I'm cry
>>34909714Im crine
Why cry?
You're fagReal men bottle it up until it manifests in violence and anger and early death
>>34909714Hi cry, i'm dad.
Cri whi
I am getting citizenship from a country and I will be in a waiting list for at least 1 year at minimum. What can I do meantime? I am extremely bored
>>34909792>>34909806I am from the ethnic diaspora of the country I am settling, retarded. Go fuck yourself>>34909808I need the citizenship to work, faggot.>>34909803I just wanna find a fun hobby to make the waiting time more fun. I can just work or go to university after the citizenship unfortunately.
>>34909833Sorry dude i though you were a piece of shit...There is plenty of things to do, you can start running or lifting, even parkour or sword fighting. If you want to do something that increase your manual dexterity you could learn to play violin, flute, maybe sculpting, painting or singing if you want to
>>34909833>I need the citizenship to work, faggot.you didn't specify you were currently LIVING in the country you were getting citizenship from. though to be fair i should have probably guessed that.get a library card and read books, go hiking, start preparing yourself and self-studying for whatever work or education you want to get afterwards, learn a language you like, learn to cook well
>>34909792>>34909806>implying that immigrating is bad nowYou faggots are completely insane. Being able to move around the world is literally a human right. These extreme immigration restrictions are a radical far-right idea and it's a very new idea, it wasn't that way until the very late 20th century.
>>34909932nta but free movement has been limited by borders and regimes since the dawn of human civilization
I'm a deeply critical person. I used to be an absolute loser and turned my life around. I got fit, I got a better job, and I find it very difficult to relate to people now. When I'm having conversations with people that turns political or whatever you want to call it, I always come across as very callous because I've pretty much done all the hard steps. I consider my self to be understanding of opposing ideas. I feel like understanding and blind accepting are two very different things but it feels like if I don't succumb to the idea that we should be fine with mediocrity, I'm seen as hateful.Does it make me jaded/arrogant to think that we should be a more fit and moral society and we should hold people to higher standards? people always end up thinking i'm some loony republican even though I'm not even conservative.
>>34909480>he let the process change him mentallyLol you're not unique in your perspective. There are millions of cunts like you.
>>34909480First, it that all you got weak creature? Where are the real abs!Now, no you right people is weird and mediocre and sad. I hope society can become a higher thing that just "oh yeah i still alive somehow"
>>34909511Jestermaxxing and deep conversations aren't mutually exclusive.
>>34909810Why do people have to give shitty names to random skills, can't we just call it being funny and smart, what if we call it cynical dialectic?
>>34909480>just provoking image>irrelevant time wasting question
got into a car accident by making the same utterly retarded mistake as i did the other time i got into an accident that was my fault. im so embarrassed and disappointed in myself bro fuck
I hate my stupid mind, man. I'M OUT OF THERE. I have nothing to do with them and they have nothing to do with me, so why the fuck am I SO anxious, why the fuck is it still on my mind?
>>34911199stop larping nigger, i can tell when its you because of how retarded you type. kill yourself, less than human nigger.
>>34913316That was a different anon. You seem to have combined multiple posters and call all of them one, who thats not even him. Mike has not posted for a while now, desu I dont care enough to look and seen what day then end of that letter thread was.
>>34913039Funny how you dont judge the larpgloating posts.
How do I stop being a monger? It's hurting my pockets and causing financial problems. Getting a GF would solve this problem but women's standards are too high and I cannot meet their expectations.
>>34907497I mean at this point you're just filling out captchas and clicking on numbers in the name of owning another grown ass man. Surely you must be more bored than me
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>>34907503Sorry I had to take a break and go pick up some smoke.You killed yourself or gotten laid yet? Or you still got this thread open on auto-update so you can fill out captchas for daddy?
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>>34908537Another beautiful day. Knocked out some yardwork. It would make my day to know you and the other anon made a suicide attempt. How'd that go?
My father was never loved by anyone in his birth family. His father abused him physically and emotionally, his mom tormented him emotionally, and his siblings abused him sexually. He always treated me with unfailing kindness and never disciplined me or set limits because upsetting kids reminded him of his own childhood. And for that reason, you could easily argue that he was a far worse father than his own ever was. I had a live-in cheerleader housemate moreso than a parent. So yeah. Basically I just want to know how to forgive my dad.
