can i skip general education at (american) college? it's full of redundant bullshit and i'm surrounded by people who can't write complete sentences or comprehend ALA/MLA formatting or basic principles of academic writing. it's really frustrating that i'm wasting all this time just because other people are retarded and take an entire semester to learn something that i can learn in 10 minutes.this is at community college btw. should i just apply to a university? can't pay for it though. also i have multiple failed classes at this community college (from leaving the state and forgetting to drop my classes). will that make me unadmissible to a university?
>>33876065Depends. Usually the main way you get out of gen ed classes is by doing AP classes in high school. I did that and went in with two semesters worth of credits when I went to college. So it's probably to late for you now.
>>33876122yeah i think i'm fucked i was homeschooled and my umbrella group doesn't exist anymore and i made mistakes at community college so i doubt any real college would accept me just based on that alone.guess it's a life of crime for me instead.
>>33876065I won't read threads by disorganized dropouts who blame others for their woes.
>>33876065No, they are mandatory. Best you can do is ask profs for special permission to take higher level classes that also happen to fulfill certain gen ed requirements
>>33876065SOME schools will let you bypass SOME requirements by taking an exam.
>What is /htgwg/?How to Get Women General is by men, for men, about women, so bring all of your questions about getting and dealing with women here. Some anons on this site actually get laid, and some of them even want to help. If you're trying to meet and date women, then this is the place to ask questions, seek advice, and share experiences. We know how hard it can be. We got you bro.>What is /htgwg/ not?These threads are NOT for whining, moping, incels, volcels, MGTOW, hopelessness, or demoralization. We're all aware that meeting and dating women is hard today, and even harder for some, but /htgwg/ is for trying to overcome the challenges. IGNORE the posters who complain, give up, or insist there's nothing they can do. This site has other boards and threads that they can pollute. BE SMART: Spot the bait, don't reply, and DON'T WASTE TIME ARGUING WITH THEM!>How to ask for adviceContext is important: be more specific than "This girl ghosted me, why?" We can't help if we don't know the situation, so try to provide as much (useful) info as possible ("I was at the bar, this chick was checking me out..."). What's your relationship with the girl? How long have you known her? Any conversation screenshots? Etc... Don't forget to ask an actual question.>Resources and Bookshttps://wingman.live/ (AI dating coach)https://pdfcoffee.com/318797392-mark-manson-models-2016pdf-4-pdf-free.htmlhttps://archive.org/details/robert-glover-no-more-mr-nice-guy-id-353324692-size-612https://www.youtube.com/@YourWingmamhttps://www.doctornerdlove.com/blog/Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
Anons, how to meet up with a bisexual woman IRL? How to kindly ask her about such experience and don’t make her feel that I interrogate her personal life? Since I live in slavic shithole, nobody is going to speak up about it to absolute random and I don’t want to waste time on a person who doesn’t have such experience. So cold approach (I suppose) won’t work here.
>>33875760>She is pretty busy with work and study and she doesn’t live in the same town as meAvoid busy people as they don't have the mental capacity free to entertain bullshit like you wanting to stick you dick in her and texting to ease your insecurity. Idleness is the root of all vice.
>>33874650I'm not tall and girls like me, so there goes your graph little fella.
>>33876026Maybe. You can try what I said, send something to see if she bites next week or in a couple weeks.
Hey yallI just started this new class that doesn’t have many people maybe 15 of us in thereI got a seat towards the middle back of the classThere is a girl who sits towards the front and anytime she needs to throw something away or get something from across the classroom, she will purposefully walk all the way to where my seat is and literally run her fingers across my deskAt first I thought I was daydreaming shit until I purposefully put my head on my desk like I was “tired/napping” and my hand was hanging off the deskTell me why she walks why and brushes her ass on my handThis can’t be an accidentI’ve never spoken to this girl before and we haven’t had a single interaction in this class
Is it really that hard to find a gf or I'm just a retard? Maybe I'm just unlucky? I'm 33, never had one. Have hobbies and money, also fit.Somehow, other people find each other. Once I watched a documentary about an autistic 30 yo japanese NEET killer without friends who found a gf (later she became his wife) while in his early 20s. Apparently, she approached him while they were university students and he often spent his free time there sitting in a uni's cafeteria alone like a retard. Am I doing something wrong with my life? I want to think it's just a bad luck, but har d to believe the older I become.
