How do I content myself with a girl?Long story short I've been with this girl for about 7 months now. The sex is probably the best I've ever had. Celestial blowjobs. But that's about it, she is immature and has no empathy for me even though she says she cares about me. I have come to resent her on some level because twice already during this period I've been with her some shitty stuff happened to me and she basically didn't give a fuck. I was thinking about suicide at some point.Anyways, now she's "emotionally involved" and she started to ask more stuff from me. She got "hurt" that I was hanging out with another girl as friends and told me not to hang our with her.So yeah, basically I'm getting super good sex but nothing else. No emotional connection, no interesting conversations, she is always busy when I need her. She is "trying" to know me but I feel it's all bullshit.And I don't know maybe I think that if I see her just as a sex thing it wouldn't hurt that much. We aren't even dating oficially. So yeah, I don't really know what to do. I would want to keep the sex but without all the emotional bullshit. Should I man up swallow my emotional shit and just use her mouth as a fleshlight whenever I can? What's the recommendation?
>>34883008Putting your cock in a lady's mouth is great because they can't say any dumb shit besides GLUK GLUK GLUK
>>34886161Yes, that's what I'll probably have to do. Dealing with emotional stuff is though sometimes bra>>34886162Back alleway, no weapons no rules. You're going down friend>>34886166no, fuck you>>34886976That's a good perspective to have in life
>>34883008Sounds like a parasite, and it sounds like you need mental help because wanting to kill yourself tells of bigger problems than getting great sex without an emotional connection and being used as an emotional tamponUh oh, we've got issues, and they're bigger than her matey You're probably wondering how I got here
>>34891559kek, in that example something really shitty happened to me a bit back so I got really down, it's not like I'm wanting to kill myself all the time, but yeah, I kind of get you, I do realize that my issues are bigger than fucking
>>34883055Basically how I have felt for a while. I hear distance only makes the heart grow fonder and while I was being available and supportive, he fell for some other chick. So I had to give up.
I cannot take this shit anymore but I cannot afford the consequences of potentially failing to end everything
>>34889041Once you realize that humans suffer needlessly and endlessly you know that an hero is the only escape from this prison planet
>>34889325There's no such thing as needless suffering. All suffering points to a lesson that needs to be learned, and the sooner you learn that lesson the sooner you can stop suffering. You shouldn't post an image of a tsa tsa alongside a message that all Buddhists would find very foolish.
>>34880614What the hell can you tell yourself? There is no logical reason to go on. All of this is pointless and it's not enjoyable nor profound.
>>34890346Logic will always point you towards good reasons to go on. It's only illogical thoughts and irrational desires that can make you feel depressed or downtrodden, since to be logical means to be impartial, and to be impartial means not to be affected. Someone who's logical is thankful for any day that allows him to improve himself and learn from his mistakes, which is every day.
>>34890346>>34890387The key to life is understand that two things that contradic each other can both be true or a lie. In the tale of Adam and Eve when they eat the fruit of knowledge they learn that there is pain and suffering in the world and are cast out of the garden. However you could ask why does a utopia have such a thing to begin with and wonder why god would set such temptation to begin with. The idea is about accountability. If you wish to know, than you must be prepared for what could happen, as anything could happen. Them not eating the apple could have let them live in happiness forever, but who is to say given that Satan himself was able to sneak kn and tempt Adam and Eve in the first place.It's optimism va pessimism. Does Adam and Eve knowing make them suffer, or was it freeing them? The devil says I know, the fool says I don't know, and the enlightened man says we don't know.
A little over a month ago, I decided I would ask my coworker out next time I see her. She normally works elsewhere, so I only see her once every couple of months, maybe. As of today, I still haven't ran into her, and I'm starting to go insane. I'm 99% sure she'll reject me (to be honest, I don't even know if she's single or not), and that's totally fine, I just want an answer. But I have no idea when (or even if) I'll see her again, and I can't stop thinking about it. What the fuck do I do here? Not having an answer is genuinely driving me crazy. I guess I could send her an email or an IM, asking how work is going for her then ask if she'd like to grab a coffee sometime. But I feel like asking someone out is something that should be done in person, not over Microsoft fucking Teams.
