How do you cure it? I'm an autistic retard, went through loads of therapy before quitting and taking matters into my own hands. I try to suck it up but I still feel like ripping someone's head off when they chew food around me, sometimes to the point where I start sperging out and have to leave the room. I expose myself to people eating every opportunity I get, but alas, it never gets any better.
Get used to it by listening to yourself chew loudly
>>35027721I've tried that already.
>>35027757Ok now force others to listen to you chew loudly
>>35027718It's a sensory issue. If you can't increase your tolerance through exposure, you're fucked until medical science can find a treatment.t. autist waiting for a cure for autistic overwhelm
>>35028051What pisses me off is I never had any of this shit before puberty
My girlfriend has a huge vibrating wand, a dildo, and just purchased some shit that mimics being eaten out. NGL, I am pretty insecure about it. I have fucked around 20 other women and have been able to make all but a few of them orgasm. Apparently, I have never made my girlfriend orgasm and the vibrator can make her orgasm 10 times in 20 minutes. How the hell am I supposed to compete with this thing? I feel like I am being cucked by a tesla robot. I told her I think she is getting pavlov dog'd by the vibrator to where she cant cum from regular sex. She responded that she still thinks I am better than it and loves having sex with me, but idk women are chronic liars so. I am still able to make her squirt, but its different. And also, I think vibrators are hot, but this thing is some huge device and she uses it a lot when I am not with her. I think if the roles were reversed and I was suffering from porn induced ED from a sex robot death gripping my dick, she would feel insecure or desu think im gay or some shit but I would still tell her I love having sex with her as of course I would, even though its not as good as it could be if I wasn't fucking a tesla bot.
>>35022576Lol fucking bitter fat shit brigade wastes no time
>>35028302Because she told me she can orgasm "acoustically"
>>35028199People do drugs because experiences with altered perceptions are essential ones.All the technology that you use today, including this website is ultimately the result of prehistoric humans eating psychedelic mushrooms.Anyway, you're a stupid asshole and I hope you get cheated on.
>>35022532id throw that straight into the trash. you should do the same or end the relationship
>>35027875Seek Jesus
People who worked in a cinema, what was it like? Did it suck? What did you like and what did you hate?
>>3502017435mm oldfag here.Flirt with your coworkers as much as humanly possible. You'll never have this many forced late nights with cute girls again at any future point in your life. Realize the friends of the managers never get scheduled with anyone by accident. Smoking cigarettes will get you more effortless friends and more free breaks.Nothing will ever get the smell of popcorn out of your work clothes. Eating free popcorn on the clock can genuinely help with food bills, it's high in fiber and will make you feel full.Not many downsides for a part-time job. Upselling is predatory when families are spending $200+ to see the latest CGI slop-of-the-month children's movie, but you'll be expected to do it for minimum wage and will feel gross about it the whole time. Late nights and weekends can suck, volatile scheduling isn't great, popular kid and teen movie premiers can be a prep and cleanup nightmare, all around still beats fast food or kitchen work.Cleaning the fryer sucks, cleaning the popper sucks, customers suck. Concessions is the worst position. Usher is cushy when it's busy and you can scuttle around unseen, especially if you don't do toilets. Booth is always king.Best icee flavor is mixed, pretzel bites are best extra crispy, intentionally forgetting FIFO lets you damage out a surprising amount of candy for staff. Corporate doesn't really care. Make the most of complimentary tickets and see everything that's released. Try not to go alone if you can help it. It can be a great job for your social life. Late nights can wear you down over time if your life is full in other areas.You can also become a lifer, if you really want to. Worked with a guy who worked his way up from minimum wage projector guy to general manager, corporate chain, took all the stock options, built a decent life without more than a bit of night school as required for promotions. It's possible, but you'll pay in other ways.Would recommend it as a minimum wage first job to anyone.
>>35022321notOPcool story, i read it in full.too bad i dont really watch movies and dont own a TV; i like to keep my subconsiousness cleanalso the movie theaters here are all closing, they are in the red. ppl just stream on line nowadays
>>35020174I worked as a janny/food runner at a movie theater restaurant and it was the shittiest job I worked my entire life. Most of my coworkers were hoodrats and ex cons. I was paid absolutely nothing. When a kids movie came out every single 50+ person theater looked worse than any picture taken of those Mc movie "messes". Absolutely awful work environment, but im sure a normal theater would be better to work in. Also it made me hate every movie that came out at the time because i would see the beginning of each movie like 10x a day.
