Yes
Why not both?
What is them are?
>>35024811no
>>35024890weird bs
Hello anons, I’ve recently started experiencing extremely aggressive thoughts and impulses. I started noticing this tendencies a couple of weeks ago at the gym; whenever I saw a hot girl I felt extremely enraged and I wanted to fuck her but at the same time crush her with the dumbbells or whatever machine I was using (idk why but that increased my strength exponentially), then it was with my girlfriend (I’m not a nigger so I have never beaten her up and never will), I started chocking her and throwing her around during sex and recently I have catch myself fantasizing about killing her dog in front of her and causing her suffer in general.I know this is fucked up and idk what to do… any ideas on what can be causing it and how can I solve it?
>>35024120You feel emasculated and this is a way to overcompensate. Just guessing
>>35023981Kek this sounds fake asf, the Op is some jeet who doesn’t get enough attention from his parents
>>35024162One hundred, cuh
>>35023981I was like this when I was 20. Just realize you're a retard and do some type of fighting sports. All your aggression will be rewarded with an ass whooping and you'll be forced to calm down.
>>35023981Bro are you on gear? That sounds like roid shit.
I've been attending a church group my dad set me up with just so I can say I socialize, but I'm not enjoying it at all. All it does is remind me of how much I really don't care to get to know people and how much I love having my time all to myself. I want to stop showing up but people keep telling me I need to socialize to be happy. What should I do?
>>35023450Your parents. And even the others, it sounds like they want you there. And especially if it isn't all senior citizens, if there's people in relative age to you, it's probably worth it to continue.
Stick figure incel breadhttps://boards.4chan.org/adv/thread/35013192/after-all-the-years-of-seeing-my-threads-what#top
Bump
I tried getting to know the people who go to church. They are awful. If those churches were woke churches with rainbows and gay female pastors it'd be understandable. Those are all normal churches. The people going there need church to be able to socialize at all.
Sump
My dream was to get into a game company, make game dev friends and create an indie studio full time making videogames. I've been on this path for 5 years now. Learned game engines, animation, code, design. I've added more projects to my portfolio over the years. I've had NO success in game dev interviews. I shifted my roles to other things like level designer, game tester, tool programmer. I have no luck in anything. I went to conferences, network events, hung out with developers and anything. Got contacts for referalls. Still I couldn't get hired. Also the developers I meet are either AAA studio hires that don't really want to hang out with me or other solo developers who have their own thing going on and have no need for anyone joining them. I hate doing regular software IT work and I got fired twice over the last 2 years. I'm losing hope and feeling more stuck because I'm also approaching my 30's. I don't feel like telling these to my friends anymore as nobody understands it around me since they just go to their jobs and live a normie life without any real goals.
>>35024892Just make ur own game
>>35024892Just give up. Never get up!
I hate being so dependent on people. Always clinging to people who don't add anything to me and brainwashing me.I am tired of being like this. Tired of having to continue living something that does me so much harm, I disgust myself... and I really would like to have the life I see other girls having. Because besides, I have always been the object of ridicule my whole life.How can I disperse these really bad thoughts against myself? I have gone to psychologists but they really don't help me at all and are starting to seem like an absolute waste of money.
>>35022667real life people, especifically ex friends
>>35022716You just gotta be honest with yourself that this is definitely bad for you and cut off all negative influences,start your social life from scratch if you have to and only choose decent quality people to be around this time
>>35022724ty
>>35022609As the other guy implied, maybe consider a reset and be very selective about the people that you let come close. Its a bit cold but it is what it is. Being surrounded by the right people could be your gamechanger. Or spend some time alone with just yourself and your thoughts. Figure out who you are, what you want, how to get there without being influenced from the outside. Will be hard but maybe maybe it helps. Come and talk to us if its too much. Good luck.
>>35022609Elaborate
If you are healing from DP/DR or major depression don't ever give up striving to become better, cuz when you hear those thoughts telling you to "take a break cuz this is too hard" thats the depression trying to trick you into giving up and sinking back into feeling like shit. AND to get better you don't have to WAIT until you feel a certain way, you have to KNOW that you already feel okay and everything already feels the way its meant to! You just tricked yourself into thinking it all feels bad when it actually all feels normal! NOTHING HAS TO BE DONE, and don't fucking listen to those thoughts that keep saying "BUT YOU DON'T FEEL NORMAL YET!" or 'YOU DON'T KNOW THAT YOU FEEL NORMAL YET!" Thats also a fucking trap, stop thinking that you don't feel normal or that you don't "recgognise" it yet! DON'T EVER FUCKING GIVE UP
>>35024992You are retarded. You don't know what I feel like. Nothing has ever been okay in my life and nothing ever will be and I am here without my consent. Suicide is aesthetically displeasing (so is absolutely everything else) and thus worthy of contempt and disgust. Of course, so is living, but I felt like clarifying that suggesting suicide isn't a clever gotcha to my position. Nothing is good or beautiful at all, and being "okay" is disgusting. Not being perfect, beautiful and ethereal is a capital sin worthy of disdain and instant death, but as I said, the physical process of dying is also repulsive because it is part of life, and thus not to be undertaken.
