Why did I end up a kissless dateless handholdless virgin at 30 years old, when every single other man I've ever known in my life didn't?
>>34061150https://www.washingtonpost.com/science/2025/02/06/fear-human-brain-mouse-study/
>>34060985It's the other way around. There are way more winners.
>>34060672I used to have kinda low confidence and one day I just completely stopped giving a fuck what people think or how I'm perceived, it's honestly the biggest confidence booster ever; just stop giving a fuck.
>>34054300>Why did I end up a kissless dateless handholdless virgin at 30 years old, when every single other man I've ever kI won't read how the fuck should I know threads.
Bump.I really need advice.
My son goes to the same high school as my ex boss daughter. The guy made my life a torture back when we were younger, he bullied me, humiliated me, and made me feel like I was nothing. Should I ask my son to fuck up his daughter up? I don't care how, if he straight up bullies her or tricks her and makes her a single mom (he is very handsome), I want revenge.
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>>34066576You are a coward who (a) takes working relationships too seriously (b) cant handle his own business like a man. If you had any balls you would move on, if you were thin skinned you'd confront him at the school gates on parents evening or something.
>>34066576You're going to make his daughter suffer for something her father did? And you're about to use your son as a tool to do it? You're about to wreck your son's trust in you, OP. He won't see you the same again.
>>34066576What if she falls madly in love with your son and they get married? Then the bullying will continue for the rest of your life from the rehearsal dinner to the wedding and beyond. even their first born will look at you as a coward.
>>34066576No, that’s insane and brutally unfair to that man’s daughter.I have to seriously question how capable you are as a father for even entertaining something like this.
If you were at the ripe age of 25 and didn't care for the things of the world, didn't care for normal living and had over $200,000 worth of bitcoin in a secret wallet somewhere, what would be a good/charitable way to use this money?
consider also helping kids
>>34066761money can only do things in this world, you could fund a cult of some sort
>>34066844That’s not how gambling works.
>>34066761world central kitchen
>>34066761LARP
Why is the dating scene for nerdy black dudes a nightmare?>just thugmaxx broWomen see right thru that shit if it’s fake
what kinda girls are you going after?
>>34067740>Women see right thru that shit if it’s fakeoh for sure. that's why wannabe thugs and posers are famously without women
>>34068440Literally everything, Latina, white, other blacks, Asian’s. Mostly nerdy girls, approached nearly 65 girls since 2023
>>34068448Yeah what this guy said.Fit into your phenotype. If you're black be a thug, if you're white and tall be an alpha, if you're asian look dignified and smart, if you're Arab or Muslim look like a rat, if you're Jewish stick with your people, if you're Indian also stick with your people Play into your strengths, some peoples strengths are their community/culture. Some people strengths are their stereotypes. The stereotype on blacks can be used to your advantage to fuck ladies.Take me for example: I immigrated to the Netherlands from Israel, I'm not blond or tall so I don't fit with the Dutch girls, and I'm not Muslim so I can't fit into their community. I'm just a white skinned 5'7 dude with black hair and beardI don't fit with nobody here it's fucking over for me, the best I can do is learn Dutch and try to pass myself off as one because occasionally Dutch people are mutts too.
>>34068485>White skin black hairTime to vampire maxx
I have decided to live against the grain now. No more social media. No more traps like porn or weed. I want to move in the future and get to a place where I am untouched by my awful family. I live on my own but I want to go more off the grid. My dad and my brother and my extended family that lives near me are just awful people and they've done things to hurt me while pretending like i'm crazy. Has anyone done it? Has anyone escaped their families awful influence or just been able to find peace on their own away from abusive family?
>>34068270You'll never escape your genetics
>>34068290it's not genetics moroni want to live where they can't reach me can't reach anyone around me or in my life and have no idea where i am. fuck you clown.
>>34068290This board sucks fuck you all losers
>>34068326Getting stuff done is more about developing the habits and executive functioning to do things rather than becoming Bat-Man and commiting you entire being to improvement. You'd be surprised what you can accomplish with just three hours of focus every day. That leaves five hours of relaxing a day after work and sleep.
