>>34335497
Explain how you get into this situation

i wont read passive aggressive wonderings on the advice board

>>34335497
Are you talking about a specific woman in your life or “women” in general as a concept?

>>34335497
They are afraid of being fucked without a romantic relationship developing from that. Something like that.
Men should be afraid of having a friendship or a sexless romantic relationship with a woman.

They grew up more with a desire to live life to the fullest, so they hung out more with mature things and made their parents proud with honor roll and a high gpa. Most of us guys here on a computer were the opposite, distancing from all of that sticking to a computer with its stuff. What pisses most women about this off, is she wants to fulfill her intellectual pursuits. With us around we distract it too much to the point of her wishing to be a lesbian, or desperately trying. All I got to say the way you can solve this is not by shoving it down or being openly about it, but rather being gentle and light-hearted about it. Do that, but without expecting her to be happy about it, but the ability to walk away from you with a sense of peacefulness that they are alright.

>>34331236
also here a little something about me like a ero scene from a vn you get a little fun fact!!!!

one time i was scared to ask my gym teacher to go the bathroom so i thought it would be better to just piss like hella so my pants are all wet so no one would notice. It worked after gym class was done it was already dried and only had one girl mentioned i didnt really care

>>34331236
>feel like i cant do anything
How do you feel about meds? Like anti-depressants and stuff? I usually don't recommend them since they... bleh, make you lose your entire character/personality BUT maybe the pros will outweigh the cons for you :^)
>people around me arent the best
What do you mean? Why don't you just leave them if you can't rely on them?
>therapist have sex with their patients hehehe
Idk, the female ones probably do, kek. I think that's a breach of conduct tho
>brother goes to therapy and it worked for him so this is why i wanna try
What happens if it doesn't work for you?
>fucking sucks right now but thats how life goes waiting for this "high"
True, I get that. Vidya and shit like that makes it better for me though
>thought it would be better to just piss like hella so my pants are all wet so no one would notice
Kekw sorry, I don't want to be mean but that's slightly retarded. Would have been stinky af ;_;

>>34331317
Idk it seems the path forward is gonna take a lot of my person and i really cherish my person, so i really hate it.
>Why don't you just leave them if you can't rely on them?
They are my family and i live with them so i dont know. i feel like if i leave ,when i come back they would resemble a horrible image
I really have nothing else so i rely on them

>>34331493
>my family and i live with them
You're a uni student rite? Are you broke? You can technically get a part time job and save up, try to leave your family if they're weirdos like that. My dad left and my mom was insane so I left too.

>>34333535
nah im dropped out at 14 mental issues and got my diploma at 18 ang got a job at 19 and like a broken car finally on the road, i was prone to breaking down so i shut myself in for the whole year and im just now trying to get shit together. So thats the main goal but i really want to help my family because i feel like if i dont im never going to see them again even if its terrible. But i know deep down i dont know why im really here still, if i could i would leave.

>>34334586
>I have a technical question
You don't, actually, because you don't even know enough about the subject yet. You're just expressing some vague wish in the hopes that somebody will read your mind and magically deduce what you don't know yourself, and point you in a useful direction.

>>34334586
>Is this what database software is for?
Yes.

>>34334586
Claude code could easily do this if you could sit down and focus for a few hours

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>>34334586
Yes, database software is good for this.

Also, up front, please see: >>>/g/

For something simple, I recommend a typical relational database software like SQLite. This database language is called "SQL".
You'll also see things like MySQL/MariaDB, PostreSQL, and more, which are all basically the same underlying technology, but those all require running a server that you have your client connect to, and is a pain, especially for a complete beginner, and they're also unnecessary for your relatively simple task.
SQLite has the advantage of running completely locally, no server required, since all it does and read and write to single database files on disk.

You can also explore graphing databases! These are the new cool kids on the block, especially for loose lists of items and their traits, and being able to find paths between multiple items. These databses are how services like Netflix analyze your watching preferences to recommend you more content; graph DBs are used very often for recommendation engines.
The software that most casual people use is called Neo4j. This database language is called "Cypher".

Hope this helps.

>>34335360
It does, thank you

>>34332060
If you've got a history of mental health issues, I get that you want to fix your life, but the military will make it worse. I mean besides the fact you'll be defending the interests of a pedo banking cabal, the army is deliberately organized to create dysfunction, make soldiers borderline crippled from all the exercise, and neglected if they have service-related issues. It's just a bad environment dude, all the channels telling you to join are people who happened to manage through it, it is otherwise a big risk. Just get a chill job in retail, tough it out for a bit, then pay for some schooling, like HVAC training, an insurance license, etc.

>>34333382
I am a straight white male.
>>34334331
I'm tired of retail I need a change. I'm a NEET now but I can't go back to that. I actually want to be a slave because I don't like making decisions.

>>34333220
Nice. Do you know anything about the current state of the FFL? Just wondering. Always thought that was cool as a ouiaboo.

Update: Navy recruiter said "I cut myself because I was bored" makes me sound crazy and is bad. He told me a girl was molested and cut and they let it pass. So I should lie and say I was molested? Really? We found my bicycle accident story for my leg to be sufficient, so that answers the OP. I can say the foot was something else.

