I want to be clear that I don't just hate specifically Florida. And really, it's a nice enough place. What I hate about Florida is common across most of the places I've seen. That said. I'm a small town super sperg. I am allergic to driving anywhere but an empty mountain road. Not just allergic to driving, I am also too easily overwhelmed by social anything and too poor to live in a major city that doesn't rely on driving. I become genuinely emotionally unstable, and easily lash out when I live in these kinds of large unisolated places. That's if I don't dose myself with weed or other drugs I want to keep away from. These places are so stressful for me to live in that I'm just constantly on edge. I can actively feel myself becoming hateful and bitter and it's not what I want to be like. I just don't have much of a choice unfortunately just because isolated places don't have much in the way of work.My real question here is. How do I get out as fast as possible realistically? Living in a suburb is just as stressful if it's anywhere near a major city or, is some kind of exurb. The best Ideas I can come up with is finding some kind of work that I can do remotely, saving, and then buying a incredibly cheap house in the middle of the post unwanted location I can. Like, some town in the panhandle of Oklahoma, Texas, New Mexico, Nevada, etc.
I hate Miami. You should be grateful. Just ask around for work.
>>33778630I completely forgot to mention that I already live in a Florida suburb across the river from Ft. Myers and don't have the means to escape just yet.
>>33778617>My real question here is. How do I get out as fast as possible realistically? Living in a suburb is just as stressful if it's anywhere near a major city or, is some kind of exurb. The best Ideas I can come up with is finding some kind of work that I can do remotely, saving, and then buying a incredibly cheap house in the middle of the post unwanted location I can. Like, some town in the panhandle of Oklahoma, Texas, New Mexico, Nevada, etc.Some of this could work. Could you live in a van or RV? Lots of videos about how to do that. You can get starlink for internet if you have a remote job. When you have money you could buy land for cheaper than a house and build what you can at your pace.
>>33778729100% I could live in an RV. I'd prefer not too but it's an option. I say "realistically" because in some of these places there are still 100k, even 90k houses that are in need of a buyer, and have a low property tax county/town and seem to be in legitimately good condition. The location is the issue. I'm frugal, good at saving so, I can have a massive down payment or even pay cash if I can stick it out long enough with the fairly high paying job I have now.
> found porn at a young age (middle school)> it started with soft core straight porn stuff like boobs> ends up with sissy porn, cock porn, bbc cuckolding, etc. I have quit every addiction in my life but not this one. With every girlfriend I have ever had I would secretly watch porn like this. I genuinely feel disgusted but have gone back over and over again. Is it just the porn addiction or am I bisexual or what exactly? Maybe both? As far as I know I only was attracted to women my whole life. I just want to be normal and be a good partner to my soon to be wife.
>>33778595you probably jack off to chinese cartoons of "9000 year old vampires" or some other weird shitNo one under the age of like 37 knows what normal pornography is/was. Even the most-viewed front page stuff is filled with like "choke me daddy" shit that used to be hidden behind the curtained-off backroom area of a porn store.
>>33778613>t.
>>33778613>erm you probably like something i perceive as worselol ok retard
>>33778529I am the op and I’m a millennial, pretty much just made it in time to have access to high speed internet porn on those sites. I assume being Gen Z was even worse exposure wise.> have a look at /b/ or /gif/ and it's like 60-80% gay tranny racial cuck sissy shit. Even if you're not naturally sexually confused, a kid has no chance being exposed to all that shit at that impressionable age.Some people think it’s a psyop, but what’s for certain to me is it’s all very strong and fringe, akin to a fent market of porn.>>33778516I saw my parents and it helped a lot to avoid the feelings today. I’m a recluse so I can confirm the correlation between being alone (outside of my gf) and being an addict.
>>33778699>I am the op and I’m a millennial, pretty much just made it in time to have access to high speed internet porn on those sitesNah by the time those sites dropped and you also had high speed internet it was basically over - and shortly after there's ipads and tablets and smartphone you can now jack off to anywhere in the house or public bathroom or whatever instead of jacking off to single jpegs and 30 second clips at the giant desktop computer in the living room when no one was home or they were asleep.Also all the hub sites made it so everyone's fetishes are all on display for everyone else to see. Before pornhub and all those other sites, pornography on the internet was pretty much segregated. If you wanted porn from a specific porn actress you went on her website specifically or the website of the casting agency or network she was a part of.There was no risk of seeing japanese mommy milkies on the one goth chick's website, there wasn't any black trans men farting on the one softcore lesbian's website.Websites were part of other networks where you could click out to another porn actress's site who was in the same genre or some other agency that dealt with the same content - and you could technically play a game of 6 degrees of weird fetish spearation, but really there was no way to be curious about directly clicking on a stepmom cuck squirting video like you would now since it's just sitting there on the front page of one website along with everything else.
