I have a 9" inch penis but when it's flaccid it shrinks down to 3" inches.Is that normal? Or am I considered a "grower" and not a "shower?"
I am similar to you, although you are probably exaggerating a bit. I have a big dick but I haven't used it with others.
It's normal anon, don't worry nobody gives a fuck what size you are when soft. They only care when hard, at worst there might be a gummy worm joke thrown out when you're soft but you spank them with your dick as punishment when hard again.>t. 7.7" girth certificate packer turns smol like Dr jorker and Mr hind
>>33873477>7.7" girthWhat the f..... and here I am with my pathetic 5.2" girth pencil dick
>>33873165Im a 3" to 6" or 7" been a while since I took a measure.>>33873477How to measure girth?
>>338737822 measurements anon. Idk how to measure girth im just big bro.
do most sex-having men force sex at some point in their lives, mainly if its with a girl they never had sex with before? i got my head forced on this guys dick while we were both drunk in his room and he slapped me in the face but i have a hard time thinking badly of him because i cant imagine any other man who has had casual sex many times not having done similar things.
>>33870015I didn't say it was OP's fault. I literally called the guy a bottom-of-the-barrel degenerate. How much more disparaging can I get?My point is that she still chose to shack up with him, and SHE is the one bending over backwards to excuse and accommodate his behavior. Just as he's responsible for his own actions, she's responsible for hers. She chose to get into drunken hookups with subhumans, and the results are just as wrong as they are predictable.
>>33864032FPBP
I definitely cannot relate at all to what you described OP. In fact I need consent to even enjoy it.
>>33869608>Social status protects abusers because a woman’s accusation against a man’s reputation means nothingDozens of fake or questionable rape accusations over the last couple decades say otherwise
>>33869608this nigga actually reads books in 2025 lmaoooooo
will i get in trouble if i drop an edible before boarding my plane and a flight attendant/other people on my flight notice
EVERYONE WILL NOTICE HOW FUCKING RED YOUR EYES ARE AND THEYLL LAND THE PLANE EARLY TO ARREST YOU SPECIFICALLY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! YOURE GONNA GO TO PRISON CAMP FOREVER AND YOULL BE FORCED TO WATCH THE PLANES FLY OVERHEAD AND YOULL THINK BACK ON THE DAY YOU DECIDED TO TAKE AN EDIBLE BEFORE THE FLIGHT!!!!!!!!!!!!! YOULL FEEL SOOOO STUPUD FOR NOT GETTING SMASHED AT THE BAR ON A $30 SHOT OF TEQUILA INSTEAD!!!!!!!!!!!!
>>33874773Not legally, they can't drug test you without a warrant. Worse case is you act really weird and they kick you off the plane
>>33875019would they really
>>33875062YEA THEY TOTALLY WILL IVE BEEN TO PRISON CAMP 5,600 TIMES BECAUSE I CANT STOP EATING EDIBLES BEFORE GOOING ON PLANE RIDES!!!!!!!!!!! THEY HAVE A SUPER SECRET SECURITY GUARD WHO CAN SMEELL THE EDIBLE IN YOUR FARTS. YOURE GONNA STINK UP THE WHOOOOLE AIRPLANE AND EVERYONE WILL KNOW THAT YOURE HIGHER THAN THE PLANE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1!!!1!WHEN U LAND AT UR DESTINATION THEYRE GONNA HAVE A ZILLION DRUG SNIFFING DOGS AND THEYRE ALL GONNA TEAR YOU TO SHREDS AND EAT YOUR LIVER AND THEYRE GONNA GET HIGH OFF THE CANNABANOIDS IN YOUR LIVER!!! YOUR LIVER!!!!! YOUR!!!! LIVER!!!!!!!!!!!!!! EAT THE EDIBLE DO IT DO IT DO IT DO IT DO IT ITLL BE SO FUNNY FUNNY FUNNY FUNNY FUNNT
I've realized that I boast and brag a lot. Probably because I'm very insecure and have a fragile ego. And this probably annoys people.How do I become less annoying?
>>33868434Amateur?
>>33867782I had a jewish mommy gf back then. small brunette, big nose, big titties, nice assI miss her
>>33871434Did she use her nose to peg you?
