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Quit smokes
>Inverted demonic entity whispers
>Can't sleep
>Meet the demiurge and the devil with Ronald Mcdonald himself

for the last couple months i've ben searching and doing some shitty tasks that pay by the week 20 dollars and im pissed and im looking for methods, i dont give a fuck if it legal or illegal no more. Please sme help with this poor life.
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>>34719523
You're competing with a million jeets for jeet pay. What did you expect?

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What should I do if I'm ever in a situation where I'm sleeping and a lion appears and attacks me?
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>>34719233
That’s fucking brutal. I’d at least get one of those ladders you can roll out a window if I lived in one. Shit, that’s a good idea even if you live in a two story house. Fire can block your stairs.
Anyway, back to your original question: maybe try a spear? African dudes seem to use those with good success. Probably serves a nice purpose as a home defense weapon too. Nobody’s going to expect a fucking spear.
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>>34719247
>I’d at least get one of those ladders you can roll out a window if I lived in one.
You know what, that would have been great to have cause I basically just had to jump out the window. Lucky I didn't break my ankle.

>Fire can block your stairs.
That's where she started the fire. The entire hallway was in flames.

The apartment I live in now has smoke detectors all over the place. And fire extinguishers. No sprinklers system though. It's an old building. I'm gonna move the fuck outta here as soon as I can to a modern building.
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>>34718274
that's why you wear a spike suit
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>>34719464
Cactusmaxxing is a valid nature strategy, as an apex predator I don't want to go anywhere near a spiky ass plant let alone eat it.
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>>34719464
>>34719507

I hear women talk about "where are the good men" and "what happened with good men" all the time but... what really is a "good man"? What's the definition? And WHO is the one to say what a GOOD MAN (trademark) is defined by?

Because from my observation what they mean by that is:

- An exceptionally good looking man, so that they can brag about him to their friends and make them feel jealous

- Very popular guy with easy life, who will make their life easy as well

- Unbeliveably rich man who will fund her life

- A combination of two/three of the above

- Who will still treat them like a simp would but only when they need it, otherwise they want him to be manly and controlling, but not too much...

It seems to never be about character traits, will to build something together, romantic aspects, man's behavior or morality, his relationship with family, etc. Sorry for my English, it's especially bad now during my ADHD sensory overload period.

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I found out one of my childhood friends became an hero. We were close in middle/high school and he had a direct impact on who I am today.
We would sometimes text or I’d visit him at his job after high school but eventually we separated. I sometimes wanted to reach out to him to text but never did. I regret not doing it now but there is nothing I can do.
His memorial service and visitation is Wednesday and I work then but I’m tempted to go and show support for him and his family, maybe learn a bit about what he was up to before he died. I haven’t spoken to him for about 7 years.
Should I go? I am worried I would seem out-of-place but his dad likely remembers me. How does one usually dress for a visitation? I don’t really have anyone irl I can talk to about this.
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Yo I’m his family member. Please don’t go man. This is personal and intrusive
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>>34718684
Of course you should go anon
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>>34718684
>Should I go?
He was your friend and you still care
>I am worried I would seem out-of-place but his dad likely remembers me
If anything they'll be glad someone outside of the family remembers him
>How does one usually dress for a visitation?
Suit and tie, no bright colors

Sorry for your loss man
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it’s me, your childhood friend I’m posting from heaven don’t even think about coming to my funeral bro close friends and family only fr
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>>34718684
>Should I go?
Definitely.

>How does one usually dress for a visitation?
A dark suit and tie.

A woman wants me to tie her up and be sexually dominant, I ask for advice here
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>>34717032
Trauma has nothing to do with it. It's a fetish. Being dressed in skimpy leather and whipped isn't "therapeutic" or therapy on any form. It's a fetish. You're doing it because it makes you horny.
What a truly abhorrent post.
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>>34717345
Maybe for you but a significant number of people in the community DO treat it as either therapy or an expression of their trauma. Or if they’re not self aware, they make long ass posts about their trauma on fetlife only to go “ugh guys why am I soooo attracted to kink?”
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>>34715969
I bet I could do this, but I would hate it, and feel gross after, and probably hate her on a deep level
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>>34715969
Google "BDSM for beginners"
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>>34716078
None of this is true. Try again.

