>My 24f gf moved in with me a couple weeks ago>On sunday I came home a little early and went to check on her>she seemed fine in the morning but now she was coughing so she asked me to give her a mask, but she wouldn't open the bedroom door more than a crack "I'm really sick and I don't want to get you sick too">It looked like either her sleeve was rolled up or she was wearing a tshirt>can you go the store and get some tylenol for my pain>you should probably see the doctor>no I just wanna rest right now, I should feel better in the morning>okay I'll be back in half an hour>Love you babe (???? she never says this)>Before I leave for the pharmacy I notice these like heavy duty shoes shoved in the corner that are way too big for her and definitely not her style>the shoes are gone by the time I come back with the medicineComment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>34005892>>34010580You will never be a woman.
>>34005345this is what a 15 year old thinks a real story should look like
>>34005334I'm sorry dude, but she is taking Chad's cock. Next time pick your women better.
>>34006100Someone either got cheated on or didn't. Being creative about it isn't productive.
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I'm unironically thinking of going back to HS senior year at 33. I spent my 20s in a hospital bed. I managed to completely recover and get into UNI and complete 3 semesters but I don't feel anything, I simply wanna experience HS romance and prom.Should I go before I turn 40?
>>34008808>Women shoot above their league>I want a woman who is 16 years younger than me
>>34008808No high school is going to let a 33 year old autistic shut in NEET be around children. Life isn't an Adam Sandler movie retard. You can go to an adult school and get your GED, that's what's available to you.
>>34008808>>I wanna experience HS romance and prom.>>33 years oldEveryone point and laugh
>>34008858This is exactly what junior college was invented for, aka "high school with ashtrays"
>>34008808Picture yourself as a 16 year old HS kid. Some guy in his 40s appears and starts hitting on the girls in your class.Now you tell me if that's creepy
I drink too much and need to quit. But I'm finding it quite difficult. Do you have any tips on how you managed it? And once you've quit, how do you stay off it?
>>34010663go away somewhere where you have no access to it
>>34010670Yeah that might be a good idea. I need to get out of the city anyway
If you drink really heavily, talk to your doctor first. Quitting cold turkey might kill you. As for the challenge itself, go to an AA meeting, use a fake name if you want, and ask for help. There's no shame in it.
>>34010764>Quitting cold turkey might kill youI'm a bit worried about this. I tried to cut down, but that always resulted in 'fuck it, I want another one'Cold turkey would be less of a hassle. A few days of torture and then I would be done with it
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I'm so scared, I'm over a month behind on rent and I don't want to get evicted, I cant qualify for a loan and I don't have anything worthwhile to sell, I will do just about anything for the 2k I need to get out of this mess, is there any advice or help I can get?
>>34010715I currently have 2 jobs but they don't pay nearly as well as my old job, and aren't giving me the hours I need to bridge this gap and I don't have anymore time to find another
>>34010689How is that guy the asshoe when you and two jobs can’t keep your shit together? Are you smoking the expensive crack, or what?
>>34010786It's not the 1950s anymore, boomer. Government literally wants us to die. The average person spends half their paycheck on rent and 40% on taxes.
>>34010653Give 4000 blowjobs at 50 cents each
>>34010709Have you been at your current job long enough and made a good enough impression to ask for an advance on next month's salary?
I'm farting non-stop, and it's getting embarrassing to be around people because of it
>>34009951"Hey does anyone smell popcorn? Is somebody using the office microwave to make a SHIT ton of popcorn?? It REALLY smells like popcorn in here guys see? Smell the air take a DEEP breath it smells really good. I want to find out who is making popcorn and ask them for a bag. FUCK I could really go for some popcorn right now."
