No matter how much I try to work hard, job and freelance at the same time I never get ahead. I didn't manage to get what I want, no wife or kids. Recently the small company I worked with failed and we all got fired for economic reasons. Should I give up on everything and accept failure and let it all rot? Why should I contribute to this society?
A girl has spilled water on me on purpose after minor disagreement and slapped my face (as a joke) on two different occasions, did not apologize once after giving her countless opportunities to do so. Justifies her every action that she has "learned to act this way". I was hanging out with her because we related in few ways, we both were social fuckups and she felt like she was true to me, would point out the issues I have and not try to be just nice like rest of the people, of course she'd give me compliments for authenticity etc. but I wasn't thirsting for them. I just enjoyed her genuinity but now I feel like she's not good for me at all.
>>34067860>as I said, majority of people in my field are women and I talk to them on a daily basisThat's GREAT for you.(Same anon)>no wonder some guys are incelsyes, but I'll say again: I'm a Volcel, (Voluntary Celebate)I moved back to the Trash State mentioned in the article, into and even MOAR shitty, Fuxxated city FOR my family after being in 2 other states for more than 20 years.(Big fuggin' mistake)I have a little story of the one time I even considered "dating" since I've been here if you want to hear it.Back you your quandary:>>34067911>she has a fucking boyfriend already>how should I proceed?I think you're making the right choice cutting off your connection with her, and probably most would say just ghost her. The forthright approach *seems* like it would be better, but were I in your shoes, I'd go with the latter, as a neurotic like this might have a "Drama Panic", with a straightforward and honest,"I'm done with you" and try even harder to pull you back into her strange fantasy world where she controls you.
>>34067540she wants to fuck you
>>34068151But do I want to fuck her? Told her on several occasions I feel nothing towards her, even if there were some little feelings here and there.>Bro learn to have fun and make it a one night standIntimacy is sacred to me and being a manwhore is not my goal in life. While I do crave intimacy, someone has to be worthy of it. I don't need rape accusations because her fucking hormones told her so. Really unfortunate she was one of the only interesting people that I happened to get along, shame she chooses to be a genuinely shit person.
>>34067540She's flirting bro. Just take the opportunity and plunge
>>34073072She's a massive red flag>got back with ex that dumped her>spreads rumors if things don't go her way>"I hate youuuuuuuu" which is obvious what it means>literally told him that "she found someone more annoying than him">can be violent>rumored to have scored a shit ton of bodieswhy the fuck would I
moids, if you want to be loved for your personality, you need to be a person (that is, not a clone of every other moid) and therefore not be motivated solely by malevolence.
>>34072271i can "entertain" myself but James Madison could entertain me better
>>34072209>unconditionally hate womenI don't hate women, matter of fact two of the most important people in my life as a dude were women. As someone who loves women, you really are being everything you hate. Why even diminish the hope of understanding the other sex, why must you catastrophize and treat them like Scapegoats. Dunno what man's hurt you but men aren't a monolith just as women aren't one either.
>>34072187>posts a picture of a man
>>34072193Lol fpbpOP 'Squirtin Curtains' BTFO'd
>>34072645you want to fuck and beat women. that obviously doesnt mean you love them>i am being blamed for what i choose to do, therefore i am a scapegoat
What advice would u give t teenagers?
>>34071224*out* of your bedroom, too much time spent idly is a waste of your most formative years, chase things that are mentally stimulating to you
>>34071215I won't read musings about no-one in particular. Ask for specific advice for someone next time.
Quickly find someone to procreate with b4 U hit the wall man or woman search wide search far
>>34071215Don't go on 4chanTalk to women more often but don't let them control your mind Be in shape
idk, get off fuckin 4chan, uh. start/maintain good habits like cleaning your room regularly and shower frequently bc some teens just dont, get into a creative hobby, get into a coding hobby, and go out to a bunch of raves and shit.
that i want to eat her booty? just to try it out, to see if any of us likes it (never did stuff like that)she showers literally every day and is by far the cleanest person i knowalso she has a very big butt and often tells me to grab it/says she loves it when i grab her butt, so i think she might be open to ithowever, i can also imagine it being a weird requesti genuinely can't think of a good way to word itmaybe someone here has experience
>>34073030*see how she
>>34073030obviously we are very close and all, but i think i should at the very least inform her, just diving in without any warning could backfireshe won't be fuming at her mouth or anything, we love each other dearly, but it could be awkward, turn her off, shock her etc.