>>34889366Just keep waiting, you'll run into her eventually
>>34889396that's not really guaranteed, tho. besides, if she actually is single, then i gotta act quickly, otherwise someone else will, right?
>>34889366Make up an excuse to go to or past her department
>>34891561she works from home lmao
keep a cool head, don't obsess, you haven't even asked her out yet. like the other anon said, you need a reason to see her in person, e.g. run into her, if that's not possible then your only two options are to either wait until she shows up, or write her a text message and ask her out. unless you can think of a third option, you have to know how important it is to ask her out in person. as an anectode, a female friend of mine once ran into a guy she knows a bit from going out. anyway, they didn't talk much, but afterwards he send her a casual message on instagram, asking her if she'd like to go for a coffee some time. she thought about it, ultimately decided against it. but not because she received a text message. i know both of them, they are both cool people. she just wasn't interested. imo, there is nothing bad about doing it this way.
My cunt wife divorced me at 24 and took our three sons and is unironically doing everything in her power to turn them into losers. She won’t even let them out of the house to play with other kids because it makes her “worry” and they are already acting fucked up and of course trying to turn them against me by acting like I’m a fucking monster who abandoned them. She accused me of beating her to win and what’s fucked up is she actually believes it. The worst I ever did to her was mildly push her to get her away from me she was trying to claw my face up because I “cheated” on her after a 12 hour workday. The worse part is I have bankroll this and pay 1.100 dollars to her that I know she blows most on it on alcohol and weed to “self medicate” then of course blames me for not giving her more money. She of course doesn’t work and of course blames me and says I would kill her if she did work and I don’t let her because of “control”. She also cries about how she wants to kill herself constantly literally constantly because of how ungrateful everyone is including to our children and because of very petty slights that happened literally years ago.Also it should be noted she didn’t act like this six years ago it just kept getting worse and worse. At this point I just want to cut my loses and move on. I don’t even care what she does to my children anymore. I refuse to end up even worse than my father. I was thinking of taking what I can and moving to Europe and just not coming back and leave her to rot in the hell she’s building. What’s the best way to do this and would it actually work? I’m worried the feminist kike nation would do everything they can to drag me back.
>>34886224Custody is nearly always given to foids.It's automatic in most states.
>>34886206Don’t worry bro your sons will be fine specimens that will die in the anti hypergamy revolution after we indoctrinate with incel propaganda
>>34887288>blood is all we haveYour wasted sperm is more valuable than your shitty, worthless family. If you have kids: I hope they grow up to be homewreckers.
>>34891476Couldn't imagine living in a polished third world country like America.
>>34886206three kids at 24 lmao
Anybody ever get an eyelash in their eye? What your most efficient way to remove them without damaging your eye?
I live in an urban area and need to bury something that I may not need to dig up until many years into the future. I figure the best place to bury it is on a public park since it's unlikely to be built over and I doing it on private property seems like inviting unnecessary risk. Is this the best way of going about this, or is there a better place to bury it? Does anyone have any experience burying stuff? Is it actually an effective method of storing something without it being found?>inb4 What are you burying?I would include that in the post if I were willing to share. It's not very large about 7"x5" and flat.
>>34890740Did you kill somebody? Maybe your girlfriend invalidated your narcissistic sense of entitlement to her sexual exclusivity so you killed her and you don't think you deserve any consequences.In that case, castrate yourself and then turn yourself in and offer to have your ass pounded in in exchange for twinkies and ding dongs.
