I've heard somewhere that women with absent father figure tend to fuck around early in life because they feel a primal urge to survive.On the other hand, they hardly respect men and treat them as toys, or have one man which they deeply crave validation from - regardless if it's a good boyfriend or not.From my experience they tend to be very narcissistic and basically enhance on every bad female feature, excessive manipulation for one.
>>34602572100% rightPSA bumpAVOID THEM AT ALL COSTS
>recently broke up with latest boyfriend after much insisting>hope best friend will finally make a move>just says ”good”>oh, i was hoping you’d invite me to hang out with you>"oh">OH>okay>very cool>currently spending every night staring at my ceiling>waiting for aircraft mechanic Mr. Tax Benefits to realize he's fucking retarded>mfw I'm still not his girlfriend>i'm just the emotional support Build-A-Bear he keeps refusing to take home
Would you stop shitting up the catalog with your stupid separate threads? Keep it to one thread ya dumb bitch
You faggot. I just read part 1. Wtf kinda of whore? Move on from this cuck fantasy, it's obvious this fag doesn't want your dick, lose some weight then he'd want to suck you off. Anon is right, keep this shit in one thread. Take him to appleebees then molest him, it's your only hope.
>>34604456>>34604685It's a larp, he even wrote it from the male POV>>34602623
>>34604746>It's a larpit looks like one of those larp youtube channels that posts fake gpt 4chan stories
>>34604913is that where all these faggy as fuck fake stories are from? jfc
I wanna pick up fishing as a hobby, but I keep noticing the guys fishing in the rivers in my city are the types that have tats on hands and neck, pitbulls for dogs, often drunk etc. Why are they like that and will I have to deal with them a lot?
>>34602024Get a boat and fish the lake. Niggers don't have boats.
>>34602174This is 100% the case. The less equipment you need to fish a particular area, the more Mexicans and Blacks you'll see. You'll also get harassed by Karens/Veganfags more often. Obtain a used boat and a cheap motor and go offshore by 100 yards and you'll avoid the classless inferiors and degenerates.
>>34602024Majority of dudes who fish are white. I'm assume you live in the south based on your descriptions. Best case scenario, they completely ignore you. Worse case scenario, they're gonna annoy wanting to talk about random bullshit.
>>34602024kek looking for women on tinder is fishing for trash 100% most or only based shit from PETA you will ever see
>>34602024trash fisher looks 3 inches taller. so I'm sure that had nothing to do with it either.
I've started a book club and would like help getting some ideas for books to read and how to structure meetings and how to advertise it.>Currently I have not settled on an exact club name. My focus is to make it a more thorough analysis of books both fiction and non fiction but I do want it to be accessible to novice readers or people who don't read that deeply>Clubs target audience will be around 18 -25 since thats my age group. I am open to letting anyone older in but do want a strict adults only club.>Meetups will be in my local library. If the first session goes well I will contact the library so I can geet them to help advertise the club for me.>Currently have 4 people who are going who are all friends I convinced to join>Friend 1 was a big reader in middle school and read stuff like dracula, war of the worlds, and then there were none, and tom sawyer.>Friend 2 read back in middle school although much less. He read mostly nonfiction about ww2. I currently have loaned him storm of steel but he has not told me what he thinks of it yet.>Friend 3 does not read chapter books and only reads manga and manwha. He says he likes Don Quixote but has never read the book and instead watched a youtube video on it. His knowledge of books all comes from limbus company although he never read any book it references except metamorphosis which was assigned reading in school.>Friend 4 does not read but is pretty open to it. He has mentioned he is a slow reader but otherwise does not mind what genre or topic we read.>Currently our first book is "of mice and men" friend 1 has read this previously and liked it.>Friends 1,2 and 4 all like frankenstein, metamorphosis, and the count of monte cristo which we read in highschool and middle school.Currently some ideas I have for books we can read are>And then there were noneComment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>34606752i think the prince would be a good choice though
>>34606630Those picks are great.
>>34606614Let people suggest books that join the club
The Discourses of Epictetus ought to be easy enough to get into for beginners, if any of them have an interest in philosophy. There's also a very good commentary on the Discourses by a Platonist named Simplicius that could work as a follow-up, assuming they enjoyed it.
picks are dryif you're going to read crusty old shit, read the first Dunebut you should start with easy reads, novellas and/or short story collections like stephen king's Nightmares and dreamscapes
Hello anons, this question is about strawberry skin. My girlfriend struggles a lot with it, she's not sure of the reason why but she's had it for most of her life, and has given up on trying to treat it. Even though she has given up, I know it's something that makes her feel bad and frustrated. I would like to know if you have had experiences with it, and if there's any treatment you have tried that worked out for you. Thank you!
