Why do I want to stop being depressed but find it just as easy to lay in bed and do nothing as going on huge hikes and adventures? I explore the land but the area in which I live is always filthy, and mentally, I am not even there. I mindlessly clock into work, and absentmindedly go out in public, to a show or a hike, I cannot capture joy. Like its there, but I cannot see it.
>>34651511I think I do this too. I explore for the sake of it but don't get anything out of it any more I'm basically just doing it because physical exhaustion distracts me from my thoughts and to get rid of that bagging feeling that I should "do something".
>>34651511All that "not really there" stuff just sounds like a symptom of depression, same with ahedonia. You want to not be depressed, but clinical depression changed how your brain works so you find it very very easy to act depressed
How can I get a country gf as an european?
>>34651464You can't only country boys can get country girls and fuck europe
>>34651464I hear there are lots of former country girls from ukraine hanging out in the EU. You can probably find current country girls hanging out in the rural areas of Poland, Romania and Ukraine.
>>34651598I think eastern european have really high standards towards men, don't they? What do they like?
Why are we as men okay with women forcing us to make the first move?
>>34650289There's enough of you that are ok with it that even ugly girls get approached
>>34650038Because women are not capable of initiating anything in reality.
>>34650052 No we don't. If I'm completely passive towards you I'm not interested.
>>34650038because in basic game strategy, having the initiative is a good thingif you don't understand why, don't worry. the men who actually make that first move do.
>>34650038I'm glad all my previous gfs made the first move, including my current one. I'm far from being handsome, I'm just a bald manlet.
Is it possible to eat healthy as a rural dweller? I wanna GTFO the city and live in a house in the countryside with nobody around. But in most places the only places to get food are Walmart, Dollar General if you don't even have a supermarket. Or grow it yourself, plant vegetables, keep some chickens and cows, which I have zero experience with, only having lived in my parents' apartment before. From what I've seen in tours of small towns in Texas, Arkansas, Tennessee: Most people are fat drinkers and smokers who eat whatever GMO produce and factory farm slop they get at the general store and greasy spoon diner.
>>34651046Well its time to learn how to cultivate and raise your own foodMight come in handy one day considering the trajectory of this country
>>34651046When you live out of the way you need to buy bulk food because you can't go shopping daily. So you buy a car load of non perishable stuff from far away. Plus if you're lucky nearby you have farm stands and farmers markets.
>>34651046Farmers' markets
you can get potatoes, eggs, bell peppers, oranges and plain chicken in every grocery store anon...
>>34651046>grow it yourselfThis is the best answer>which I have zero experience withAnd you'll never get experience with an attitude like that. This shit is so simple even a caveman could do it. Farming/Ranching only gets complex when you're doing it on a large scale.>>34651439This also works, especially when supplemented by food he grows himself. But that would require OP to be able to cook, which he clearly can't.
Is 8 inches considered BBC / BWC territory?
>>34647971>And use plenty of lube when you fuck ur own handYou speaking from experience?
>>34645282>>34645282
>>34648922Imagine taking slut posters seriously. The psychology of the slut is well understood. Whenever they post something like:>Y'all 6 inches b quiet if u trynna talk, ain't talking to no baby microphone dick It means>"My ex boyfriend is an asshole. He has a 6 inch dick and I want to insult him without direct confrontation. I will post my thoughts on 6 inch dicks and I hope he reads it."It's the mind of slutty women that's what they do, they all do this. For everything, for height weight clothing hairstyles, if you were her ex BF she is mad at she will post about your physical attributes without naming you and then generalize it, hoping you see it and feel bad.This is what is known as "Talking through the flower." It's when women wish to convey information in an extremely indirect way yet still hitting a specific target. Commonly their fathers they are mad at, or their ex boyfriends.The best way to directly counter this female attack is as follows:>Directly tell her to her face>"Your boobs are uneven. Gross. Why the fuck is one slightly bigger than the other like that? Clown ass tits.">"Your pussy lips fucking stink. I saw flakes of toilet paper on them, fucking gross.">"Your pussy STANK. It looks like a wad of spat out chewing gum."Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>34648922Fuck do I care what some whore that probably takes 20 dicks up her ass at once thinks.
Saaaaarrrrrrr
How can I get a thick gf?