>>33875822You've got some basics going for you, now you just have to force yourself into social things and just keep trying. If it doesn't work for an extended period, introspect what might be wrong, try to do better and try again.
>>33875822>Is it really that hard to find a gf or I'm just a retard?Yes. I won't read the rest.
>>33875822>Is it really that hard to find a gf or I'm just a retard?Those are not mutually exclusive.
It's both. Also you're 33 so it's already over for you.
Would it be weird for my 30 year old ass to go to a bar near college campus? I saw a frat/house having a party, and I was so close on walking in.
>>33876436You look Indian and you got rejected by women like an Indian…sirs he may be Indian
>>33876436Another theory deboonked. I did post twice but there are multiple people making fun of you here.
>>33876452Bigger fucking loser than me than>>33876369>Your phenotype suggests you don’t lift at all. Not only am I whiter than you I’m physically stronger than youKid I rep 2 wheels as a warmup. Post your physique next if that's the big tru truLMAo fucking zoomers thinking 250 is worth bragging about. Little test-depleted brown Asian
>>33876436>>33876475>>33876232>"ur indian" anon is actually brown himselfAHAHAHAHAHAHA holy shitanon i'd quit if i were you at this pointyou literally got baited and owned yourselfjeets are so fucking stupid kek
>>33874311Most frats operate under a policy that any woman who wants to come to their parties is welcome inside. Popular frats throw parties where the number of women is equal or greater than the number of men. Loser frats are sausage parties.
I don’t know how to clearly phrase this but what is important is that I am 21 next month and female.I’m autistic and never done anything with myself because I never had the incentive to and couldn’t socialise. In many ways it feels like I haven’t started my life yet. Part of me wants to start in a youthful way, to dress and be like a teen girl because I never really got the chance and it’s in line with my personality and interests. I don’t want to be a ‘woman’, I want to be a girl if that makes sense. But the fact that I am getting older terrifies me. Even if I start now I’ve only got a few years of this youth left if I’m not already getting on. I don’t want to be acting young when I’m too old or jealous of younger women, I already want to go back to being a teen. I know I’m young but ageing is different for men and women.The other option is just to keep on going as I am. I’m essentially cut off from society outside of my job so ageing wouldn’t bother me as much when I don’t have to worry about looks, acting too young or expressing myself in a way that puts me at the mercy of other’s criticism. I’d just have to repress that urge for some form of girlyness. It’s a dumb dilemma and I don’t know how to phrase it into an actual question but it has also given me grief for years and stagnated my life in a way. What’s the best choice?
>>33875310I feel the same way OP.. Im scared of getting old even though im 18 this year, I really wanna meet someone that will take care of me but I dont know where. People at my school are so boring i need to search somewhere else but im shy and never started coversation
>>33875310Get with an older guy so you always feel young. Not that I believe you are a woman or girl because everyone on the internet is a man.
>>33875510>I really don’t know what it is about youth that I’m so desperate to cling onto.Being honest with you, that's the nice part about having those kind of problems, trying to figure out yourself, experiment with stuff until you get something that makes you happy, at least for a moment
>>33875310kamikazeshortbus is like 35 and it's working for her
>>33875310Autism (if you really have it and are not just using the term loosely) is NOT a death sentence. It just means that you have to work at some basic social skills that most people can do easily or instinctively. That makes socializing hard, but NOT impossible. If you give up completely and cut yourself off from the world, that will be YOUR choice and not the autism.
There ain't no secret button for "getting a girlfriend"! Girlfriend is a side product of being a social and civilized member of society. And that is it socialize and you'll learn all the answers sooner or later.God! I come here a few times a year and there is no change on this board. No wonder women hate incels. It hit me just now. The word "get/acquire", they are just an object. You don't see them as a human being. You may lie to yourself that you would love them pamper them, share their interest, value their opinion. And even if you got your chance you would f it up because all you would do is listen to your brain on how important is this woman-thing is to you. How it makes you feel "loved" and you'll do all this kindness as a subscription to keep it.And they know.