>make profile on tinder>look at the profiles of local women>hobbies: clubs, wine, partying, travel, netflix>pictures: slutty clothingThey can't all be like this, right? Where can I find actual, real people? I'm not into these types.
>>33765402>Meetups (meetup.com) hobbies (singing/acting/dancing/ssports groups)the only women that go to these events are grandmas
>>33765418LOL find a better church, there's a zillion its not hard to find one.
>>33772521>Find some evening language classes ASAPI found one! It starts in February. That's about when I'll get enough money to be able to afford it too haha. So yeah I appreciate your advice man. You're absolutely correct. > Why do you think she'd make a good gf if you barely know her? Maybe she's a total bitch.I've been meeting a lot of people, I think since March I met.. Like 500 new people. Personally. Like spoken to, not just seen in passing. So I have a good hunch about her. But I agree with you. I'm going to see her this Friday, and she'll hopefully join us for drinks this time. I'll try to catch her and talk to her some more. Then offer her to hang out. I'm going to phrase it like: I love your energy Georgie, do you want to go out for a drink or a walk? And yeah. See what she respondsAlso I'm not at a healthy weight yet, I'm half way there, so I'm starting to look normal, so yeah. Getting laid don't work for me at the moment
>>33765348women don't use tinder for dating, they use tinder to hook up with guys that are better looking than them (because they can't keep them around). You have to meet them irl somehow.
>>33765348Dude, are you me? Honestly seems like the few options found there are >Skinny slut>Skinny libtard>Fatass libtard>Fatass turbo-religiousBut they ALL love traveling and concerts and netflix. Tats and smoking/drugs are unfortunately more common than not. It's a nonstop stream of overgrown children.
Hey, guise. How many inches, minimum, do you need in order to qualify as being hung? More than six, right?
>>33778147Hung literally just means it's long enough when soft to dangle. It's like 8 minimum
>>33778230>It's like 8 minimumSo like hard or soft?
>>33778147No idea what the definition is.Hard I'm like this. Also totally retarded on how to use it
>>33778147I won't read dick threads, especially where it is obvious that OP is the opposite of what he is talking about. Come back when you need advice.
>>337781476" is average in an age where women lose their virginity at 13-14 on average and have double digit lay count by the age of 18. Remember, only the slongs that are seeing action, counts.
I enjoy getting drunk and drink alot of cider/lager but one thing I've never been able to do is drink liquor straight without gagging/throwing up. It doesnt matter whather its whiskey, vodka, rum or anything, they all taste and smell exactly the same to me. The taste and the smell is just so foul. Whenever I attempt to drink it my mouth fills with saliva like when youre about to throw up. The only way i can get close to doing it is if i have a chaser immediately after. I would like to be able to have a neat whiskey and a cigarette like my forefathers before me.
>>33778223Just like your picture, put a lit cigarette out on your lips while smoking a cigar. After that some straight liquor won't seem so bad.
>>33778223A lot of people have that problem. The more I drank, the easier it got both short and long term. Try taking smaller drinks when you drink straight liquor, there's no prize or commendation for drinking more at once.
>>33778223Chase it with pickle juice. Not even joking, picklebacks are legit.
So I have some roommates, we aren't friends but we also aren't on bad terms. They did indirectly tell me to stop some stuff in the GC without naming me directly. (It was my fault) but it was handled in a polite manner.But lately, I overheard them talking in a loud manner how they hate having the door open, we have a house dog that would somethings enter our rooms if the door was open. I sometimes leave the door open but so do they. It wasn't the full conv but it was the gist.And then I heard music play repeatedly from behind one of their rooms. I listen to music somethings, but I try to keep it a minor volume. The reason I think it might be directed at me is because somethings I play a certain part of the song over and over, and that was what they were doing. But they could have an on TikTok or some shit idk.I had it with immature games but I don't want to confront them then realize it was coincidence then look like an ass.
