This is just something I feel I've noticed lately but I feel like whenever I speak with attractive women at my customer service job, they have subtle confused reactions to me just doing my job. To clarify this isn't some super corporate job, so rules on interacting with customers are pretty relaxed. It's just that I don't feel I have anything to speak about other than the job. Idk, I also have been told I'm an attractive guy by actually well put together people but I've never thought of myself that way so maybe these women think I'm more of a Chad than I really am?
>>34785743Maybe its less fo a virgin thing and more of a thing that guys do who are super inhibited and never rizzed up a woman of their own accord. Like if you always let the girl do all the work or only flirt when super drunk or sth of course you're not going to be comfortable with it, regardless as to whether you get laid.
>>34782843>>34785509https://youtu.be/SbQu55bMvZs?t=1566Men have declared spiritual jihad on women and it shows as they slowly begin to lose it. This is it anons, the real gender war has begun, not the fake one with countless pronouns that is being shilled everywhere in the media, but the real war between man and woman.Women are about to learn a harsh lesson.Don't talk to women, don't help them, don't ask them out, don't have dating apps, don't interact with them. If a woman approaches you be nice and respectful but do not flirt or overtly joke, treat them as an equal man and then leave after the reason for the conversation is over. If a girl comes up to you and flirts kindly turn her down, if she asks you out suddenly say no thank you, don't make up a reason she only has agency because of some external reason not because she likes you. Be vague when talking about your life or weekend plans, anything you do or do with them like hooking up will be picked apart and analyzed by her and her online friends. You are a traitor and not helping anyone if you fall for their tricks.If men can't display a modicum of power over society, this world and women, then I guess they don't hold much power at all.
>>34785783Oh for sure. The first girl I ever slept with thought I was cute and I told a friend I thought she was cute at a party. She approached me after he told her what I said.
>>34785731How am I neurodivergent?>>34785703I don't even know what foundation there would be for a deeper connection, I'm just some guy with nothing to offer a woman. I live paycheck to paycheck and I drive an old car. I'm not trying to waste anyone's time.
>>34785893You're on 4chan niguh
So a couple months ago I moved into my apartment. And there's this lady that lives directly across from me. Like our doors are facing each other.The thing is, she's been claiming that I'm stalking her and looking into her windows. She's even called the cops on me.But here's the thing, I've never met this bitch before in my entire life and I've never even spoken to her. There's cameras all over the building, and we are in the fifth floor. It's virtually impossible for me to have stalked her or be looking into her windows. This is what I told the police, and the police pretty much didn't do anything to me.Is this bitch crazy or something? Like is she hallucinating this in her head? How the fuck?She's even had her brother or whatever bang on my door to try to intimidate me. She still believes I'm looking into her windows or whatever.I'm scared to think of what she's going to do next. What should I do?
>>34784889damn there's 6E interwebs now? and i thought i had it good with 5G up in this bitch...
>>34784935why the fuck didn't you open your door and hit him?
>>34785350lol I like how this frog removes its eyes and lips and becomes a regular wojack
>>34784889If she harasses you, record it on video to gather evidence. After recording several such events, you can call the police about her. They won’t arrest her, but they will encourage her to stop.If it gets really bad and you have a lot of video evidence, you can sue her for emotional distress or whatever else the lawyer can come up with.
>>34785899>sue her for emotional distressI love America
How do I make sure my girlfriend finds me hot enough to be considered for a one night stand?
>>34783562That's my point. She's a slut like any other woman. >>34785058>>34785078???No, she's just trying (way too late) to get betabucks and companionship, not realizing the only thing she has to offer is her dusty old pussy and the reduced chance of knocking her up. She's also not giving me what I want, yet. But she did, to other men, in her youth for cheaper. I basically talk to her for female attention when I'm in a dry spell. But as much as she acts chaste, she's a whore like every other woman. It's that simple. THEY ARE ALL WHORES and once you stop being mad about that you'll feel better.