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do you really want to be sacrificed unto moloch? i mean this literally not figuratively.
you literally, unironicly are signing away your free will, your very essence, your soul away, to be passed through the fire (which is called holocaust) as a burned offering to the anti-deity
>>34334530
>I am a straight white male.
of course you are. the best (most yummy) souls for molekh, only. again, not memeing

>>34331043
Forgot to mention, also Holy Basil (Rama) works good.

>>34331037
>Did you guzzle a handle of vodka every day, or how did you drop your IQ low enough to make such retarded statements? Your brain does need time to regenerate having all kinds of receptors firing on max after doing it, but occasional MDMA is not a problem at all. Continued use can do some damage, but not as long as you only do it as an occasional party drug
You're a retarded idiot who drank the koolaid

>>34330671
You're lucky the benzos are working for you. They worked for me great for 5 years, but eventually I developed an addiction and was taking up to 6mg of xanax/day. I had my wakeup call last week. I don't know what my solution is going to be, but it's back to social anxiety for now at least. Please be careful you don't get addicted. Although, I was mixing them with alcohol to intentionally induce amnesia so I could forget my shitty life.

>>34330671
I've never done stuff like that but I've suffered with anxiety too for a long time as well. It's made me an old neet. :(

>>34330794
>Medical student
pls do tell how fast exit the serotonin syndrome, ty

>>34334728
Go on /soc/ UK thread

>>34334805
Didn't think about that. Thanks.

>>34334728
Are you like a South Asian or an Arab? Just go on like Tagmap, there are too many people from the UK online.

>>34335229
No, I'm white. Anyway thanks for the suggestion

>>34325048
Chubby Chasing
Competitive Eating and Drinking

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>>34325048
read the memory book by harry lorayne

>>34327069
Was quite interested in sewing my own fumo, I hope it's possible without a machine
>>34325048
Language learning, use Anki! Get into Touhou, get into reading about some weird political ideology, get into reading up on entomology or ichtyology, get into patches, so much to do but with so little funds sadly.

>>34326647
Pick up an instrument and you can check all four boxes at once

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>>34310171
>Throwaway account for obvious reasons.

COPY PASTING REDDIT POSTS TO /ADV/?
USELESS MOD TEAM!??!?!
IT'S MORE LIKELY THAN YOU'D THINK

>>34310171
If you do snoop through her phone like other people are suggesting, DON'T confront her about it or even let her find out that you looked through her phone without permission. That shit is illegal, I know because I got arrested for doing exactly that when I was in a similar situation with a BPD bitch. In the UK, it falls under the Computer Misuse Act 1990 - accessing a computer device that you do not have permission to access. I don't know about the US or wherever it is that you live, but it's worth being really careful and checking up on the law. If you must look, then do it only for your peace of mind, not to blow up and confront her about it. She sounds like she's fucking using you, bro, and you should leave her and forget about her. You're only 21, you're still young and have so much life ahead of you, trust me, you will find someone else, someone you'll love and who will love you back. Good luck, man.

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>>34310296
anything sheh could say to fix things or make you thinnnk shes tryna repair?

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>>34310171
>How do you handle a GF
why have you not beaten this bitch's cunt ass by now?
drop her this instant you shit head

Bumping need advice if you would ever forgive

>>34334743
Depressed or Schizoid personality style(or disorder)

>>34334994
What do?

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>>34334994
>Depressed or Schizoid personality style(or disorder)
aka, "being a faggot"

>>34335037
If you're happy with how you are, then nothing. If not, challenging therapy. Ask yourself how you want to live your life.

Lmao this thread
Anyway ye those are not meant to be the ends, those are all means to something else

>>34332959
It's normal. You like getting the attention. Like many girls.

>>34334657
I'd do that.

>>34332959
You're a woman. What women do is they always do the opposite of what they're familiar with. You are overly familiar with feminism and all that shit. So you want to go the opposite and are attracted to the opposite. Misogynistic men now feel taboo and off limits to you thanks to your mom brow beating you into feminism ideology.

And women love, fucking LOVE anything that's taboo and off limits. They crave it hard, very hard. It's why Eve bit the apple in the Garden of Eden. She was explicitly told by God "No, you cannot have this. It will ruin you." And immediately she went for it anyway.

Anyway what your mom calls "misogynistic" probably isn't even actual hatred of women. Your mom probably thinks any man who holds women accountable and refuses to be pussy whipped is somehow a woman hater.

Nice bait but you’ll still never ever be a real woman.

>>34332959
The fixation on labels is weird. Just believe what you believe and live how you want and what group you belong to is irrelevant.

Tldr. It's not just one world, it's billions, until you go back to the one world again

>>34332281
You first must not be gay.

Exactly my type aswell OP.
Most of these girls tend to be studying humanities and be pretty neurotic. You have to approach them first as they are very shy.

I swear to God none of you niggers FUCKING READ
Bella is literally so retarded that she has superpowers of “head empty”, why the fuck would you ever want a do nothing woman like that?

>>34334001
I do read but actual literature instead of genre fiction SLOP like Twilight.

