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What was it like?
What was the aftermath?
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>>34529662
I used a mimic tear against malenia. I never got gud
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No because I am not a subhuman.
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>>34529881
Its fun. Slave morality
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>>34529662
Ended in divorce but that was going to happen anyways by that point. I wasn’t a good husband. I stupidly married a woman based off these checks in the box like she was submitting a resume instead of someone I actually liked being around and had stuff in common with. I got a “work wife” as they call them, me and her got along like a house on fire, got liquored up with her at the bar around the corner of the hotel we were staying at during a business trip and ended up having sex. This went on for a few months until I finally got caught.

If the thought of cheating even enters your mind the relationship is over, point blank, and you should just break up because unless you are turbo uggo cheating becomes an eventuality.
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>>34529662
There used to be a 2 player type crossword game that I played on my phone, and I started cheating on that by looking up words I could spell with my current letters. It just ruined it for me because I won all the time with ridiculous words.

Option 1: Go to a kind of middling university near me, studying engineering. The only cons for this are that engineers may not be paid the best, the ability to secure a job & university debt.

I would have an interest in energy engineering, but whenever I look at job listings, it's in no way as popular as mechanical engineering or civil engineering. The other problem would be the fact that I have gaps in my employment history due to suffering with a debilitating OCD, which has thankfully loosened its grip in the past year. However, I am still being rejected from even part-time sales assistant jobs & cleaning jobs. If I can't even get basic jobs, I worry that I will never be able to get industry jobs as well. Then there is the fact that I would be a late student (starting at the age of 23), & I fear that by the time I finish, I will be too late to be able to start dating with a lack of experience. Of course I could date anyway in college, but then I run into the problem of funding my personal life, as I had stated before with the issues with employment.

Option 2: Go into the military & do 4 years as military police, then leave for civil police roles in one of the various constabularies (regular police, British Transport Police, Ministry of Defence Police & Civil Nuclear Constabulary). It will allow me to be eligible for a military pension; any children can apply for a few extra scholarships for children of service members, & it can be pretty decent pay (a regular base cop after 5 years can be making ~£50,000) I would also not have to worry about any student debt acting as an extra tax for me.

I would like to thank anyone for reading this & taking the time out of your day to reply to it!
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>>34529210
Option 1. Do internships and whatever placements your university offers to maximize chances of employment after graduation


Maybe Britain is different, but in the USA the MPs are assholes. I've met several and they've all been parodies of bullying thugs. I wouldn't want to work with them
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>>34529210
Join the military and and then join a conspiracy to coup the government

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My 19 yr old sister is a vapid spoiled TikTok brat who speaks to me like shit undermining things I like and throws a tantrum when called out, how do I not hate her?
We’ve never been close she’s been in trouble, I’ve tried to be there for her picking her up when she’s needed it and she barely makes the effort to talk back.
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Typical western cunt. There's nothing you can do except avoid her.
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Just don't involve her in you life.
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>>34528760
it's okay to feel hate, disappointment and longing. don't try to stop feeling those coz all that is natural. find people to surround yourself with that actually respect you and want to hang out. then your feelings about your sister won't be as painful
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>>34528760
Prayer, just ask God, "please, let me love her". It won't make her not annoying or awful, but might stop you from actually hating her
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>>34529299
No it wont

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I’m 35 today this is me last year I’ve been told I look young for my age realistically how young could I pass myself of as with a little work
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>>34521885
You have to be 18 to post here.
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Trafalgar Square.
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>>34521885
Bruh when i was in my early 20's I had a thick moustache and people thought I was in my 30's. Now that I'm older (around your age) I'm clean shaven and I'm skinny AF with really nice skin and people often think I'm in my early 20's. I don't even try at it desu Anyways, biggest thing you can do is be clean shaven and don't seem weary of life in the way only older people act. Attitude, lack of wrinkles a full head of hair and facial hair seem to do the most.
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In all seriousness you could maybe pass as a 28ish year old
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>>34521885
>still has a hairline
that's a pretty good 35, just wear sunscreen and lose the belly fat

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Did I come on too strong and needy? How am I doing? This is after she sent me a selfie that very clearly showed off her boobs btw
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>>34507994
Just say she has nice tits you massive bumbling autist, it's a compliment.
In what world is this faux chivalrous
>I will not directly address m'lady's bust
better than complimenting a woman on a feature she's probably proud of?
Fucking weirdos man
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the only winning move against women is not to pursue them at all.
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>>34525641
This
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>>34512968
>asked her about her music taste

