how does one get laid while having 10 dollars in his wallet and no car?
>>33681276But how do you persuade her to sleep with you with such limited resources?
I think you have bigger issues than getting laid. Fix those first.
>>33681246Are you autistic and/or brown?
>>33681246anon, I'm afraid it's one of those >if you have to ask, then it's not for yousituations
>>33681246>Skill Issue or location is crapt. I got laid broke and homeless in my 20s
> average woman> 55kg 5'3" light skinned> gets called cute every once in a while> not bad stats for a woman amirite> according to sources i should have also average guys all over me> but i also somehow ended up a kissless virgin well into my early twenties> get crush on guy with crooked front teeth and dark skin that makes him look like the love child from an ntr doujin> friends called him ugly but i dont care because i think he's hot> he has three exes and is talking to a girl from a whole ass different city > he doesnt even consider me once> okay fuck you whatever> get crush on another average guy> he likes another girl> okay fuck you whatever> work on appearanceComment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>33682005you are NOT a woman
>>33682005Remember guys, even ugly chicks think they're lowering themselves by talking to you and are talking to 5-6 other guys a month.
I don’t really have many close friends outside of family, but a few months ago I met a guy online. We clicked pretty fast, talked every day, and got close enough to where he opened up about some personal stuff.Eventually we met in person, but things didn’t go as planned. I still thought it went fine, but afterwards he started acting distant and critical. Since then, he’s either ignored me or given short replies.It feels obvious he’s not interested in being friends anymore, but part of me still hopes things could go back to how they were. I haven’t reached out in two weeks to give him space, but I keep wondering if he’ll eventually come back if I just wait.Should I hold onto that hope, or just accept that it’s over?
>>33680151He wanted you romanticallyEither reciprocate or move on. It's that simple. If you "click" and open up about personal stuff, that's called compatibility doofus.Obviously if you're in a relationship, just let it die. But if you're vibing and single, maybe be brave enough to acknowledge something more might be there. If not, please save the guy the trouble and again let it die.
No, very unusual for people to come back around, especially if it's already been 2 weeks.The only time I might hold hope for something like that is after an argument that you know for a fact that you're correct, and that you know they aren't retarded.
If you're a whore that likes to lead people on you can expect the guy to have realized it, if he has a functioning brain he won't even think about you.
>>33680151It’s over. You probably did something that put him off. I had a similar situation where I thought a girl was into me (until she mentioned having a boyfriend) so I tried being friends with her but she was kinda bad at that so I just ghosted her and moved on. Idk what kinda impression I had on her because she messaged me out of the blue a year later (I forgot she even existed lmao)
Anybody else here hate their kids? I'm starting to understand the fathers that went to the store to buy cigarettes and never came back. I can't see a clean way out of this that isn't suicide
>>33679437Last two are developing more neurotypically. I get the necessary life fuel from them. If I didn't have them I'd probably feel the exact same way you do, and there were times where I've felt close to the same thing. I would never abandoned them, but a huge part of that is because it would screw over my wife, who I am devoted to. Helps that mine didn't get post partum and we were back to regular sex within a month after each birth.I'd focus more on your wife. Try to get her out of her depressive funk. Consider having her hormone levels tested to see if something is out of whack. Anything to feel like you aren't solo tanking all this by yourself.
>>33671246If you succeed with the belt your sons turn into buck-broken beta males and your daughters turn into freaky pain sluts. If you're unsuccessful you turn them into violent sadists and criminals.
>>33671368Foster care system is just fine. Quite frankly they work miracles with the budget they are given. The kids are the problem. They're meth babies born to prostitutes. Shouldn't surprise anyone that the kids usually growth up to be junkie whores and criminals as well.
>>33671235You and your wife are just shitty people. I feel bad for your children.
>>33670250>can't see a clean way out of this that isn't suicideJust means you'd rather die than abandon your kids. You're better than most.
I'm black. How do I find me a white girl that doesn't like blacks but is willing to make an exception for me?
>>33681687You sound vaguely Mexican
>>33681709Thank you ^_^
>>33650407You're asking for a porn fantasy relationship. Stop watching porn.
>>33681687Kek there's no way you're black
>>33681982Thank you, but sadly I am :(
a serious question i keep reflecting on. why is it that here on 4chan, whenever a biologically female user shows up, most people assume shes trans or just bait? i know its part of the community jokes and also because lots of guys pretend to be women for fun, but how did this even start? where and when? i really want to understand. i dont mind when they call me gay, tell me to show tits, or insult me for being a woman, i go along with the joke. but like, is it really not normal for women to be here? why not? i just want to know the reason behind it, someone please explain!