Trauma is a lot worse. For the most part you can compensate for lessons not learned and catch up on those in adulthood. But getting rid of trauma is way harder compared.By providing for you and not giving you significant trauma he's ahead of a lot of parents unfortunately.
>>34909366What do you mean by forgiving your dad? You're just attacking him the same way the rest of assholes in your family did.Your dad will fucking die you know? I lost mine already. Do you want him to leave thinking "My dad died being such a pussy, all my problems are his own fault".I wouldn't use the word forgive, I would suggest you to stop being such a fucking bitch and fucking fix your life first before dumping it on others. He will fucking die and you will keep being the same shitter.
Your dad doesn't know how a loving family works. Such a person should never have been a parent themselves but hey, you can break the cycle
>26 male>6'1, good looking and fit (workout, swim and hike)>neet since finishing high school>don't have to worry about money since i come from a rich family>own three apartments live in one rent the other twoNow my question is this: What should I tell girls I might potentially want to date about what I do for a living, so I don’t attract any gold diggers? I don’t want to lie.
>>34909145real estate
>>34909145Say you write software from home. If they ask further you build internal systems for large telecom corporations. They won’t ask anything else after that kek. Similar circumstances here. You can also just tell them that you don’t work because family money but just not tell them how much is actually there. They don’t need to know about any apartment other than the one or what you can spend. The problem there is that when certain women fill shit in with their imagination, they imagine you as unfathomably rich instead of observing your spending and circumstances to judge from that.
>>34909145Tell them you're a professional janitor for online imageboards.Once you reveal that yuo are doing it for free, gold diggers will certainly fuck off.
>>34909145are you an artist in any capacity? what are your hobbies? focus on the personal things you do. I wish I had your life btw
>>34909164>real estatethanks anon that's actually pretty brilliant in its simplicity!>>34909173>The problem there is that when certain women fill shit in with their imagination, they imagine you as unfathomably rich instead of observing your spending and circumstances to judge from that.I've also noticed that, shit is really annoying.
Should I get a fleshlight or tenga to fix my deathgrip? I've already given up on porn.
>>34904676>muh prostate canceryeah just keep being a gooner and destroying your emotions and personality
>>34907329I lost those a long time ago. So I will keep being a gooner.
>>34902786What's a tenga? Is that sex toy that had 4chan ads?
Get a Tantaly shaped like that one bitch from the one porn
>>34907329Bro you're on 4chan. You're a passive consumer of pornography even if you don't actively seek it out.
I'm white and I love black girls however I haven't gotten any attention from them, I normally attract alt or asian girls but I'm out of luck when it comes to black girlsWhat can I do?
>>34907706>>34908924>>34908971So for alternative girls, it helps that I'm also into horror and metal, especially goth metal.But when it comes to Asian chicks, I've heard that thing about them being more attracted to those who aren't so scary or "tough." Not sure if that's true, though.When it comes to black women, I want to know how I should go for them. Should I just tell them that they're hot? How do they generally enjoy being approached?
>>34909043start by spanking your girl once in a while, they all love that shit
>>34909140>But when it comes to Asian chicks, I've heard that thing about them being more attracted to those who aren't so scary or "tough." Not sure if that's true, though.That's true in my case, also they prefer clean shaven guys, I have a beard now though
>>34907363If you’re into anime- go to conventions. I swear if a black girl is there, the likelihood that she’s into white or Asian men approaches near 100%. I’ve hook up with more than a few cute, well mannered black girls just but cosplaying and then being asked to have my picture taken, or vice versa. It helps, of course, if you have game. The quiet ones won’t care as much.
>>34907363Idk where you live but go to a country where they don't hate white people. Black women in US and Europe are insufferably ideological, but in Kenya for example they were chill when I was there.
I know this is not normal but is it bad that I graduated college and did not walk. My immediate family also had no idea I graduated. I basically celebrate nothing in my life and just do what I'm supposed to. Is that bad?
>>34908390Assuming you are a guy. Celebrations like that are for women and kids. No guy cares unless its like an excuse to drink or go to a party. But waiting for people to come around you and shower you with hugs and gifts is for kids.If you wanna do something you have to be the host and invite people to do something together whether it be a dinner or going out or something.
nah. long ago colleges turned into slush funds, no more reason to play along with their ceremony than to dance at Walmart in the morning or sing along at Golden corral for a birthday. there's no meaning or authenticity in it
>>34908407Ok there tradlarping delulu faggggggg
>>34908407I wanted to say this to someone who was telling me he wanted to buy a class ring. I already said why are you buying it. It's not like you won the Superbowl.