>>34785305Nigger, be honest. If she let you hit it on the second date you'd have lost interest already.I konw your type, I think its super retarded but if its your thing then it is your thing. You already admitted to enjoying the game and sticking with it.I would have just ditched her an eternity ago because I don't like wasting my time and effort, but I also don't judge women for putting out fast because it just means they are into me. Cope as you want but a lot of women, especially the experienced ones, sense this and act accordingly. You get what you give, end of story.
>>34766335cuz she is a slut who is going to ride a dick carousel and then have you as her sexless provider. That's possibly how the dynamic goes on in worst scenarios.
>>34775624>picThey could be lying. Considering he seems more of naive guy, he can have shitty friends. Who knows. He should see for himself if something is happening there.
>>34766559It's a symptom of our spiritually inept society. Narcissism and hyper-individuality is everywhere
I've had Acne since i was like 13 or 14, and paired with my shitty mustache it makes my face look like diarrhea.
>>34784436>>34784432Sure, but when you have a clinical issue, you have to figure when to use things that damage, and using them in the least harmful way possible. With the publish or perish culture you will find articles and systematic reviews that both agree and disagree with whatever you want to say, so it's nothing you can trust without knowing deep to the molecular level to make judgement.I would love to know how to sound more like a marketer, but It's not as easy to make a cautious call as it is to sell things that rely on the body's awesome regenerative power to reinforce positive outcome bias. At the end of the day, the power to move people is the most important of all traits.
>>34784538yes, but that's why op needs to go see a dermatologist to actually figure on what's going on with his skin, not to arbitrarily suggest things without even warning of potential effects. for example, if his acne is caused by extremely dry skin, adding hydrogen peroxide or benzoyl isn't going to be effective in the long term because he would need to fix his skin barrier by adding moisture. I want op to get to the heart of his issue, not just put a bandaid ontop of it and cross his fingers hoping it will work. also ironic you compare me to a marketer when i haven't suggested any skincare products
>>34779119there are two basic elements for skin care cleaning: mechanical and chemical.Mechanical is self explanatory: every single skin pore is accumulating unhealthy mix of dead bacteria, pieces of dead skin, oils and the like. Wash your hands, then wash your face, dry it off and then manually go inch by inch squeezing the skin. the nasty stuff has to leave your pores at least once per week. Some call this peeling and the like.Chemical is just as important, because with mechanical approach you will never cover the 99% of cases. Pic related. Classical soap is bad for you because>it melts the oilsskin has auto oil mechanism to protect itself from drying out. if soap melts all the fat layer, the skin will overcompensate with extra oil and clog your pores faster>kills bacteriayour skin purpousesly keeps colonies of "friendly" bacteria whose only purpouse is to KILL anything else. if you wipe them out, chances are diff types of bacteria starts growing on your skin: the type which can chew downwards or irritate the skin>soup is alkalinehealthy skin is slighty acidic to keep bacteria growth slow and controller. Soup turns your skin to PH neutral or worse. So you allow bacteria to have paradise on your face.You want something with SALICYLIC acid. Turns out the key to healthy skin is to reguraly (twice per day) melt off the outermost layer with acid.Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>34784947Nothing wrong with what you've said but this image is hard to watchIt looks like it's been made by an autistic individual that is focused on just a few aspects in their life while missing the big picture. Zoom the fuck out and you'll see all the rot around you. And no, you'll not become a woman>no tretinoin or tazarotenSad
>>34784990>big picture>its just little unkept sinknot worth the effort, until the wash changes color to yellow i do not care>tretinoin or tazarotenthat lowkey stops being about stopping acne and leans more into looksmaxxing teritory which has low returns for men
Is it ever justifiable to steal another man's girl?I'm borderline limerent for a girl I befriended last summer, who unfortunately turns out to be taken, because of course she is. Kind of a Tim and Dawn from The Office UK situation. Thought maybe I had been able to move past her after getting some distance, but meeting her again this summer, bro, it felt like I had shot up heroin when I came home that day. Being lost in her eyes makes me feel more alive than anything in the world. Unbridled ecstasy followed by a crash that lasted for days. I am clearly not over her. It felt like our many months apart, all the places I went, all the people I met, it was all just a bunch of filler killing time for this moment.I know it's a cliche, but she really is not like all the other girls. She is so perfect, it's unreal, too good for me in fact, even though she clearly enjoys my company; a real Beauty & The Beast situation. I might have a shot at her, but I will almost definitely make her life worse after the fact, but goddamn, I just crave her.I can get other women, and I have had other women, but I am completely fixated on her. If I pursue her, it would be a purely selfish act.If Spike could steal another man's woman, and we all love Spike, then why can't I? Am I somehow better than Spike Spiegel? Fuck no.