>>33875867I won't read (and this one is extremely banal) opinion pieces on an advice board. Is this the same clown posting so many opinion pieces today? Get a life!
>>33876464Mutts law
>>33875867i am a civilized member of society and do want to appreciate a special lady as a human being, though
>>33876622I see them on the sidewalks too
>>33875867>The word "get/acquire", they are just an object.Or you're being a retarded and disingenuous fagot trying to change the meaning and context to make it seem like it's not your fault at all. You seem like that cunt teacher that would tease the kid trying to go to bathroom that they didn't say "MAY I" and then gets upset at the kid for pissing themselves when you just needed to not be a fagot.
>handsome>built>smart>rich.... 3.8 inch skinny dicklol. I feel like God played a cruel trick on me. Everything I do and all achievements I make is invalidated because i cant fuck too well basically. What am I to do?
>>33876276>Just know id probably kill myself if I had to deal with thadamn dudeyeah its over
>>33873057Is it really that much of a difference? I'm rocking the most average, 5.5 incher, and I'm doing well. According to a quick Google search you only need 3 inches to satisfy a woman. Just go for it man. A girl who really loves you shouldn't care so long as your penis can satisfy.
>>33876572>so long as your penis can satisfy....
>>33873057dude, by the time she sees it, you're getting laid no matter what. that's the least important thing.anyway, when it comes to pleasing your partnerimagination + cardio + technique + experience with different women > dicksize
>>33873057The size of the tool means less than the skill with which it is employed.
My boyfriend hates that I like yaoi. I read it while he's gaming, but I put it away when he's spending time with me so I'm not rubbing it in his face or anything.He used to not care, but now it's like a major problem for him because he thinks it's perverted and he wants me to "just be normal".I'm willing to give up the yaoi if it really makes him uncomfortable, but I'm also worried if I let him start dictating what I can and can't like where does it stop??Should I just drop the yaoi habit?
>>33876482Don't let someone else dictate what you read. He should at least accept that you're not normal and love you despite this
>>33876516It's become a filler for when I'm bored and can't find anything better to do. I need to figure out something else for that I guess.>>33876549I don't feel like it's any worse than other hobbies. Like reading yaoi is more or less the same as playing video games and I don't mind that he likes games.
A lot of women have their man not watch porn.
>>33876609those are the women you should avoid. especially if they are not high libido and refuse threesomes
>>33876482"You quit gaming and I'll quit yaoi."
How do I reverse brain damage caused by constant sleep deprivation and stimulants abuse?
>>33876461Already stopped stimulants, literally can't sleep more than 2h most of the nights, can't do cardio because my heart is fucked up beyond repair
>>33876473Hmm, I'd probably start with walking and some light sauna.
>>33876473just walk until exhaustion thenyou'll sleep alright
>>33876457I won't read threads posted by lazy, immediate gratification subhuman morons.
>>33876473You need to do physical activities if you want to have a healthy psyche.You could do half an hour of swimming everyday or something lighter like jogging.>I can't do those cause I'm a faggot.Sure. At least try to walk around the block every morning and get some sunlight.
Im an 18yr old girl who has always been struggling with her self image her life and im just trying to give myself a chance now and learn how to move past my insecurities and such. My goal is to build my self worth gradually through whatever tips you guys have. am new to 4chan so sorry if i didnt do smth right.
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>>33873822>you build self esteem by overcoming struggles. setting goals and achieving themnot OP but goddamn I wish it worked this wayfor me it seems to be more like:>I have a goal I want to accomplish>I work to make it happen>by the time I make it happen, whatever I needed to learn to do it feels normal>nothing I do actually helps build self esteem, because by the time I did it, it's not impressive to me anymore
>>33874083I don't believe there are 18 year old girls here for a second
Do you want to hear that you're cute?