>>33777607Yes. Get your own place. Who the fuck has roommates you beta cuck. Live with your girlfriend or alone or start a family.picrel Mogged
>>33777607I'd just ignore it, people who don't openly speak up if they dislike something are the definition of actual "beta cucks" and don't deserve any attention whatsoever.And don't listen to people who still live in mommys basement (>>33777878)
>>33777607Just ignore it, but also try to be respectful in the future. You don't want them to keep their anger building up over time until they burst one day.
>>33778577>people who still live in mommys basementI live above ground sir. check out r/badroommates it's endless posts like this. People need to just live alone once they reach the point where they think there are secret messages being transmitted thru the walls or a single unclean dish gives them a stroke.
I started uni and I don't want to be a lazy fuck who just studies and works. I wanna improoove, but I'm having a hard time doing things in my off time. I've never been one to schedule things in my day if I work out it's whenever I'm free/wanting to, or if I do hobbies, it's just when ever I'm done with HW which is also on a whim , but that lack of structure is making it hard to make progress on things. What kinda things have worked for you guys on being productive? The three constants are work, school, and working out, but the only thing "scheduled" is classes and work, so improvement feels doable, but nothing seems to stick.
>>33777910Intelligent people have their lifes planned to a T months/years in advance. Feel free to watch youtube vlogs of people studying medicine in prestigious universities. You'll see how they have a schedule they stick to. If you don't already have a schedule, then it means you don't have a real purpose in life and that you're closer to an animal than to a cogent human being.
>>33777937im open to the idea but i wouldn't say posting takes that much of my time anymore since starting uni and work
>>33777910>fell for the uni memeEnjoy 100k life debt with no job.>can't scheduleNigger why the fuck are you at college?
>>33777970You'd be surprised the retards they let into unis, myself included. Passing isn't exactly hard these days, course load short of med school is a joke lmao, so I do have a lot of free time, I'm working with
>>33777910Use Outlook or something and just cut your days into sections. >When do you work?>When do you have classes?With those blocks filled, the rest of the day/night is yours to do with what you want. If you can finish homework right after class, do it so the lesson is still fresh in your mind. And if you have a question, you can promptly email or visit the professor. After work, school, and homework, schedule gym times around a reasonable sleep schedule and use the off-gym days for hobbies. For the time you have between the cracks, do something you can easily pick up and put down like reading a book or doing a logic/word puzzle.
I have a very uncomfortable problem I think with human sexuality. I have come to fear to it / find it troublesome I guess. I realize its healthy to have it but as a heterosexual male, I definitely don't feel great about it I guess. I think this may stem from the fact that I have never seen anyone who I know to be sexually active actually have a healthy sexual relationship? All my friends that had sex earlier in life, had kids and in turn had issues come up. Either baby mama drama or other problems etc. So to me, sex = imminent ruin of your life. However, I realize that without sex, the human race wouldn't exist. I wouldn't exist etc. I want humans to exist and I want to exist obviously. I am not sure what caused me to even feel this way. Some people seem so fine with their sexuality and being a sexual being etc. But its never felt great to me. It feels like I have to feed a lizard in my mind otherwise it will make me behave in increasingly weirder ways. What can I do to improve my own relationship with standard human sexuality? I really want to know how some people end up with a positive outlook on sex whereas mine is all fucked up? The only semi-sex related trauma I can remember is being in early high school and the sex ed teacher showed us super advanced cases of STDs which freaked me out badly but thats it. Even more weird is that I am unfortunately also a porno abuser but I wouldn't say I am a rampant coomer. I definitely use porn and not masturbate a lot of the times because its soothing to me to look at naked women.
so bbasically my bf dumped me for being too needy and dependent on him so ive gotten into hooking up (cus he was too limpdicked during the relationship), but toxic hookups. traumabonding and masochism. and my emotions are swirly and my body has bruises (diff guys) and idk why but it feels like what i deserve after being dumped, but also it turns me on so much to b abused.. i want to ask my therapist to talk about this but is that weird? this is my 2nd appointment. i also got raped since the breakup too (got too drunk and got taken advantage of after clubbing like a retard). i just keep putting myself in toxic abusive dangerous situations. i feel like a stupid stray dog..any advice? :(
>>33778214this makes the most sense desu, i hate myself for being needy and dependent because it ruined things between him and i, even tho i wish he had a regular sexdrive or maybe he just wasnt horny for me? idk but my self esteem guttered cus of the relationship.ALSO IM NOT HAVING SEX i just meet kiss cuddle and get beat-up, sex is for relationships only even tho these guys rlly want it badly but no one wants to commit to me cus im too strange and clingy ,_,
>>33778306i drew it and thx i will<3
>>33778329>even tho i wish he had a regular sexdrive or maybe he just wasnt horny for me?The fact that you have to ask this at all suggests you didn't talk to him about the issue. Open and honest communication is necessary in a relationship, especially over things that affect you this deeply. Based on how you're describing it, it sounds like you became particularly clingy and needy in major part because of the sexual mismatch, which snowballed into codependency because you were worried he didn't care about you.
