I don't believe in idea of women attraction throught "emotional connection", i simply think only real attraction is physical and i see in my own life examples how women threat and act around people they really attracted (aka Pretty Boys/Chads). I really can't withhold that these "feelings" are just copes for beta settlers who isn't in 20% of Chads who were jumped on their sight. I really want to put my mind in that place where i would believe that emotional connection worth something but honestly can't get it because it sound like a cope.
>>32340641I won't read ESL hairy werewolf threads.
How do you deal with evil when you can't opt for either fight or flight? Picture yourself strapped to a chair, defenseless and weakened. What is left to do?
>>32339026I think anon means:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nUQ1Y8nPz0Q
>>32338996>can'tweak>Picture yourself strapped to a chair, defenseless and weakened.this is no way to picture yourself
>>32339071>It's difficult to apply this principle without surrendering too early and lending what you could've defendedare you really gonna dig your whole grave 6 feet deep because the mob guy that drove you out to the boonies says to? fuck that, if you have to surrender, make them take care of it
>>32338996I think you're being dramatic but look up ways to resist torture interrogation
Give them no satisfaction. If they're evil, they're not interested in me in a pragmatic sense.
They live perfect lives while I have spent the past 4 years contemplating death because of the things they've done.Loneliness is obviously one factor to this obsession, but I somehow doubt that good friends and hobbies would solve this issue.
>>32340716if your life is already ruined then there is no risk to killing them
>>32340716I think about killing old coworkers that mildly humiliated me all the time. Then I remind myself how pathetic that actually is.
>>32340716I won't read contextless threads.
>seeing girl >been on two dates >ive been busy so I haven’t been able to see her >send some cute flirty memes to spice things up >she seems receptive and playful >i ask her to go out clubbing since that seems like a good chance to physically escalate things with her >i suggest and club and she replied with pic related (a “supper club” kek)>i send a text in agreement because it was okay with me However, I now don’t know what to feel about this, especially since she’s been clubbing with her friends once to my knowledge. I feel like this is her way of denying physical escalation with me. Maybe she’s not that attracted to me. If a chad asked her to go out clubbing, she probably would say yes. Or maybe this text was a shit test from her. What do you think?
>>32337284I don't speak to women but yeah that looks bad anon, she needs to stop making excuses. I suggest maybe pulling back on your tone, delaying replies and ignoring her for a bit
>>32337284>OP asks girl on date>Girl says yes >OP gets upsetOP please stop being a fag and go on your damn dinner date. You have plenty of chances to physically escalate on a normal date.
>>32339491You silly bastard. Stop letting your insecurities walk all over you and forget about social norms and expected progress of dates. If she wasn't attracted to you, she wouldn't have suggested a dinner date instead, she just would have said no to clubbing. Forget about chads, the optimal trajectory of touch escalation, and all that other bullshit. Go on the dinner date, enjoy her company, take a walk after (or go for a drive if you gotta) and when you want to, kiss her. That's all you got to do. We can worry about the logistics of fucking another day.>>32340547And don't listen to this clown, you're not navigating the Cuban missile crisis. It isn't complicated. Just communicate what you want
>>32339663If a girl doesn't try to kiss you on the first date she doesn't find you attractive.
>>32337284It's over
If you're not born a chad, then life unironically seems to be a series of desperate coping mechanisms to deal with the fact that you are inferior to those men. I don't want to be another one of those poor saps who tries to make do with life when it's demonstrably worthless if you're genetically disadvantaged.
hit the gym, go on a forest walk, swim in a lake
>>32321054>>32321079>>32321088Why does any of this matter? Like why should I care?My wife gave me a fantastic blowie yesterday. Yeah I'm sure right now there is some other guy with a 10 inch dick getting the gluck gluck 9000 from some kind of Russian bombshell porn star who was grown in a lab of dick sucking super clones...but that doesn't take away my blowies. I can still enjoy totally average oral sex delivered from a totally average woman to my totally average penis. The fact that there's some hypothetical greater version of these things doesn't diminish my enjoyment of them. And guess what there's something like 30% of guys who have never gotten a blowjob in their entire lives, so does that make me a chad in comparison to them? And who's to say that my experience of oral sex isn't uniquely wonderful? Like if my wife blew some other dude he might not enjoy it as much as I do. Or if another woman went down on me maybe it would be unsatisfying. Maybe when she gives me a BJ it's actually the *best possible BJ in all possible worlds* and it only happens for me. There's no way to prove that it's not.
>>32321716Half the women in Japan are prostitutes lol
>>32321054>>32333207https://kingjames.bible/John-1https://m.youtube.com/@theghettogospelteam/
>>32321054I just became a Stacy instead and did my part to fix the problem by marrying an autistic virgin male. If like 50% if you did the same thing society would be fixed.
I NEED ADVICE MY BOSSES ARESTALKING ME ANYWHERE AND THIS SITE IS MY LAST RESORT
>>32336086What an egotistical fool you are to think your ex-boss cares about an ex-employee enough to bother wasting time even giving him any thought, much less chasing after him. Youwere forgotten the day you quit.
