how long to heal from porn consumption if you became into watdhing others doing it and develop a cudk fetish
>>34718788If I told you 3 months, would you abstain from watching porn for that long?Research shows that the Pavlov effect is really strong with sexual arousal. If you always looked at a rose when watching porn, the sight of a rose would quickly become something that makes you hornyMost of the porn made today involves men and is filmed from a third person perspective. Amateur porn has also been all but replaced by professional porn with no hint of involved. If you watch regular porn you are bound to become aroused by the idea of loveless sex between another man and a woman.
>>34718894>hint ofLove involved
>>34718896>>34718894Kys>>34718788Also kys
>>34718940Fuck you. I told em to change his porn watching habits which is realistic. Keep telling yourself that you are immune to porn addiction
22 year old virgin...not especially ugly but am sort of introverted and solitary, you know the deal. Anyway...where does one actually meet women? I dislike bars and clubs...should I just bite the bullet and use dating apps? What would you do in this situation?
>>34716501>Well self-control and free porn can help.Self control yes but free porn definitely not. You're still stimulating the same impulse and reinforcing that dopamine loop. It's why I recommended going porn free, when I've succeeded at it for a few months the urge to go monger goes way down.>Do tell us more about these tradbrad convertsI'm mean there's not too much to say about the tradbros. Cringe as fuck zoomers either just graduating or out of college for a few years who like Nick Fuentes or TPUSA who are very obviously there because they have no other social circles. If they truly believe then good for them but I get the sneaking suspicion it's just a fad and a lot of those guys won't make it through their real first crisis of faith.>hoe-to-holy sistasYou actually don't find a lot of those, at least from what I've seen in my parish and other "trad" communities. I don't ever remember meeting a party girl who had a change of heart and joined just to "find a good man." You have to remember that women don't have the same lack of options as men. They don't need to convert or join a community to attract a potential mate, they can just exist around males.What was more common were women who were in abusive relationships and left them in their mid 20s, usually with a kid or a few, who get remarried to dudes whose wives left them or are widowers who also have kids. You can say what you want about alpha fucks/beta bucks or whatever, but they seem happy and usually end up having more kids together (Catholics don't believe in birth control).There are also some women who were born in the faith and come from families involved in the church who seem to be waiting a very long time to get married. I can't say whether they're hoeing it up on the side, but it is weird to me that you can make it to 28, 30, 33, etc. in a trad community without getting wifed up, meanwhile your younger sister or cousin got hitched at 18.
>>34716397Bro reads one passage about Babylonian mystery religions or listens to one Charls Carroll stream and thinks he knows what he's talking about LOL
>>34716126library, park, street, grocery store, night classes, university (go hang out there, you are still young), beach, tourist spots, work, sports games, etcI'll be waiting for you to give me reasons why you hate all these suggestions lol
>>34716126You have to do stuff. I know stuff is dumb and not worth doing but there's a better chance of meeting girls if you do activity.
>>34717485I tried going out and the young white women ignore me. I try to make eye contact and they look at the floor or walk I front of me without saying excuse me.
Is it true that you're fucked if you don't lose your virginity before 19? I kissed a girl the first time at 31 and it feels like I lucked out. I'm 32 right now. Man it feels like this shit should be easy and yet somehow it isn't. Maybe 6 months of gym will help. Idk
>>34715038Whatever I did to get that far? Got homeless for 4 days in the Netherlands and ended up finding a former work colleague who was also homeless. We went to a dormitory and sat next to a cute Polish girl and she started talking to us, my friend's gf then told me the only reason she was talking to them is because she wanted me. Honestly given that I mostly have no friends it's such a specific situation that I don't even imagine it happening again. And it should be happening MUCH more frequently anyways.
>>34715329Well yeah. Your metabolism is starting to slow down. It starts slow down around the end of your 20s. By 40 or so is when people really start to notice. I did say you'd be relatively fine if you take care of yourself. And by that I mean you can't keep your yourh forever but you can minimize the bad shit as much as possible.
I was 25 and she was 18. It's fine.
>>34714559Always had females after me from the time I was 14. You should at least have already touched tit and vagina, got handjobs and had your dick sucked. 19 isn't death yet but you better get moving. Unless you buy it, which I suggest you do, it will take you some time. Keep in mind the girl that gives you that pussy usually isn't the girl you like or likes you anyway.
>>3471455932it's over, broI'm sorry
I am 26 and no girl has ever been attracted to me. Over a decade, I have seen guys where a girl was really into them. Like I even had a male friend where at a party his girlfriend put up her hair to a french braid so he could grab it while they fucked later (he told me that).I can absolutely not fathom that. I can't fathom a girl being attracted to you to the point she wants to jump your bones. I am only 5'9" but with an ugly face (weak chin, negative canthal tilt, ginger, bad bone structure etc.). However, all I want is a girlfriend who likes me and is physically attracted to me to the point she is excited to fuck me. Is it possible to gain this power as an ugly guy? Or am I doomed to die alone?
