How can I do this as a man without coming off as cringey and desperate for female attention?
>>33777729If you're good-looking, then you don't need traps.
>>33777742I’d still like to put myself out there
>>33777816So you're not good-looking?
>>33777729Don't. There's no way to do it without coming off as feminine (read: unattractive) and desperate. I've never once met a woman who didn't think that male thirst traps reeked of desperation. >no but like bro what if I likeThere's no way to do it without it being cringey. It's not possible.
>>33777848I’ve had enough girlfriends to know that I’m not ugly, but I don’t feel attractive
So I have crippling social anxiety which makes me shake profusely whenever I am talking to someone. Today a shopkeeper asked me if I was okay and my doctor (Im an inpatient on a mental health ward) told me to relax. This obviously just made me shake more. What can I do bros? I try taking deep breaths but in the moment I am just so focused on how obvious my shaking is.
>>33772276Yeah, bro, physical analogues suck. The only advise i can offer is to live with your parents, surrounding yourself as much as possible in that safe and secure environment. And with that as your ground base, you dip your toe into the anxious situations.
You can't stop shaking if it's all you're focusing on. Try to accept you're going to shake and there's nothing wrong with it, after some time exposing yourself into anxious situations it will slowly get better.
>>33772276Do cardio and run away from your problems simple as.
>>33772276Your soul is playing a trick on itself. The real you in a different reality is a hyper confident jock. It needs duality to understand more of itself so you were created. My advice is to see through the illusion and hypnosis you’re in. See yourself differently. Meditate or gentle psychedelics
>>33772276wear a straightjacket
I am a precum factory. How do I stop?I interact with many females on the daily with no issues, and I have no social inhibition.But there are three girls to whom I hold stronger feelings. Whenever we sit close by or have talks, I will notice later that my underwear is slimy.I don't even have any dirty thoughts, I am not even popping a boner. Just talking to them turns the faucet on.But that is not the end of it.One of them recently became my girlfriend. And we spend, as one would expect, many hours together, sometimes just innocently talking.Even then, the one-eyed snake starts drooling. To the point where if I have gray pants on, a stain forms and it looks like I pissed myself.Does this go away as I become less of a virgin?Is this a biological variation?When fapping, I have to keep folded toilet paper on one hand to wipe Junior on, and I usually fill the whole surface of the 1~2 squares with precum stains before it's time to Finish Him.For now, I have to go to the bathroom often to wipe myself, but even then stains are formed.Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
LMAO
>>33777747>less of a virginYou're either a virgin or you aren't
>>33777747SEE A DOCTOR! NOW!
how should you act as an aspiring buddhist when you're a wage slave? How to keep sane if you spend the majority of your time slaving away. I try to not indulge in sensual pleasures and its doable but every evening I dread the next working day and want to blow my brains out. Or is the whole aim to become a monk and leave the hellish techno industrial society?
>>33776894You're also a slave for following some religion. Let alone one originating from ancient India of all places.
Being a buddist doesn't mean trying to escape samsara. It's just one path available to you. If you are one trying to seek enlightenment, then you should certainly become a monk. Otherwise you live normally on the karma grind. And I have to keep explaining this to people but good karma DOES NOT equal enlightenment.
>>33776894quit trying to follow buddha, it's like christ, you will never get it. Look at the flowers for a sec, even if they are born with shit and mud around them they are still flowers, still pretty. They will die, surely. But somewhere another flower will blossom, maybe in a beautiful garden, maybe with more shit and mud, flowers will be flowers.
>>33777840Funny pic I'll save it
How do I get over the fact that I’m unemployable? I just got a good evaluation at work and have been there almost 3 years but that doesn’t change the fact I’ve been fired from half my previous jobs and the other half I quit in less than two years. Should I KMS?
>>33777095Simple NO ONE gets employed nowadays just accept it
>>33777095Yes
>>33777095>I just got a good evaluation at workI won't read non-problem threads by subhuman morons who will always look at the cup half empty.
