Update from OP: A couple days ago I bought 2 tickets to Edinburgh and also to Helsinki and can't refund them so i guess I'm going there I actually forgot I bought them until now. My friend hasn't bought me a return ticket yet because if I fucked up the delivery somehow he was planning on trapping me here until i get deported. I have enough reserved for the trip to last me 2 or 3 months (probably credit card maxxing by the end of it). So ill probably stay until late march or april traveling europe. I figured the flights to scotland i can just easily get to england and explore there, and from finland i can take a ferry to sweden or estonia giving me 3 extra countries to explore from there, and from Germany i can take a train or bus to Poland or France, Czech republic. Im bound to get laid if im traveling that many countries arent i? I cant buy prosties

>>34162148
You're not going to get laid, unless you pay for it.
Don't overstay your welcome. Girls are just as hard everywhere in the western world. Humans are complex. The only people who have 0 pride and would suck your dick because they think they can get a better living situation are Africans and Philippines girls, everyone in Europe wouldn't even look your direction

Also enjoy

>>34161241
Idk man I'm just a retard okay

>>34156896
The way you dress tells a lot about you, whether you want to admit it or not

>>34160220
You got it sport, just try not to rig up any buildings to explode. Or light any forest fires. Or walk into the Mexican congress on Oct 10 2001 with guns and explosives and spill your spaghetti when they catch you and ask you what the fuck you’re doing

Having sex in europe seems to be easier than in the USA (in my opinion).
Try to go to a club with your group of friends and talk to girls, get her some drinks and she'll be yours. (at least if you're not ugly)

>>34160236
Maybe.

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>>34160257
I don't have a shotgun. I wish they would legalize suicide booths.

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>>34159985
>Is there just no help for someone like me?
Only sex workers.

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>>34160232
>muh self-fulfilling prophecy!!!
If that shit existed everyone would be a billionaire. Kys Normalnigger.

>>34160948
>some men drown while others die of starvation

>>34160948
>she's clingy
>I'm neurotically afraid of losing her

A relationship made in heaven

>>34160948
Difficult to say without having a shitload more context but:
You have to have clear boundaries, and you have to politely yet firmly enforce them.
Like: "hey gf, I really need to get a handle of myself. I need to do my chores. I need you to help me stay on track (like keeping me company while I do chores or gently reminding me if I need to do chores). This is extremely important to me."

Unfortunately yes. He doesn't want you trying to override his judgement as a parent, and he has a right to stand his ground; especially if he notices that they're lagging in their studies or homework now. It's one thing to help them learn to play, it's a bit inappropriate to influence them into a specific career against their dad's wishes.

However this might be a sign you'd be an excellent music teacher. You could try teaching through more formal avenues, like at a music school etc.

>>34159743
Those who can, do
Those who can't do, manage those who can

>>34159758
FPBP

>>34159743
You can't override the actual parents of your nieces anon. All you can do is be a cool uncle, if they really like music they will come to you or will carve their own musical journey. Do the kids have their own instruments? You could be cheeky and get the eldest a guitar for her 13th or something.
Is your brother actively attempting to crush the kids interest in music? I would say he's being a bad parent in that case and you're doing a good thing for the kids. I'm sure mommy doesn't like her little angels listening to hardcore either lol. Music is good for the heart, brain and soul and kids are made to have fun.

Idk anon, I think you're doing a good thing getting the kids into music however you could rapidly find yourself not allowed to visit them. I would take things carefully. Also have your own kids if you want to live vicariously through someone.

I guess I will never know because anons tfw no gf is more important.

>>34162087
Given that your competition is largely made up of unmotivated drug addicts who struggle to show up on time, it may actually play in your favor. Employers would rather take on someone a little older that can display a good work ethic than chance an investment in someone with no history and no idea of what they're actually doing there. The most important thing, not just in this but in every opportunity, is to never tell yourself "no"; if you really won't work out, don't worry, someone else will tell you. Until that point, just give it a shot. Worst case scenario, you'll have learned more than you know now and come away with some new skills and experience. Doubters will always find a reason to give you pause, don't base your decisions upon them. If you think a given path has something to offer you, then pursue it against all of the reasons not to, until it's obvious to YOU, not anyone else, that it isn't the correct move. The only time wasted is time spent not doing what you want to.

