I just turned 20, what should I do with my freetime?
>>34848053go for a walk
>>34848053Build legos
bitches dont know shit bout my belly dick
Go thrifting
every thread I've been reading here I've noticed most of anons biggest problems are being either NEETs, unemployed, homeless, working low-labor, and I'm honestly wondering if there's rich anons here or we're all poor here? Is money truly the solution to everyone's misery?
>>34853363No. Money is the latest scheme by elites to control other people. Before that we had slavery, which doesn't work well becuase you have to manage every aspect of the slaves life, and they don't work 100% optimally, in fact they do the minimum, or simply run away or revolt. So they invented money and banking and infrastructure around it so everything needs money to function. If you refuse to work and get money, you can't participate in the system, and you can try and fend for yourself, which means being homeless outliers, but since the elites and 99% of the world use the money system, you effectively cannot survive without it unless you want to be a nature hermit, and even then they try to get you for taxes.
Money is all that matters. The number in your bank account determines your value as a human.
>>34853089it must not matter at all anon.
>>34853089>Is money truly the solution to everyone's misery?No. Of course not. Having money solves some money issues and creates other ones. But anon would be miserably regardless.
>>34853123im not rich but moderately wealthy for my age. im a neet still, just inherited some money and invested it well. the way i see it money doesnt buy happiness but it does buy coping mechanisms. i have hobbies i enjoy that cost money i couldnt do if i were piss poor. the biggest benefit of course is not having existential dread about how to get food, but that you do usually get regardless via unemployment money in wealthy nations. all in all, my life is like a 6-7 in quality of life right now, without money im guessing that would reduce to a 5.
Matched with a girl that said she's not looking for a boyfriend. She's looking for a daddy...What the fuck is a daddy?
>>34843493>I don't mean in a derogatory way.There's no other way to mean it. A good daddy is a role model, and good role models don't teach women to hate themselves by using misogynistic language. You're in the role of a father: how many good, actual fathers would casually describe their own daughter as a "slut"?
>>34815779one of two things sugar daddy- pay for everything princess treatment etcDDLG- a kink larping relationship where she pretends to be a child and you are her dad not necessarily sexual
>>34851707And this nigger >>34822481 thinks this is somehow a good thing.
>>34851766What a nigger.
>>34822315Were you born stupid or just repeatedly dropped on the floor as a child?
I love chubby girls, I think they are really soft and cute, however I'm not really attractive in general so I have a hard time with women in generalDo you have any advice on how to attract chubby girls?
>>34854651>Go for the characterGood point but where can I find girls who will look past my ugliness? I don't think I'm hideous but I'm definitely below average
It must be about character
>>34854614You need to be tall, have a huge dick, and earn 6 figures
>>34854614If you want to fuck them, good luck that is almost as tough as fucking any other girl now.It you want to date them, that's considerably easier because women like this are either loners or used to guys pump and dumping them. Treat them with respect and like a real person. Make them feel beautiful and wanted and they'll eat out of the palm of your hand because no other guy will treat them as more than just a plaything.
>>34854614Hey, me too bro. One like in your picrel are rare, you are showing a 90% percentile chubby girl.Talking from my experience, usually the chubby girls you'll find on dating apps are the shut-in and lonely type. Attractiveness varies a lot.>>34855060Is correct. In the past I dated a chubby girl who told me directly she had enough of pump and dump relationships (using different words, but you get the idea). Clearly I was the first guy that treated her well because she was willing to do a lot for me, including driving me places and doing favours for me.
How come other people can have these like inception like dreams where they thought they were awake and in reality but they kept waking up inside a dream that's inside a dream that's inside another dream?Meanwhile, the only dreams I ever have are of me being in a dark black void where nothing ever happens.Why is that? How come I don't have dreams like they do? How come my dreams are of darkness and nothingness?
>>34849691No I remember them, they're just not as "vivid" and "real" as people describe their dreams to be. It's basically like if I was to walk around my house with my eyes closed. You know you're in your house but you can't see shit. Like you know there's a door there but you can't see it. You know there's a person in front of you but you can't see him.
>>34847459Call Me Now!!!
>>34851853Please please call me now please :(
>>34839720Do you smoke a lot of weed?I quit smoking a few months ago and started having extremely vivid dreams I can remember when I wake up, like when I was a kid.Weed fucks with your REM sleep and makes you not remember any dreams you do actually have.
>>34854917>Do you smoke a lot of weed?Never>makes you not remember any dreams you do actually haveI remember every dream I have, I just don't SEE them.>like when I was a kidEven when I was a kid, I never SAW my dreams.As I explained here >>34849738I have dreams, I just don't see them. It's black.My dreams are thoughts and emotions, not visuals.They have never been visual, just thoughts.
When I was gardening three days ago, I came across an animal bone in the heap of soil. I can't remember the exact details, but I'm thinking I might have touched it. What's the chance I got rabies from it, because I can't remember if I scratched my body or ate without washing my hands?
