She is an artist and took time out of her already busy week to work the entire time she had off to make me something with paint (?) with consideration of my favorite characters, don’t know what it is yet. I don’t have any art skills or supplies and little money, this is the first christmas I’ll spend with a girlfriend since I haven’t had one before should I get her something she’s explicitly wanted or try my hand at art too? I’m suffering from paralysis since I want to match the effort she put into it and I’ve never given anyone a gift.She likes manga, art (mainly digital), cosplaying, and certain clothes but it’ll be expected.
>>34036225>should I get her something she’s explicitly wantedyes. also be grateful as a puppy for her work
>>34036225Get a palm massager, her hands probably cramp from creating.
>>34036235>>34036240Thank you for the good suggestions and nice words, I needed some pointers, I'll get her multiple small gifts that she lacks (chair, desk, and clothing) and draw her and a few of her characters since I have done it before and she's liked it.>>34036320I'll make sure to be, it was very thoughtful since my room is empty.>>34036331Good idea though her lack of a chair makes life hell for her back.
Make something like a candle
>>34036225Let her suck the D.
Hello, where can i find Edgy Memes?They are getting banned everywhere?Where can i find them, i want to watch them while loughing and i want to send them to my dad, where can i find them?I need Edgy Memes!
>>34035926I don’t have any.
>>34035994From pintrest
I'm 20 years old, I got a job offer in a state halfway across the country (US), I want to go but the only thing holding me back is my parents. I don't have a very stable relationship with them, in fact I wanted this job specifically to leave them behind, but when I told them that I got the job, they started trying to either guilt trip me into not going or tried to give me reasons why I'd basically fucking die if i live by myself because, to them, I'm like a baby that can't survive without their help. I need to tell them that im going to leave before I leave due to certain factors but I don't know how to go about that without having to deal with that whole conversation.Also, as an aside, how do I deal with the fact that my youthful years are slowly coming to a close and the fact that I had a horrible childhood and basically had my youth raped from me (another reason why I want to leave, I can't deal with living in the same house as the people that ruined my childhood). I watch twink porn just to catch a glimpse of what it would be like to be a youthful and virile male engaging in an act of communion with another healthy, beautiful young boy. Its that bad.
can you afford to live there? is the job stable? if you lose the job will you have to live with them again?if you can get away and stay away then leave. it will likely be good for you. if you can't yet then hunker down and wait. Just don't be stupidalso stop watching porn that's not helping anything.you're still young. if you wanna have casual sex go ahead, it's not hard. Just be careful
i'm 34 years old and still tied to my parents. granted, they are wealthy and always been good to me but i've come to realize my aversion to independence has negatively affected me for my development, such that i'm finally considering jobs that would require me to move rather than those around my area. no point in leaving now because my job is 10mins from my parent's home.if i were you OP, with the mindset i have now, i would get all the logistics down first and then head out for that job. you don't have to stay there forever, give it a 1 year trial but at least get that experience of living alone so you know you can do it again for the rest of your life.
>>34032565Go. Don't look back. If you make mistakes along the way, you'll survive them
>>34032927Honestly, if I'm 20 year-old, have a job, and my parents aren't trying to kick me out or ask for money, I'd stay with them until I'm 23 or 24.I'm going to fully pay off my car, save as much as possible, then move out. Now, if you can't get along with your parents or the job opportunity outside the state pays well, then it's understandable.
>they started trying to either guilt trip me into not going or tried to give me reasons why I'd basically fucking die if i live by myself because, to them, I'm like a baby that can't survive without their help.Been through this song and dance. They'll want control but not responsibility for what happens to your life.>>34032927Never fully trust your job to have your back
i have not experienced this myself but if you had someone close to you kill themselves, was it extremely traumatic? would you say it is something that would fuck you up? i dont want to hurt my loved ones so traumatically but i just cant go on im so done.
>>34034608if they don't love you then your death wouldn't hurt them retard. it would only heart them if they actually love you.
I moved to a new town about 10 years ago. I don't make friends easily but I did hit it off with a guy, we were both young dads, both into gardening, homesteading, working out, and religious philosophy stuff. He had lots of mental issues and eventually did some time in treatment, I wrote him letters of encouragement. He eventually hung himself, his kid found him unconscious and brain damaged but not dead. I watched the helicopter airlift him, not knowing it was him. I'm sure his life would have been hard, but I still miss my friend.