>>33681938yeah, i guess im really young. lol
>>33681927It's a meme / chan culture evolved from pic related. Back then, when 4chan was less mainstream and the trans hype wasn't spread by the media 24/7, this sites' target audience were so predominately male, that actual female users were basically unicorns.Even if today there's a higher chance of women browsing here due the sites popularity, the notion of "no girls ever visit this shithole" is so strong, that the only logical conclusion is: "you're only pretending to be a girl (one way or the other)".
>>33682004i get it, this makes sense. i found this site through guys i know, i hardly ever see other girls here, and when i do theyre often trans or they dont say theyre women outright. makes sense because most women prefer going out, doing hair and makeup, not hanging on chans. theres a minority like me who come here to shitpost, pass time, or feel less alone, his place can be an escape. before i joined i heard people compare 4chan to the deep web, but now that im here its not like that. most people are chill, some shitpost, some are mean, but thats just normal, like real life lol
>>33682039Yeah... This site has a certain flair to it, which is why I wasted way to many years on it, but it's not that special / different compared to other social media sites in a sense of social dynamics and culture. Take from this place what suits you best and ignore the rest. Or, if you're smart, leave.>people compare 4chan to the deep webIt's very far from that. Although the term 'deep web' is ambiguous itself.
>>33682071Okay, the text in that image hit me. I definitely have those thoughts and felt like that, I didn’t understand why. Thank you, I’m going to save myself while I still have time.
I have an Instagram with my name, but there is no content, no followers, and it is following no one. I want to follow women (classmates) I used to know many years ago. What should I add to my Instagram account to achieve this goal?
I have a small submissive kink about my wife being in control of some things. For example she read a book about Japanese marriages in which the wife is in charge of finances and she directly implemented it in our marriage. Meaning I have to show her all my expenses and she writes it down in a book to have an overview. I'm just waiting for the next iteration in which I get a monthly pocket money and all the rest is blocked for me to withdraw. Now that sounds quite bad for many, I'm sure. But for me it's a dream coming true. It drives my libido to the sky, no idea why and honestly I'm fine with it. She knows that I have a bit of an masochistic kink and sometimes slaps my butt when we have sex but that's about it. She never really questioned it nor paied too much interest and that's totally fine. I know that woman prefer dominant men in bed, which I guess I am... even with the slaps here and there. However, I haven't told her that the financial control turns me on because I think that's really where it gets weird. I'm afraid it makes her uncomfortable or that it changes the way she sees me. On the other hand I would love her to control me in more and other ways as well. The ultimate master-kink would be wearing a chastity device that only she can open. But I wanna take it slow first (if at all) and don't overwhelm her. Do you have any advices? It would be really awkward to ask her right away I guess.. not sure why but I have this barrier hindering me. I was thinking of doing something like "oh hey look chatgpt says that contolling (X) improves the average relationship by a lot". "Hey have you heard of chastity devices? lmao i didn't know it's so common in married couples.. at least thats what chatgpt is saying because it has some advantages for the wife"Just writing this feels really weird, please understand.
>>33678132go get testosterone treatment
>>33678528Testosterone is fine, I'm a lifter with checkups every year
>>33678132>lmao i didn't know it's so common in married couples.. at least thats what chatgpt is saying because it has some advantages for the wife"It is not but chat gpt pulls info from reddit posts
>>33678883You can manipulate chatgpt in telling you what you wanna hear, that's the fun
>>33678132I'd say don't shit where you eat and keep it to a minimal level in bed and as a thing that occurs every once in a while. Unless you want your wife to lose respect for you.
Started dating a new girl, we're both late 20s, I just got laid off a couple weeks ago. Thing is I didn't tell her I got laid off. I live with my parents and have tons of savings. I plan to go back to school. I need to make more than 56k a year. I don't know how to tell her about this. She definitely likes me just from her texts and the fact she's put up with my dumb bullshit and I make her giggle a lot. I don't want to give her the ick and especially by telling her I lied to her. I was told I should tell her like I just found out but I hate that too. I thought of being honest and just saying I really don't want to bring it up and apologizing but that might make it worse. Women advice too please tell me honestly how you feel about this whole situation.