>>33871455I need to know
>>33858464>How do I become less annoying?learn how to shut up
How many years does it take for somebody to give up on themselves continuously before it truly solidifies in them?Since, for me it's been like 5 years, and think I'm nearly there. Whether it's academia (5 years of trying to get one bachelor, technically in the final stretch yet feel like I truly can't do it, despite all courses I'm retaking), friends, hobbies, passions, anything. Multiple times throughout these years, I either gave up at critical moments, or tried my hardest and didn't get me nowhere, making it more difficult to try again.The worst part, is how I've started to not care anymore. That I can't care anymore. Usually when I would fuck up I'd be blasted by shame, and before that be fueled by deadlines no matter what. Yet now, maybe just as a form of avoiding, I just realize how I'll waste all these years, disappoint everybody, yet somehow don't really feel anything about it. I know all of this was self formed. And, that it isn't really anything unusual either, just looking at the catalog of this board there's like 5 others who spout similar things. The other part of being unable to do much is just having a lot of time to self reflect, so I know this isn't it. But, I've tried to get out of this before, but not only did they not work out, I've just created more ways to self sabotage. I've engrained habits of lying to others, then been unable to ever face them properly, as a counter effect to reaching out. I chose to not allow myself to sleep, to ensure I can't fare properly with what's to come (4am rn, and have something important tomorrow), and a lot more can't say with this word limit. Whenever I truly try to fix something, that just gives me bigger things to fuck up. So, for the advice part, well, I moreover want to hear from people who have been here or worse, rather than the ideal ways to fix this. Have any of you been stuck in longer cycles, and still managed to get out? Or, for those who did give in, at what point did you really reach that?
it can last a long ass time. it started for me when i was 15ish, i am now 30 years old. there have been periods in there that i would call functional, but they never last. the only thing that i can attest to is that success will not bring any kind of long-term gratitude to a person like me, and possibly, to a person like you. probably the effects of some kind of earlier trauma or depression that was untreated or whatever. i think im further along this spiral than you are, i will probably get out of it for a while soon again before the inevitable freefall. i would recommend you seek help because the doom and gloom phases keep getting more intense and destructive for the mental. hope this helps
>>3387214115 years? Yet, I can see the next decade of my life succumbing to that, so thanks for the wake up call. It can latch on to me much more than it already has, which is morbid to think about.>i can attest to is that success will not bring any kind of long-term gratitude to a person like me, and possibly, to a person like you. I feel this is true as well, despite how much of my mind is occupied of thoughts of "hey, if I manage to do this I'll be happy">seek helpYeah, I know just occasional bursts of what's on my mind on places such as these doesn't achieve much. I've long strayed away from professional help since I fear I'll just sabotage it if I try it, but maybe that's just another excuse.
Is it possible for a douchebag to be liked by many people? How do they hide their douchebag nature from people?
>>33871637Thats kinda sad, I feel sorry he has to deal with them
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>>33872131kek
>>33871521>Is it possible for a douchebag to be liked by many people? See >>33872131. People ultimately don't care about who you are as a person - only what role you serve in self-elevation. Tell people what they want to hear and make them the heroes of their own story and they'll blindly adore you. People want to feel good about themselves. That's it. Give them that and you can get away with murder.
The most competent people are allowed to be douchebags.Losers have to be nice guys.
My neighbour thinks I am some kind of autistic serial killer and he won't leave me alone.
>>33874225you are either autistic or a woman
>>33874068So kill him? only a retard with a deathwish would fuck with a serial killer
>>33874108I never make noise in my house, even though I have no cursed wall or floor neighbors.
Just hide away a bucket of chicken pr donuts and lead him on a hilarious schizo-junkie investigation only to lead that you're just cheating a diet. It will also explain any interpreted off-putting behavior because you're trippin about food change. You gotta fuck with him kek
>>33874068Start acting like a gay pervert around him, flirt with him and question his behavior around you in a way that hints to him that you think he has a crush on you. He will get grossed out and leave you alone. Well, that's if he's not gay...
