>>34588258
she looks really different without makeup. and aside from her asianfishing pokimane isn't white.

>>34588261
Arabs are white according to the census chud

>>34588243
Because asian women get so much plastic surgery they look like indistinct AI generated blobs.
I would've guessed the girl in the pic is hispanic. I thought she was Adria Arjona (girl from Andor) for a sec.

>>34588243
that woman is moroccan

Weird, I confuse Latinas with Asians, but never white women

>>34589238
honest answer is a combo of a lot of things
>the average time to nut for a man is about 12-15 minutes
>we all got shit to do, and if you couldn't make it happen in 30, odds are we're somewhere near the median of the amount of time you need, which means it could be up to like 60 minutes for you to finish, which is a REALLY long time
>if you're going first as the bull, oftentimes part of the cuck fantasy is a reverse bull fantasy where after you fuck them, they "get their revenge" and get to hatefuck her back, and although it's hot for a while to watch, you're kinda hogging all the pussy, he's probably hard and wants his turn too
>she's gonna be loosening up over time and if she wasn't tight enough when you started, or was too tight and didn't loosen up in 30 minutes to whatever you were looking for along the way, she's probably fully slacked out at that point, more time is against you
>depending on your cardio, YOU are going to start getting tired after sex that long, and that means your performance is gonna start going down and you're gonna break rhythm, which means you're not gonna nut even more and she's probably not gonna nut,
>most women start getting all of tired, self-conscious that they couldn't make you nut, and especially if you're dick's big, often kinda sore after about 30 minutes, all of which mean she's gonna start enjoying it less
Last one means she's less likely to want a round two, less likely to invite you back for more, having a shittier time so she's less likely to put on a good show for you and therefore you're less likely to nut because the wheels are falling off the cart.

For all these reasons, it's better to be dignified about it and call it early, because
>well, he didn't nut, but he didn't drag it out unduly
reviews a lot better than
>dude my thighs were SO done, it took him like 45 minutes but I didn't want to make a big deal about it

nigger you are going to contract an std, don't be stupid

>>34589471
That sounds like crap, how is lasting long bad? Thats the only way I CAN ENJOY SEX, if i do not get at least 40 minutes of stroking i feel like i am not satisified (saying this as a male)

>>34589572
If you can't do it any other way, w/e, but those are the consequences

>>34589559
That's what the condom's for, and you're welcome to ask when their last STD test was if you wanna be sure

>>34589238
Because the woman getting tired and sore is not desirable. Neither is her feeling unattractive or thinking you're not enjoying it.

>>34587208
>You'd be an extreme cuck in this scenario.

Yeah, because hes a guy. Women inherently value sex less than men and ascribe it less meaning, as its far easier to get for them. What is hard to get for them is emotional connection. Some women will wave it off if you have sex with another woman, but chimp the fuck out if you do something she interprets as "romantic" towards another girl.

>>34586921
If your girlfriend is entirely comfortable with you having sex with other women, then you aren't cheating by doing so. But it's still essential that you tell any other woman you get involved with that you have a girlfriend; you can't lie to them. And honestly, your girlfriend probably isn't anywhere near as okay with this as she says she is. Tread carefully.

>>34586921
its like my gf but instead of that part she is incredibly jealous with other women to where she's hit one before who flirted with me once yet still doesn't put out.

>>34587592
true, telling other girls usually has a bad response tho, which kinda sucks. maybe I should lead them on and then tell them I'm in a loving relationship, bitches love breaking up relationships lmao

>>34588028
I guess I'm not the most miserable guy in the world xdlmao

>>34589664
>maybe I should lead them on and then tell them I'm in a loving relationship
If you're not in a loving relationship, then just break up.

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>>34585971
And it pays off in waaay more ways than just sex.

>With zero effort, nothing ever happens and you spend your life doing nothing

You're that muttish guy who lives in the Netherlands aren't you

>>34585420
you're a 30 year old man shooting fish in a drying up pond.
Women's looks don't last, they know that.

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>>34585420
>Every girl is a new lesson and learning opportunity. I have dates now. I have more rizz. I'm more comfortable touching girls and offering them to touch. I don't have as much anxiety or at all. I see them as people. The upward spiral is real. My life isn't worth shit without girls.
>I enjoy this so much.

>>34585420
OP is a chad, both inside and out

>>34563692
Bitch looks like she wants to give me a poison apple

>>34572355
That is fire nice job anon

>>34587856
I ddin't say that tho.

It's about false advertising. It's about doing it with the intention to look good.

nice guys do that thing, virtue signaling. That's what most people mean by saying NICE GUY tm.

>>34588374
What's wrong with being nice just to look good?

Would you rather I be the total dick that I am? Who would you expect me NOT to play along and be nice?

>>34588374
Here's the thing. Nobody is inherently a jerk. If it isn't in your nature to be some arrogant, rude, selfish, dirtbag then are you really pretending? The issue of "nice guy tm" stems from societal pressure to have sex or hit certain milestones. Its going to be upsetting to anyone if they're constantly made to feel like they've missed out. But it isn't that they're secretly some sociopath that only sees women as a wet hole or trophy. They're genuinely nice

>>34589165

I am going through something similar I think. I don't have answers for you, but I can tell you what I have tried.