>>34851013Hm just go to a doc and get a test
>>34851013No
>>34853301What are you so afraid about then? Why do you think the fox family would just stop and chew on an old bone. Wouldn't you think they'd pick it up and carry it a little and not leave it there?
>>34854299The fox may have just licked it and left it there. It may be contained without them taking it away.
>>34854586How do you know a fox may have even licked it? How can you prove that? Did it look like somebody had licked it?
I'm 29, always been weird and never had much luck in life due to several difficult circumstances.At 27, just as I was giving up on the idea of ever finding someone I could love I met a girl for whom I fell in love thinking it was reciprocal.Ultimately I was led on and ultimately ditched for a close friend who wormed his way in, the only person I've ever managed to love, I could briefly experience what love feels and then it all went away leaving an unspeakable amount of grief. It's been a year and I'm still thinking about both her and him. It does things to one's self-esteem and on top of that I just feel like I'll never experience any of that again, especially as I'm growing old.I briefly had a kind of energy I never experienced before and now it went away. I've been trying to move on, meet other girls (it's very difficult for me to bond if it wasn't clear already), I started MMA to try to look better and to feel strong and grounded, it's helping me a bit and that's probably the only positive thing in my life.I love my job but so far it's not giving me a lot and I feel behind compared to my peers, I was able to get a rather important language cert this spring and I'm working on getting a driving licence (another important milestone I previously missed) come September but it never feels like I'm doing enough.I feel stuck, on top of everything else a few months ago police began an investigation on me due to my political beliefs (living in EU) and I have allegations against me which could turn into a prison sentence.I don't know what to do, or better it feels like whatever I do is only going to land me in a worse situation. It feels like quicksand, maybe I should have contented myself of existing as the quietly depressed half-neet volcel I was for about a decade.I'm hurting, I wish I could catch a break and I wish I could find someone again, I had so much love to give, though I'm left without recipient now.Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>34851287I'm not sure where are you driving at but I've been knowing myself better in the last year. Why the question?
most of the circumstances in our life are beyond your control, whether you find this fact terrifying or liberating is up to your perspective
>>34851263
>>34851263Find someone else
>>34853452will it even be possible? I've never loved anyone before her
A question for the +30 anons: what would you do if you were 23?
By that point it was already too late for me
>>34839987No offense, you're Vietnamese talking like this on 4chud. My goodness, this is cringe asf. Thank god I grew out of this site, embarrassing.
So this thread keeps going but not mine? What bullshit
>>34831199Any concrete answer I could give would involve prepping for stuff that nobody predicted could happen, like Covid or AI turning the whole economy on its head.The best advice I can give you is not to stress about every decision you make, even the ones that feel super important. Use your judgment to make the best decision you can, but don't stress when things don't go your way for factors outside your control. When you're older, you'll be much happier if you can learn to forgive your younger self. You're doing the best you can, and only in hindsight can you see that you might have made the wrong choices.
>>34853662Ruminating is awful to do to yourself and I am guilty of the same. I would strongly suggest going to a community college if that's an option for you, you don't have to know what you want, but actively choosing to strike a different path instead of just spending all of your shift hating your life has done WONDERS for me.
I am a 32M virgin KHHV. I have absolutely zero experience with women but i have been talking with a girl and she offered to have sex with me probably out of pity. She has experience, she is not virgin. Now the problem is I don't know how to have sex. Are there tutorials or guides that teach you how to do it? I don't mean porn, I've watched porn since 13yo. I mean something that really explains what is the process. For example, I know I should start kissing, but I don't know for how long. I don't know what I should do next. I don't know what is the standard process. She knows I'm virgin, but I am sure she doesn't imagine how inexperienced I am.
>>34854455>For example, I know I should start kissing, but I don't know for how long. For as long as you both want to. There aren't any rules. You kiss because kissing is incredibly fun, and you enjoy doing it, not because it's some weird kind of formulaic ritual.>I don't know what I should do next. Whatever you both enjoy. >I don't know what is the standard process.THERE IS NO SUCH THING.>She knows I'm virgin, but I am sure she doesn't imagine how inexperienced I am.How much less experienced can you be than having no experience?
>>34854530>She knows I'm virgin, but I am sure she doesn't imagine how inexperienced I am.She has had many boyfriends and I am sure she hasn't have sex with a virgin. I know she doesn't have idea how retarded a virgin can be
>>34854455look at it like going to war. be tactical and show no mercy. use mind tricks and subterfuge as necessary.https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=FgxacX72snA&ra=m
>>34854513Nigga.Honest, you don't deserve to be fucked. Go ask how to assemble a nuke instead.
>>34854551It doesn't require much imagination or intelligence to understand that if you've never done something before you won't know how to do it and you'll be terrible at it.
is it actually worth it + where would u start doing it? i dont wanna talk a lot about myself i just need money and i have a decent laptop... i dont need to get rich, i just wanna make some money "on the side" so to say. im old enough and my body's ok...
