Hello, ive realized lately i have a problem once i started trying to date again and that that i am not attracted to anyone i do attract. I usually attract fat women, fat black women, fat mentally ill women, and fat trannies. I am not fat myself, actually slightly underweight and have an active lifestyle. Ive tried giving these women a chance but the physical misery and depression they go through on literally a daily basis makes my life harder and limits what we can do. None of them can hike, none of them have the palate for food that isnt from a drive through window. Most have shit personalities. Most have preexisting expensive health conditions. I do not want to start a life with any of them and i am just flat out not physically attracted to them. Im pretty sure it has something to do with me as a person, but i am 1) not sure if whats causing this is fixable and 2)dont know what it is but i have hunches since online i can get women i am attracted to but in person i cantIf this is the only types of women i can attracted i will i guess have to eat the fact that i will either have to settle for them or learn to live alone. If i were to build my perfect woman she would probably look similar to pic related and not be a bitch 60% of the time. She would also not be so mentally ill she cant function for days if not weeks at a time and doesnt cheat. Similar interests and hobbies would be a major bonus. Issue is this is every single guy around mes standard too(young,loyal, mentally well not fat women) so the competition is ferocious. I feel like i either need to self improve(which that can only go so far), accept the fatties or learn to live alone as the current state of the world is.
>>34527114This thread is more deciding if dealing with a life with someone who, imo, is a trainwreck, or living a life alone is better. How the fuck does she make $120k a year anyways if shes this unstable? Also are you sure shes even going to get back with you?
>>34527132>How the fuck does she make $120k a year anyways if shes this unstable?She’s in finance, I guess she’s just good at masking idk, but she’s got a strong personality kinda>Also are you sure shes even going to get back with you?Yea I mean we broke up like more than 5 or 6 times already. Our most recent breakup was like a week and a half ago but she called me Sunday night again to meet up and reconcile. But then that day while I was driving her home, she was looking thru my phone even tho I told her I didn’t get with anyone during the breakup, she found some pics in my deleted images folder that I screenshotted of girls that I had phone sex with thru this app I use. Mind you I forgave her in a previous breakup for literally going out on dates and kissing 2 dudes, one of them being a guy she fucked around with in the past. I’m planning on moving out soon and I’m sure she’d see me again if I did that, plus we have a concert this weekend that I had payed for months in advance, kinda tempted to ask her to go with me. My parents hate her tho cuz they think she treats me bad
>>34522102jesus yuropoors are rent free here too lolololol>>34522061work on being more attractive desu
>>34522187>most guys in their mid to late 20s have is playing video games and jerking offThose are the hobbies of the married late 20yr old men I can think of.The kind of men that get married is the average normie
I am >>34522441 and most women I see married are with men their height. I only see height difference if the man is black. Unfortunately I am white and tower over every women, and man that I see. Most men’s faces are at my chest level and they usually had sex.
I'm 27 but always been very young looking, i easily pass as 22-23 and some even say I look like I could be underage. I get a lot of 18-22yo girls interestes in me but they lose interest as soon as they hear my real age. Should I unironically just start lying and say i'm 22 to fuck them? I'd prefer being honest but i fucking hate losing pussy because of a number they don't like
>>34525047Yes you should lie
>>34525047Depends on the location/situation sometimes you lie sometimes you don't sometimes you wait a bit to reveal.
>>34525402No it won't. A few years difference should not ruin a relationship. Women are retarded animal drones that have to be tricked sometimes. This type of age gap does not matter to them.
>>34526710>sometimes you lie sometimes you dontThat's really helpful, bro
>>34525047Obviously just lie
Are foids really like this or are these fake troll accounts design to rage bait and black pill men? If true, is the modern age the worse time to find dating prospects?
>>34527332Yeah well it is easy to buy a home. Just go on Zillows and talk to a realtor.
Didn't an anon make a website where you can input their requirements and it tells you the probability of meeting someone who satisfies them?
>>34526607The accounts are probably genuine, but it's only a tiny minority of women who are like this.
>>34526607I'm 6'4" witha 9 inch dick but I only make $750,000 a year so she wouldn't date me.
>>34527478> I only make $750,000 a year so she wouldn't date me.What’s your occupation?
