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How do i make normals feel uncomfortable to stay near me?
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>>33868616
Smell bad.
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>>33868616
Do whatever you want who cares don't even stay around them if you don't want to if you don't like your school or work just walk out you're not their slave you're literally allowed to do anything kick an old lady and smash her face in the pavement for no reason go to a grocery store and break stuff call employees retards when they come to clean it up
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>>33868658
Return to the basement. Just kidding, you've never left it.
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>>33868616
Always be alone, show no emotions, say very little in conversations, have a RBF, and talk with a flat monotonous voice. Works like a charm.
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>>33868616
Make weird noises

Tips on being so self absored that everyone starts ignoring me and I feel like an evil god in my own dimension
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All conscious beings are gods of our own realities.

this is just a temporary play field.
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>>33869780
Convince others to become your minions

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i am an 18yo biofemale and i had sex with my boyfriend (23yo male) after 2 months of being together as boyfriend/girlfriend.

That was my first time having sex and he has had one sexual partner prior to me. I love him so i don't regret it but i'm worried this makes me a whore or could be bad for our relationship long term as i've seen alot of women say that after you have sex with men they will no longer like you/men are not to be trusted in this regard.

I really want things to workout between us as this is my first serious relationship and i've never felt this way for someone before. If what i did was retarded is there any way for me to rectify it?
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>>33861301
>i don't regret it but i'm worried this makes me a whore or could be bad for our relationship long term as i've seen alot of women

If he doesn't bring up sexual topics of fetish/kinks then yeah you should be concerned he'll see you as a slut but every sexual needs in a relationship are different. You'll just have to go with your sex toys or play with your clit.

If you're really wanting him and desperate open up that you're interested having sex with him and feel horny about him. The topic has to revolve straight up about him so it will never appear you being a slut.

There is nothing wrong with what you do it's just that how the person you do will see perceive the way you do and act. You need a lot of empathy and understanding to sugar coat your words without causing misunderstanding in the process. In all honesty he's probably gay at this point. If he calls you a slut/whore be prepared to call him out being a gay ass faggot who doesn't wanna have sex.
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>>33861301
Don't trust what every woman says, they say shit like that out of spite and jealousy because they'd rather see you sad and alone than happy with someone because it makes THEM feel bad
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>>33861301
been in a relationship at all prior to this?
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>>33868073
i had an e-bf for two months when i was 15 but im not sure if that counts
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>>33864659
That is not a needle. That is a thermal paste syringe.

>be me (unemployed, female, 18)
>makes thread on this board (now archived) asking about advice on dating after having broken up with my ex boyfriend
>guy on the thread (Idk his age, but he's most likely in his late 20s-mid 30s given his appearance) exchanges discord with me and asks me to be his girlfriend
>I accept, and we're happy (he's literally one of the sweetest and supportive guys I know)
>finds out that he's not only financially struggling, but also literally homeless and relying on public wifi to stay in touch with me
>I feel bad and want to support him any way I can (words of encouragement can only do so much), but I have no way of doing so financially
>Can't ask my mom for money because we're also financially struggling (dad quit his job because his boss wasn't paying him for his efforts, and the government cut our food stamps so we're tight on spending), and I don't want my mom finding out about my relationship and accusing him of grooming me or some shit like that (basically what killed my last relationship)
>Not attractive enough to do an only-fans, so that's out of the picture
>Applied for this job near my place a while ago ($16/hr), and I don't get a shift till November, so I'm considering using that as a way to financially support him until he can get on his feet again, but I don't know if I'll actually get the job or not

How do I support him in this situation?
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>>33872439
you've been around i see
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>>33870263
Sending money to some self-proclaimed street bum you only spoken with online is a bad idea, I’m not saying he’s a scammer, he didn’t ask you for money after all
Not to be cynical but people who spend long periods homeless tend to be drug addicts or just plain nuts
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Why not get a hamster they are cute and deserve attantion
It is obiouse you are looking for a way to release some emotions
Please dont send random strangers money if he is what he says than the emotional support ypu give is more than enough
You cant get enough money to support him in any meaningful way
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>>33872421
Bet. Thanks Anonymous
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>>33872344
what do you mean by dox, I'm asking for you to post reply on 4chan where the top green text that says "Anonymous" , says "Luca" instead. There's no identifying information, anyone who pays for 4chan gold has a name. You are truly, the lowest tier of bait, not even trying to do any research, just typing replies. and honestly I'm here for it, to inform you of how useless your life is when you're roleplaying on a 4chan thread.
I understand like using 4chan to pass your time but like, roleplaying? there's better things to do..

suck on these fat, fat nuts chud.

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I mean im happy go lucky anon but from time to time my mood gets ruined when i remember i almost logged out irl
god that sounds gay
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>>33872472

EMDR is a meme BTW.

(You) get STRONGER and that PTSD becomes easier and more manageable. WAGMI.