>>34007538You have to stop eating whatever is making you fart so much
>>34007538eat less fiber
>>34009940Thix
>>34007538I never ever fart
My uncle is severely verbally abusive and insane due to a brain injury he received from literally falling out of a tree while drunk. He lives here with me and my mom, but due to issues with the house and the reverse mortgage on it, we're not sure if my mom has the legal right to evict him. For the past 20+ years he's been verbally abusing us and screaming, shoved me when i was 6 years old for no reason, took a swing at my mom that didn't land, grabbed my mom from behind recently out of anger. He just has these 'episodes' of intense anger and rage completely unprompted, often related to smells or random objects around the house and other bizarre OCD shit. He makes no sense, is impossible to reason with, doesn't respect boundaries, etc.We've called the police on him more times than I can count. But because he lives here and he hasn't actually killed us yet, they can't do anything. Apparently there's something called an EP or emergency petition that we can file, but we can't have him getting released and coming back for revenge so we're hesitant to file it.What does someone do in a situation like this? This guy has completely ruined our lives and we're like prisoners in our own house, I have severe trauma because of him, and I say that without self pity, it's just true that he made my childhood a living hell for no reason and I still have to deal with him on a daily basis even after all these years. Me and my mom just want him gone, for the state to take him or something, hospitalize him ideally, but we're worried he might get released because he knows how to 'act' semi normal when the authorities get involved the twofaced piece of shit. We're scared he'll just come back angrier than ever.What do? Should we file this petition thing, will they actually do something with him, or will they just give him some meds and send him back to us?
>>34009949yes, testosterone causes aggression. everyone knows that.at first, you were saying crazy shit, but now you're just... making fun of me by saying things that are true.
You could brew some potions or trade them for emeralds and give them to him and then while he goes to bed you can install the pillow mod and then attack him with it in the face while your mom stops him from getting up so it looks like he just died randomly in his sleep to the server mods in Minecraft
>>34009633Op, have you legitimately considered locking him in the basement or shed like an animal?You could chain him to a wall and give him scraps from dinner and then whip/beat him to make him more submissive.Does he legitimately have any friends? He just sounds like some troglodyte that eats your food. You should treat him like one. Maybe once in a while you could corner him with a hockey stick or bat y'know? Just tell your mom he started it. Anon, if you legitimately love your mom and want to live there you will FIGHT for it.
>>34009751belonged to my grandmother. she passed it down to my mom in her will, but because of the negative equity i guess it technically belongs to the mortgage company lol.
>>34010940That has absolutely nothing to do with his rights to live there, which are probably zero (though you need to check with a lawyer). Legally your mother is the owner, with a lien on her by the bank, which simply means that if she sells, they get the money
Apparently oral sex is a big thing for a lot of women. I personally have no desire to ever go down on a woman. But mostly because I am scared. I remember seeing one of those early morning informercials when I was younger about throat cancer and one guy on there said he got it from giving women oral sex too much. That moment is singed into my head even though I saw that informercial when I was like 11-12 years old. Now I am in my 30's and never had sex. I am also worried about the sexual history of some women. There are dudes who give female porn stars oral sex like its no big deal and I am freaked out that a woman could be nutted in and have some other dude go down on her without him knowing. Fringe fear I know but its really how I feel. Its also why I will never do anything super sexually "freaky". I am not ever eating ass or licking toes. The trouble of doing those fringe sex things seems not worth it. Anyway, Do you go down on women selectively? or do you just engage in that particular sexual activity whenever? Even thinking about it makes me uneasy because I don't know how has nutted in her. Not even upset that she has had sex. I assume most people do have sex. What makes me uneasy is if she would do something weird like have sex earlier in the day and then have some other dude give her oral sex later on like it doesn't matter. THAT freaks me out. Also, I understand a lot of this may irrational but I don't know how to move past it.
