>"Hello">"Sorry to bother you, but I wanted to tell you that you look very pretty. I was wanting to know if you'd like to share a couple of coffees somewhere?">"Yeah sure, here's my phone just punch in your number.">"Heh alright cool, I'll give you a call sometime later."
>>34696970>Sorry to bother you, but
>>34696970only if you're her type (or not that ugly)
>>34698599thisOP do this insteadSorry, i noticed your face looks vapid and empty just like everyone born after 2001, also i noticed how you tried to mask that with a gallon of makeup to no avail, also your eyes are devoid of any soul and inspiration. Wanna grab the most exploited and boring beverage in the 21st century sometime?works all the time trust
>>34696970doesn't work this is 2026 maybe back in your parents day it did
>>34696970ideally, youd want to be able to have some sort of conversation first before asking them out. women wont accept an invitation from someone they dont know.
Why do women have to send signals instead of just telling you how they feel?
>>34712539Because Schrödingers attraction states that a woman can feel interested and not interested at the same time and that this superposition collapses the second it becomes clear whether the man is going to ask her out or notTLDR if she needs to tell you it means she already lost interest
>>34712539this is only true in patriarchal societies. women are socialized to let men take the lead or they're not feminine. the majority of them are also insecure. in matriarchal societies this does not apply and women straight up walk up to you and tell you they want to fuck you
>>34712539women that are forward like that get shamed as whorish sluts starting at about 12 years old by men & women until they reel it in and only do signals
>>34715603>this is only true in patriarchal societiesSo all of them?>matriarchial societywhere are these mythical matriarchal societies where women court (average) men? I don't think anything like that has ever existed in the history of humankind.
>>34715634in my home country (Philippines) i witnessed it everyday. i remember girls walking up to me and asking me for my number. theyre also more open about expressing their attraction for men. its hard to fathom this unless youve grown up there yourself. i dont know if that still happens since i havent lived there for 16 years.
I wouldn't consider myself a femcel because some guys have been willing to talk to me but they were never really interested in me. They never asked me questions, tried to make plans or even, sometimes, replied to my messages or initiated conversations. I don't consider myself too ugly. I just think I might be an utterly boring person. Right now, I'm trying to work on myself by learning how to draw and going to the gym.
As someone who once considered myself boring and uninteresting and can now at least hold my own in a social setting here are some pieces of advice:1. You become interesting by living life and experiencing things, very few people who just do nothing all day are fun to be around unless they’re born with natural charisma 2. Conversation is all about knowing what questions to ask someone to get them to keep talking. Easier said than done but it comes with practice. 3. You are probably not as boring as you think you are. I used to think I was someone that had no interests and hobbies but the closer I looked at myself, I realized even the tiny things you consider totally mundane can be part of your personality.
>>34710634You dummy! that's brazilian>/threadWhat is so appealing to feel like an interesting person? Does it matter at all?For example, Chris Chan is a fucked up literal mother-fucker that has a goddamn wiki and threads and so much digital ink written about him.Is he interesting? Yes. Of course. But at what cost?The point is: You can try as you like, but it's worthwhile to wonder if the grass is really greener on the other side...
Try keeping conversations going outside of just texting them. I'm sure you're more interesting than you give yourself credit for, but it's a simple fact that because of the nature of texting people, it gives you too much time to overthink your response until you just send them something unengaging making you difficult to connect with.Try sticking to phone calls or, if possible, try to make in-person plans with them. Obviously, if you're using dating apps, it's a bit more tricky, but this should still apply.
>>34710337Hi I'm sure you're interesting and have a life outside of the superficial things post your discord and lets be friends
Does anyone get fucking sick of people and how much of a stranger asshole critical ostracizing fucking piece of shit? I always feel this malice energy towards me especially from women
>>34709212If there was a man without fault, the same world would put him on a cross. Humility is what matters my friend, if you hate women, remember that the most venerated woman of all of human history was a virgin, unlike Elliot, this woman fully embraced it as a virtue (Aeiparthenos).Mater Dei, ora pro nobis peccatoribus.