>>34034401Thanks for your story. The older I get the less able I am to convince myself not to do it, knowing I would be nuking my siblings lives is the only thing stopping me now.
>>34034401> I just sat down outside this church crying my eyes out for 6 hoursIs he your relative at least?
They mostly inherit the emotional pain the suicidal person dealt with.
Do strip clubs live up to the hype?
>>34034126No. Strip clubs are best experienced with a group of friends, while drunk, and mostly as a "fun sex" thing. If you go there expecting a genuinly erotic experience, then its pathetic.
>>34034126They are fun but a massive money sinkI go every couple months to have some hot chick rub her ass on my dickI would say only 2 of the strippers I got a dance from were actually hot as fuckThe others were meh
>>34034126I want to jizz on all those asses.
Nope, you can't even touch most of them, maybe tits in some places.Not worth it imo.
>>34034126I don't understand them. If you want nudity, look at porn. If you want sex, pay a hooker.
The price of seeing the future is no longer seeing the past EDITION. https://youtube.com/shorts/44D1wGFjLuc?si=L3So8BaJyv9DRzgv
>>34008824today is your birthdayI promised so many things to you for this dayand yet we no longer even talkyou only messaged me when you were hungry, needed money, were bored or a couple times horny.I wanted something serious with you, you only saw me as a past time and an ATM.
>>34036461Same. It's all we have left of dinosaurs and it can be used for so many products! We shared the same moon.
>>34036559We wuz dinosaurs!
>>34036571"They" want us to forget where we came from.
>>34036577So we cannot see where we are heading.
>What is /htgwg/?How to Get Women General is by men, for men, about women, so bring all of your questions about getting and dealing with women here. Some anons on this site actually get laid, and some of them even want to help. If you're trying to meet and date women, then this is the place to ask questions, seek advice, and share experiences. We know how hard it can be. We got you bro.>What is /htgwg/ not?These threads are NOT for whining, moping, incels, volcels, MGTOW, hopelessness, or demoralization. We're all aware that meeting and dating women is hard today, and even harder for some, but /htgwg/ is for trying to overcome the challenges. IGNORE the posters who complain, give up, or insist there's nothing they can do. This site has other boards and threads that they can pollute. BE SMART: Spot the bait, don't reply, and DON'T WASTE TIME ARGUING WITH THEM!>How to ask for adviceContext is important: be more specific than "This girl ghosted me, why?" We can't help if we don't know the situation, so try to provide as much (useful) info as possible ("I was at the bar, this chick was checking me out..."). What's your relationship with the girl? How long have you known her? Any conversation screenshots? Etc... Don't forget to ask an actual question.>Resources and Bookshttps://wingman.live/ (AI dating coach)https://pdfcoffee.com/318797392-mark-manson-models-2016pdf-4-pdf-free.htmlhttps://archive.org/details/robert-glover-no-more-mr-nice-guy-id-353324692-size-612https://www.youtube.com/@YourWingmamhttps://www.doctornerdlove.com/blog/Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>at cafe doing work>see girl, we make eye contact and smile at each other>compliment her boots, we have a short convo that I cut off to get back to work>I pass by her for water/to go out for a call, every time we make eye contact, I see her looking at me from the side of my eye>after an hour, she moves to my table and we start talking>we're flirting, finding out stuff about each other, very fun>I have to hop on a video call so I tell her and she gets up to leave>Tell her: Let's get some wine tomorrow night>I'm sorry I can't, im going shopping with my friends, and actually I'm not looking for anything right now but maybe we can be friends>I just stare at her and say okay nice to meet you, also nice belt, just noticed it, shake her hand>she knows my instagram but never followed me, I showed it to her to show a video I madeThis has happened at least 4 times at this cafe, all the women are eastern european, christian and studying to be in healthcare. idk what I'm doing wrong, I've leveled up my teasing factor, my only guess is I could have shit tested her at the end and said "woah you sure had a lot to say about that haha, maybe you can be my friend, you'll need to buy me some wine next time you see me though."Also at a bar that night,Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>34036540The only advice i can really give is the obvious DO NOT BRING UP HER AGE. If she brings up the age gap dont tell her you think its hot or anything just say it doesnt bother you. Beyond that enjoy yourself, you made it this far and you both know theres only one real reason why someone her age would go out with someone your age. Enjoy smashing the granny puss raw
>>34036540I've been talking to a 50ish year old divorcee who cleary has a ton of money, honeslty thinking about just giving up and being a sugarbaby. i wonder if I should just confess to her. we kissed years ago but nothing came of it, I got a gf soon after
I was at McDonalds the other night. So, I'm going in there and the girl is really smiling at me intensely and like looking at me and sticking her head out the window and going all up into my car and just being very flirtatious and stuff and then I was like "alright, that's cool," cause the other women were flirting with me too there and I'm just trying to make sense of it all. I don't know what happened, but I went back a couple times and then she was acting very cold and then I went back again and she was initiating flirting with me again, so I was like, "alright, cool". Let me ask you this, if this was her trying to mess with me tho. So, I ordered a pumpkin pie and an apple pie and she's handing them to me. She reaches over and she's like, "be careful, the pies are hot". She like, gave me a big old smile. So is that a... I don't know what I did wrong? The way she said it brother, it was like, I dunno, man.