>>34010402>having morals and believing in evolution is nihilisticdo u realize that NIHILISTS do not have morals? thats your whole thing
>>34010255Licking your mate's genitals is not some human exclusive degeneracy
>>34009354Very lame and non-subby choice
I gave my girl a toe job and she wound up with athlete's pussy
>>34011305ew xdmaybe for the holidays you should go for a couples' mani-pedi spa day. give her something to smile at (your discomfort and her pretty nails)
>tl;dr gf is preggers, doesn't want to abort, I don't know how to prepare>be me, yours truly, 24>gf is 28>been living together for a year and something now>I don't want children right now (I started college 1 year ago)>She wants some children >to be fair halfway through the year we came as clean, so we didn't use condoms for a while>lol lmao dumbass>pic related was todayI knew the risk was calculated but boy am I bad at math. Nonetheless, she's already made her decision (no abortions), I don't know how I'm going to do it but I also don't want to abandon her and turn her into a single mom (repeat the cycle lol lmao). Consider that I pay for rent, my college degree, don't have a house of my own, my job relies on tourism (and so does her), how do I prepare? How did you guys prepare? I desperately need some wisdom here because, while I'm not ready to be a father, I don't want to abandon children of mine and end up paying child support>inb4 its your faultPlease tell me something I don't already know>inb4 she cheated lolI'm 100% certain that she hasn't. And even then, we'll do a paternity test just to be sureComment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>34008645>How do I prepare? How did you guys prepare? I need some wisdom.Sure I'm a father myself. I'll give you my honest-to-goodness wisdom: You can't prepare. Nothing will prepare you. And the sooner you accept this and make peace with that, you will be ready.You ever heard of that tired old phrase 'expect the unexpected"? This applies here at this moment of your life. You are at the frontier of life itself my man, you will not be able to read the future and you cannot anticipate all of the unknowns. This is the part of a man's life where he has to get in the captain's seat of his own soul and steady on. Steady as she goes, mate. You take it a day at a time. You will not fuck this up. If you have any doubts about your own ability to be a father or you worry about if you even have what it takes to provide a good life for the kid, forget about it. Put those thoughts out of your head. It's all bullshit. You have what it takes, you will provide a good enough upbringing for the kid. It won't be perfect but you will do good enough. You know how you can know this? You live. Your parents did a good enough job, you didn't die in their care. Their parents did a good enough job, their parents before them, and their parents before them all the way to your ancestors. You have the ability of being a good enough father running in your blood already.If you ever worry about repeating possible fuck ups your parents may have did, do not worry. Because you just need to listen to yourself. You said:>while I'm not ready to be a father, I don't want to abandon children of mine and end up paying child supportYou know why you said this? Because you give a shit. You actually care, and that worry is the proof itself that you have what it takes. Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>34008645>>34011124(Continued)Step 2 is going to be when second trimester hits. First trimester is easy. Your girl (who you need to marry by the way. Start planning. Do not worry about expensive shit. You can have the expensive shit later). Your girl is going to go through a fuck ton on mental and hormonal changes as the pregnancy develops. Don't panic, women go back to their old self 6 months or so after child birth. Do not fall for the meme of feeding her mind altering drugs to try to get her back to 'normal'. Trust the process Second trimester you will lose sleep. Your girl will be kicking and tossing and turning in sleep non-stop. Every single night. She will get up to use the bathroom every half hour. Your goal is patience and you will need to step up and do a lot of her tasks for her, starting with house chores.Third step is third trimester. Her emotions are going to go crazy. Not in a bad way, just in an endearing female way. She will cry for nothing and laugh over nothing, silly moments occur. She will physically be as capable as an elderly person. You will need to help her dress help her dry her hair and help her move from room to room if her girdle and pelvic pain is severe.You will be the leader of the relationship at this point. She will look to you to make big decisions about her health and the health of the baby. Even doctors will look to you for decision making.(Example, if she is required to have a C-section for whatever reason. The man (you) will have to sign a waiver where you promise not to sue the hospital if your girl or your baby die during the procedure. You will also be the one to decide which one lives and which one dies in the case both are losing consciousness.) Don't panic. Chances of this are astronomically slim, I only bring it up to hammer the point home: You are supposed to take the role of leader from this point on. Be a good leader. Good leaders serve their family. Shit ones are tyrants and egotistical