>>34709212Same, you gotta start being rude, assertive and an asshole if the situation requires
>>34709212>I always feel this malice energy towards me especially from womenUr schizo
i think my actual group of friends are kinda boring. i need cool friends with unique styles to do cool things, but I don't know how to meet new people, my parents are strict and there are divided groups in my school. any tips? (spanish speaker btw)
>>34712531Support your current friends and encourage them to be themselves around you. Do the same to yourself to set an example.
>>34712531You have to be 18 to post here
>know woman (call her A) for many years through uni>1st time we met actually made out at party. Nothing happened after>Years later, other party. We ha sex>A goes to other country in couple months> We can have sex and be friends without needing to talk as she will leave country anyway>A returns from abroad>Lot of drama why she had to leave Murica suddenly, so she feels mentally not too good>We meet again couple of times>I help her feel better>A Always weird on text (texting first but then not responding. Texting at night). But when together all fine>After couple meetings, try to kiss her>No anon, sorry, my head if full and I'm not ready for anything right now.>That's no problem A, I dont mi doing slow.>Noo anon, that's not fair to you. I would keep you on hold for yourself.>A has bf 1 month later.Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>34710344Hahaha fucking Goat man. >>34710222So, I was invested enough to read the whole thing, and here's what I have to say -First of all, you're a niggerOkay I'm kidding, you actually sound quite white from the way you write.I will help you along with the usual stuff - women say they aren't ready, means they aren't ready for YOU. They're ready for the Chad when he comes along. Always. Please, I know it's hard, but try to not take it to heart.SOOOOOOO MUCH EASIER SAID THAN DONE. I know brother. I know the IRL pain is just excruciating. But think about it this way - there's nothing back then or today that you could have done or can do, to change the outcome.So what CAN you do? Well, you can learn and change your expectations for the next girl or next interaction with the same girl - you will say to yourself, if she's not on me now, I'd better not hold my breath. Easier said than done, but a mindset of abundance is always better than getting stuck on the same girl. So, don't shed no tears or difficult evenings spent wondering about that girl. You're better than her, and do you know why? Because she's a fucking retard slut like the majority of them. This is why Muslims put them in locked rooms and underdark fabrics covering their full bodies. Those women don't deserve choice, but they have it. You got this brother. Work within the framework. <3 (not justifying Muslims btw I hate them and I would choose this system over theirs every day of the week)
>>34710222first , just understand that when a girl just want you as a friend it's only to talk to other people without her cheating (so she doesn't feel guilty) now , when she told you she wasn't ready it's probably because she wanted to be a "good girlfriend" for her boyfriend and start a real relationship and she probably felt too guilty to admit it to you directly. What you can do now is to not do the same errors again with the next girl. Don't let her think you're easy and dumb. Let her know exactly what you want from the begining
>>34710222Let's talk about a guy named B-B meets girl at party and makes out with her-Years of no contact later B meets girl and has sex-Girl goes away and returns having had some unnamed bad experience-B wants to pick up where they left off -Girl says she can't.-B sulks-Girl finds new guy-B sulks some more
>>34710222>> I.e. a fornicator is surprised when sexual degeneracy backfires on him
>>34710222Just leave, this is your sign, she's crazyIf she's flakey, just don't get attached, and ignore her in a sexual or romantic manner
How do you push past the inability to get started on something? Like watching a movie, playing a game, reading a book, trying out a new hobby. I can't bring myself to do any of it. I know there's a good chance I'll enjoy it if I can break past the barrier. But... I can't.
>>34711857Maybe set some parental controls for yourself like if you're browsing 4chan or Reddit or watching Youtube videos or whatever it is you do. You could maybe have a program limit the time you can spend on certain things so you waste less time on them and then you can play a videogame or watch a movie or something and you won't have the immediate need to uhhh consume passive content or whatever.
>But... I can't.nope, that's just a cope you tell yourself to protect your ego from that fact that you don't want to do those things, you don't want to watch a movie, read a book or try out a new hobbythe first important step in trying to shift things around in your life is to be honest with yourself, then you work up from there asking yourself why you want or don't want certain things and act upon what you can changeread atomic habits while you're at it
>girl seems excited about our second date>have been friends for a year but things recently shifted partly because now both single/available>ends up saying she’s sick the night before>has used this excuse before but was also legimiately sick that time>she seems genuinely disappointed, says “i think it’s not okay, let me make it up to you?”>say “lol how will you do that?” in a playful tone + “it’s okay, you cant control being sick” etc etc>has fucking disappeared and never texted backIt’s been a week now. I just don’t get it.