Woman are only interested in the top 1%.This is why its a mess.
Are there any online chatrooms worth going on anymore?
>>34036406>>34036513The early bulletin board systems chat room was like what you’d call a lobby now. More like the comments section in YouTube. 4chan is the only fuckery I do on computer because it reminds of the days I was too young for.>>34036501This is probably true enough. Everywhere needed a password or the right numbers. That’s now the “dark net.” You must be automatically guilty if you’re hiding behind encryption. And you must be a patsy if you think you got the password because you’re cool.
>>34036807>The early bulletin board systems chat room was like what you’d call a lobby now. More like the comments section in YouTube. 4chan is the only fuckery I do on computer because it reminds of the days I was too young for.I know, I used to use them. They weren't really that good though. AIM Direct Messaging for 1-on-1s was more active I think.
>>34036807The darkweb is everything bad in the world. Journalists who are pussies will use Tor to post shit that they are too affraid to put out under their real names. Child porn, child porn, child porn... and more garbage for subhumans.
>>34036406Nope>>34036501>Every chat is full of feds, pedophiles, underageb&, and niggers.I'm not a fed.
there are feds on 4chan :/>>34036406there's some decent discords and VRchat servers, but there's a ton of garbage ones tooprobably the closest thing to the "wild west" of old chatrooms, thoughyou might try IRC, there's some active IRC servers i'm sure
how do I, a chud in university, bag a goth/ dark academia girl?I like anime and video games, but mostly rpgs. Only horror game I played was Parasite Eve, never played RE or SH. Love Kingdom Hearts.Don't listen to much music but I like some prog rock like Periphery and SpiritboxDefinitely more of a lanky nerd, not a metal guy or goth myself, but I've been eyeing this one girl I keep seeing on campus who always wears a black dress and old lady glasses, no tattoos but wears black lipstick and has a septum piercing
I’m gonna shoot my shot tomorrow if she’s on campus. Here’s my plan:>”hey, I like your style and think you’re cute”>gauge reaction>”how about I give you my number so we can chat and get to know each other?”I just don’t know if I should approach at the student lounge or at the cafeteria at lunch. I feel like the student lounge would be better because I won’t really have anything to keep me there so I can just fuck off if things go south. I want to make eye contact first to see if I get an okay to approach, then I’ll make my move
>>34036558Sweet, let us know how it goes.
>>34036558I bet $100 you get rejected.
>>34036647Why?
>>34036698Call it a sixth sense.
Share some stories and make each other feel better about your mistakes.
>>34035722>hey, did you hear that? She likes anon!>She likes anon! She likes anon! She likes anon!>don't act on it even though she's cute because I'm an autistic idiot.
I talked bad about my friends behind their backs because I didn't like how they were treating another friend of mine. Turns out they were listening and recording. Now I have no friends.
>>34036723Better no friends than bad ones I always say, I think you dodged a bullet here
My greatest fuck up is that I didn't try
I had sex with an IRL woman once. Total waste of time. I fell for the relationships meme you guys keep posting.