Should I get a haircut?
Shave it t b h
>>34524037Are you trying to look like Sid Vicious or something OP? I would say keep it longer.
>>34524037Grow it while you still have it.
>>34526742Baldness is a thing of the past anon. With current medical technology no man with a 3 digit IQ is going to be bald except if by choice lol
>>34524037mad style
How do I genuinely stop depending so much on everyone. I need others for everything, doesn't matter if its to buy something for myself or if it's to spend 'alone' time with someone because I can't handle being alone.I just want to start being able to not be in agony whenever I feel slightly lonely.I hate asking for so much help too, I know I'm burdening others a lot, and I hate it.I just genuinely want to become a better person.
>>34527549Hope you can get it solved too, anon.Good luck and believe in yourself!
>>34527556You're so nice! I wish you well tooDo you have a bf/partner? I was less lonely when I did since I could just think of them
>>34527565I currently have a girlfriend! She's the sweetest but I'm trying my hardest not to rely on her too much, don't want to become emotionally dependent and lose the relationship over it.Still she's super sweet and supportive and is there always.
>>34527569Thats awesome! Im gay too (bi) and it was nice to have a bf for a bit. I agree about not being too dependentAnother piece of advice I have is try to be productive and get stuff done. Also, get exercise. You don't have to often, but at least try. Do whatever works for you, even walking is good. You feel satisfied when you're productive and exercise is proven to improve mental health.
>>34527593I usually try to get my daily 8k steps... (which usually ends up in either under 2k or over 15k)I hope you have a nice day!
>get in first relationship ever at 29 after 15 years of inceldom>gf is 31>been in relationship for 6 months>only had sex 3 times, none in 5 months>see gf once per week, usually do things like go to the cinema, take her dog to the beach, see an art exhibit, go to the theatre etc.>saw gf yesterday at her place>she started crying>told me she liked me but that I'm "really hard to date" and said being in a relationship with me "doesn't feel intimate or romantic">she hasn't initiated sex in 5 months mind you, despite me gymcelling and looksmaxxing>asked if we would be better if we were not exclusiveI said "What would be the point of us being in a relationship if we were not exclusive?">she seemingly agreed>she then asked if we would be better off as friendsI said "If we weren't in a relationship we probably wouldn't be friends either, because we have no mutual friends, have different jobs, live across the city from each other, and otherwise have very little in common."Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>34521084You need to be initiating sex and intimacy almost every time. No way around it. It's just the way women work. Women respond to how you act. You need to understand this. This honestly sounds like the biggest problem you are having. Start slow with touching and kissing and watch how she responds, then escalate if she's into it.
>>34520766She just broke up with you dumb shit
>>34523079>I spent my entire life unable to have sex and I could go the rest of my life without having sex too.Then whats the point of being in a relationship.Just get a roomate or something if you're lonely.>The beta bux angle makes no sense for our relationshipIt was you who mentioned "settling" , I just replied to that.
>>34520766>she hasn't initiated sex in 5 monthsSo you've only had sex when she's initiated it?Have you ever considered, you know, initiating sex yourself?
>>34520766> gf says the relationship "doesn't feel intimate or romantic"> But I've been going to the gym and lookmaxxing though???????Incels and looksmaxers are so pathetic lmao
So my GF went and cheated. Thats over, but i have his phone number, address, email, facebook, xbox gamertag, etc. What can I do that isn't strictly illegal that would make his life hell?
>>34526412My guy, the dude she cheated with is not your enemy. If anything he did you a favour and got you out of a relationship with a whore.
The whore is the real enemy
>>34526412>Thats overthat's how you get a hole leaking on your head. If you weren't such a loser, this wouldn't happen, yet here you are. Next time, have movement going on in your life- so when your girl leaves, you are too busy having fun to care.
Imagine being this much of a cuck that you blame the dude instead of the whore who cheated on you.
>>34526412Why are you angry at him? He had no social contract with you and just took what was offered to him. SHE is the one who did you wrong.
Where do I work to make really good money if I don't wanna go to university (jewish scam) or trade school (working with spics and hicks for the rest of your life)
Going into crypto mining is risky as well. Most people doing that lose more money than gain it the first few years.
