Good jobs for an introvert?And please don't say>Just get out of your shell
>>33926930Just say no gilfs please
>>33928738You're confusing introverts with antisocial people
>>33920372Assassin. Best if you are INTP because it will force you to finish things.
>>33929156Love me some GILF ass ngl
>>33928738This is not true. Introverts are not incapable of social interaction, they prefer less stimulating environments. Overstimulating environments are draining but many introverts can handle them. If you cannot at all, you are not just an introvert you are also socially retarded and probably need some form of therapy.
I want to become a more interesting person because my only hobbies right now are the gym, self-improvement and video games (not even real hobbies). The only real hobby I have is reading, and I'm pretty sure it has the opposite effect I want.I'm also still a khhv at 19, so preferably something that would also make me more attractive to women.
>>33930741Women don't give a fuck about hobbies.
>>33931531Yes, the game is rigged and like 75% face. The other 25% can make a difference for the right girl though.
>>33930741>The only real hobby I have is reading, and I'm pretty sure it has the opposite effect I want.no it doesn't but you'll get bookish girls from it, join a bookclub or smth.>preferably something that would also make me more attractive to women.1. Anything that you can take pictures while doing and later be like "I took this one while I was over at xyz" or have things at your house.2. Join clubs/interest groups related to your hobby and go on meetups/trips with them3. Hobbies where you can tag along someone with you work well too.If you get into motorbikes you can take a girl on a bike ride. If you get into kayaking you can invite a girl to kayak with you. Snowboarding/skiing/backpacking/surfing/horse riding, all viable but each one will produce different kind of girls.You can get even get girl who likes that you play warhammer and are good at painting miniatures. Having anything you're passionate about and have stuff to easily show for it will work. Generally girls like guys who are unashamedly passionate about something while still being passionate about them.
>>33930741>doing something because it will make you more attractive. try for a while, get demotivated because no intrinsic fun/pleasure, quitdoomed from the start>doing something because you enjoy it, eventually get really good at it, achieving some sort of success, getting reconnaissance from your peers as a resultthis is the way
>>33930875How do you actually capitalize on those interests? I'm a decent singer and practice for fun but outside of karaoke bars it's not exactly something that ever comes up in conversation.
My coworkers are trying to unionize. I think my pay and benefits are fine and don’t think it would be worthwhile to add a new bureaucracy which funnel money to supporting liberal faggotry for a nominal pay raise. Have you been in union environments and think it was worth it or is there a risk of retaliation if I don’t support them?
>>33932359its like signing a prenup, yes you want to do it even if things are good now
>>33932359>a new bureaucracy which funnel money to supporting liberal faggotryYour union is FAR more likely to funnel money to the Mafia.
>>33932359Never been in one but a lot of my family have and I have seen good and bad.Good: protection from dangerous situations and abuse from greedy owners.Bad: Union officials line their own pockets. Being in cahoots with owners rather than having rank and file's best interests. Small unions that address local issues get absorbed into nationwide unions and get forgotten about.When times are good, you don't need a union. When times are bad, that's when you do.
>>33932359>don’t think it would be worthwhile to add a new bureaucracy which funnel money to supporting liberal faggotry for a nominal pay raiseyou are well and truly wagecuck if you can't support things that are literally making you more money than otherwise
>>33932359Are your coworkers useless slobs? If yes, no union.Is your employer taking advantage of you and your coworkers? Raises that don't match/exceed inflation for example. If yes, unionize.If both, why the fuck do you stay, run.
How do you know if you're being a nuisance or just showing interest? It feels kind of sad having to be always the proactive subject of a two individuals only group. I'm talking about meeting up with a woman for a second or third date.
>>33930055That's the fun part, you don't know. Just ask her out again?
>>33930055We cannot really know anything
Where do you find non normie girls irl?
>>33927733>"Im lesbian, sorry"KekWell, yknow anon, I respect your hopepill, and I wish you the best of luck. I hope you get a 10/10, God bless you you beautiful bastard
>>33927711animal crossing + life is strange are not vidya
>>33923504Bumping this thread. I also seek a non-normie woman. So tired of the type that just goes to the gym, parties, and netflix. OH, BUT LOOK AT MY PIERCINGS AND TATTOOOOS!!!