>>33873949fucking faggot, kill yourself
> Be me> 18> Always wanted to play music/play in a band> Still never learned and strayed as far away from it in skills as possibleIs it too late to start? I have 0 idea of how music actually works, don't know what a note is. (I won't anyways, only complain abt it)
>>33876495>18It's over.
>>33876495>18>Is it too late?That's one of the reasons why no one likes you
>>33876495It is perfectly possible to learn music at your age (or much older). It will take a lot of work on the very basics, like the little kids in movies and TV playing boring scales on the piano. And without a parent leaning over you and making you practice, you're going to have to have a lot of determination and discipline.https://www.musicgateway.com/blog/how-to/16-singers-musicians-who-started-late-in-life
I’m 25 years old I had one job before but I hated it. I’d be willing to work if I was able to keep my money but I said to my parents that like 5 billionnaires take all the money so why work? Like they say I need a job to get money but if all the money goes to billionnaires, why bother???Like they even said due to connections they could get me a 110k to 150k a year job in the trades but peoblem is I said that’s peanuts look at billionnaires they earn 150k an hour
No pussy no workNo house no taxes
>>33868206Don't work for those 5 billionaires? And don't spend your money on their products?>Someone in life does better than I ever will>Guess it's not worth doing anything
>>33872145Nobody denies that in today’s economy if you work hard you’ll be rich. Your trolling is garbage >>33872516Anybody who works a job knows you get paid way more than you provide
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>>33875467Your ragebait is 0/10
>>33810745 I dunno still wanted to vent. made the mistake of looking up old coworkers and they're all still obviously successful engineers. realized today that the windows linux thing means you can actually do real development without having to dualboot linux. I am like almost tempted to get back into developing but feel like it might be short lived if I actually started doing shit again lmao. it would be nice to be able to do development shit without having to work off my 2013 mbp or dualboot into linux.
I put in lots of effort while I was on the job like trying to work the entire time but I didn't do side projects outside of work hours to like try to get better which could have made a big difference I dunno. I did some reading about practices like read the book on working with legacy code and rapid development for a book club the office did but while reading them I could tell that shit wasn't where I was struggling. I assure u I was trying while in office.
no i don't want to do phone shit on second thought.
it is nice how chatgpt will spit out a ton of code. yeah there's dumb shit in it even when it's really simple shit but it does a lot of typing for me which is nice.
> I heard AI makes it really easy to learn these daysgod i hate people taht don't know shit about shit.
okay i will get AI to spit out a mobile app for you and when it doesn't work that's on u lmao
How receptive would random women be if I offered them $100 an hour to take part in erotic modeling?
>>33875712Even that would need to be at least $1000, not a paltry 100.
>>33875123you'll have to be more specific. about you and where/how you do this.if you're a shady looking sperg bluntly asking random women in a first world country, your success rate will be zero%.if you're a confident well-dressed white man smooth-talking random women into a photoshoot (and getting to the erotic part later) in a 3rd world country, your success rate could be very very high
>>33875123100 is no shot, unless you're asking some bum crackhead living in the streets. 500 is is a 60% chance they will say yes. 800-1K is a 97% score. If you are a chad with golden hair in your ass they will do it for free. I would rather spend those money on a oil massage with a Thai cheeta lady
>>33875702$100 an hour is amazing money considering they just have to pose nude.A woman could do 2 hours of posing 3 times a week and make more than like 60% of America
>>33875757>>33876462OP here, I am a good-looking, well-dressed white man. I would be framing it as mature modeling and that if they would be interested in posing with luxury lingerie, athletic wear, and swimsuit brands. Not just asking women to show me their box for $100. Most of the photos would be clothed.
Broke up with my girlfriend 2 days ago because of our religious differences and now experiencing a spiritual and life crisis because of it. I love her so much and I was going to marry her What do I do?
What are the religious differences?
When you pull a bullet out of your flesh, you still will ache.
All I will say is, you will feel the worst after 3 weeks, and then it will onyl get better after 2-3 months.Welcome to temporary hell.
