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I took this bone from a smoked rib i had yesterday and Im interested in doing some bone carving. How do I clean this bone up as best as i can and what tools do i need for the inscriptions?

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>ex girlfriend from my high school years who cheated on me who i haven't heard from in almost a decade contacts me on social media asking to hang out
>tell her to fuck off
>"wow, still holding a grudge after all these years huh? says more about you than me."
How do you even respond to this?
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>>33771336
I'd just block the whore. Nothing good comes from the conversation. She's a cheating whore bro - always will be in your mind. You know it and that's all that matters. She knows it too but obviously doesn't care about her actions or she would have led her message to you by saying, look, I am really sorry for what I did to you...type thing but she didn't. She didn't like your rejection to her messaging you and so she tried to strike out at you again to hurt you once more. You did nothing wrong bro and stood your ground. She is not ever going to bring anything positive to your life, ever so just know you won by not ever accepting a past cheating whore ex as a friend today. You've avoided further drama and heartache. Here's your man card, you've earned it!
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>>33771342
Don't get into other people's business like this. For all you know that guy could home to your house and kill you because you "ruined" his relationship
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>>33771336
>How do you even respond to this?

If I was busy, I'd just respond "yes." There is no shame in letting her think she "got the better of" me if it means she left me alone.

If I wasn't busy, I'd explain how revisiting old emotions is not a positive way to spend my precious time.
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>>33771336
First mistake was should have asked why. Maybe she had a heartfelt apology planned, who knows.
As for her response, yes or LOL would be appropriate responses.
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>>33771336
You don't

Block the dumb cunt, she's at a low point right now and thinks you'd be easy to bag and drag down to her level.

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So what does Viagra do exactly? I have no problem getting it up, but I always nut quicker than I’d like to. Do you keep your erection after you nut? Does it delay ejaculation?
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>>33773400
>s there anything I can take or do to delay ejaculation?
SSRIs.
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>>33773220
Anatomy of an erection: blood rushes to the penis and an internal valve closes, holding it there and causing erection. Ejaculation opens the valve, ending erection.

Viagra "freezes" the valve, holding the blood in and keeping erection longer.
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>>33773400
downers work on some men
(alcohol, opiates, benzos etc.)
low dose or you won't be able to get it up
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>>33776104
>Viagra "freezes" the valve
That is *not* what it does. Like the other anon said, it dilates arteries.
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>>33776299
I can go a lot longer if I’ve been drinking. Forget about round 2 if I’m drunk though. I’ll roll right over and go to sleep.

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>>33777964
pff, I'd rather have your real pic on my phone
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>>33777961
It's not a lie, once you get out of the Microsoft ecosystem you realize Linux is 10x more intuitive.
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>>33777938
i'm a girl and linux is like.... it depends on what you want to do. if you like windows xp, and you only use your pc for web browsing and not much else, linux mint is actually really nice and simple, but like, ANY linux distro is going to have an annoying learning curve and possibly some command prompting. i use it on my thinkpad because windows became too bloated to run on it but its ass for any advance uses other than browsing web and creating word docs
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>>33777965
Stacies don't have blue hair, anon.
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>>33777974
>intuitive
for who, programmers? this is why i hate programmers, you think everyone on earth is comfortable typing commands into the console, but zoomers grew up on ipads and don't even know what a file is

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How do I learn to read Japanese as an absolute beginner? What are the traps i should avoid? There's a lot of resources out there.
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>>33766163
generally speaking
hiragana = syllabary for all japanese and used for japanese connecting words. circular
katakana = usually reserved for foreign words. angular
Both sets have 46 symbols, with each having sound variations using a small circle or double apostrophe (with a few others).
kanji are the condensed form of the above, symbolic (some literally like the one for tree or mountain).
Get wagotabi on steam or android, just came out recently. Great beginner game for learning japanese. you can even practice writing in it.
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>>33775485
Wagotabi seems interesting thank you. Glad it's cheap.
>>33772137
Im not sure what Manga to read. I may try yotsuba. Probably have to stick with something for really little kids.

Im doing good with hiragana BTW I have 21 memorized so far. I've been watching namasensei for beginner grammar and ignoring the Romaji.
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Tofugu hiragana/katakana charts with pnemonics, really helps to remember them and how I learned.