She sent you her tits dude. Don't bother with that teenage noncommital smalltalk shit and ask her to meet up.
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>>34507994
lol bruh you're already in, just call her fine shyt or whatever the kids are saying these days

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Is it normal that my gf always bites me when she kisses me? It's a little painful. She especially likes to do this after we've been arguing
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My advice is to stop posting this larping shit about your made up gf. You make these threads damn near everyday.
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>>34525062
Not common, but totally normal. She's just into that
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>>34525137
Not a LARP at all, this is my first relationship and I'm a socially clueless sperg, which is why I'm asking all these questions
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Learn to like pain
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>>34525062
You need to bite her back you retard

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>Mother is a (failed) career woman
>Father is mediocre, did nothing with his life except watching TV and popping out some kids, has even asked me for money
>Mother also has asked me for money for decaying grandparents
>Who have also contributed nothing to me
>Parents are also decaying and becoming older themselves
>I barely feel like I've managed to escape the bleak future they secured for me, barely feel like I've started living

I think and feel my entire family didn't plan for shit and now are trying to leech off of me. I found some modicum of success, at least enough to get by alone, but I can't have dependents besides my small dog. They've given me nothing, taught me nothing to deal with real life.

I've already told them I'd give them no money, but they still feel like a heavy load on my shoulders, psychologically speaking. I wish I could tell them they're fucking losers, but that'd probably break them.
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>>34525536
>>34525545
No one said anything about being their slave, retards. OP's the dumbass who lies the this parents gave him nothing which isn't true because if it were true he'd be dead. Being thankful isn't being a slave. At least an acknowledgement would be nice but no, OP had to sound off like a spoiled brat instead.

>Wahhh I had to get my own job and make my own money
>Wahh my parents therefore didn't give me shit they should have just given me money for free
>Wahhh I don't understand how loans work or how lending money works wahhh
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>>34525733
You sound like a fucking retarded boomer.

If you bring life into the world you have to prepare it for independence, not leech off it you worthless cattle.
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>>34525002
Just ignore them, honestly it's shameful for a parent to ask for money from their child. They had decades to get their shit together but didn't.
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>>34525740
You're delusional. I ask parents for money all the time and I pay it back. They ask me for money, I oblige, and they pay me back. It's called being a functional adult who interacts with parents as a fellow adult. If you're over 18 and still expecting to be babied that's a sign of immaturity
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Most people are not fit to be in relationships and have kids

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how to you tongue-kiss? What's the tongue movement like? Do you trace circles with your tongue or something? Do you graze the lips? Do you graze the labial frenulum? Do you glide your tongue on the other person's teeth? And what's the lip movement like?
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>>34524660
In my experience, most women don't particularly enjoy having you shove your tongue in their mouth. Good kissing is mainly about the lips: using your lips to slowly stroke and caress hers. I softly touch her lips with my tongue to vary the sensation.
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>>34526193
>i mean is it like, regular kissing lip movements? Do you press softly, press much, or not at all?
Just like a normal kiss I guess. I haven't kissed many times to be honest, however, it's just a regular kiss but with tongue...

>Rhytmically or somewhat evenly throughout the kiss?
I mean, the entire kiss is rhythmical...

>>34526341
>my experience, most women don't particularly enjoy having you shove your tongue in their mouth.
I guess it really depends, half the women I kissed used tongue.

>Good kissing is mainly about the lips
Not true... Using the tongue is way better, have you ever had any French kiss before?

>I softly touch her lips with my tongue

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>>34526341
>>34526348
okay, thanks guys
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yeah lip to lip is much better

tongue can be kinky but I'd much rather just suck on her lips and lick her whole face vs doing tongue to tongue

when you do do tongue to tongue it should be met halfway, meaning your tongue and her tongue aren't particularly in each others mouth more than the other persons. it's about little playful flicks, but dont overthink it
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Tounges play with each other

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Is sex tourism still a thing? Which countries give the best chance of getting laid at a party or some shit? I'm a blonde, blue eyed white dude.
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>>34525816
If you cant get laid in your own country, you wont have much of a better chance in other countries.
Women dont magically find you more attractive abroad when you're already repelling them at home
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>>34525816
>Which countries give the best chance of getting laid
dont be lazy. Just do a bit of research. Video related:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mAwv-P332WQ
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>>34525846
Mexico
Germany
Thailand
From what I have heard