Every day, I write down my thoughts in a shitty walmart notebook. Nowadays, I usually just write "tired" as my entry, then I close it. I think this helps me. It gives me purpose, and it gives me kind of a weird look into how I was feeling a few days ago.

Don't give up anon.

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Hey guys. I also don't feel like doing shit everyday. I keep a good job and have my own apartment but I spend most of my time with my family because I don't want to cook or clean much beyond the bare minimum.
We all want different things. I want to connect with girls and shit like that. Have fun. That is probably similar to what a lot of us want. It really is fear that is holding us back. But I'm not going to do shit still. And I'm not going to feel bad about not doing shit either. I am just going to not do shit until I DECIDE that I'm sick of this. Until I DECIDE that enough is enough I'm not going to do anything. I already know my life could be great, everybody fucking knows that. But I'm tired of half ass attempts at putting myself out there. I am either GOING TO DO IT or I'm not, and right now I'm not.

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>>34589165
You're not first one to feel like that, and there will be more who feel just like you in the future OP. I'm painfully similar to you just a little bit older, I too don't know shit, I don't know what I want to do, I don't have strenght to do things let alone desire. When I was younger like 16 years old I had dreams like anyone, be rich, fancy house, car you know how it is, then slowly year by year as I got older reality started to set in. My only "dream" right now is some land with small house on it and maybe a dog then I look at my bank account and I know this shit is not happening so every day after work I take shower, sit on sofa and think to myself "what is the fucking point?" I don't even spend money besides bills, food etc. I don't have idea what could being me joy, I didn't spent money for fun for 7 past fucking years. Maybe I should buy gun.

>>34589541
I understand. Right now, my life is literally worthless. I have no joy, no zest for life. I long ago lost the meaning of my existence as something important and meaningful. I don't care how my life turns out; I long ago realized that my life has no meaning. I've been living with these thoughts for the last few years, and I can't even imagine how I'm still holding on. I have no interests, no goals, no concept of who I am or what I want. What is all this for?

>>34589498
I find writing things down in a notebook weird and ineffective, but I'll give it a try, thanks

>>34588989
Moral character is based on your love for goodness itself. If you only loved the veneer of morality for pride's sake, that would put you in the negative and destroy your moral character. If you're a Christian, goodness is synonymous with God and the advice still applies. In fact, this exact advice is given by the desert fathers several dozen times throughout the Philokalia. I doubt you are a Christian, though, otherwise you wouldn't be prone to kneejerk reactions and uncharitable assumptions.

>>34588372
it's over

>>34589124
Why do you rely on God for happiness?

>>34589209
Because your relationship with goodness is the one thing you get to control in life. If you genuinely and truly love honesty, mercy, generosity, wisdom, compassion and justice for their own sake, or in other words love God for his own sake, then nothing can separate you from what you love, since it's always within your power to choose those virtues even under the threat of death, and you can always take solace in knowing you acted in accordance with them. Someone who loves wealth, comfort, status or pleasure, on the other hand, is guaranteed to become miserable at some point in his life because he will inevitably be deprived of those things without his consent, and he will have nothing to take solace in. It should also be noted that it's only possible to love another person through goodness, or God, because love without mercy, wisdom, generosity and compassion can't be called love at all, but would actually be a selfish infatuation based on what that person can do for you, rather than the desire to do for them.

>>34588403
It's not true for everyone. This advice is harmful to a lot of people. Imagine being broke, having no relationships, no girls to date, etc. You won't be happy unless you're a very atypical person. Your happiness is tied to things outside of yourself. We are not automatons. You can find happiness in things outside of yourself before finding it within. Especially true if you've had bad relationships, traumas, etc, you need some good experiences to feel different. Or maybe not who knows

>>34589063
The first part might work, but the second might be too on-the-nose.
Gotta have something to follow the first part, though, because if she asks 'no, why?' you need an answer ready.

This is your body naturally signaling you to get away from her. You are not compatible

>>34589007
just buy her presents like fancy soaps perfumes etc dumbass

>>34589007
Sounds like a textbook marijuana addict. They all smell like that. Somewhere between skunk and gym socks.

Just have to ask yourself... is it worth enduring nasty smell to not be alone?

The smell of feet is almost because of fungas present in one's hair, skin and clothes.
You need to spray her down with an antifungal, especially in areas of perspiration and hair. Also wash all socks and underwear in hot water.

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>>34585997
>I'm an overtly horny man

Who asked?

>>34587840
Your sister. Ask her how she's doing

>>34585997
>I was considering making an OnlyFans but I highly doubt anyone would watch
are you chopped? how well can you market yourself? hows your sex skill?

>>34585997
there is only one "positive way" to relieve that stress.
https://www.bitchute.com/video/whPSRYp6Zaa3

>>34589180
Elderly schizophrenic janitors living in isolation in their tiny cramped apartments

Wherever the proverbial dogs are biting at asses.