I'm going to try to keep this as concise as I can but its gonna be tough. I'm torn between my muslim identity and my "liberal" identity and which lane to pick given the situation I'm in. I grew up in the west, I don't have any connection to my ethnic homeland and honestly despise the people from there, I've met perhaps maybe two decent people my age from there and all my friends are literally of other nationalities. I don't even speak my native language in full , just bits and pieces/ conversational. The only reason I still even think about that country is because of my parents. I have some "chad" friends / mixed group of friends - they would love nothing more than if I get outta "my shell" and basically have fun with them. What they don't understand however is - I'm not built like them , im short, I stutter, glasses (typical nerd / not a "real man" profile) - basically undesirable on the dating market which lets be honest is half the reason "the western culture" does anything at all - to get laid. But I have overbearing parents I live with - its hard to express yourself when you are still tied to them and in this economy who is moving out? I would be turning myself over to the "devil" to literally get next to nothing out of it. For them it makes sense, they have the natural assets to reap the rewards of sin, I literally don't
>>33872244>good luck Saiid al-Hussam al-Husseini ibn Jaad Ghaazi Ashraf Hamidkek right back at ya Moshe, so you went into christianity then? No judgement and glad it worked for you but doesn't it feel off ? Like you just traded Jerseys for a sports team but you're still ultimately playing in the same conflict and challenges? Did you spend any time as a free agent ?>>33873181now youre just moving goalposts on what miserable is
>>33872176>Stop projecting, pattern recognition is not self hatred. Nah. Hating *all* your countrymen and thinking that doesn't include yourself is just cope. Maybe particular groups or particular people. But them all? You're 100% included because you are of them, dummy. And you wonder why you have identity issues, lol.>Absolutely these physical factors are the root and no matter which side I take, people are materialists no matter what these days Absolutely not. Fat, short, "ugly" dudes still get women because they don't allow a shitty mindset to keep them from being themselves, showing their charisma, style, and personality. *That* is what's attractive. Women will take an "ugly" guy with personality and charisma over a people pleasing "chad" who has no backbone every day of the week.> I've seen absolutely miserable dudes but just cause they have the physical traits succeed just fine, some of my oldest friends are literal women haters get more than you can imagine , second in my position - women care about looks and authenticity, if anything by leaving - I'm choosing my authentic self and working towards expressing it.Cope as fuck. >Lots. None that I care to share.So imaginary bullshit? Gotcha.
>>33873479>now youre just moving goalposts on what miserable isIncorrect. You used the vague term of "miserable" and I just used it vaguely back at you. I can't move the goalposts of a term you used that you didn't even bother to define.
>>33872825They know and it's not a huge deal, my family is extremely chill about that stuff. We aren't American Jews we're Israeli Jews - half my uncles are with non Jews, some of my family eat pork, they aren't against anyone moving abroad, everyone wears whatever they want & they don't keep the Saturday traditions & they don't go to the synagogue & no one wears any religious clothing not even yamacas, only thing they do is the holidays and that's more cultural than anything. In that sense I lucked out and Israeli Jews are much more chill in that than Muslims are, OP is likely having it much harder than I am, from how I personally know how strongly the Muslim sphere envelopes you and holds on to you with expectations. What I meant is that I had pressure more in the education system and environment, but within my own family - I didn't believe in God since I asked my mom if God exists when I was like 5 and wasn't satisfied with the answer, and so I said I'm an atheist, and people just accepted it even if they didn't like it.>>33873479>Back at u Moshe>U Christian now?Thank you thank you. Well no, like I said I have 0 faith in me for any religion and I'm my own person first, I'm not any religion. You can call me an atheist, I find the power in things like singing together, loving each other, genuine stories of love, folk stories and mythology stuff like god of war 1 type of games and the lore of the game UnReal World for example.My entire life I spent my time as a free agent, I broke away extremely early, the difference between me and you is probably how much more intensely your family would react over mine. Mine just went like "aww c'mon don't say that, god does exist, it's good to believe" and I'd be like "naw!" And that's that. Because they care about being good people first, which is the ONLY belief system I subscribe to. And I'm very proud of this and feel very satisfied with it. I don't need religion to be a good person, I reflect often and I reflect well
>>33861598no problemresearch Al-Zuttthen research the Night of the Jinnsthen research at what age mohammed molested aishathen research what was in mecca in place of the cube before mohammad (literally a fucking statue of baal)then if you have any sense of reason, abandon your disgusting pedo cult and come home to Christ our Lord
>volunteer for some political candidate this past winter >meet another volunteer there and get his number >reach out to him last week asking about current policy developments in our area >i ask if he’s down to hang out (I want the networking give me some kind of benefits)>he says pic related How should I play this? Should I act aloof and innocent (ie “oh what are you talking about hahah. We can’t just hang out or have fun?”)? I feel stressed and frustrated now. It’s such an annoying fucking obstacle. He sees right through me. First time I’ve been called out like this.