>>34651202Was this an ironic shitpost or are you serious
>>34651115Go talk to them. Most of the time they have some irrational goddess complex, but occasionally they're decent people.>>34651204Lurk moar for your answer
>>34651115Get any gf and make her fat
>>34651115Bait your treble hook with a hamburger and cast it down the sidewalk. Reel in whatever bites.
>>34651115BBC
>>34651448it involved a thrift store lamp, a hung up synthetic shawl and a wooden closet not a good combo, I can tell you that>Riding the high energy of the sun is doing wondersindeed>could be more to destroy laterwdym?
Man I'm so tired of fake ass friends. You're a fucking 30 year old grown man with the audacity to tell me you're too fucking 'socially awkward' to initiate a conversation. It's a fucking text, a simple 'Hi' would suffice. But no, 2 months, I see you online literally every time I'm on, and nothing. Zero. Nada. Obviously if I message first you'll always instantly reply because I'm the perfect little distraction from your cushy office job. Yay, another fucking rant about some worthless work drama I couldn't care less about that you blow out of proportion because you're autistic. But you don't give a shit about me otherwise. 2 years of talking was really just a waste of time. Fuck off.
Double d dose gives detachment enough tto acknowledge your w ant to hold you as being for herr not me Im okey hahaha I m okay I m ok I'm k ok
>>34651559I'm just trying to find someone that doesn't hate me.
>>34650659Mayhaps
Sometimes it feels like a bomb went off in the millennial generation onward and women became nearly impossible to get with. I've reached my mid-30s and I've never been on a single date in my entire life, and at this point- despite the years upon years of sexual frustration- I guess it's never going to happen. Is there any good way to cope with this feeling? Other than the obvious like masturbation, hookers, etc. Jerked off plenty and it never made me feel better, and I wouldn't even know where to start with prostitutes nor do I care to find out. I don't want to put sex and relationships up on a pedestal either, mind you, but when they're good, they're REALLY good or at least that's the impression I get.
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>>34648912I feel that
>>34647140Your mom's generation was just the running start, woken have always been shit but we as a society haven't seen it this bad ever. At one point "boss" bitches and wannabe spinsters were just a niche subsection of miserable, widowed, or undesirable women. Now it's damn near 90% of the female population, age no longer matters and neither does race, from a 18yr old Asian to a 55yr old White woman, all brackets have fallen for the psyop hook line and sinker. And it reflects in gender compatability, neither side wants to deal with the other these days if single. That's how insufferable being with a woman has become.
everyone is extremely shit and it has made them repel each other. this is a byproduct of intentionally shitting on education at the same time as centering civilization around consumption.
I even see normalfags talking about the change these days so something is definitely up, it's not just incel doomposting.
To make a long story short, my girlfriend's grandmother is in the hospital. And her father has been openly excited about the fact she might die, because then he'll inherit her property, and he also wants to kill her dog for some reason. Today, he got into the grandmother's safe, and started reading the will out loud, while she's still alive. He then threatened her "If you tell (grandma) I did this, I'm leaving you nothing when I die" Mind you, the dad's also an abusive asshole who physically and verbally torments her. So this should've been expected behavior from him. I've never felt such visceral hate for a person before, and I'm just at a loss of how to deal with this, or what to suggest to my girlfriend on what to do.
>>34650334if you are not larping (1% possibility) please get that dog in a foster or something
>>34650360Anon, I wish I was larping.
>>34650362I just want to let you know the cruelty of people who hate dogs. Take it seriously. They will kill them with poison, it happens people poison their neighbors dogs and crap. Please get the dog in a good home away from the father. I'd take the dog myself but you are randoms on the internet from who knows where.
>>34650334What exactly did he do? He read the will. Unlike detective stories, it is not normally a secret. My parents have told us what's in their wills, and everyone is happy with it.He becomes blame-worthy only if he tries to ignore or change the will - and presumably there is a copy in her lawyer's files to keep him from doing that.
>>34650359I mean yeah what's the grandmother going to do get her lawyer to visit her in the hospital so she can change the will?Don't stress out the elderly woman currently in a hospital bed, bad idea.
My 20th birthday is coming up, and Ive been reflecting on my life these past few days, I feel like Ive wasted my time on this earth and that Im not going to accomplish absolutely anything. I dropped out of high school, Nobody wants to employ my sperg ass, I dont have any irl friends, and, literally, the only time I was in a relationship was with a pedophile bpdemon whore that I met in the psychward when I was like 15. Ive already tried to kill myself three times but Im so useless that I couldnt even pull it off. I feel like its truly over and that its not my fault. What should I do man?