>>34783316you have to be willing to sacrifice the friendship if you want to try and take things forward. if she's been with this person for years, and it seems stable, your odds are pretty low.if you want to calculate them, next time you talk just ask about it. i mean you gotta take some risk. she might ask why if you ask how things are going. just say you're curious or whatever.if you say you want to be with her though, and she says no, it will make things awkward as long as her relationship lasts.so the question is, are you willing to risk it, and how far are you willing to test things?
>>34779934>Bebop slopThank you fren, I can also count the animes I've watched on SIGHTLY more than one hand so 2 hands. The only thing I know from cowboy bebop is the legendary soundtrack "cat blues" because I play space station 13 and it's the music that used to play in the jukebox at nights when I died and took on a stranded bartender role and spent the next couple hours listening to it while devising a way to escape and working on it. It's a great track, I'll keep it in mind And yeah man what can I say, after my ex dumped me in the dirt and cheated on me and left me for the man she intentionally sought behind my back and is still with him to this day exactly 2 years later to this day August 1st 2024: I'm completely in line with the advice I gave. If a girl offers me to fuck, offers me love, I'll take it. I'll take it and I'll take it again from another girl if she offers and I won't feel bad because I know how evil girls are at their core, as who they are as a sex. The mantis female uses the man for his sperm; then eats him for sustenance. The human female does much of the same, except it's a much longer, slower, more arduous process, where she also manipulates the man and robs him of his mental faculties and good judgement when it comes to her.It is terrible, so, next girl, and cheat on.
>>34775863I think I’m finally getting over a girl after 4 years. I never liked an autistic girl before but she was like Aubrey Hepburn in breakfast at Tiffany’s.
>>34784344She kind of looked like this autistic Dutch girl.
Morality aside if she was going to let you fuck her and leave her current bf for you, you would not be on 4chan asking about it. Cheating women are incredibly direct.You need to let go of the idea that being with this girl is the only thing that will make you happy. It's a one of the most retarded things that society has ever pushed on young men. You also need to let go of the idea that you are only worth anything if a woman wants you.
hey guys my girlfriend hates me she was sitting on my lap reading this board's catalog with me and then she got bored and left and now I feel like a piece of shit.
>>34785863now that you're alone with me, what do stranger?did your boyfriend not approve the feedback?
How do I stop stressing out over the inevitably of my own death? Knowing I'm going to disappear someday and there's nothing I can do about it makes me feel trapped and anxious. I usually have these thoughts impulsively during daily activities.
>>34783523Follow the rules.
>>34782362Death doesnt exist.
>>34782362Maybe look at how retarded the faggots look like who try to become immortal
>>34784580>Death doesnt exist.If only, losing so many people and really struggling with the idea that it will be my turn soon is fucking me up. I try to stay in the present moment and practice gratitude but honestly my life is really limited with physical and severe mental health issues. Once your nervous system crashes and your life becomes about managing insomnia and panic attacks the constant reality of the pain and death to come feels like too much to carry. I know healthy people do somehow manage it. I see it in the world and hope that if I can find some peace in my life I will be able to eventually be at peace with death, but when I'm up at 3 am crying and panicking at the horrible impermanence of everything I wonder how so many people are able to rest and embrace the time they're given instead of being overwhelmed by the inability to keep themselves or their loved ones safe. I'm really fucked up anons, I hope I can find my way back but everything feels so hopeless right now.