>>34715909Weak chin and negative canthal tilt are not inherently bad features. Wear clothes that fit, have a good haircut.Having charisma is more important than looks anyways. I am not sure if that can be increased though.
>>34718653Co-signed. Being a good pussy eater will absolutely change the dynamic in your favor
>>34715928This incel lie again. You have never been on a date yet think you are an expert on women.
I can tell you what dries a girl's pussy faster than anything: being a desperate whiny faggot.
>>34718996You could seduce your mom faggot.
For context, I create music in my free time.I recently started a full time job that involves lifting boxes and sorting through prepackaged meat for eight hours a day. I spend most of my time in a cold room and my hands get stiff very quickly, and at the end of the day I find the fatigue hinders my ability to play my instruments effectively. I have a lot of paranoia regarding the development of any hand/wrist related repetitive strain injuries because I find a lot of joy in creating music.Does anyone else relate to this? Should I try to find a different job or are the muscles in my hands just adjusting to the work?
>>34718880I have your prepackaged meat right here.
>>34718880Your hands getting stiff in the cold is a circulation issue. You can look into improving your circulation, especially in your hands, but it’s something that naturally happens in the cold and isn’t going to do permanent damage. There are humans who played music in Siberia so it’s not that the cold ruins your hands. The danger there is the numbness associated with the lack of circulation. That can lead you into situations where your hands are unusually clumsy or you smash your fingers or something. So just be mindful not to injure yourself when your hands are cold.The other part here is grip strength and that is absolutely something that will improve over time. Generally speaking, maybe about 2-4 weeks before you start having noticeable gains in that department. Since you’re gaining strength and muscle, eat extra protein and make sure to get extra rest for a while.Also, agonist/antagonist muscles can come into play here if you’re going to do lots of repeated activity in one direction. You can look it up if you really care but basically muscles only pull and can never push, so each movement has muscles that pull opposingly. If one muscle or set of muscles gets much stronger than its antagonist, it’ll pull in a painful way. The muscles that help you close your hand (grip) oppose the muscles that help you open your hand. Since you’ll be training grip a lot, take the time to work the antagonist muscles. One way to do this that I learned from a rock climbing buddy is to get a bucket of rice and stick your fist down in there. Open your hand in the resistance of the rice. Repeat this a few times and you’ll REALLY feel it. There are also little rubber things you can get that help exercise this as well.Getting another gig that causes you less anxiety might be the best solution but as far as your hands go, that’s the quick rundown.
hi so im pretty much just a chud and im going on a date with this beautiful girl in 5 hours, we are meeting in a town but i genuinely have no plans or ideas what were gonna do. can someone help.. thanks lol
>>34718939Gotta figure out some other place with booze then.Sober is no good.
>>34718948omg thank you! thatll really help ill take a look at some stuff!!
>>34718961No problem, anon. It’s supposed to be fun and it gets sad reading so many posts by anons who never get this far lmao. If she actually wants to be around you, just going to Costco to eat samples can be silly and fun.If you can find something about which you’re genuinely excited, that’s even better. Enthusiasm goes a long way and she’ll match that energy if she’s happy to be there too.
>>34718971thanks! its actually our second date on the first one we just went to a park sat on a bench and talked and it was really fun too!! i just wanted to take it a step further this time.
>>34718978Tell us what you decided to do
How do I get a government job with no connects in current year I’m 27
Either that or well I have worked a job and am now trying to use what money I have to go to college or even probably working a blue collar job in a different state.
>>34718363Lol>>34718369Lmaoo
>>34718374At least I don't waste my intelligence.
>>34718395Lmaooo kys dude
>>34718374Why are you laughing when you are the only fool in the entire thread?
Tittle explains most of it, from what I've heard getting to know the interests of autistic people makes them like u but idk if that would make her like me.We are both 19 if anyone cares and she has a huge adiction to roblox, minesweeper and Will Wood.
Op here tysm to the people defending me, ur so kind and I wish you the best.For the other mf's who have no other hobbies than harassing people online and telling us to kill ourselves ur the reason the world is how it is now, jealous pieces of shit who are worth nothing bc you bring ABSOLUTELY NOTHING OF VALUE TO THE WORLD. I hope u mfs get off your fucking chairs and go outside into the real world and find a woman as beautiful, pure and kindhearted as I've found; and stop being jealous of my friendships and love life.
