Are black men not desired in the dating world?I'm black and I want a girl like Elle Fanning.
>>34912581At least you have a better chance than a spic-based hapa
>>34912581newsflash nigger, everyone wants a white girl like elle fanning. every single male on earth is obsessed with white girls and white girls only, nobody wants your ugly baboons or fat beaners. some guys like hot latinas or east asians but thats it. nobody rapes black girls. you're competing with the whole god damn world. how do you pair up? be honest with yourself.
>>34913567Honestly, I'm pretty flexible with my attractions. I also don't mind asian girls like picrel. What are my chances?
>>34913626if you want an asian you gotta be a straight laced nigger. no drugs, no alcohol, no nigger speak, no gangster bullshit, no felonies, 6 figure job and a college masters minimum. unless you move to a big city like san fransisco or nyc and find a heavily americanized asian, but thats basically like fucking a white girl anyways
>>34912581You can have her.She's ugly.
i have a restraining order against my ex that lasts for 6 months so i won't be able to talk to him again until next year... but his birthday is coming up next month and we're in the same discord group. we've been relatively no-contact for over 2 months now even though we saw each other on august 20th to talk and for me to give his things back... i'm wondering whether i should send a message in the group wishing him a happy birthday or just move on even though i want to talk to him and know how he's doing
>>34912648Your best bet is to find someone new to obsess with. But be upfront about your "quirks" too.
>>34912675that's not the question the question is: do i LEAVE the discord group i have in common with him (my only way of contacting him as of now) and permanently cut off any possibility of talking to him? or do i wait until his birthday and wish him a happy birthday?!
>>34912679bump help me
>>34912679What kind of restraining order did you get. And did he say he would report it if you contacted him. Because if he didnt then you probably would be fine if you contacted him.
>>34913695i think i'll wait for him to contact me instead, you never know'he never explicitly told me he'd report me but i've left him more clues that will show him i wouldn't do the same to him i'll wait and see, and i feel like he's coming back toward me anyway so there's no point in rushing things
How do you know if a girl likes you without any talking?
>>34912923If she's not mature enough to tell you she likes you, it shouldn't be of any concern to you how she feels.
who caresdo you like her? ask her outget rejectedmove onyou don't need to read signs to express your own interest
>>34912923>How do you know if a girl likes you without any talking?You can't. There are some things that might hint at it, but you can never bbe anywhere near certain unless you ask her out.
>>34912923she often looks at you, she gives you attention, she makes effort to interact with you
>>34912923she doesn't like yougirls only like guys other girls likeunless you know of more than one friend of hers who also likes you then don't even fucking assume she likes youbut to give you some hopegirls that don't hate you, can be persuaded to like you if you interact with them daily
Business degree europoor. Did valuations for a while as a student. The rest is random servicework and warehouse dicksucking. Some people say just apply for whatever and coast. Other say load up on accounting certs (audit and tax) for big €€€. Third say get the international accounting charter (forgot the name) and hit the books on hard management related topics (risk, hedging, costing, more valuation, 'management science'-mathy stats).Sorry to draw attention away from ppl who genuinely need help.>inb4 do what you wantPassively want to rope but I want to feed my cats and family. But not some investing shit in a big city. Single no kids. Got some money and time.
>>34913079You type like a tool so I'm not giving you any advice. Speak in proper English without a million contractions next time
>>34913079Learn a trade and try to find jobs in the construction sector. It's probably highly valued in the meme economy of the European Union that produces nothing of worth to the world.Navigate the industry and later use your knowledge and education to start your own business.
>>34913099Sorry. English is my 5th language and I don't respect it. Not writing properly when not forced to do so.
>>34913079Your best bet is winning the lottery or becoming extremely talented in a sport.
>>34913079accounting is for girlsbut it's mindless and you guarantee moneyif you're ambitious you go for M&A, real estate, or try to join a bankCFA maxbut i was in your spot and i just dedicated to financial modeling which is much funner
My dad is putting me in charge of running his company. He's going to be overseeing me but I'm basically going to be in the cockpit since he wants to retire soon. I'm 26 years old and worked as an assistant manager for 4 years after graduating.One thing I noticed was people take long bathroom breaks. I have a feeling many people are using their phones on the toilet since it's the only spot with privacy. If we remove the stalls, not only will people be less inclined to shit since it's more uncomfortable, but they won't be able to get away with long phone sessions.As far as I can see there's no laws this violates, and even if it did violate the law the DOJ and Dept of Commerce isn't really enforcing labor laws anymore. Would I be able to do this to improve efficiency, legally speaking?