>>34162254
Thank you anon. This is what I believe as well and just the support I wanted to hear.
My fans saying to just invest in something easy like a tobacconist or a cake shop but I want to do relatively challenging things for their own sake. I feel as long as a I try hard enough, there’s money in all (practical) fields.

>>34162087
Nothing wrong with changing career later in life, late 20's is still young compared to the lifers you find in these jobs. As another anon said, you'll stand out compared to the junkies and dropkicks very quickly. Note that while you do an apprenticeship, you're going to be paid sweet fuck all, a lot of bosses will take advantage of you AND it lasts for years. If you can get through the entry process and you're good at your work, you can stand to make a bit of money if you're in the right sparkie field.

Also re your body, it's really not a joke when people tell you your body wears out. I've been a gardener (was at uni/working service industry prior) for about five years, am currently 32 and have moderately slipped a disc (needed work cover for this), rolled my ankle bad, got golfers elbow and inflamed a knee tendon, all within the last three years. None cause me day to day pain but all are essentially weak points that can easily get sore. I don't know how hard being a sparky is but make sure you look after yourself

>>34162346
Thanks anon.
I thought a mature age apprentice was payed decently. Not great, but better than the younger guys.
Sucks to hear that happened to you, I’ll keep that in mind thanks. I’m just worried about my back and knees, they’re fine now but they might be the first to go considering how common it is.

>>34161098
The bar I am now going to where she is showing up is NOT the bar she works at mind you

>>34160889
Because it doesn’t? That crap only really applies to women. Also you are gay.

Is being viewed as "scary" generally a good thing? Most of the girls I've gotten with have told me they were initially scared or intimidated by me and we usually always ended up fooling around later on, I'm starting to think it generally means they thought you were attractive or at the very least super confident.

Didn't want to make a new thread so I'm posting this here

>>34160889
If I could go back in time and try to communicate something to my younger self, I'd tell him that energy would be better spent finding a high quality gf than fucking a new girl as often as possible.

>>34156801
What kind of cope is this

>>34162127
Go to church, go golfing. Go places where you will see the same people multiple times over weeks, be sure to take some opportunities to chit chat, be a face people remember. Develop some guy friends, a network, and then branch out to women

>>34159416
u don’t use /adv/ so i wouldn’t know?

>>34159398
>i live in canada and the course i want to take wouldn’t involve any maths
Math is a necessity if you want a good paying career. Even accounting requires math.

Is there anything equivalent to a GED in Canada?

>>34159789
Yes but it's not called a ged.
For op there's usually adult schools you can go to Alternatively college's usually provide some highschool courses but you might need up to grade 11 or so to get into those.

>>34159398
2 separate questions

1. You can get a GED or the Canadian equivalent just by passing a test. You fon't have to go back to school

2. College isn't just for 18 year olds anymore. At 22 you will be among the youngest there.

>>34159885
Did your parents do what they could to nurture, encourage, teach and guide you throughout upbringing? Did father show you how to paint, how to change a lightbulb, how to drill a hole into drywall, how to repair things and maintain things? Did mother teach you how to process your feelings, how to be good to yourself and to others? How to forgive and ask for forgiveness? How to protect your own boundaries and respect those of others?
Or did life get in the way and they were overwhelmed by life's problems and they couldn't do this for you?

I am not suggesting you blame your family but OP the biggest core of knowing how to function and how to feel is always handed down to us by parents, either from their verbal teachings or at least their example and their invitations to do the same as they do with encouragement to show you how. This is something that's supposed to be done from age 2-3+ and up, all the way up until adulthood.

If you lacked in this area, it could very well explain to you that it's not something to blame yourself for, or others, simply understanding the shape of a void so you can get one step closer at knowing what to develop in yourself slowly, or with the help of others, or resources online or in person.

>>34159885
You do not have to go out or even do anything to be someone. You can contribute imagination that results in results.

>>34159941
Parents are not the only source, one can learn elsewhere then wraparound and teach their parents better, but it starts with an obvious goodwill coming from the parents, even if the parents were not perfect in their attempts, just the fact that they attempted and tried their best is something that instills a sense of agency/gratitude in the kid, where they find that their life matters because it mattered to their parents

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>>34159885
>its hard to find a porpuse

>>34160525
I too am interested in this topic. I'm in the same boat. What do???