>>33777095>unemployable>at workSTFU
A female friend I was visiting mentioned how dating has been quite exhausting to her, and she'd rather just have a friends with benefits for starters.We were just said on her sofa, chatting quite normally, when she mentioned that. I didn't really pay her comment too much mind, but later on my way back home I thought that she might have been insinuating something there?Now, I like her well enough, and I might've tried pursuing her romantically if she hadn't been preparing to move out of town earlier this year, so I'm a little stumped now.I have little interest in dating her, too, because I really don't want a LDR. But dunno, FWB seems like a decent enough time?Did she mean anything by it? I'm not a very flirty person, only way people understand that I'd like to pursue them is if I tell them quite literally, otherwise I just come across as friendly, and I haven't told her for above mentioned reasons. Wot do?
>>33759261>bitch tells you she wants to fuck>wat do?>>33772322you were too latemoronyou guys are so fucking annoyingyou have women telling you to your face they wanna fuck and you don't even try to
>>33771211you got this man. I'm good with your plan of bringing it up to her next time in person. I think she has those kinds of thoughts about you. So all you gotta do is open the gate. And if she lets the gate be opened? expect some nice fucking sex.If not then you got your answer and everything's as it was. BUT LETS HOPE FOR A YES!!
>>33772322fascinating. women really will, in the same breath, complain that nobody approaches them and they're tired of men approaching them. it will not occur to them that they can't have both at once
>>33776288>I'm OP, what makes you say that?this can't say it any better:>>33776333>you guys are so fucking annoying>you have women telling you to your face they wanna fuck and you don't even try toI have missed cues that women like me but if these women would have to grab your junk to be any more obviously forward
>>33777781Conversely, men ill complain about women being prude and holding out and then in the same breath accuse her of riding the cock carousel the second she makes any kind of sexual advance. It will not occur to them that there are more options than just virgin pure waifu or bpd slut. Hypocrisy thrives in all aspects of life, anon.
Almost 21 and a miserable genetic and psychological dead end that will only get worse. Rotted alone for over a decade missing out on my best years and resenting everyone, lost interest in everything and being from England, I see no future in this grim place but can't leave. For so long I've tried to change myself but no dice.At the same time, I don't want to put my family through pain by killing myself. The idea has become more alluring as I've started to cope about maybe being reborn into a better life but I know that's nonsense. I can't bring myself to do it anyway.I don't know what to do about being trapped as a retard who cannot act normal or improve herself in any way and is miserable like this but unable to neck myself. Genuinely what can I do? Even if I could change the motivation isn't there, I'm still stuck in this country and I've spent so long despising normal people, lifestyles and relationships that it'll take years to undo that conditioning. It might be too late.
>>33774662Nah you'll be reborn into a better life<or will you
>>33776825Could’ve phrased that better but I’ve missed out on a lot of core experiences that I won’t get a chance at again and I’m stunted. It’ll take me years to catch up to where my peers were as a teen. I don’t think the regret will stop.>>33777145If rebirth is real there’s a 5% chance of being born anywhere good so I’ll hope but won’t hold my breath.
>>33777717Another "core experiences" loser. There are no "core experiences". You live or you don't.
turn to Christ, he loves you and cares for you and wants a relationship with you, if you open your heart to him and ask him for help he will help you
>>33777780I’ve been thinking about it but I’ve never been a believer nor have my family so I’m not sure if I’ll fully buy into it.
I think I have kidney disease but I don't have any health insurance.Am I royally screwed?Every time I eat something my skin itches and I get extremely tired and sleepy.
>>33773612Fuck these rich ass doctors.
>>33763917Probably just samata.
>>33768684stfu. You do know shit. A government fuelled health care system is killing us. Why would anyone be motivated to people who aren’t paying? A health care professional is trying to get people out the door as fast as possible. I would gladly pay real cash to fix my shit but it is not medically necessary that I have any dignity.
