Appealing to women is gay. There, I said it.If you're sculpting your life around appealing to women you are self-cucking
>>34389592Did that creep really say that?
>>34392034He said that taking it up the ass isn't gay and sucking cocks is a metaphor for unresolves gender dysphoria or something.
>>34389592anne frank
>>34391910How?
>>34390646Maga?
Any advice? Help a younger soul with anything you've got good insight on. Morality, money, values, women, fitness, health, masculinity, sex, spirituality... I'm all ears, older anons.
>>34398926>Younger soul>YoungUnc moment
>>34399156thread derailer
>>34398926Work, save money, start 401k or invest if possible, work out, pray to God, good luck.
I need real practical schizoid advice from someone who has escaped this hell.If I can't escape this I will die or go insane. I'm sure of it.Some people hypothesize that schizoidism is an early stage of schizophrenia and I'm starting to believe that might be true because I am losing my grip. Schizoidism is basically like the ultimate "mask". I am very afraid of what's bottling up underneath.When I am in social situations it's like my brain literally stops functioning. I am truly head empty no thoughts. It's such a struggle just to think of one paltry thing to say. Nothing works. I feel like I will have to genuinely fry the inhibition center of my brain with psychedelic drugs to get anywhere. I've seen what that does to people and its like cutting off your nose to spite your face. I don't think it's a real solution and I know it will make things worse for me.There is a confluence of other factors that makes all of this much worse but I just need some kind of leverage and I feel if I can get past this one thing maybe it will all become manageable and at least I won't have a complete meltdown.
>>34393312Also what the guy is saying about the gym works in part. After doing very hard cardio most of my schizoid shutinness got way better. It does last for like 15minutes only though
>>34389738>figure out your patterns>figure out the reasoning for your patterns>start changing them"empty head without thoughts" on its own isn't schizoid. Why does that happen? Figure that out. If you can't then get therapy.
Are you an actual diagnosed schizoid?
>>34389738Pick every man who is disgruntled, every woman who is furious, every individual who is isolated, and every person who is disappointed with what the system and want it torn apart. You pick'em up and tell them: you are absolutely right. You are already halfway to do this, since you took your time to write this mini-essay on the angst of the people. You seem to have the talent to relate to pain, and that is precious and useful.This is what the enemy fears the most. They do not want people to relate to the pain of others, especially to the pain of those who have much more in common with them than the enemies have.We need discontent to fester, we need pain to become intolerable, we need to turn off the heater on this pan of frogs to +5000 Fahrenheit so we jump with claws in hand to gnaw at the cook.There is no easy solution but the spread of horror, of desperation and of the need for immediate action.In this complicated times, we need simple solutions. The two solutions are the destruction of the existing system, or the destruction of all those who cannot live in it (increasingly, every single person). Canada has given up already, and they'll tell you to kill yourself if you are struggling with rent. Modern countries import foreigners, they do not care that their youth is giving up on life. The system has given up on us already. So either we die through our own means, or we just rally every loser like us into the greatest Hail Mary civilization has ever experienced, the last manifest of the faustian spirit: the ultimate revolution that destroys Enlightenment civilization.In short, your retirement plan is now winning the next civil war.
>>34391076Then why are you still friends with him
I don’t have family or friends except one person and my mental health is shit. It used to be way better, idk what happened.
>>34397848Are you "thinking about the rope and slitting wrists" or are you like "I don't have motivation to do anything"?What do you mean by "my mental health is shit"?
>>34397916Both honestly on a pretty equal level.
We are your family, anon.Let's be friends if you want to.
>>34397848>I don’t have family or friends except one person and my mental health is shit. It used to be way better, idk what happened.gotta force yourself to get a snowball rolling in a certain direction, and you'll start meeting people againit's true it's a fucked up position, but people have recovered from it plenty of times
there are also support groups if it's really bad, those might be better than nothingbut please stay away from the temptation to socialize online, it won't lead anywhere
Can I use hangers on this shelf?
Yes, it's what the bottom rail is for.
Stick a box underneath it first
>>34396580Not without fucking it up. Maybe if you keep it light. Not if you are a stupid girl.
>>34396580You could hang, like, Tshirts
>>34396580I have those exact shelves and I hang my clothes on them. I have about 15 shirts, 6 pants, and some other outfits like suits all hanging from them and they don’t show any strain.