>>34160525
Professional gambler. Hit the casinos and let God sort your luck.

>>34161017
>bossmanjackmaxx
Honestly not a bad idea. I just need crack from a plug and I'm good kek

Deeply analyse the economy and plug a gap where we actually need people over the long haul

>>34160525
You don't need college to go in to sales (retail or b2b), insurance, banking teller, insurance, real estate, food service, , etc etc. An entry level job at McDonalds or Walmart can lead to management.

>>34158186
1) It's a cliché, but it's true: you'll never be happy in a relationship unless you're happy being single. Relationships can't fix you.

2) For a woman, about 90% of what makes sex good is about what's happening in her brain rather than what's happening to her body.

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>>34158186
While young teen girls may think with their eyes, as young teen boys do, with any maturity at all the girls begin to recognize that qualities of character and personality matter more than looks. A woman will pick a plain but interesting and reliable man over a brain-dead adonis.

>>34159117
Holy cope
What an interesting way of saying that women will get ran through by "adonis" in their youth and then settle down with a betabuxx "reliable man" when they start hagging out

>>34159141
How true is this? That whole "shes not yours, its just your turn" mentality makes me feel ill amd sick. Are all women really just whores then? Horrible outlook.

>>34161518
If at all, only with the most shallow of women

>>34161941
In jail?

I would just ask your boss directly not to comment on my height. The less said the better.

It's demeaning and in many contexts an employer would already recognise the flow on effects, coming from an employer, any demeaning comments give liscence to general bullying. If the boss said it, then anyone can say it.

So usually when this happens it's just because the employer was fraternising, which is generally a bad idea, and just wasn't thinking about what they were doing. A boss wouldn't joke about someone being fat, or gay, or black, because between friends that kind of thing might be OK but from a person in a position of authority it's never ok.

So if they said that it was a joke and they meant it like a friend, you might just say "i accept that, and I'm glad we understand one another. Which is cold, and when someone is demeaning you then acting like they are your friend, that's exactly how you should respond. Coldly.

>>34161787
You might as well wear womens clothes and suck his cock.

>>34161787
"That's getting old. And boring. Find a new song."

>>34161787
"your wife never complains."

>>34161787
Report him the higher ups for being a harassment. Maybe he's gay for you

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>>34159108
Also mixed race here.
I'm not sure why I never really cared about it, I think that even if I was the same race as everyone around me I'd still be isolated through my autism (actually diagnosed).
I see people as either proper individuals or as mindless NPCs who follow whatever is expected from their respective races and cultures.
If someone makes you feel unwelcome because you look different, then why would you want to associate yourself with that person, why would you regret the fact you can't associate with that person?
If what keeps you from being accepted by someone is your race and not what you are, then that person just doesn't like you and you'd be wise to move on toward someone who does.

>>34162095
Autism isn't a real, incurable condition in 99% of cases. It's a label that doctors created to keep people dependent and satisfy their need for attention: "Look at me, I'm different!" Everyone can learn the ropes of socialization. I personally choose not to step in line and conform. I choose to be different, but it is a conscious choice, not an inability.

>OP
As much as the White Nationalists don't want to admit it, if the entire world was White, we'd all still fight against each other, competing to be top dog. Not only that, but the majority of Whites would do the manual labor, while the minority are intellectuals and aristocrats. And most of it is just memeing and larping anyway. I point out these issues, and I get crickets.

You can still be based, and useful to The Empire, and, if led by good kings, rewarded if you pull your weight and aren't degenerate. Not only that, but if you lead by example, and change the minds of your brethren, you will do a lot of good for your people.

>>34162112
>You don't look like any particular group which you can feel at one with
It might take a second, but there are certain features that people have that are unmistakable, once you know what to look for. Not only that, but your body does have the features of your ancestors, rooted in the history of their land. So you're not nobody, you're just in the midst of things. And most people are in the midst of something or another.

>>34162112
Who's gonna tell bro ts not tuff?

>>34159108
Define yourself by your individual accomplishments and personality, not by your genetics