Any anhedonia anons? CPTSD is a bitch. How do you find joy when your hardware doesnt allow for it? How do you not feel like a worthless machine forced to wander an endless desert alone while the sand grains carried by the winds slowly cut away at your skin?
>>34905073Yes I do really like the intro to MMZ2
>>34905073I got CPTSD too. Yeah the stunting is a bitch. I got out of my situation and still barely have enough brain power left after the bullshit to enjoy myself. I usually can break through the fog with some Eric Andre pranking celebrities shadenfreude type shit. Then I can do something I like. If the body allows, otherwise I'm not doing shit.
Same man if you just straight embrace it you'll get better.
Im starting to think that it's impossible for me to have a long term relationship as an autist.Sometimes a girl will express interest in me, perhaps because of looks(that seems to be the only possibility that makes sense for pre-talking IOIs), but the moment we start talking it quickly fades away.This is systematic.I have a theory that the only type of human being I could genuinely develop reciprocal infatuation for that lasts long would be a similarly ND female. As that is actually the only girl I had a long term thing with but I am not exactly proud of this(it was some long distance online nonsense, I know...).But that only provides more evidence for the fact I am statistically probably not going to get a girlfriend.What is the likelihood a given female I encounter is ND, that I find attractive, that find me attractive, that is compatible to me, that isn't turned off because I'm a fucking dork?It's basically near 0.0001% because all of these categories were already a small percentages.And you have to add the fact that I'm black. I really don't want to make this thread about race but this is obviously a factor. Even if a girl likes dorks, usually her type isn't a man of African descent. These ones will usually want an Asian or a European dork.So think about itP(ND woman) * P(she's attractive) * P(she likes Black men) * P(she finds me physically attractive) * P(she finds my personality attractive) * P(we are compatible) * P(she tolerates dorkiness)That shit has to be damn near 0. Not exactly 0 but pretty damn close. Let's be realNow I understand I can be manipulative and shit to fuck but I'm not talking about short term dealings. I'm talking about getting a girlfriend.Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>34903758CopeI also had a nerdy black gf at some point in my life as a black man.
>>34899201wait what so what was the problem? >I won the lottery!>I'm miserable and I cheat on her>???
>>34898684How do you do this? My autism diagnosis has always been like a dark stain that prevents me from being able to like myself at all because it's proof that I've always been and always will be inferior to normal people. >autism's such a wide spectrum you may find that you attach your identity to a diverse community made up of people who aren't that much like youThis part is true, I've hated every other autist I've ever met. I feel too weird for normies and too normal for other autists. Autistic people are usually either awkward or annoying.
>>34898645The attractive guy i know who maybe has light aspergers has none of the cringe you describe. Talking to him and being around him, hes just a really attractive hot guy.
>>34898645picrel is the kind of shit my ex would say to me and then she cheated on me
She's been wanting to get them since she was 14 and we're both 19 now, together for 10 months. She's made contact with tattoo artists, is trying to find "good" ones, and is mapping out the designs she wants on her bodyLets run through the scenarios of how she'd react to different approaches I could take:>If I tell her I don't care and act nonchalant, she'll get them>If I sternly tell her not to get them, theres a chance she won't, but the question will definitely come up at some point and theres a higher likelihood she'll do it>If I act concerned and practical, talking about her future and her skin and how they age, she'll come up with roundabout reasons brushing off reason I can give>If I get really annoyed/angry, who knows what will happen. Realistically she probably won't get them, but will resent me. She still might though>If I act really sad, cry, and plead, she almost certainly will not get them, but I'm not going to do that over a fucking tattoo.How do I even approach this?? Playing on her emotions and acting machiavellian is 100% in the picture. Only thing I'm not willing to do is be verbally or physically abusive. We've also just started long distance a bit over a month ago
>>34901036As knowing a girl who recently got tattoos at the age of 27 I genuinely think there is a mentally ill impulsiveness behind it. Or they have body image issues Do you really want that long term?Leading up to this did you let's her know that you like her body the way it is and her natural skin so that she doesn't feel insecure to want to change it?