I made a thread a couple days ago whining about how hard it is to get a gf and that I'm nearly 30 and haven't had shit since my ex cheated on me 2 years ago, and I was asking advice about dating appsWell, I mentioned that I got 3 matches on the dating apps I downloaded 2 weeks ago: a single mom, an autistic girl who identifies as asexual, and a fat girl.The fat girl decided to keep flaking on our call, the single mom kept asking to call but never followed through, and the autistic girl actually met me Tuesday, my second date ever (with my first one being 10 years ago). We had a nice walk, only a hug in the end. Then Wednesday I went over to her place. This girl never cuddled, never kissed, never did anything, but we had such a nice day together (I felt autistic too desu) and boys, we did everything except for sex because literally the morning of the date I got a condom to put in my bag, and I was like no man, she's autistic, a virgin, what are the odds, I put it in my bag, and took it out, twice. Eventually left it out and went without it.Turns out we did everything except for fuck, and except for her sucking my dick. Like wow I did not expect that. I'm seeing her again next week. Here's the thing, this is uncharted territory for me, IDK if she'll want to be my gf or how it will look like, but getting a slight confidence boost is good. Though I have to say, I felt like killing myself when we went out to the supermarket, I felt like the whole world was staring at me like I'm autistic and stupid. Being with an autistic person made me feel more accepted, it's like she doesn't care what the world thinks, so refreshing.In any case, I still hate dating apps, but now I can't deny they they work. I'll be a repeat customer
>>34397558>haven't had shit since my ex cheated on me 2 years agoTry a better laxative
>>34397736While it's true that he shouldn't knowingly toy with her feelings, it's also too early for either of them to know how serious he or she wants to be. They're going to have to spend some time together to figure that out.>>34397558OP, this sounds nice, and promising. Obviously you don't want to push her into anything, but from the way you're describing it, it doesn't sound like you needed to! I hope things work out well for you. Just always bear in mind that this is completely new for her, and (I'm guessing) fairly new for you, so both of you are going to fuck things up on a regular basis. So both of you need to expect the other person to fuck up sometimes and be really patient when they do. And both of you need to make a real effort to talk regularly about how you're feeling, how things are going, and where you'd like them to go. This is true in any relationship, but it's particularly true if at least one person is autistic: you can't expect an autistic person to understand the other person's feelings (or even their own, sometimes!) so verbalising things is essential. Never get mad at someone for not doing something unless you actually asked them to; if they say something weird, always stop and think "Is it possible they didn't mean that the way it sounded?" - stuff like that. Oh and, if you haven't had an STD test since your ex, get one; and be *really* careful not to get your new girl pregnant! Condoms are quite reliable if used correctly, but a surprising number of people don't use them correctly. And if you're going to be fucking regularly, you might want a back-up strategy.
>>34398011Thank you, indeed she didn't expect it and I didn't expect it but we both were ready, and we communicate constantly, it's so sweet. Regular check ins and asking how it's going and how she's feeling, I think I vibe really well with her autism which is why she appreciates me. We have a lot in common too.We're seeing each other next Wednesday, I am her first everything. And after we met yesterday she said that she is not sure if she's having feelings at the moment, and there's a chance that she's still asexual, and that she wants to see where it goes &that she's open for a relationship, but she doesn't want to force anything. I think that's fair. I let her know that I'm into her and that I think feelings aren't magic, they're something you have to build towards, so as long as we're still seeing each other we're building something. And then she said "definitely, we shall see :)" and that even if it doesn't grow into a relationship, at least we still had/will have fun.Earlier, she told me she never loved anyone and never did anything romantic, so she quite literally doesn't know what having feelings is. She's still a woman at the end of the day, and she can choose to end this whenever. I'm going to keep seeing her and keep myself together, it's not like I have any other way to see women, she's literally the first date I had in 10 years.I'm processing my feelings, it felt amazing to be with a girl again, and yeah I'm going to have a week to sit on these feelings now and realize how much I want her, but I'm going to try and keep it together until then so I can survive and have enough time to build something with her without freaking out, to give her a real chance to fall in love with me.And to the people saying I'm playing with her that's not a correct assumption. I'll be the best bf if she wants me. I do have to take care of myself though and find a gf, cuz my will to live is not that high anymore and a gf really helps me with motivation for everything.