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Everyone posting in this thread, is an LLM,you fucking know it's trueI'm the fucking schizo poster now, this is what 2025 made me fucking do
>>33874172What job are you talking about? We just volunteered for some candidate in the winter.
You just play it off casually dipshit. Never gonna get anywhere in a political career with this form of autism though. Though I hope you actually want to be friends/work with him/ravage his bussy and not just use him.
>>33874166Thanks, I just sent him that
Hey all.I moved from Chicago to Scotland in late 2020 when I was 14. Where in Scotland really doesn't matter, all you gotta know its not near the central belt and the town is fucked.Since moving, I've had one hell of a roller coaster. I was made homeless in 2022, almost killed myself a few times, moved into temporary housing in Jan23, moved into my council flat in Dec23, had a job here and there, told my story to a documentary, and now I'm a NEET living off of Universal Credit.I don't get much money in my pocket, I get just shy of £280 per month to pay for everything excl rent. UC pays that directly. I am under a mountain of debt, around £5k worth mostly to the state or private companies acting on behalf of the state. The job market where I live is a rotting corpse at the moment, and all of the college courses I was planning on taking are all filled last time I checked. I am declaring MAP bankruptcy to resolve my debtsAs I see it, I have a two options available to me.1. Declare MAP bankruptcy and move back to Chicago/USAThis seems like the best option Scotland wise. With the bankruptcy, it would wipe all my debt in Scotland and make it seem like I never had any in the first place after about 7 years. However, I'm not confident with moving to the states. With the shit that's going down in the states rn I'm not confident in this choice. Who knows, maybe I could grab an M1 Carbine from the Civilian Marksmanship Program and take up a weapon for the cause but idk lol.2. Stay in Scotland and study/workComment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>33871022Get a remote job as discussed here previously.
>>33871319Considered and discarded. I have the equivalent of a high school education here in Scotland (SCQF4/5) but realistically, who in HR in an American company is gonna read that and know what that means? I also don't have a US address or bank account, making actually filling out the signing paperwork nigh impossible.
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>>33871022i think some universities offer online courses. it doesnt do much but i guess having some harvard course or whatever else looks good on cv
>>33873905From what I remember, that is a possibility. However, there's no diploma or paperwork that I can use to prove I completed the courses, and it would mostly to me to advance my knowledge base, not my certifications.
I can be confident, talkative and friendly with women I'm not interested in romantically. And if a woman is forward with me I'm able to bridge that gap without a problem. The issue is when I like a girl I can't just walk up to her and talk to her or be confident. I'm quite, think about every word I could possibly say, worry about what she thinks about me. Jet jealous at other people for being able to be so confident and talk to her like I wish I could. It sucks and I don't know hot to get over it. I could hang out with a group of girls I have no interest in and be as loud and annoying as they are, but if I see a girl I like I turn around and walk in the other direction. I think I just fear rejection after prior trauma, how do I get over that?
It sounds like you are insecure. I know for me, I know my value and worth. I know who I am, I love who I am and I worked hard to become who I am.
take a buhzillion showers
If a person messages you out of the blue and you havent spoke in years, and you talk then they ask what days are you free, what does that mean and what action should i take?
Any advice?
>>33872919It means that person was on drugs or drunk
>>33873778That makes no sense.
>>33874177Oh, but it does. For a lot of people, at least.
Either drunk or ready to offer you a pyramid scheme. Watch out for the ‘exciting new opportunity’
Hey everyone, i met this woman a few months ago at a speed dating event. We've established boundaries, what we want in a partner, intention for marriage etc. One of the boundaries was that we're exclusive. When I met her, I was on and off talking with this other woman. Things were on the way out with that other woman but i never formally cut her off, i just ignored her. She eventually told me she would be comfortable if I either talked to her to cut things off officially (even though things had already died as we last spoke about 3-4 months ago) or block her. I ended up blocking her because I really don't care about that other woman and only like the girl i'm talking to. She felt satisfied and things went back to normal.cont.
