Mira, se que esta mal lo que voy ha decir, pero esque estoy harta. Siempre hay una de esas personas que me estan molestando ¿por que? Ni idea, ni siquiera las conozco. Las he visto por el pueblo, pero ya. Me han destruido mentalmente, diciéndome cosas, inventándose cosas de mi, hablando mal a mis espaladas sin nisiquiera conocerme! Simplemente quiero que alguien vaya a darles una lección físicamente. Me refiero a darles unos buenos hostiones, creo que se escribe así, JAJAJA. Pero solo eso. Pago lo que sea, pero sin pasarse. Solo onions una adolescente que esta ahorrando dinero. Pero por favor. Darme algunos consejos, o decirme donde puedo encontrar a personas que hagan esos favores por dinero, no se
En donde pone cebollas, nada que ver, tendría que poner "onions"
Por qué escribes en castellano, te lees extranjera. No prestes atención al qué dirán y céntrate en ti misma
>>33956209That’s what I was wondering>>33956143Is Spanish your native language
>>33956143Un post en "español", increíble. Aunque si, se nota bastante que lo has traducido lolVa en serio lo que dices o te estás marcando un invent de temporada?
I've been an asshole in my life and I have done horrible things, I hope I have a horrible life and get shamed and destroyed. Hate on me I desrve it shame me do whatver,
>>33957353You must learn to forgive yourself. You can just forget about it and really forgive yourself later. Just think positively. If it’s selfish to do this, then do it.Unless, what you did was heinous, and, potentially, you can rectify the situation. What happened?
>>33957353Don't give up anon. Im going through the same thing. Im 29 and just barely fixing my life and moving on to better myself even though it feels empty because of my mistakes. Keep growing and I hope you feel better. Were too hard on ourselves these days.
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>>33957514I made a bad mistake, too. Im trying to get rich so I can give the person a bunch of money or something.What did you do
How do you take things seriously? I'm 24m and basically just play video games all day and don't take anything seriously.How do I lose this mentality before it fucks me over?
>>33958305>How do you take things seriously?Be responsible for your own rent and you're going to have a hard time doing otherwise.
>>33958305Suffering will reform your mindset. You will have to suffer, and therein will be your salvation. The trick is to find something that doesn't necessarily destroy you. I can't say what that is for you.>obligatory quote from beloved uncle
Take a shit job that forces you to find a better one.
There should be another board for sex and relationships and dating advice, to separate it from the sciatica/depression/job interview/indian call centre threads. look at the top 5 threads.. no not even, look at the top 12 threads. Picture very much related its all so very tiresome
>>33956737i'll have to try that
>>33956753good lucktry to squat down when picking things up, rather than bend downalso, never lift anything heavy if it's slightly off-center from where you're bending, if that makes senselike don't be leaning/twisting to the left or right, even slightly, when picking up anything heavier than 10lbs
>>33956633>to separate it from the sciatica/depressionThat's lgbt
>>33956724You will visit it out of spite
>>33956972No i wont
It's a bit late me asking this when I'm a few hours out from a big exam but that's what motivated me to do soAll I do is read through the notes and make my own notes, which are usually an attempt to restate the main points more succinctly. I never look back on my notes, and even if I do they don't really help.I at least feel like I kinda understand it when I'm doing that but then all the knowledge leaves me shortly after.Then when it comes time to revise it feels like I'm practically re-learning everything again. It feels horribly inefficient and I'm amazed I manage to get decent scores.I'm sure going back over them periodically and not just before an exam would help me remember stuff but I guess my method is so time consuming and I lack discipline so I barely feel like I have time to do that because I'm struggling enough just keeping up.
