>2 years ago>with my ex>loved and respected her>i wanted to fuck other girls>now>actual gf>really love and respect her, way more my ex>still wanna fuck other girlswhy this always happen? what should i do?with my ex it was understandable, at least she was very ugly and insufferable, but now i'm living the dreammy gf likes women too, so to try making the things legally, i said her that if she wants to have sex with a girl it's ok for me and i would like to watch at least, but she refused and said that she would hate to see me looking at other girl naked, and it would be even worse if other girl was looking at me naked
>>35091473Just deal with it. Every man gets urges and has a wandering eye, why do you think two of the Ten Commandments have to do with sexual prudency (no adultery but also, separately, not envying your neighbor's wife)?Stop watching porn too, it's making you identify women as purely sex objects and it's building a virtual harem in your head>my gf likes women too, so to try making the things legally, i said her that if she wants to have sex with a girl it's ok for me and i would like to watch at least, but she refused and said that she would hate to see me looking at other girl naked, and it would be even worse if other girl was looking at me nakedThere's no point in dating a bisexual woman if she's not gonna be ok with you getting in on the action, you're just gonna deal with the mental illness of having a rainbow alphabet person in your life. Judging from her reaction she was either a college bisexual and still identifies with that to be "unique," or she'll eventually go full dike and leave you for some chick who's the goddess of eating box.
>>35091473>why this always happen? Male genetics.>what should i do?Preferably, nothing.
>>35091473>why this always happen?because that's normal>what should i do?1. Not cheat2. Find another girl who's willing to let you cheatThe real question. Do you think you can resist cheating?
NEWSFLASH FROM AN OLDFART:You will ALWAYS be tenpted. Maturity comes with deciding not to give in.
Do you think the loneliness epidemic is getting better or worse? I wonder if birthrates will keep declining as a result.
>>35091605Yeah shit's going great actually! You can see it all around!
>>35091441>Emasculate the men, make them passive and non-assertive>Masculinize the women, make them haughty and entitled >Reverse the mating script Population decreased, all according to plan
>>35091612What's your alternative socialist?
>>35091441>gen z is fucked isn't it?Surely the problem is that they're not fucked
My son's a faggot. What the hell do I do? I feel like I failed him some way.
>>35087143Unironically, buy some ivermectin (deworming medication) and get him to take it somehow. It can be hard to find or expensive in certain parts of America and Europe, so it depends on how dedicated you are to fixing your kid.The reason he should take the med is that homosexuality is not just a psychological condition, and it certainly isn't a sexual preference (that is absurd). Rather, it is often the result of T. Gondii (Toxoplasmosis parasites) in the brain and colon, contracted from contact with infect cats (feces, urine, possibly saliva), rodents, and the body fluids of other infected male humans (females cannot spread it, oddly enough). Assuming you get it from a reputable source intended for human consumption and not farm animals, put your son on the regular regimen included on the bottle.Additionally, encourage him to do frequent muscular exercise (work out with him if need be and say you just want to help each other get/stay healthy), then cook a lot of high-protein meals with red meat. Boosting his natural testosterone will help change his brain chemistry for the weak, psychological side of him.Then lastly, do whatever you can socially and encourage him to hang out with female friends, etc. Doing this stuff is not a guarantee of course, but it beats letting him continue living like a faggot and infecting other men with parasites.
>>35087184You are still around posting this??? How many years have you been here nowI don't see you on /r9k/ or /b/ anymore
Being gay is a choice.
>>35087143Is he a healthy, happy, functioning faggot? Is he in a committed loving relationship? Then he's doing a hell of a lot better than you are.
>>35092845no it's not, I never wanted to be a faggot
What is /htgwg/?How to Get Women General is by anons, for anons, about the modern dating landscape. So bring all of your questions about dating here. Some anons on this site actually get partners and laid, and some of them even want to help. If you're trying to meet and date people, then this is the place to ask questions, seek advice, and share experiences. We know how hard it can be. We got you bro.>What is /htgwg/ not?These threads are NOT for whining, moping, incels, femlcels, MGTOW, hopelessness, pinkpillers or demoralization. We're all aware that meeting and dating people is hard today, and even harder for some, but /htdg/ is for trying to overcome the challenges. IGNORE the posters who complain, give up, or insist there's nothing they can do. This site has other boards and threads that they can pollute. BE SMART: Spot the bait, don't reply, and DON'T WASTE TIME ARGUING WITH THEM!>How to ask for adviceContext is important: be more specific than "I got ghosted, why?" We can't help if we don't know the situation, so try to provide as much (useful) info as possible ("I was at the bar, someone was checking me out..."). What's your relationship with them? How long have you known them? Any conversation screenshots? Etc... Don't forget to ask an actual question.>Resources and Bookshttps://wingman.live/ (AI dating coach)https://www.youtube.com/@HealthyGamerGGComment too long. Click here to view the full text.