>>33777413>samatahmm?
>>33763917people used chlorine dioxide to successfully treat renal ischemia-reperfusion which causes kidney diseasehttps://www.risingpirates.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/06/Forbidden-Health-by-Andreas-Kalcker.pdf
>a broke, jobless loner neet with a 9/10 face and athletic body>an affluent, sociable well connected, extroverted short ugly manWho does better with women in 2025
>>33777633You suck, boomer. Do better
>>33777629>was saying your parents didn’t basically ban friends/gfs.They effectively were given the fact that there were none available. I thought you were homeschooled you should be smarter than this.>gone through what?An abnormal childhood>I didn’t have fucking friends in my neighborhood either dudeColor me surprised.>projectingSays the one who is both being a pearl clutching faggot while simultaneously saying "It don't matter lmao why u mad bro?">>33777643Quite literally yes. It's how you get replies. If you want to get b&/warned for doing that go to lainchan
>>33777684>They effectively were given the fact that there were none available. I thought you were homeschooled you should be smarter than this.I’m starting to think you’re literally still in high school with how dumb you are. Just because you didn’t live in a neighborhood with kids all over the place, like a lot of people, doesn’t mean you weren’t allowed to have friends, retard>Color me surprised.Corny weeb talk right there. Ironic. And yeah, I actually still had friends though, unlike you whining about how you have no fucking backbone are are foreveralone >Says the one who is both being a pearl clutching faggot while simultaneously saying "It don't matter lmao why u mad bro?"You came in this thread crying over having 0 friends literally because you’re too much of a pussy ass faggot who’s too awkward and unlikable to actually go out and make any. So all the bark you can make is on 4chan threads, even though you’re a pathetic coward irl and have no bite. Go do your fucking homework
>>33768480under 35 #1 over 35 #2
>>33777787
So I have some roommates, we aren't friends but we also aren't on bad terms. They did indirectly tell me to stop some stuff in the GC without naming me directly. (It was my fault) but it was handled in a polite manner.But lately, I overheard them talking in a loud manner how they hate having the door open, we have a house dog that would somethings enter our rooms if the door was open. I sometimes leave the door open but so do they. It wasn't the full conv but it was the gist.And then I heard music play repeatedly from behind one of their rooms. I listen to music somethings, but I try to keep it a minor volume. The reason I think it might be directed at me is because somethings I play a certain part of the song over and over, and that was what they were doing. But they could have an on TikTok or some shit idk.I had it with immature games but I don't want to confront them then realize it was coincidence then look like an ass.
>>33777607Yes. Get your own place. Who the fuck has roommates you beta cuck. Live with your girlfriend or alone or start a family.picrel Mogged
I met this guy online recently and he's totally my type and all, but hes kind of racist(towards blacks and indians) and transphobic and possibly homophobic. I'm not a hateful person, but Idk if ill be able to look over this quality if it gets too excessive? Do any non-racist anons ever married or dated racist people before? How do you deal with it? Should I just overlook it? Outside of those 3 qualities hes a very nice personI've only ever dated people who were aligned with my values and such
>>33775080>or someone gay/transwoke women just can't fucking stop being fag hags
>>33765554I too am catholic and am more racist than that guy or you could ever be because I am catholic and also smart
This has to be bait, why the hell would you ask such a thing on 4chan? You know you’re gonna get stoned so, why anon? why would you post something on the internet that would awaken a reaction from the people?
>>33775868not an argument
Dump him and let his ex love him or email his ex and ask how she dealt with it, all 4chan men have at least 1 ex.
Where do I go meet young women in the UK? What are my options?
>>33777819>thanks for the HanyuuYou're very much welcome, desu>Do you have a gf?...no, as I'm not a lesbian.I have my female frens who are kinda extroverted, though. I get a bit of an outlook onto the 'real world' for normies.>big listKekw, you're actually this devoted... Amazing XD >SouthUhuh, interesting. People tend to be more willing to socialise down there. Club culture is massive here ^^>introvertUwaaa, maybe try local cafes?