>>34008645>>34011124>>34011132(Lastly)So be a good leader. That means know your limits know your strengths, know you are flawed but know your potential. Give up on perfection, settle for accepting what you have and what you can control, build from that. Those who are drunk with the fantasy of perfection are those who make no actions, they only make thoughts. And all thoughts are worthless unless acted upon. My last insight and suggestion is reflect on your own life, specifically your own upbringing. This WILL be the blueprint for your fatherhood. It was the blueprint for who and what you are psychologically speaking. For better or for worse.So, reflect on it and become very familiar with how you were shaped in your own upbringing. Because this is going to be 50% of what shapes your child's future. And you get to control that, that's the good news. By examining the shape of your own origin, you will be aware of what worked and what didn't. What was harmful to your growth and what was beneficial. Keep the beneficial experiences, and give them to your kid by repeating them. For the bad experiences, learn from them and find the opposite methods that could make them better and then give to your kid the things you didn't get growing up. Example: your dad promised he would take you fishing but didn't he promised lots of bonding experiences but he never fulfilled them. Solution is you will be the one to do what your own dad didn't. Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>34008645>>34011124>>34011132>>34011140(Lastly lastly)I forgot to mention the simple yet obvious:The most you can ever spend on your child is time & care. Your girl will provide the nurturing and affections. You provide the guidance and the support. You dispense wisdom and experience to the kids she dispenses love and comfort to the kids. That's your only job. There are families with little money but extremely rich childhoods, and families from great wealth but abhorrent childhoods. There's poor people with shit upbringings. Rich people with good parents. What it all depends on is whether or not the parents gave time and love and guidance to their kids. That's all you gotta worry about providing. Good luck
>>34008645>>I don't want children right nowThere WERE things you could have done about that, you know
Being perceived as weak, ugly, and stupid because of my height, the constant gaslighting from society,not being seen as a potential partner by women and being seen as a man-child being an incel because of my bad experiences with women since I was 14.
>>34009737Professional bodybuilders are fucking tiny in stature as it allows for muscles to appear larger in comparison to their form. Tall body builders exist but are not the norm with most being under 6ft. If you feel shit about the way you look you either address that mentally and/or get medicated until you can self-regulate or you strive to change yourself to make yourself feel better. Work out, look into ketosis regimes and either calisthenics or dumb bell resistance training to increase your strength as well as leaning out. All shit you can do at home and don't need to go to the gym or pay for special supplements. Once you get into it you should feel better physically as well as mentally which might be enough for you, but if it isn't, you can then look into actual body building and pursue building mass by switching to high calorie diets which you can still do with ketosis via supplementing with cheese. Then if you are really really still fucked up and don't feel good about your appearance that is when you should seek mental health as it is no longer self-esteem but actual dysmorphia. Then if all else fails you can look into PEDs as a last resort to stiffle off your feelings of dysmorphia and maybe try to make body building a professional pursuit, but just be aware you are more than likely going to stiffle your lifespan along with the dysmorphia.But at the end of the day look at it like this:Some girls *like* having a guy fuck them thats smaller than them as it is a power dysparity. Just as there is guys wanting to be dom'd by a shortstack there are girls who want to be ridden by a hairy dwarfish motherfucker. Get the fuck off dating app shit and touch grass in social areas.
>>34011114>>34009737just cope with it im 5'4 and I've done fine in my life with girls, not chad or anything like that but really is all in your headalso advice NEVER NEVER become a gymbro, accept that is not for you, DO NOT BECOME A GYMBRO, it will make you look x10 worse. It's ok to do gym but never try to become a buff guy or whatever bc it screams compensation
>>34011196>also advice NEVER NEVER become a gymbro, accept that is not for you, DO NOT BECOME A GYMBRO, it will make you look x10 worse. It's ok to do gym but never try to become a buff guy or whatever bc it screams compensationIf you get into roid shit, yes. But if you are just getting toned it is a net benefit in almost every way from mental to physical health.
>>34011205Yeah I mean like actual buff GYMBRO build, like how any gymrat looks. Ofc going to the gym and having some muscle is ok, just don't go buff GYMBRO fridge route because it's not a build that will look good on you, it just won't!