>>34647020That relationship sounds based, what happened?Also embrace whimsy and do whatever the fuck you want lol
>>34647020I'm 25 and wish I was 20 again. People learn too far into either direction on this debate. Yes, early 20s is young, but you shouldn't have spent 20-25 eating doritos and jerking off like I did. By the time I graduate college, I'll have been unemployed for 10+ years. I hope someone'll hire me.
You've probably been told this already, but you're still young.I thought my life was over and hopeless so many times in my 20s, and my doomerism caused me to constantly not pursue opportunities that could have seriously changed my life had I not already been convinced that it was too late for me. Then every time I missed one of those chances, I was convinced that THIS TIME, for REAL I really did miss my chance and it was over, only for me to then repeat the same mistake of not pursuing opportunities and chances that were still open to me, and I repeated that cycle for a decade straight, until it really DID become too late for me to do a lot of shitDon't do what I did.Realize that you are still young and have many, many chances to turn things around, but also don't get complacent and ignore opportunities and chances just because you think you'll get more (and again, don't not do things just because you assume it's too late: It's not)
>>34647020The reality is that you're correct in that it's mostly over for whatever dreams you had as kid or getting wealthy. The highschool dropout thing is a dead giveaway that you're not able to compete in the real world and are too impulsive. Best bet is to find apprenticeship under someone where you at least have one employable skill, but stocking shelves will do too. Research how to save and budget so you have some money when an actual opportunity comes along.
>>34647050kys
I am seeking some relationship advice, specially about how I perceive relationships vs how they really workI'll admit I have a romanticized disney movie-esque view of relationships. I belive in soul bonding and true love, and that's what I aspire to findWhen I find myself day dreaming, I think of going on dates with my wife, cuddling and laughing toghether, and having a big group hug with her and our children. I imagine playing old ps2 games I grew up on with my kids and spending lots of time playing with themIs this possible to find in the real world, or is this something that media has made up or over exaggerated? Its hard not to be blackpilled thinking that I'll never get to experience this even though my heart aches for it. Where does one find it? Could a loser chud like me every hope to achieve this life? Or are all relationship just transactional?
>>34650681I've been romantically involved with 8 or 9 women in my life (It would have been more but I spent most of my 20s getting my degree and living in a monastery) and right now I have four women on the go.
>>34650825If you really don't want multiple women and you really want to find the woman who truly likes you for you , at least take my advice here: a woman who likes you won't need you to buy her things or take her on expensive dates. A woman who really likes you for you will seek you out and talk to you day after day without getting any favours in return at all. Any woman who isn't willing to go through the struggles of life with you is to be considered uninterested at best or a gold digger at worst. When you contemplate getting with a woman, ask yourself: what is she really bringing to the table? And what am I paying for this? Every relationship is a transaction at the end of the day. You're giving up your freedom and sharing your protection, time, emotional energy and even your financial support. She better be bringing something to the table too. If it's just pussy that's not good enough. Unless it's clean , cute and young (under 21) pussy . You can accuse me of being cynical but I don't care. This is coming from the experience of myself and many other men. Women ruin men's lives every day. You probably have men in your life whose lives were ruined by a woman. Women are extremely good decievers. They can pretend that they love you for decades just to steal your money in divorce. Learn the real signs of attraction. Remember, anon: if her pussy doesn't get wet for you, she doesn't like you. If she won't live in a shit hole with you while you get your money up, she doesn't like you.
>>34650902Even if you do find a woman who loves you for you, she may eventually grow bored of you and lose interest in you. This often happens at the 1-2 year mark in serious relationships. The sex and sweetness dries up and gets replaced with nagging. This happens very commonly - ask any married man how often he gets laid and how often he gets emotional support from his woman. Married men are most often enslaved to their wives.
>>34650591>admit I have a romanticized disney movie-esque view of relationshipNot the first time you have attempted to push your bullshit viewpoint on her Colton. Soul Mates are real, you are just not hers.
>>34650591>soul bonding and true loveI don't think either of those things are real. "True" love isn't like in the movies you have to actively choose that person every day and work for it it's not magically perfect.
