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About 35% of women report being violently raped, beaten, and harrassed by their sexual partners (Source: World Health Organization). Despite this they still willingly continue to have intimate relationships with these violent men.

My success in courtship, despite being a law abiding peaceful citizen who has never committed such acts, is zero percent.

What sense am I supposed to make of these statistics?
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>>32738096
>I was Chad in school.
Where did it all go wrong?
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>>32738176
Several things fucked me up. Its a CRAZY Downfall.
Got oneitis for a particular girl and neglected my big social circle.
Got forced to move to a completely different school where I knew nobody, further isolating me.
At this time I developed bad social anxiety because of an abusive stepfather who was jealous of me (I would be too, poor idiot was dating a single mother while I was getting prime pussy). This made me basically speak to no-one.
Developed an easting disorder due to the shitty situation and became rail thin which fucked up my final stage of puberty and left me with a weedy manlet face/physique, where previously it was very good for me age.
Oneitis left me due to my smv dropping way below hers.

I'm 25 now and have never been employed lol. I have not interacted flirtatiously with a female at all since losing that one girl at 18 either. Life over. Shame I can't start over after ruining the run. Not living in a country with easy access to firearms has defintely saved my life so far.
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>>32738096
not a chad, but I can date no problem and I just suck the tits of a girl by force the other day and she kept messaging me and we're seeing each other tomorrow again
sometimes I wonder if I was wrong for being so soft with girls in my early 20s and I needed a little bit more assertiveness
I picked her up and brought her back to my room after were were done fooling around and we were ready to leave my apartment too
I don't understand that girl, she keeps wanting to see me but when we meet I have to do all the job and she keeps lightly pushing me away , it's just like in my cave paintings
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>>32738329
thr biggest turn off for a girl ever is if you pussyfoot in bed. they want to be manhandled and acted on. it's much easier to get away with in school. among adults you are always one bad date away from getting nuked
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>>32737955
>Despite this they still willingly continue to have intimate relationships with these violent men.
you're dumb as fuck if you think most of them "stay" with them and don't run for their lives

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I'm a porn addict and a sexual deviant. I recently met a girl who is the sweetest and it's making me want to become a better man. But I don't know if I can think about marrying her (or anyone) because I'm unable to have an erection without thinking about my paraphilia.
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>>32735113
This is exactly what I thought. They never mention what it is either. Tell me what it is or shut up and love the site. Hate these people.
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It isn't possible to becomd addicted to porn, that is not a rral thing. Take responsibility for yourself. Get a life and you won't be so habitual

https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2014/02/140212153252.htm
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>>32735449
Your article doesn't say what you think it does.
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>>32734875
What are your paraphilias?
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>>32735449
You post this a lot, like every thread that even hints are porn addiction, but like everything in psychology it is a debate and people like yourself don't ever place it in a context of a debate. There are numerous conditions in the DSM that are completely made up bullshit whilst there are other conditions with a fair degree of research not considered worthy of addition. There is a big blind spot when it comes to technology and its accessibility in how it influences vulnerable people. Not enough people are researching it combined with a liberal idea that this stuff is essentially freedom of expression and many people use porn freely with no harm. But you could say this about alcohol or anything else which people can and do abuse.

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Girl I was supposed to go out with tonight just cancelled on me at the last minute, should I just hit up my ex?
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>>32738017
not on valentine's day bro, she's gonna get the wrong message
or worse, the right message
no one likes being the sloppy seconds and if you appear out of nowhere with a plan for valentines that very same day she's gonna know what's up
save it for another day if you wanna keep her as a fuck buddy or something
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>>32738035
I still love this ex, I haven't talked to her in half a year tho cuz I've been in no contact.

But I'm getting real tired of dealing with other women.
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Just hold the L with dignity.

No point stressing over a hallmark holiday.
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>>32738041
Sure
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>>32738041
she's still getting a wrong message out of you doing this then, if you love her don't make her feel like a consolation prize
also it does seem like you don't love her lol, you're just mad you can't get someone else
don't get her into your personal problems

Where do I find women with savior complexes who will let me live with them? I want to escape my terrible home life ASAP. I'm conventionally attractive but terribly shy and wracked with a lot of baggage. To illustrate, I've come across a lot of women who found me attractive and would confess affection but I'd always avoided them out of fear of being vulnerable and not living up to whatever expectations they have of me.
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>>32738292
Do some crimes and go to jail. Put your mug shot on your tinder profile.