>>34397793Yeah I think you're right. She told me that asexual just describes her best as of today, because she's never had anything and she's okay with being single, but it could change. She quite literally doesn't know what romantic or sexual activities feel like because she's never had them (until yesterday with me at least) She also identifies as demi romantic, she explained that it means she doesn't want anything romantic until she has a very strong deep bond and feelings for the other person. I think these definitions probably help her to define herself and her sense of self as a person with autism. That just sounds normal to me. And I'll give my own opinion from time spent with her - it seems like she's super open to having a partner and a bf. That being said, the curtain came off, she's been with me for two days in a row, we connected emotionally, sexually, and as good friends, and now it's up to her body and soul to decide "do I miss him, do I miss what we did together, am I attracted to him, do I want to still have him around, am I willing to put all this effort into him despite already having quite a hard autistic life, or would I rather just be alone?"This is my guess.And I'm going to keep pursuing her. The thing is it's like a ball with forward momentum, I remember having a gf 2 years ago - motivation came naturally to me, I had excitement for life, things were going because I had the energy to stand on my two feet and say "I'm gonna do that", in large part because I had this person to go home to, and love with, and care for and be cared for. So, I'm hoping to get this ball going again. 1/2
2/2It's all still fresh, I just came back like 12 hours ago. But as usual overthinking will start, and I asked myself the question, "do I do dating apps still?", and well I think I will because I just don't get any matches from them, in the off chance I do get something I'll cross that bridge when I get to it.As much as I like her I hate the fact that women can just get men easily at the flick of their finger while I'm out here being lonely to the point of wanting to kill myself.I want to be like those guys that go on 1-2 dates a week, that sounds like a fun life. More fun than the lonely hell I've been stuck in for the past 2 years. But as of right now I'm no don quixote, I'm just going to sit here like a good boy and see what happens next week. And maybe use the fact that I had the fattest nut yesterday and a good time to my advantage, by starting to make better choices in my life.
I'm currently taking multiple-choice exams. Sometimes I have no idea how to answer a few questions say, 5 out of 30. Since I'd just be guessing blindly and might even be biased, would I have a better chance of getting at least one right if I just picked 'A' for all of them?"
>>34397777Assuming they were randomly generated - that is, that the test-maker didn't have an unconscious bias for making B the right answer, your chances would be 1 in 5, or 4-to-1 that you'd be wrong.You can do better than that with a little thought. Typically in any selection of 5 possibles, one will be an obvious outrider and most likely wrong and one will be the answer you'd get if you made the most obvious mis-reading of the question or the most obvious math error. That narrows your guesswork down to 1 in 3.
>>34397777If you've actually run out of time and can't think about the answer at all, just pick anything at random - all A's is fine. But as the other anon said, it's often the case that if you think about it even a little, one or more of the answers is obviously wrong, even if you don't know which one is right. Choosing at random from the not-definitely-wrong answers improves the odds.
no fag. Being able to correctly answer the questions when you don't know what the answer is, is what separates high IQs from diligent retards who just study a lot. You need to be using logic to eliniate any wrong answers and at least be giving yourself a 50/50 rather than 1/4 guess. Mentally cross reference words with other similar words and speculate on what the latin or other roots mean and see if you can surmise some estimation for what shit means. Or if its math then its even easier to elimate shit by working backwards from the answers or just know the answer must be less than X etc.
>>34397777Congrats on your lucky digits.Multiple choice exams have a fun exploit that they tend to leak a lot of information about the answers. So for example, if you have no idea how to answer one question, you can look at the other questions to find some that cover the same concepts. Then you can look at their answers to see if the questions have any answers that are consistent with each other. If so, those consistent answers are much more likely to be the correct answers for their respective questions. Alternatively, you can look for answers that are obviously inconsistent with each other and eliminate them. It's a simple technique but a powerful one. Interestingly, the more comprehensive the test, the more information that tends to leak out of the choices.
I'm hot all the time. I have to sleep with ice packs in my bed and a fan on full blast. I have always hated the heat but I just can't take it anymore. I don't think I can last another summer.Humans are warm blooded mammals, we have no business living in places like Florida, unlike alligators, lizards, snakes, bugs, etc.There's a reason we migrated out of Africa and to Norway and Russia.