>>34851952Probably not gonna make money, do it if you wanna do it, not for money
>>34853546>do it if you wanna do it, not for moneywould you? what a weird thing to say
How much for a picture of your butthole?
>>34853693whatever youre willing to give at this point lol
>>34853619Some people have an exhibitionism fetish. Camming is RELATIVELY safe apart from a stalker somehow finding out where you live.
ok bear with me now...>b me>19 yo f>known this guy for 4 years now>he took advantage of me when we were younger>reconnect at the start of this year>start hooking up and falling in love with eachother>i literally cannot date him or else all y friends and family will hate me and also i still have my dignity>a literal week ago we went for a walk and hung out and he said i was "giving dead wife energy">we stopped having sex like a little over a month ago>randomly an old co worker of mine starts posting about this guy outta nowhere>i recognize his house on her instagram story and tiktok>start crashing out desu>how you gonna be dick and balls deep in me, whispering in my ear about how much you love me, and then fucking another girl immedietly afterComment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>34854839i never wanted to date him, i spednd all my time at my job which i love and it really has helped me with getting through this, then again im mad that im even fucking mad ahhhhh hes so gay and stupid but idk like why do i even ike him at all hes A FUCKING EVIL FAGGOT RAHHH
>>34854658desu this the best advice so far in this thread, god bless
>>34854892>>34854610You're 19. He took advantage of you as an underageb&. Feel and process the anger and betrayal, but anyone could have seen this coming from the outside. Move on. I'm assuming you're damaged and hypersexual, find some pent up dork closer to your age and fuck each other senseless and get it out of your system.
>>34854610>hes so cunning and evil. he always has ulterior motivesThen why are you so upset that you're not with him?
>>34854610huh so you stopped giving Chad pussy, and he moved on to the next pussy? crazy...
How long will I be able to keep my sanity while having no social life?
Five years.3 years you start showing signs.
Sanity, possibly forever. Language and communication skill, deteriorates after a few years. Upkeep of hygiene and health, in my experience, only a few days.
>>34854294This. Try to sing songs and rehearse speeches or something, or talk on VR chat. If you don't use your voice you will start thinking less quickly, as you age these problems become less and less reversible, starting at 30.
>>34854279what drives you crazy is other people. you'll be fine.https://rumble.com/v4qz6rl-the-evil-of-the-world-is-what-makes-you-crazy.html?e9s=src_v1_cbl%2Csrc_v1_ucp_v
>>34854284I've been talking to myself ever since I was a kid. What does that mean?
Basically, I joined this man's live and he started to make fun of me and my profile disrespectfully , I told him to stop teasing me and making fun of my deceased brother and his name (his name is mayace , you can see why he was joking about him) that made me feel bad , when I told him to stop , he literally muted me and then blocked me , I just need to find him to confront him about how disrespectful he was being, and just because someone's name sounds a little funny, doesn't mean he can make fun of it . I need your help to know who blocked me on TikTok, so that I can therefore find him. I don't care , any advice might help , I know that it's difficult to do so , I already did my research and I can say that I can't really find a list of people who blocked me on TikTok, but I don't care, I still have hope to teach that man a lesson , please I need your help if there's any way you know that might help me , I'm so desperate anything might help , please I'm begging.THANK YOU!
Took a massive shit this morning and now my asshole feels all bruised and sore. And also kind of itchy. Seriously, it was like I had king kongs fingers clawing their way out of my colon. Feels like I've been kicked in the butthole really hard. What the fuck do I do?
>>34847107You're likely eating too much fiber, then.
>>34847113I bought some lentils, oats and leafy greens. Gonna make a sausage and lentil meal prep tomorrow using a recipe I found. https://dishingouthealth.com/sausage-and-lentils/Right now I'm eating cereal. My asshole is still aching but there's no blood at all. I cleaned pretty thoroughly down there with some of those flushable wipes. God damn. I've taken monster shits before but I've never been this fucked up by one lol. Seriously felt like I was shitting a fat salami made of broken pine cones. Thank you for the advice lads. I'll keep piling on fibre. Haven't shat since but hopefully it was just a one time cursed dump.
>>34847180>>34846986Thanks for sharing, sounds like some serious shit. jk I hope you feel better, you are probably fine. Imo sounds like dehydration. poo gets hard and full of rough cracks when you are dehydrated.
>>34846986Hermerhoid hermorrhoid whatever bleeding ripped asshole
lucus paw paw ointment or equivalentworks on cuts works on everything
Why the fuck is YouTube doing this to me?
>>34850430That's the biggest pile of shit I've ever seen.
>>34845731What the fuck is this shit?!Now every time I go make a google search, I have to solve one of those annoying fucking picture captchas.And they don't even work half the time when I select the right fucking pictures.This is some grade A level bull shit man. Why the fuck is google doing this shit?
>>34845731vpn?
>>34854759Got any good free ones?
>>34854759Actually you know what, now that I think about it, knowing Google, they probably know all the IPs of all the major VPNs, and Tor obviously, and will 100% do the "Sign in to confirm you're not a bot" thing on those.