>>34526396
>Melbourne
Lol. They are extremely expensive and most are old

>>34526633
Asians do if you're white
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>>34526396
You can look up independent reviews too lol. That is a reliable method in choosing one. But if you're going overseas you probably wouldn't do this.
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Can't you just fuck your local whores?

im in college right now and the only reason i havent killed myself is that im too much of a pussy. i dont know if the world has always been this awful or if im just realising now as ive become an adult but jesus fucking christ. if its always been this bad how has everyone managed to not shoot themselves. does life get better after school? is it school thats making me miserable or is it just that the world is a miserable place. this just doesnt feel like the adulthood i was promised. the millenial optimism era has ended and now the world seems so cold and souless. everything is an ad everything is a subscription and everything is ai. it feels like ive entered adulthood as society is on the brink of falling apart and i dont know how to stop being so cynical. if anyone has any advice on how to be more optimistic id love to hear it. also if any older people could let me know if the world has always been this bad and im just a depressed person, or if it really is getting worse and im not imagining things. i just remember watching youtube videos when i was 9 and and seeing how cool and creative everyone was and now it seems like all that joy has disappeared. is this all life will be?
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>>34524813

9 'Whoever stays in this city will die by the sword, famine, or plague.'
Jeremiah 21

5 This is what the Lord, the God of Israel, says: "Like these good figs, I regard as good the exiles from Judah, whom I sent away from this place"
Jeremiah 24

2 This is what the Lord says: "The people who survive the sword will find favor in the wilderness; I will come to give rest to Israel."
Jeremiah 31
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>>34526016
so youre saying i should go to tel aviv? christ
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>>34524616
Human beings have always been shit, so who cares if society is atomized and everything is AI? Have you ever stopped to consider that maybe the only reason you love the human race so much despite it being so low-quality is because you're a low-quality person yourself?
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>>34526013

after a time of destruction good times return. the process is cyclical. if you were to drop yourself in the middle of fall for the first time, and the days are getting darker and colder, and the plants are seeming to be dying, flowers are wilting, trees are losing their leaves, you might think it's all over. but spring's eternal, you just have to see beyond the current scene.

the war/collapse will be apocalyptic and the odds of survival are low, but the odds are positive ie. non-zero. aim high, who's to say you're not 'elite' too? it's not just about money either, there will be plenty of rich people who go down with the ship. those who survive will separate from it beforehand

>>34526019

no, the wilderness is the place to be soon. you mention AI, it will hunt along the grid, "dead reckoning".
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Just dont be depressed it's easy

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Starting yesterday morning I just randomly had trouble swallowing all of a sudden and it was hard to breathe. breathing feels back to normal now but I can feel a lump in my throat that hasn't gone away and it feels like food gets stuck in my throat when I eat. Could I have ALS? I've also been having some memory issues on and off for the past half a year or so.
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You don't want to hear this but that really needs a Dr to look at it. There's SO MANY causes of temporary breathing difficulties or swallowing difficulties from allergies to GERD / Silent Reflux, to asthma attack, to exotic things you probably don't have. If possible you should see a doctor. They'll need to lay eyes on you and examine the situation

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I have a Phanteks G500A case, 7X Phanteks T30 140mm fans that just came out, and an Arctic Liquid Freezer III 420mm aio CPU cooler. Should I front mount the cooler with the stock cooler fans, or, should I top mount it with three T30's on the cooler? As in, what will fit? I have an Aorus Elite X870. (I know if I front mount it I have to flip the stock fans on the radiator if I'm having three front fans on the case as intake, don't worry about it)
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>>34529438
I'm saying why should it be front mounted? I will measure it but if its tight i might be off a bit
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>>34529510
They have a thread for pc building called /pcbg/.
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>>34529538
>I'm saying why should it be front mounted?
This is the safest recommendation because the Arctic LF III is unusually thick compared to many AIOs, so front mounting avoids the biggest compatibility trap: top motherboard clearance.

Arctic's included fans are already pressure optimized for the radiator. Swapping to T30s in many cases adds more thickness, clearance risk, etc.

Top mount 3x T30 exhaust, rear 1x T30 exhaust is to make airflow sense, Front intake through radiator, strong top exhaust, rear exhaust, positive or near neutral pressure depending RPM curves.