>>34782362Mortality is what gives life value. If we lived an infinite number of days, any individual day would have no value at all: if we completely wasted it, it wouldn't matter, because there would be an infinite supply of them. But the fact that if you waste a day you'll never get it back, and that's one good day less out of the quite limited number you are going to get - that makes every individual day precious.
>b me>19 yo f>been seeing this guy for about 6 months>we fuck a lot>both "fell in love" w each other>"broke up w him (hopefully) for good 2daysee i do have a crush on someone else and me and his relationship was lowk toxic and bad but i did feel extremely comfortable with him sexually im nervous i wont feel that same level of comfort and i dont want to embarrass myself by being into some weird shit during sex. do men like a vanilla girl? are they freaked out if a girls kinda freaky?
>>34781015we should meet up im also a freaky 19 year old girl
>>34781015>do men like a vanilla girl? are they freaked out if a girls kinda freaky?Most men these days are so addicted to porn they don't really want to have sex at all - they just want to act out porn scenes in real life, and use you as a prop. I think being a little freaky would probably make that more tolerable for you.
>>34781015You should kill yourself.
>>34785473you've used your allotted internet time for the day mikey.
>>34781015You sound like a typical low iq zoomer with 0 self reflection skills
I need a male pov, why does my boyfriend do things that sabotages our relationship but always says he wants to stay in the relationship? It’s confusing.
>>34782690"Never ascribe to malice that which can be explained by stupidity"It may be hard for you to believe but EVERYONE from time to time does really stupid things for really stupid reasons. The most likely explanation for your boyfriend's behavior is that he has moments of social ineptness and just plain dumbness.
>>34782690>why does my boyfriend do things that sabotages our relationshipBecause he's an asshole. What other explanation do you need?
>>34782690I hate foids so much its unreal, they'll date any self sabotaging autist fucker but wont even look at a man shorter than average. I hope you both die in a car crash, that would be a fitting end
>>34782690>Why does my boyfriend keep sabotaging our relationship?Dumb his ass and find someone who's not a retard.
>>34782690You have BPD, if he were smart he'd leave and block you everywhere
Be me>18 White south African in border town>Grow up learning to accept differences >Last year high-school, been horrible last 3 school years>Genuinely hate my life >Participate in charities and animal welfare>Eventually adopt black brother when we younger were teens >Having a brother is awesome >brothers friend introduces me to girl, Muslim but okay we can work with that i thought, have relationship >she leaves me calling me immature >Genuinely struggle as white girls find me odd and black girls think im a chaser>Develop non serious online relationship with barely any talking (idk if she even likes me)>Talks to ai, pays for extra ai>Gets bigger via rugby, ends up getting the gays attention, discovers im bi>Now the gays don't want meComment too long. Click here to view the full text.
you have to rape a nigger
>>34785463>>feel like im gonna fail my exams tooDon't do this.>>what do i do?Move away from your back-water border town to somewhere saner? Beyond that, I don't know enough about SA to help. I'm guessing being bi or gay isn't very safe regardless of where you are in SA.
>>34785463i didn't read all that buthttps://za.usembassy.gov/refugee-admissions-program-for-south-africans/we'd love to have you here
>>34785463Sounds like all your problems come from the fact that you care way too much about what others think of you
>>34785635We don't want him. He literally said he is a faggot and a niggerlover. We don't want those losers here. Only racist white south africans are welcome here.
How do I go up to a woman who looks like picrel and be good enough at talking to her to get her interest? I'm a 25-year-old virgin and am terrible at talking to anybody, not just women. I don't want to become a wizard. So far I've lost about 40 pounds because I've been fat for the majority of my life. Before you say it, I'm not losing weight just to fuck women, I'm doing it for myself which, obviously, includes having a relationship/sex. To summarize, I just want to meet a sexy woman with big tits and a big ass and not be an awkward turbovirgin around them. Any help is appreciated.