Hey, Anons. I'm completely fucking lost and exhausted.I'm a 22M trying to find a woman I can love, build a life with, and eventually start a family with. But despite following advice from the internet and people IRL, I'm making zero progress. I've been hitting the gym religiously for 2 years, improved my looks, upgraded my wardrobe, take care of my face, socialize, and try to be a fun person to be around. I'm proud of how far I've come, but dating still feels like punching a fucking brick wall.Dating apps are a shitshow. I get matches, but I'm always carrying the conversation, asking questions, and trying to get to know them. They either lose interest after a day or turn out to be batshit insane. I've tried meeting women IRL and befriending them, too, but some experiences have only made me more cynical. I know not every woman is like this, and men aren't saints either, but where the fuck are all the kind, genuine women? Am I just unlucky, looking in the wrong places, or is modern dating really this fucked? I don't want hookups or stupid mind games. I want a serious relationship with someone who shares my values and puts in equal effort. Yet it feels like women my age (18–30) either want something casual or aren't interested in building a future together. Even guys I talk to seem indifferent. I've heard dudes say they don't give a shit if a woman has slept with 20+ men, making me wonder if I'm just out of touch with what people want nowadays.Anons, what the fuck am I doing wrong?Where do you meet women who genuinely want commitment and a family? How do you recognize someone who's actually kind and compatible? If you've been in my position, what finally worked? I'm willing to accept I might be the problem. I just want honest advice beyond the usual "go to church" or "just be yourself, bro" bullshit. I'm tired of putting in the effort and getting nowhere.
>>35018277Disclaimer: I only know what I've read here.You are going to need to filter people better than you are currently doing.When you meet the right people, you don't feel like you're putting effort in. You ARE putting in effort, but it feels like a joy and it's so easy. And they're helping move the conversation along just as much as you are.You describe yourself going on dates with people who need you to carry the conversation -- you shouldn't have even met up with them to begin with. It should have been obvious from your Tinder conversations that there wasn't anything there. And if you're only meeting dickheads in your IRL life, that means you're doing something subconsciously to make that happen. As to how you're doing that, there's too many different possibilities for me to say. Good people stay away from those who hang out with bad people, so that could be why. Or it could be that you're not attracted to something good people do on first impression. Or you ARE attracted to something bad people do on first impression, before you know they're bad.>making me wonder if I'm just out of touch with what people want nowadays.Of course you are. Who wants to look for the person they'll marry at 22? Everyone knows it might happen, but it's not something you look for at that age. Very few people want to date someone with that kind of immense pressure. That changes when you turn 25, I want to say.If you didn't know that, I'm surprised.
>>35018841Good post>confidence is the most attractive asset for a manAnd just to be specific, this means "easy confidence". The kind of guy who cheerfully or nonchalantly does things. NOT the kind of assertive dickhead confidence you see people talk about here sometimes. (Some girls like that, but a lot hate it.)>>35018651You seem to be doing the right thing. So if you haven't got there yet, don't worry. It's not your fault.There could be a few things going on:Firstly, it's a numbers game. You could just have got unlucky.When it comes to girls, there's two contradictory statements that are unfortunately both true.>1. "When she's into you, you'll know it">2. Girls often do not show when they're into you. At least not SEXUALLY.What people mean by pt 1 is that girls don't play hard to get.* When you meet a girl who's into you, things will just flow easier. However, this doesn't mean she'll be sexually flirty with you (pt 2). Many women won't because they're shy or because it's just not their style. They'll just be more friendly and more enthusiastic about doing stuff with you. Generally, you won't feel like you're a jester trying to entertain a queen -- you'll feel like a hot knife slipping through butter.>they always seem like asexual amoebae in front of meThis is very normal, especially the first time you meet a woman. Girls will almost never be sexual with a guy they've met for the first time. It's the second time you guys meet up (by choice, like, because you both exchanged contact details and agreed to do something together for example) that she might start doing that sort of thing.Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
Well you're using dating apps wrong, OP. You're not supposed to carry on a boring back and forth for days, you're supposed to expediently exploit all her holes THAT DAY/NIGHT
>>35018841Revolting post
>>35018277>>35018651If they seem asexual around you its because you're seen as unattractive. They become whores in the presence of the right guy, I've seen it myself. Used to work as a bartender for a while, the behavior I've seen was enough to blackpill me for life. Even the shy, mousy ones become whores that grope and grind. Those same girls act like royalty in the presence of their beta male friends and they even get offended and disgusted if anything related to sex comes out of the mouth of a man they don't find attractive. If a girl is ever acting appalled at the mention of women even so much as having a libido, its because the man that's even so much as going into that topic without being attractive, is deemed as a creep instantly. They will try to shame you into going back where you belong in their imagined hierarchy. They don't want ugly men seeing them as the whores that they know they are, especially in friend groups. If the ugly ones found out the girls were giving ass to their attractive male friends, that could potentially open them up to approaches from those same betabuxx friendzoned guys and they couldn't explain away the dynamic without social incrimination.