> Get SSDI > Want to work eventually> Vagrant constantly with no friends familyis there anywhere else I can go besides the homeless shelters
>>34034297I am going to need a few more conjunctions.Anyone comprende?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=L5up_YZBvqA
Should I bother dealing with chicks that refer to themselves as a "goddess?"
>>34035622only women ive heard refer to themselves as goddesses are delusional hoeflated cunts that rode some studs cock when he was horny but equated that thrusting to appreciated goods by tangential contactnot sure how feel about princess. in class with a girl who is an actual princess for disney (?; do other studios make princesses or maybe she worked as a princess for hire idk). cute. wanted to kill the guy sitting next to her. cool dude but just as pussy suckered as i would have been sitting next to her so ill give him some slack.goodess is delusional but princess could be a fun larp pretending she is the outsted monarchys princess now forced to scrub to floors and take a commoners cock.
>>34035874>Ur projecting your insecuritiesThe catchphrase of every armchair psychologist on the internet nowadays. It's "I know you are but what am I", only more pretentious and pseud.Women who refer to themselves as godess are obnoxious and invariably self absorbed. They lash out when someone openly disagrees because their fragile female egos thrive on validation but can't tolerate fair criticism. You're just another mortal creature. Not a godess, nor a queen, aphrodite, etc. Actually a hairless ape with the peculiar habit of wearing fake nails, fake face, fake lips, fake everything and still claiming to be intrinsically beatiful.
>>34036825>The catchphrase of every armchair psychologist on the internet nowadays. It's "I know you are but what am I", only more pretentious and pseud.Consider the possibility that people say it a lot because it happens a lot.>Women who refer to themselves as godess are obnoxious and invariably self absorbed. They lash out when someone openly disagrees because their fragile female egos thrive on validation but can't tolerate fair criticism.Holy projection.
>>34035622Yes if they're under 20 no if they're over 20.
>>34035622Nope.
Anyone dealt with this before? Is it fixable?
I recently contracted a severe case of yellow fever and have been dying to treat it. However, I live in Houston Texas and money is tight at the moment. Is there anywhere within driving distance where I can actually meet asians to shoot my shot with?
>>34035641What
>>34035887Ya know, it’s funny that you mention it, I’m gonna be in LA for a couple of days during New Years.. Where’s the best places driving distance from Redondo Beach to meet Asian women? Are there specific bars/venues or events they like? I’m cool with meeting either old hag MILFs or younger women.
Bump
>>34029153>>34029268I was going to say there's probably a workable formula for even fairly average guys to get x kind of woman into bed and I have slept with a lot of women more or less because I initiated some affection to see if they'd respond. I'm a chubby guy with very Anglo teeth lol but for some reason I had a golden hot run with my dick. Definite periods of drought thoAnyway you can pretty much "positively nudge" any social situation but at the end of the day if it's just for the experience and not because of authentic attraction, you might find yourself a little disassociated with your body, where you are and your inner life somewhat.Sex is better when you at least like each other
2015-2017 I taught English in South Korea, learned slang and flirted with slang at bars and on Tinder. Barhop and go to night clubs alone and socialize friendly with guys and girls. Watch basic dance tutorials. Optional: get a adept wingman It’s so successful I caught an STD, good luck.But I truly recommend find Jesus and wait til marriage. All the shallow sex with fuck with your worldview and psych.
helloim 23, virgin, never even held hands with a boy or had my first kiss. i live at home with my parents. i also have no friends.i don't even make eye contact with men at my job, i desperately want to get married and start a family but im afraid that a guy will think im too retarded to marry me so ill end up forever alone. i cant hold a conversation either.i overheard my parents talking about me last night. my mom is afraid that i will never find someone. i heard my dad sigh and agree. why am i a disappointment.also, am i a retard for thinking tequila joseph is hot
>>34030035the wall isn't real. it's real for 18-28 year olds that post here, but when you're that age, there will be older men that are fine with it
>>34032237>Thinks that user activity on a scandinavian hackey sack forum full of autistic virgins is reflective of real lifeYou must acquire the sensation of grass
>>34030035Are you Australian? My situation is similar
>>34034399aside from finding Joseph hot
>>34034399im American :)