Maybe see a Therapist or a Doctor or something. Suicidal Ideation is a bummer.
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I've heard that some people get PTSD when they do something that is outside of their self-concept. For example, a country boy joins the army and goes off to war and ends up killing a bunch of people. It's so far out of line from what he thought he was capable of that it causes him huge amounts of stress after the fact.

In your case, you probably never imagined you would ever do X, so when you almost did it, it was almost as if you were having an identity crisis.

I'm not exactly sure of how to solve your problem, but I think an important first step is taking time to really examine yourself and understand who you are.

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Assuming you made money online which cheap county is the best and easiest to move to
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>>33869030
Mexico has a growing sentiment against what yall do just FYI and they can be brutal when stirred up
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>>33869075
What do we do ? I'm just chilling
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>>33869075
Im not american (i guess that's what your referring to). In any case yes people can be resentful of 1st worlders coming to their countries to live luxury life with their "normal" wage from a remote job. Wherever you go try to at least learn the language or something
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>>33867201
Botswana, Zambia, Nigeria, Oman.
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>>33871346
Are you serious rn

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If I'm visiting an escort how do I make sure it's not some dudes opening the door that are going to rob me?
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No there are going to be guys there to make sure you paid, not if they're gonna rob you.
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>>33867514
Check her reviews on TER. If she has none, nope the fuck out.
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>>33867514
I only went once and had the exact same fear
I asked for a timestamped pic
several whores wouldnt send, one eventually did send
I'll try to find the pic and post it here it's somewhere on my other phone

it was a faceless pic but you could see her body and she had written the date with lipstick on the mirror
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>>33872272
>TER
Isn't this US only?
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>>33872410
Yeah most of them don't bother to prove their legitimacy because she has enough clients who don't make her go through that hassle

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What should I do?
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>>33870622
You deleted the Reddit posts on your list so how can I even know what you were saying
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>>33870622
What thing?
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>>33872455
So you're a shill, buy an ad
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>>33870622
Enjoy it by yourself.
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>>33872463
I've TRIED to. I've looked into buying ads on 4chan... but apparently the only way to do it via crypto is with Coinbase which requires giving them an insane amount of personal information. Also I'm not shilling it here, he just asked what it was.

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For context: I’m Turkish (23F), he’s Greek (28). We were together for like 2.5 years when i was 20. He was my evrything. I liked evrything about him. He had a high paying job, he was from Athens and i live in Istanbul so he came frequently to me and i did to his. He had an own house, provided for me basixally everything.

He was so possesive, he would be so rude and cruel to me when i talked to other men, when i didnt show him my outfit before leaving the house, for wearing tight clothes in the gym etc. He tracked me on his phone amd basically saw me as his married woman. He would take the lead and i happily obeyed him like he wanted to. I was so in love with this guy. Like, i’m just shakinf while i type this. I liked him so much andi’m so fucking hurt right now.
He would even bruise me to remind me i’m his, not on my cheeks but on my thighs because he said its ‘harder’ so it hurted more, and it did.

Anyway, i just found out today that he was emotionallt talking to someone else, a girl, while we were together. You can call me crazy bur emotionally attached to somene else, even if its not sex, i see it as cheating. I trusted him with all my life, i lost my virginity to him, he was my first in everything but he did this to me.

Please how do i recover from this. I want to cry so hard but i’m holding myself in. I dont know how i will meet someone like him again. I’m going crazy likemy hands are shakinf while i type this. I’m so heartbroken it canr fix.
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>>33872254
I’m genuinely not using that, i want real love, not one night stands with no chemistry
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>>33872117
Actually, women love being abused
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>>33872353
Nani?
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>>33871554
Obviously, what he wants is to have multiple women, and for those women to be completely loyal to him. It's pretty retarded when there's men out there who don't get jealous, but go for it I guess.
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>>33872257
I have tried a dating app (not Tinder), you have the right mindset. Not worth it, unless you are using it as a friend finder (the app that I used had such a feature).

There is a girl that I have known since high school and today I learned that she is a bit of a shut-in like me, so I might ask if she wants to go to the book store (we both love reading).

Personally, I would say wait for the Greek to respond. Wait a few more days at the last, and, if nothing, think about the other guys that you know. Think about your interests and try to find a guy that shares one of those. I would suggest that you stay local, guys no further than 10 km from you.

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Why Is there a subset of posters on 4chan that are Always so mean?
>I d like to learn german
>You should kill yourself
Why are they like this
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>>33872384
Some people are going through a bad time.
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>>33872384

99% of OPs on /adv/ are TL;DR, and the commonplace response on 4chan is KYS. Happens.
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A lot of that can be a legacy thing that's also being cool but for lazy people who end up being boring and not worth talking to to a greater extent

First time posting a thread and really need advise

>28 year old virgin shut-in
>Fapping one night when sudden pain in left nut
>lasts 3-4 seconds
>Roll over onto my back
>Nut still kinda sore
>Stop fapping for a week
>Sore nut last for weeks on and off
>Other parts of groin hurt too
>Sometimes feels like leg muscles ripping
>get pain in right nut too
>Third week go to doctor
>Doctor examines groin
>Pain in left tubes

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