed out. I had a great temp job that ended back in September, but as of yesterday, the money is all gone. I applied to that same job, but they're dragging ass on rehiring me. I know getting another job is important being broke as shit, but I feel like I'll fucking lose it if I have to go back.


If I call the bank and tell them straight up
>I have no money.
>I can't makw last month's or this month's payment

Will they try and reposses the car? I say try, because it's been stuck at the dealership since before Thanksgiving waiting on a new engine.
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what are you like 16? banks don't care, they're just a storage box. if you don't make your car payment there is a legal process that, if you don't ultimately come up with the money, they'll just come and take their car back. it's not your car unless you carry the title in hand.
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>>34334048
I'm 25 and in a tight spot. Life got in the way of progress and it kinda fucked me. That government shutdown in November and the little hiccup with the DHS budget not too long ago kept me stuck longer than I had planned to be.
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>>34334057
sorry man. I've been there. if it's a solid car you do everything you can to keep it but ultimately it's up to you. there's a reason families form and create wealth together. this might be the time to reach out and see if someone can bail you out.
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file for bankruptcy if your above 50k in debt, wait 3-5 years (depending on country) and you have no debt. ez.

I love my girlfriend so much, why did I cheat on her? Now that I'm about to lose her, I realize what I'm losing. 3 years, gone. What am I to do after her? I feel like my heart is going to break from the thought of losing her, especially like this.
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>>34332358
>I love my girlfriend so much, why did I cheat on her?
Because you are fundamentally a bad person who hurts other people and doesn't care.
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My situation in reverse right now. Gf admitted to cheating and is begging for forgiveness.
Still have to throw away 6 years of my life.
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>>34337273
>>34337656
Shut the fuck up, you vengeful brat
Wrath is a worse sin than lust and will earn you greater torture in hell
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>>34337980
>Muh bible
Relax reverend

You don't need a book to tell you that murder is worse than cheating

I don't know about killing cheaters, but I do know that I hope they lose everything. Unfortunately, the world doesn't work this way. And those that are winning will keep on winning, and those that are losing are likely to keep losing or just stay in the same rut they're in
Reverend blackie
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>>34338149
iPhone nigger

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How do I not become envious?
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>>34337785
Well first diliniate between genuine anger or jealousy

If it indeed IS undo jealously then simply recognize that it is a worldly event like if Kim khardasian is wealthier than my it's because she got popular by being stupid etc if someone is muscular they worked out if someone is better looking they have better genetics etc
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>>34337785
Stop comparing yourself to others, only compare yourself to yourself from yesterday/1 year ago/5 years ago etc
if you can confidently say shit like "if my younger self met me from today he would be proud" then you are on the right track
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>>34337785
focus & work towards things which make you grateful for your life, and also be grateful for what you have already
there's no easy trick, but it does become self-fulfilling once you get a ball rolling

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I really should decide what I want to do with my life.
I want to go to uni. I've always been told that I should pick something that interests me, I like design and have been interested in city design so I checked out architecture or urban planing.
>architecture
is a long degree here and much of what gets build today is forced to be ugly and souless by regulation and economic constraints. also I'll need another 3 years of internships after finishing the degree to get a license and the entire filed is filled with ego trippers that make it hard to leave a mark until later in life. that said I really do think that a good building is a work of art and I wish I could add more beauty to the world, I also could lean into urban planing after I get it.
>urban planing
it's a M.A here, fastest way to get it is by a fast track program studying geography, I think it's a cool job and definitely wish I could have an impact with it but I talked to a few professionals and it seems that the money is quit bad. not poverty but I will not have an easy life doing it.
>other??
I was good with maths and physics in high school and could get into mechanical engineering or data science but I'm hesitant on giving up the urban design idea.
I've been parallelised with indecision for a month and the deadline for signing up is approaching.
how the fuck do I choose? this seems like the single most important thing I could choose in my life so far but I haven't done enough to know what I want or like to do for a living.
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just pick one, you could always change course later if you don't like it there
I know people who did the same, i.e. going from a STEM degree to something else, just do what you like

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Are there any tricks to lasting longer during sex that actually work
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>>34328354
I get far enough to satisfy the woman, though, it's not a problem about not being able to keep up, it's more like "well, that's not interesting anymore". I know that because they get smiley and cuddly after. I learned to end it with "I'm gonna come, kneel" and finish it myself on her face or tits or mouth or something.
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>>34332865
>>34328354
Forgot to mention you're not wrong
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>>34332866
We all are to some degree.
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>>34335345
Ain't that the truth.
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>>34311198
I thought that was m00t in drag

My girlfriend and I have been dating for over half a year now and not soon after we met it was apparent our views were vastly different. I'm a libertarian chud and she's a socialist egalitarian who hangs around communists.
She's my first girlfriend at the ripe old age of 24, and I'll admit I sort of forced a filter on myself to not be a giga chud in front of her whenever politics or racial issues were on the table, which makes me a tad bit uncomfortable.
Despite those differences we do get along pretty well. We agreed to disagree for a while and not touch on those hot topics to try and manage a normal relationship. However anytime those discussions surface things get a little tense. Not in the sense of being aggressive toward each other, that was never an issue, but rather each of us take a step back and reevaluate the whole relationship.
Currently, we're going through such a scenario, and I'm really thinking about our future and whether it's really worth dating someone you have to hold yourself back for in an attempt to avoid conflict.
It's been proven over time we cannot simply just ignore certain things. We do love each other a lot and I'm really at a crossroads, because if this recurring friction continues I wager it will result in an inevitable breakup down the line anyway.
My friends are all telling me it's not worth it, what do you guys think? Have you seen or experienced first hand a relationship where a political divide is present? How did it turn out?
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>>34337228
My feelings made me overlook that fact and forgive her
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>>34337239
Do you want to be 28, and only just having the courage to leave this girl? Do you need her to destroy more? What does she build in your life? Will she divorce you if you have kids
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>>34337358
She told me she'd have an abortion if she got pregnant.
>What does she build in your life?
Well, companionship and affection is mostly why I sought out to get into a relationship in the first place. I was quite lonely before and I had a great time with her when we met
>Do you want to be 28, and only just having the courage to leave this girl?
Fair point, and that's what I'm thinking about when making this decision
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>>34336961
bruh. lmao
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>>34336711
>Have you seen or experienced first hand a relationship where a political divide is present?
Not first hand but my great grandpa was a bible thumper who went to confession every week whilst great grandma was a card carrying communist during nazi occupation, happily married for 60 years and had 8 kids together.

The solution is simple, just don't fucking discuss politics, ever, don't watch political news, don't listen to political podcasts, you're never going to change anyone's mind, your vote doesn't matter, focus on that which is immediate aka your girl and the relationship you have together, take her on picnics, take her to movies, take her on dates and for the love of god don't drive her away with /pol/tardation


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