>>34711525This.Imagine all this for a woman who’s ultimately “talking to” several other guys>>34711514It is in her court. She just doesn’t care.
>>34711548I just have a hard time accepting a friend would let me down in such a shitty way as leading me on and then ghosting. She’d even said she had feelings for me too and was suggesting other dates
>>34711586Sorry to inform you OP but being a friend or maybe lover or lover still doesn't mean there are no other men she gives access. At best you are sharing space with at least one other man and likely that is where she is right now. She'll float back around ultimately. Your issue is having expectations of being more than a friend. Her issue now is knowing for sure you do so she has to start lying.
>>34711742I don’t think there’s another man, she just isn’t interested in me. I just won’t talk to her anymore or initiate and it will die, so no pressure anymore
>>34711492have sex with her faggot
I'm trying to find a girl from Moldova I used to know. We didn't exchange any contact information, and all I know is her first name and date of birth. Any ideas?
I'm in Moldova, want me to tell her name out a couple times or go have a look for her? Its a small place
>>34705888>UPDATESince I necrobumped this, I might as well give an update. >I don't know her mother's first name, so I can't look for her boomer assI learned her stepfather's name and had a good look at his face, which means there are now three people I'm trying to intercept on Facebook. I still don't know her mother's name, because I forgot it immediately after Cristina told me, thinking I'd never have any use for it. All I remember is thinking that it was a weird name for an older woman, like Vanesa or something.>I might ask a guy who just got firedI went through his profile, and he isn't friends with either of them. One person who might have the girl or her mother on their friend list is my former work crush. One time, when I was trying to flirt with her at work, Cristina's mother pretended to take a picture of us as a joke. I was the butt end of the joke, because unbeknownst to me - and beknownst (?) to Cristina's mother - the girl had a boyfriend, and when I made a move, she stopped talking to me altogether. I can't access her friend list because she locked her account, and I can't send her a friend request (for obvious reasons). My Instagram account is suspended, but I remember they didn't follow each other.
Don't give up anon! Stalking always wins!
>>34715298Ur one obsessed nigga
>>34715309Do you think? I don't even know why I care so much. But it's not like I have anything better to do. I need a different strategy, though, simply because I ran out of people I recognized, and no one had her (or her parents) in their friend list.
Hi, I hope I’m not bothering, feel free to reply or not. (Sorry for any mistakes; English isn't my first language.) Since I was young, I’ve really struggled to make friends or talk to people; I’m too introverted and can’t find anyone who shares my interests. It’s only getting worse as I get older. I’m 20 now, and I spend my days in my room doing absolutely nothing but scrolling and playing games on my computer. Naturally, I’ve developed an addiction to hentai and adult content, though I’m too scared to actually finger myself (I just can't manage it physically). As you might guess, my love life and sex life are non-existent. Then again, I’m far from pretty—I’ve known that for a long time; I’m underweight, only 145 cm tall, and flat-chested. I feel like I’m at rock bottom and losing hope. I’m posting this just in case someone has an idea to help me improve—both physically and in terms of my personality. Thanks for reading.
i can't tell what's bait anymore
>>34715359>Since I was young, I’ve really struggled to make friends or talk to people; I’m too introverted and can’t find anyone who shares my interests.interests don't matter as much as shared experiences doyou can have not much in common with another person, but if you go through crazy things together, you'll naturally form strong bonds and build trustthis is especially true as people get older, you need to go through shared experiences in order to form lasting relationships, otherwise it will feel shallow and frustrating"shared experiences" can mean different things, like school or urban exploration or camping trips or working on a boat together or sparring or whatever>I’m 20 now, and I spend my days in my room doing absolutely nothing but scrolling and playing games on my computer.do you live at home?did you go to school?you should probably give more context to your life, what it's like rn, what direction it had & has, things you feel led up to itif you want better advice>As you might guess, my love life and sex life are non-existent.these things take care of themselves when you're living properly, so please try not to ruminate on them>I feel like I’m at rock bottom and losing hope. I’m posting this just in case someone has an idea to help me improve—both physically and in terms of my personality.those things are mostly irrelevant, you should focus on doing the right things instead
>>34708954>if you don't become more evil than your enemies, they win!the retard right
>>34708963Just think of it as a late term abortion
>>34709016mother doesn't want me dead, so zero reason for an abortion, qed
>>34708493It'll bounce back after Trump.