>>34395358Part 2/26) Cold shower yourself periodically. That means no or very little hot water. You do not need to use soap if you're poor, just a quick rinse to help with cooling.7) Keep as many electrical devices turned off at night. Every single one converts every watt of electricity into heat. That 500 watt PC? That's 500 watts of heat. My PC during winter shuffles the *entire house* temperature by about 3 degrees upwards.8) Switch from a PC to a laptop and avoid running CPU intensive things (like image generators or video games) on it until cooler periods.9) Close the door in the kitchen, and when the heat of the kitchen exceeds the outside temperature, open the kitchen window, allow the heat to escape, then shut it again (so you don't let in the hot air from outside).10) Shut blinds and deflect sunlight keeping it outside. Install awnings and external window shutter flaps to block sunlight.A lot of people have cool houses overnight, but then stupidly open the windows during the day letting all the heat from outside in.I'm able to coast at room temps until about mid-day.If the heat is extremely overwhelming, if you have a bathtub, sit in it and slowly fill it with cold water. You will eventually drop your exterior body temperature.
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OP here>>34397320>>34397322Believe it or not, I've actually got most of these down. The rest, Ill be sure to try. Except for the mold stuff, idk where that came from. And I do have A/C. The problem is not so much a problem in the house (except for the bed), as it is outside. Anything above 75 degrees is pretty uncomfortable>>34396499I;m 5'10 and 150lbs
>>34395358I knew someone else like this. He used to work in a frozen foods warehouse. You are special. You should get paid for it.
>>34395358Try sleeping under the ground, like in the basement.
I've been having pain in the orange circled area for 3 days in a row now. It seems to only occur when I move (including breathing). I don't think its an anxiety issue, I've had anxiety attacks before so I'm familiar with how those feel. Also pain in the red area when I twist to the side, a very strong burning feeling that goes away after 10 seconds or so. Whereas the orange area is more of a sharp pain that goes away after a few seconds of being still. My blood pressure/heart rate are good. How can I tell when this sort of thing is an issue I should see a doctor about?
>>34397851It's the dreaded Lurghi.
>>34397851>How can I tell when this sort of thing is an issue I should see a doctor about?You should *always* talk to a doctor about unexpected chest pain. It might possibly be costochondritis; but no one on here is qualified to make that diagnosis at long range. Talk to a doctor.
>>34397851Ignore it. That is what the doctor would do.
>>34397851Have you tried doing stretches? Usually a good one for that area is to lie on your stomach, then use your arms to lift your chest up and lean back while your legs still lie flat on the ground, but you may have to experiment with other poses and stuff.If it isn’t a muscular thing, and you’re also pretty sure it isn’t misplaced digestive pain, then see a doctor.
>>34397851Could be costochondritis maybe.https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Costochondritis
>At the store w/ my loser older sister>"That woman's a gangstalker she's trying to intimidate us""I didn't notice">"Get your head out of your ass Anon, these people are trying to undermine our family!"Everyone who gets directly behind us in the checkout line, drives like an asshole, makes any unprompted reference to [famous dead alleged relative], or does one of many other mundane things, is one of "them". And the fact that she's an unaccomplished loser is even more proof of it (rather than proof of the opposite: they wouldn't waste resources harassing a nobody). In other words, I definitely shouldn't rent a house with my sister out of pity, right? She's gonna drive me nuts.And there's also no way to convince her to stop stressing out about gangstalkers is there? To her it's 100% real.
I went on a first date, and I thought it went really well, but she doesn't want a second date. Make me feel better.
>>34396482Rejections are an essential part of the process of finding the right person. I'm happily married now. Before I met the woman who is now my wife, I rejected a few women, and was rejected by quite a lot more. I broke up with a few women, and was broken up with by a few more. If any one of those rejections or break-ups hadn't happened, I would now be UNHAPPILY married to the wrong person. To find the right person and be happy with them, you have to filter out a whole bunch of people you wouldn't be happy with; rejections and break-ups are how you do that. It's a vital part of the process.
>>34396566Make an effort to actively change that then
>>34397308I didn't mean to leave that name in, that was meant for a tranny
>>34396482Alright, what did you do anon ? Tell us how your date went.