>>34073026It’s overrated. Worst case scenario it’s a bad experience for all involved, smelly and weird. Best case scenario it’s a “whatever” experience where no one is orgasming, just an anus being tickled by a tongue. It gets old pretty quick. Anyway you don’t need to ask for it just do it. If she says ‘no’ or ‘stop’ then you stop, simple. Asking to do sexual things is a buzzkill and a turn off. Women much prefer you just go for it as long as you understand what the word ‘stop’ means and you stop when asked. I recommend not eating ass anyway, it’s vile behaviour and yes i’m a hypocrite but I was dumb and young. If you can eat ass then it means you’re better off drinking from a toilet since it’d be more hygenic at that point. Assholes are where poop comes from, right at the source. At least toilets clean themselves out. Assholes have shit jammed up the intestine
>>34073040Fine. I guess you could just tell her during sex that you would wanna try eating her butthole. I dunno, I'm a virgin. I don't think you should take advice from me anyways.
>>34073026I hate you and hope she dumps you.
Wholesome Activities EditionIn this thread, we attempt to ask the opposite gender anything.Previously: >>34068634
>>34075443moids constantly brag about the fact that they are all the same.>tell women to abstain>get triggered when women abstain>>34075447holy ragebait>>34075449broke: bony facewoke: pale asf
>>34075468If you have Amazon Prime then they're giving away GOG codes for Fallout 1 and 2 later this week.
>>34075450?>>34075453because it's hot>>34075454you're jealous>>34075461>>34075465post ass and thigh pics
>>34075469>only acknowledge the existence of Chad, claim to hate him whilst also secretly lusting over him (indicated by the all-consuming obsession with how he treats women)we get it, you're jealous you're not the heroine of 50 Shades of Grey.
>>34075467Morrowind is the best of these if you don't mind getting lost
Is it potentially dangerous to eat out a prostitute? Since she always makes her clients use condoms, it should be clean, no?
>>34067732ABSOLUTELY no bro
>>34067732It’s really no less “dangerous” than fucking them. Most people don’t do it because it’s icky but it’s not like there’s some increased risk of STDs.
>>34067832What's wrong with that?
Use a Dental Dam if u decide to do it.
>>34069312You wouldn't taste anything though
My lust died the second I wrote the average feminine nature on paper and stratified it according to its moral nature. I am now convinced that the only thing you are supposed to do as a soul, as a man is to wrestle your own flesh into submission, find God and develop a prosperous and altruistic relationship with our creator in order to escape this prison. 99% of women are half humans with no souls, everything they strive for and enjoy is ultimately evil in its nature. The very core of femininity is absolute evil that seeks to devour good men with the same glee and joy youd get from stomping out some dorky kids sand castle.Once I realized why women are the way they are, it's like I've finally been enlightened as to why hermit monks become hermits in the first place. It's all a lie, its all a joke. This planet is a prison, women are archons who genuinely don't give a fuck about anything but they have to pretend to have interests beyond themselves just so men dont become suspicious and notice the huge disparity in the nature of each gender. It's not a complimentary nature, it's completely one-sided and parasitic. The entire role of women is to entrap a mans life force and pull another soul onto this false reality incarnation trap. Thats all they were designed to do. Satan takes a hold of their hivemind vessels with comedic ease and no resistance. They are all beyond corrupt, they fall apart once a month and endure pain unless they fulfill their ill-natured task. There is nothing in this world worth striving for besides Gods love. There is absolutely NOTHING in this world that is worth your place in heaven.
