>3rd world shit country>not male, almost 30 years old>boss discovers that I'm mentally ill and wants stated in my contract that I'm disabled>lost my contract and I need to get through medical evalution for a new one>seek free psychiatrist who just ignored the help I asked and made me pay for pills that made me be flled with murderous thoughts>shit pills are a waste of money and I can't do shit besides waiting for exams>it's taking months and I'm currently unemployed>while I'm waiting I've tried to apply to another jobs, nobody calls me for interview and if there's interview it's with groups where I go completely ignored>saving money as possible>had to be isolated at home waiting for doctors to call me>the money I've saved is now gone>tried to apply to a social security program, but still have no answer>my mental health is worse than before>divorced parents doesn't want me to stay at their houses>they at least offered help, but it's not enough for me to pay the bills and eat at the same timeComment too long. Click here to view the full text.
what is the book in the OP image, or is it just AI?
>>34648946It's not AI. I don't know what book this is.There's another image and this one is called Ruthless Vows.
>>34648940>I'm illWhat do you have?
Step by step (yeah, I need a guide, I'm dumb).
>>34645272Thanks, but I'm not interested semitic schizoism.
>>34642139dont fix yourself. be the worst version of yourself you can be. but treat yourself with dignity and respect. after that then you can clean your room.
>>34646613Not OP, but do you mean like Jordan Peterson's "become a monster" as in becoming more assertive and self-respecting, or do you mean to become like a rebel of some sort?I also want to stop being a loser in his 20s, I am starting to lose hope and other around me are starting to think that I am retarded (used to be a nerd, so it is just fatigue rather than retardation).
>>34648739i simply mean to just accept yourself as you are as an imperfect person. many people try to put on a perfect image and try to be the best version of themselves, but upholding that image 100% of the time is taxing, and eventually you're gonna see that ugly, imperfect version and you have to be OKAY with that version of yourself to make an real improvement. everything else would just be a performance. having integrity even when you're feeling gritty is what can keep a bad time from turning into the worst time. you dont have to put on a show for anyone, not even yourself. Just be okay not feeling the need to be at your best at all times.
>>34642139Just read. If something is missing beyond that there was no hope for you, anon.
What do you think of people with no facebook nor instagram profiles? I don't like sharing anything of my life so i deleted them, am i social outcast because of this or what?
>>34648775It probabily gives girls the ick, since they use you to see if you are socially " respected". Remember that women are social animals and developed to be a lot more conformist than men because they needed the group much more than men being weaker and having to look after babies. Man is much more a lonly wolf type, but many modern men use social media to have a chance to get checked by women. This is my opinion, I may be wrong...
>>34648775they're the only people who can righteously bitch about AI taking all the jobsthe normie morons who voluntarily fed all their data to the american-tech-information-blackhole for all those years, in exchange for a shitty service full of ads can go fuck themselves. and I'm laughing to their face when they tell me they can't get a job interview
>>34648801You're not wrong but forcing yourself on social media just cause of a bitch is a fast path to misery. A man using social media should only be doing so AFTER he's established a few women
>ClubsNot really made for dancing anymore, you look weird if you are alone>Festivals Works enough but you also look weird if you are alone>Dancing clubsDo not give enough freedom to do the dances you wantI want to dance, I want to vibe! I want to lose myself in the music!Possibly with people who also want to do the same but alone is fine too. It's just very relaxing for my mind even though I'm a bit awkward usually.
you sound like a huge gay
>>34648776No, I just want to dance because it makes me less stressed and I can forget things for a bit while dancing, why would dancing be "gay"?
>>34648468At home aloneYou can't dance in public any more cell phone cameras and the Internet ruined it
I live my life with an aura of negativity because everything I want to do in life, every long term goal, I feel I cannot do. I think to myself, "I'd be delusional to think I could do that."So then thats what I must be. How do I develop delusional levels of self confidence?
>>34644062wouldnt that be giving up as the posters above us warn against?
>>34645442If the game is still fun, how's that giving up?
>>34644062It’s not wrong to pick your battles but you can’t give up on everything. Eventually, you have to commit to at least one thing in life that you can do well and continue to improve. Hopefully, that will be something you can build a career out of.
