If you'd like, please listen to this 3 second recording. Do you hear a faint man's voice? Can you make out what he's saying?https://vocaroo.com/17XNolZkQ2a2Thank youPic unrelated
>>34854370This isn't a chat room, it's an advice forum. What do you want advice about?
Why do I get more satisfaction our of communication online like on 4chan than real life? I literally find reading about anons shitposting about terrible movies more fun than my co-workers/families lives. How do i change this?
>>34852084Meet new people, ones not forced to be around you like work or family
>>34852084On here you can say whatever wild shit, you want. You can pretend to be someone else, someone you aren't in real life.
>>34852084because co-workers and family you usually have to keep the discussion to a limityou can't reveal your power level without becoming a walking hr problemyou can get lucky and be born into an open minded family or have a job with more free wheeling coworkers (maritime, fire, trucking, oil), but you don't get to choose these people like you can with friends.online you can be anonymous for the most part. the trick is finding friends you can be a loose canon with
>>34852084People post things online exclusively to maximize attention, especially on other platforms where they might pay you for it. Of course what they have to say here is more interesting.Most real life conversations serve a purpose, like talking to someone at work, or if someone needs your help.Not every conversation needs to be an interesting story or funny joke. People make fun of small talk all the time but if you can't honestly and unironically speak with someone about the weather or a movie that just came out how are you supposed to talk to them earnestly about serious issues?
>>34852084you would need self-induced brain damage to be able to relate to normies atphttps://www.bitchute.com/video/4fcKwaMO8sGr
>tired as shit and worked like a dog>no bonus, no overtime compensation, haven't been allowed to take an annual in 2+yrs>had a break down and just quit at the start of the month>apparently the director complained to some very important people>got handed a "return to work" order by the court with no real expiryI'm supposed to clock-in next Monday, as usual, to the same pay and treatment.I consulted a lawyer and he told me the only reason this passed was because it was ordered by someone "in a higher station". My original contract allows me to walk-out whenever as long as I forfeit my end-of-term pay...I just don't know what to do. The advice I got was to comply, and I'll comply, but what then?There's too much work, too many hours with my head on the line all the time.I can't continue to work there, I just fucking can't. I need an out but idk how.
>>34846653What the fuck do you mean "order" just don't show up, if you aren't reliable they will fire you anyways.You aren't a slave.What a dumb goyim.
>>34846653What's the penalty for not showing to work? Dude this sucks, my blood is boiling on your behalf. At this point, if your employer tries to fuck you over you have to leave ASAP. No sense staying subservient to someone with malicious intent towards you. The good news is, as an engineer, you'll have better opportunities abroad and you can leave whatever shithole you're currently in.
>>34846653So what happens if you don't go
Hey man, did you get arrested for refusing to wagie in a cagie?
>>34846653Go to work and underperform. Document every little thing by sending corporate emails. "This nigger told me he will rape my wife and whip me if this isn't done by 10. It's unreasonable because bullshit reasons. I'm doing my best, sincerely anon".Document psychological torment too and go to a psychiatrist to get prescribed antidepressants. Don't take them but say you are taking them. Go for about 3 to 6 months to the psych and excuse your resignation for health matters.I used to work as a resident in an understaffed hospital. The contract said if I quit I should refund every single salary of the $2 per hour wage on 80h week, and if I graduated I was forbidden to take jobs in the private sector for 3 additional years. I burned out, started becoming suicidal and sought help, the help I found was "Do you want to quit?" Fuck these niggers, they don't need you.
Can someone help me stop being so autistic about this?Basically, I opened up to my gf about some pretty trivial thing. A psychological hangup that in the grand scheme of things is a nothingburger. Near the end of the convo, she said she's here for me, and said: "but I don't want to be your therapist."I kinda get it, I've had to comfort depressed NEET internet friends for ages and it gets exhausting. I try to avoid being that sort of person in general. And for reference, this is about the 2nd or 3rd time I've had a conversation about some anxiety of mine over the course of several years.But her comment really bothered me. Isn't that what love is? I've comforted her wholeheartedly over job loss, family issues, or anxiety that stretched for weeks or months. When it's her, it's not labor to me. It has literally never bothered me. The thought of not being there for her is inconceivable. How could you see the person you love feeling distressed and not want to help them?Am I being a huge bitchboy for wanting the same kind of sentiment?
>>34853109why are male suicide rates and depression rates so high???
>>34853489They weren't strong enough, clearly
>>34853489White lonely guy in his 60s with an easy access to a gun is the most typical amerimutt suicider. Not as dramatic as some people think. He was old anyway and his life was shit. It's understandable.