>>34891593Why would OP want to retrieve a body years later? Plus 7 by 5 inches is a pretty small body
>>34890740This is a really terrible idea. If anyone spots you digging a hole in a public park in the middle of the night, they'll call the police for certain. Even if someone host just spots you wandering around with a spade, they'll suspect you're up to no good.On top of that, while the fact that someone has been digging in that spot will eventually be hard to spot, in the short term it will be extremely obvious. The soil you're digging through will be compacted, but once you've dug it out it will be much looser, so you'll end up with a mound of earth on the surface on which nothing is growing, and it will stick out like a sore thumb. People will know someone has been digging there.Animals like foxes and badgers and coyotes are quite likely to start digging, to see whether the reason why someone else has been digging there was to bury food. If you want to guarantee that whatever-it-is won't be dug up again, you'll have to dig a far larger and deeper hole than you think: you'll need to dig down several feet; and if what you're burying smells even slightly edible or like it was once alive, at least six feet down. Digging through soil is also much harder than you probably realise. If there's nothing growing there but grass, that's not too bad - but if it's open grass, something will see you digging. If you're in among trees or bushes you'll be having to cut through plant roots as you dig.Have you given any thought as to how you're going to find the right spot again, years later when it looks different? GPS is only accurate to about 10 metres - less so under trees. So you'll probably need some sort of marker, but if you leave a marker, other people will see it. You can't assume that a tree will still be there years from now, or a building, or even a rock.And finally, you'll need to make sure that whatever it is is in a container that is completely water-tight and non-corrosive. Even things like plastics can start to break down after years in the soil.
>>34891628>This is a really terrible idea. If anyone spots you digging a hole in a public park in the middle of the night, they'll call the police for certain. I now intend to bury it off a hiking trail, so I shouldn't be seen. >Animals like foxes and badgers and coyotes are quite likely to start digging, to see whether the reason why someone else has been digging there was to bury food. If you want to guarantee that whatever-it-is won't be dug up again, you'll have to dig a far larger and deeper hole than you think: you'll need to dig down several feet; and if what you're burying smells even slightly edible or like it was once alive, at least six feet down. Only thing around here that'll go digging are squirrels, and it doesn't smell alive.>Digging through soil is also much harder than you probably realise. If there's nothing growing there but grass, that's not too bad - but if it's open grass, something will see you digging. If you're in among trees or bushes you'll be having to cut through plant roots as you dig.There's not much that can be done to remedy this except doing it somewhere more secluded.>Have you given any thought as to how you're going to find the right spot again, years later when it looks different? GPS is only accurate to about 10 metres - less so under trees. So you'll probably need some sort of marker, but if you leave a marker, other people will see it. You can't assume that a tree will still be there years from now, or a building, or even a rock.I intend to use GPS to get to the general location, and I'll bury it with some metal. This way I can use a handheld metal detector to get the exact spot.>And finally, you'll need to make sure that whatever it is is in a container that is completely water-tight and non-corrosive. Even things like plastics can start to break down after years in the soil.May have to look more into containers.Thanks for the advice.
>>34891682Why can’t you tell us what it is?
got dumped by this woman (both ~40) I was seeing a future with, 1 week ago. details don't really matter as I'm 80% sure she met a guy during the summer and the reasons given were BS.sex and cuddling were also on point, so this sucks and I already miss itoptions are: #1 rebound with a younger woman. there's this younger coworker who I already know has a thing for me. trouble is she's a coworker and I tend to get tired of women's bs very quickly (the one who dumped me was special in that regard)#2 wait and maybe hire an escort in a few weeks if it becomes unbearable#3 try something new and see where things could go with an old friend who recently divorced. we know each other and get along very well and never attempted anything because we were never single at the same time. she's my age and still fit. I'd have to hurry which sucks because I'm not in a really good place mentally but this one won't stay in the market for long#4 something else. any suggestions welcome
>>34888577what a fucking normalfag life. just choose one, you're a faggot.
