Yes
Why not both?
What is them are?
Do i need a credit card? I'm 30 and never had one always just had a debit card
Functional countries use debit cards (Russia, China, all of Gayrope).Amerimutts will fall for most retarded scams and defend them to death.
>>35019869The simple answer is No.I always use debit or cash. Unless you want to build credit score rating for a house or car, it's safer to stay without one, especially if you know you're bad with money.
Absolutely fine as long as you pay it off every month. My credit card used to have 2% cashback on online orders which earned me 500 usd I wouldn't have had with a debit card.It is also much more streamlined when disputing online orders. Sometimes they didn't even bother with opening a dispute with the vendor and just credited me the $35 because the amount was so small.
>>35019869No. They are jewish tricks.
>>35020467What are you talking about? I get different kinds of bonuses on the three credit cards I have in Europe.
my head gets extremely itchy at night it's driving me insane trying not to scratch it idk what to do
>>35022179take vitamins and collagen, use tea tree oil soap/shampoo
>>35022179I make a homemade balm.Cocoa butterShea butter BeeswaxCoconut carrier oilEucalyptusTea tree oilRosemary oilRub that shit and never use Jew shampoo.
>>35022179why no one mentioning nizoral. greatest shampoo of all time and actually improves your hair cells
Immerse your entire body in hot lava, op
Eggs. Not kidding
Mother was laid off from her job and they told her not to file for unemployment wtf do I do?I cant apply for her
push her to applyif they want to lay her off they lose their say in the matter
also i need an alt email so i can post to redditits saying all the emails im using are invalid>>35022728I guess so
>>35022673You got your answers last time
you both are so submissive you could star in a rape porn where burglars fuck you and your mom and you would like it
ate a girl's ass and legit got diarrhea. Do i need antiobiotics for this? im embarassed to go to the doctor incase i shit myself in the waiting room
Depends on how long it lastsWear a diaper. It'll be less embarrassing
my childhood best friend and i have recently started talking again these past few months. we've been hanging out and calling almost everyday usually for about 7-9 hours and its genuinely been the only happiness ive felt in a very long time. just thinking about spending more time with her is enough motivation to get me through my day and i think it's safe to say that i love this girl to death and want to pursue a life with her. the problem is i really can't tell if she feels the same way as she's extremely shy and emotionally contained, the type that you would have to make the first move on, only i'm worried that if i do that it would fuck up everything that we have if she were to say no. are there any indirect ways for me to find out if shes interested without potentially losing my best friend? i don't mind normal flirting and teasing i just don't want to look like a retard and ruin everything by doing so. also should i be worried if she has like 1-2 other guy friends that she drinks with sometimes? (though they're her brothers friends plus she spends more time with me anyway.) i really need her bad bros i can't go back to the way things were before. shes all i got left
>>35019713>they're her brothers friendsProlly means they ain't up to much. You will regret not making a move far more than the opposite.
>>35019713Act like it is a thing and it will be so.
Stop talking on the phone for extended periods like that. Meet her irl and fuck her or you are just going to end up tortured in a gay simp orbiter relationship
"you miss all the shots you dont take per defaultlive a life without regret, one or the other way">everyday usually for about 7-9 hours and its genuinely been the only happiness ive felt in a very long time>just thinking about spending more time with her is enough motivation to get me through my dayhave you told her that? like upfront? i mean dont tell us that, tell HER that....the childhood friend, best in person.also talking that long on the phone sure fries your brain. i never talk more than 15 mins and feel really dizzy.>are there any indirect wayshave you been to her home, recently? have you seen her parents? maybe "hangout" some time at her place and catch her parents in a peaceful moment (when shes absent) or ask if you could help with some chores in the household (or car drive some shopping bags, help with the helloween decorations, idk get creative) and ask if they could tell you how they say how she feels towards you at home, just out of "curiousity"? idk i butchered the meaning of what i wanted to say prolly. but you get what i mean?>extremely shy and emotionally containedcan you tell us what astro/zodiac sign she is, if you know, per chance? knowing this will make formulating a good answer/response sentence for you way easier. if shes mid january-mid february for example, an aquarius, N-E-V-E-R just go for a kiss without really making them comprehend what you are intending to do and getting their good will/clearance b4 hand. i speak from experience (heart is an ice block). freedom and liberty are our alpha and omega.>i really need her badthat sounds and comes off as extremely needy, lets hope she doesnt dislike thatComment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>35021233gay
I hate being so dependent on people. Always clinging to people who don't add anything to me and brainwashing me.I am tired of being like this. Tired of having to continue living something that does me so much harm, I disgust myself... and I really would like to have the life I see other girls having. Because besides, I have always been the object of ridicule my whole life.How can I disperse these really bad thoughts against myself? I have gone to psychologists but they really don't help me at all and are starting to seem like an absolute waste of money.
Who are these people you cling to? Real life ones or like toxic discord contacts?
