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why do women not respond on dating apps after you match with them or they send a few messages back and then completely stop?
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>>31081116
Saying black lives matter implies blacks are somehow being discriminated against which they obviously aren't.
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>>31080810
How where the messages? Did you read her profile? Did you say something interesting or just "hi"
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>>31080810
I'm gonna be straight up with you bro, you use too many words.

Limit yourself to single sentence responses and only respond immediately once every 3 or so messages. Women are retarded and can be easily tricked into assuming you're more sexually attractive than you are. A woman will lose all respect and sexual attraction to you the nano-second she thinks you're in a lower social class than her. Intermittent reinforcement is key.
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>>31080835
sheeesh no cap fr fr
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>>31081389
What do you write on the first message?

This my last chance
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>>31080975
no i think you're just really boring and lame and that's why nobody likes you dude lol, sorry that you suck so much
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>>31080914
That guy has terrible posture.
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>>31080675
A line.

Go to a line for an event, market or bank.

Go solve some stuff in person and wait in a wating room.

Pick up conversation with the people next you, comment about how it's taking a while or how fast it's going, look bothered but approachable.

There, try that a report back to us.

Don't go there with the goal of getting a girls number or date, just go there to pratice, to get used to people and their reactions.

That's a good place to start, use that to improve your social skills and you will see everyone is dying to talk and starved for socialization and interaction, just like you.
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>>31081360
Tahts good advice because most of the time everypne in a line/waiting room is botheres from being there and wish things were faster so yiu start with a common ground feeling, and it's to go from there to thebstuff you wanted to be doing.
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>>31080975
Give me 5 exemples of "winners" I feel no one is trully happy most of the time.

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My mom made friends with this south korean woman at work who visited us a few times and she invited my mom and me to visit her for dinner and she mentioned that she had a pool with a slide. I said I didn't want to go and my mom forced me to go with her. After dinner, my mom told me to go play outside with her two daughters in the pool while they talked and I told her that I didn't have my swim shorts. My mom then made me strip naked and sent me out into the back garden with the two girls in swimsuits. The girls' mother didn't have a problem with this for some reason. How do I cope?

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ask the same sex anything
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>>31080297
M
yes
I get hard when i think about sex with women when they are near me. I get hard when I say something sweet to a woman and she looks me in the eye and smiles. I get hard when I see ass or titties. Honestly I get hard when women say hi back to me walking in the park
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>>31079894
not everyone comes out anon
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>>31080297
I mean, getting hard right there and then when interacting with them is not normal (unless you are a horny kid I guess) but if you can't get horny for her memory or from a fantasy that includes them... I dunno, apparently some guys only get hard when it's sexy time.
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>>31080201
Thats clearly a lie. Guys always like homoerotic things.

And I have been a sailor and I know when a bunch guys are in the sea fkr a long time with no women we do stuff. Not rape stuff necessarily but we seek intimacy just as any other human and sometimes a guy can be just as good on cold lonely night than a girl.

No gay stuff just kindness stuff.
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>>31080514
I sometimes get erections from just talking to girls taller than me. Though, this is almost certainly residual from the incessant teasing my older sister's best friend did about being taller than me when I was 12-14.

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There's a guy who I'm interested in who is widowed but bisexual. He shows a great deal of interest in me, but as a gay man I've never dated a bisexual man before, let alone a widow. I don't know if I could ever be what she was to him. Any advice?
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>>31081335
Yeah, bend over, spread your ass cheeks and let him fuck you like the little bitch that you are. You're acting like a woman with your bullshit level of insecurity.

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>go to club
>see girl eyeing me
>approach her
>we dance and drink and end up going back to her hotel room
>we get into bed
>she tells me I can take my clothes off (in a non-sexual way imo)
>I do
>we cuddle and go to sleep
>she ghosts me the next day


Was the sex supposed to happen then? I didn’t get any indicators she wanted to fuck. We didn’t even kiss much. we made out for a bit at the club but she pulled away after a few seconds each time.
We were both drunk and very tired when we got to her hotel. It didn’t seem like she wanted to fuck.

I wanted to meet her then next day and have sex then but like I said she ghosted.
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>>31069249
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>>31069249
You have to deal with it , you have to accept that she use you exactly like a tampax
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>>31081144
I never got anywhere close to her naked pussy though?
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I am a blonde man who wants to be more intimidating. I work out, but don’t have big enough muscles to automatically be scary. Any tips?
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I think blondes that looks ridiculously clean can be pretty scary in an uncanny way, otherwise vikingmode.
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>>31080836
I just feel i am less intimidating because i am blonde and want more respect
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>>31080853
What a bizzarre thing to be insecure about. Dye your hair if you don’t like it.
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>>31080858
Not insecure, just don’t want to be thought of as weak
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>>31080876
If you think having blonde hair makes you oook weak then you are definitely insecure you retard. Nobody associates hair color with strength or weakness.

