I've realized I can't have a healthy relationship with women. My mother is a narcissist and made me hate women before I even got to know them properly. Then I was exposed to porn and blackpilling, which reinforced that women are very narrowly focused on a small subset of men with traits that I do not possess (not in terms of attractiveness, but behavior). I don't want treat someone like trash just to get into bed with them. At the same time I feel like sex is all that matters with women. In all honesty I can't imagine a loving relationship with a woman, I'm 34 and I have never had one. What could be done at this point?
>>33680976see? entitled*bows and leaves*
>>33680998Understandable *bows in return*
>>33680998kek no kek as in kek for >>33680972 bc no you do need to give advice to give advice. Even if it's one guy vs everybody.. if everybody just says you got a x problem and doesn't explain lol like yeah obviously what the first person is saying and doing is probably exactly what they are referring to but most people who are willing to just go around saying YOU as in just starting any sort of sentence with you, they are bitches. YOU are just always blah blah blah yeah actually not even true bitch.You are halfway to understanding that it is just your perspective... but also not... bc women are people first... people with tits. So they know they are cute and can get away with anything. It's a fact. They can't help but be sociopaths when things come so easy. But there really is an entirely different world out there, a world of abundance, one in which you may actually still not get laid bc people assume you do and you just fail to fuck the five or so hot bitches around you. But you know... WELL ADJUSTED PEOPLE. just start fucking IMAGINING IT. because you really have to expect shit for it to come to you sometimes
>>33680433Every single man in the world has mother issues. Every single man in the world has seen too much porn. They don't all give up. That's all that is wrong with you - you have given up.
>>33681318On some level sure, but how do I recover? That's the whole point, I'm consumed by negativity towards women, myself and the world, I suppose. I can't imagine a woman wanting me on her own accord, not currently at least, and I'm already 34. I mean what the fuck do I do?
Is 25 old? 25 never had a real girlfriend
>>33680186at 26 I got my first serious gf, the previous ones barely counted, one we were together for two months but in those two months we almost never saw each other or anythingthe other her dad was some sort of ex military or ex narco or something and when he found out he sent her abroad for a couple of months and we broke up over e-maila couple of kisses and stuff here or there but it was mostly me being at the right moment at the right time, nothing out of meritthen at 26 I got a serious gf I stayed with her for years
>>3368018628 and never had a gf. at this point I'd be happy just getting anything. i think it's ok but don't waste your time like i did.
>>3368018631.Had a few dates, nothing productive and the few "breakups" were made out to be victim situations.... At this point in time don't worry about it women have been brainwashed to believe in unreasonable things. Just hope you meet a girl who isn't 100% fem brained and knows men are actual humans.
>>33681196More details.Girls I have been around expect me to both be a MAGA chad with perfect liberal values. To always agree with her but also always assert my own will. To have hobbies that are macho but also be 100% invested in her interests and have no conflicts between the two. Have my own very full life and and open schedule for her interests.Also fully fund her "lifestyle" but not do any of that nasty capitalist stuff.Making women happy is impossible.
>>3368018634 non larping khv. Never been on a date, never had a single girl interested in me.
No family, no girlfriend, all I have is one close friend and one non close friend.What can I do about this?
>>33680153>What can I do about this?Try to get the things you don't have if you want, but with the family part you're fucked obviously. Also, if you have money (have a decent job with good money saved up or are rich from your parents) and do things on your own just fine, plus enjoy that lifestyle, then I suggest you keep it that way. Sure you can occasionally hang out with people if you know for a fact you enjoy that or are one of those extremely needy people, but if you have never had a girlfriend and want one, to have her live with you, and maybe a family, etc. I suggest you take a very hard look and understand that shit isn't a fairy tale, plus your life can go to complete shit with that route extremely fast.TL;DR: Life is a gamble, people use you for what you have and are fake as hell (99% of the time), so if you're currently comfortable, then stay that way. In other words, be careful when going for those things. Also, life is boring as hell, so you either deal with that or go insane according to most anons I guess.
>>33680153Get offline and go spend time with your friends
36M close friends (purley platonic) with 37F, she's more sociable and has a friend circle I cross into a lot, most people are cool but theres this Tranny that she invites and I'm not an asshole, be nice to them, (shes hung out with tranny's before) I don't go on conservative rants (She knows I'm a right winger, we have fun disagreeing about politics) My birthday is coming up and we're all going to go out to eat like we do when its someones birthday, how do I tell her "Hey, please don't invite the tranny to my birthday" without being an asshole
>>33673498>explaining why trannys are gross to your lefty gfthat was tough for me in 2018 but I'm sure it'd be easier todayit helps if you know what she finds compulsively repulsive so you can make a good comparison
>>33673498You're asking how you can be an asshole without being an asshole. You can't.
>>33673498>how do I tell her"I don't like hanging out with people who have severe self mutilation level of mental illnesses as a form of recreation""I don't want to be friends with someone who shares the beliefs of numerous mass shooters"I don't understand why you're obligated to invite someone who's mentally ill whom you don't really like to your own party. Do you think you should be forced to marry the tranny?