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10/10I felt compelled by the obscene amount of faggotry in this thread to provide some basics for you losers to learn from. Thank me later and remember: women hang out at the finish line and pick the winners.
Additional notes: 1) Women do not know what they want until it falls into their lap. You have to show her you are what she wants.2) Do not take dating advice from women, ever. 3) The Brad Pitt rule is evergreen. 4) Pick your gurus. People who have maintained a poor relationship record will give you advice that will lead you to the same. That old G who has maintained a 60 year relationship with his wife will give you much better advice than any dating coach ever will.
>>35092988Pick your guru is a bit ironic here, because anon somehow wants you to take his advice. This post right here basically invalidates the utility of this thread.
>>35092997Take my advice, or don't. I'm not here to be your mother. The point is that you likely have people in your life or in your vicinity who will be able to give you good relationship advice or points on how to be a man.
How can I turn my life around in my late 20's?
>>35089490360 and push the gas pedal all the way down
>>35089615Awful advice, kys
>>35091032>in order to get a gf you must have your life sortedUh...no?>in order to get your life sorted you must have a gfUh...no? And actually this one is an even bigger no, it doesn't even make sense as a premise.It sounds like a lot of your problems are because of your unfounded assumptions about how you think life is supposed to work.
>>35089490Lift heavy weights until the thoughts go away
>>35089490DO what you've put off doingSTOP doing what you've been doing
girl of interest is going camping with 3 other dudes should I be concerned?
>>35091896and when did this fairytale story happen unc, in 1812?because these days there is zero way a girl is going camping with 3 guys just to sleep in a hammock by herself
>>35092123In your scenario you'd need a BMC (Big Millennial Cock) because I know you nutless coward zoomers wouldn't do anything either
>>35087974Go out there and investigate.
You should only have girls of interest who have never been alone with another male. Increase your orbiter standard
>>35087974You should be more concerned about your strange compulsion to post and repost this at an average of once a week
No Nut November 2026It's November 10th, 2026. How's everyone's NNN going so far?We're already a third of the way through the month. Are you participating in NNN this year?What day did you last?Have you already failed? If so, what was the cause?Has avoiding porn been harder than avoiding masturbation?What's your personal strategy for surviving the rest of November?Do you think NNN is easier or harder in 2026 compared to previous years?Stay strong, anons. 20 days left.
The point of a test of willpower is to exercise greater self control over your life, it's not like you can't do a diet and nofap at the same time.Even if you see no point, being this opposed to participating in a challenge and setting a goal for yourself for fun is just sad.>>35087419I failed two days ago, what really bugs me about it is that it happened due to porn.It happens with something innocent like browsing /b/ and inevitably browsing various websites "out of curiosity".I know that I could have lasted longer, I made it to the middle of the month last year, so even though I failed I'll try to do at least the latter half of November this year.
>>35087419I am still participating. I haven't tried NNN every year but so far I have only done it once. At the end of that month my balls felt full and heavy. Didn't take long to ejaculate and it felt good, so that kinda motivates me to do it again.