Stuff about relationships falling apart, or missing past relationships. How over is it?
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>>31080324
I think this is a very clear situation where the two of you weren't sexually compatible on some level.
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>>31079960
Add songs about cheating to your playlist.
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OP here. this song was added today. Is it even possible to like this song if it's not what you think?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uNvy-FeeXPU

> I’d Have to Think About It
>Song by Leith Ross
I know that I will love again
I'll meet someone and we'll make amends
I'm sure she'll be a gentleman
And I will be content
And all that I will be fulfilled
See the world and pay my bills
Have a drink and eat my fill
Of dinners and free will
But if you come to me

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>>31081330
She might be a bit gay. Ask for a threesome
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>>31079960
Have you asked her? Did you strike up a conversation with this bitch and actually ask her? If you haven't, maybe start there rather than asking us spergs on 4chan.

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How does a regular 5/10 guy rizz women who are 8/10 or higher?
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>>31080770
>>31080782
This is definitely an AI lmao
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>>31072045
>>31072167
>you don't
This but there is still a way. Pic related.

>>31072215
Overkill, you don't need all that.
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>>31081238
And a followup to that advice, with one example of a cripplingly overspecialized life that bangs WAY above its weight, the traveling vagabond, the sacrifices it demands, and what it means when you stop.
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>>31072045
blud needa just use that w rizz on shawty no cap buzzin fr rizz up her gyatt type shi u feel me
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>>31075790
>not dating the single mom so you can get to her 16yo daughter

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What's the actuall difference between a NEET and a Trust Fund Baby?

Seems like people hate the first but don't mind/love the second.
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>>31079309
>It is also money given to the trust fund baby willingly,
Really depends. Sometimes the parents just do because they have to but load their lazy, entitled and unproductive son.
They donit because having him around being annoying and unassisted would make then look bad, same with NEET parents I think.
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>>31079212
Hot guys. Do they fuck? Who fucks who?
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>>31079309
I've known plenty of trust fund babies and every single one was a waste of resources. Cocaine addicts every single one of them.

At least most NEETs aren't on hardcore drugs, so that immediately makes them a step up. They are also often decent people just with social anxiety. I have never met a trust fund baby who wasn't Sexy Vegan writ small.
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>>31079212
only difference is status
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>>31079212
fundie..

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I want to start self-improvement but with the sole goal of attracting women - I don't care about meditation, cold showers and shit like that, I just wanna focus on the things that will get me pussy.
What should I focus on, besides physical fitness?
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>>31080742
Prostitution
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>>31080742
to start off, developing an actual personality might do you some good in terms of attracting women, and not the boring stoic loser type. rather, the charming, fun kind. you know, good, likeable people. i heard that might work
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>>31080742
What you shouldn't do is listen to gurus online. Or if you do google their names and see if they're had long lasting stable relationships

I'm in college rn (20M) and have been on books and anime most of my life. I've never 'concentrated' on life and have passed it nonchalantly for the most of it. Idk if u would call this asking for a 'glow-up' guide, but please give me your valuable knowledge on how to live my life anons.
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One thing that has really helped me live a fuller life is just going outside and observing the beauty of the world. Go on a trail or to a park or something
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>>31080788
do u ask 4chan which way is the right way to flip the roll of toilet paper or what to wear or somehting
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>>31080788
There are 3 big parts of life: health, wealth, relationships.

Generally you will find it fulfilling to put time and effort into maxing out these areas. Be sure to focus on quality, not just quantity. For example, 1 good wife will be far better for your life than 30 mediocre hookups, 1 job that treats you right will be more bearable than a job that pays 2x as much but has an asshole boss. Etc.

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> Nitrogen tank, 50 litres
> Scuba mask

Would it work?

I'm overall fine.

I have a good job and career andnmoney but I reallynREALLY like porn and sex and I wanted someone tontalk about and watch gay porn with me... In a non sexual way.

It could be angirl or a guy no homo.

How and where can I find someone who would be okay with that.
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>>31081140
Feeling sad*

LOL
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>>31081140
Grindr probably. Look in the degenerate places, and try find someone likeminded
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>>31081148
People there want to fuck... I don't want to fuck i want to see movies kf naked people talk about their bodies, looks and bad acting.
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>>31081154
Yeah, I said go there and try find likeminded people, a friend. There is no place you can go to find non homosexual homosexuals. Best bet is to go to the homosexual place and find someone who wants to try something else
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>>31081176
Isn't there any site I can go? Dating apps are too like exposed. I don't want my photos circulating or people being rude to me.

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29yo m, would I look cool in a gumball t-shit?

Also how much would you pay to get a printable t-shirt.
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>>31080940
fucking embarassing dude, why even ask this?
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>>31080940
wear it do it wear it with shorts though t shirts and pants just dont look right also dont be fat
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Wear it with neon short shorts and suspenders.


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