I like someone who is off limits. Just don’t know how to cope. He is always on my mind and he definitely likes me too but in a way that’s unclear
>>34784903why is he 'off limits'? need more information.
>>34785072He is a student of mine. I care about him a lot. I don’t want to do anything inappropriate, just enjoy spending time with him
>>34785536is he an adult?
>>34784941Your gender gets sex trafficked from infancy to gray hair.
>>34785536idk man. if you do anything weird people will perceive something is going on.its kinda crazy that the president of france married his teacher though, and i guess they lived happily ever after.
Why is autism the most unattractive mental illness to have?
>>34783359Can confirm these are true.
a maladjusted freak that gives people the ick. like a sickly mutated creature that triggers our instinctive responses to destroy the unfit. autism is a horrible curse upon those who have it
>>34784498what he said
>>34783272if you mean true capital a Autism then the reason should be obviousif you mean asperger's high functioning autism then here are some of the reasons:not being able to follow social clues very well which makes people think that you are retarded (in the low iq way)applying morality in a different way to other people (preferring to live according to own's moral code vs sticking to societal norms like normal people) which on its own creates a massive barrier in simply being able to connect with another human being let alone with a romantic partnernot being able to intrinsically understand your role in society - normal men do things because they are men and trhey feel a connection with their manhood, whereas high functioning autistics do not hold such attachments which often makes them not do things that women find attractive such as weightlifting, aspiring to be the alpha male, fighting people, etc.and lastly aspies often have nerdy, passive hobbies such as an interest in computers or puzzles, versus normal men usually have some sort of stereotypically masculine thing going on for them such as tinkering with cars or at least sports. i would say it's not the absolute worst thing you can have, schizophrenia is arguably far more unattractive for example, but yea it's not very prettyt. sperg
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From kindergarden to HS I have had a total of 5 female classmates out of a total of 163.2 which were single moms by age 12, the dads were homeless early 50s yo gypsies.2 who were invalids by birth (one could only drool and only used her limbs to reach out to her mom if she was nearby otherwise someone had to push her wheelchair around, the other was severely retarded but could count and speak, had a mustache and was morbidly obese by 12)and the last one advertised her OF when she was 14 on the same instagram account her family, grandparents, highschool and middle school acquaintances knew her on.This is the dating pool which I locally have access to.I am going to an eastern european engineering university where for the past 20 years there hasn't been a single female graduate and historically very few if any women attended.I intend to work in the merchant navy since it's the only way to make above 1k usd legally here.This town is a semidecrepit and most of the people are in their late 40s and 50s.The youth if they can, move away. Whoever remains are generally losers, criminals, prostitutes and a small segment of people which attend this one university as it is the only maritime university in the entire country.In such an environment how am I supposed to get a gf?I am almost 21 and was interested in commisioning as a reserve officer in the navy while studying to minmax military and civilian benefits and be a conscript to get more admission points for the aforementioned reserve program as I would be "prior service". Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>34776991my nigga I am a local, I am romanian not a foreign student
>>34762895bullshit. As a woman i disagree and i hate when you bitch ass males speak for us
>>34780123bio woman or trans? are you white? your age?
>>34769061y are u an azzhole to him
>>34783395why shouldn't he be an asshole to him?
My boyfriend is 5'3 103 pounds sometimes I wish I could tell him to go to the gym and get a more manly body but I don't wanna sound like a superficial whore. I have no idea how to make him train his body to become stronger without hurting his feelings, can somebody give me ideas please?
>>34778812you do realise if he gets jacked he will leave you for a prettier girl?
>>34778845>he thinks that working out is "gay" and says that men who work out are coping.He's projecting his own cope. Muscle is crucial for longevity. The main reason to work out is health and lifespan. Strong men live longer. The big nice muscles is a bonus. Everyone should work out, even you. Honestly - and I'm sorry if this is mean - but I think he's a bit insecure. Going to the gym as a skeleton or fatty can be embarrassing. Speaking from experience. However it's 100% worth it.
>>34782306>If you are taller than him he would just reject you he likes skinny women who are shorter than him>He said if i got fat he would leave me so it's fairHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHHA.