WELL not my boss but some people in the fcking company. are you sure about that? because so far they have been stalking every post that I HAVE
>>32336086we're stalking you here too
well fck why do you even stalk me here WTF !!!!
>>32336086Paranoid Schizophrenia
I'm moving overseas next year in February so that I can 'start a new life', it'll be the first time I moving abroad in my life (permanently anyway).The main reason is because my family thinks it will be best for me overall and I can probably help my family out when I've settled in with money.Everyone believes life will be better for me in the country due to better infrastructure and better job opportunities (I know how that sounds but my country isn't getting better any time soon).Some Context:>24 years old>Finished college>Spent most of this year looking for work with very little luck>Spent some time working online before being 'dismissed', it wasn't that good of a job but it was my first real experience so whatever>My dad offered to help me move overseas so I can get a career started in a first world country>I have a hard time taking care of myself and being responsible, so it'll be a big adjustment>My relationship with my dad is okay mostly, family drama makes things weird but I manage fine>My germaphobia and weird habits make it hard for me to be normal around people>Worried that I'll do something stupid and end up getting kicked out by my dad, then end up homeless in another country (paranoid I know but it's hard to shake off)Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>32306366>scared SHITLESSThat's actually fortunate, because foreign toilets are disgusting
>>32334609>Relax, I moved abroad early this year and was scared shitless too, even cried from nervousness the night before. You'll be fine, once the realization of new opportunities and a new life kicks in when you get there you'll be fine. Also you'll inevitably meet new people and have new experiences, it'll be awesome.Thank you, I supposed it's best to think about things as positively as possible give how much of an adjustment it will be.I think starting from scratch might be the best move for me at this stage as well, so I'll learn to socialize again as quick as possible.>Practice. Also YouTube, I learned a lot from it, cleaning my toilet for example lol. Just look for tutorials on anything you dont know and keep trying.Okay, should I just think about anything I may struggle with, search that and then go from there?Or are there some important things you think I need to look out for?
>>32334609>Dont do drugs, dont get involved with the wrong people, dont go to dangerous places at night and you'll be fine. Keep focused on your objective of changing your life and you'll do fine. Just focus and dont look backOkay great, that all seems pretty practical to me.Thank you for clearly laying it all out for me.
>>32334964You're welcome.
>>32306366https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=QT3fOMJdfbchttps://kingjames.bible/John-1https://m.youtube.com/@theghettogospelteam/
nofap is so fucking difficult holy shit, advice please
>>32339224Stop doing cuck shit like a fag
just stop being a pussy, why are so many people "addicted" to fapping and porn? You people act like it's alcoholism. Whenever I'm in a relationship, and getting regular sex, I stop all that shit. Whenever I'm not, it's occasional. Find a passion, you're sitting at home fapping all day because you have no purpose and don't run or lift.
>>32339224find a real girl you likeif that doesnt eradicate your porn and masturbation habits you are a fried human being and need castration
>>32339224just fap
>>32339253>you have no purpose and don't run or liftI lift. I have no purpose, though. How do I achieve purpose?>>32339301didn't do a damn thing. might need to consider nut shrinkage
Bullet points.I used to run and do mma every day. Those sports brought me life and kept me from depression and low self esteem, but then:>Torn tendon in leg and can't run anymore.>Dislocated shoulder 5 times. Finally got surgery but will never be normal.>Every time I want to do physical activity, my body gives out before my soul does.>Now I have no cardio either and get winded from shit that would have been no problem to me years ago.It's miserable. I hate living in this body the way it is. It ALL happened at 25 and I'm just going to be in pain for the rest of my life all because of one fall and one kick. It's just unfair man. I am 30 now. I never got back on my feet and feel a major part of who I am is missing because I can't run or box anymore. I study Japanese now. Self taught. But it doesn't fill the void. Just fills the time.
>>32340497That sucks. Maybe try focusing on the jump rope, learn to do cool tricks with it and push yourself when doing it.
>>32340468You and I are in the same boat. Made me really question God's existence, on the grounds that the one healthy thing I do in my life God takes away.There is no advice just pain
>>32340751>There is no advice just painSo it seems I am afraid. I should consider myself lucky that the fifth time my shoulder fell out, it was at work, so the surgery was workman's comp.
>>32340468ever try bpc-157 or growth hormone?
>>32340468if you have good enough healthcare and dont live in a shitty state you can get a whole hormone blood panel, talking testosterone and growth hormone levels if you are low which you might be you can get it prescribed. would probably make a noticeable difference in your strength and endurance under your circumstances.
I'm short (5 7) but I have the curse of no deep voice and I'm also generally a kinder guy. I think there is basically no hope for me to ever masculinize because of these two limiting factors, I'm always going to be kneecapped it feels like.But I'm not east asian so the whole anime protagonist k pop maxxing doesn't hit the same either.I see other short guys try to masculine max with beards but with my voice (which gets noticeably weaker as the day goes on and I basically recharge it overnight) it feels comical. If I could get jacked too maybe , but all I seem to stay is lean / twink mode but with more abs and definition.all of this is to say, I'm torn between identities and if I don't pick a lane then I am neither here nor there. Which leaves people more frustrated and confused cause they can't box you into an archetype.