>>34718828>Op here tysm to the people defending me, ur so kind and I wish you the best.>>For the other mf's who have no other hobbies than harassing people online Stopped reading here>and telling us to kill ourselves ur the reason the WORDSWORDSWORDSWORDSWORDSWORDSWORDSWORDSWORDSWORDSWORDSWORDSWORDSWORDSWORDSWORDSWORDSWORDSWORDSWORDSWORDSWORDSWORDSWORDSWORDSWORDSWORDSWORDSWORDSWORDSWORDSWORDSWORDSWORDSWORDSWORDSWORDSWORDSWORDSWORDSWORDSWORDSWORDSWORDSWORDSWORDSWORDSWORDSWORDSWORDSWORDSWORDSWORDSWORDSWORDSWORDSWORDSWORDSWORDSWORDS
Actual brainless behavior
>>34718736Kys niglet>>34718784Die, faggot.Commit suicide.>>34718828You should DEFINITELY commit suicide.
>>34718709dont worry op, they just projecting their suicidal tendencies because an austictic girl would never fall for their dog asses. I think she already likes you if she shared her special interests.Just don't stres it, cortisol is bad for you after all :D
How do i tell a co-worker that I like her?
>>34714320If you truly don't care you would just take the risk and do it instead of asking for permission on a message board
>>34710335>over a period of time obviously not all togetherAmateur
>>34710260What if she says yes, gives me her insta, but then never accepts the follow request, and begins ignoring me every time she sees me from that point onwards?Asking for a friend.
>>34707645And? Just don't be a sperg about it. Simply pretend it never happened and she will be happy to do the same. Ez pz>>34706357Advanced: Ask her if she wants to come to your place after your shift endsBeginner: Ask her if she wants to do something outside of work , get drinks or whatever
Nothing ventured. Nothing gained
is it worth it to go to a prostitute to lose your virginity or is pussy overhyped and its better to stick to a fleshlight? chatgpt said that pussy is only worth it if you love the other person, otherwise a fleshlight can feel even better, just from a physical sensation perspective
>>34716662>Honestly, no. I’m aromantic and I don’t enjoy relationships. I also think mixing work and love can be very messy. I have heard from other sex workers that their relationships that started with clients usually ended poorly. It’s a very rare thing for it to work out.Well alright. Just stay safe out there, bedding strangers is dangerous and if you aren't out for love at least be safe yeah? Peace to you
>>34716910I mean you don’t unless they say they do that. I personally don’t offer raw so I’ve simply never done it. Some sex workers have menus so it might be an extra add-on (this is more common for low to mid range) and like the other anon said some sex workers may be willing to give an exception if you’re a regular.Also maybe ask about female condoms. They apparently feel different for the guy but I don’t have a cock so who knows>>34717019Thank you for caring! I do have safety measures in place and someone close to me always knows where I am. I’ve thankfully never had a bad encounter yet.
>>34711064Don't pay for an escort.Not for any moralfag reasons, but because giving money to a femon is slave behavior and you should never do it.
Not too related i suppose but should I fuck my ex? She hasn't had sex with anyone since and im the only guy she's fucked. Just left a relationship where I didn't even get a smooch.
>>34718553>Not for any moralfag reasons>gives a moral reason why you shouldn't fuck an escortlol>>34718730> She hasn't had sex with anyone It's like that Sopranos scene, where Tony is separated from Carmela, but while he was fucking his goomah's, Carmela was also having an affair. Then when Tony get's back to with Carmela and they have sex, he's like " The poor thing was starving, she hadn't been with anyone else but me!"
Do real girls like it when you lick their butthole or that just something you see in pornography and its not real?
>>34716503I didn't get aword of that frogspeak, but I'd fertilize her if you get my meaningWhy are frog women so hot if I am their arch enemy?
Sometimes I sneak up on my wife and blow hot air on her asshole. She acts like she doesn't like it but her face says otherwise.
>>34716503Kys and you won't have to worry about what girls like.
>>34716503Why would you want to?
>>34717092https://www.threads.com/@nedrac.philo
How the fuck do you seperate the sodium from chicken bullion so that you get all the flavah but very little salt?flavah :3
>>34713077Friendo, the salt is the point. If you want pure chicken flavor, you got two options>buy chicken stock with no sodium, boil it down to concentrate>make your own brothThe second one is easier than you think. Just gotta boil down some chicken bones/fat. Get a rotisserie chicken from the store. Pull ALL of the meat and skin off, eat it some other way. Maybe make a bunch of chicken salad idkBut back to the broth, take the chicken carcass and put it in your big pot, the one you use for noodles. Fill with water to maybe half an inch above the chicken carcass. Boil. As gross shit rises to the top, skim it off. Eventually you’ll have a pretty clear looking broth. Remove all bones now. Boil down to concentrate and then refrigerate and use as needed for pure chicken flavor.Yes, the rotisserie chicken from the store has some sodium but it’s added to the outside which you’re going to peel off anyway. If you want to mega-autism it, you can do the same with a raw chicken you cook yourself with 0 sodium and then use the process above.