>>34778812>I don't wanna sound like a superficial whorebut>I wish he got a more manly bodysuch a typical woman thing to do to acknowledge your own moral inadequacy (being shallow) but instead of challenging the feeling (you won't) you try and manipulate other people to get what you want but also not seem like a bad person for wanting to get it.if you told him that you think he looks weak and you don't like it he would accept it and start going to the gym on his own (men can take criticism and apply it especially if it comes from someone they respect), but instead you think you're being clever with the whole "just come train with me it's gonna be so cool!!" manipulation. he's going to find out what you are doing sooner or later and feel manipulated by you.this is such a retarded and female non-issue i can't believe someone would actually post a thing like this. it's literally all about protecting your ego and how people perceive you and about how to apply some cunning technique to get what you want rather than either dropping the feeling or just cutting down to the chase and admitting in front of him that you are indeed this "superficial whore" and you just want him to be bigger (and you are superficial to some extent, but there is nothing wrong with wanting a more masculine man)i mean, love from kazakhstan
>>34778812I thought women only liked men 6'3 and above?
Is youtube a good place to learn social skills if your parents failed you or are them just talking outta their asses?
>>34785401>>34785405I want someone to give me real life advice, talking to trap fetishizers on vrchat won't help
>>34785383>Is youtube a good place to learn social skillsShort answer: yesLonger answer: as others have pointed out, you have to be very careful before you put faith into any video you watch. There are channels with good advice. There are over 9000s channels with bad advice.
>>34785491Apply for a job as a cashier. Not only does this encourage you to be social and learn basic manners, but it will also teach you code-switching.
>>34785556>there are channels with good advicesuch as?
I don't watch videos with less than a million views and more than 10 minutes, same as I don't listen to poors or the ugly. You want to be a normie, you have to think like a normie.
My dick girth is five and a half inches. Is that good? Thick? Meaty?
>>34784920They posted an image of some naked tranny with their tiny dick in a cage pointing in amusement at two dudes fucking each other in the ass out in a public street or park.
>>34784866>Nick Gerroh kek
>>34784926degen breached containment of the NSFW side of 4chan
>>34781752>What is girth?Circumference.
>>34785476>answering a rhetorical joke post meant as a thread bump with a serious answerBro...
Just saw from my apartment, up on the 5th floor, this family of a dude his chick and their kid, and the chick threw garbage on someone else's property when the dumpster was like 30 feet away. And then they made their kid throw their garbage drinks over the fence to that person's property.How do you shame these people?
>>34784098reddit will give you better answers for denouncing this form of culture
>>34784098You allowed it. Done.
>>34784098IT IS SIR!!!!
My life is cooked. I'm in my mid-30s. I have zero friends or social life. No woman has ever been attracted to me. I live alone. Life is totally over in that regard and I have accepted that I'm a totally ugly subhuman that will never experience what all 20 year olds take for granted.I have a totally pointless low work deadend work from home job that pays around £75k but which I am considering leaving because it has zero advancement. If I left I'd have to move cities, either to London, where I'd live in a shitty flat, or another city, where I wouldn't even have anywhere cool to walk during weekends and where I'd feel like a failure. I don't have the people skills to get promoted anyway, so I'd probably make a mistake by leaving.I have no hard technical skills or manual skills. 25 year olds in San Francisco start companies worth billions while I rot in Britain. People had "the university experience" and I was a friendless loser all throughout.I went on a few holidays in the past year and have a few more cities to see but after I see Tokyo, that will be it. Everywhere is the same.I am too ugly and non-charismastic and autistic to succeed in social media or politics or anything. I am a voiceless slave. Both my parents passed away in prior years and I have zero care for other people.All large scale social movements and trends and discourse feel like ant herds. I'm too smart to believe in any philosophies or religions. All that shit is in-group signalling. I literally cringe when seeing white people (Americans online) talking about "the church". It's 2026 and you're acting like a 1300s villager, grow up. You're supposed to have a 100 IQ.
>>34784902No woman will ever love you anon, 90% of women out there do not love their man, they don't know how to love anyway; they only tolerate him as long as he provides.Learn to be stoic and get by without their fake and subpar love therefore about 90% of women should be invisible to you. Rise up above your biological programming.Take care of your health anons and find distractions to help pass the time, that's all most people do anyway, the difference is they do it with somebody so time spent together flows differently. It's merely an illusion though
>>34784902Bro, I'm mid 30s, work at a thrift store (I actually enjoy this job though) with no friends or social life.I maybe don't feel as bad because I interact with people at work. Maybe that's what you need to do. Maybe volunteer at your local thrift store.But I dunno man, how do I land me one of these work from home jobs with out any network?
>>34784908>>34784931>>34784943>>34784999It's a spammer. Move on.