gf made me cum and made fun of me for it, can't wait to go an extra 11 days into December without cummjng in order to make up for this
>>35087419To be honest this month I've been gooning more than usual without cumming, basically blue-balling myself multiple times a day after work and edging almost to the point of ejaculation.Day 2 was the breaking point since I ended up with a bit of a white stain in my undies after going to sleep - not that I can't resist nutting for two days, but because the occasion suddenly makes a "forbidden" act all the more tempting and I couldn't let it go, hence the daily fapping to keep it in check.Everyone's different, but I've learned that after two weeks of not cumming my balls are virtually back to 100%, and the one time I actually managed to get through NNN and let loose in December was no different to losing two weeks in. So, I'm at a crossroads whether to keep going for diminishing returns, or accept that I'm a coomer and have replenished my dick enough to go wild another year. It's not the progression of not losing so far that's keeping me going, but the pride of losing a challenge yet again. Since I'm fapping is there a need to take it seriously anyway, or is there some other benefit to going on another 2.5 weeks? This is the debacle I face
>>35087419Been cumming to tranny cock, and nice shaven smooth balls, and that beautiful bulge between the balls and the asshole, and of course, the asshole itself, what a delicious thing.I have been busting fat nuts, imagining sucking it, burying myself in it, or letting their cock fill me and milking or JUICING their cum out of them.I love thick white cumI will never not nut, a day i don't nut is the day i died
How do I unlock super powers?
>>35092920High IQ is basically a super power because it makes everyone significantly dumber than you a subhuman, as a result you would be superhuman by default.
>>35092963I'm thinking more superman powers.
>>35092971you were born on the wrong planet for thatbetter luck on the next life
what do 30 year old normies do to meet other normies? i like the way i am looking now, i have a hair style and clothes, my teeth are clean. i feel like "going out" but i dont really know what that means. i have interacted with service workers and i want to do that in a casual setting basically
>>35092605Makerspaces and hackerspaces used to be good, and still are in places
>>35092620The only "women" he'll meet at those places were born with XY chromosomes, apart from the fat lesbian 50 year old "shop master."
>>35092635Oh he wants to meet women? I thought he meant just people in general.To meet women you just need to wait until it's 2:30-3:00am in your city's clubbing district, follow some wobbly bitch and knock her out with a brick. It's not too hard in Anglo countries
>>35092647Thanks, Muhammad!
>>35092635>The only "women" he'll meet at those places were born with XY chromosomesFine by me. In fact, I prefer it.>>35092647>I thought he meant just people in general.That is what I meant.
since i was 18 (now 24) i have only wished to only eat wtv is around and sleep and maybe have wifi to doomscroll, thats ityeah i can have some dreams to have "a" nice car, big home wtv wtv but i dont really care i think im retarded my brain gets actually tried when i try to think about the future i kinda just wanna cry (sorry for sobmaxxing/venting)tldr idk why im not trying to be normal or nice i wanna have the will and the dreams, idk why im deadnot to be weird but i wanted to be homeless and leave my family and just be alone (idk if thats related to my question or not but i constantly just think i wish i wasnt born/dead, maybe im depressed? but for 6 years? idkim not on anything i barely have enough energy to post this or talk to u peoplehopefullyh i find someone who went thru the same thing so while i was writing this post, one thing i remembered that i find happiness in watching porn... thats probably it, and as sad as this sounds but maybe ejaculating and post gooning or wtv makes me feel kinda elated and wholesome ig? idk
Some people need to cast away their free will and be given a task or goal to set them toward the right path. The "you can be whatever you set your mind to" thing kinda falls short when you're not given any direction. You're still young enough to be given a goal you wanna work toward because yes your lack of direction and being stuck in your head all the time will turn you towards just giving up and not doing anything at all and wanting to leave everyone around you as to not disappoint them or become a burden to them. Life is just boring like that. You wouldn't survive being homeless there's unironically layers to being hungry and cold and you'll learn the difference between being tired and what real fatigue is fighting for your life every day in the streets. There's no "normal" just find something that you can stomach waking up to every day that allows you to comfortably have time for your hobbies. Take a career test and just autistically strive towards whatever is suggested and things will start falling into place once you have a goal, responsibilities, and things worth losing/worth fighting for. Follow one of your parents' careers too if you want some accountability.
>>35085675I think im just depressed i talked to someone today and they made me feel kinda welcomed and wanted, i got better slightly and the incentive to have a normal life came backI would be kind of a lazy fuck if i made my well being dependent on others being here for me but yeah idk i really do need to be accepted i miss that feeling I think i live for it and u get depressed when i realize no one is coming and nothing matters Sorry for intertwining my problems together
Would you like to be friends?