>>34903210Maybe that have pooping problems. Just let them shit.
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>>34908990Ah yes because competent people can totally just switch jobs becsuse the world is so fair like that. The job market totally rewards competent people!You’re either baiting or dumb.
>>34902147What's up with people asking legal questions and then not mentioning what country they're in? Do you really think the laws are the same everywhere in the world?
time wasting question, ragebait. just have minimum hours people must work, and let them extend their lunch provided they stay later.
Whats a good business idea dumb brown people will fall for? I'm thinking maybe a shoe brand
>>34913063Some anime related product
definetly cheap scam center equipment. Try making those super cheap headphones
>>34913063I was thinking about writing a whole long thing shitting all over you but I don’t really feel like putting in the effort. Here are the problemsIf you have to ask for our help in outsmarting the browns then you’re not all that much better than them to begin with.Shoe brand is a terrible fucking idea in this economy. Notice how Nike and all those other companies are selling cheap sandals with interchangeable obnoxiously long socks? Because people aren’t buying sneakers the way they used to. If you want people’s money then you have to sell them what they want right now. I think a big trend recently has been making those weird coolaid food jars and baking obnoxious looking cakes and puddings for stupid amounts of money on Facebook.
>>34913365Yep, you're seething
>>34913063Bling with a name.
I'm bisexual, but my tastes are like 80% lesbian and 20% for guys. I married a guy though, he's a friend I've known for most my life and our closeness sort of made up for my not being too into men.He knows I'm bi and that I prefer women. He said he doesn't care if I'm with other women, but that he doesn't want me to see other men.I stuck by this, and I don't have sex with anybody but him. I do have erotic chats and roleplays though, and one of the people I've been chatting turned out to be a trans woman.I'm not like the most woke person alive or anything, but trans people don't bother me and she looks like a regular woman from her pics so I was fine keeping up our chats.My husband knew I'd been sending her pics and getting some back, but he didn't care until he found out she's trans.Now he wants me to stop talking to her, but it bothers me that he's trying to make me stop when he said he was okay with me seeing women on the side.
Can you stop cheating?No?Then when you two divorce can you not fin!rape him? Since you admit and can see that your actions cause him pain.
>>34912778>LGBT has much higher rape, pedophilia and general sexual assault rates than the general population.Well, obviously that isn't true, but even if it were true, it still wouldn't make LGBT people on average anywhere near as evil as Charlie Kirk on average; so what's your point?
Just a friendly reminder to everyone ITT that disarming working people is not the leftist position, it is the Rainbow Capitalist position.>Under no pretext should arms and ammunition be surrendered; any attempt to disarm the workers must be frustrated, by force if necessary.” - Karl MarxThe above is the leftist position.Yes, CK was a fascist, but ironically the one left-wing position he supported was the people's right to self defense.
>>34911462She's had the surgery and everything. How does it matter? She's gotten rid of everything masculine about her.>>34911784We have kids, and going beyond stuff online when you have a family just feels really weird for me.>>34912846I'm not cheating. We specifically discussed our relationship being open in this way since I'm bi.
>>34911401Tell him it's a female penis she's fucking you with.
What is /htgwg/?How to Get Women General is by men, for men, about women, so bring all of your questions about getting and dealing with women here. Some anons on this site actually get laid, and some of them even want to help. If you're trying to meet and date women, then this is the place to ask questions, seek advice, and share experiences. We know how hard it can be. We got you bro.>What is /htgwg/ not?These threads are NOT for whining, moping, incels, volcels, MGTOW, hopelessness, or demoralization. We're all aware that meeting and dating women is hard today, and even harder for some, but /htgwg/ is for trying to overcome the challenges. IGNORE the posters who complain, give up, or insist there's nothing they can do. This site has other boards and threads that they can pollute. BE SMART: Spot the bait, don't reply, and DON'T WASTE TIME ARGUING WITH THEM!>How to ask for adviceContext is important: be more specific than "This girl ghosted me, why?" We can't help if we don't know the situation, so try to provide as much (useful) info as possible ("I was at the bar, this chick was checking me out..."). What's your relationship with the girl? How long have you known her? Any conversation screenshots? Etc... Don't forget to ask an actual question.>Resources and Bookshttps://wingman.live/ (AI dating coach)https://pdfcoffee.com/318797392-mark-manson-models-2016pdf-4-pdf-free.htmlhttps://archive.org/details/robert-glover-no-more-mr-nice-guy-id-353324692-size-612https://www.youtube.com/@HealthyGamerGGhttps://www.youtube.com/@YourWingmamComment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>34913442What I'm really is asking if I will go to hell if I just fake that I'm long term too and just fuck until they figure it out or I find someone else? I mean is it that different than a normal serious relationship just fading away?