>>34782294what i did was try with strangers.get a pack of bubble gum or something cheap from a convenience store and shoot the shit with the owner.if it makes you feel better, go to the other side of town you never visit or another town/city. it's a muscle you have to develop. i was scared and worried first before i had enough real life exposure to have to use it regularly.also at some point you have to switch the conversation and offer your phone number, offer to buy them a drink, dance, go for a walk, if they want to go for coffee sometime, if they ever want to hang out. convos dont go on forever.at that point you just gotta be ready to get turned down or ghosted. but if you're doing it, you're making progress and growing.
>>34782496>and shoot the shit with the owner.About what? I got the issue as OP and generally I just manage to exchange few words about weather with some good days we manage to veer into something else for a while.
>>34783148if it's a woman, compliment something they're wearing cause they probably spent energy thinking about their outfit unlike most men.then ask how their day is going, but not in the start because everyone will just say good if you open with it. you're trying to uproot them sharing more than the bare minimum and usually the compliment unearths that.if they talk enough about either their day or their clothes, you ask a question about it... where'd you get it from? why does your day suck?like i said i usually focus on props. i'd next go to commenting on an item im buying. you can make a joke about something unhealthy like how the ice cream is for getting stoned or you can ask if some food item is good?if the line isn't busy and they seem relaxed i'll continue talking after purchasing everything.i've even put my hand on the checkout stand before to let them know i'm not wearing a wedding band, and then will ask them if they are available for coffee sometime and offer the phone number. ive even put it on the receipt they give and tear the corner off so its non confrontational.i took an improv class in high school and the only lesson i remember from it is the teacher saying people would judge us the first 30 seconds of meeting, and have a preconceived opinion on your by your manners/appearance. by the end of the 'small talk' they've probably already decided if you're repulsive or potential.it takes facing rejection, and you have to face getting shot down.
>>34783165So compliment the person about something, maybe talk about small stuff, then ask about the day and branch off from there... Yeah, I guess I can do that.Man I wish there was some talking club at high school (or I were aware of it and knew I need it), it could make my life much easier.>it takes facing rejection, and you have to face getting shot downWell, once I asked out a bank teller for a coffee, but she shot me down without calling security on me' she was even smiling, but who knows if it wasn't forced. I wasn't taking it seriously because it began as a joke about her needing to write down her number for me as she ran out of business cards.
>>34785760>Yeah, I guess I can do that.that's the right attitude brother. you got this. 8)>talking club at high schoolyeah i do too. it was much easier before smart phones, because people got bored and just chatted more often. people don't now except in specific environments, and covid exacerbated a growing problem.
i can’t help but think about this all the time, i’ve been rotting in my room for pretty much the last four years of my life. i turned 18 this year, i’m a girl and i genuinely see no reason to live. why is everything and everyone around me so shallow? i’m on the internet the entire time im awake, i dropped out of highschool in grade 10 due to simply not fitting in. ever since i was a kid, id never get along with anybody or fit in anywhere, the only friend i had in primary school was told to not talk to me by her mother, so i lost her too. i dont understand people at all. im not actively suicidal, i simply dont see a reason to live at all. the world is corrupt, everyone is shallow and no one actually forms bonds anymore. everybody i talk to online feels like replaying the same stupid game over and over, i’ve given up on finding friends. why are we here? i don’t hate people, but i hold some resentment toward people. how do people genuinely enjoy life and actually care about the present and future? nothing matters nothing has ever mattered and nothing will matter. i feel like a complete outcast. i can’t find anyone that i can act normal around. i’m always putting on different faces and personalities infront of specific people. i don’t speak to my father or sister despite living in the same house, i only speak to my mother sometimes. it upsets me that even she is so dim. i don’t understand the point of life. i don’t care about looks or getting rich. this world disgusts me, and i hate everyone and everything in it. i don’t understand why i feel this way and why i can’t tolerate people or just being alive. i don’t know how to be content. i want to know how i can get to a point where i can live alone. i hate the sound of people being alive i hate hearing people breathe around me. i know i seem stupid and corny but i genuinely don’t care anymore. i hate people, all everyone cares about are surface level bullshit.