>>35022667real life people, especifically ex friends
>>35022716You just gotta be honest with yourself that this is definitely bad for you and cut off all negative influences,start your social life from scratch if you have to and only choose decent quality people to be around this time
>>35022724ty
>>35022609As the other guy implied, maybe consider a reset and be very selective about the people that you let come close. Its a bit cold but it is what it is. Being surrounded by the right people could be your gamechanger. Or spend some time alone with just yourself and your thoughts. Figure out who you are, what you want, how to get there without being influenced from the outside. Will be hard but maybe maybe it helps. Come and talk to us if its too much. Good luck.
Will getting a gf make you happy?
Only if you put work in the relationship and A LOT of work. You will not be happy just because you scored, not for long.
That's like asking if having a billion dollars will make you happy. On the surface it seems like that, but there are a shit ton of taxes you have to go through for that.
>>35016161No. It'll make you think you're happy for a while and when the dopamine wears off in a few months you'll be back to being miserable. Happiness comes from within and if you cannot be happy on your own a partner will not solve that for you. Not forever at least. You'll end up getting codependent and really fucking toxic and it'll blow up in your face.
>>35020379>but there are a shit ton of taxes you have to go through for that.and at the end of the day i'd still be able to pay off my mortgagefuck off with that
>>35016161Happy? Not directly, no. It might push you to do something worthwhile with your life though.
I fucked up big time. I drunkenly told my coworker, which also happens to be my boss, that I had feelings for her and have had for a while. She knows my girlfriend. I didn’t even want anything to happen since I love my girlfriend and don’t plan on leaving her I genuinely don’t know why the fuck I did it. I called her the next day to apologize and she seemed to take it well but at work she’s all avoidant and cold whereas she never was like that before. I gotta find a new job, right?
>>35023890Yeah. Idk I'm an unc I guess but this sort of thing really just seems like a young person type of mistake. Is the boss lady into you? Is she hot?
>>35023898She is to me obviously, but it’s unironically her personality which made me like her. I don’t know. I did ask her but she sort of didn’t answer. Im fucking mad at myself for ruining the only female friendship Ive had.
>>35023911Lol "female friendship"Not a thing. As evidenced by the fact you wanted to fuck her. She was never your friend and female/male "friendships" are a larp where one party wants to fuck the shit out of the other one.
>>35023911So your girlfriend is not and was never your friend, and your girlfriend's personality is so bad you took solace in someone else being platonically nice towards you. You also love your girlfriend for whatever reason and do not plan to leave her. So I guess you want to cheat? Or you just want the feeling to stop so a firm rejection is what you're after? Or you want to see if monkey-branching is the better option.
>>35024206Can't a man love two women at the same time? I'd never cheat, ever. I just want to stop feeling all this guilt.
How soon after doing porn detox do you stop getting constant urges to jerk it? I need light at the end of the tunnel
For me it takes 1-2 weeks before my brain switches to just desperately wanting to fuck any semi-attractive woman
>>35023146Personally I love feeling like that. It's reason enough not to watch porn.
>>35023146is this different than just having the urge to jack off all the time
>>35023273It's the same biological root imo but the increased urge to be with someone can push you to go out there more and socialize and try crazy stuff for a change
>>35023003when you say 3x a day i mean...do you just do quickies for breakfast lunch and dinner? i am currently edging right now, as i've been for the past...10 hours. I am sexcalling video chat girls, not watching porn. is that better? one of the good scenarios was just jerking off over tinder pics, well this is interactive vids that pretend to care about me and call me hot when i pay them, so is that better?i guess the root of the problem is what do you want to do with your life otherwise? what would you do with that wasted time? I feel like my life is already pretty much over in my late 30s, so it doesnt matter either way, but maybe you have a better chance.>>35023146see, me, i could control it forever. im surrounded by hot women at my work, and yet the consequences of actually doing anything outweigh the "wanna fuck" feeling. I felt the same whether i only jacked off twice a month, or these uncontrollable mindmelt all-day binges i've been having fueled by depress where i barely even eat. in fact, while i am jacking it, i dont get hungry, so it seems to be a way to stop hunger, along with falling asleep forgetting to eat dinner. today i have only had cereal, and the day is over, i better eat something.i havent even fully cum yet today, its been pretty unsatisfying.
What does productivity even mean at this point? Nothing I create and work on matters to anyone these days. I had a ton of projects that I worked hard on and they ended up being obsolete and a waste of time
Fuck all PHP users
>>35021711Maybe tying your identity to computer stuff when you knew enough about computers to know they would eventually outpace you was a bad idea.I could give you the speech about doing something that matters to you instead of everyone else to get fulfillment but you’ve surely heard it before. The things I have done which have actually mattered to other people have been the most “inspired” things I’ve done. Inspiration is mostly internal for me, though. The best appreciation and acknowledgment I ever get is when I was doing something purely for the love of the game and somebody notices it in the course of normal events. Do something cool because you fucking love it. That passion is undeniable and always draws other people in.