How is a deep or meaningful relationship supposed to be? How is it to be "seen" and feel like the other person is interested in the surface and deeper 'you' in a relationship?
Cute moon pic
>>35017178>>35012746The standards are bottom of the barrel, no wonder everyone is so miserable, whether they are single or in a relationship
>>35019610Unfortunately couple don't get together because of love but settle because of convenience and are convinced that settling is love. It isn't.
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They're quite the annoying creature for a man of great intellect. I'd prefer a manual if you happen to have one.Thanks in advance.
Just say you're autistic, cuh
>>35023123It is so hard to talk to people who are so uninteresting and annoying.
>>35023115>They're quite the annoying creature for a man of great intellect.Have you tried tipping your fedora?
>>35023115if your intellect is greater you should hve no trouble adapting, it should be the other way around: them feeling like they cant get to your levelwhat gives(I actually know the answer to this, but you should think upon this until you get it)
I've lost 4 people in my life in the past 5 months. 3 long term friends and 1 bf. I still have other friends but now I just don't even get the desire to talk to them anymore. I'm so mentally drained. I wanna meet someone new.
>>35023660The point is that she is totally normal and didn’t do anything wrong but everyone else in her life just so happened to be a lying snake who couldn’t be any good.You ever posted on the internet when somebody might tell you that you’re in the wrong? You make yourself look normal and incredulous while framing the others as bad any way you need to so that the criticism doesn’t come through.
>>35022024I'm lonely as hell too, but I don't know how you even got in the situation where you got a peodphile boyfriend and the like in the first place. What type of personalities are you attracted to? Sounds like you're in bad company.
>>35023660I would rather not get too into it since it was recent, but his friends outed him saying that he was in another relationship with a minor whilst keeping it a secret to everyone else.
>>35024548I really honestly could not have predicted 2 of my longest lasting friends turning out to be bad people. I was friends with one of them for 6 years, and the other for 4 years. They've only recently shown their true colors to me. As for my ex boyfriend, I didn't know him for that long so I guess I should've gotten to know him better.
BumpI'm in the same spot OP, I don't really like online reddit or discord-esque spaces, dating apps seem like a humiliation ritual, ordinary social media is to keep in touch with friends not make new ones (I don't have that anyways). I'm from a semi-conservative place too, so it's a little bit more difficult to find people.
How long do you guys typically have to wait after round one before you can go for round two?Cause fucking hell man. I usually have to wait for ten minutes. And I'm fucking forty.
>>35018887Bro that is insane bro 48 hours is fucking insane
I'm 46 and I need about 20 minutes. If I take Viagra, I can cum and just keep fucking until I cum again. I only bought it for MDMA nights but it's fun sober as well.
>>35019077Shit I can do that without the Viagra, and I'm 40
>>35018895Bro...
>>35020918That is just insane
Is it true that doctors hate patients that are on Medicaid? That they're basically working for free or at a loss?Cause I'm on Medicaid and my doctors treat me like shit. Pharmacist too.
>>35022271I don't pay $100 for a steak and why I have money.
>>35022295Oh you're a frugal motherfucker... WELL GOOD FOR YOU THEN MOTHERFUCKERRRR
>>35019825I have zero sympathy for poors/browns/retards.
>>35015599Basically yeah. Most "working" class(poors) aren't even a net positive even when they are treated and put back in the workforce. That's how wasteful welfare is.
>>35022341Hmmm
You know how when you're standing on the street or some place in public, and some random dude walks by you and says some random comment "man that shit was crazy right" and you never noticed them until they said that but when you look at them they turn away immediately as they keep walking?Why do people do that? I don't get it. Where they expecting a response from me but chicken out as soon as I look at them? What the fuck?
>>35018806That's racist...
>>35018904It's okay, I'm white as well.
>>35018058what an elaborate projection
>>35024782it's just an observation I mean you do you bro I'm not gonna judge it's your sex life
>>35024928ok
I have a 6.5 inch pecker. NBP 6.5 inches, BP 7. I look at it and it's simply not enough, and no I have never had a partner or second opinion on this. I trust my own judgement the most out of everyone and the judgement my penis has received is that it is simply too small. It needs to be at least 7 inches NBP and I will be satisfied.
This is some dumbass larp or bait but just remember Indians only have like 2.5" meat
>>35023438>"tTHIIS IS BAITT!!!!!">"indian men have 2.5 inch cocks">this is totally not bait in itself
>>35023476>have 2.5" cock>have lower physical strength than women of other races100% Indian male
>>35023488How did this even happen? Also, are jeets just as weak as pygmies?
>>35023434Tie string to penis.Tie other end of string to brick.Throw brick out window.
How do i tolerate uncertainty? I care barely tolerate any at all, its horrible
Uncertainty over what?
>>35023728I just don’t think about empiricism
>>35023728I fucking LOVE uncertainty. Surprises are the most fun thing in the world. Live life with luck in the margins. It’s so much more fun. Don’t diss uncertainty again or I’m slapping the shit out of you if I see you on the street.
>>35023736I love that part. Makes the rest of this misery more enjoyable
>>35023728>How do i tolerate uncertainty?I'm not sure.