>>33874223>Anonymous 10/30/25(Thu)12:07:52 No.3387REALLY good advice. Thank you so much, I'm going to be remembering that. I've been working with a therapist to improve my self-esteem and I've always been scared to discuss legitimate boundaries we have without letting my insecurities seep in. This situation felt like something that i was on the fence about discussing but you nailed it when you said "If i don't care that much, just dont bring it up. There's no point." Thank you again, I won't lie it's tricky to sort of balance between "Don't be so strict with making things even and balanced" and "Hypocrisy is bad" but I do understand there are grey areas and from what I understand, keeping ego out of it is key..
Murder simulator leads to real world... yadda yadda
>>33874277What I mean is that, generally, being a hypocrite is a bad thing. People do not like it. But you, in your relationship, get to choose how to react and I find that hypocrisy and unfairness are not usually good topics for arguments. Boundaries don't have to be equal or fair or reciprocal, they only serve the purpose of allowing you to be comfortable and happy. You and your gf can have different boundaries and that's okay
>if i sent her a dating sim where you date a bikini model she might not be too into itChoose her response:a. Cool game anonb. Lame and gayc. This is objectifying womend. You need Jesus
>>33874341Yeah I need to contextualise boundaries in that way. I'm still figuring this stuff out but i need to settle insecurities I may have. Thanks again Anon.
Can therapy actually help with lifelong self-hatred and low self esteem?This is assuming "high functioning" self-hated, i.e. not a NEET or living with parents, not friendless, not lacking in hobbies/skills, not out of shape etc with the only outward sign being an almost complete lack of any relationships with the women for the last decade. Also, assuming that the regular "positive self talk" bullshit doesn't work.
>>33874271I think deep seated self-hatred might be one of the few things therapy can actually help with. Just know most therapists suck and that if you aren't making any progress after like 3 sessions, you should switch to a different shrink. Also, be very upfront with your goals: "I hate myself and I would like to not hate myself"
Yes, therapy helps but keep in mind that sometimes you don't find the right match of therapist right off the rip so if you feel like they aren't helping try another one. There's so much to learn that genuinely helps oneself.
I’m 28 and I can’t stand my wife. I really try to be a real ass nigga but the fucking disrespect. I have visions of hitting her whenever she starts nagging me or ignoring me for menial shit. And I know it’s wrong but goddamn it I don’t know how to deal with all the resentment and anger I have bottled up. I’m sad all of the time and whenever we get close again she fucks it up by acting like huge fucking bitch. We’ve got a kid and I’m afraid he’ll grow up all fucked from watching the constant arguing. I’ll give you an example of the things she does>toddler wakes up from nap 15 min late>she didn’t wake him up>he’s got to go to afternoon preschool>she asks me to read him a book so he eats faster>’ok sure’>even when I work from home I make the time to do things like this>she ain’t working so she does house and kid stuff>my mother in law arrives to the house>wife tells her in a very mean way to ‘shut the hell up’ because she’s distracting the baby and she needs it to eat fast because she’s lateComment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>33872943GUYS ITS HAPPENED AGAINwhy cant i write s 0 y ?its the jews arent them ? FUCKING JEWS I FUCKING HATE THEM ALL
>>33872949Skill issue, sòyboy.
Really proud of you OP. Keep being a great man. Keep being a great father.I suggest talking to your mother in law about what she would like to do in situations like what happened. You make an emphasis that you will not tolerate your child learning that's it's ok to disrespect Grandma. Ask her for motherly advice.As for the wife, I can't say either way. If she's a danger to your son, Baker act.
Is she on birth control? Anything you get here is a shot in the dark since we don't know you guys personally. From an outside view often both people look like an ass like she may be a bitch but idk if you are thinking of killing her and maybe if I was there I'd think she's fine. So idk. But I would definitely get to seeing a therapist or psychologist, literally just for yourself about anything bc well you have money so fucking do it just because. Send her to therapy too. Throw money at the problem. Or just yell at her. I knew this one bitch, it sucks because I really think she may have actually been chilling out. After a few years, she finally started to realize I wasn't her enemy but by then I was the one who hated her.If you are the adult and she is the child then maybe you need to just crank that up higher. Just actually demand she do stuff. Women are pussies and one with sense might disagree but as soon as you put bass in your voice they listen
>divorced parents >shit attendance since preschool It's over for your nigglet