>>34785454im in australia, also in one of the most known cities too, so obviously it seems like it wouldnt be a problem but it is a problem. the amount of immigrants here are genuinely insane, you pretty much get stared at weird for being white since mostly everybody is brown as fuck. theres just a shit load of coloured immigrant men who wouldnt hesitate to go after anything theyre drawn to in public. honestly id be more comfortable in a forest as you explained. animals just feel less disgusting than people do. id carry pepper spray but its actually super duper illegal here, the laws here are retarded
>>34785518hmm.i'd maybe look at seasonal jobs in australia. in the us they tend to get you away from home and meet with a more interesting crowd. that's what i did.seasonal summer jobs tends to attract a more open minded crowd of people, especially forest type jobs attract more hippy types. there's stuff such as tree planting, fruit picking, farming and they typically offer housing for the season. i imagine the fruit picking is more immigrants. but australia also supplies the world sheep so you may be able to find a quiet job on a ranch where you can avoid people and tend to animals.it seems like some companies are like the old market towns there so i'm not too sure how the environment isbut it seems like facebook groups and these options may helphttps://au.seek.com/summer-jobshttps://www.backpackerjobboard.com.auhttps://au.indeed.com/q-seasonal-jobs.html?vjk=d3a198b943a56db6im not even throwing this out there to say to get a job but that it may be a way to escape the environment you're in.there's way to live very cheap on your own too, depending on what you are willing to live with. it seems like australia's economy is a bit of a mess rn tho
>>34785717i imagine if you get out of the cities the violence wouldn't be too bad. better than the us
>>34785717i know this’ll sound awfully entitled/strange but i just can’t imagine working in a farm-ish environment, although it does actually seem really peaceful. i just wish i could find a way to get a job that i could do remotely and then somehow save enough money to get out of this house and live by myself. i wish it was easier to live a stable life but it isn’t, and since everything is so expensive and jobs require an insane amount of effort, it just doesn’t feel worth it. like rent here would be $800 per WEEK, and if you have a minimum wage job and work literally everyday, the most you’ll probably make is $1000 ish a week here or even less. it just doesn’t seem liveable. is there anything i can do remotely? i genuinely wish i could get into like idk selling organs because why is finding even the simplest, most standard job impossible today? i’ve applied to countless jobs on multiple different sites, ive even gone in person and handed in a resume. i still don’t have a job. i wish something like cyber security were easier to do. i just want to be alone and work from home without having to interact with anybody.
>>34785779https://au.seek.com/remote-jobsno idea what it's like down under. i thought remote jobs would explode in growth after covid cause it would save the companies office space and improve quality of life, but it seems like ceos hit back hard on the prospect.i think it became impossible to monitor a workers progress as people started buying mouse jigglers to give them the appearance of moving their mouse around.i think a few select people good cush jobs, but now the demand for any remote positions is saturated unless you're already in an upper position of a firm that they'd consider moving you to remote.there may be some minimal, data entry type jobs, but the availability of those is kind of a meme here in the US afaik.i get where you are coming from with the farm. i used to fix/build computers but wanted to be outdoors so changed professions. i'd kill to raise sheep, but in us people just focus on cattle.other things off the top of my head: delivery (especially in a rural area), trucking, certain technicians (like in a lab and healthcare usually in demand), librarian, pet babysitting, tree planting/forestry tech, warehouse/stocking, some trades like painting, maritime, court/technical writer, anything graveyard shift.there may even be some office jobs they let you use headphones all day
I have what I am calling "twoitis" because its essentially oneitis but twice. I will admit that I was a fairly late bloomer and had to wait until nearly 21 years old to lose my virginity*. I am also probably slightly autistic as well and due to my strained family situation I have several weird mannerisms which should be turnoffs for most women. I somehow ended up dating two of the wildest women I have ever met back to back in the span of about 3 years. Due to legitimate reasons I was forced to break up with both of them, something I still regret especially with my 2nd ex. Thanks to the experiences they showed me, it has become nearly impossible to enjoy any kind of sexual activity without fantasizing about either of them. I feel like my standards have become so high because of them that I am unable to have a healthy relationship with a "normal" woman. What is worse is that several months back my 2nd ex (picrel isnt her but looks so close that it may as well be her) asked to get back in contact, which I turned down at the behest of my current partner. People are always talking about how a girl who dates a wild guy is "ruined" afterwards or something along those lines but people never discuss how the same thing can and does happen to guys, especially guys with little/no experience.