I play in a decently enjoyed local band. We just finished our first album and are getting ready to put it out. I've started writing new songs and at first I felt great about them. I felt like I've grown, gotten better and can put my old songs to shame. The more I listen to, work on and write new stuff I just feel awful like the good old songs were a fluke and I'm out of whatever I had to make the good songs in the first place.I've been really trying and practicing not just writing a lot, but also really looking into, breaking down and understanding songs I like to broaden my musicial vocabulary.Anyways, can you get worse at a skill you work hard at and practice?I feel like as long as I keep trying and get more knowledgable I should be getting and feeling better.I just feel worse off and lost.It's very frustrating and defeating.
With music it's not uncommon to run out of ideas relatively quickly. Even in the big leagues almost nobody writes any of their own shit or comes up with any of the ideas because they were mentally tapped out long long ago
Just keep writing and listening to different kinds of music. Try writing in different styles.
>>35091626It is legitimate and natural for your standards to go up. Maybe you are not getting worse, just not settling for staying at the same level.On the other hand, if you are doing something the wrong way, practice will only make you better at doing it the wrong way.
You're also aging
>>35091626>Can you get worse at things you practice?Yes, this is entirely possible and quite frankly, fairly easy.I have played chess as a hobby fairly regularly but I never really bothered to study it or my games seriously so I have been hardstuck in like 1200 and maybe even getting worse as well.When trying to Improve at something you need to strive for absolute perfection in a sense. In golf, the perfect swing, in basketball the perfect throw, in art a drawing that mimics reality perfectly. In music the perfect ??? The perfect sound? The perfect beat? The perfect rythym? Trying to approach music systematically doesn't work because there is no standard of perfection you could possibly adhere to.In a sense, the more you learn about music, the worse you become because you start applying this monotonous rigidity, and you just start mindlessly remaking the same kind of song and sticking to whatever sounds good enough.When it comes to creative endeavors you have to pursue whatever draws the most emotion out of you. Rather than it just sounding good, it moves you deeply to an extent.And with music less is more, the more colors you mix together the more muddy they become until it eventually turns black. The same is true for music, eventually you cross a point to where what you are making is just noise.
OK, so I've. been identifying as a lesbian my whole life. I grew up in a queer household and just assumed I'd never like men, just like my adoptive parents. I know I like women. But now it's starting to seem like I like men, too. But... it's always about submission to men. I am pretty much entirely submissive for other women, but with men, the very idea scares me. I'm in a relationship, but now there's this and it's just bothering me a lot. The kinks I masturbate tend to feature misogyny as a literal theme. Not just bondage and stuff, but literally subjugating women and taking our rights away as a kink. Kink used to feel more like unserious jokes to me. Almost like Macho Man doing the "cream of the crop" promo. Fun but not serious.But now there's this. This scares the shit out of me and I'm now scraping the bottom of the internet well for advise on how to cope with this? I can't find a good therapist.Yes I could go to /LGBT/, but they haven't been useful on these subjects thus far, so I'm trying here.Yes; I am fully aware some of you very lonely guys could find this "hot" and that you'll probably say a lot of other shit I'll find fucked up in some way or another, too. Please don't bother; I've pretty much fully processed my core political, moral, and social opinions.Pic unrelated.
>>35092878>bisexual/lesbian women>(Who ironically have the highest % odds of domestic violence out of all the demographics)Where does this weird myth come from?
>>35092930From the reported statistics of domestic violence per demographic. Lesbians have the highest number, beating out gays and straights
>>35092777You are a nasty bislut, stay away from real lesbians
>>35092777What did you expect, it takes two brain cells to predict this resultThe sex drive is genetically hardcoded into us and humans are naturally inclined to show vulnerabilityIf you suppress it too much it comes back harder
>>35092932>Lesbians have the highest number, beating out gays and straights*self-identified lesbians, and the abuse numbers come from when they were in heterosexual relationships (aka they got beat up by men). You didn't even read the study you're referencing, retarded moid.
How do I have fun again?I’m not depressed, just an incel.
Being an incel IS depression. Bang some hookers
>>35091930I don’t even know where to hire a prostitute outside of Nevada
Zen mind means understanding we all have incel moments. Achieving da zen by not caring and not NOT caring ur not getting poon tangSex should be an afterthought. An afterimage. One must imagine things but not sexual things. Keep the mind focused on things that matter like how that damn Jayson Tatum boomed him . And how he’s “so good” and how we all can’t be like Jayson Tatum but that is ok. We can instead be like LeBron
>>35091914What's your life situation? Are you in work or education? Do you have something to look forward to? What are your interests and hobbies? Do you have friends outside of love interests?