>>34708954Fed post
I got my closest to attempting ( and half assed kind of did) for the first time in over 4 years, ama all I wanna do is talk but nobody I'm close with is awake
>>34708208How can I keep my hp up in the final gears in d through b class? It's like every car in those classes hits 6th and there's no powerband to be found at all. Best I can get is a slow rise in mph through 6th, and ive read I can just turn 6th into a dead gear and lengthen 5 to where it his max speed and just don't use 6th, but I really want to be able to use the final gear
started a fresh run of ff7 on my switch and ive named the characters naughty things. when im flying should i refrain from playing just in case someone peeks over onto my screen during dialogue? could i get banned from flying!?!?
I advise to try something other than the rope since it's very painful.
>>34708208If you really wanted to die you would have committed suicide anon. I advice you to stop being an attentionwhore and liar. Now I will ask you some questions: What is your opinion on soccer and name your top 3 favorite Youtubers and which do you prefer cats or dogs and why? >>34708741Being able to bake bread from scratch is such a cool skill. I know so many try hard home cooks IRL I even know a guy who worked at a Michelin starred restaurant and I'm pretty sure none of them have ever baked a loaf of bread from scratch. Bread making skills also transfer nicely to homemade pizza baking.
>>34708208Glad you're okay, bro. What are some of your favorite games?
Summer comes every year and every year I dread it. I was going to the theatre once a week to make it better but I've seen all the decent movies. Its too hot and crowded and expensive to go anywhere. I just want to go to air-conditioned areas. My spouse has been taking work stress out on me. I really am stuck at home all summer. And the mosquitoes bite me. How do I get over it
>>34711746They get in the house at twilight and bite me every night. They only bite me so no one else cares to find solutions.
>>34711761>no bugs>less people outside to bother you>cold that's easier to fix than heat>drinks & food naturally refrigerated>able to make art out of the groundI take winter over summer any day>>34711599anon, I've had to deal with the flying hellspawns too. if you don't mind putting literal poison on yourself I recommend looking into DEET, it masks the smell bugs use to detect you but fucks up plastic and synthetic clothing so you should only apply it to your skin. another option is wearing long-sleeved clothing to make it harder for them to bite you, or maybe get one of those over-mattress tents so they can't invade your sleeping space easily. a fan blowing on you will make it harder for them to fly and disperse your breath they use to track you as well. if you can afford it, a mountable bug zapper will fry em' all night too. combine a couple of these suggestions and you'll start winning the mosquito war.
>>34715276Yeah I've done all that. I spray myself with poison every night. But they always find a spot I miss. I am saving up to do the mosquito netting. They get in through the AC units which I keep running during the day. I love winter because its Christmas season, all the kids are tucked in their schools, the streets are quiet, parks are not too hot and not crowded. I don't have to spend money to go out.
Dig a hole in the ground and stay in there most of the day
>>34715284if they're invading that consistently they might have an idealized environment in your yard, try dumping any standing water if you can find it, getting a bird feeder to make them cull mosquitoes, or research plants they hate/plants that can bring other natural predators to them like dragonflies. they could even be breeding near your AC if it has a bunch of water in the drain or something. wish I could help more, but I'm not a plant or fauna autist so I can't say for sure what'd be best there - the thing that was most effective for me personally was having a bug zapper, maybe putting one right above the AC will make the majority of them rush the heat source and die.
I’m 20, kinda depressed and maybe autistic. I don’t have much autonomy but I try to do efforts to live everyday. I really want a cat and my parents are okay with that. The only thing is that the cat will be under my responsibility and that scares me. I live in a small apartment and I’m worried for the cat. But still, I want to give a chance to a poor cat and I think It’ll help me take better care of myself. I’m also worried about life because working feels very scary and stressful, my parents help me in terms of money but I feel guilty. Should I get one? Or chicken out?