Over the last year or so I've developed a serious problem with alcohol. It's not necessarily ruining my life with DUIs or drunk fights or anything, but it is lowering my quality of life substantially. I probably spend $1000+ (USD) a month on alcohol, because I'm mostly a beer drinker and I'm snobby about having my imported saisons and smoked porters and such. Speaking of being a beer drinker, it's gotten me fucking fat, I'm now 300 lbs at 6'3". My liver and kidneys are still fine somehow but I've gotten bad GERD from drinking so much and filling my belly with liquid. I finally admit something needs to change.
I tried will power, I tried prayer, after neither of those things worked I'm finally hopping on naltrexone at my doctor's suggestion. I just took my first dose today, but I got the prescription last week because I had reservations.
As stupid as this sounds coming from an alcoholic, I really do love drinking. I have a huge amount of stress in my life from running a business and I don't have a gf/wife or really any friends that live near me. I realize I'm just using alcohol to cope with shitty circumstances but I really do want to be able to have a drink every now and again. I don't think life would be as good without being able to have a beer at a grillout or after fixing your car, or having a glass of wine with a good steak, or enjoying a scotch on a special occasion.
Is there anyone who has experience with using naltrexone for AUD? If I use this shit and go a few months or even a year sober, would I be able to go back to drinking in moderation? Will there be lasting effects that will make alcohol less enjoyable? Were you able to reapproach alcohol consumption with moderation and discipline? Or did you make a permanent lifestyle change? Did you go back to having a drinking problem when you tried to drink again, or did you find it easier to moderate your consumption?
>t. uncie drunkie
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>>34718411
If you kys, you won't have to worry about quitting the sauce
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>>34718411
Haven't taken it but know about it. It might behaviorally condition you to enjoy alcohol less once you've used it for a long time and stop it. The whole point in the drug is to stop you enjoying alcohol when you do drink, so you always keep it on hand for when you are going to drink.
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>>34718969
>It might behaviorally condition you to enjoy alcohol less once you've used it for a long time and stop it. The whole point in the drug is to stop you enjoying alcohol when you do drink, so you always keep it on hand for when you are going to drink.
I think it's a little more complicated like that. I think you're supposed to use it for an extended period of time and let it "build" kind of like psychiatric medication.
That said after I took my first dose last night, I don't know if it was placebo or not but I definitely did not feel the urge to drink as strongly as I usually do.
Again, I still want to be able to drink and enjoy alcohol again one day. I'm planning on trying to not drink at all (as much as I can) while I'm on this medication so I can kick the habit, but I don't want to be a lifelong teetotaler unless I see myself losing control again.
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>>34718411
One of the defining characteristics of an alcoholic is that they are incapable of ever drinking moderately again for as long as they live. The sooner you accept that reality, the better.

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>>34719453
Same feels bad man
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>>34719453
If you have a problem with wax then urea hydrogen peroxide ear drops will clear it very quickly.

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So here I am browsing YouTube when I just keep seeing these AI videos on the homepage of like famous cars and how they changed over the generations or like famous superhero movies and how the actors changed from then vs now. And they're like rendered to look like they deaged and interacting with their old selves and the cars are morphing like fucking transformers in a Michael Bay movie.

I'm just thinking to myself... WOW... the nigga that made these videos must be making a killing off the ad revenue. These fucking videos have like half a million or more views each.

I mean that's one successful way to make money with AI... right? Isn't it?

You know the videos I'm fucking talking about? I know you've fucking seen them.

C'mon please tell me I can make money doing this...
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>>34719276
You have the mr beast mindset
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Go make the videos then. Go ahead.