This just looks like yet another thinly veiled escapism thread. Like we get it, you are going to do your 'perfect day' (in this case this massive life change out of nowhere) and conveniently since it is so unobtainable you'll keep doing nothing in the meantime
>What is /htgwg/?How to Get Women General is by men, for men, about women, so bring all of your questions about getting and dealing with women here. Some anons on this site actually get laid, and some of them even want to help. If you're trying to meet and date women, then this is the place to ask questions, seek advice, and share experiences. We know how hard it can be. We got you bro.>What is /htgwg/ not?These threads are NOT for whining, moping, incels, volcels, MGTOW, hopelessness, or demoralization. We're all aware that meeting and dating women is hard today, and even harder for some, but /htgwg/ is for trying to overcome the challenges. IGNORE the posters who complain, give up, or insist there's nothing they can do. This site has other boards and threads that they can pollute. BE SMART: Spot the bait, don't reply, and DON'T WASTE TIME ARGUING WITH THEM!>How to ask for adviceContext is important: be more specific than "This girl ghosted me, why?" We can't help if we don't know the situation, so try to provide as much (useful) info as possible ("I was at the bar, this chick was checking me out..."). What's your relationship with the girl? How long have you known her? Any conversation screenshots? Etc... Don't forget to ask an actual question.>Resources and Bookshttps://wingman.live/ (AI dating coach)https://pdfcoffee.com/318797392-mark-manson-models-2016pdf-4-pdf-free.htmlhttps://archive.org/details/robert-glover-no-more-mr-nice-guy-id-353324692-size-612https://www.youtube.com/@YourWingmamhttps://www.doctornerdlove.com/blog/Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>34066764Nta but I do care about fags and abortions because its against my religious beliefs, Im Catholic. So do I hide it, or just put moderate or not political? I have conservative because theyre gonna find out eventually when they meet my bros and we start saying faggot and retarded all the time and make fun of dudes who think they can become women by castrating themselves. At the end of the day I would be pretty chill if I could be left alone, own cool guns and not pay taxes, but the past 10 years has shown, I will not only not be left alone but relentlessly attacked for my views that men shouldnt go into womens restrooms.
>>34063107NTA but here you are.>https://ifstudies.org/blog/promiscuous-america-smart-secular-and-somewhat-less-happyI know you won't actually read it and still bang on about "reeee every woman is a dirty lying whore" but whatever, you guys only harm yourselves by believing this nonsense and demoralizing yourselves. Hopefully this will stop others from falling for your blackpill faggotry though.
>>34066831There’s a religion thing on the apps right? Put down Catholic and apolitical or whatever. I met my current gf on an app and we both laughed about having to be undercover conservatives because we didn’t want some left wing psycho doxxing us and getting us fired or fucking up our life.
>>34067035The whole point was people lie in general and it's retarded for you idiots to pretend women specifically don't. I even listed how men lie but you're stuck being asshurt because you can't handle the fact women lie. Unless your little blog includes watching how many women actually act in every day life for extended periods to confirm the behavior either way it's just more cope and trust me bros repeated to infinity. You can't offer anything more.
Girl from the dating apps cancelled our dinner and drinks tomorrow. Said she has the flu, caught from her students at a kindergarten. I think I believe her, but wonder if I fucked something up to give her cold feet. We initially matched last Saturday and the conversation went very well at first, but dried up over the last week. People tell me that if you don't meet ASAP you risk losing interest to a much higher degree? Anyway, disappointment aside I'm glad that I tried and (almost) got a date. Still certainly have the stink of desperation on me, but now I feel like things aren't impossible. Also, shit, that was my only match so maybe I need to start going to bars.
I wanna know what you guys would do on my situation:Im 23 years old and I have absolutely lost my capacity for empathy, i cant feel anything for people, even childs, dogs, etc. To put you an example, yesterday I got into a rock climbing accident: where I was belaying a friend and the rope went out of my hand, and he fell to the ground like from 5 meters, he broke his ankle, I drove him to the hospital, and did everything I had to do technically except apologize to him or even say something upbeating to him, I ruined his summer vacations he was about to go to a trip of rock climbing and now he is unable to do anything. The thing is my brother and father started overwhelming me on how I should say something to him, and I know, but I dont feel anything, I barely can feel sorry for him, it sucks I wish it didnt happen.Anyway this is just an example of how emotionally fucked up I am, and how dulled my capacity for empathy and caring for other is. I cant imagine myself having a gf with this incapacity for feeling for others, I can barely talk to people.So yeah, idk what to do, am I some kind of psycho? I wasnt like this as a child, something corrupted me, and I becoming more cold hearted as time goes on, my moral compass is getting more corrupted and diffuse. Should I kill myself before I keep hurting others?