>>34714480I figured it out. You just use the whole packet and then dump the water before eating.
>>34717101Hmm, I wonder if you can still just eat the noodles and keep the water but just don't drink it when you're done.
>>34713077If you kys, excessive sodium will no.longer bother you.
>>34718399You've got a problem man. Get help.
>20M, only had 1 ex who cheated>girls my age always rejected me because I didn't have a car>parents wouldn't let me borrow theirs>worked a shitty job, saved up, and bought a cheap car>still get rejected because it's a piece of shitcan shift gears but can't shift my dating life
>>34718623Omg our numbers almost match um like act cute and a baby….post yourself…with a pacifier on tinder or something saying that you need a care giver or even a Facebook group dedicated to it,, also are you cute
>>34718623Ah I put an emoji…it didn’t go…..happy cute smile with hearts around it…where did you leave..~?
>>34718629I'll skullrape you with a sledgehammer.
>>34718632Murder is never okay… okay?!?? I shouldn’t even have to tell you…..hmph…hmph….*anger*
>>34717277Those girl have no taste, that car is pretty nice.And clean to, do you have ever see the interior of a girl car ? Those thing are as filthy than their vagina.
Is life worth living without sex and relationships? I have a penile condition that impedes me to have sex, I'm 34 now and I'm going through life without interacting with women.
>>347017041. Loads of people have had fulfilling lives without relationships and sex. For example: Nickola Tesla was celibate and single his whole life and he was successful and did a lot of awesome things. IIRC he even attributes his success to those things2. Sex and relationships are not the same thing. There is sex without love, and there is love without sex. If you can't have the first thing due to your condition, you can have the second thing. There are loads of women who don't have sex because they're asexual, or have trauma or medical conditions.
>>34702673I agree with this guy, and I think (you) >>34703077 are misconstruing his point - he doesn't believe that sex is a need like food. He believes that companionship and intimacy is a need like food. And he's right. Long term it'll have such bad consequences to your overall health. I know because I've been single for 3 years now and I'm absolutely, absolutely miserable. I'm 30 now.And before the whole huhu if you don't go out you're bound to be sad - I'm active in many festivals, I sing in a choir, I regularly go hiking swimming and rowing, have friends I meet, it does not replace companionship, love, soft care, intimacy. Retard
>>34701704Life after 30 is a slow-motion suicide without family. It's all the negatives of getting old; watching your friends drift away as they start their own families, your parents and siblings getting old and die, watching everything in your life slowly putter out as the magic fades; without any of the positives of things like family or community to shore you up. Everything rots away and you're left with the bleakness of oblivion, no hope of anything continuing. Anyone who has experienced considerable ageing among his family members (or already in himself), knows how blackpilling it is. It's really rough, once people pass their early 50s (or sometimes even sooner) you start to notice the slip-ups, forgetfulness, the declining of fine motor skills, the difficulties understanding new information. Human existence is a tragedy, there are so few years that you are allowed with full mental and physical strength. Your peak years are mostly wasted with education, where you have barely any control over your own life, because you have little to no money nor autonomy. Add to that the time spent sleeping, working, hygiene, housework, shopping, appointments, visits to the workshop - what do we have left? Everyone who has to work for a living basically leads a precarious existence, regardless of whether they are a simple worker or a well-paid employee. Before they have built up a comfortable fortune and a well established understanding of the world, the body goes downhill.
>>34708442We're talking about straight relationships I guess, but you're delusional if you think lesbians don't use dildos and toys to blast their pussies, women crave penetration, it's natural.
>>34701827Life isn't all about sex and relationships but good luck being happy as a virgin.
Is this true?.
>>34718714Yeah it's true. The only people who disagree are people with pathological perfectionism at that point. Obviously there's exceptions to the rule of extreme face disfigurement, but sometimes even those people find love if they meet someone with apathy or anhedonia who don't feel anything at all when they see disfigurement, at some point the more they hang out with the disfigured person the more their appearance becomes a habit to look at them it actually becomes attractive at least in terms of comfort. Attraction isn't just about face value aesthetic it's also about visual comfort, and visual comfort is something you build over time when looking at someone often.
You tell me
>>34718756True. IRL unironically, I've seen the type of guy on the bottom, they get female attention a lot
>>34718756I think good thoughts, but i also have anxiety. It's a mix of me vibing, but also me being scared of everything.
>>34718714That's so unfair, ugly thoughts make you ugly, but nothing could make you more attractive.