>>33681825>>33681791Should I tell her I already got laid off and didn't want to bring it up, or tell her it just happened but I saw it coming?And as much as I feel like a scumbag mentioning this, should I wait until after we slept together?
>>33681857Dude if you are thinking that you don't have to just feel like a scumbag, you are a scumbag.
>>33681776tell her you are still working leave like you are going to work dress up carry briefcase keep up the ruse
>>33681917nicethe boss in the game:https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jean-Claude_Romandcheck him out OP, some good ideas there
>>33681857>And as much as I feel like a scumbag mentioning this, should I wait until after we slept together?Well, what are you really after with this girl? If it's purely sex (which it seems like it is), then who cares what you say about being laid off, simply keep lying till you get in her pants and then leave. If you want a chance at something meaningful, stop thinking of things in such a pathetic, deceitful way and conduct yourself in an honest, honorable manner.My 2 cents? Be honest. Act with integrity. Stop being a retard.
Is cheating worth it just once if you think you can get away with it
>>33680499That feeling of sexual insatiability is just a fact of life. It doesnt go away because you got away with fucking some broad. It just comes back the same if not worse.So in effect youre not actually fixing anything. Just laying landmines in your life.You must understand this feeling you *have to* do it is just your dick making a case. You dont have to. Youre not dying.
I had a gf I cheated on constantly before and more after we became LDR. One day I met a woman I'd give up that relationship for, and broke up with that gf. This woman was directly from my dreams. Perfect. Actually a 10/10, a white girl, I've never been able to have one before (I'm white). She broke up with me and now I have no one. I think I placed all my hope in this new woman and I thought breaking up with my gf was inconsequential, but in a way I think it was there festering in the back of my mind with another both trauma and scared off the new woman in ways I could'nt control. This woman thought I was a man-whore, and although she fucked like a slut herself, I think it both intrigued her and turned her off to something long term, which is what I wanted. Don't lie to yourself
>>33681818All in all, once things get screwed, is it possible at all to get a new long lasting and reasonably healthy (and at least a little physical) relationship with the opposite sex in your opinion?? I am in this abyss where all I'd like is a sincere yes or no..
>>33680499yep it's worth it. although you have to *know* you can get away with it
>>33680499No, and fuck you.
What kind of man do I need to become in order to attract milfs?
You want a MILF? It's easy: you just have to activate their maternal instincts. Older women find the idea of doting on and caring for their partner extremely arousing, so do what you can to be extremely submissive and near-childlike when you're around them. If you want guaranteed success, call them "mommy" when you get a decent opening to do so - once a woman gets to be a certain age, being called "mommy" becomes a massive turn-on, especially if she's already taking on the role of your pseudo-mother. The last thing you want to do is try to do anything to support her, like having a good job or taking care of chores at home. MILFs crave the position of relative power that comes with being a mommy gf, so just make sure you let her take care of you, the house, and the finances. This extends to sex too: let her pamper and spoil you, she gets sexual pleasure from making you cum, so just enjoy yourself and don't worry about her excitement (trust me, if she feels you cum in her hand or inside her, that's more than enough for her).
>>33681813just like you would any other woman anon
>>33681813If you have to ask you don't have what it takes. You have to be a doer, plus completely ignore >>33681943 and go read some older woman younger man stuff BY women
>>33681956>plus completely ignore >>33681943He asks this fucking question every other day. I'm just telling him what he wants to hear.
>>33681813There's no prescriptive answer for that. The dommy mommy make me tendies approach that the third reply describes works on some of them, but most of them are just women looking for younger men.
was just at a political conference in another country and all the Normie’s wanted to ask me about was the “travelling” and the “food”.I went to Hungary for a political conference and there was so many interesting discussions in nationalism and global economic integration, immigration, role of govenrment in curtailing degenerative culture evolution, etc.I told my normie Aunt what I mentioned above and she goes “ah I see, how was the Fooooood???? Did you go to any restaurants?” And I just went “uh ok I guess I mainly bought stuff from the convenient store like meat packaged” and she goes “ohhhh you didn’t go to restaurants???? No anon you gotta tell me more about the food I went to Austria not too long ago and let me tell you this prime rib was so good they cook it blah blah blah”I kept trying to bring it back to politics and when I noticed she wouldn’t stop talking about food I just walked away. The funny thing is I really did just go to the convenient store to buy those processed meat sticks and some Lays chips. I hate restaurant food because it’s always mixed and I can’t eat food that touches other food.I don’t know how to direct these conversations and need some How To Win Friends and Influence People kind of shit
>>33676926>my aunt doesn’t give a shit about things that don’t affect her life or yours in any meaningful way why won’t she talk about this stuff?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?