>>34784902yup. op hasn't responded to anyone. time to move on
>>34784908I didn't talk to anyone on my holidays.
how to handle discord parasocial behavior? I'm lonely as fuck, and find myself joining a lot of discords when I'm bored/lonely to talk to people, thing is whenever I join the case is always there's some preformed friend situation going on where talking makes me feel invisible and even worse, cause everyone just talks to eachother and ignores me. And there are moments when I post good stuff and people react to it positively, and then i just still get ignored after I wish I could just delete discord and never return to it ever, but I can never bring myself to commit to thatI just respect myself and wish I had some form of connection, and it feels like breaking into an impenetrable wall to get thatAlso I noticed 99% of servers are like two modes if they're active, first mode is full of nazi larpers, racism and unfunny offensive humor and whatnot, other mode is like people saying "meow" and acting like theyre best lifelong friends with other people in chat which I think is even worse because it makes me feel dumb as an outsiderAnybody relate?
>>34783015You sound like leftoid faggot, so maybe tranny discords would be more suitable for you?
>>34783015>Also I noticed 99% of servers are like two modes if they're active, first mode is full of nazi larpers, racism and unfunny offensive humor and whatnot, other mode is like people saying "meow" and acting like theyre best lifelong friends with other people in chat which I think is even worse because it makes me feel dumb as an outsiderThat's discord. What were you expecting?
>>34783111MUH LEFT AND RIGHT
>>34783015internet friends are not real anon, you have to realize this as soon as possible or you're in for a rude awakening. delete discord and force yourself to socialize in real life, or if you don't want to do that at least don't rot your brain with the idea that you are getting anything meaningful out of having "friendships" online. in the long run these things do nothing but distract from realityand i don't mean to demean you, i know all this from experience
>>3478563221 hours and op hasn't made a single replyit's over anon. he didn't appreciate the suggestions.
All my usual choices of escapism aren't really cutting it anymore (4chan included). But I still haven't managed to find meaningful ways to engage with the real world ("touching grass," if you will). It's like I stumbled into a wall after aimlessly drifting through life, using distractions to keep myself from thinking about where I was going. Now I'm left alone to face the inadequacies of my own life.Have any of you ever faced a similar situation?
uhmmm maybeeee you should, like, face what you're escaping from?crazy, I know
>>34785114Escapism is only somewhat effective at coping. If you are locked in a cellar and are tortured every day, it doesnt matter how good the entertainment you use to spend the rest of the day is. You will still feel miserable.
>>34785114I forgot to go into more detail about myself.>23>job hunting>no particular soft or hard skills though>painfully average by every possible metric (being optimistic), yet comically insecure nevertheless>maybe mentally ill, but fairly healthy physically>never had a social life>lack of passions or personal interests, maybe because of overly critical and controlling parents
>>34785114>Have any of you ever faced a similar situation?every day anon, every day
this is now a chud image sharing thread
Need to make $200 in the next 24 hours.Anybody got any ideas?
>>34784287I'm afraid he's too busy guzzling ungodly amounts of cum
>>34784357Gross
mission failed>>34784287do we even need to ask?op never even left their house
>>34784172oh fucking god I want zendaya to be my wife
>>34784641same she can't act worth a shit but she sure is hot
How do you cope with the fact that your girlfriend was with men who were bigger, taller and cocker than you before she met you?
>another cuck shitposting thread
>>34781989Every time you stick your dicklet pencil-like dick inside her her mind goes to the times when she was getting railed by an 8 inch horse cock. When you're fucking her she can barely feel you and fantasizes that you're her ripped ex with a big dick who was making her orgasm every 30 seconds.
>>34781873Find a younger girl, she’s more likely to be a virgin. Impregnate her and marry her. Easy fix
Oh look, it's the weekly Virginity General, where the KHHV complain about women who do things without their approval!
>>34781873I SWEAR TO GOD IF I SEE ANOTHER KEK FANTASY THREAD I'LL BURN THIS BOARD ALIVE.
When it comes to sex, how fast is it over? or soon rather? I am terrified to have sex and I am a guy. I have really bad performance anxiety and I haven't even done anything. My biggest fear is ejaculating very quickly OR taking too long or even being unable. I believe I'd actually be unable to finish most likely. I have read some things like vaginas feeling marginally less good than your hand. In my head, I have sort of built up the sensation of a vagina to feel like some sort of instant orgasm thing but I get the feeling that its really not. So what can I do to make sure my penis actually works correctly? How long should sex take? I have read some things and it says 10-15 minutes. Others say it can be for an hour. Whats the truth? I have no idea what I am doing and I am 30.