>>33923573Where are you from, because I live in one of those countries where it feels like it's super fucking weird to talk to strangers. Then again maybe that's why I should give it a shot someday since it could be seen as more flattering that I give them attention.Though I think grocery store might just be the wrong place. When I go shopping I'm usually mildly stressed out and want to be left the fuck alone and I'm assuming it's the same for other people>>33926355That's what makes me so upset man. The chance of me meeting the types of girls I'd be comfortable with feels so astronomically low because both me and most of them stay at home for most of the day.>>33927447Dunno what to tell you man. I know plenty of women who don't fit that description. (unfortunately for me they're just all taken or not compatible with me)
bumping this thread
I need help with this fucking shit, I'm worried about being in hell or a simulation
Yeah, I’m strugglink with that too. Have you ever felt that you do your life without any control? Like a sims? Or have you ever felt like you will respawn after killing yourself? Do you have problem with time recognition?I’ve read that it occures after something traumatical. Maby that will lead you. I think I know what couses my OCD. It helps to understand it but I’m not feeling much better DESU. I think that we need to see professionalI’m alao running a small company and OCD makes it SO FUCKING HARD to get thru every day
>>33933983wtf this is literally me, finally found a name for this crap. I also got agoraphobia because of this.
Hello anons, I turn to you because I am going insane.I love my gf. She is smart and a genuinely independent and critical thinker, doesn't use any social media, doesn't care about any pop culture, and doesn't give a shit about gossip. These are traits that I've rarely found in people as a whole much less attractive women my age, so I feel very lucky. Probably does not come as a surprise that she is autistic. We're also well aligned on lifestyle preferences - both want kids, similar level of expenses, similar preferred activities, it's obviously not 100% identical but we match well enough. The only thing that doesn't match is that she does not seem to desire sex. At all. I know the usual cuck posters will emerge from the woodwork now and tell me she is fucking Chad behind my back but if you believe anything of what I am saying, believe this part. She had no partners before me, does not masturbate, does not consume porn or smut of any kind, does not go out partying, she doesn't even notice if people are attractive. I genuinely believe that if it were up to her sex would be for reproduction only.And I am going insane trying to deal with it. My options are either keep at this and kill myself before 30, break up with her and lose what I otherwise view as a one of a kind person so I can sleep with some basic whores, or cheat, which I would like to think I'm above. What the actual fuck do I do? I'm open to anything here, I just something from real people and not the therapyspeak-trained LLMs that have infested every other platform in existence.
Honestly either get a mistress or sidechick; or discuss it with her that this lack of sex is driving you nuts.The best way to diacuss it is to say "listen, i love you a lot, blablabla, but this lack of sex is making me resent you and this relationship. I don't want that. What can i do to make it easier for you to be more sexually active." This helps make it a negotiation. If the answer is "nothing", then no matter what, it is not going anywhere. Either get a mistress or break up.
>>33931242Yes. Your partner deserves the ability to make the deicision of whether they want to be with you when you've cheated on them.
>>33930913>You really don't think there is a middle ground between being a slut and aspiring to be the next Virgin Mary? Be seriousThere is. It's stuck in women that aren't your gf
>>33930645Are you going to have kids at this rate? Are you okay having almost no sex?Either you open a conversation about downgrading this relationshio to a friendship, about you getting to have a FWB / concubine, or it's 99.999999% over.
>>33931111 (checked)>>33932026>>33932223 (almost checked)How does one bring this up though? I imagine women are taught from day 1 that if your man is asking you this its time to move on
I'm turning 20 today. Do you have any advice for me? I'm male.
>>33933283lmao my coat of arms is almost the same
>>33932880Don't smoke too much flower pot. It makes you lazy and content. Once in a while is fine, but do not make it a habit. I'm speaking from experience
>>33932863Turn 20 and just fuck everything. Don't care about shit. Life is short so do whatever the you want to anon. Fuck society, fuck social norms, fuck everyone, fuck your career. Be selfish, lazy, arrogant That's best advice
>>33932863Do what you want
>>33932863https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_z-1fTlSDF0&list=RD_z-1fTlSDF0&start_radio=1
how do i fix this?
>>33927637Jerk off to feet some more to clear your mind, then you'll come up with a plan
>>33930498Do you get to have sex visits?
>>33927637I will fall for the bait and say men shouldn't exist
>>33927637Yo. Thas. Crazy. Fr
My gf with several extra limbs caught be masturbating to amputee porn, how do I fix this?
>be me>log into TikTok on my phone day>randomly get shitty notice about ToS violation>can't use account anymore unless I make a new one but new throwaway email accounts get instabanned>sadgeAre device-level bans a thing and any way to bypass them? Utter bullshit cos barely commented or interacted, just doomscrolled Boptok
>>33930567You shouldn't even be using social media in the first place Anon ,especially TikTok. It is just a timesink.
TikTok gives China access to your email, texts, and internet usage. Get rid of it.