>>34888577>both ~40>#4 something else. any suggestions welcomejust give up. literally zero point. you're not going to have memories of when whomever you find was young and hot that keep you loving her as you age, you're not going to start a family, it's time to move on. its like wanting to play professional sports or join the army, the window closed. it's time to refocus your life now on other things
>>34889483>normalfagthanks I guess>>34889513give up on... what? women? not an optionI already have 2 sons from a previous marriage, they're doing fine (and they have a rich mother)
>>34888577Is WEBM real? How could someone read a book three times and not remember the author? Unless they were lying to make themselves sound more legit
>>34888577>this woman (both ~40) I was seeing a future with
We are "weirdos" in today's society. conservative, self-sufficient, frugal, non-consoooomerist, farm/ranch lifestyle. our interests are our home, land, livestock, infrastructure and things that pertain to or can be done at home. we raise and butcher our meat. we grow our gardens, preserve, prepare and cook food. I build our pens, outbuildings and install systems within. wife occasionally brews wine, I build/repair things and sometimes we play Baldur's Gate 3 on a Sunday. we have one married couple set dor friends, but rarely see them in person. the wives are the actual friends, husband and I are just friends of convenience. friend drives my wife crazy because friend thinks she knows everything about everything and does everything better than everyone else.she *is* a genuinely nice person, but just grating to be around for any amount of time.our hobbies revolve around productivity and improvement. our individual hobbies are tiny and fleeting (she felts, sometimes i shoot, archery or build useful furniture, electrical ((solar)) systems or contraptions). we uave no social circle, do not attend church, and our interests are not interesting or particularly inclusive to others. what are we supposed to do "Hey! wanna come watch while my wife murders a sheep, rips it's skin off, and cuts it ino pieces? after that, you and I can install a solar powererd mini-split in a barn I'm building! if there's any time left over I can chop wood and we can all stack it together. then we can eat animal meat that tastes strange to you because its not Mega-Low-Mart beef or processed chicken nuggets. you can have a scoop of sheep milk ice cream if you finish your mutton."
>>34891254>We are "weirdos" in today's society. conservative, self-sufficient, frugal, non-consoooomerist, farm/ranch lifestyle. our interests are our home, land, livestock, infrastructure and things that pertain to or can be done at home. we raise and butcher our meat. we grow our gardens, preserve, prepare and cook food. I build our pens, outbuildings and install systems within. wife occasionally brews wine, I build/repair things and sometimes we play Baldur's Gate 3 on a Sunday.Your entire identity is consoomer. You may be self sufficient and consumption efficient in ways most other households are not, which is admirable. But your whole day is either entertainment or preparing what you're gonna eat next or what alcohol you're going to get drunk on next. You don't make an effort to engage with others very different from you. You don't seriously engage with arts or the realm of the mind.I see no mention of recreational reading. This is inexcusable for any modern man that has a computer and the Internet. If you just forgot and you actually do have reading as a hobby, guaranteed there are people you can connect to over that.Get good at a craft. Produce something people will pay for or enjoy
>>34891254I'll be your friend. can I fuck your wife?
>>34891254Bars/clubs/concerts/ partying in general sounds like its a nice contrast to your lifestyle and gets you out oamong people.
>>34891326I mean, everyone has to buy things. ours just focus inward on improvement rather than just adding another plastic wiggle-head doll. you are right we dont "engage with the arts". we see no point. my "relm of the mind" is engineering, infrastructure & construction projects at home. we have already toured the country & visited many art, space, engineering and history exhibits. now we are married to our farm. of course we read. I just finished 3 heinlin books last month. I just assume that is a given, so i didnt itemize it. wife has a few crafts: cheesmaking, soap making, pressure canning, freezedrying, fermentation, breadmaking, baking, gardening and hide tanning to name a few. mine are all construction/building/engenerring related.>>34891456we just dont have the desire or tolerance for loud people in loud places. we dont want to listen to people brag about the debt the accumulate to impress people they barely know and dont even like. we dont overpay for food, drinks and sounds we can produce better at our own home. despite sort-of wanting to find some friends, we dont really like being around other people. we dont want crowds of zombies. we want a pair or very small group of actual friends with productive lifestyles and interests that compliment ours.
start a chess or a book club with your neighboursgo group hikingjoin a cooking class/gym/joga togetherJoin activities nigger, friends won't just appear at your doorstep
My ex broke up with me a month ago and it absolutely devastated me. I still love her and wanted her back and now she actually reached out and started saying she wants to get back together. The only thing that bothers me she admitted she hooked up with her male friend several times when we were broken up for a month. I agreed to getting back together and I was really happy but now it's been a few days and this started to kind of bother me. I was anxious and asked what exactly they did together which probably just made it worse. They had raw sex and now I'm also a bit scared of STD, who know whether the guy way clean. Idk how to cope with it.