And your Aorus Elite X870, top clearance may be tighter than with some lower profile boards.
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>>34529606
Will I have to remove the front most T30 on the top to fit the cooler in the front? Someone told me I'll probably have to and that will piss me the fuck off.
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>>34529606
please tell me i just want to be done

Is it possible to date as a man without it feeling like a humiliation ritual?
https://youtu.be/sJdwnDB0aS4
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>>34526038
You gotta grow some balls. Try TRT or something.
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>>34526038
After 30 sure.
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>>34526127
I don't know about that, I'm 33 and still can't figure out how to get a date.
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>>34526038
No, its in the nature of all woman to put shame on their couples by being whores and paysluts

Go find a cute femboy and fuck him for free, what do you want a woman other than for sex, no woman is good enough for an actual life and children
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No. Women always have the upper hand

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My last job was at one of the big aero space companies my job was to kill a big bull frog with a Shovel this was a couple years ago when I moved put of town and decided to make my own way the bullfrog lived in a marshy area near the parking lot and croaked really loudly and distracted some of the engineers so it was out job to kill it with a Shovel there were 5 of us we were called the frog team on our 6th day on patrol we saw the frog near so trash bins and we chased it in the road and it got run over by a big trucktMy last job was at one of the big aero space companies my job was to kill a big bull frog with a Shovel this was a couple years ago when I moved put of town and decided to make my own way the bullfrog lived in a marshy area near the parking lot and croaked really loudly and distracted some of the engineers so it was out job to kill it with a Shovel there were 5 of us we were called the frog team on our 6th day on patrol we saw the frog near so trash bins and we chased it in the road and it got run over by a big truck they were going to lay off the whole frog team after that but because we has done such a good job they said they had another project for us there was this big slow turtle that was always opening its mouth at people so they asked us to Crack its shell open we say the turtle on the second day and spent about an hour or so wacking on its shell with our Shovel until it broke after that the frog team was invited to the company Christmas party we were a little shy but a few people came up to us and told us what a great job we did and that loosened us up
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the boss was there on the dance floor rubbing himself through the front of his pants then he came up to me He said "hey lets get outta here and get high I got some weed in my car" i asked if my friends could come and he said "no I don't wanna get high with your little gay friends" then he grabbed me by the shoulder so hard it hurt
In the parking lot I seen my chance and I hit him in the back with a shovel the human resources director saw me and rushed over and grabbed the shovel I ran away right then knowing I had done wrong you can believe I felt just awful for what I done i felt i let down the company most of all I felt I let down the frog team with my shoddy behavior I didn't leave the house for a week I was so depressed But them there was a knock at the door and who else was there but the frog team and the boss weeping with open arms begging for forgiveness I worked down in cape Canaveral after that ripping up cats with a big riding lawnmower when ever they wondered onto the field but it wasn't the same so I quit and moved back home I had something special there with the frog team and I don't know if I'll ever have it again the cats screamed
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I don't know what to do nothing will be the same I'll never feel like I did
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quality schizopost 10/10

I was never into these AI chatbots but a few months ago I tried talking to ChatGPT about a personal issue because I didn't have anyone else to talk about it to. Since then I've found myself to do it more often. I don't really have close friends, I was used to just not talking about this stuff at all and the only person I sometimes did talk to about personal problems when it was really unbearable was my online friend. However she's way less active now than she used to so we talk only occasionally now. So yeah, I now go to ChatGPT instead of real people. I especially like the way it can summarize the whole situation and put things into words I'm not able to but when I see it written I always tell myself "yeah, this is exactly what it is I just couldn't find words for it".
But I'm starting to think... Is it unhealthy to do this? Should I cut it off before it's too late?
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>>34524649
yes its horrible. i´m floored by the amount of absolute retards ITT telling you otherwise.
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>>34524649
Be aware that anyone can buy the transcripts and build a profile on you.
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>>34524649
You do realise that OpenAI keeps records of everything you say to ChatGPT? Other LLMs do the same as well
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>>34524689
You can't delete what no longer belongs to you.

It's all on their servers. You agreed to this.
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>>34524649
yes it's bad don't do that anon. you need to see a real therapists chatbots should only be used to look up information. "what is ___?" "explain this concept of engineering" never use it for personal problems. never "what do you think about ___?" or "what would you do in this situation?". never use it for decision-making. why? LLM's are coded to try to please you. that's why they make shit up. that's why they're overly affirmative. that's why after so many prompts, you can make it agree with you on practically anything.


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