I work at a job that gives everyone one "special day off" per month to be used however they want, but it doesn't roll over to the next month, and if it's not used in the same month, it's just paid out at 8 hours. I also have the option to split it as 4 hours off two shifts.

I work part time, some weeks I do 20 hours and some weeks I do 40. Should I take advantage of the 8 hours and get an extra day off every month, or should I keep working my normal hours and get it paid out as free money? What's more beneficial? One day off or one day's pay? I don't get any vacation days (I get paid 4% per paycheck extra instead) so it would be nice to actually get a day off instead of trading shifts with other co-workers, but I don't know if it's worth using a day off if its a slow month for shifts
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>>32738313
>Should I take advantage of the 8 hours and get an extra day off every month, or should I keep working my normal hours and get it paid out as free money? What's more beneficial? One day off or one day's pay?
This is a subjective question to which only you have the answer to. What are your goals? What are you trying to achieve? Are they better spent on a day off or getting more money?

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If I pray hard enough will my penis get bigger?
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No. Dumbass.
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>>32738291
THEN WHY THE FUCK WOULD I BE RELIGIOUS
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>>32738293
Pray for your enemies' dicks to get smaller

Are there any edgy/alt-right Youtubers? I'm trying to find channels to sub to that have that 2016 not giving a fuck type of humor. Small or big it doesn't matter.
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>>32737853
I agree with this statement you on this that Zoomers are making edgy content now. Yeah I wouldn't say its "alt-right" to be edgy but I'm looking for people who make alt-right type jokes.
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>>32737844
YWNBAW
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salty cracker on rumble. don't support jewtube.
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>>32738196
That’s nice yah terminally online tranny lover.
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>>32737839
Leafy is going to come back in a big way. He did it in 2023, he'll do it again

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So my work is having me go to a different location for work for just 2 days and I go along pretty well with the manager I just met at the other location. This location happens to have a disabled man that can not stop talking. I've met men like him before and I'm only there or 2 days so I don't really care if he talks at me for hours although if I worked there all the time I would definitely get annoyed quickly but whatever I don't work there so I humored him, When the manager noticed I was letting him talk to me she got more and more passive aggressive towards me throughout the day. We are allowed to talk at this job and we were doing our work so I don't really see what's the problem other than she has an issue with me talking to this retarded man so I guess she's just a witch? idk can someone tell me what I'm missing here.
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>>32737552
Even if you were getting your work done on time to an outsider it might appear as if you were spending a lot of your time chatting with a person and being lazy. This is more about your appearance than the reality of your situation.

How to have Inline quote replying on iPhone?
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What iOS are you on
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>>32738094
15, so if I update it shows up? Strangely on an old iPad that’s still on iOS 12 it does show up
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>>32738172
yeah, i had same issue and wasn't allowed to post for a bit properly until i updated till 18, this is on an iphone x, just give it a try if updating isn't an issue for you

it let me do it for ages, then stopped one day. only updating fixed
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>>32738187
Thanks, do you happen to know if this works https://greasyfork.org/en/scripts/424112-inline-quote-links-arch-b4k-co

It’s a script for iOS too apparently to browse the archives with Inline quotes, would be much better but would have to install some app first
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>>32738230
Btw arch.b4k.co is now arch.b4k.dev

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i got a "wolf cut" or at least thats what they told me and i genuinely have no idea how to make it look good on the day to day
i do nothing besides shampoo + conditioner weekly, and shower daily, how do i make this look like an actual wolf cut and not like 2006 scene boy hair
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>>32732916
like what im utterly retarded
>>32732926
isnt posting csh fan art proof enough
>>32732951
need this in my life rn but my hair doesnt feel very rufflable as of late
>>32733007
im a f slur
>>32733285
im a fucking loser irl unfortunately
only channers think i look like a cute twink for some reason
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>>32733301
>>32733504
yeah i think so too that sucks
the guy i went to said he loved doing wolf cuts and even did a before and after shoot for ig cuz he said itd look really good
felt really botched but i just smiled on
i was going to get a manicure at the same salon but after that situation i just felt worried that they would botch that too
>>32733354
ill never cut my hair again
>>32733366
>>32733504
i have hank hill ass cuz i dont eat much so i wont do that
>>32733472
i give off too much celibate energy for chicks to even like me in a f*ggy friend sort of way
if i had to date them id be cooked