>>34885894she thought she was upgrading with her male friend and either thought wrong or got rejected by him. Either tell her to get tested and keep it casual or just tell her to fuck off and find someone else.
>>34885894I refuse to take back any foid who fucked around while we were separated, because if they really gave a shit about me, they wouldn't have been able to fuck someone else at all.
>>34891651Eh, I have known girls that have fucked just to get a guy they had broken up with off their mind. The most love sick little world cry to dudes to brought home from tinder. Kinda funny.
>>34891655They didn't really love those men.Whores have no hearts. Ever.
>>34885894bro she effectively cheated on you.Have some self respect and ditch that wishy washy cunt
My neighbor jerks off every morning between 6:30 and 7:30 AM. I have no idea why it is so loud that it wakes me up. I can't sleep.As a bonus, sometimes I hear him doing it right before I am trying to go to bed (around 9:30 PM). He loves to ruin my sleep schedule.I got out of bed this morning because I couldn't sleep, and I could still hear the guy. Wow. I usually force myself to lie in bed and sleep longer but it makes me feel so violated. I'm not sure what to do. I feel disgusted.I have tried going to sleep listening to something (with headphones on), but by the morning, my headphones always die. It's a shame, because I specifically bought headphones (with very good reviews!) that are designed to be slept with.What should I do in this situation? It feels impossible to resolve.
>>34889532I had neighbors that were loud and annoying. I began blasting nyan cat for hours on repeat and after a couple days of that they finally fucked off and shut the fuck up. I had peace and silence forever after.
>>34890369Have the note say, "Please be louder. My uncle can't finger his butthole properly unless you do, faggot.".
>>34889532Just tell him. He'll be embarrassed
>>34891535based
I would probably do a porno moan at him through my wall to make him feel ashamed of himself.
How do I cope with not having a boyfriend or close friends? I am trying but I am picky about people's personalities
>>34891556What is your discord
>>34891558Like the other guy said, it's normal for the OP to send their discord, not the people in the replies. You're the one who wants friends
>>34891560On 4chan op should not
>>34891563Jeez really wonder why you don't have a bf or friends
>>34891570I am still speaking facts
My bf has a lot of work every summer, its the height of the season for him. I understand he has less energy and desire to do things, but it has made me wonder lately if its odd that he spends more time per week hanging out with his guy friends than with me. We don't live together and he says that he usually gets picked up by a friend to go to their hangout (which is about the same walking distance from his home as is my house). This week, he has managed to hangout with them 3x, which is the norm, but every evening that we were supposed to hang out, he stayed in office extra late and just stopped by to give me a quick kiss. We will spend one evening actually together in this whole week. He says its just easier to meet up with them cause he doesnt have to walk there, but it still makes me feel really shitty.
>>34891496YWNBAW
>My bf has a lot of work every summer, its the height of the season for him.>I understand he has less energy and desire to do things, You must be exhausting.>but it has made me wonder lately if its odd that he spends more time per week hanging out with his guy friends than with me. We don't live together and he says that he usually gets picked up He's lazy. >by a friend to go to their hangout (which is about the same walking distance from his home as is my house). He gets picked up by them. Why is walking distance relevant?>This week, he has managed to hangout with them 3x, which is the norm, but every evening that we were supposed to hang out, he stayed in office extra late and just stopped by to give me a quick kiss. We will spend one evening actually together in this whole week.He has a job. You're lucky he wastes any tims on someone as codependant as you.>He says its just easier to meet up with them cause he doesnt have to walk there, His logic is sound. Have him make them swing by and grab you too. Most guys would. Just don't be a pest about it.>but it still makes me feel really shitty.That's on you, idiot.
He is still going out of his way to visit you despite being swamped with work.