>>34852941What, so you should go talk to a therapist instead of her? Is she gonna pay up and send you to a therapist because she cares that little about your internal workings? Like what's the deal here, that you shouldn't talk to her about anything that's bothering you? Just go to a therapist or shut up about it and just get over it yourself? That your concerns don't matter and she doesn't wanna know or help solve any of it? Or that you shouldn't need a therapist or have any weak points?Maybe ask her what she even means by "therapist"
Next time she talks to you, tell her youre not her therapist, that with the last talk she changed you into the rapist. Then, u know what to do
I'm racist against people that share my skin tone. But I want to find a woman of the opposite race that also hates those people, that look like me, but is willing to make an exception in my case because I am awesome and nothing like those people.How do I achieve this?
>>34831552>How do I achieve this?Find someone with a severe mental deficiency. Somehow become her primary care giver her. Sex her up. Make her enjoy sex. Pretend she's your wife. Teach her the exact lies she has to expound to fullfil your dumbass fetish.
>>34849914You have to understand that OP is very stupid, likely with some brain damage. Then his delusional world view makes more sense.
>>34852564>oh no you have to stay within your own race>you can't have sex with people of other racesRetard
>>34853196I'm glad race mixing is spreading. Gives these retard neo nazis something to seethe over.
>>34849914>>34852557>>34852564So let me get this straight. So because OP is of a certain skin color, he's supposed to like the same things other people do, hang out with the same people, listen to the same music, have the same beliefs, date the same people, talk the same way as them, speak the same language, live the same lifestyle they do, and what? All because he has the same skin color as them? And he's the retarded one? Bro...
I feel a lot like this guy. Whenever I talk to girls they always cut the conversation short or act completely uninterested. When they do talk to me they end up mentioning their fucking boyfriend or husband.Just the other day I stopped a girl at the gym said she looked strong and to keep it up and she just went went "w-WHATT?!?!" then I repeated myself and she was like "ohh :/". That kind of interaction is typical for me. Its not fair that guys like me have to work 10x as hard to get girls and constantly get rejected just because we are 5 8 and not super chad thundercock 6 pack 6 foot and 6 figure salary.Why does no one talk about how big of a deal this is?
>>34853080Women are defensive to men they don't know in general, not just you. Don't take it personally.Yes, an extremely good looking man might have less of a problem with this but it's still a problem for guys like that too.It has been the case since the dawn of fucking time that most women will reject you. This is because of who they are, not because of who you are. You can either accept that and keep trying until one is interested or you can be alone forever. Your choice.
>>34853080Just keep trying. Think of it as collecting data. Try different approaches until you find something that works.Women will always reject most men and that's true for almost any animal.Just be thankful we're not spiders where rejection means the female eats you.
>>34853080Lower your standards.If you can't afford filet mignon you must learn to appreciate ground beef.
>they end up mentioning their fucking boyfriend or husbandTee hee I have a bf/husband but I'm not going to tell other men tee hee
>>34854254Yeah the alternative is much worse. I had a girl lead me on for weeks before telling me she was seeing someone. She was just bored and wanted my attention and had no intention of getting with me at all.
I struggle a lot with mental health. I think I experience symptoms of social anxiety, audhd, ocd, depression and bpd. I don't want a therapist, I'm scared to get diagnosed as it may not allow me to continue my carreer due to being either deemed too unstable/dangerous or due to meds and maybe I will also lose my ability to drive. On the other hand I do want to get better. But I also wish my parents or teachers picked up on it when Iwas younger so I got therapy and could just refuse to speak and be a problematic child. I want to get locked up, restraint and so drugged that I would just be a mindless zombie. I don't want to get better just get worse and worse and worse.
>>34854145I attempted to kill myself and am on a cocktail of stimulants and antidepressants and was still able to get an engineering job with a defense contractor. It's really not that big a deal.
>>34854152I don't think the meds will allow you to operate heavy/very big vessels and that's a bit of a problem
>>34854175Well my job is at a desk, not a factory floor so that doesn't really matter.
i cant remember the last time i woke up with an erection. what could be the possible reasons? how can i fix this? i am in my mid 20s
>>34850080No more masturbation. Just stop touching yourself.
>>34850687>>34850253how do you even stop jerking it? i cant go a few days without rubbing one out
>>34850080>I dont get morning wood. what is wrong with me?Low T. Get tested, and remember that the avg test of your grandpa's generation was three times bigger than ours, so if your doc says your test is right, it's bcs he is comparing it with other onions j4.cks your age.
>>34850080Well if you're healthy everywhere else then maybe you have a dick problem but if you can still use your dick when requested then I guess there's no issue at all?
>>34850080Are you on any Meds? I am on meds that stop my morning wood and I am happy about it. No more painful erections in the morning. Who the heck wants pain?
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>>34855163>trying not to be classist What I'm getting at is I think maybe you should be a little classist about this. Don't be dating neets or women who make less than 30k a year if you're going on dates wearing suits.