>>34527158All the jobs you are talking about are all held by families who hate keep entry like the mob for their family. Sucks to suck bud. You can’t be a Forman on a road crew or a sanitation Forman or an heavy equipment manager or any of those things because those easy jobs are given to family only. Ask your family what they do and get into that or suck it up like the rest of us
>>34527158Here's my 1 cent, kid.From what I can tell, all progression trees as a [industry sector here] technician requires experience, even for extracurricular credentialing. You don't need to go through an apprenticeship per se, but in order to take a certification exam and start stacking certs, you need time in the field and proof of that time.One thing I've done is mold/water mitigation. It really doesn't seem like that industry is going away anytime soon, and you can start off as something like a crew member. Many different companies for that type of business, especially in rainy cities. Then you'll ask: how do I get into a entry level position without experience? Again, I recommend this mitigation labor. The only shit that worked for me and I would have stayed if I had my driver's license at a time.
>>34527148Please go far away from any civilized society
>>34527148Why should anyone pay you good money? What do you have to offer?
I don't use the internet besides mindless surfing and know everything is fake and gay. where do I chat with my peers about faith, gym, or life? Without feds breathing down our necks.church brothers are too busy or more likely I'm more inept to organize something. Thoughts?Christ Is Risen!
>>34527299Due to my physical condition I put away myself for a few years from despondency. I'm inept at life now I'm trying some education to get out there as well. I guess I get real isolated and here I am on my poison. More prayer a certain need.
>>34527299It has been a helpful reply to reflect.God bless all!
>>34527304Getting plugged into community was the best thing for me. Might be for you too.>Whoever isolates himself seeks his own desire; he breaks out against all sound judgment.>Proverbs 18:1
>>34527316CertainlyI must struggle with faith and prayer.Must have gotten into snare of thinking.
>>34527285Have you considered metting people in real life?
I'm 19 and for the longest time I've never really devoted myself to anything in life. I've neverreally engaged wholeheartedly on the things I did have an interest in out of fear and immaturity, thinking that if I didn't have the "talent" (even though we are born knowing nothing) it wouldn't be worth it to try.I've finally learned that I was trying to do things that required more than what I knew at the time, so instead of trying to run before I could walk, I tried to walk first. But it's not working. I'm supposed to have the humble beginnings where I'm just starting at something until i get to understand it on a deeper level and etc, but when I finally stop to do it, I get terribly anxious and I can't focus. Honestly, this is very frustrating. I went my entire life without really trying to do something and when I finally do, I understand nothing. Maybe the ~4 years of constant distraction and filling my mind with junk was what did a number on me, but even now as I'm trying to at the very least do the first step towards that change, that development on the things i want to learn, I don't see a single progress. No small progress that makes me at least a little proud and confident of what I'm doing, it's as if the hours i've passed trying to do said thing had the same effect as if i were sleeping for this long.I really like computer science and I was being able to learn it at quite a steady rate around 2 years ago but today it's getting harder and harder and I haven't progressed beyond the basics at all.TL;DR I get tremendously anxious whenever I try to learn something new, both because i've distracted myself too much and because I have no confidence in learning something new at all. I expect to get things the way i did in high school where everything would come in easily, knowing full well nowadays I'm both in a different country learning things on a different languge, and that the time between my highschool "enlightened" state of mind and today , alot happened
>>34527405I hope it helps,Good luck anon! I believe in you. I'll be cheering you on
>>34527416Thanks again. It does feel better to be doing something, rather that doing nothing like beforegood luck to you too
>>34527435Thank you anon!
>>34527382For fuck's sake, you're 19! Nobody expected you to do anything but survive your teen years (a major accomplishment in itself, and one taking all your resources).
>19>I am this>I am thatyou don't know shit about fuck, just assume everything you know and your expectations are wrong, and shut the fuck up
how to give a guy a nipple orgasm
Twist it enough.