>>33778329>i just meet kiss cuddle and get beat-up, sex is for relationships only even tho these guys rlly want it badlyAh yes, blueballing a horny drunken guy while telling him to beat the shit out of you. A winning combination.Seriously, talk to your therapist and tell him ASAP, ideally get yourself committed.You are currently coping with your mental illness in a way that will see you end up in some guys trunk sooner rather than later, and probably count as acute self endangerment.
>>33778589i hate inpatient, it never helps, i always come back home even more depressed cus i left life for a wweek just to come back to loneliness and despair>>33778395he apparently had ED, he would always say too he just wasnt in the mood. but that makes perfect sense, snowballing into codependancy due to insecurities+sex being my #1 love language makes the most sense, now i feel empty and desperate xd im only22 ugh
Why is it so hard for me to get a girlfriend while it seems easy for others to get one?
>>33778152gen z ain't fucking in general theyre afraid of their own shadow
>>33776687Okay, but "underdeveloped child with [shaven] body hair" describes the majority of taken women
>>33773972Men have to put effort into being interestingAnd for many man, that actually involves no effort at all. They just wake up funny/smart/cool or some combination of the three.Women have to put effort into being pretty and very few absolute unicorn goddess girls look that pretty waking up with a bedhead. All girls have to sit in front of a mirror for like 30 minutes before they leave the house applying face-paintTheres pros and cons to being either
With most guys you're not aiming low enough. I get that you don't want fat chicks or single moms, but you have to understand that its incredibly abnormal for men to have a choice in the matter. What's normal is men dating fat women despite being fit themselves, normal is taking care of a woman and her 3 kids who's dad is in prison, normal is dating bpdemons who will make your life hell.Normies here will gaslight you into thinking your standards are unreasonable, but its not that, guys like us are really thinking about the bare minimum requirements, like 5./10 girl and not batshit insane. But that's still too valuable for most men to have. I really cannot stress this enough, most guys are single because they are unwilling to accept garbage tier women, which is 100% normal for NPC type men to do.
>>33778604Touché
my uncle's getting a little old. he's 38. he still pushes himself a lot physically doing things like mowing the lawn or building things outside. is that safe for an aging man or should we intervene? like get younger people to do physically demanding things for him so he doesn't have a heart attack.
>>33778026i fear it might be something like this... he fears that his time might be running out because within 5-10 years he will be too old for any substantial physical labor
yeah but not for 30 years
>>33777940Retarded faggot, you have to be 18 to post here
>>3377794038 was old, 10 000 years ago.
>>33777940put him on some chlomid and have him take bpc-157 for a week. shit will improve his energy and healing 3x.t. 35 year old ex-software-engineer that has to work at FedEx because of DEI corporations and visa workers
What do you talk about with women? I'm never on the same page with them. I don't really care about what they talk about, and I can never think of things to talk about that they would care for.
you probably cannot socialize with people regardless of gender you social retard.
>>33778507Bumping. Nta, but was always told women love to talk about themselves, yet it always turns into a pseudo interrogation when trying to have a conversation. And when they do talk, it's about uninteresting shit. I can talk with guys all day about anything under the sun like self-driving cars ramming into two-tone cars (including police cars), how hard you would need to throw a rock to make a perfect hole through plywood, or what beer is best and why. Then they come in with shit like spirit crystals and women's sports and whatnot. Not that they know jack shit about the sport or the players, just that there are women playing them and something about girl power.
>>33778584>>33778563Now help him
>>33778623Also bullshit politics. Once went to a meetup at a bar and had brought an asimov book to read while waiting for it to start. Had a great conversation with a guy old enough to be my dad who was a materials scientist turned college professr about sci-fi and the rapid progression of technology and solid-state and all that. Then two female elementary school teachers sat down by us and immediately pivoted the conversation to some liberal arts bullshit and politics. Are people just not taught the decorum of polite conversation? Never bring up sex, politics, or religion. It's not that hard.