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bamp i still need help
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>>32734279
sea salt spray for volume, hair clay for a cleaner look
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>>32735999
i really do need sea salt spray i think ive seen other people recommend it too
today i actually got the wolf cut thing to work on my mullet, but the top of my hair still looks way too clean and idk how to fix that

My friend has birthday soon, what is some based game I could buy? Or do guys like something more meaningful? Or something funny to troll him a bit?? Men are big mistery to me, please anons help stupid bitch out :(
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>>32737699
no but acts like a total fag
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>>32737759
hire some dudes to give him a good beating a couple inches to killing him and then nurse him back to health
that would be a good birthday present, taking care of him when he needs it the most.
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>>32737768
hmmmmm thats amazing idea anon, will do!!
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>>32737797
ok I'm gonna give you actual advice since you've been a good sport
there is no "one size fits all" because every person is different, both guys and girls
you know him better than we do so you gotta know what he's into and his passions and interests
maybe a book if he's into reading, maybe an afternoon at the arcade if he's into that, a game but make sure he doesn't have it already if he's into that, etc, every person is different
one friend loves beat them ups so I always think of a good indie one to gift him because he of course buys the well known ones by his own, another one loves partying so we take him out to bars on his birthday etc etc
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>>32737840
Thank you!! :D
Yeah you are right, was looking hard and remembered hes big ass nerd into souls games. Suprise suprise, new game for preorder from fromsoftware few days ago. So probably will get him that. Lucky meeeee

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So I had break up sex with my ex girl, long story. But I creampied her during ovulation like a month ago and since then she has blocked me on everything. Im kinda of worried that she might be pregnant but I dont know if it would be too stalkerish, crazy to just show up to her apartment and ask her if all that cum in her womb turned into our first child together yet. I know she is anti abortion but she has not reached out to me on any news. What should I do?
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>>32737740
the couple of times I had this it was for very different reasons
1 was super insecure about herself and her value as a woman, she was treated like a flat child most of her life (she was also young so she didn't know a lot of dudes are into that kind of body, she just compared herself to girls that matured early and were curvy etc) so when I broke up with her she wanted to make sure it wasn't because I was not attracted to her body. Of course she didn't say that outloud but it was pretty obvious
we fucked like animals for an entire afternoon and after leaving my dry like a 10 yo corpse she finally left, still hurt and mad but at least satisfied in her insecurities I guess
she's still super mad at me even 10 years later, I think she's bpd
the second one we had a short relationship and one of the only things we had in common was mindblowing sex so of course it was a nice parting gift for both of us to fuck a couple times the afternoon we broke up
she dumped me actually
we are each other's booty calls nowadays but that's rarer and rarer, I think last year we only saw each other twice
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>>32737803
oh, i've stayed away from BPD girls, guess i don't get crazy sex even after i dump her
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>>32733383
ignore it, children are very expensive and if she's taken you out of the equation you're saving millions
you know that even if she says yes you're not seeing the kid anyways, she hid that info from you for a reason
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This is a ferish post. It's a larp that OP is right now jerking off to.
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She'll let you know if she's pregnant.

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I'm 27 and I'm going to apply for a job at the Lego store in Ireland. My hair is a bit past my shoulders, would this be an issue when applying for the job and at the job interview?
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>>32733136
>Are you a pedo or a diagnosed autist? These are the only two groups of people who want to work in a lego shop at 27.
They're not ALL spergs and chomos, are they?
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>>32733369
I wash my hair, I just think it will be a problem because I am male.
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>>32733480
You're really overthinking it, will be alright. Maybe if you were in a village in Mayo it'd be different, but you'll be fine in Dublin
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Bump
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>>32733374

It's a toy shop that only sells one brand of toy. What do you think.

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He has no access to the Internet. Should I be concerned? How do I control what his friends say around him?
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>>32737596
>My child is learning language!
Yes they do that, it's called being human
>Reeeeeeeeee
Stop being mad dumbass
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>>32737603
He asked me what the n word was the other day.
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>>32737614
Nurture this behavior and allow him to blossom.

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>go to barber for beard trim
>looks good
>go to same barber next time
>he messes it up and makes it look bad
every fucking time. is this just what having a beard is like? i've tried to learn how to do it myself but it always looks bad.
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>>32727399
what do i do when he messes up?
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bump
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bump
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>>32727370
Just clean shave it
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there are guides online which tell you how to trim and shape a beard. here's a youtube video that's less than 5 minutes long explaining it

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F_Q3Z1RcvOI


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