>>33677088Food, money, celebrity stuff, health, travel doesn’t affect your life in any meaningful way so why do Normies talk about it
>>33676926Your problem is (probably) that you were trying to avoid answering her question. The trick is to *answer* their question, but in a way that segues into what you want to talk about. You: "Oh, the food was great! First day of the conference we had this buffet lunch with these amazing vol-au-vents, that were stuffed with olives and all kinds of things; they had these little red flags on cocktail sticks stuck in them. And Joseph Smith picks one up and starts singing 'We'll keep the red flag flying here!' and everyone laughed. I can't remember, did I mention Joseph Smith?"Her: "No."You: "Oh, he was the keynote speaker at the conference. Really amazing guy! He had this fascinating theory about the way that support for Socialism is inversely proportional to the wealth of a country. You'd think it would be the other way round, wouldn't you?"And so on.
>>33676926poltics is fucking dumb dont cramp everyone style whos just looking for a good time. if you want to talk about that stuff join a group that meets specifically for that like a poltics or philosophy club or something
>>33676948I’m not autistic tho
I know I could probably get a girlfriend if I just tried but I have such crippling social anxiety that I feel like if I so much as talk to a woman she'll literally call 911.How can I overcome this?
>>33672371you have to learn to be comfortable first with being alone and ffs get off the apps
>>33672371Talking to women and getting a gf is the easy part anon. Honestly, this is speaking as a probably autistic loser that has spent way too much of his life playing videogames and watching star trek. The real challenge is coming to terms with the fact that a woman won't make you happy, she is just another source of obligations and pressure in your life. Yes it's better than being a loner, because you have a purpose and you have hope, but it's not like you imagine it will be. it's work and it's pressure. But talking to them is easy, they just want to talk about their boring lives just like everyone else. They just want someone to vent to and to validate their opinions.
>>33680536I'm already pretty happy with my life, it just feels like I'm missing love.
>>33676763>>33677232The point was to meet them as people in situations wherwe their gender is not the major factor
>>33680479Agreed, dating apps are terrible
How do I find a woman that is a diagnosed sex addit that loves watching a ton of porn and enjoys having sex all day?
>>33679473There’s definitely an addicts anonymous near you that you could check out.
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>>33679473I found one on tinder. you can also find them on chat sites like chitchat.gg or emeraldchat on relevant fetish tags
I may be a sex addict for yearssss but I enjoy it. I don't get it often but would if I could.
>>33681914sweet thanks
Realistically, if I go on tinder or hinge or whatever do I have a good chance of matching with white/asian women like picrel? Chubby but with good proportions? I need to plap a cute chubby girlStats are:>white>6ft>fit>early 20s I live in a mid sized college town if that matters
>>33680584>if I go on tinder or hinge or whatever do I have a good chance of matchinghave you been living under a rock? It's not 2014 anymore when these apps were just picking up steam. Their usefulness have now been locked behind paywalls and shite algorithms.>I need to plap a cute chubby girlthose kind are all over downtown meeting areas. I recommend networking with your existing friend groups and expanding it. Go to hang outs and meet people. I know a friend who met similar just going to those downtown meetup areas and talking to them directly as a stranger.>I live in a mid sized college town if that matterslocation does matter. You have to be around the populace where they sleep. So if it's a younger, early-20's chick, they would be around a university. If you are already there, then you're golden. Just expand your network or increase your exposure to them. Dating apps suck.
>>33680874>Their usefulness have now been locked behind paywalls and shite algorithms.This is an incel cope. You're both too uggo to get matches and too brokie to fork up a hundo for three months of premium. $100 is an hour and a half of my time. The bigger problem is that bitches have gotten FAR more picky. Social media and a decade of hot or not style dating apps have fried everyone's brains. Things are cooked beyond what you can imagine>t. 33 year old milloomer who got laid consistently from Tinder in the period you were talking about, still after paying for premium
>>33680892>still after paying for premium>he actually paid for ityeah keep paying for that OnlyFans too unc, you'll get some luck eventually hahaha. Great advice bro
>>33680936You're poor
>>33680584yeah your looks aren’t an impediment to getting a chubby girl of a race in accordance with the demographics of your college townyour personality may be a problem, don’t know