>>33778649>Never bring up sex, politics, or religion. It's not that hard.these are good rules anon, that I've been following for many years and It's nice to see someone else say them without hearing me say them.me likey.
Why am I getting bullied from everyone? I am tired of it. It because I am skinny, weak and low intelligent? maybe that's because of my un-common name? maybe because I am left-handed? idk man I am tired of it.
>>33774528I won't read invasive-species threads.
>>33774528>. It because I am skinny, weak and low intelligent?Yes.
>>33774528>It because I am skinny, weak and low intelligent?Nobody will take you seriously as a man if you aren't strong
>>33774528>low intelligent>left-handedthese you can quit worrying about, they are irrelevant. very smart people get bullied all the time.you know who doesn't get bullied? men who are big and strongtime to start eating and lifting, don't you think? why not pick up some martial arts as a hobby while you're at it
make them pay, show that actions have a price, you, my friend, are the necessary revolution when you do what you need to do
is my girlfriend an alcoholic? i had to bring up that i didn't like that i noticed her taking sips of wine from a green tea bottle when she was driving recently. also we were at a festival at the private school where she works and she was carrying around a glass water bottle and hiding the fact that she was drinking wine. she's a school nurse so i thought it was weird that she was drinking at her job basically even though she was off the clock.she tells me she uses alcohol to de stress and only drinks the equivalent of a glass or glass and a half of wine each day and that it's no different than having a glass at a restaurant. she got really defensive with me saying she shouldn't have to wait to get home to have wine and that it's fine because she's below the legal limit when driving.i'm confused. it seems to me like she depends on it every day to de stress. i get having a beer or a joint or something every day after work, it's like she stretches it over time though. and not gonna lie, if you keep a "buzz" throughout the day you're drunk right?she works a stressful job as a nurse and can drive and do everything fine. she doesn't seem to drink it super often but i did catch her really drinking a bit over the days recently. she got really defensive with me about it the other day and i kind of folded under the pressure because i felt bad for upsetting her.honestly i love this girl so much and i've never had such a good relationship. but that being said it's only been 2 months and i don't know how i feel about dating an alcoholic long term. idk if she is one, but it seems like she has a bit of a dependency. idk how to mention this to her again because i said i was sorry over and over and said i wouldn't bring it up again. i'm a coward i know. but idk what to think or how to bring it up again.
>>33778600Ditch that slag right away. She has no self-control and alcohol is not only harmful to DNA, but it also inhibits weight loss. I can't even even understand how you got in a relationship with such a girl in the first place. Is your standard really that low?
Seriously, how can I be happy when I'm surrounded by so much negativity? How do you guys make it through?
>>33776429Embrace the negativity and take joy in spreading it.
>>33776481/thread
>>33776429Be the positive voice. It's hilariously infectous. Tom Sawyer convinced other kids to paint a fence, and in the same way, I convince people to tackle more burden and sell my work to others. I'm the top performer of my coworkers and survived multiple rounds of layoffs. My bosses and coworkers come to my desk and report their progress to me... not joking... all because I'm a positive voice pointing to an overall mission of improvement and collaboration. I give advice nonstop, relentlessly talking and praising and narrating, I put everyone on their heels with positivity and they learn to accept it quickly. Many people have even admitted to me that they ration their approaches to me because they know my time "is important". I meet someone for the first time and often within 10-15 seconds I'm giving them advice or some sort of counsel, trying to motivate them to do things. I do it as a defense mechanism honestly, I also don't like being in the air of someone else's problems nor a ready mentor to all who grovel. A couple of my coworkers have an unyielding appetite for what I dish out, they visit me every day and even multiple times a day, but I know the score. They tell me their problems without me asking, I don't want to associate with them for those problems and their behavior, and unfortunately it's not my decision because technically it would be fraternization to make friends with someone I'm contractually bound by federal law to provide services for, and a breach of contract to cut them off. I make the best of it and make stupid amounts of money for it. Be positive, it's fun, let it grow within you, watch it inspire others, upspiral with your peers out of malaise.
>>33778588I remember the first time this AI copypasta was posted. It's still as good today.
>>33778614Wat... I just wrote it... are you making fun of me you little shit!!!