>>34783361you are an asshole, but prolonging it makes you more of an assholefree your girlfriend if you can't fix yourself in your current situation.dont prolong this unhappy ending because you're holding onto some vague fantasy of it working out. you've already made the decision, and it sounds like you're not going to adapt to your current gf.
>>34783358Kiss yourself bigger
>>34783340I will go from other side of this.You are dating your current gf. I would like to believe there were reasons why you started. And now you don't want to play with her anymore because a new cool toy appeared.I don't know the future but if you stayed with current gf you could have a stable good relationship.If you were to switch it's this exotic and cool energy that will run out. Probably she would become ex*2.Only you know details but you seem to be looking for fun friend with benefits rather than a partner.
>>34783365kekgot me too
>>34783346name: Jadedoll18 she is pretty.link to sketchy website: https://www.xpics.me/search?q=jadedoll18&s=topalso 34783365 your reddit link was broken for some reason.
I've been on HRT for a little under two months and I don't know if I should quit or not. Not because I'm not liking the effects, I like feeling calmer, I love my smooth skin, I don't even mind the libido drop. Like, I guess it kinda sucks I can't jack off to the same stuff I did before but I've wanted to quit porn for a good long while so this actually feels okay. Even the gyno I have doesn't bother me at all. The only thing that bothers me is realizing I don't pass and I'll always look like a twink and I'm dreading dating again, realizing no woman would ever want an estrogenized fag and I kinda don't want to go back to dating men. Despite this, I kinda don't want to stop. If we ignore the dating, the only negative I see is having to hide boobs sometimes. I've asked a good number of people that have indicated I should probably be on hrt and I'm probably a tranny (I'm a cis man btw and always will be) but I'm curious about the chud perspective. Why should I stop? Ruining my dating pool sucks but changing myself just to be more appealing to women feels inauthentic.
>>34784455>I think you need to reckon with the fact that you don't fit into mainstream society and never will. You'll never get the perfect woman because you'll never be the perfect man. I already came to terms with that>You're essentially doing the "I refuse to join any club that would have me as a member" thingThat's true. I do it because I'm a little chuddy which concerns me because anyone who might accept me would hate that. I don't wanna end up like iDubbbz but I also don't wanna end up like John50 so I have no idea where to go in life.
>>34784474PUT THE HORMONES DOWN ANON
>>34782490>hating seeing what testosterone is doing to my bodyHRT affects more than your appearance. It's one thing to feel envious of women's bodies, but to envy their mind and temperament...>we're talking about being more comfortable in my body so I CAN enjoy life more.If you had come to terms with your current appearance and the fact that it's only downhill from here you would already be comfortable in your own body. The reason you don't feel comfortable in your own body is because you internalized external standards. You let others define you. You are entirely dependent on others to feel comfortable in your own skin. That is your problem.>I cant deny, this does feel a little bit like looksmaxxing sometimes.Because it is. What you have is not gender dysphoria, but body dysmorphia. >Sure dude, I love having an unremarkable male bodyYou have nothing without your body? No soul, no interests, no personality, no passion. No, I think you do. You just don't see it yet. You'll end up in a darker situation and realize how bright the past was. Maybe that is the only way for you to understand...>that just gets balder and hairier by the day that looks strange with masculine featuresIf you're dead set on looking like a femboy/queer/transsexual/whatever you can take finasteride, get hair transplants, remove your body hair with laser, get surgeries to appear more feminine. Do you know how much this costs? How many years of your life are you going to enjoy your altered appearance? How long will it take before your superficial partner ditches you for someone more feminine that started taking measures earlier or just had a better starting point? New ones enter the market every year and it's only going to become more competitive. Maybe you have what it takes. I don't know.