>>340097375'5"and he was short before he was famous. He just didn't let that stop him
Recently my father introduced me to car breaker yard raffles. The gist is that a breaker yard will sometimes get hold of an old car that is still in decent condition and instead of scrapping it they instead raffle it off. This particular raffle group he showed me has been opperating for 10 years now and appear to be very legit. They post about the winners every time and every active raffle has a ticket list of everyone who is participating. They offer free next day delivery too. So all in all I am not too concerned about whether it is a racket or not, but what I am concerned about is odds and the point of buying multipe tickets.Each raffle has a ticket price as low as $4.50 to as high as $10 depending on the car in the raffle and you can buy any amount of tickets. On average the piblic ticket lists have just over 2000 participants for cars but if you want an old bike you typically see below 400 with the bike tickets being priced far lower at around $3 to $6. Now obviously the odds of 1 in 2000 is very low, but the price of entry is pretty cheap for what it is and some of the cars are very good. It seems like fun even if every time it's a moonshot, but how actually worth it is it to buy multiple tickets? I know rudimentry 5 tickets is technically 5 times the probability of 1, but is the practical likelihood worth paying something like $50 instead of $10? Or is the moonshot that significant that you're just as likely to get it with 1 ticket as opposed to 5? Ontop of that would it be better to place those 5 tickets on 5 different cars instead of the one?
>>34011105If you know how to repair cars, it is worth it
>>34011105Find one that has auctions rather than raffles. You may pay more but you won't pay at all if you don't get it
>I'm 27 and have never had a girlfriend>I'm no Henry Cavill, but I also know I'm not an ugly bastard because I have gone on dates with women>some very attractive women have given me the time of day simply because I'm not afraid to go up to them and ask them out>sometimes I'll hook up with women the same day I meet them>let's get it out of the way: I have no problem meeting women>my problem is holding onto those relationships>none of the women I spend time with really click for me>it's all just the same shit with everybody I meet >we'll have fun going out and stuff, but it's never serious >one or two dates>lot of misses >sometimes I fuck>it goes on>at this point I'm kinda lonely from it all>see couples out in public and crave that connection with another personComment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>34011156That watch looks like a Rolex Submariner Oystersteel Date (about 12k)
>>34011167There was one girl I met recently who I really liked. We met on tinder, and we went out on three dates. Most of the women I meet on tinder only go for one date.>date one we went out for drinks, played pool, went to the arcade, made-out in my car, grabbed a bite, made-out some more, and then I took her home>date two we went to the movies with her hands wrapped around my arm as my hand sat on her thigh>date three we went off to the book store and talked about books we liked and I gifted her something she liked by an author we both loved before I took her home one last timeShe was only visiting family at the time, so it was very brief. We didn't sleep together, although she wanted to grab a room, but she got nervous and backed out of the idea. I still went out of my way to see her. I actually really liked her, but then again, she was only visiting. I'm not ashamed to say it, but I was crying after dropping her off for the last time because she was the first girl in a long time that I wanted to be with in ages.
>>34011194Hate to break it to you anon you were her vacation fling, now she has returned to her boyfriend thats life learn the signs. Date two should have been your clue.
>>34011194duh of course it feels good to flirt and go on high effort, attractive behaviour dates. but you will have to choose air or land.you could try investing time in a woman you like and have gauged as sane, convince her to travel, but that wastes both of your time. if you travel away your 20s and 30s, there's no chance of making a family, but if you settle down she'll resent you for daydreaming and being restless, etc etc. there's no pure good scenario for you or your woman.so when you choose, do it wholeheartedly and convince yourself of it to avoid any yearning problems.
>>34011147You can get girls but can't keep them.100% a personality problem. Something about you bores them or scares them away after the first interest.