>>34606385I do. AmLactin, she can try glycolic acid too. This really should be a /fa/question but desu sometimes they suck ass. Also tell her to use body wash of glycolic acid there's a lot of them online or in stores
>>34606396Sorry, I didn't really know where to ask. I thought /fa/ was more focused on clothes and dressing up, so I decided to post here. I hope it's not completely off board.
>>34606385is it dimpled or are her pores clogged? if it's the latter then yeah find glycolic acid and/or AHA/BHA exfoliation washes. use a gentle scrubber, maybe a Clarisonic. be careful of sun exposure afterward.
>>34606396>>34606615i'll tell her to try glycolic acid! thank you both, she's very pale so she's usually not exposing herself to sunlight, like she hardly ever does. it's not dimpled, it looks like clogged pores
>>34606708yeah then a mild acid peel will work. be sure to not use any kind of abrasive scrub or harsh brush because it will sting and itch
Does this mean there are no reasons for the breakup or that there are reasons but she doesn't want to tell me.
>>34605739Specifically, the reasons will make her look bad.
>>34605716Not willing to provide a reason is gay. But if she's sitting on that point and isn't willing to give you the reason, you can push, but at some point you'll have to make a decision to let her go definitively and preserve your honor. Fuck that bitch
>>34605716There are reasons but she doesn't want to tell you because she doesn't think you'll accept them as such. Which to be honest is probably one of the reasons, Gavin.
>>34606024getting broken up with and not even being told why is confusing and upsetting. how autistic are you that you dont realize that
>>34605716There is always a reason. No one wakes up in the morning one day and think "hmm I should break up with my bf/gf today"
yes, i will be bawwwing. i finally found a boyfriend and i ruined it all. i thought he was too mean to me, but i was the one making him "mean." i was literally being pissy and a sad sack so i broke up with him. i regret it every day no matter how hard i try to get over him. there was only one thing that is/was an issue when i was dating him now that ive sat down and thought about it for months. hes probably over me. i lurk on his twitter all the time and he talks about an ex he loves but i know its not me. i have a private account where i block and unblock him over and over because i get so sad when i see his posts but i cant handle not knowing what he tweets. i have no way of contacting him because i cant dm him on twitter. i dont know if i can ever date another person because i havent been able to think about anyone but him. i dont think anyone but him could ever love me anyways, im almost completely unlovable
>>34603069Sounds like a racist piece of shit. You deserve better.
>>34603069Lmao
>>34603069JESUS CHRIST!
>>34603091i dont think i even deserve(d) him... im like.. insufferable
>>34603235wtf girl. What are you? black? if my boyfriend said that it would be the end of the relationship.
I suck at saying "No" in any matters that relate to my dick's happiness.I'd just left an 8yr relationship and a much younger coworker started hitting on me.It was kinda nice to have a girl make me feel wanted yk... Thing is, I know she doesn't care about me. The sex isn't even very good. She seems to like it but a lot of the time I finish and feel like I could've just jerked off.I've realized I'm kind of a fucking doormat if it means getting my dick wet. It's pathetic.I'd try to tell her no and she'd just steamroll me, or just show up at my place and get her way.Any other losers here got any advice? it feels like as soon as the "I've got a chance" thought pops up my dick just assumes control
>>34605494also to add: the relationship I left was practically sexless for the last two years.Ex made me feel like a gross pos just for wanting to have sex with hermb my dick wants to make up for lost time but it isn't doing my personal happiness any good.
>>34605500Find some commonality that you can explore - if not with her, the next girl. Find fun hobbies to do, talk to each other about your passions and goals. There is more to life than sex. To be honest, if someone is going to make you feel bad for your biological urges.. you shouldn't read much into what they are bickering about. Personally, I cannot get myself off and am rarely touched. This causes stress, internal degradation, insecurities but also close connectivity with those I share sexual experiences with, very intimate moments and strong sexual reactions.
>>34605494Just be straight with her
So I recently bought a new plant 3 days ago from the internet and today just got delivered. But been 3 days in shipping package is not good for the plants so I tried to rescue it. The plant is called Stevia. There's one that I guess still got some hope but I don't know what to do for the other. I tried to cut off the dying part of some plants but I think it will grow back. I don't even know any damn thing about rescuing plants. Any botanist or expert that are willing to help me?