I personally think it's immoral to profit when you are aware you are creating something worthless. A few 13 year olds might be entertained but the entire thing is worthless.

There must be a consequence to selling out morally, why do I feel apprehensive towards doing it?
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>>34719277
Neat!

>>34719290
Yeah but nobody is being killed or harmed here. It's just content.
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>>34719250
Kys and you won't have to worry about me sounding like a bot.
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>>34719381
lol this thing is fucking funny kinda makes me wonder if you're the same dude that used to go around saying I won't read blah blah threads

I got pressured into taking the Pfizer Covid vaccine in 2021 and I want to kill myself every day because of it. Let's just say I believed I had to get it or else an important relationship would be destroyed. I'm lower than cattle. I knew it was unsafe and untested but I did it anyway. I'm gonna be dealing with the physical ramifications of it for the rest of my life (which will absolutely be shortened). I'm already having heart problems at 26 because of it. But what's even harder to deal with is looking at myself every day and knowing that I'm a weak pathetic coward faggot. I can't even fathom what kind of advise would help with this. I made a horrible mistake and I can't go back. The shame and regret is not getting better with time, rather it's becoming increasingly unbearable. If you're pro covid vaccine, I reject anything you have to say outright, so don't even bother replying.
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>>34719148
>>34719129
>>34719092

Shameful sheeple
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>>34719322
>>34719376
You trust jpgs on /pol/ more than scientists and experts
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>>34719393
Lmao enjoy your shortened life and cardiac issues
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>>34719397
You told me I was going to drop dead from the vaccine in two weeks 5 years ago. And then nothing happened. Pretty sure I'm going to be okay.
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>>34719400
That's some nice cope, but the damage is done, that's why cardiac issues skyrocketed in 2021 among the vaxxed idiots

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>Somehow wet the bed as a grown up
>Develop peeing OCD and have to go to the bathroom every 10 mins when it's bed time and keep waking up in the middle of the night to pee.

Please help.
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Have you tried elevating your feet 2 hours before bed? Piss is stored in the feet
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>>34719283
put a cork in your cockhole

how often do you drink water, and do you have problem with prostate or bladder or peeing in general? people who pee but doesn't empty it completely has to pee more often or so I've heard, I'm no pee expert but maybe you should get a medical checkup

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>>34719064
2 years? Nigga y'all are not friends.
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>>34719067
What if he invites you to his wedding.

He also went out with mutual friends I had a falling out with on my birthday.

Am I just headcount filler?
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>>34719069
How many people did he invite? Unless it'sa small wedding of like 30 people it's nothing special if you're one of the 500 guests. He probably invited everyone he knows.
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>>34719074
I have no idea. Could be anywhere from 50 to 300 but I think it's on the larger side. The fiance is kinda..

Thinking back now.. the way they have treated me in multiple scenarios I really don't want to go.

But I am a door mat, people pleaser so yeah..
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>>34719177
you looking for validation on the way you feel or what is the actual issue here

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>be me
>retarded and unsuccessful my whole life
>after 30 years finally go to a doctor to check if i have ADD or if something else is wrong with me
>refers me to a psychologist
>almost 3 hours of tests on the computer
>almost double that in questionnaires
>psychologist concludes that i am apparently highly gifted, no autism, no ADD or anything else wrong with me
>doesn't seem to accept or care that i had bad grades, later dropped out of university and i am just waiting for the day my employer finds out i am a total fraud
>doctor has unique idea: depression
>now refers me to a psychotherapist
>no meds
Do I even go to the initial interview? I am not sure what the psychotherapist is going to do to help me here. The doctor didn't really explain that part to me. Or do I just look for a second opinion? Did anyone else have similar experience in life or the healthcare system? How do you navigate life?
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>>34719331
You know his suggestion is wrong but can’t put into words why. I can because I know the flaw in the logic behind the most popular form of therapy, talk therapy aka cognitive behavioral therapy. You don’t know things about yourself but the assumption going into therapy is you know yourself well enough to identify specifically why you act and react to things and situations. (This is the error). You obviously don’t and if you go in there you will never connect with the therapist because not only are you not on the same page you aren’t even reading the same book.
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>>34719331
Gifted kids are Special Needs kids. Healthygamergg explains that. Watch his videos.