>What is /htgwg/?How to Get Women General is by men, for men, about women, so bring all of your questions about getting and dealing with women here. Some anons on this site actually get laid, and some of them even want to help. If you're trying to meet and date women, then this is the place to ask questions, seek advice, and share experiences. We know how hard it can be. We got you bro.>What is /htgwg/ not?These threads are NOT for whining, moping, incels, volcels, MGTOW, hopelessness, or demoralization. We're all aware that meeting and dating women is hard today, and even harder for some, but /htgwg/ is for trying to overcome the challenges. IGNORE the posters who complain, give up, or insist there's nothing they can do. This site has other boards and threads that they can pollute. BE SMART: Spot the bait, don't reply, and DON'T WASTE TIME ARGUING WITH THEM!>How to ask for adviceContext is important: be more specific than "This girl ghosted me, why?" We can't help if we don't know the situation, so try to provide as much (useful) info as possible ("I was at the bar, this chick was checking me out..."). What's your relationship with the girl? How long have you known her? Any conversation screenshots? Etc... Don't forget to ask an actual question.>Resources and Bookshttps://wingman.live/ (AI dating coach)https://pdfcoffee.com/318797392-mark-manson-models-2016pdf-4-pdf-free.htmlhttps://archive.org/details/robert-glover-no-more-mr-nice-guy-id-353324692-size-612https://www.youtube.com/@YourWingmamhttps://www.doctornerdlove.com/blog/Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>34006534Where can I/ how can I meet women at 27M? All I do is lift and work, no one goes out on the weekends, I’m at a loss on how to date when I tried dating apps to no avail and I’m not really around any women
>>34009383Are we talking tiktok humour or 4chan humour?
How can I tell if I’m my female friends backup plan? I don’t want to be
>>34009645If your female friend isn't your girlfriend or wife you are the backup
losing interest in dating for the simple fact every woman is a zogbot feminist with no ideias of her own. They literally all sound the same and have the same interests and boss girl ambitions.
Not sure how I've gotten myself into this situation but I'm dating two women. One for about a month, the other about a week now. They both say that we're casual, non exclusive and what not. I'm new to casual dating, and I know I literally have permission, but I imagine one of these women wouldn't be happy if they found a strand of the other's hair in my bed. How do I date two women without hurting any feelings?
>>34009926you know i'm right.
>>34009939>you've gotta be Patrick Bateman levels of autistically meticulous evidence destructionLike what? The hair thing, washing sheets so they don't smell like each other, maybe lipstick on a glass, condoms in the trash can, turning off notifications when they're around. I can't think of anything else.
>>34010289>I can't think of anything elseExactly.If one or both of them are sizing you up and testing the waters for relationship material, they'll be assessing things you won't notice or be thinking about; little things about you, your place, the things you talk about (chatting about your family is music to her ears if she wants to go steady).You can't juggle both indefinitely, and it'd be a shame if anyone's time went to waste. I'd say prepare to wrap things up with one sooner rather than later. I've been in invisible triangles before, and it would suck if you slipped up; it'd be a rotten feeling, especially because you're considerate of theirs....but if you want to keep the game going a while longer, don't forget the earrings on the nightstand after one of them stays the night...they're easy to miss and you're flushed if you do.
>>34009363Just tell everybody what's going on. If they both say it's not exclusive, they'll be fine with it. (And if you suspect they wouldn't be fine with it then you are actually cheating). Also, are you really comfortable with both of them seeing other men besides you? Because they are.
>>34009363I dunno why it needs to be explained to what Im sure are adults... actions have consequences.. drop a plate it shatters on the ground. Drink alcohol and you will get drunk.Date two women at once and shit can get complex and dramatic and someone can end up hurt. You cant have your cake and eat it too.The amount of threads that are "im doing something Ill advised. How do I keep doing it and avoid the exact consequences of what Im doing?
I'm a 34yo KHHV by choice because I don't find 99.999% of women attractive. Seriously, out of the thousands of women I've seen, I've only found 3 women attractive in my life. Every other woman is about as attractive to me as a chair. I think a major part of it is I'm just not attracted to the human form. I'm super attracted to dragons, and my "standards" for dragons is much lower. I'd say I'm attracted to 50% of dragons I see. I'm not a furry and I don't find anthro furry stuff attractive (not even anthro dragons). I just find dragons super attractive. I don't know why. What can I do to lower my standards for human women?