>>35020174its fine until youre older and then its gay
I will turn 30 in 4 months. Should I try to get a gf before then? Will my chances drop significantly after I'm not in my 20s anymore?
>>35028576I need more than 4 months to work on myself
>>35028578You fucked up, but might not be to late. If you start now maybe your life will be nice by 35. I didn't "make it" to 30 and even then still took a while for something to happen, got ghosted alot, was hard to get one night stands, etc I was fortunate to meet the hot mess of a woman that is now my gf at a concert finally. I had like 5 other chances at getting a gf but I didn't find them attractive.
>>35028601the only girls who will want me will want to get married and have children within weeks of starting to date, because they are ready to settle down, and I'm not ready for that bro
>>35028607>the only girls who will want me will want to get married and have children within weeks of starting to dateThis is what happens if you date women your age. Sometime around 25 to 30 women start to panic and try to lock down a man to have kids with, not all women do this but lot do. Over the wall hags that can't have kids and young women don't have this problem, pick your poison.
>>35028547id say 30 is the new 25
How do people cut off their parents/old friends and move on with their life?I'm not trying to act like a spoiled kid here. My parents genuinely never try to protect me, trust me, or listen to what I say, even now. They don't even remember what I say, but they expect me to fully understand their side. I had to do well in school/college just to keep them from getting involved, because every time they get involved in anything, it gets bad really fast. They also have no values, no friends, and have cut ties with family members, so it's not like I'd lose much without them.My friends just feel like a bunch of random, unmotivated people I have to mask around, and I genuinely don't enjoy spending time with them in most cases. Most of them just used me as a cheap worker to fix their shit for free, without even pretending they call or invite me for anything else.I used to have a best friend who, unfortunately, passed away from suicide. When I had that friend in my life, I didn't notice how miserable everything around me actually was. My parents didn't care about that friend dying, by the way. They tried to treat the death of someone I knew for half my life (and had plans for the future with) as nothing important, saying I "cared too much." I didn't try to ask them for anything, but they didn't offer to help me visit the friend's family who lived far away so I could talk to them (they felt pretty horrible, and it seemed like I was one of the very few friends their kid had).I said all of this just to give a better view of my surroundings. I want to leave it all behind, but I don't know how. Maybe it's some "autism" thing I have (not a literal one), but I literally don't know where to start
>>35028352Law 10 of the 48 Laws of Power:INFECTION: AVOID THE UNHAPPY AND UNLUCKYYou can die from someone else’s misery—emotional states are as infectious asdiseases.The unfortunate sometimes draw misfortune onthemselves; they will also draw it on you. Associate with the happy andfortunate instead. Cutting family off is one of those life decisions that you'd better be 100% prepared for, OP. I did it five years ago and never looked back. I was born into a family with a disabled brother who think's he's a gangster and worships the Trailer Park Boys. This complete buffoon is doted on by my parents, who have moderate wealth and basically never made him work a day in his life. He is the textbook definition of malicious compliance and learned helplessness. Ask him to take out the trash? He'll whine and complain for forty five minutes, then get violent. When he does, he does it so incompetently that you end up spending more time correcting his mistakes. When I went to college, they gave subtle hints that I was "expected" to care for him, to be his live in servant. I had no interest. I realized if I was ever going to be happy, I had to strike it out on my own. So what did I do? I landed job halfway across the country and moved into a rented room.Be aware that if the family has any use for you, they will do everything in their power to get you back. My parents tried weaponizing the police, freezing accounts, calling my new work, etc. for about a year. It was a hassle. So hewre's what I would tell you.1: You pick a single method for contact. I recommend some form of text, so that any bullshit they pull can be brought up in court. Yeah, it can get that ugly. If they call, you don't answer. The only way you respond is via email or letters.Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