>>34068299I'd be careful with things like psychedelics. People do things like that and screw themselves up really bad, going full schizo. I don't know much about him, but I know there's a guy that says he's a psychopath that exhibitted psychopathic traits at a young age, going so far as to attempt to kill his father with a hammer, called David Wood, that became a Christian and has a youtube channel. He probably has given testimonies on it and I've seen some things he's said about ways he changed. Might be of value. Nevertheless, your efforts, intent, and seeking will matter. I don't think it will go unanswered.
>>34068357On your pic... I find myself on the instance of acting and speaking, I no longer have a good will on me so I just omit action, wich leads me to being basically a plant, unable to do anything because I only hurt, thats why I dont see the point on keep living. My plans are either get a good psychologist or do psychedelics
>>34068408If you so much as motion your will in the right direction, that's as good a step as any. You can pray and ask God to guide you, to help you, etc. It can never hurt, and even if you don't feel it, like your heart is in it.It's also heavily emphasised in the Orthodox church that even the lowest can be saved, every step taken towards God, God taked 10 towards you.
>>34068441Another thing worth mentioning, it's emphasised in general that the Orthodox Church is a hospital for souls. People with physical illness are quick to go to a doctor, but how many do the same for sickness of the soul?
>>34060866If you wanna go out with a bang my I suggest going after people who make society a living hell?
>met guy in a party>instant chemistry>he asks me out>go for drinks>get insanely drunk>go to the movies>keep drinking>we make out>he puts his hands on my neck>feel like dying or passing out>barely conscious>he freaks out>manage to go to the toilets and puke>he says we should go to his place>say I cant because Im a virginComment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>34067712>Because you don’t deserve such treatment and you need to stop waiting to be saved or trying to save others in hopes they save you in return. How about save yourself? Maybe learn from others on how to do that?you poor girl, you innocent little flower, you're loved, you deserve better
>>34067573Lmao, have you ever met, not mentioning dated, secure type chick? It’s a fairytale and made up story for people who believe in romance and true love
>>34067530>And if you try to break free from their control, you will notice they do not know what mercy is.Oh well youre right on one thing at least
He saw my instagram storyWhy can’t he come to me
Hé cameWe kissed
I don't understand why this is happening if it's like a fantasy or how she sounds specifically. My mom makes noise and for some reason only when it's her am I bothered by it. Anyone else I hear or see doensn't effect me like she does. I have asked her to stop and that only make her into my space more intrusive. I bought headphones for the noise but now she's just louder than the headphones.
>>34068275>My mom makes noise and for some reason only when it's her am I bothered by it.Time for you to move out.
>>34068308I'm disabled and can't
I have an addiction to cam girls. I know it's pathetic. Over the last 10 years, so all of my 20s, I have spent tens of thousands of dollars on them. I managed to get my main bank account blocked by the particular site I used but eventually I just set up a Revolute account to bypass this. Now I'm trying to get Revolute to block my card so I cannot use it anymore to waste money on cam sites but they refuse to do it. My bank also will not block payments to my revolute account. Both keep saying they cannot block specific accounts. I've explained my situation in full to both over live chats. This is very frustrating because im trying to make sure I have no way do to this anymore and I'm being told no.What is my play from here? It's is financially fucking me and did so all throughout my 20s (I'm 31 now). I have tried cold turkey to block the cam site, but the problem is I can just download the uninstaller on my phone and unblock it that way. I'm really desperate and have no clue what to do. I'm not about to be homeless or anything about it but if I keep this up any longer I'm going to be seriously fucked. I do have savings, a few thousand, but it's a pitiful amount for where I should've been. I have no one I can turn to in real life for help, no parents and no friends.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y0zePr-5ilE>>34045900https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nyLXaUbwv2U
Cut the games and just get a hooker.
kill yourself. you deserve to die alone. and they will never love youit is so funny that i am literally LAUGHING OUT LOUDt. the og cam girlmilkbonez
>>34067258Have you joined a 12 step program?