>>34604765Attention, presense. Water and rehydrate the parts that need your care
>>34604765may have better luck on >>>/diy/
>>34604781 Thanks for replying. I'm kind of new here so thanks for letting me know where to post.
>>34604993Try /an/plant/ or /out/hgm/
>>34604765give it a good watering, make sure all the water can drain out fully (roots need oxygen), and give it sun
Do it.
>>34607081Where's you clone my cat?
>>34606871He should fucking cut it off
>>34602130But she died as your girlfriend right? If you really love her, it's fine. You don't have to stop loving her just because she died. Pretend she is still with you sometimes or jerk off to memories you had with her of the good times.
>>34602002Man here. Is what you mean is that you wish a man would listen to your problems instead of trying to pretend that they don't exist by distracting you with sex? Most guys just need you to speak bluntly about what you need and will do that thing. Need listening but don't want me to do something about it? Okay. Need problem solved? Okay. Need to be distracted from your problem and don't want it to be sex? Okay. We'll watch a movie, play a game or go somewhere instead. Just don't tell me one thing and want another thing instead.
>>34607081Either put it down cold turkey or just enjoy having fun. It's not a problem unless it is preventing you from doing what needs doing. If that is the case, set a timer for yourself for playtime vs. worktime.
25yo UK NEET of 10 years here. By some miracle, I’ve landed a job interview for a supermarket retail assistant role.I’ve been a shut-in for the past decade, and my social skills are far from great. I really can't afford to fuck this up, I can’t bear the thought of still living like this into my 30s.I struggle to think on the spot, but I’ve got two weeks to prepare. What kind of questions are likely to come up in the interview, and how should I prepare for them? Thanks.
Their questions will be about what you would do in hypothetical situations.The best thing to do is be honest about your struggles and say you are open to training and new experiences. That should be appealing to them. They will like the idea of being able to mold you to their standards, rather than constantly battle you to get you out of bed habits from a previous job.Best of luck.
>>34605170>Their questions will be about what you would do in hypothetical situations.Yeah, this. If you possibly can, mention an actual example of dealing with a situation like that you've encountered. >>34605150>What kind of questions are likely to come up in the interview, and how should I prepare for them?Also, try and think of some intelligent questions to ask *them*. In general, you should regard an interview as an opportunity to decide if you actually want the job. But also it gives you a chance to suggest a few qualities about yourself that haven't otherwise come up. For example, asking about what kind of experience the job will offer and whether they like to promote internally, will suggest that you're ambitious and not the kind of person who does the bare minimum. It's also good to *subtly* imply that you're not desperate and you have options - making it clear that you are deciding if you want the job or not by asking them questions makes it seem like you're in demand.
i worked at Tesco when i was still at college, i did stock control which is a fancy way of saying i walked around the warehouse looking for things to see if they were in stock and i would 150% have been replaced by the first LLM off the press but it was a comfy job and i could hide in the dairy chiller during a heatwave. ANYWAY anon the interview will be ascertaining the following:>can you show up to an appointment on time>can this guy string a sentence together>does he smell like 9am in spoons>does he have functional limbs Tesco/Asda etc arent going to start asking you for a six month plan. Dress nice (ignore faggots who tell you not to dress up for interviews, it shows you're taking it seriously even if its just a supermarket job), shake hands make eye contact, all the usual stuff. As a shop assistant you are going to be customer facing so 95% of this interview is going to be making sure you are actually presentable enough to represent whatever megacorp you're at. As for questions it'll be the usual:>what do you consider to be your strengths/weaknessesmake something up that wouldn’t effect your shopkeeping. I tell them i get impatient with slow processes especially if i have a customer waiting>when was the last time you worked in a teamif you have an example, use it. if not - lie. Say you had a group project at school and you were in charge of it, say you like doing escape rooms, if it comes to it say you were in a clan/gaming team (but leave that as a last resort)this anon >>34605284 also makes a solid point, ask them questions. Ask what the culture is like, ask about progression, ask if they do any team building stuff. Don't ask about the money during this period. Good luck!