>>34645639>that competitive game isn't for meif I once wanted to be highly skilled and competitive in this game, isnt that an admission of defeat?
>>34648039>Isn't that an admission of defeat?You have to acknowledge a failure to learn from it. If you never accept defeat, you will never learn. The goal is to see defeat as a positive and grow from it. If you want to continue to grow as a competitive player, knowing how and why you lost is important. If you no longer want to be a competitive player in that game, think about other games that might fit your skillset better or find new ways to motivate yourself. You can do the same thing, just try a new angle of attack in order to fail in a different way. Growth isn't about ignoring failure exists at all, it's about accepting failure as part of the process of becoming better and adapting your mindset to see losing as a positive. If you grow better with every failure, then it no longer becomes a negative.
maybe the cartilage or wtv didnt harden yet and maybeee i can get taller?just 1 inch please and has anyone done the LLS and should i go for it me is 5'9
>>34648483Just tell women you are 14 and still growing.
>>34648978breaking our legs is what a sissy cuckold who wants to kowtow to the gynocracy, would do. Being a faggot is a tradition for the males in your family, I suppose.
>>34648483>just 1 inch pleaseSTOPBELIEVINGMEMES
>>34648483Stand up straight.Everybody slouches, and a military posture can add a real inch or more to your height.It can also add the appearance of more, since studies show people always overestimate the height of those "standing tall."
>>34649012>Stand up straight.i look retarded
Here is my dilemma: I have been burnt out for the past 5 years since finishing high-school and have left many courses half-finished or 90% done, and abandon any friend groups or projects that are working for me, and because of this I may be getting kicked out at the end of the year. The thing is that I am too exhausted to truly care but am taking steps to fix my situation e.g. taking steps to getting my ADHD diagnosed and medicated (I zone out for hours at a time, or spend time sluggishly pacing), improving my diet and taking vitamins, walking every few days (too exhausted to work out). Now my main problem is that I spend almost all day zoned out, napping, or pacing, and the brainfog only lifts and my ambitions truly flare when I have slept for 3-6 hours (sometimes in broken up parts rather than a whole continuous sleep session) in the late afternoon before awakening in the late evening or early morning with a few hours of mental clarity and focus to study or plan/organize things that will help me to get a job and move out. How can I make the most of my limited focus and mental clarity?
>>34648989>because of this I may be getting kicked out at the end of the year.I certainly hope so.
I am desperate to move forward
>>34649016I never wanted to end up as a failure, but alas here we are. I am trying to make an effort to improve as you surely read in my post.I am sorry for having irritated (You)
>>34648989>getting my ADHD diagnosed and medicatedcaused by parasites and toxins
>>34649063raw meat, raw milk and raw honey
Is 8 inches considered BBC / BWC territory?
>>34648050Stop being a jealous insecure little bitch, you retard.
>>34647971>And use plenty of lube when you fuck ur own handYou speaking from experience?
>>34645282>>34645282
>>34648922Imagine taking slut posters seriously. The psychology of the slut is well understood. Whenever they post something like:>Y'all 6 inches b quiet if u trynna talk, ain't talking to no baby microphone dick It means>"My ex boyfriend is an asshole. He has a 6 inch dick and I want to insult him without direct confrontation. I will post my thoughts on 6 inch dicks and I hope he reads it."It's the mind of slutty women that's what they do, they all do this. For everything, for height weight clothing hairstyles, if you were her ex BF she is mad at she will post about your physical attributes without naming you and then generalize it, hoping you see it and feel bad.This is what is known as "Talking through the flower." It's when women wish to convey information in an extremely indirect way yet still hitting a specific target. Commonly their fathers they are mad at, or their ex boyfriends.The best way to directly counter this female attack is as follows:>Directly tell her to her face>"Your boobs are uneven. Gross. Why the fuck is one slightly bigger than the other like that? Clown ass tits.">"Your pussy lips fucking stink. I saw flakes of toilet paper on them, fucking gross.">"Your pussy STANK. It looks like a wad of spat out chewing gum."Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>34648922Fuck do I care what some whore that probably takes 20 dicks up her ass at once thinks.
I just got finished taking all the practice tests. Should I schedule the (A+) exam or should I study more
>>34643393>Should I schedule the (A+) exam or should I study moreYou failed all the practice tests. What makes you think you'll pass the real one?