Well, then I think it's worth mentioning that my family itself is divorced (it's always been like this) with a dad who's here, he didn't like run away, but he's sort of weak, not so smart, very naive, but mostly chill if medicated. But my mother is just a textbook definition of bpd (there's a reason she was divorced twice, and I think she will do it for the 3rd time as well).So I live with my dad who doesn't mind me being a bit of a neet right now, but it's not really a life. My mom definitely sounds like what you described, she'd ask me for an address of where I will be, people I talk to, and she'd often tell me that she'll send me to a psych ward during arguments (over nothing btw, like me accidentally falling asleep with lights on).I have my own bank account, but I wouldn't use it for storing money anywayI'm prepared only in a way that I don't mind sleeping in cars, eating once a day and having bare minimum of needs overall. It's not like I have a luxury life here with my family. They refused to pay for my teeth or for other stuff that I have to fix related to my health (not cosmetic).I think sms will work fine for communication. I'm just afraid that she can start calling a few IRL friends that I have and try to gaslight them into some BS.Seems we have a similar situation with our brothers, because she tried to do something similar with me and my brother who is from a different dad and kinda not so smart, and she expected me to deal with my own school/college stuff and help him with everything, meanwhile I clearly saw that he didn't care and would just wait for me to do all the work for him. I solved it by moving to my dad during college though.I think the quote is right, in a way. I feel that if I had more examples of functional people in front of me, it'd be easier to make moves like this
>>35028504meant to be a reply to>>35028469
>>35028352Delete Facebook. Move away. It's very common for people to go have a career and work and not see their family just go do it and don't feel bad about it. I am better for cutting off one parent and would have done 1000% better if I cut of the other one but I have too much pity for a disabled elderly person with no other family so it nobly weighs me down. I would advocate just leaving over what I did.
>>35028352stop talking to your parents, stop listening. just ignore them. dont cut the friends off, just stop talking to them and tell them youre busy and you cant hang out. they might be useful down the road
How do I quit pot if every day that I don’t smoke my head fills up with unbearable cringe memories and time freezes to a standstill…I genuinely hate sobriety so much because of how painful life is…
>>35026640Find an intricate hobby to do that requires your full attention. Treat smoking weed like one of those responsibilities you constantly procrastinate on, procrastination is the greatest strength of stoners. Use it to your advantage. Its only hard for me to stop smoking when my friends tempt me or if ive been doing it everyday, shit makes me really anxious but I woulf still smoke constantly.>>35027966Agreed, there is a lot of bitter people on this board who are absolute cockheads aboit giving advice.
>>35026640Start meditating and learn about the chakras. It will help you understand how these cringe memories are impacting your subconscious and making life difficult to live sober.
>>35026640There is nothing better in this world right now than weed, vidya and shitposting.
>>35026640Okay, two things to say, here. The first is that if you're a heavy cannabis user, the withdrawal symptoms can be surprisingly brutal, and last a surprisingly long time. My girlfriend quit cannabis recently. The initial physical symptoms - feeling sick, not being able to sleep - only lasted a few days, but then she went through a phrase of getting very anxious, and then a third, longer phase of being constantly angry. It took at least three or four weeks for her to get anywhere near stable, and in some rather subtle ways she's still improving a couple of months later. So, some of what you're feeling when you don't smoke may be withdrawal; and that will, eventually, go away The other thing to say is I'm sure your life does suck, but constantly getting high is going to stop you from doing anything to make your life suck less. It's only after you come off the weed that you'll have enough energy and motivation to fix anything.
>>35026640 those thoughts still come with marijuana, anyway. you need to meditate, with a focus on breathing.
Im not long out of a relationship after being broken up with, since then ive built up my confidence and am receiving a lot more attention from people, but it makes me wonder if im a bad person, because, i know im not ready for another commitment, but im absolutely adoring the attention so i feed into it so i can get more
>>35028441Getting attention is not a problem so long as you're honest about what your intentions are. It's only a problem if you mislead people.
>>35028441>>35028506Nah, dog. Centering external validation sucks shit. Don't stay in that spot for too long. I understand that it can be vindicating in some way, but the shitty feedback loops are just not worth indulging in. Fuck empty relationships with strangers. Justifying and rationalizing won't spare you.
>>35028441picrel source
Why do black women intimidate me?I always feel like they're gonna beat me up.
>>35025186I can think of several things but mostly>french militarists / rightwingers got their balls cut during both WWs and never recovered>it's better to have a remote oppressor who will try to keep things neatly organized than a local warlord who will distribute truckloads of machetes at the slightest inconveniencemaybe there's a skin color element to the latter but I'm not even sure
>>35022156'Cause they be mean muthas
>>35025347Dey be some bad mama jammas up in dis bitch
>>35025404Oh no he didn't
>>35027338Oh yes he did...