Unfortunately I am a long time porn abuser. However, I am trying to improve my mental state so I won't need to use it again. Been working on myself etc. However, what I really want to make sure is that my dick actually works regularly if I happen to ever meet a woman and it gets to the point of having sex. My greatest fear is going to have sex and my dick doesn't even work. What can I do to ensure that my dick would work just fine if I actually went to have sex in real life? I know I can still orgasm via just using my imagination but I am basically just imagining porn scenes anyway. I don't deathgrip either. So that is a plus I guess. How would I know if I am actually crippled by porn induced ED? There is a lot of talk these days about younger guys having porn induced ED and basically having limp dicks with real women. I want to avoid that and not be part of that statistic of limp dicks. Help.
Use a lube (or spit) while masturbatingI've been there and would not recommend: When I got a gf, I realised I couldn't cum at all from regular sexIt took something like 1 month of no coming before it fixed itselfMy gf thought there was something wrong with herself and didn't believe me when I tried to explain
>>34602603This is my fear also. I am assuming you even had a condom on too which makes things even more difficult I suppose. Bottom line, I just want my dick to work. But I am not sure what qualifies as "working". If you have sex and it takes an hour to ejaculate, is that "working"? I think right now I probably could ejaculate via sex but I'd have to jack hammer the girl unfortunately.
>>34602314because it's not a computer screen duh
>>34602888> if it takes an hour to ejaculate, is that "working"?No, but you could just stop before the girl gets bored
>>34602888>If you have sex and it takes an hour to ejaculate, is that "working"?Absolutely not. It should take you around two minutes to teach orgasm. An hour is absolutely terrible. Your dick is fucked up. You need to see a doctor or something.
Advice for dating BPD with childhood trauma?
>>34605394i can unironically save her
>>34605394>Advice for dating BPD with childhood trauma?RUN, change your name, dye your hair, pick up a fake accent, move to a new state, get a large dog to protect you and sniff out bitches with BPD who may or may not be stalking you now, and eventually when she finds you again.....FUCKING RUN!
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>>34606303Save her go go just do it
>>34605394BPDemon is a term for a reason
My autism symptoms are getting worse each year>constantly stimming when I'm alone>have even worse communication issues than I ever had>much worse executive dysfunction>0 motivation to mask>constantly tired>getting more angry when there are noises, light, smellsI'm at the point where I would instantly apply for euthanasia if it was legal.Is there anything I can do to stop it from getting worse?
>>34599601Tell me more
>>34602364Restrain the behavior you find harmful as much as possible, with the knowledge that every time you engage in it you make it stronger, and every time you refrain from it you make it weaker. Gradually you'll begin to see progress, as long as you continually apply yourself to eroding your habits over time. Spend a little bit of time every morning and every evening in quiet contemplation, asking yourself how did you that day, where you could improve tomorrow, and what your plans are moving forward. The belief that it's impossible to change is generally what keeps people stuck in a rut, so always assert to yourself that this can be done and that your efforts will bear fruit, given time. It also helps to read regularly, particularly philosophical works that encourage self control and self mastery.
>>34599593you need to get out of a state of neuroinflammation and your brain is probably in a hyperglutamate state; take magnesium glycinate (everyone is deficient) , myo inositol (people who commit suicide are largely missing this in their brains), l theanine, avoid low quality sugar and other foods that increase inflammation, make sure you're eating lots of high quality animal products, ideally grass fed or game,some organ meats and seafood ; if you want short term relief try ketamine, it obliterates my autism symptoms and the aforementioned hyperglutamate state but again it's temporary; read grimhood's tweets for more scientific explanations on the brain and symptoms and diet/supplements, he helped me alot
>>34602618I know where you are coming from, but I would avoid meat and seafood for a while. I was looking all my life for answers regarding symptoms. I found some only in old German Medicine textbooks written over a Century ago. Tldr: Uric Acid. Your blood has too much uric acid (it’s too sour) wich causes almost every disease and neurological issue. The brain needs the most blood and if it’s sour all kind of mental issues as well as depression arise. You need an absolute alkaline diet for a few days. Avoid vinegar and sweets and any acidic stuff. See if you can get your hands on eitherAchillea millefolium (Yarrow)Centaurium erythraea (Common centaury)Centaurea benedicta (Blessed thistle)And make tea from it. Best if you mix all three but either one is good. Drink this. Do this for two or three days. Thats it. There are some more recipes but i must try them first myself. I would try this first, if you dont see improvements after days look for different solutions. Nowadays everyone eats and drinks too much acidic stuff, and all kinds of issues appear. And the other thing is just tea so you can’t do anything wrong really
>>34601065no you can’t smoke weed. It will worsen your bowel movements and sleep. Will also lower your testosterone and Iq. You dutchies are such whiny faggots it’s unreal