>>34643393try to get a good score at least... dumbass
I recommend people skip A+ as it's so rudimentary it's mostly a waste of time. Make portfolio instead
>>34645656What about Security+
>>34648854Yep. That one is universally more valuable.Idk what kind of job this is for BUT the portfolio is also a big deal. If you're a coder or something
What about the women's libido? I have been in a relationship with my gf since 4 months and sometimes she wants to kiss/have sex and sometimes she refuses it. Its kind of vibe killer for me when she tells me she doesn't want to kiss me right now - is it even possible? For me, its kind of natural you want to kiss or make out with your partner. I dont suspect cheating here - she has no friends, she meets only with me and her mother. I dont want to push her or something but I feel kind of insecure in such situations. Is it normal? how I should act in such situations?
>>34648689>she has no friends, she meets only with me and her mother.how did u meet her?if that is true she is just introverted and need to be alone too and you sound like they typical extroverted guy that cannot understand people can be different and less social than you.
>>34648807on tinder
>>34648689Probably start looking for a backup.
>>34648689just do it
>>34648877>on tinder>>34648878
The other moms at the gym mog my wife but I mog their husbands. How do I turn my wife into a gym bimbo so we can double mog
>>34648802You are not married. Stop torturing yourself with psychotic fake narrative
>>34648802try sucking a bbc and se what happens
>go on date with coworker (we’re remote and different branches so would never see her in office)>have known each other a year>kiss on said date and confess feelings to each other>but throughout our dynamic I have always been the sole initiator, and even then she flakes 1/3 times>this was our third time hanging out but our first “date”>whenever I text her, it sounds just like she’s talking to her friend>say stuff like “I’m looking forward to spending some time with you” and she ignores it entirelyWhat’s going on here?
She just doesn't like you enough to actually put in effort. Probably just keeping you warm as an option while she dreams about a guy she actually likes. Have some self respect and stop this. Women are supposed to chase you. Not the other way around
>>34648144I said I was quite interested in her and she said she was too. We were both blushing, felt very high school (despite being early 30s), though on the flip side she said she “takes a while” to like someone. I also told her I’d like her to initiate more because it’s literally always me. She said she would but she hasn’t.>>34648153Our next date is already planned, logistically it requires her to stay at my house which she agreed to, though she said it as “thanks for letting me crash!” I guess it’s too drastic to cancel and too early to ask her what’s going on in her head, so I guess I am just to let it happen and see if it’s any different
>>34648133>I have always been the sole initiator>she said she “takes a while” to like someonei mean can she be more direct
>>34648406Then why does she bother and why all the blushing?
Bump
How do I escape looksmaxing brain rot?I can’t leave the house without thinking about mogging, maxxing it ruins my day thinking I have to be looking my best every minute of the dayHow do I into normality again I’m so tired
>>34647942stop being homo
>>34647942Start blackminning instead
anyone have a fulfilling childhood and teen life and college life? whats it like? as you get older do you look back on it fondly?
>>34645661I was glad to have the memories, but I am also happy that I’m an adult now. I see all of those moments as a stepping stone towards my situation now. I’m happily employed and my life is still fulfilling.I’m not super popular but I have friends and do things that I feel good about. I don’t wish I could go back to my life before adulthood, if that’s what you’re getting at.
>>34645804that's how it should be, childhood is wonderful but it's not some paradisal lost perfection but something that gradually gives way to the greater freedom and the ability to handle it responsibly of adult life.my parents wanted me to have a 'happy childhood' free of worries with the result that I had to do all my growing up on my own. and my childhood wasn't even happy. funny how that works.
>>34645661they cant understand, anon how having a fucked up early life fucke the rest of your existence too
should i leave 4chan for twitter ?
>>34647090Why not visit both?
>>34647090you're really gonna leave us for negroids jeets and jews?
>>34647090if you like 4chan with visible metrics of cocksucking then sure
>>34647090Lol no. Twitter died the moment it became X. Twitter is like Facebook for celebrities. It's been dead a while now. But go ahead, you'll be back here within a day or two.
>>34648738>Twitter is like Facebookyou cna have anonymous profiles on x