>>34913524You already know the answer or you wouldn't be asking, at this point you're looking for approval.You're being a huge dick, and men have no right to bitch about foid games if we do this shit, but no, the world is not gonna explode if you do.At that point just get a hooker or try to get a friends with benefits in those same dating apps.
>>34913533>You already know the answer or you wouldn't be asking,you got me : (
Lowered my usual dose of medicine today, which meant I had less of a shield and felt more my emotions. Later, I went up to a girl to say something, and wow, my heart shot up into my throat for the first time in ages, I could barely get a word out or even breathe. Yeah, talking to girls sober is gonna take some getting used to, good God...
>>34912076don't drink with a chick unless you're going to fuck her otherwise embarrassing shit like this happens.and NEVER get drunker than her, if you're drinking just to talk about your feefees than you have no business passing on your mental illness to anyone else and should deal with your problems first. alcohol is for socializing and fucking.
my gf of 4 years is giving me mixed signals about sex>teases me several times throughout the day>compliments me and flirts with me all the time>says she wants to suck and ride my hog>nothing happens>when I try to make a move, she tells me that we'll have some fun later>when "later" (aka around bedtime) arrives, she usually says something like "we should go to sleep or we'll be tired in the morning, we'll have sex tomorrow or some other time">sometimes after saying this she still goes to play minecraft or sits on her phone for an hour or twoup until a year ago we used to have sex all the time and in all sorts of places, and she was initiating a lotnow it's like sex became some sort of afterthought or chore for her, which in itself is not a problem for me because I can just jack off and have my nut for the day, but the constant blueballing is irritating methe pattern I'm seeing is similar to one of my past relationships where my ex got comfortable and bored with our life (I got my own place, my own car, everything is paid off), and didn't see the need to give me any pussy after the novelty wore off (her direct words)is there some sensible way of fixing this problem or should I look for a new gf?
>>34896677Talk to her about it. Ignore all retarded misogynistic comments.It could be a lot of things. A lot of those things are bad news. A lot arent. There's 4 main reasons for this:>she's not attracted to you anymoreWorst case scenario but often its fixable if shes willing to have an honest conversation about why. Weight gain is the most common cause.>she doesnt feel attractive anymoreMake sure you touch her a lot when you DONT want sex. Women need lots and lots of non sexual physical affection or they feel like objects. Also if she recently gained weight this is common>high stressUnlike men high cortisol makes women not want sex>unrelated health issueCould just genuinely have something else going on.Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>34911278>It absolutely does shit all over your self esteem>just flirt with other women without doing anything furtherNah, go all the wayMy gf was on a several-weeks-long streak of turning me down and she said that my dick is kinda small and that she has trouble orgasming with meAt that point I was basically tweaking 24/7, so I started dating women on tinder behind her backAll of them were telling me that I'm a great guy, they were orgasming left and right when we fucked and a lot of them said that my peenor is YUGEThanks to cheating on my gf, my self esteem returned to normal and any doubts I had were cleared because now I KNOW that I'm a good looking and charming guy and that my junk is more than enough for some good sexNow I'm cheating on her out of pure spite and waiting for the moment when she finds out so she can atone for being a stupid bitch
>>34913635Bro if my gf ever said my dick was small and I wasnt satisfying her id dump her immediately. Go dump her before you get caught cheating youre out of your fucking mind. The breakup is gonna be so much messier if you get caught.
>>34913635>My gf was on a several-weeks-long streak of turning me down and she said that my dick is kinda small and that she has trouble orgasming with meWhat the actual fuckHave some self esteem retard drop that whore.
>>34913662>>34913669Nah fellas, I'm going scorched earth on her ass and she won't be able to do anything about it except for throwing a tantrum
we broke up cause of literal distance moving,???, and time, shes a nice vaguely tismed 27yo ~100+ miles away, visited 5x before we broke upits been 7 months and i started missing her we're friends now after talking online. i think hitting on her is a bad idea but shes visiting my city on unrelated work so i feel retardedI feel like iv accidentally flirted with her a few times.shes hasnt seen anyone or been on dates so theres that but nothing has changed at all so i dont think it would last even if i or we tried. I think i mixing up kindness and misconstruing it as affection from her
>>34908711thanks anon...but i fear my perspective is a little too optimistic from my perspective of the breakup, as she must have had reasons i dont fully understand. I am seeing her and a few mutual friends for a play but i dont think it means anything as it was more of a group invite, then a "hey you should come"
>>34908704>shes hasnt seen anyone or been on dates so theres thatShe's lying through her teeth to you, bro. Women need attention to survive, like fish need water. Even if she's telling the truth about not going on dates or she hasn't gotten physical with anyone (which I doubt), she's at the very least talking to other options. Even if you decide to get back together there's no guarantee she hasn't already met the guy she'll leave you for.Stop torturing yourself over something that isn't gonna work out. Long distance relationships aren't real relationships anyway. Tell her you need to finally move on, block her, and find a new bitch. It's harsh but the sharpest knives cut the cleanest.