I have to pay for someone to mow my fucking lawn at least twice a month if not more. I don't want to spend the money but I don't want to mow either. Wtf do I do. I'm paying at least 90$ a month
>>34649017Replace it with astroturf lol
Teach your kid how to mow
Let it grow out until it's so crazy that you can email a mowing youtuber and have them do it for free
>>34649017Get a goat
>>34649017Make more money, or mow your own lawn.
I hate my fuckass neighbor. How do i harass him without getting in legal trouble?His house is across the street from mine. It's a rural environment here. He has a wife and two daughters, i think.I really want to do some stuff to his property or some other shit. We've only ever exchanged glances.>inb4 why do you hate a family man>inb4 love thy neighborHe just pisses me off. And his dumb greenhouse out front that reflects sunlight so hard you can't look in it's direction. Only serious responses. I need some creative ways to mess with him without it actually being illegal.
>>34649182Get your rifle and take potshots at his family.
>>34649227I can't get a weapon. And i doubt shooting, or even pointing with a rifle at children is legal
>>34649206Hey smartypants, why aren't you reading it then, if it's so enirching, and instead you're on 4chan?
>>34649346I already finished it years ago. I am currently reading another edition of the Enneads by Plotinus, a thinker in the later Platonic tradition. The reason I am on 4chan is that recently when I was out on a walk in the local park I got "randomly assaulted" by some kind of scientist or engineer, so I am killing time with low stress activities while waiting for my nervous system to exit threat detection mode.
>>34649182>look in it's directionIT'S = it isITS = belonging to it.Gee, I bet his sins include being literate as well.
I am someone who has already cut major distractions out of my life like doomscrolling / watching short form content - and this has lead to feeling more conscious, aware, mind racing less, etcButI don’t know how to consistently translate this addition time, energy, and focus into actually engaging with my hobbies And I fear if I do not do this I will turn back to social media due to how easy it isI am not saying this from a perspective of someone who wants to spend every waking moment being productive, but it is not as simple as just replacing distractions with other things to do instantaneously This isn’t exactly choice paralysis but I often find myself just sort of frozen or in limbo, not really doing anything and don’t know where to go from here, unsure how to outwardly approach things Sometimes I go from thing to thing rather naturally but other times I feel like I am just masking my distractions but doing other pointless tasks like researching shit I don’t care about, randomly opening tabs, etcBasically I just need some sort of structured approach nothing stifling but just simple efficient and easy that will get me on the right track, an inward approach where I find what to do, not search what to doThe majority of the work can be attributed to simply not using social media, freeing my time, mind, focus, impulse control, etc but now I want to know where to go from hereDoes anyone have methods: meditations? Questions to run through your mind to decide what to do? Mental simulations? Etc
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How did you cut out doomscrolling?What is it you want to do with your time, what are the hobbies you're talking about?
>>34650776I cut out doomscrolling by just not allowing myself to use Twitter or YouTube unless I have something specific I wanna look upFor hobbies it really is simple stuff, watching anime, gaming, writing, reading / Japanese study
there is an asmr artist who lets her pets occasionally join in and meow or bark since she has a cat and a dog the comment sections is filled with arabs asking and borderline demanding that she does a video with no pets in the scene the thing is she clearly doesnt like this idea and those weirdos have no concept of choice so they just go around harassing anyone that says "go watch someone else"ik this is parasocial and shouldnt take this much time from me but who is genuinely in the right or wrong here
>>34651223>arabs are weirdThat's what happens when their culture is inspired by a epileptic psychopath who had a strange proclivity to marry 8 year olds.
>>34651223most arabs are genuinely inbred retards or at least some proportionate of them this goes for every 3rd world population in general they somehow are a safe environment for rigidity and mental illnesses that pass as cultural differences such as izzat, blood debt and other psychopathic behaviours
You're in the right because some Arabs are harassing her.But in reality, your "right" is totally irrelevant; she is a content creator in it for the money and if you didn't provide revenue for her then she would never talk have any reason to talk to you.Sorry to be the bearer of bad news but I am pretty sure you knew you were a paypig at least a little bit.
>>34651251What would be mexico's quirk? Im just genuinely trying to be aware
>>34651217As an ASMR girl aspirant I agree. I've consumed ASMR content since I was 7 and I have so much passion and ideas for a future channel of my own but I just can't come up with a way to limit male access to my content, so I haven't been able to create a channel at all. Do you have any ideas?