>>33957638Well, right now with just a few hours away the best you can do is just well cram the way you have, only got a couple hours left after all.As for in general:>I at least feel like I kinda understand it when I'm doing that but then all the knowledge leaves me shortly after.>Then when it comes time to revise it feels like I'm practically re-learning everything again. As a serial procrastinator I fell into that often, and especially now deep in my bachelor it caused some big issues. Stuff like the "kinda understand it" was common, and for me it was mainly through skimming the material and getting the rough idea of what I was meant to do, rather than actually learning anything. And of course, you'll forget it. So, the solution is to truly study to understand, and that well can take weeks. Instead of glossing over things, you have to take the time to really understand it. You need to ingrain it into you, and if you're not used to that it'll be damn slow, and requires active studying throughout the entire course. There should be no "revising time", that should just be your day to day. >I'm sure going back over them periodically and not just before an exam would help me remember stuffThe "periodic" part won't just help you remember, but it is how you actually learn anything to begin with. What you're doing now is just gorging on a lot of info, then regurgitating it soon after, being left with nothing. The kind of people I knew who did well in academia were the kind who wouldn't study the day before an exam to relax, since everything was already set in stone for them by then. >lack disciplineWell, this is where that got you. And likely this has been rooted in you, and will be incredibly difficult to change. If you realize this will lead to failure it's your choice now how much you want to try to change, since I can assure you this will just keep getting worse if left unmitigated.
>>33957680thank you for the input anon I will read it properly once I'm done crying
>>33957638What’s the subject?For technical subjects, like math, physics, cs, engineering, doing problems is king. Especially homeworks and past exams. For humanities, try what people sometimes call active recall. Write your own question (optional), and try to answer/teach the subject to an empty class. Verbalized, not just in your head. For facts and figures, dates, etc., use flashcards or anki. You only need to know how to double sided cards and cloze in anki. Don’t learn more features, don’t watch videos about anki, don’t participate in anki online communities. It’s procrastination.All three have 1 thing in common. They test your understanding and knowledge about the subject. It’s very easy to delude yourself, think you “understand” the subject if you don’t test it.
>>33957638I won't read how do I pass an exam that is happening soon threads. You should have avoided the distractions, obviously.
>>339576381) Read the upcoming material before the lecture. Do a smattering of the problems. Note anything that's giving you trouble.2) Attend the lecture, listening carefully and only taking notes of things you hadn't already picked up from the text (tricks, traps, etc). If the problems you noted in step (1) aren't answered by the lecturer, ask questions at the appropriate time.3) Do the homework assignment (if any), noting anything that gives you trouble.4) When you get the graded assignment back, make sure you understand exactly how you got the wrong answers wrong and how to get the correct answer. Ask the lecturer for help during office hours if necessary. Write down the correct answers (needed for step 5).5) When studying for the exam, re-read the texbook sections and lecture notes, and solve the homework questions that you missed the first time, verifying that you can now get the correct answers that you helpfully saved during step 4.6) When you get the graded exam back, Jot down the outlines of the problems you missed and make sure you understand exactly how you got the wrong answers wrong and how to get the correct answer (needed for finals). Ask the lecturer for help during office hours if necessary. Make sure to write down the correct answers (needed when studying for the final).Get "A" in course. ezpz.
Is there any way to create closed off networks to keep in touch with friends and family who are close by? Like sending messages and maybe some light gaming?
i would look into meshnets
>35>NEET for basically entire life>no high school or college education>dropped out of school in 9th grade>never worked>have left house maybe 6times in past 15 years>0 social skills>obese >never had a face to face interaction with someone my own age throughout my teens and 20s>ginger>never had a job>can't drive>never had friends>KHHV>parents are broke so I won't inherit anythingComment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>33957346usually thats true but im a unique case as i was homeschooled for the past 10 years and my only jobs (pnly outside interaction) had old women or black men. also i grew up with 5 siblings and im not s retard. its not over. and if it is ill just have to start killing people. is that what you want anon? for me to kill your and your entire family?
>>33955031DO NOT REPLY. He doesn't read the replies. He's just addicted to posting
>>33955068GJ bro.I was a neet from 24-33 and I got out of it by myself, slowly. One thing at the time. Now life is pretty good, nice place, good job, social life, relationship.OP, never ever feel entitled to anything. The pityparty must end now. You have to do all the hard work. You can make it if you really want it. It's almost january.Get a job, flip burgers. Workout at home or the gym. Study in the evening. Maybe you can stay longer at your parents house if they see you actually improving.Godspeed.