>>34715042Tl;dr I think the snake is a cool idea and would make you happy>pet can help with depressionUsually people mean fuzzy pets like cats and dogs when they say this. It’s the interaction between you and the animal. Snakes will grow to recognize you and be friendly with you (if you deserve it) but they’re never going to be affectionate like another mammal would be.Also, any tank pet can be “easy to forget” for depressed people. A cat or dog can at least come up and bother you, yowl/whine, or start stealing food some other way. An animal in a brightly lit tank has no such options. They are stuck in the brightly lit tank so if you forget about them, they get acked. Good thing about reptiles is they don’t eat all that often, at least. Forgetting your snake for a bit might work out okayyyy. Forgetting your frog for a bit would be a death sentence, most likely.It sounds like having the snake would really make you happy, though, and that you’re thinking it through and planning with good intentions. Corn snakes genuinely are not that hard to care for and have pretty simple needs. As a depressed person, you’re definitely not getting in over your head. Maybe having another living thing to care for would give you a reason to get up in the morning. That happened to me with my first dog but I’m sure a snake could do the same for you if you care about it enough!
>>34715093I'm just saying, two cats don't really take up any more space than one, so long as they get on.
>>34715093This. You can go to the local animal shelter and just ask the staff about the cats>which one of these older guys is very affectionate but low activity?And they’ll be excited to answer that for you because aging cats are hard to adopt out. A lot of the time they’re even free to adopt because they’re so hard to find homes for.
>>34715142Oh, my bad dawg. I just felt bad that so many people were telling OP this is an impossible task. It’s a freakin’ cat (or two, I guess lol). As long as he’s not trying to raise kittens in a small apartment it’s probably fine. I am lucky to have space myself but my cat doesn’t really play anywhere except my living room. She goes absolutely insane for the feather wand toy and will chase it until she’s panting like a dog. Surely such a thing could be done in a small apartment if my modest living room alone can handle the play.Only thing I’d worry about with 2 cats is litter box filling twice as fast, which could potentially be stressful to a depressed person.
>>34713064I think if you had a clean living space and will put in the time to care for your cat, love and attention, then it may be a good idea. I suggest getting a rolling litter bin. It's very easy to empty the litter that way. The plastic buckles in them tend to break every year or so, but the $40 is worth the investment. Litter may not need to be emptied every day. Depends on the brand of litter you buy. Stick with dry food. Wet food gives the shits. Also limit treats. They have very high sodium (salt) content and that can be dangerous if given too many. If you have an older cat, you may want to refrain from a ton of shots if the cat has not had them. It can cause neurological issues. Pick up a name brand furminator. Its a miracle worker for brushing or buzz the cat down with a clippers. It's takes 2 people and takes a lot of trust otherwise go in and have it done. Never cut the cats whiskers if they are long. That is how the cat balances, using a wet wipe on their ass every so often is a good idea. The thing with cats as well is that they have a range of intelligence, just as dogs do. You can have a cat that acts like an animal, aloof and may not even like being in the lap or sleeping in the bed or you may have one who you truly connect with, can talk to and will understand what you are saying, will talk back to you in his/her own way. Losing mine was like losing my best friend. I wouldn't give up the time I had with him for the world and I'd give everything for more time. It's also one of my greatest sadnesses. It has been 4 years and it is still incredible sad to think about.
Is hypervisor actually safe?I'm tired of waiting for cracks
>>34712854Im too scared of breaking my puter to try it
It's very intrusive and i wouldn't be safe. Even if you're using top-end security solutions (Bitdefender, F-secure, kaspersky, etc.) These won't help if there's a malicious code underneath.I'd stick with regular repacks, VPN bound to torrent client and a decent offline-capable AV for good measure and quick scans.
idk i stopped using her when she started that hyper bullshit. cracks were being used BECAUSE they were simple and free. i can bear bugfixing and a lil debugging and reading up if a repack doesnt work instantly but this hyper bs takes the cake