Work on your voice. Take singing lessons.
>Know I have OCD>"Eh, it's just me, it's also a necessity for me to keep anxiety at bay and perform as good as I am, OCD is a side effect of a positive personal development, I'll deal with it when it becomes unbearable">Get worse and worse>"Still manageable, no big deal to take 20 minutes to put on my pants, brew coffee and leave house, it's what it is">Have one (1) encounter with girl>Get stuck on imperfect phrasing on my part>She lost interest>Blame myself (basically expecting myself to string people along rather than interest being natural, saw it as a superpower of mine to string anyone I want along and being interesting to everyone, but this only prevents genuine, long lasting connections from forming)>Stuck on one wrong word for 30 days>"Let me just see you one more time for 5 minutes, I'll fix this">She lost interest>60 days, trying to make encounter happen>90 days, upset, bitter, realize it's over, but what if?>365 days of coping and seething>Realize, on the 365th day, this was all OCD, and I have it bad.Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>32338738To top it off, what I thought was me being interesting to people through perfect articulation, was actually more crippling than good. When I "solved" the problem, I was interesting to even more people. People notice when you're off. If they find you interesting despite being off, they'll find you more interesting if you aren't off. I didn't know this.OCD is a problem, never a trait.
>>32338738go take a fuckton of lsd or shrooms or somethingwith a tripsitter in a comfy safe environment of course
How would you, hypothetically, get revenge on a psychopath boss who psychologically abused a close member of your family to the point of suffering two strokes and becoming permanently disabled for the rest of their lives? Purely hypothetically, of course, and preferably in a way that wouldn't put you in jail.
do you want to dedicate your life to the eventual torture and murder of this man? there's not much you can do really, beyond requesting counsel with a lawyer after a little research who would specialize in this shitim sorry this hypothesis may or may not have happened to you bro
i can smell the weakness of your bloodline
unless you have a ton of money and resources to burn on this endeavor or you are willing to die, go to jail or abandon your life as you know it then there's not much to be done.however, thousands of murders go unsolved every year, thousands of people go "missing" every year and if there is no body, there is no crime
God I hate coming here. I'm just gonna humor myself.I'm a lowly food service chef at a lodge. A director from another lodge came here from a faraway state for training. Long story short, I think she likes me. She's very flirty with me. caught me looking at her butt in a flirty way, blew me kisses, talks about me to other workers. Basically, what have I got to lose just asking her out for dinner? The thing i have never done anything like this. Right now I'm still in my gooning phase, and I have not that much going on for me. So I'm afraid things will go South somehow, but if I do ask her out and she accepts it, just the rep alone would have everyone looking at me differently I feel. What should I do?
>>32338444>I'm still in my gooning phase
Wtf is a lodge? Was this post made by a beaver?
>>32338491Read a book, zoomer.
>>32338444https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=QT3fOMJdfbchttps://kingjames.bible/John-1https://m.youtube.com/@theghettogospelteam/
How to prepare for a shroom trip?
>>32339207would not recommend. get some friends
>>32339422They make you view reality from a new perspective
>>32338502Write a will.
Bump
Take it super early in the morning so you're not up all night exhausted.
I know I sound like a total fag but I have a weird case of megalophobia where big things kinda freak me out and make me feel small. I live in an east coast suburb so there's no tall buildings or mountains and shit. Thing is, I'm going to mt rainier national park next week with some friends and we'll be near the base of the mountain (though i doubt we'll climb it) and I'm already nervous about seeing something that massive up close, almost feels too big to be real just looking at pictures. I was uncomfortable at letchworth state park in upstate ny and this is like 500× bigger.How do i get over this gay phobia?
start small like watching the fairly odd parents episodes featuring doug dimmadome, owner of the dimmsdale dimmadome
>>32338125lol visit a city first
>>32338125Seattlefag hereClimbing Mt. Rainier is something you actually have to seriously prepare and train for, you won't be summiting or even climbing to base camp. If I were you I'd spend some time bombing around Seattle and getting used to seeing Mt. Rainier in the background. That way you can "warm up" by looking at the buildings and the space needle and shit. On clear days you can see Rainier to the south from the city and it's gorgeous. I don't particularly like living here and plan to move back east in a few years but it is pretty.That being said your friends are kind of dicks for taking you this time of year. The best time to visit is like July-September. Mt. Rainier National Park is great, it's a beautiful place to hike during the summer. There are tons of little glacially-formed lakes to swimming, wild berries, and hiking sloots in skimpy clothes. This time of year it's just gonna be wet and cold and miserable.
>>32338125https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=QT3fOMJdfbchttps://kingjames.bible/John-1https://m.youtube.com/@theghettogospelteam/