>>34589180
what if the motivated people are trying to avoid you?
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=Af-k9sTAYEQ&ra=m

>>34589180
Gym
University
Select jobs
Select hobby clubs
Rock climbing gym
Casino

>>34584448
>>34584444
Why was I born then if my life had to be so shit

>>34584428
because there's more to finding a job than just working one.
it's like you have to practically beg employers to give you a job and go through all their humiliation rituals just to earn a living, even if it's just flipping burgers at mcdonald's 7:59 hours a day 5 days a week, with unpredictable schedules and no benefits. they can cut your hours and send you home after 2 hours if it's not busy enough, or just not give you enough shifts to begin with. it's really degrading. and in this twisted world, you have to beg for this shit. even supposedly cushy office jobs are a noisy hells where you're packed like a sardine in an an artificially overlit room.

>>34584444
This.
It's a rare opportunity for a lot of otherwise powerless people to powertrip too. Have to avoid letting someone beat you into lower expectations because they're miserable, jealous, or can't afford your price according to the market.
Not all employers are shit, but there's no shortage of shit employers and shit managers, whose whole game is to convince you you're worth less. You don't get it by doing some commie protest and demanding higher pay either, you get it by applying to a different job.

>>34584542
Because your parents were horny and the condom broke.

Taste the rejection, aquire it. Feed on it.

>>34572325
>college, trade, military
is this true? im 26, and have been working at a caregiving place with my gf for three years. we neeted for the three years before that. we both feel like we grew a lot even to this meager position. but, I'm not sure what to do from here. it feels like my future is getting a slightly better job x10 if that's even possible. im a smart guy and love learning but I didn't go to college because of the financial situation I grew up in- but I wonder if I've been memed. I want to start a business or something but it feels impossible for someone like me. did I miss the boat with college? should I even go?
if any oldfags can give career advice, that'd be great.

>>34589233
I'm 23, slowly working up to build up my resume and job experience when I get into the military. College was fine, I did great in everything else except some BS Statistics course, struggled with it and failed my programs.
Moving on with my life, and honestly idk if a degree is even worth it if everything's in job market is oversaturated. But I guess I'll have to get creative

>>34567840
oh ok yeah let me mansplain about vaginal problems

>>34566140
>Don't take your youth, your relationships, and your opportunities for granted.
Man it sucks being 31 and recognizing all of the opportunities you let slip by. Because unless you do something really cool, you'll always remember how far behind you are and all of the stuff you could've done. It takes a heavy toll on your motivation.

>>34565768
drink more water.
>>34565777
the way to break old habits is by developing new habits that take their place.

>>34588643
i was/technically am like this too, it doesn't magically get "easier" as i still have urges and fantasies and stuff like that, but i managed to practically stop completely after convincing myself that ill devote myself to something significantly better than masturbating and sort of be in "chastity" to whatever I'm devoted to.

you have to very clearly define what you're devoted to though and make sure its so significant that you wouldn't even dare betray your vow, it doesn't matter what you're devoted to btw it can literally be anything, just has to be truly divine in quality.

at least that's how i did it, works so far, this is an active thing though you can't forget about it, whenever you see anything lewd or explicit you have to remember your vow.

>>34588643
are you a hikky neet

so you think your situation is as bad as trench foot, combat ptsd, gas attacks, dysentery, etc? you bitch made ass nigguh

buy a cock cage and flush the key

when you care enough about breaking it off you will (advised to get plastic not metal so it doesn't require a trip to the emergency room)

>>34588638
could be worse could be like me and proned all of his life and now has to try and retrain his dick to respond to normal stimuli or face future embarrassment

>>34587517
Shut up you stupid fucking normie
You don't have problems

>>34588134
Ive been ugly most of my life and girls would dislike me and feel uncomfortable around me, call me weird, etc.. This came out of nowhere. Please understand. Plus she was drunk. And theres people constantly talking about their gfs on this board

>>34588123
>This is terrible
It is lol, no point dressing it up, but trust me bro, the one thing you must do is whichever way this goes, it must become a funny story from your past, not the episode that you blame for everything that's not gone well for you when you look back on it in like five years.

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>>34587517
>I think she has a sugar daddy cuz some old ugly dude was called her and his name was "N <3".
>Should I text her later?
Hah, what a cuck

>>34588615
I see. Im already laughing at it but I still feel terrible. Its already been a day so I should text her today
>>34588675
me? How? Its the other guy *almost* getting cheated at

>>34584705
Wow, you just gave me an incredibly hot fantasy of fucking a 35 year old mom and her 20 year old daughter. Where the fuck do I sign up for this threesome...

>>34584777
I've rarely seen women that had a baby at 15 being still hot at 35, they lived life on the fastest of lanes after all, once the kid is 3 to 5 years old they try to "recover the years wasted" and go overboard
needless to say they look like shit by the time they're 28
I've fucked girls whose aunt I fucked some years before and it was an amazing trip, I still get horny thinking about it, but it was never a threesome, in fact I don't think either knows I fucked the other

>>34584803
>in fact I don't think either knows I fucked the other
sad

>>34584911
Yep

>>34584777
that is in fact incest anon...