>>33673498have your party somewhere where trannies aren’t welcomed and act ignorant if it comes up
you could stop being a peice of shit
I don’t even know how to start, but I basically started playing this game a year ago and i recently picked it up again a month ago and I cant stop. I went from having all A’s in my classes to failing most of my classes just because I never do schoolwork, and I've always gotten all A’s in my past years. If we're using our laptops, I play minesweeper, if we're not, I just play it on my phone. everytime i do a quiz or an exam, even if i know the material, i just guess everything just to start playing minesweeper. sometimes i pull out my phone in the middle of the quizzes to play mnesweeper. I lowkey think I'm not getting into a good college or university cause of this. Im deadass playing minesweeper as i type this out. In the morning i wake up and play minesweeper, i go to school and play minesweeper, i come home and play minesweeper. When i go to sleep and close my eyes i play minesweeper in my head as i try to go to sleep. I literally stopped scrolling on tiktok and instagram and lost my whole roster cause im too locked in on minesweeper to text them back. help
>>33673596I won't read made-up bullshit threads.
>>33673596Ask Tyrone to play a few rounds after he is done fucking your wife.
and of going to work every day. The few seconds of pleasure are not worth spending 9 hours slaving away. At least if I had a more younger and prettier partner it would make working more bearable. Should I dump her and become a neet? I really want to be a neet so bad.
>>33679488Not him but your entire argument is countered by the fact men could at the drop of a hat be drafted off to war.
>>33680150Men going to war doesn't change that marriage was always about sex and women were obligated to give it to their men because they were much more dependent. Pointless post.
>>33671064get a better job first and start working on yourself. if you follow this plan, either she’ll shape up or a woman will take her place. either way you win. don’t embrace neetlife; women of quality come into the lives of successful men.
>>33673074no I have to add another layer to this. Yes, incels have NO (and for real if there was ever a no... you've heard it all. The golddiggers, the cheaters, the crazies. Women are evil lol. Seriously though.... They. are. the devil. The actual devil) idea how miserable and boring it can be the very second you realize a girl is into you... but some of you guys sound like FAGS no offense. Like oh man I have this fucking GIRLFRIEND just laying in my bed ready to jack me off any time I want. FFFFUUUU
>>33678903white people are just boring. Black people have HOME girls. You know what that is? your actual girlfriend... except not bc the mistresses are... or something. idk iced tea explained it
I consciously know women want muscular men, but I have the personal desire to be a twink and get below 60kg (130lbs) at least once in my life because I love the aesthetic.What should I do?
there are different women with different tastes in men. if you like the way you look you'll be more attractive to women that have aesthetic preferences closer to yours, and that's one of the best things you can get. you can't appeal to "women", they're not an homogeneous mass, they're individuals. Some of them like twink looking dudes.also, if you do you, you'll also feel better with your self, wich helps
>>33679222A rose by any other name
In my experience twink death is when the amount of pussy you can easily get exponentially dropsSo yes twinkmax maybe retain enough muscle for ottermode and you will drown in bishes
>>33679175>I love the aesthetic.part of being a man is doing what you desire. Fuck what everyone else thinks.>I consciously know women want muscular mendifferent kind of women like different kind of things. But the biological imperative always exists- yeah, look like a twink, but can you kill another man in hand-to-hand combat looking like a twink? I know some who can. It's that dangerous disposition that attracts women. MMA fighters or boxers aren't all volume muscular, but they are damn lethal.>What should I do?just look at popular men with that kind of aesthetic. They get laid all the time. Like I said, different women, different tastes. Video related:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8mmekHL8cfU
>>33679495i would argue that mid 90s and beyond girls like twinks, mostly
yume, please follow my advice and take your meds
Personally I don't think it's good for anyone to live their life online, but I guess for you folks it's the only option?I am on the specter myself, but just lightly and these days I try to avoid the internets as much as possible because it literally just rots your brain.But I need advice, because there is this pretty autistic chick I have started liking and she is terminally online, however she has had some real life experiences like college and sometimes goes outside. What I need advice about is how to re-introduce her to reality if all goes well? I am pretty put off by all her internet weirdness like furries/femboys and all the usual mentally ill shit, but still I am wondering if there is any possibility to restore her humanity?She is 30+ so her brain has already solidified, but that's just her core identity everyone has neuroplasticity until they die
>>33676073last time was in 1989
Personality is relatively stable by age 30, as core traits like those in the Big Five (openness, conscientiousness, extraversion, agreeableness, neuroticism) tend to solidify in adulthood. However, change is possible to an extent.
I don't know, but I think at this point it doesn't make much sense desu
>>33676239I thought conscientiousness increased with age
>>33677350>I thought conscientiousness increased with ageI guess if you put effort into it you can max out at 25 and solidify it there.This is why you should never date anyone above the age of 25 that still has issues male or female
I look like your average 4chan Chud, skinny, pale, average or below average in looks etc... would there be ANY way of me having a chance with a girl who looks like Sydney Sweeney if she's not famous or am I just delusional for even considering it?
How are we supposed to answer when we know absolutely nothing about what kind of men she likes?
No, but you should hmu, cutie
>>33674387Obviously, OP. You just need to be confident and be yourself.
>>33674387I don't know who that is, but going by that pic, her features seem to be large breasts and blonde hair.As such, if you happen across such a woman in a hobby context, there's a good chance. In a club, eh. There she'd probably pronounce said features and be hit on a lot, so you'd have stiff competition.
Bump
Guys I feel like a disgusting freak loserEvery time I feel depressed (damn near suicidal sometimes) for being single and ugly in my 20s, it all goes away after I masterbate. Is it bad that I need to either do that or do cardio for imthe bad thoughts to go away? What's wrong with me? How do I not depend on this and be happy like normal people, like you guys?
normal people have sex daily, sometimes multiple times a day. If you`re not having sex, something is wrong and your brain is telling you to go get that pink sweet little pussy.