>>34778314When did you become random?
You'll bust as soon as your glans touches a vagina.
>>34779288What?
>>34780551That's not right
Just broke up with someone on account I couldn't get it up, lol
I am finding it very hard to date. I would like to engage with dating more often but I get this sinking feeling that it is just one giant humiliation ritual if you are a guy. I get this sinking feeling like I am just a monkey dancing around for a bored / semi-bored woman. I get that maybe it is a me problem but this seems pervasive. I have to plan the date, pay the date which I normally don't mind, I have to entertain her and I can't get annoyed with her because otherwise the date is over. I have to do what she says or asks or the date is over. She suddenly wants ice cream? Guess I have to do that. So what I am trying to figure out is how to make dating not feel like a woman is just humiliating me softly. In my head when I actually do get a date, all I am thinking she is thinking is "DANCE MONKEY! DANCE!" I feel as if I can't make any demands of her at all or I can't have any expectations rather. Like a woman EXPECTS a man to pay and EXPECTS a man to plan the date. I don't know what I can even expect of her. To me it seems like a man can't expect anything of a woman when it comes to date. Your reward feels like her showing up to humiliate you. I don't want it to feel like this but it does.
>>34776507I think that you should treat women more like other human beings and express more your feelings. If the women you are going out with are just expecting you to be their slave then they are all hoes. Just find the right one bro. Search a bit better and don't simp. Peace
>>34776507Why the fuck wouldn't you want the date to end if she's annoying, If some girl I dated was being annoying on a date I'd leave.You aren't being forced to date here...What do you actually want, sex?You can be honest here, we are all anonymous.
>>34785506ops last post was 3 days ago
>>34776507>In my head when I actually do get a date, all I am thinking she is thinking is "DANCE MONKEY! DANCE!"This is 100% on you and not the women OP.What should be going on in your head before the date is>well I'm about to go out and hopefully have some fun with this chick and I'll see if I like her. If I do then great, if not, oh well, nothing ventured nothing gained and anyway how else would I find out?>Also, we will obviously going someplace that I want to go because otherwise, why would I even be offering that?
>>34776507Stop simpign dude. Women only meet men when they have already classed them as fuckable and just want to vet them a little bit beforehand. You don't need to convince a woman of anything, just go to the park and have a few beers and have a normal conversation with her.If shes annoying, demanding, rude or dumb just ditch her because the sex isn't worth it anyways.You don't have to put on some retarded performance, just talk to her like you would to any guy friend , avoid boring and unemotional topics and physically escalate.
For context: I'm a birthright US citizen who just graduated a really good university and am about to start a really well-paying corpo job. Yet I'm still absolutely depressed about the state of the world, and am seeing it harder and harder to continue.Here are some specific things I feel UNHAPPY about.>UK censoring internet, banning SM/phones, etc., rest of world likely joining in>Love & Deepspace scandal>Google banning sideloading>recent HiAnime arrest>I fucking hate both US parties - one is full of self-hating whites and brown supremacists, the other is full of self-hating browns and white supremacists - but "doing nothing" and being a drone is cuckery too; my politics would prob. better align w/ "Dems 20 years ago" than "GOP any stage of their recent history", but even outside a US context many countries nowadays have cucked uniparties>car-dependent suburbs and their consequences (and I'm not even going to pretend that's an American-only thing)>the impossibility of affording anything for anyone, esp. relative to even our parents or even MILLENNIALS>goals becoming unrealizable, like the fucked up dating market makes it impossible to date anyone (and "return to tradition" to like courting, etc. I disdain for the same reason I disdain the anti-phone movement), or travel feeling increasingly unmotivating>the realization that the Chinese race is so superior to the White race despite the latter's obvious dominance in arts etc.>the climate getting worse (lmao ik)>the US declining, and actually fr rather than as some larper fantasyComment too long. Click here to view the full text.
Read John and then 1 John (the letter)I think it's beautiful
How do I not let this blackpill me bitterly
>>34776487I've already read so much of the bible in my childhoodReligion is a cope excuse for getting together
>>34782553To elaborate: there are so few 3rd spaces in the US that (((church))) often serves as one.
If your parents are calling you useless for not driving your siblings to fuck around with their jeet friends or cleaning the toilet, and you have a well-paying job and are employed etc., does that give your parents the right to call you fat and a loser? (Literal words btw)