You have to look like Robert Pattinson

>>34333561
Alright. Then if that's the case, drop the P in ASPD. Check for ASD, autistic spectrum disorder. Same premise: Neurology is fried, nervous system highly prone to overwhelm. It's known as "Autistic rage". They blow up, especially in social interactions that go awry. Unlike psychopaths, they possess empathy, extreme intensified amounts of it. Which means after each blow up or 'melt down', they feel intensely self hating and intensely guilty to the point of catastrophic thinking. Suicidal ideation being common.

>>34333586
i was anal retentive as a child, so i am no doubt somewhere on the autistic spectrum. i get so mad when i feel helpless or out of control, or something is out of my control. the reason i doxxed my gf is because she began to ignore me out of the blue one day, i felt like i had no control.

i rarely feel that level of anger, if any anger at all when someone insults me, takes advantage of me, etc.

it always has to do with a perceived loss of control of a situation or thing. people around me don't seem to realize that though.

i think my friends or the ones i used to have, think i am a socio or psychopath that is bound to injure or kill someone one day. it creates this fulfilling prophecy in my head that maybe i am like that, maybe it's not autism and there is something malicious that others are able to see in me that i lack the introspection to.

>>34333687
Nah I think it's most likely the autism.

>maybe i am like that, maybe it's not autism and there is something malicious that others are able to see in me that i lack the introspection to.

That's a typical autistic roadblock for example. The inability to see or truly examine a deeper sense of 'self'. Autists have a very low sense of self, they have very rich internal monologues and inner imaginations and inner thoughts. But when they are tasked to accurately examine and measure their 'self' as a personality, they go like:

"......" in their head.

They have no clue who they are. They only know what they are and how other people seem to be responding to them. And the Autist will graft a temporary sense of self off of how others respond to them.

So if an autist for example were to be around people who constantly told him he is rude, arrogant, combative, etc. then that is exactly what the autist will believe he is. The autist internalizes it and it becomes a feedback loop in his mind until eventually his actions start to reflect it.

In the contrary if you take an autist and place him with people who give him encouraging and positive feedback, the autist becomes the embodiment of that too. Autists are emotionally adaptive like that, even if they struggle to process these emotions or struggle to accurately identify emotions in others, they have a very fascinating way of internalizing shit and blending in and adapting. It's a weakness and a strength. It can be a weakness if they are adapting to a bad environment or dynamic. Because they will let that define their internal state of affairs.


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>>34334616
makes a lot of sense. hard to gauge when someone has got an accurate read on you, though.

the people calling me a weird faggot? yeah there's definitely some truth there. People have told me i'm malicious, sick, or psycho one or the other, and i have an easier time rolling my eyes at that.

i have been to therapy on and off, and also analyze myself and my demons quite avidly. i know i'm self aware enough to know i am autistic, but still autistic enough to not resist the urge.

>>34334890
I think you should get a formal diagnosis if you haven't already. It won't change anything in your intensity of emotions, and it won't magically correct any behavioural problems you keep experiencing (that will take time later). What it will do is alleviate the self-hate and the self blame. It won't absolve you responsibility, but it will sure as shit give you understanding, that it's not (you) as a person that's bad on a personal level. It's just you are a person who has to deal with bad thoughts and bad feelings that flare up. This can make a huge difference in your perspective as you push forward mate.

It'll also lessen anger outbursts a bit too. Because anger & shame are a crazy duo. We get angry as humans, and then we feel shame. And because we feel shame, we get angry. It's a vicious loop. By understanding more about what makes you tick, you can lessen some of the shame. And when you lessen some of the shame, it lessens the anger.

>>34331838
Maybe they went through this too

>>34331838
Kids are brainwashed by advertising and obsessed with larping as unique individuals. Old bald fat guys used to be cool. You faggots were born old, bald and fat. Jus be yourself.

blahabalhaablaaabnlah you suck cheeks learn how to speak AMERICAN you left liberal

>>34331997
The advice board

>>34331838
Take your meds

>>34334297
Bodycam videos seem to do okay. You don't even need to narrate or anything, as long as you can source some videos that are worth watching.

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>>34334713
Indians run absolute slop farms that somehow get views.

They run bodycam & interrogation room videos but you have to go out of your way to
1. Acquire the footage yourself, ideally unseen footage.
2. Mute or bleep out roughly one third of all of the English language. If you were to just read words out of a dictionary for a video, you would be demonetized before you were barely started with words that start with A.
3. Blur, pixelize, or black screen or otherwise censor any blood, fist fights, shootings, people throwing bricks at windows and whatever else Youtube will decide tomorrow is now 18+ and/or grounds for being demonetized.
4. Not having forbidden words in the title and thumbnail, so it ends up censored to hell looking like
>A K*ller Went On A Sh**ting Spree After Police Found Dr*gs In His Car
or you go with the coded language route like
>A PDF File Was Unalived After He Tried to Grape And Pewpew A Person Who Is Not An Adult

Even gaming videos are being sent to the 18+ only demonetizaed shadow realm of Youtube, seemingly at random.


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>>34334297
>How to make money on YouTube?
mukbang
i'll buy you a BIG ARCH