>>33777818How didn't I ever think of this? Holy shit. This is God tier. It's so perfect for me. I've been wanting to learn a third language for a while now too.Thanks anon! This will probably be the first thing I try because it's the one thing I'll have a use for as well.>>33777841>local cafesWhat does this mean? Can you elaborate? I have no idea how I'd approach a girl at just a regular cafe, seems impossibleAnd you know what? Might as well shoot my shot. Wanna add each other on Discord? I'm 20 if it matters :D It's alright if you don't though, I appreciate the advice either way
>>33772464>UKMeet your first cousin at the Mosque
>>33777857>Wanna add each other on DiscordFuck forgot to post it. elintare
>>33777857>What does this mean?Like, small businesses. Boba shops women bing chill at to do work and stuff? Haha, I'm clueless about this stuff... sorry.>approach a girl at just a regular cafeUh...errr...Let me use some braincells to think about this.>wanna add eachotherI'm already dating a /g/ tard from here, lol. If you're fine with that and would like me as a wingwoman, sure! I would love to.
What would be the best country iyo?>not typical loudmouth trashy American>hate consumer culture>love nature>hate seeing NA forests die>white/red hair/saxon/scandi>straight edgeWorld War III is ramping up and the muslims have invaded, but I don't want to be around mestizoes and mulattoes and Mexican gangs and fentanyl addicts.Are European women less entitled or more?It's either Europe, or Alaskan fishing and walking through SEA.
>>33776110It helps a LOT to have contacts, for example to help you find employment. That's how the muds do it. That's how I, a White nationalist, did it.
>>33776110I get the feeling you'll struggle to fit in anywhere, anon. I'm unaware of schizoid /pol/ brained 4chan autists successfully integrating into any productive society.
>>33777663>I get the feeling you'll struggle to fit in anywhere, anon. I'm unaware of schizoid /pol/ brained 4chan autists successfully integrating into any productive society.Ignore Shlomo above's black-pilling, OP. You sound quite alright, but maybe a bit naive because of youth. It's empowering to see the world for a visit, time to sort out your direction in life. It might be that having moved, you will decide that there is no place like home; NA being such a vast and diverse place, a niche for you might well exist somewhere there. If you decide to move then test the waters first, perhaps by talking to expats and following their channels in such places as YT.
>>33776643How is Europe worse?
>>33777764if this isn't a weird larp bait thread, you're a bonafide retard
How do I get prettier
>>33777104I thought they were being not nice 3:
>>33775270IT BURRRRNS
>>33777275You’re getting male attention and validation because you’re an attention-seeking foid. You shouldn’t even be on this site. You look like an alcoholic mom bruh
>>33774959How high are you on all the attention rn?
>>33777399Not enough
I have been playing sports since childhood, I am a world champion in karate and lead my socials. Spoiler: Not successful. Reels gather around 1000 viewers. I shoot dynamic videos. Every day I visit different gyms and make a short review about them. The video also has “fanservice” (foots, legs, buttocks, etc.). As you understand, there is little success. How to motivate yourself to do this further? What can you advise for development? Maybe I'm doing the wrong thing? Thank you very much.
I've realized, essentially, that viewers are drawn to emotional content, sexuality, openness, and charisma. However, I don't see any progress in a acc where I'm just banging my ass.
>>33776200to be fair, most of those whores put literally zero effort into it, they just throw it out into the wind and post a few times a month and magically expect to get famous
>>33776169Can you link me your channel? Discord svenkuong
>>33776169Nicole... You'll be ok
>>33776169>gym review>it has mats, some weights and the smell isn't too bad>here's my assfight content is usually pretty dry but damnyou've got the credentials to be informative, so do that>find exciting clips from competition fights (i could watch headkick KOs all day)>talk about things a professional would notice (lost balance, bad head movement, etc. keep it simple)>demonstrate the move on a dummy