>>33930567Tik tok is Chineese bullshit. Full of sensitive retards who cry over normal opinion. They put you on some watchlist or whever this shit is calledSay one joke out of context? ReportedNext thing you know, police at door cause they took meme seriously. Anon just nuke the app off your phone and problem is solved
1. You're lying.2. Kill yourself under age fag.
Just pls odnt use tiktok
I just learned that if you're homeless and seeking housing, there is a mental and/or risk vulnerability assessment that they have you do at some point in order to determine your eligibility for housing.Do people lie on those things to get housing?I've taken a couple of these in the recent times, and at the end, the interviewer just looked at me like as if I fucked it up, but they don't say anything cause I'm not supposed to know I fucked it up.I told them that I don't do drugs, I'm not suicidal, I don't have mental issues, I haven't been abused, I don't have health issues or disabilities.My drug tests came back negative for everything.None of that shit.I fucked it up, haven't I? I should have lied my ass off, right?
>>33931845The fact is if some given place is your ancestral homeland, you deserve a modest, private shelter in it without being made to pay rent or taxes.Premade and paid for in some reasonable way or built by yourself, ultimately those are the same thing.Having to work for money for years or even decades for the gamble that you might some day accumulate 150+k or a huge loan is NOT reasonable.I got in (in the EU) without lying my ass off but I wouldn't say the way I did it was optimal, I have good hope that you'll find a better way.
>>33931845Yes, the homeless shelters are full of violent psychotic schizophrenics
>>33931845>>33932712Oh I have one piece of advice, you need to get into some kind of temporary housing program and do well on it and that escalates to increasingly permanent housing.>>33932737Thanks for reminding me, I got picked out of the homeless shelter to go to another shelter that was materially better but communally worse (it was a youths shelter and the atmosphere was terrible, despite there being relatively little kerfuffles), from there I got actual housing.
>>33931845FAR more important than any personality assessment is a need assessment. Face it - if you are an essentially able-bodied and able-brained single man, you are going to be way down the list behind families, seniors and disabled people.
>>33931845Don’t jump through their hoops. Have some dignity.
How do I cure this autism? I never text or ask people to come to things with me because I hate texting and always assume they have something better going on or I'm annoying them. There's tons of times I'll think of someone and feel like hanging out or talking for no other reason than I like them and wanna be around them, but unless I have a really good practical reason for interacting, I won't. Growing up I was always told>Don't bother me unless it's importantThis has lead to a lot of>You never reach out>I thought you didn't like me>You only talk to me when you need somethingHow do I stop being like this?
I had some sort of irritation in my armpit, so I stopped using deodorant and started applying tallow moisturiser to my armpits. The irritation is gone, but I've noticed that my armpits don't ever smell bad, even if I go to the gym. What's the deal with that?
Bump
>>33931190It’s the Jews. It is not like it is some esoteric complex mystery.
I stopped using deodorant over a year ago and I smell much better now. I shower frequently and wash thoroughly. My wife used to complain if I went a few days without applying deodorant, now she doesn't. I'm pretty sure deodorant fucks up your skin biome and that's why you smell bad, seems like a scam. Maybe I get a little musky in the summer but who cares, I'm not trying to get bitches anyway.
>me>not a virgin>female seething at something I said>calls me an incelDo they even know what incel means?
It's so strange how all this 4chan lingo bled into real life and now every turbonormie uses words like "incel" and "based" and (kind of) knows what they mean.
>>33933362Most modern mainstream meme culture started on edgy sites and by edgy people. Like the whole “sigma” stuff that got popularised a few years back that was taken from an autistic dating chart made by Vox Day almost two decades ago.
>>33929864Yes, because "incel" doesn't mean virginIt means involuntary celibate>>33930208>>33931003>>33931035Newfags like this don't realize that we have term for being a hopeless virgin: KHHVKissless Hugless Hand hold-less Virgin >>33933350 is absolutely right. If you lose your virginity at 18 and never have sex again even if you're trying to pursue women, guess what, that makes you an INCEL
>>33929864>not a virginBased women owner.
>>33929864Its funny because they love to fuck the ones that piss them off
No one wants to see me because I'm male. Have been doing this since 2019.I have had 3 women confess they found my therapy creepy because it came off as "flirtatious" which is not even true Should I just quit? So far it's going horribly .
>>33933116Just a bad LARP, move along
>>33933369Conflicted since so many details point to bad larp but also know therapists that were like this, and worse than this, and acted worse than this online. Why are they so fucked.
>>33930872>my therapykek no wonder nobody wants spend time with you, Stop whinning and drop it. Therapy is for losers who likes to waste their money on bullshit anyway, and this proves it. Save your money and quit it, deal with life yourself no therapist will help you
Anon just apply to union apprenticeships, like electrician, heavy equipment operator etc and once you get it slowly cut back on your clients just enough to make it financially.
>>33930872If you are 40 or so, I imagine you could get older, lonely female clients who would pay you just to have an emotional attachment to a man.Or go full MRA specialize in men's issues. I have seen a couple YouTube channels like this.