My dream was to get into a game company, make game dev friends and create an indie studio full time making videogames. I've been on this path for 5 years now. Learned game engines, animation, code, design. I've added more projects to my portfolio over the years. I've had NO success in game dev interviews. I shifted my roles to other things like level designer, game tester, tool programmer. I have no luck in anything. I went to conferences, network events, hung out with developers and anything. Got contacts for referalls. Still I couldn't get hired. Also the developers I meet are either AAA studio hires that don't really want to hang out with me or other solo developers who have their own thing going on and have no need for anyone joining them. I hate doing regular software IT work and I got fired twice over the last 2 years. I'm losing hope and feeling more stuck because I'm also approaching my 30's. I don't feel like telling these to my friends anymore as nobody understands it around me since they just go to their jobs and live a normie life without any real goals.
>>35024892Just give up. Never get up!
>>35024892You probably need to learn to bathe properly. Not to be harsh. But clothes / hygiene etc must not be overlooked.
>>35024892When you're rejected for a job, do you ask for feedback? You should. The key question is something like "If a similar job comes up a year from now, what could I do between now and then to improve my chances?"
>>35024892Does your portfolio have design docs or demos in it? You should be focusing on making polished demos.>I've had NO success in game dev interviews. I shifted my roles to other things like level designer, game tester, tool programmer.Which roles were you interviewing for? If you're only just pivoting to those other roles now, you may have been applying for jobs you aren't qualified for yet due to inexperience.>I'm losing hope and feeling more stuck because I'm also approaching my 30's.It's easier for me to say now that I'm on the other side of 30 myself, but you're still fairly young.You should also give yourself a bit more credit for having any sort of career or creative ambitions at all, and you shouldn't beat yourself up too much for getting fired. Just don't repeat the same mistakes anymore.You should primarily view game development as a labor of love.That isn't to say that you can't make a career out of it or shouldn't try to, but you also shouldn't expect to break into such a competitive industry in only five years.Make some demos, hone your craft, and try not to dog on yourself too much for getting fired once.Be grateful to yourself for developing your career and skills in your twenties instead of kicking that can down the road into your thirties.
>>35028928a year LMFA0
I want to get into guns but am afraid I will kill myself. What do I do?
>>35021960Guns don't kill people.People with guns kill people.
>>35021960Statistically, owning a gun makes it 20 times more likely that you will be killed by someone else owning a gun
>>35021960dont kys, thats what you do
>>35024539im the same way except i decided i cant do that to my kid. thinking about having some more kids just to be safe
>>35021960nerf or nothing
**Was** I spiritually lesbian for falling for a girl who was the girl crush of many other girls who are nevertheless straight? Maybe this was just mere thrill of the chase amplified by the fact that I did already know that some girls already considered her their girl crush?
>>35028873No. Probably just your average teenage femoid retard levels of "lol I'm BiSeXuAl". Happens to the best of us, surely.
>>35028873Lesbian or bi?
I'm a newly turned 22 y/o guy and last year I moved out of a dysfunctional environment that stunted my development. I estimate that I'm ~5 years behind others my age (people disagree with me on this but I'm confident in it). I'm finally in a position to resume proper development but I have unaddressed baggage that I suspect is hindering my better judgement. To give an example, I've been thinking about what steps I should take in regards to my career path. I've humored the idea of enrolling in college courses, but I'm more so enticed by the idea of "party culture" than actually gaining a worthy skillset. This is one of my unaddressed issues; I've always been undersocialized so I'm now overcompensating by trying to insert myself in an environment where the possibility of casual sex and partying becomes more accessible. So even though college may not be optimal, I'm still drawn to it for reasons pertaining to my arrested development. I'm operating within this suboptimal mental state and it may come back to bite me in the future. TLDR; I'm 22 and want to begin cultivating a fruitful career, but I'm being influenced by my desire to have fun and socialize with others, which is an experience that was robbed from me during adolescence. This could perhaps lead me down the wrong path. I'm unsure how to navigate early adulthood while juggling past traumas and the need to become a productive member of society. I also fear that I'll never be allowed to have fun given the indifferent passage of time and the impending need for stability that comes with it.