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What is /htgwg/?
How to Get Women General is by men, for men, about women, so bring all of your questions about getting and dealing with women here. Some anons on this site actually get laid, and some of them even want to help. If you're trying to meet and date women, then this is the place to ask questions, seek advice, and share experiences. We know how hard it can be. We got you bro.

>What is /htgwg/ not?
These threads are NOT for whining, moping, incels, volcels, MGTOW, hopelessness, or demoralization. We're all aware that meeting and dating women is hard today, and even harder for some, but /htgwg/ is for trying to overcome the challenges. IGNORE the posters who complain, give up, or insist there's nothing they can do. This site has other boards and threads that they can pollute. BE SMART: Spot the bait, don't reply, and DON'T WASTE TIME ARGUING WITH THEM!

>How to ask for advice
Context is important: be more specific than "This girl ghosted me, why?" We can't help if we don't know the situation, so try to provide as much (useful) info as possible ("I was at the bar, this chick was checking me out..."). What's your relationship with the girl? How long have you known her? Any conversation screenshots? Etc... Don't forget to ask an actual question.

>Resources and Books
https://wingman.live/ (AI dating coach)
https://pdfcoffee.com/318797392-mark-manson-models-2016pdf-4-pdf-free.html
https://archive.org/details/robert-glover-no-more-mr-nice-guy-id-353324692-size-612
https://www.youtube.com/@YourWingmam
https://www.doctornerdlove.com/blog/

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>>34718821
>i would get fit before even attempting to online date
im like 15% bf, and got a decent physique (honestly look very similar to middle picture there)
Girls seem to not go for macho guys here, the guys who get most girls tend to be tall slim guys
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>lift heavy weights
>get weight down and to a healthy BMI
>making dating app profiles
>zero matches

So I'm definitively too ugly to ever get a gf or date. And I'm in my mid-30s. Now what?
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>>34719254
i believe that dating apps are truly dead
for guys who have no blessed features (above 6'2, blue eyes etc,) there is no reason to go on them

our only hope is the following:
lifestyle maxxing

basically, paying money to get access to a lifestyle that other people want
like a guy that gets invites to hollywood parties, or the guy who travels everywhere, or the guy who is always wth models at the club, or that guy who hosts art exhibitions
some stupid gay ass shit you know
generic cool guy

become the one that fts your style and buy your way to status
because the world seems to be fucked up, that's our last option
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>>34715606
It could be that, or she may just be very comfortable with/around you and doesn't feel unsafe. How are you sharing a living space? Room mates? Dorm? How long have you been sharing it and how long before she started leaving the door ajar? Did you know each other before this, and how well?

>>34717076
By being slightly picky.

>>34717172
Yeah, just reach out to her. What's the worst thing that happens, she ignores you? She may just have a lot on her mind.
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>fat (30-40lbs overweight)
>bald
>old (40)
>introvert
>bit autistic
Yet when going out it's easy to talk to girls, dance with them, kiss them, they always ask for my number.
When I was younger I never thought it was this easy.

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Since anon is a victim. Who’s to blame?

Me?

The World?

God?


Satan?


The Animals?



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Ok let pretend that "it is what it is" is not the biggest cope in the history of man kind.
What exactly I've done wrong, so even living and dying in the wood like an animal, is not allowed to me ?
I'm good enough for human right, but living like an animal is too good for me ?
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>>34718934
Die
>>34718942
So go into the woods and fuck off forever
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>>34718689
Jobs aren't fun. He should stop whining. Of course, being low staus is painful, but never having a job is good. It means you have a type of freedom.
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>>34719188
Kys fagg
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>>34719388
You will die alone


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