>butt chinThats a positive though
>>33955031An Hero. You might as well. You're way too far behind to ever catch up.
anons should i give up?im at uni right now and I wanted to lots of friends and go out lots and get out of my shell but its shit. I do plenty of stuff, sports, societies, volunteering and its all just assin a few hours time ill be at waterpolo, ill ride in a car there and talk to nobody since thyre all talking loudly in french since half of the waterpolo club is female french law exchange students (my flat is also half female french law exchange students, I fucking hate the french). ill get there and practice waterpolo, im like giga shit, the shittest person there, the other newbs got better quicker than me but im getting better slowly, but its hard and exhausting. However thyre kinda rushing me since im the only new guy to join waterpolo this year and they need more on the mens team. The captain is ofc congratulating me for anything good i do (which actually works cuz im weak willed) but i still havent really talked to anybody. Then I walk home to campus. This kinda sums up my experience of going out, not making any friends, talking to like one or two people max and knowing them as an acquaintance, being one of the few (or only) guys to join this year. My uni is a campus uni an hours walk out of town so its hard to go to a proper pub or anything. The stuff I do is only at par or dubiously better than bedrotting honestly. Im going to the gym and Im trying harder to look better and it means jack shit.Im not focusing on my studies and have been ignoring the few online people I have who I have infinitely closer relationships with for this shit. I have quite low bandwith for everything since im a retard who has problems independently living. Every "good" time ive had hasnt really been that good retrospect. idk should i bedrotmaxx.
>>33958160>Im not focusing on my studies and have been ignoring the few online people I have who I have infinitely closer relationships with for this shit.>idk should I bedrotmaxx???If you have friends online keep in fucking contact with them compared to keeping up with shit you hate. And damn study, you're not the partyanimal so that part of uni shouldn't be your focus. It seems you really are going out of your way to be somebody who you aren't, and while I do agree it's good to try stuff like that, keeping it up when it's not working is just baffling
>>33958160>Im not focusing on my studies and have been ignoring the few online people I have who I have infinitely closer relationships with for this shit.that's good atleast, keep in contact with those people>>33958160>talk to nobody since thyre all talking loudly in french since half of the waterpolo club is female french law exchange students (my flat is also half female french law exchange students, I fucking hate the french). ill get there and practice waterpolo, im like giga shit, the shittest person there, the other newbs got better quicker than me but im getting better slowly, but its hard and exhausting. However thyre kinda rushing me since im the only new guy to join waterpolo this year and they need more on the mens team. The captain is ofc congratulating me for anything good i do (which actually works cuz im weak willed) but i still havent really talked to anybody.anon, you've done more than 99% of people on this board by actually trying 5 or 6 things consistentlyyou got unlucky & the people around you in those activities are shit, or not ones you can talk/relate tonobody's forcing you to go to water polo or volunteering if you hate it & it's not going anywhere, but please keep trying things, because eventually one of them will workyou're very close now
>35 years old>no gf ever>no dates ever>no women attracted to me ever, not in school, university, or any jobs>lifted weights for many years but finally get my BMI to below 25>make multiple dating app profiles after never having done so>zero matches>start paying for apps>zero matchesSo all of the hopium was copium all along. And I'm proven to be unattractive. Now what?
>>33955868>There's no point courting a girl that hasn't approached you.There is a point, the point is that you could get a gf by talking to girls, vs not ever talking to girls unless they walk over and sit on your lap
>>33955333>women are repulsed by my because I'm not a 7 foot tall rock star billionaire social media influencer with a 9 inch cock and a 10 figure salary - only those guys are able to start dating girls back in jr highUnironically, yes
>>33955333>meanwhile you've got all sorts of fat normies and short redditors and average-at-best people with girlfriends, boyfriends, wives/husbands and kids.I saw couples like this at a concert but I have no idea how these people got together in the first place.