>>35020913how's this?
anon, you wonderfully worded out my situation. Sadly I'm stuck in the same position, but I'm still 20, but that is also too late
>>35022635Yeah dude it's a tough spot to be in. I don't think you're too late, I'd kill to be 20 again given what I know now. Good luck
bump
>>35019690I regret not finding genuine love during college. I don't regret getting drunk out of my ass and dealing with annoying people I never want to hang out with. Be social but don't go to parties, get drunk, etc.
Where do you post a request for something you wouldn't necessarily deem "workspace safe", now that / r / no longer exists?All the other boards rule threads point to / r / tho
That depends. If you wanted slop of some woman you know with her tits out, try a different website.
>>35022807/b/
>>35022807Assuming it’s a “who is this” or “what’s the JAV code” you can maybe censor it and still post it on /wsr/. There’s also R*ddit honestly, that is quite diversified by types of requests like “describe the porn and people find it,” to identify JAV stars/codes, general porn requests, etc
Why does r no longer exist wut
>immigrant parents>wealthy and high class>mostly spend time with other immigrants in a new country>constantly complain that their local peers are low IQ uneducated retards because there aren't a lot of immigrants of the same national background in the upper echelon (duh)It's a shame, I really do wish I was properly integrated into this aspect of society. They expect me to find an aristocratic woman, and I'd love to, but the retards I call parents never bothered to build those ties here. I can't really find them at bars or dating apps, and I have no clue where to start honestly. I have the resources for everything but no path to follow.
>>35027803>I'm not making this claim, I'm just saying these people are bothRight, because you went out and hand measured all of their IQ's too xD>Literacy rates in the gutter I see. >constantly complain that their local peers are low IQ uneducated retards because there aren't a lot of immigrants of the same national background in the upper echelonYeah, if you're referring to yourself? You're the one who deliberately excluded those of a different national background. But right, your greentext was wonky and made the subject ambiguous. You're talking about your parents.Maybe just forget about finding an "aristocratic" woman? This isn't 1600's anymore. The only option is to make a heap of money yourself and attend things only people with a heap of money can attend, let a heap of money be the filter
>>35026439The irony of a shitskin complaining about low IQ. Kek.
>>35028082Doing a master's degree in CompSci and Physics with a clinically tested IQ of 135. Hope that helps.>>35027863There really isn't anything I can add here, you're too much of a subhuman retard to be reasoned with after all.
>>35028181I accept your concessionNot my fault your subhuman ass misuses greentext to create pronoun ambiguityAgain, if you're so worried about avoiding "broke" people then make a shit load of money so you can afford being in places that require a shit load of money to be in. Simples. Why don't you just take over whatever the fuck your parents did, should've been ez for you. Or go on exchange to some ivy piss. So many routes and you're too busy trying to win some imaginary IQ dick measuring contest to capitalize on em. Stay single because us mere mortals cannot begin to comprehend your 400 IQ advanced mental gymnastics. There's simply nobody in your IQ league.
>>35028181Just 135? Midwit. You took CompSci and Phys because they're easy but sound impressive didn't you. Typical shitskin.
Femanon living abroad here. My visa doesn't rely on my job right now but I have plans to get a working visa at my current company I do part time for. Just exited a half a decade relationship 4ish months ago, which has left me decently pent because how does one fuck without a partner anyway?So my older coworker (15 year age gap) has been laying it on a little thick recently. Like constantly touching me when we're next to eachother, handholding, just putting her hands places that coworkers generally don't. She makes sexual jokes around me constantly and I catch her staring at me frequently. Also, she's fucking hot as hell. The issue is here, she is married, but doesn't speak much of her husband nor wear a wedding. There is a decent language barrier between as well, but I think her slapping my ass is a sign that we don't words anyway.My question is this: she invited me to her private birthday party this sunday, so I'm probably going to get my chance. Should I be worried about the husband and/or the ridiculous age gap? She's honestly the ultimate sexual fantasy, but the problem is being gay in this country is kind of not taken lightly so if we are discovered my chances of getting a visa are gone... what to do anons?
>>35028950The best thing is to figure out how to leave the job. The second best thing is to not do it. The third best thing is to figure out how to make it a threesome with the husband so nobody gets in trouble.
She obviously is recruiting you on behalf of her husband. They want a 3 way with you choking on the husband's old man dick
>>35028966>threesome with the husbandcuckoldry for people too weak and pathetic to keep a real relationship.
>>35028991I agree and this entire thing is shady. All I can say is that the anon shouldn't act on her lust because it's retarded to do so.