悄 = ya (looks like a yacht)
悂 = mo (MOre worms on your hook catches MOre fish)

Get a cheap workbook or print worksheets off the internet to learn how to write (stroke order matters)

You can learn both of them in like 2ish weeks if you go fast enough, really really learn them though you can review through spaced repitition like realkana.com, that's what I used

Once you learn all the kana you can start working in a genki textbook while doing immersion learning/comprehensive input shit on youtube. It's a grind but fun and worth it in the end, good luck
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>>33776373
Katakana chart aswell desu
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>>33776375
Also you're probably a weeb so it helps to associate sounds you know with words you may know

恭 = ne (neko because it has a tail and ears)
悆 = yu (yu narukami persona chad)

Anything that gets you to remember them well, this technique works for kanji as well and is the best way to remember a ton of them

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I used to work out 6 times a week, dressed well, i took care my health, read a book a week and socialised alot back when i was 16-18. Then I downloaded tiktok and started getting a bunch of height black pill content which crippled my self esteem (im 5 foot 8 and white) at which point i slowly but surely started to give up on all those things becuse I felt "theres no point since I'll always be unattractive".

Im 21 now and ive kind of degenrated into a unhealthy and reclusive misanthrope with constant brain fog. How do i fix myself.
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>>33772232
you realize that you posted a meme of a married couple?
yes, the short wrestler is married to this wrestler chick
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>>33771647
this whole post screams lack of self accountability
muhhh blackpilled tiktaks is just an easy way out to justify yourself without facing the consequences of your own actions
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>>33771647
>How do i fix myself.
chase a dream
think about anime and movies and shit
the main character has a big motherfuckin dream
be the best at something

choose one thing and just focus all your energy to become the best at it

this is what society needs
somoe examples
>being the buffest guy at your gym
>being the fleetest coooder
>the most knowledgeable about xxx topic


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>>33771647
>workout 6 times a week
Probably should do 3-4 anyways 6 is too much. 5’8ā€ is not that short, I’m 5’9ā€ and it’s just a matter of having the confidence to talk to people irl and being kind.
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im having this dudes problem but im 6'2 and fat I smoke weed at night to make myself feel bad by watching highlights of my much fitter friends with their girlfriends I tell myself that the jealousy and sadness im feeling will help with my motivation what do I do bros?

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so i found out the hard way that have premature ejaculation and im impotent in sex probably due to anxiety. I did get a hard on on the start but as soon as i came (less than 2 minutes) it would not get up again.

anyone who had some experience in this have a good advice? should i just take viagra? or some anxiety medice would be better? i heard therapy might help but it sounds awkward as fuck going to therapy because of that.
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>>33772065
I would try cialis for a while, just to get past the anxiety; then try without.
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>>33772252
He's trying to tell you the key to mastering your anxiety. Stop letting it rule you and make it go away. Go do something productive or enjoyable. If you can't find anything productive or enjoyable, then just find something to do. Eventually you'll think about it less and less because you're filling your time with something else.
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>>33772094
i’ve made multiple women cum the second i penetrated them
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>>33772094
If you do enough foreplay to the point where she’s begging for it this is very possible. Also depends on her mood.
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>>33772065
Are you having sex with random women or do you have a girlfriend?

I had the same issues when I started dating my now wife. I think the issue was I was uncomfortable cumming in front of a girl so I either couldn’t finish or couldn’t get it up. After she blew me a couple times and finished in front of her it got a lot easier and I had no problems after that.

For finishing too quickly just make the girl finish before you have sex. As long as she gets off first she’s not gonna care if sex lasts a couple minutes. The more frequently you have sex the longer you should last also. I used to be able to last like 15-20 minutes easy but now that we have sex one a week usually it’s only like 5-7 mins so I just make sure she finishes first

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The only water I drink is water that has koolaid in it, or some kind of sugary flavoring. I cannot stand the taste of water alone.

How do people drink that stuff?

Coffee
Soda
Juice
Cum
Koolaid

And not necessarily in that order.

I'm still healthy, right? I mean koolaid infused water is still water... right?

Right?
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>>33752699
Zesty.
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>>33769835
Wait what?! What's wrong with water going up my hole?
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>>33770001
>You'll soon find the sugary shit is nasty and you'll have to force yourself to drink it to make it normal again.
OMG I remember having that feeling in my 20s when I first started drinking water instead of juice and soda. Ever since then, I always drink water after everything I eat, especially if it was a muffin or something. And I still don't drink soda or juice, I just drink water. Even when I drink tea, I don't put sugar in it! omg awesome!

It's like I need water to get that shit out of my mouth after I eat it.
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>>33770860
Your hole? What's going up your hole?!
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>>33773728
Don't put things up my hole!

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What would you do if you found out your gf's sister is a prostitute? It's legal where I am, at least kinda, and she needs to do it in order to pay for the house she and my gf lives in. So I kinda admire it. And yes I am 100% sure my gf is not a prostitute, so dont try to go there. I am however considering the possibility this somehow becomes a problem later on in the relationship since most prostitutes experience violence, drug abuse etc.