>>33955868>There's no point courting a girl that hasn't approached you.It's much easier when you already know they like you but it's so rare you better marry her
>>33958337>I saw couples like this at a concert but I have no idea how these people got together in the first place.Maybe they don't have unrealistic standards towards the opposite sex? Have you tried approaching average girls out there? I'm also average as fuck with no dating experience and at least two normie girls showed interest in me, I didn't follow up with them because my wallet is smoother than a Barbie's crotch and nobody likes a broke dude, not even the ugly ones.
Is it true that guys only get approached by girls less attractive than themselves?
>>33956569Regardless of gender, the more attractive and out of you league the person approaching you is the higher the chance they're crazy or a scammer or both.
It's always better if she thinks she likes you more than you like her. That's what hypergamy is, bra
>>33956569No.I am 7/10 at my best and yet the most beautiful woman I've ever seen - a fellow student in a college club - asked me out. She explained later that I seemed the most "interesting" person there and she wanted to get to know me better. We've been together 2 years now.Not all women judge by looks alone
>>33956569Guys don't get approached by girls unless he is "chad" (inb4, pace the inevitable chorus of whiners).
>>33956569In my personal experience, this has been the case. Although it has only happened a few times.
I have this Korean coworker I have known for a couple months nowWe work together well especially on company events that happen every 3 weeks with planning organizing you get the jistI remember she would invite her finance to the first couple events we had when she started working but stopped showing up completely after the 4thI followed them both on Instagram and saw a story from the guy asking if theres anywhere in the area where he can stay implying they broke up and she kicked him outShe also never mentions him to meMore recently at the events we have together shes more upfront with meAt first she got annoyed at me for not wanting to put up a obviously broken company banner and to>be a manBut she treats me more nice now always completing me on my work making sure I get paid extra for the overtime I do setting up events she legit grabbed my both my shoulders from behind to say hi to meShe takes looks at me while I am workingHeres the one thing that really got meI was talking to some co workers and these events arent super crowded but when she went inbetween me and another coworker I felt the back of her hand brush against my entire ass and it did not seem like a accident cause she had plenty room to get byI don't want a office romance as I get paid pretty well and don't want to ruin things in my lifeI also suspect she got cheated on and there is proof>No mention of her bf on social mediaComment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>33956487I said she’s not in I thought she would be at work tomorrow so I gotta wait
>>33946307>>33937779Asian girl here, yeah she deffo wants your cock and may be a bit of a whore.
>>33956500I say try and go to AMP to get some post cum clarity with Asian fever. If you still want to fuck her, I say go for it but with caution not to loose your job. She's clearly flirting so if you decide not to fuck her just say you're not wanting any coworker relationships but do it like you're flattered because you would in all honesty smash her. In the end update is what happens.
the advice here is absolutely retarded. >a pretty girl at work is interested in me>AVOID - it can ruin your life!>why don't you try an AMP instead?>okPretty sure getting arrested in a prostitution sting and being labelled a lifelong sex offender is going to ruin your life worse than asking a cute coworker on a date. Not to mention whatever venereal diseases the prostitutes have. Yes, herpes can infect fingers (herpetic whitlow if you want to look it up). No, condoms don't protect you from herpes and warts. Get off this gay website and ask your coworker out, you fucking pussy.
>>33957464>In the end update is what happensSoon anonThis will be the last post I make besides the updateI can’t believe this is still up after a weekAny last general advice
should I become homeless? I am a 45 year old NEETI have a little money savedI have a pretty decent workshop, I have taught myself welding (including AC aluminum TIG which is probably the most 'high skill' type of welding), using most woodworking equipment (routers, jointers, planers, shapers, CNC, bandsaws, tablesaws, etc, use of machining equipment like lathes, mills, grinders, plasma cutters, CAD/CAM software, I've built and designed tools, music instruments, furniture, bicycles from scratch, I can operate backhoes, skidsteer, skidders, frontloaders, (and shit like chainsaws, equipment that goes along with that sort of shit....But I have a mental problem where I feel like an absolute piece of shit due to having a narcissistic/histrionic father and basically fall apart in the presence of other people where I only view myself as a piece of trash. (I am instantly getting severe migraines being around him because his behavior being so insane)I can only see myself getting a job where I make maybe 16 bucks an hour. I look at rent in places around me, and even in really cheap places in the country (I honestly wouldn't mind living in some place like Iowa, Nebraska or Arkansas at this point) and then look at ads for places wanting roommates and literally every place even in the most depressed/cheapest places in the country are like 1200 a month as a roommate. What should I do? I might be able to build a van to live out of, but I did that for a month and not having a toilet/shower is really bad after a while. The economy is so fucked that when I build a piece of furniture, or whatever, the price I need to sell it at is below the cost of materials it too to build. I don't know how anyone can function these days. Is being homeless/living out of a car that bad? Where is the best place to live out of your car?