>>34397712she hugged me at the beginning and at the end. we just chilled for a while and i felt like we were getting along great, but i texted her the next morning and she said we weren't compatible. i don't know why.>>34397300>It's a vital part of the process.This isn't necessarily true. You probably wouldn't be saying this if you had met your current wife BEFORE any of the other women. Maybe if, by being rejected, you learn something about yourself and what type of person you're looking for, then the rejections would be valuable. But otherwise, they're just wasted time. In the end, getting rejected doesn't mean you're one step closer to finding the right person. If you're incredibly lucky, you could theoretically find the right person on your first try.>>34397285>So you had a pleasant few hours with someone - that's a success in itselfIf I'm never going to see her again, I'd rather have just saved us both the time and stayed at home playing vidya or something.
how tf do i get better i cant overcome this Symbiote of a personality i treasure the worst in everything lifestyle, relations, wtv wtv. i treat myself to the shittiest thing i can findyou know the crazy girls whom only interact to insults? lowkey im like that 10 comments on a single thread i would kms if i had to reply to a good one i figured it out before i probably see anyone who treats me okay ish as a liar, fake person or just out right pathetic needycause why would you give me the time of the day if you had anything better going onso i figured it im (not a good) person and im being generous here i dont wanna insult myself infront of yall, ofc sadly ik i look ugly and im not healthy and wtv wtv thnx but yeah its like a self fluffing prophecy at least replying to the shitty people ensures that they wont change i know them for who they arehow can i stop being attached to shitty people in general and wtv fix whats going on w my lifefor anyone gonna say get better go gym make friends stop being pathetic just think if it was that easy we all would be the same, itried i just regress into doing the same thing i only feel happy hurting myself i love doing it its the only thing that gives my life meaning lol
well sometimes you can just tell someone is a loser and figure out his insecurity bad odor ugly face big nose etc etclast time i was texting a girl and she was very self aware of her bad looks and i kept pushing it until i almost actually cried idk why but the people i bully actually stay friend with mei hate having to do this i love just reassuring them and actually making them feel better than me but they just probably use me as a safety net then ditch mei stopped interacting with anyone unless its a necessity for this fuckass reason, since the dumb idea keeps reinforcing itself and proving itself right
no, you don't actually need to be a deranged abusive psycho to have friends
>>34398442>>34398325Autists can't understand concepts such as banter and state of play.
>>34398442how come they stay when i just become abusive i am not talking about "light playful stuff" i just bother them until they just give in and do what i want, lowkey very bothering shit. i found out that wat i do somehow aligns with the redpill stuff ig?i cant connect stuff together im just saying if i called you an idiot i can get extract more interaction time than just being "nice"
Hello, thanks for having me.I have a problem. What should I do if I invited a guest into my car and they accidentally defecated on the seat as they were leaving?
>>34398897>I have a problem. What should I do if I invited a guest into my car and they accidentally defecated on the seat as they were leaving?that dependswho was the "guest", are they a friend?how bad is the shit on the seat? did they NOTICE they did it, or did they just walk away?is it a nice car?there's probably not a lot you can do
Professional cleaning, send them the bill. If they're a minor, send their parent the bill. If they're someone who needs a caretaker, send their caretaker the bill.
>>34398900Well...>>34398902Um...>>34398905No, not a friend. Huge and smeared all over. It leaked through their pants somehow. I don't know if they "noticed" it but they definitely just walked away like as if nothing happened.>is it a nice car?It's a Toyota.
>>34398921Okay
>>34398928ah, that's fuckedand yeah, this >>34398921 might be a good ideaworst case scenario you can probably just replace the whole seat
In which social environments (gym, supermarket, retail store, park, etc.) is it socially acceptable to cold approach women?
Nowhere, but you have to do it anyways. The only hard rule is to not do it while they are working.
>>34398841>In which social environmentsSocial environments. >gym, supermarket, retail storeNone of these, they aren't social environments, they're public spaces. People are there to perform an action and leave. It's absolutely going to result in a negative response cold approaching people here, and if you make them uncomfortable they're forced to choose between leaving early and finishing the task they're there for.>parkAcceptable because it's a social environment. Albeit most people there are likely there to socialize with people they know. A better environment would be a club or bar. But cold approaching has a poor success rate, and most social environments are not places where cold approaching is even realistically possible because they're recurring places. Things like clubs, classes, or other areas that let you get to know someone casually enough that you can decide to invite them somewhere else. This will have a better success rate than cold approaching as well, particularly if you learn to recognize signs of interest and express your own before asking someone on a date. >>34398847You definitely do not have to cold approach. It's the absolute worst way to find a partner, even compared to dating apps, and that's saying something.