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>>34067312Personally I'm not a narcissistic schizo who needs to be a divine transcendent soul or whatever but no way I'm going to lie with some bitch who supports the killing of unborn children either way
>>34067312>t misogynistic sperg with room temperature IQ
>>34069452No
I married my wife in 2013 when we were both 23 years old; we'd been dating since our senior year of high school in 2007. We have four kids born 2015, 2017, 2020, and 2022. I had an affair during 2020 and for several months was considering leaving her. She knew this and I went back and forth multiple times. In March 2021 I came to my senses and ended all contact with the other woman. I have never cheated, and will never cheat, again. I was very close with her family prior to the affair. Now there's a... kind of distance. Like they don't trust me as much. They're cordial and polite and are absolutely not cold, but there used to be a warmth that's no longer there.Is there any hope of recovering from this? My wife seems to have fully put the whole incident behind her and trusts me again seemingly as much as she did before 2020, but her family... I don't know. Maybe this is the new forever normal. I hope not. I'm hoping that maybe it was just recent enough that things aren't fully healed, but that they will get there with time.
>>34070309>breaking up a homeYou're talking about having an affair right? Glad we are on the same page
>>34070275Probably they do that because once the crime is committed, you can expect it will happen again. So, if you would cheat on your partner, they will always feel scared that you’re gonna do it again. That’s how marriages collapse btw.
>>34070317Jesus is defining the definition of adultery, not the guidelines for divorce. He is saying that divorcing a wife is adulterous, except if she was already an adulterer, then the divorce is not adulterous. He does not say “If she commits adultery you should divorce.”
>four (4) children>high treason, betrayal, the absolute worst S I N there is in the cosmos on par with lucifer>iS ThErE AnY HoPe oF ReCoVeRiNg fRoM ThIs?what a whoreson turbonigger you are OP.>>34070030this.i really hope this is bait, for your poor lady.
Don't know your wife OP but i do know a lot about women. Here's my predictions:i) she's already cheated on you to get revenge and plans for you to never find outii) she has definitely already ahd legal advice and knows exactly what to do, and when, to terminate the relationship at a pre-determined time, at which point she will be 100% prepared emotionally and logistically and you will be on the back foot. (She may already be backgrounding the kids).iii) OP will post again when his oldest child is 14yo or so "My wife left me X years after my affair I can't believe she did this"
what's the equivalent concept of penis length from women
>>34069229Correct don't listeen to the kids and betas that will pretend they have a clue.Dick Men Tits WomanShoulders Hips to WaistAbbs Men Ass and WaistAnyone who actually bothers to research sexual dynamics will know this but most would rather keyboard warrior a couple of times a year run around arrogant and wonder why things don't add up, its them "incels fault" I just need to kiss up to them fat woman more they think.
>>34069369>Men have no idea Ok child. You probably shouldn't be talking sex organs with adult strangers.
>>34069427Clit, boob size, pancake boobs, weight, if a woman doesn't have an "innie" he probably will tolerate it and probably he wants her to shave a lot/certain areas and or get permanent hair removal desu.
>>34069417that’s untruemost men DO care about the bodycountbut not as much as to refuse pussy
>>34069355Then it's how hard she sucks
My wife and I are mid 30's and married. We both have good careers. Made $225,000 this year together and next year will be at $250,000. We will probably be at $300,000 by the time we are 40. We have $475,000 invested for retirement in index funds and will add $100,000 next year if we maintain our current lifestyle. We're unable to have children and we live well below our means. Have a modest condo and don't eat out much or buy expensive clothes.We also have modest cars, but I'm feeling bored of just living my life to make line go up in our accounts. I'm starting to feel like what am I doing all this saving for when tomorrow isn't guaranteed? Known a couple people that have died in the last few years and it makes me fear having regret for not doing things while I still have the time. It was a boyhood dream of mine to drive a nice car and I'm not really interested in driving a nice one when I'm old. Would I be retarded if I got a 2 or 3 year old CPO BMW M340i next year? I would put a good down payment on it and finance the rest for 3 years. I'm not doing it as a status thing to try and look cool for others because I know no one cares. I just love the car and want to drive around in it with my wife. She's on board with it. Go on vacations with it and stuff. It would be my only big splurge.