>>33957906oh yeah, that was something that absolutely sucked was being constipated from driving so much/sitting so much/eating horrible road foodi am pretty fit too, im not a fat sack of shit, i bike/run/lift a lot, eat pretty clean where are you living/working?
>>33957916Alberta, and some swanky hipster office. Mostly women and all super tidy, so I do basic surface cleaning then just hang out in there til 4 am.No idea what they do exactly. vague conceptual stuff.They're quite kind honestly, give me oat bars and stuff and meeting catering leftovers. I'm waiting until it feels appropriate to ask if I could use their kitchen for meal prep.Praying this good streak stays
>>33957942How the fuck do you survive winter there. I just watched a Steve Wallis van camp in Edmonton and it was like -40f...he had to use a propane heater in the van.
>>33957986thermals, sleeping bag, and I stapled together thick wool lining panels into a prism that fits the back seat, so I can crack open front windows a bit for ventilation.I also have a generator and electric kettle. tea, noodles, hot water bottle
>>33957892>even in the most depressed/cheapest places in the country are like 1200 a month as a roommateI have recommended this video (from two years ago) a few times: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mrl0PagJe18The highlights (median rentals and not shared) are:St. Louis $900/$1100 (whiners will complain about the high murder rate) Memphis $700Cheyenne $1100Milwaukee $875Columbia MO $1100 for a house
How do I unironically get a harem of hot sexy women? Like what is the most realistic way I can get a wife whose my main chick and then fuck a bunch of other side chicks and she doesn't care? Is this even realistic? Am I insane for even suggesting this?
>>33946861i hate that this chick acts all innocent and cutesy but you know she is an absolute whore in the sack because she has a tattoo on her vagina
>>33957341holy fuck hoeflation is real
>>33958030>>33957174He's MTN. He's like top 40% maybe. He's also 5'7. He looks genuinely dysgenic from certain angles
>>33958258>MTNWtf does that incelcuckpill rhetoric mean?
>>33958275man to neet?his body is at least top 10% and his face is probably top 12%, he was making 170k a year as wellwomen should be gassed with zyklon b
I use some character chatbot pages for thought experiments, studying trends, shit and giggles etc.--but WTF is up with the chatbots aimed at girls? thousands of "stepbrother" bots, "rich husband" (which is unfair against Working Class Males and thus justifies armed communist terrorism-which is bad, therefore the thing that ontologically justifies it should stop)Then there are masochist bots (user's POV is masochist) such as obsessive\ stalker\ rapist, etc. it seems pathological, extremely stinky and creepy, and gives ontologico-deontological support for groups like FARC, Shining Path, the Cuban Dictatorship!there were like a dozen chatbots for these (fictional) men: the joker guy from Gotham series and Al Capone from the tom hardy movie...for some reason it specially struck me as odd so many women users would ERP with these unsually-aestheticized actor-characters.
>>33956322Women are literally mentally retarded
>>33956322Untouchables is the best Al Capone movie
>>33956322What websites were you finding these on?
swan lake editionhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9cNQFB0TDfYpreviously, on ATOGA: >>33954554
do women want this?
>>33959380Glad you recognized, time to go.
>>33959374That's good. Wish I could help more.
single women, do you want a bf? what are you doing to get one?
>>33959380We want to be bothered