>>34891496Remember this foid I will only say it once. Foids like you will declare undying love for their man and then break up because you want to "live your life" and get fucked by other dudes. That type of wishy washy bullshit does not happen in male friendships, my two best friends have been my friends for over 15 years because we are real niggas. You are lucky he gives you any time at all.
I dont understand why girls are not attracted to me. I know I am not a talk 6 foot chad stud with a six pack but I know I am not ugly. I am pretty good at conversation with girls but they just never seem interested. A typical conversation at the gym goes some shit like>hey! Hows it going>w-w-WHAT?! :o>I said HOWS IT GOING?>good...?>well what are you hitting today> umm little mix of everything. Ok better get back to my workout see you around :-) Fuckin bitches. If I manage to get number then these broads always fucking ghost. What the FUCK!
>>34891403Must be a you issue. Ive never had a girl ghost in person.
you do realize people go to the gym because they want to work out and not get hit on by every person in the room? and yes woman often times give men their number, not because they are interested in them but because they feel threatened and want to be left alone. people like you, not being able to accept a "no" as answer is exactly the problem.
Drink your apple juice, go poop, and fall asleep.
Roger was the goat these fucking women riding average dude cocks I see in porn is irritating ngl some times I have thoughts to just go kill couple girls in my neighborhood cause I fucking hate them but I wanna fuck then no matter the race white chink nigger camel jockey I don't care
>>34891403OP even in your OWN story...which I can assume is inflated to make you sound as reasonable as possible...you display a mix of zero game, low confidence, and poor reading of the room by trying to talk to a clearly uninterested girl at the worst time possible, when she has headphones on and is in mid-workout. If you're "pretty good at conversation with girls", it doesn't come across in your example.Of course the fact you're avatar-fagging as ER is the bigger red flag here, it shows you're not really interested in posting in good faith.
I run a self-employed business but it isn't technically legal. When they ask me what I do for a living what do I say? Will they try to find any tax related information to my business that doesn't legally exist? I don't want to incriminate myself either. I could say unemployed and have been for years, and that is legally the truth, but will they check my bank accounts and see that I have money in there and try to ask follow up questions?
>>34891612I seriously doubt they will do any checking at all. The only reason they would care about your job is to make sure it isn't something that would prejudice you or give you a conflict of interest.
>>34891612Holy hell dude you’re way over thinking this. Juror selection is about the attorneys agreeing on who serves on the jury as related to the case. They’re not cops looking for any reason to get you into trouble. They’re going to take your word for whatever the fuck you say, or decide you’re a liar and just not choose you because of that. What they’re definitely not going to do is scour everything about you to see if you’ve committed any crimes. If they ask about your profession it’s because sometimes somebody’s profession is related to their “ability” to be a juror. I am licensed in a couple types of insurance in my state so I’ve been to selection twice and they are just like “okay nevermind heheh” whenever I mention the insurance thing.You are more likely to have problems because you created evidence by being specific about what you’re doing in an online post than you are to have problems during juror selection.
>>34891619So do I say unemployed or my business?
why do girls think im beautiful as hell, almost like adam himself, but boys call me the ugliest thing ever, why is it opposite and so damn extreme?
>>34890711he's flexing too hard and its affecting his facial expression into that of someone who possibly possesses an insufferable personality imo
>>34890978It's a social thing, then. Confidence, being myself (depends), assertion, directness, and social intelligence seem to be better at maximizing then body. However, face and body definitely matter. Even height, but you know.
>>34891458*thanI want to know what women prefer in a man. Having more muscle and being thinner still doesn't sound like it changes much, yet the votes are so stark in how different they are. They really hate the second photo.Perhaps the second photo is too much of a pose, and not natural. It's kind of a silly photo, seeing it now. But I doubt that girls reject fit men.
>>34890863I knew a guy who was ugly, never bathed, smelled like ass, was an asshole, and a chronic masturbator and he still got more hot pussy than satan himself.Explain that. You can't. Nobody can.
>>34890711The guy looks smaller and shorter in the right picture, as though the big bear in the left picture could overpower him. Just squint and you will see the impression.