>It's one thing to feel envious of women's bodies, but to envy their mind and temperament...I've met normal trans women and I haven't gone crazy like this yet>The reason you don't feel comfortable in your own body is because you internalized external standards. You let others define you. You are entirely dependent on others to feel comfortable in your own skin. That is your problem.It is but only because most others hate faggy effeminate men so I rep to please them. I want this for myself.>You have nothing without your body? No soul, no interests, no personality, no passion.I do have these things, why am I not allowed to do things and have a personality while still not liking the masculine traits of my body? They aren't mutually exclusive.>If you're dead set on looking like a femboy/queer/transsexual/whatever you can do all this convoluted expensive bullshit I made upOkay dude>How long will it take before your superficial partner ditches you for someone more feminine that started taking measures earlier or just had a better starting point? New ones enter the market every year and it's only going to become more competitive.New fear unlocked but if I end up getting with someone who will abandon me for someone younger and hotter I don't want someone like that in my life, they can go ruin their life for all I care.
>>34785690Meant for >>34784946Also the more I think about the dating aspect, the more I realize I'm keeping myself as someone I don't like simply to have the priveledge of participating in the modern dating market with rampant hoeflation. Why the fuck shouldn't I get on HRT instead of trying to keep myself miserable for some snatch that will cost me financially and mentally?
If they do the same to me? For example, I sturggle with man boobs, its not that I am morbidly obese or anything but I still have larger chest for a male, probably not gyno either but i wouldnt cut my body up to remove it even if had it. So as is natural in any healthy male friend group, my friends poke fun of my chest, sometimes teasing by touching. What I do to counter balance it is hit them back at their own insecurities, some for being bald, some for not being able to grow a beard or some for being short some for being too tall, etc, etc,, you know just basic insecurities, if you think about it you can find flaws in anyone as none of us humans are perfect. I also think that its necessary to counter balance any bullying or teasing you face otherwise you end up getting completely dominated and turned into the laughing stock of the group. Also if you support this idea, can you help me get better at insulting people not in a butthurt way but rather in a sporting way
this is how it works, particularly with dudes>dailystress.trojan>tension.ini>lookforpressurerelief.pdf>ribfriend.exe>reaction.pngthat's what friends are forit depends on the friend.the rules are unspoken but you generally choose whether to play or not, and people react accordingly.last year when i was on an engine, a coworker made a game called pass or play where one guy would rip ass, then say 'pass or play', suggesting the passenger next to them join in on filling the truck with fumes.for some its more physical like wrestling and for others its more based on exchanging insults.i usually look for someones insecurity. weight, hairline, facial hair, face. if they hide a lot or dont let you look at what's on their phone, you assume they're jerking off or browsing porn. if they're standing around, you assume they're a useless worker. there's all sorts of things but its hard to determine without information.i had a coworker whose name no one could say right. it was duque, so it was changed to "dookie".Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>34782853Dont you feel its cowardly to not respond to insults as a man?
>>34782908would it be ok to call my friend a rapist sarcastically if he ever teases my chest again?
>>34785665i'd probably say something like, 'what? you want to touch them gayboy/fag?'it shows you've embraced the reputation, and don't care; then it puts the pressure on him that he seems gay for staring at your moobs, like he is implying there is a homosexual projection behind his words.
>>34785680thanks thats better