THIS HAS HAPPENED BEFORE where i had a boyfriend and i met his bestfriend and he seemed like a better fit for me than my current partner attmy solution for now is to goon in silence looking at his pics until all of it fades away and i lose interest (hopefully or until i see him again). My question is the long term: If I stay with my boyfriend i have to get over this crush, the only fantasy there is has to stay in my head and i have to never confess these feelings to no one.Anyone relates? :’Dor any mature advice?
>>35024343i understand what you mean,and thank you for talking here
Break up with your boyfriend and make sure you don't have any contact with his friend afterwards.I don't see the point in trying to get over it and delude yourself that you like your boyfriend but you also you're right in that you can never say anything about the crush. Just get away from all of these people and start fresh.
>>35024495Bad advice. Atrocious even.
>>35024558If she's getting random crushes like that she doesn't like her boyfriend enough to bother keeping him Don't ask me how I know lol
>>35024225No. It's fake newspeak fag terminology
I've a "virgin only wife or nothing" sort of a brother. He is reasonably good looking, about 6'1-6'2(I'm 5'9 and he is more than half a skull taller than me), makes 6 figures, is planning to become a "startup bro" and is appaled by the modern dating scene and the women involved in it. I want to convince him that there's nothing wrong in dating & marrying a non-virgin woman, but he is absolutely disgusted by the prospect of having children with these types. He literally sees non-virgin women as whores. I tried to gaslight him by saying that it's objectification & dehumanization to categorize women with a past as vermins, but he counters it by saying that it's even more pathetic, lowly & verminous of men who marry ran through women, as such an act not only taints the man's honour, but also that of his would-be children. I also tried to shame him by saying that only insecure, impotent, non-masculine men care about a woman's past, but he won't budge. How do I convince this autismo to change his outlook on life and not to waste his potential all away?Also, How many men out there are actually repulsed by non-virgin women when it comes to marriage? I couldn't find many, but I fear there could be a lot of closet virgin fetishists that I'd imagined.
>>35007763I at a Catholic college, 18-22 year olds, and I would say 60% (on the lower end) are virgin women
all the gaslighting bullshit and general BPDisms ITT prove why men are right to avoid promiscuous sluts.it's like something in a woman's brain breaks when they give a man their body and he still decides they're not good enough to marry
>>35011145anyone who isn't married and has sex outside of marriage is a whore. that is what the word etynologically means not exactly prostitute.
>>35007779Why would he not go for 18 year olds?
>>35021068nta but don't you think virgins between 23 to idk 28 are the best, simply because they're young enough to have healthy children and still disciplined enough to have protected their virginity. In the same vein, a 30 year old virgin woman is infinitely better than a 20 year old ran through whore
I don't need to fear how many men a women has fucked, because I've also fucked men(top). But my question is, would a woman get turned off if I told her this? It was mostly straight leaning gay sex, most of my partners were trans and crossdressed. Surely women would prefer that over actual gay coded sex.
>>35024144Unfortunately kind of this. “I fucked 20 dudes” coming from her and “I fucked 20 dudes” coming from OP is the same thing verbally speaking but they are not the same thing to a woman. Not even to a feminist woman who virtue signals about it in other situations.
>>35024182They're not the same thing by any stretch of the imagination
>>35024185They are verbally the exact same thing but will be judged differently, that was the point I was making. The statements themselves are identical. Their meanings and implications are not. That’s a feminist double standard setup I’m talking about.
>>35024138>MostDating as a guy you'd have to accept most women aren't interested.The ones that are fine with it will be really chill with that part. The ratio depends on where you are.>>35024182Not even to a feminist woman who virtue signals about it in other situations.Its true in that no amount of ideology can change women's minds. It's some kind of biologically ingrained traitIt helps to have a huge bodycount in general. Op would already be filtering for the type of women who want him.
They’re not cool with it. Even if they say they are, they’re not cool with it. Permanent “ick”
Hello anons, I’ve recently started experiencing extremely aggressive thoughts and impulses. I started noticing this tendencies a couple of weeks ago at the gym; whenever I saw a hot girl I felt extremely enraged and I wanted to fuck her but at the same time crush her with the dumbbells or whatever machine I was using (idk why but that increased my strength exponentially), then it was with my girlfriend (I’m not a nigger so I have never beaten her up and never will), I started chocking her and throwing her around during sex and recently I have catch myself fantasizing about killing her dog in front of her and causing her suffer in general.I know this is fucked up and idk what to do… any ideas on what can be causing it and how can I solve it?
>>35024136What do you mean "was". Trt is usually a permanent thing. And if that's what you're doing then this is what normal test levels feel like.
>>35024120You feel emasculated and this is a way to overcompensate. Just guessing
>>35023981Kek this sounds fake asf, the Op is some jeet who doesn’t get enough attention from his parents
>>35024162One hundred, cuh
>>35023981I was like this when I was 20. Just realize you're a retard and do some type of fighting sports. All your aggression will be rewarded with an ass whooping and you'll be forced to calm down.