>>34524441Got to find the right guy for starters. Nipple sensitivity varies. My wife loves suck on my nipples, I really cannot feel it, it just isn't an erogenous zone for me. So, step one is find a guy with sensitive nips
>>34524441man I hate tumblr girls they read too much of their gay slop hentai (written by other women) and develop the weirdest fucking misconceptions about male sexual functioninglike even if you're a virgin, you still have to be genuinely retarded to think you could reliably give a normal guy nipple orgasms
Femanons...I've creampied trannies and crossdressers in my past. Is this okay to tell a future gf or would you guys feel weird about it?
>>34525270>An industrial nation is different from a "developing" shitholeThank you for your insight D'aquan. I'd be happy if you browns could stop presuming that everyone lives in your gigafucked niggershithole filled with brainwashed mystery meat chattel slaves.
>>34525420My name is Tyrone, you fucking nigger.
>>34524629100% straight. I’d creampie your holes.
>>34522784>. unless she's one of those 'liberated' onesA whore.
>>34527317didn't say that
Am I weird if I'm turned off by people wanting to be "used" sexually?Don't get me wrong, I love sex, I just find the whole "use me like a sex toy" thing to be so incredibly cringe.
>>34521000No, not weird.
>>34523554meh or if you got trauma. if someone sources their value that way it works.
I don't think you're weird. Compared to most, I'm kind of a prude. I don't want to entertain the whole "use me like a sex toy" thing along with "rape" kinks or BDSM. It's fucken weird
>>34521000If you don't share someone's kink and can't understand how someone could be turned on by it, that's fine - and normal. Most kinks don't make logical sense, and are hard for someone who doesn't have it to understand. But if you disapprove of someone for having a particular kink, on the whole that's not okay. The mantra is: "Your kink is not my kink, but your kink is okay". (YKINMKBYKIO).
Sweet
I got falsely accused and convicted My witness heard them threaten to accuse me falsely if I didn't stay in a relationship.The witness wasn't allowed to be called because I 'coached' them, it was a friend of 10 years I gave a list of questions to ask and the responsesCan i appeal and use the witness?
>>34526954I wonder if the defendant even has any proof
>>34526902>I got falsely accused and convicted Kek. No you didn't. Come up with better bait.
>>34526966This chick i let live with me was homeless and manipulative.She stab me once for trying to kick her out.4 years ago i left she threatened me.Now I'm convicted of stalking her with unverified messages online. From 'me'The lawyer i had didnt even use this police report, they fucked me
>>34526980Live and learn I guess
>>34526944/threadWe're a bunch of dumbasses who don't know anything, and may not even be in the same country as you. Good luck, OP.
I've been on here long enough to know 4chan is more than just /b/ or /pol/. It is just frustrating that they fail to acknowledge the wide diversity of boards on 4chan. Some of the boards on here are decent like this board for starters, plus /fit/ /mu/ & /his/. Just why do normies think all of 4chan is the same like /b/ & /pol/? And failing to acknowledge the wide diversity of boards? I'm not saying they should come on here, they should at least acknowledge 4chan is more than what they think it is, but no they would rather stick to their emotional biases towards the platform & cry on plebbit about it.
>>34526798I rarely post on /b/ I don't like the gore images/videos just thinking about them makes me feel like throwing up lol Anyways, in the 2000's people actually kept their internet activity/real life separate so there wasn't even a need for this type of thing. The fact that the board HAS TO state "don't talk about 4chan outside of 4chan" is cringe AF to me no one cares bro. This website isn't special oooh look at me I don't just post on any forum I post on 4chan omg look at me I am so based and cool woah!
>>34526878Oh so what did talking about it get you? People will have their retarded preconceptions formed by the media that they don't even trust.
>>34518402Overton window. The normies come here from Reddit and mainstream Social Media and so automatically assume anything that isn't communist is /b/ or /pol/, not realizing that there's never been a sane or normal human being who agreed with communists. Their bubble is just so ridiculously far left that Marx looks centrist.
>>34526933This is years ago, like I said I don't even remember how I brought it up Jesus man if I play League of Legends am I also not allowed to share I play it? Take a xanax man. Anyways, the guy had an earring in one ear and he was like a DJ who performs at illegal raves so a super libtard. He didn't get mad or anything he just had this weird instinctive reaction which sort of caught me off guard. Like if you went on a date and you told your date that your favorite hobby is browsing Motherless or Chaturbate or something.
>>34526959I think you should reread what you wrote