>>34855164NAG but a party girl found out my friend and I were virgins and tried to proposition a threesome with us because she had a virgin fetish. We declined.
>>34855163there r some women who will go on a date just to get free food. i'm just saying you should be careful. hopefully she's not someone like that but it happens from time to time.i still think u should go. i'm optimistic... i don't think it's very tryhard just representative of the establishment that you're going to and your status as well, but if you feel that way then you could always dial it back a notch like the other anon said. you can still have a nice shirt and be semi-formal. or lose the blazer or tie? >>34855173 also this.
>>34855164I never really liked the slutty side of party culture but Ive attended a bdsm orgy.>>34855171Cute. Ive got restless legs though, hope you dont mind anon. :)
>>34855163>Why would they date for a meal?Because they're Fucking women! This is how they are? How do you not know this already?
How do you deal with the retards here if you're a gaijin dealing with Japanese that lack spatial awareness? I live near Tokyo and even though there's usually plenty of space, some of these retards walk straight thinking I'll move aside for them when they can easily avoid me. I don't think it's ever been malicious since most of the time it's because they're walking while staring at their phones or someshit but I'm tired of it.
>>34854020don't movedon't apologizeif you want to be treated like a pickup truck driving, you gotta start operating like one
Uhh I really need someone or else I’ll die
>>34849441why does he look like Bart Simpson?
>>34849341Talk to malesAsk them to be ur bfDo until one agrees
>>34850376I'm sure her liberal arts degree turns you on like nothing else
>>34853382Yes
>>34850342I just looked it up and its fake, waste of my fucking time
How do I come to terms with and accept the fact that I have the inferior version of autism (ADHD)? I've always deeply envied autistic people and their intelligence and ability to do such impressive things. I've always felt like a retard in comparison and have always wanted to think like how they think.
>>34850192Sounds like you have undiagnosed ADHD.
>>34803400This. Autism is a fucking curse i hate it
I'm too self-aware, I suppose the opposite of autism but still consequently unable to comfortably socialise with anyone without monitoring everything I'm doing and saying. Am I a sperg
>>34812561>I'm just smart enough and motivated by pressure that I've never gotten into real trouble, but I'm exhausted by existingThat feels like my situation. I'm smart enough that I've always been able to get by in the end without fucking up my life, but I have nothing to show for it either. I'm going into the trades soon am I am seriously considering becoming one of those guys that just works all day every day because free time seems to just end up making me miserable. Being a worker drone doesn't seem very appealing either but at least maybe I wont feel so worthless.
How do you all deal with forgetting your whole life and personal memories? I constantly feel like a blank slate all the time and I can't recall any significant personal memories even tho I know for certain that big events happened in my life I also can't win any arguments cuz my brain refuses to remember any specific examples of anything
You know that feeling of being on your own and no one caring for you? And it makes you not want to care for anyone else? How do you deal with it?
>>34853586Finding/reconnecting with someone who cares, can be friend or family, other than that I wouldn't know cause I'm in this same mental loop and it started as soon as those contacts had a longer than usual pause
>>34853586Find someone who would reciprocate back you caring for them
>>34853586Basically doing pic rel minus the smoking but I REALLY want to add the smoking
Why does nothing interest or excite me anymore?It feels like there's nothing new under the sun.It's not to say I never feel that emotion towards anything, but it's muted and fleeting compared to how I use to be.I'm not depressed. I used to be. I know what depression is. Hell, I think I enjoyed things more back then. Now I'm semi-functional and have a full time job. Maybe life is just dragging me down. Maybe I'm getting old. Maybe I've experienced everything and there's nothing else out there to discover. I don't know.
>>34853398>Why does nothing interest or excite me anymore?You've fried your neurotransmitters with social media scrolling.
>>34853416this. need to somehow save money to build a cabin in some remote place and I'll become a hermit. How to not kms while still being a wageslave?
>>34853398Did you take SSRIs? Are you stressed about age/competence/expectations?
>>34853404Do confrontational irlshit involving people and relations, not screenshit consooming
>>34853398“Meaningless! Meaningless!” says the Teacher.“Utterly meaningless! Everything is meaningless.”What do people gain from all their labors at which they toil under the sun?Generations come and generations go, but the earth remains forever.The sun rises and the sun sets, and hurries back to where it rises.Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
What's the best way to react when you're at a Target store shopping for headphones and you notice a loss prevention employee suspiciously standing at the end of the aisle casually looking in your direction for a long time? You know, a girl in her 20s, probably doing this as a job while in college, just obviously standing there cause they suspect you might steal some headphones?
>>34849725>I like to sage it sage it>I like to sage it sage it>I like to sage it sage itStop fucking doing that
>>34840527That is a guy right
>>34849807No, why the fuck would you think that?
>>34849807Yes, and he has a big penis.
>>34852114How big?