Start finding aa more positive outlet than gooning. Do exercise, hobbies and reading.
Every year there seems to be a new pain/inflammation in my body.I was fighting gut inflammation for 2 yearsI started getting back and wrist pain which I fixed by doing pullups... Except now I have shoulder impingement and it fucking hurts so bad. I can't even sleep now so I'm just permanently tiredI've reached a point where I just don't know what to do.I'm so fucking frustrated. I eat healthy (I have to), I do cardio a lot, I (did) do strength training (until my injuries).Why does it feel like every part of my body is constantly breaking down???>inb4 go to a doctorJust assume that I am.What I want is prevention so I don't have to go through all this shit...
>>34062158It's called getting old, anon. You learn to deal with it.
>>34062468>>34064617Anon I'm only 29, that's still young for all this shit>>34062518Watched his videos thanks anon, his explanations are pretty goodThose flys and band turn-outs were surprisingly already part of my physotherapy routine
>>34062158Intentional EFA deficient diet
>>34062158high dose omega 3shelminth therapy
>>34062158Try avoiding gluten or other foods to see if that helps
I want a sweet woman who makes soup when I come home and is comfy and cuddly, preferably wearing a thick sweater, and we can snuggle and I just want to eat her face and have very emotional dynamic withAre hardworking women good girlfriends like that?
>>34067435Five seconds with any pre-med or med student will make you run the other way at full speed. They're not hardworking nearly as much as they are neurotic and self-obsessed. Get a PhD wife or something if you want hardworking. Never do doctors or lawyers.
>>34068029>Med students that have to work 18 hour shifts for years on end aren't hardworking but you know who is real personable and well adjusted? PhDs, the highest echelon of academics.Brother you're high out of your mind
>>34067435>Are hardworking women good girlfriends like that?No. Not even fucking close. They are good fucks, but bad partners.
>>34067588Lmao that's exactly what you don't get, it's not just long hours.. it's extremely long hours, that could continue at any moment, and you must be okay with this because you and everyone around you has and feels this obligation to help other people. Everyone is a hostage by definition, they want it but they don't want it. They want to help but they don't want to help overtime but they have to. The things you do are also very difficult. You're dealing with humans when they are at their worst moments. I would personally not be able to take it. None of it.>>34067435Get it into your head: your job doesn't reflect your qualities as a partner in a major way.It's not Doctor = good person or beautiful = good person. Cashier at any store could be the most amazing girl and could be the worst. A beautiful lady could be amazing and a mid lady could be amazing.There's little to do with their job. But what you know for certain is that a doctor will be an overworked mess and a cashier will be thinking about when she can finally come home to eat and fuck you and sleep
no doctors are good to date. doctors and nurses attract the same personaliry disorder as cops, they can't chill and want control over people and the power over life and death just to make themselves feel big. there are like 2% just normal humble good ones but the vast majority are broken
why do i find john wayne gacy's paintings comfy? have i lost my mind?
ice cream truck vibes
Dwarfs, famous for being taller than trees
When the Kite Strings Pop...
Give me suggestions for a Secret Santa gift, 15 euros tops.Recepient is a man, in his 30s, IT nerd (but doesn't read books).
half-eaten kfc burger
>>34067421nice set of micro screwdrivers from Temu and a a Terry's chocolate orange.
I am visiting a big city and I can't help but see all the people and think about how we might as well be ants. There are people everywhere you look and it seems like I am just insignificant. Does anybody else feel this way sometimes? Especially when you visit a big city.
>>34068060Yeah, and the USA military predicts that 65%+ of the human population will be urban by 2050, and most military engagements will take place underground.
>>34068060We are insignificant. Doesn't matter though.
>>34068143How do you cope with this?
>>34068167to quote LCD Soundsystem, you realize it's the farthest you can live from the government. You really are insignificant and on your own. It's freedom you can't get in small towns where everyone knows everyone
