>1. When did you start thinking that your girlfriend is the one?
idk
>2. What character traits she has that made you think that?
loyalty and tenacity
>3. How far into the relationship you proposed and got married?
like 10 years
>4. How does the married couple life look like?
busy
>5. Did her character change overtime?
ya
>6. One advice you would give as a husband?
https://youtu.be/lbsPBAH2j64?si=RUCoZY15ZZNetQjt

>>32625551
Doing almost anything with her was more fun than doing it alone.

>>32625551
>1. When did you start thinking that your girlfriend is the one?
Dunno, it just happened over time.
>2. What character traits she has that made you think that?
Intelligent, less emotional and more logical than most other women. Not emotionally needy, not self-centered, she's a remarkably normal person, who happens to have tits and a vagina and enjoys using them.
>3. How far into the relationship you proposed and got married?
Proposed a bit over a year in, got married a year later.
>4. How does the married couple life look like?
Just had our 27th anniversary, and it's still pretty damn comfy. Winter is especially great because of the extended snuggling in bed.
>5. Did her character change overtime?
A little bit but not much.
>6. One advice you would give as a husband?
Don't stop dating her after you bag her. Women like to be romanced. I take her out to a nice restaurant at least once a month, and buy her a bouquet of flowers from the grocery store every few weeks.

>>32625551
1. Present
2. Convenient
3. Likes me and shares attraction with me
4. Doesn't do any of that create needless problems for no reason bullshit
5. Capable of managing and resolving problems in her life without a babysitter
6. In response to relationship issues: discusses, acknowledges reality, tries to find solutions, works towards agreed upon solutions.

Basically: Sane responsibile nearby woman who likes me.

>>32628309
Should I propose with a ring by surprise or talk with her first and her father etc
?

>>32625551
>>32628309
Oh, right. That's just how I knew she was worth being attracted to.
>3. How far into the relationship you proposed and got married?
One year
>4. How does the married couple life look like?
Like single people life but we love each other and have sex
>5. Did her character change overtime?
Maybe a little bit but not much. I don't really keep track.
>6. One advice you would give as a husband?
Don't marry someone who refuses to be a good girlfriend because they won't be a good wife either.
Select someone who acknowledges reality, and who has some mild interest in helping you be happy and satisfied.

>1. When did you start thinking that your girlfriend is the one?
not long after i met her. we had our first date a week later and made it official another week later, as it quickly became apparent that we had all of the same interests, the same sense of humor, etc.

we both grew up on the internet, and played the same video games as kids. she went through all the same phases that i did when i was a kid/young teen.

i'd never clicked with another person like that, on any level. neither had she

>2. What character traits she has that made you think that?
again, her sense of humor and our similarities, but also her rationality and cool demeanor. she doesn't get "overstimulated" like many women do, at least not easily and not without a reason that makes sense. she thinks with her brain and not with her emotions. i love that about her

her ability to always "match my energy" and have long conversations. every little thing we talk about turns into a passionate discussion

>3. How far into the relationship you proposed and got married?
we met in the 10th grade (2015) and i proposed two years ago, had our wedding a year later

>4. How does the married couple life look like?
lol. busy. otherwise, same as it's always been

the only main difference from when we were younger is that, well, we grew up. we're both adults with careers now and not edgy, drug-using teenagers. otherwise, our day-to-day life is still largely the same apart from our jobs and chores and whatnot. we'll eat together, fuck, have a long convo about something, hit the gym, etc

>5. Did her character change overtime?
yea. so did mine

>6. One advice you would give as a husband?
if you feel like you can't voice a concern, share a secret, etc. in your relationship, you're with the wrong woman. The right woman wouldn't force you to hide parts of yourself or make compromises to make her happy.

also, never stop with the romance. women like to be spoiled and treated. never stop treating her like a princess

>>32628328
In our case, about 3 months in, we agreed that if we were together after a year and we'd resolved issues instead of dodging them, we'd consider marriage.
I don't understand the whole "never plan things with women" meme /adv/ is into. Plans prevent problems.

>>32628359
>she doesn't get "overstimulated" like many women do
They're faking it because they enjoy being retarded. You know that, yes?

>>32628361
These are my thoughts as well
we don't really have any problems but I suppose that can always change
Ty

>>32628367
i know that. I'm having a good day right now and didn't feel like thinking about how retarded and hysterical women can be. But yes you're right lol

Not OP but I have a pertinent question.
How long would you say you need to know a person before engagement?
I know of men who have dated the same person for over 5 years without committing.
My cousin broke up with her 7 year boyfriend. I think that is shitty, you are wasting everyone's time.

>>32625551
>the one
This is tripe. Forget this bullshit. There is no """the one.""" Marriage is about endurance. Enduring someone for 10, 20, 50 years. And someone who will put up with you for just as long. You can't know how hard or easy that will be now. At some point you have to trust.