>>34071474Educate yourself on how grant funders impact a community before calling it virtue signalling. In many places those foundations are the only thing that keep major programs alive that help a lot of people in locally
>>34071667No. Cuz idgaf. If it's helping people then it's fixing societal issues unless it's causing a parasitic codependent relation where one is given fish but not taught how to fish themselves
>>34071759The irony is almost comical reading your replies
>>34071879TF you talking about
>>34069627>finance the rest for 3 yearsOr you could just build up your checking account for a few months and pay cash for it and avoid the interest. But sure, if you have so little self-control that you can't wait a few months then go for it. But be aware that lifestyle creep is a slippery slope.
I'll be honest. Almost everytime I speak with customer service over the phone, I always feel rushed. They cut me off when I'm speaking, make me lose my train of thought, and I almost always end up forgetting to ask or address something I was supposed to address during the call.Doesn't matter if it's customer service for my internet or for my doctor visits.Always have this rushed experience.What am I doing wrong?
>>34069615Tell me about it. I had no problems being a wagie, but I found out they do in fact keep wagies in cagies. I can’t even be a helpful or pleasant wagie to help customers in a meaningful way. I once got verbally disciplined one time because I spent 20 minutes trying to source local help for a 102-year-old grandma who called needing help with her TV and she couldnt follow the telephone instructions I was trying to walk her through because she had bad vision. She lived alone and had no family in the country and depended on TV to keep her spirits up. I felt bad and wanted to find a community service near her who could help her physically and for that I was apparently a bad employee.
>>34069626YES! When you try to do your best work, they don't give a shit. They want quantity not quality. And you don't deliver at the ridiculous speed they want, your ass out the door!You helped that grandma? They don't care. They would've wanted you to tell her to fuck off and figure it out for herself. Or to tell her she's old as fuck and shouldn't be watching TV anyway, LOL.
>>34069656The worst part is knowing all of this as a worker and seeing the propaganda around the office, the commercial advertisements and slogans. “Teamwork makes the dream work”. “Quality care is the priority”. “Honesty is the best policy” The fake stock images of smiling normies hung up on walls, hallways, offices with fake platitudes. When truth is, if you actually try to live up to any of those virtues or goals, you get punished. Big corporations only want to look good, but not actually be good.
>>34069677>TeamworkThat word sends shivers down my spine!
>>34070254As an introvert I never want to hear that word ever again LOL stuff of nightmares desu XD
Is a college degree even worth it these days?
>>34072686Depends on what you're going to school for. I make a pretty decent living with my job, got into this field right after college and always made good money.
>>34072686Define "worth it."
>>34072686Just get blue collar job and be good at it.
>>34072686if you're going into college JUST for the degree, then no, it isn't worth it.Some degrees are still valuble but they are NOT a guarantee of a good job or career, and not worth the 3+ or whatever years you're gonna spend on them.If you're actually looking to learn some things, meet pepole, get certs, involve yourself in the academic social life, then yeah, I'd say it's worth. But keep in mind you're gonna need to put in extra effort, and even then it depends on the college
>>34072686Depends on the degree. There are some jobs you just can’t do without a degree.You’re also more likely to get higher wages at some jobs with a degree.
Why did a lying gay drug addict who takes pedo photos get a platform? Is the media owned by creeps?
Dunno, ask trump afterall he was best friends with the most prolific and evil pedo for over 10 years.>t. File 463
>>34070987I don't know, man. Why is a serial rapist president of the United States? It's crazy.
>>34070987>Is the media owned by creeps?
>>34070987When you can't have your needs satisfied by society, in some cases, people become passionate workaholics to cope.
>>34071147Pretty sure being a serial rapist is part of the job requirements.
Should I out to Bermuda?>small island in the middle of nowhere>population of snobby rich people>literally everything is imported>beautiful beaches>beautiful climate>no plebs around except for the workers
>Should I out to Bermuda?Fuck off we're full
>>34063079You're from Bermuda? What's it like there?
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