What do? I really like my gf, but since it's her sister this isn't something to break up over.
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>>33776086
>Yet you cant deny its less than ideal
I certainly can. Your average sex worker is a hard-headed businesswoman who has realised she can make a comfortable living working one day a week.

>and if it can be fixed it has to right
What do you imagine needs "fixing"? Are you some kind of deranged feminist who thinks sex workers all have Stockholm Syndrome? It's her body; what she chooses to do with it has no impact on you.
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>>33776101
>Your average sex worker is a hard-headed businesswoman
Holes supporting whores. Who could have guessed?
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>>33775806
Ask for a family discount
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>>33775892
>yeah fantasies are nice and all but i really love my gf so obviously the only family she has also becomes my problem
It already is your problem bro. The more hours you buy out railing your gf sis the less skeevy men you will have to deal with
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>lives with prostitute
>uses her money
if your gf was a male he'd be a pimp and would be risking very big

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So I've never been attracted to real girls. Ever. It was always some anthro/kemonomimi girl.

Examples include:
>Clarice from the Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer movie
>The white Begal Tiger from Wonder Pets
>My penguin plushie that I've had since I was 10 months old
>Liru the Wolf
>Bell-nee san from Kemonnoko no Tsuujin
>Deer/Bunny girls that I make up in my head.

I always have fantasies of living to get her with a hot deer/bunny girl in a nice house in the woods surrounded by cherry blossoms. Is it normal to feel this way?

Ive felt like this since I was a baby.
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>>33776172
>Is it normal to feel this way?
No.
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>>33776172
You remind me of me, minus the anthro girls.

You're stuck living with your head in the clouds and wish for some place better. You need to come back down to Earth, which believe me, I know is really hard.
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>>33776172
It’s a cope for the discomfort you feel from being around real women or the discomfort you feel over treating a real woman the way you would treat a cartoon dog girl. Not uncommon to cope but the subject you cope with is out of the ordinary

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I think about what was taken from me every day and it's driving me insane.
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U can tell it’s Howie because he bumps the minute it falls if page 2
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>>33774212
>>33774332
Backstory on Howie? I have to meet more intelligent individuals.
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>still bumping
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>>33754649
>How do I keep my hatred of them from consuming my life?
consume their life instead
their ice is cracking, it's thin and won't hold for long
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>>33774766
all night!!! :D

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I fucking love asian girls. They're cute, petite, modest, fashionable and I just really want to have my own asian girlfriend to fuck and adore and start a family with. How do I get an asian girlfriend as a western white guy? And I don't mean someone born and raised in the west or with mixed parents I'm talking about full-on 100% asian girls from like Japan, Korea, Thailand (for that brown cuteness)
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>>33771665
>>rag heads, street shitters and curry munchers
This stereotype description mostly applies to India.

>>33769956
>What about Afghan,Turkic, Iranian, Arab, Armenian girls?
>>33770832
>Nobody cares, dude.
Yeah I agree. We don't really care about them nor classify them as Asians. At best closest they are at is Middle East in Asia and how we perceive them at most are also terrorists who spreads muslim ideology that's how we got ISIS cells here in Asia because of them.

They feel like North Korea to us. Also you can't see these GIRLS and be attracted to them because they fucking wear hijabs. If you got attracted to one and get in bed and realized without her hijabs she's not your type you're screwed for life.

>Like bro some of the Arabs and Persians are attractive too especially
Go stick to porn. Political matters will get you stoned to death having families with them.
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>>33773961
>same but i want an asian bf
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W486cQ-oWBI
I assume you're either into Korean or Japanese men. I'm sorry to say but the video above is a lore accurate experience on what you'll most likely get. Please get reality check first.

Those stereotypes/ideal Asian you see in movies aren't most of us. if we looked at Westerners the way you look at us, we'd think of wanting to have girls like Taylor Swift/Angelina Jolie or guys like ChrisPratt/Chriss Hemsworth but at best we'll just see entitled karens or drug addicts.

If anything you should be specific in description like OP wants.
>They're cute, petite, modest, fashionable and I just really want to have my own asian girlfriend to fuck and adore and start a family with.
>I'm talking about full-on 100% asian girls from like Japan, Korea, Thailand (for that brown cuteness)
(They're slightly realistic in expectations.)
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>>33774226
oh yeah I would prefer more of an average looking man than the model type.

Nothing specific comes to mind, no hard prefrences
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>>33757706
become libertarian
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>>33763702
The muslim countries like indonesia dna malaysia you can write off as muslims are all insane in the head. The girls seem fine at first but eventually you've got to be waking up at 4am every day to pray to made up bullshit.