>>34001561>attractiveThat's 8 times you used that word. Idk how your mind got to this place, what our culture taught you about romance, but the truth of the matter is, if she has a similar personality and education level, similar race and culture, similar class and upbringing, it shouldn't be too hard to make a relationship work. But I can sense a bit of narcissism here honestly - you're attracted to this idealized image you have of magic, power, and fantasy. But this exists in yourself. You have to learn to love another person for what makes her unique. You have to learn to love her, not how well she measures up to your standards or personality. Shakespeare says the course of true love never did run smooth (at least a young woman character of his says this), even if the above were similar for two lovers. And back in the day, marriages were more about money than a "deep connection" or friendship.Just put yourself out there and meet a woman at a public gathering of something you're interested in in town, pluck up the courage it takes to ask her out after you see her a few times over 3 weeks, see where it goes.It will be hard to find the courage, but you have to do it. And once you've done it, you will realize how insane it was to be so afraid of asking. The fear of rejection can be paralyzing. So she says no, who cares? Try again.
>>34007235>it shouldn't be too hard to make a relationship work.She's not going to want to be with me if I can't get it up because when I look at her, I find her as attractive as that tree over there. Can you get an erection from looking at a tree?
>>34007235>Just put yourself out there and meet a woman at a public gathering of something you're interested in in town, pluck up the courage it takes to ask her out after you see her a few times over 3 weeks, see where it goes.>It will be hard to find the courage, but you have to do it. And once you've done it, you will realize how insane it was to be so afraid of asking. The fear of rejection can be paralyzing. So she says no, who cares? Try again.You're making quite a few incorrect assumptions about me. I'm not afraid of rejection. Why would I be afraid of being rejected by someone I don't want to date? And your suggestion about asking a woman out after I've seen her a few times, I wouldn't be able to do that because I wouldn't be able to recognize her. All women look the same to me. People talk about hair and eye color preference but I don't even notice those things. Unless she has something really distinctive about her like pink hair or a missing leg, I won't be able to recognize her if I see her again. So I guess I'm left with the cold approach. But that doesn't fix my problem. How do I get it up for a human woman when I'm not attracted to them? She's eventually going to want sex and the equipment just isn't going to work. I need to fix this before I worry about cold approaching or dating.
>>34009260You've been watching too many Pat Bateman memes. You are attracted to women. Because 4 billion years of evolution have caused you to be. It feels good to have sex. Feeling good is a good thing. It also feels good to spend time with someone you like. And it feels good to have a family, and raise children, and teach them to be good people and make the world a better place. All of these things are part of why you are attracted to women. It's just our society and culture that has conned you into this strange sterile mindset. Much like homosexuals or trannies.
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I try not to get (at least intentioanlyl) out of favour with my dad but my mum tried tos tand up for me, over njothing and well I don';tt like it when mum causes drama adn stuff and I want to move out I am 21, why did muma I have to say the things she did dad feels crappy now about that and the few thigns she cfriticsed of him you know.and I didn't even say I was bothered by what he does when she siad she thinks im different when e is home not myself, and that he blames his picking on me, whatever but yeah mim dads son were not blood but by love and mum is my bio mum so she probably feels like hse has more of a say i don't know but I didn't put mum up to it and she made a big deal when I told her alreasdty it isn't about dad. I knwo this is trival crap but between the emotion tensed and dad talking criticfal of my mum to me and I guess how home is with the being lik e it is in other ways I am thinknig of moving out, bad idea/ now I have to try and fix thigns I don't want dad thinking I said soething to mum when I did not and mum is casing proble,s
>>34011126You have a choice anon either sit down with both your mum and step dad and make some boundaries or move out but be warned when you move out do not be surprised if the relationship between your mother and stepfather falls apart as to me it sounds like your mum is using you as a shield to hide from her true feelings.