>>34900876Do porn with her
>Like what? If it's not a face or a hand tattoo, it won't affect employmentLike this. Enjoy the lymph node cancer
>>34909058theres another portrait under the mona lisaOP is a baiting fag with no gf
>>34900876If you can find some before and after pictures of people with tattoos it may help her see why you don’t want her to get them. Especially women will get the stupidest shit on earth. Unfortunately I was in the exact same position as you in 2007. It didn’t go well for me and she got a tattoo anyway. Oh well to that relationship.
I’m going to University in a few days. I’ve kept to myself my whole life, and I don’t have any social skills. I’ve always focused on myself or studying. I always hated and avoided people. I only have 1 friend that I’ve kept in touch with from middle school, and even now we only chat on Discord occasionally.I want to try to meet people, and if I’m lucky, maybe even find myself a girlfriend.>20>5’9>autist>gym every other day>comp-sci major>i like anime, movies and historyHow do I talk to people properly? What are the best ways of approaching people or striking up conversation without being seen as ‘weird’? Does anyone think I could make friends or get a girlfriend? Or is it genuinely just over for me because I neglected my social skills so long?
>>34908145good post. maybe you’re alright. not to hijack this thread but>be me>age 25, 2024>get back into a 4 year school as a junior>fast forward to 2026>went to zero college social events, just went to class and went home (commuter student)>graduated having barely made any friends, just a few loose acquaintances>now a 27 year old khvdid i squander a huge opportunity? am i done for?
>>34908038unironically alcohol
>>34908651No youre still in your 20s. People that are older, uglier and more retarded than you turned their social life around. Look into clubs for adults. Hiking, yoga the occult. Whatever you are halfway interested in its worth giving a shot. Every one ive ever gone to was willing to bend over backwards to accommodate me to make me a regular. This is one of the few third spaces left to meet people as well. You can walk up to people at a bar if you have the confidence to.but outside those social environments clubs, churches, bars, volunteering, events, the average person doesnt want to small talk at the store or in public like they use to.Like I said to the other anon covid screwed a lot in your Gen who've come out of their cocoon pretty late.Theres sites like meet-up or Facebook groups to find these places as well as others online. Good luck. The pool is still very open for you at your age
>>34908038its not that serious. be weird do whatever you want
>>34908651could be worse, you could go to a shit ton of social events & clubs and still make no friends (like me)
She's very naive and I'm kind of scared what's going to happen to her there
>>34900096I'm not trying to be funny retard, I'm being dead fucking serious. Your sister isn't some saint, retard. She'll end up having sex and going to parties and probably even getting a boyfriend, it's what women do at college. All you can do is hope and pray she doesn't have some hidden whore gene that is unlocked while she's at college because I've heard so many stories of chicks being normal and conservative and good girls...they go away to college and they just suck and fuck their life away. There is some solace in the fact that not EVERY woman is like that, so maybe your sister is one of the good ones, or maybe she isn't the thing is you won't ever know one way or the other. You know what she's willing to let you know.
I had a little sister onceThen she went to collegeNow she's some kind of mentally ill lesbian with a shaved head idkI dont speak to her anymore
>>34895433>>34897326>She's literally just a kid.18 is a fully grown adult woman>>34895493>>34895522you are coping because you don't want it to be true
So sorry that you will no longer be able to watch her through a hole in a shower while beating off.
>>34894091>have nice girl who was on/off crush from 4th grade through high school>incredible sweet and soft and kind>we never dated. Early on due to my autism, later on because we were always dating other people on kind of an opposite rotation>start getting serious with other girl last year of high school, still friends with early crush but got less close>early crush girl goes off to college because she was smart and talented>end up studying in another country pretty early on. Was studying foreign language>posts shitloads of pictures with her and lots of guys the entire trip>”good for her but uhhh also kinda weird for who she is”>she comes back to the states to finish studying>apparently gets very violently and traumatizingly raped. I would have obviously never known about this but she made a very long and graphic post about it back during #metoo>finishes her education and gets a really good job>(truly good for her. I want her to succeed and not suffer at the very least)>we are still friends on social media, like each other’s interesting pictures sometimes>she still looks cute in selfies and I can see her old self in there despite the years that have gone byComment too long. Click here to view the full text.