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Can I attain this physique without exercise? I can go without eating but I am vehemently racist against working out.
I am currently 51 kg (90 lbs) at 169 cm (5'6') but I just look skinnyfat instead.
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>>33773132
You have the picture of Christian Bale from The Machinist yet you lack the IQ to search up anything about how he got in to the shape he did for this film.

Smoke Cigarettes and don’t eat anything.
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>>33773166
>Smoke Cigarettes and don’t eat anything.
Coffee for your heart, too. I mean really, just read Maus and follow the steps Vladek took to avoid being drafted the first time.
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>>33773132
Dry fasting, but you will actually look healthy.
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>>33773166
not OP but I have looked up Christian Bale diet and exercise things before it's out there he's a beast

Hey anons, I need some help here. It's been a few weeks since I started my Chemistry degree (I'm not entirely sure if it's what I really want, but I'm not ready to give up just yet). The issue is, I just can't seem to study properly. Every time I get home at night, the only thing I feel like doing is watching short videos on TikTok and Instagram that my friends send me. Before I know it, it's late, and all I want is to keep watching or play games, even though I know I need to study.

Right now, I'm taking Calculus A, and it's been really tough to keep up with that class in particular—the others are challenging too, but this one's hitting me harder. In the other subjects, it feels like everyone already knows the basics, and I never quite get the flowcharts in the labs. Not to mention, I have some overdue assignments piling up.

I went straight from high school to university, but back in school, I barely studied at all (just cramming on test days). Now, professors are telling us to read books (I even checked some out from the library, but haven't cracked them open yet). What should I do? I know there's no magic fix, but I'll take any tips or advice because my academic life feels like it's going from bad to worse. I even suspect that in my friend group, I'm seen as the "slacker" since I never know what's going on when they talk about classes.
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>>33770882
1Got any book recommendations? I think I’ll review the concepts since I usually skip them.
2I’ll try, but I’m struggling because the teacher explains too fast. I end up not asking questions because I don’t wanna slow everyone down
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>>33768860
Sounds like a good strategy. Maybe I’ll try that when I get back from university since that’s usually when I waste the most time.
>>33768871
How so? What kind of place is that lmo?
But yeah, taking a whole day just to solve equations actually sounds like a good idea.
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>>33769306
That idea kinda makes sense, but I don’t really have a ā€œhobbyā€ to use as a reward. I even thought about using porn or masturbation as one, but I’m not sure if that’s a good thing.
Anyway, it’s nice to see people going through the same stuff. Makes me feel kinda understood, lol.
>>33769319
I’ll try to avoid social media as much as I can. Already deleted TikTok and don’t really miss it.
Instagram is the only one I still use since that’s how I keep in touch with friends.
>>33769436
I still don’t know what really drives me. Maybe physical education or psychology, but those don’t pay much.
I chose chemistry because the idea of being a scientist seemed cool, but now I see myself more as a teacher. Still thinking about doing both degrees though.
>>33769525 / >>33769530
I think I’m starting to accept being ā€œstuckā€ with chemistry.
Job-wise it’s not too bad, I’ve got some contacts and there’s a chemical plant in the nearby city.
Also got a recommendation to try a public exam to work for the state water supply company.
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>>33774182
2 That's what office hours are for
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>>33768834
>I know there's no magic fix
Correct.

I'm someone who coasted effortlessly through secondary school and was top of my year in nearly every subject without ever really doing any work, simply because I'm smart. But I came badly unstuck at university because at uni you actually have to work - a lot; being smart is no longer enough. And it was hard for me, because I'd never developed the habit of working or revising.

You simply have to resign yourself to the fact that you have to spend A LOT OF FUCKING TIME reading and revising, and it has to be done continuously - there is far too much to try to absorb it at the last minute. You need to make sure you understand everything in every lecture, and keep bashing away at it until you do. There won't be time to catch up later.

My only real tip is to take frequent breaks when studying to keep your mind fresh. (See https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pomodoro_Technique ).

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I'm applying for a job at a pet store. Does this professional/personal profile sound bad? does it look like it was written with AI?
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>>33771819
Jobs are illegal. Pets are banned.
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>>33771819
yes and yes
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>>33771819
I just copied it and sent an application to every petstore in any english speaking country (easy to do with AI) now when you apply they will think we both used the same AI and hire neither of us.
Check and mate
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>>33771819
just say you like animals and have pets, and that you have experience in retail, then list the jobs you worked before. all this corporate speech just sounds desperate.
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>>33776108
just walk in and tell them you want the job and you'll do great son. ok unc


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