The girl I like rejected me months ago, I took it like a man but I still can't get over her completely. When does the sting go away?
>>35084073>>35088848>>35089784>>35091830I didn't know Chad Thundercock was on this board, the way y'all talk about finding a new woman as if it was as easy as going to the store for milk.
>>35083835It never will. Bonds are like hooks that yank you for the rest of your life. Make more good bonds that yank you in a good way and you wont feel the bad ones unless you hyperfocus on them like you do now.
>>35083835I’ve been through the same thing, and being rejected is undoubtedly something that weighs on you for quite a while. You’ll go through a phase where you can’t stop dwelling on it, especially if you have a disorder like OCD, but I strongly recommend that you remove every trace of her from your life. If you still have her added on any social media platform or instant messaging service, remove her from your contact list. Next, force yourself to stop snooping on what she posts online and don’t do any online searches related to her. The less you actively seek out information about her, the less it will affect your mental state—specifically, your rumination on the subject. Now, try to build stronger connections with people who are willing to listen to you and offer support, or simply get more involved in your community or have more balanced conversations with your friends. Sometimes, social interaction helps your memories of someone fade away. Finally, try to get out and socialize, and look for ways to meet other girls (preferably in your area; don't get involved with e-girls on Discord) so that eventually you can connect with one of them and leave behind all the reminiscence, the overthinking, and the respect you once felt for her. You’ll realize that she wasn’t the flawless cherub you thought she was, and it will become increasingly clear to you that there’s a whole world out there that you have yet to explore. There are many women who are smarter, more attractive, and more extroverted than her, and limiting yourself to the idea that you have no other opportunities in the dating world because of an unrequited love will only make your life worse in the long run. Just be patient and don’t give up.
>>35092524not opi dont think anyone says it's easy, but you actively have to do something to change that. i think there is plenty of people who just go through life until they meet someone and they click and there is others who actively go out and look for someone to date. whatever works for someone. i am the former and when i do find someone i am interested in i fall pretty hard for them usually. i have come to accept that i am just like this and it isnt always easy. i generally want to get to know people before i am romantically interested in them.
>>35092681you're a good seed, anon
I'm young, in college, and have my whole life ahead of me - so why does it feel like everyone around me is taking life as some sort of joke? Whether it's in-person or online, everyone seems to living life as if it's a completely trivial matter. In person I'll speak to people and ask them about their life and everything boils down to>no thoughts>no beliefs>no direction>no relationships>no goals>no lifeWhen I actually make friends with people and get the pleasure of connecting with them on a "deeper" level, I still find nothing at their core. If I ask them to take anything seriously at all they just hit me with tongue out face. Everything seems to have to be wrapped in so many layers of fucking humour that what they're saying is virtually meaningless.The online world is also a shit show. Look, I understand wanting to be funny. I like when things are funny too. But Gen Z especially just seems to be creating absolute slop with so many layers of irony and satire that I almost wonder if they even care about their life?I'm asking this as someone who doesn't even put a lot of effort in; is this how everyone is? I have a gf and only feel comfortable talking to her about the state of people. I wonder how I should move forward from here...? I think a lot of people in my situation try to become useful through politics and provide value to the world but I'm honestly sick by how people act and don't want to help them at all. I understand why the elites just view us as pigs. It's hard to advocate for my generation authentically when we act like such cattle
>>35089071>>35089154lol get out of your own ass, being a whiny bitch isn't going to make your life or anyone else's life better. Randomly bringing up politics to get mad about solves nothing at all, if you're not gonna run for office or shoot up congress just shut the fuck up.
>>35089578the point of small talk is to sniff out someones personality and red flags before you go into deeper subjects. Is everyone in here this autistic?
>>35092867I'll take "things that don't happen" for 500, Alex.
>>35089071Life is a big cosmic joke though. None of this matters. Just do your thing and stop worrying about how other people approach life lmao
>>35089071>negro gifYou are cattle too. Just because you're making some moves that doesn't mean you're not just as unreflective and impressionable as everyone else. If you think being successful in life is what makes you not-cattle that just proves you are cattle.