>>34908704Didn't you already ask this question?
>>34913381Different anon
>>34913370She didn't say that to me I have just been hearing it around from friends (without asking)
How do I stop sweating money?I’m too responsible with money. Have a good career with a few retirement plans building. Always saved heavily and invested throughout my life (32). Money is not an ‘issue’ for me. I’m just stingy as fuck, I can really sit there and argue with myself back and forth about a $5 video game or treating myself to a meal when I have shit home.I recently have ‘gotten’ a social life, and have been spending a lot more on social activities and the gf. I’m normie enough to just spend it no questions asked and not say anything either, so its not like I’m sperging out to people about it.On the inside, it drives me nuts to a degree though. For the most part, it’s not like my accounts are going down, just going up less on a month-by-month basis.I’m not foolish to think I can have my cake of newfound normie-ness and eat it of spending nothing. Its logically sound, just emotionally painful almost.How do I learn to loosen my white-knuckle mentality, for my own sake?
>>34908468Nothing bad happened to me.>>34908484No it isn't. If someone is 50 IQ then they will never be able to understand Mozart.
>>34909189Imagine you are born in a shithole third world country. Your life sucks. But since nothing out of the ordinary for your country happened to you. You become complacent and act like everything is fine and normal. That is you right now.
>>34906827Trust me buddy. This is a good thing. Lot of people would kill for that level of autononous self-regulation.Easiest way is to get a friend to say "yeah Dave, you deserve that $100 steak dinner after that big promotion" so you don't feel like ass. Looks like someone had good parents.
>>34906975>What happens if you stop making money because you get laid off, or your company is outed as a scam and collapses, or there's a recession?you spend less money, isn't this common sense?
>>34906827This is a good way of thinking and when you find a wife who spends too much of it, you'll be glad for your frugal ways
I don’t know how to make friends
>>34907541Me neither
>>34907541Are you a biological male or biological female.If you are a biological female, you will never have real friends because women are all backstabbing cunts and men will all secretly want to fuck you (especially those that lie and deny it).If you are male, find noncuck, nonsimp males that share your hobbies. If you have no hobbies, get some you like.
>>34907807Yes it is Kris!! I’m excited for chapter 6 the plot is about to get heavy >>34907745Badass I like old vidya they’re comfy >>34907848Uhh you sound like you need more advice than I do
>>34907541>get to know people around you>find ones you'd want to be friends with>be friendly to them every time you see them>you'll naturally want to be friendlier to ones that reciprocate>continue doing this forever since it's a natural process, you don't have to force it
>>34907803ruined life9000 is another board. NEETing is one of the worst things you can do for long term success (family/ romance/ career/ soft skills/ etc)
I drink a couple beers before I have to do anything that makes me nervous. I know its bad for me but it works. How do i be brave without alcohol?
>>34910264You can't have love without hate. If you love someone you will innevitably hate the person who kills them. If you care that someone likes you, you will also care if they don't.You need to emotionally cut off people completely if you do not want to be affected by them.
Nihilism.
>>34910264If you want to be brave without alcohol you have to face your nerves without alcohol. practice makes perfect.The day before my first ever in-person tech interview for a $150k job i was shaking in my own home. I could hardly sleep that night. The morning of I was throwing up while eating breakfast. I was seriously debating bringing a bottle in the car with me so I could have a shot or three before I walked into the office. Despite my nerves and my known ability on alcohol, i decided against it and faced the interview sober. The reason is because 1. I knew it would make me dependent. If I started now I knew it would be harder and harder to stop drinking whenever i became nervous. i would become you now2. I knew it would suck but i knew it would make me stronger and the future would be better. Of course id be nervous the first time but the second time would only be easier. i knew i could do it.I was still shaking nervous driving to the office, parking, practicing my smile and lines in the car. but when i started checking in with the front desk lady i realized it wasnt that bad and my nerves started to go, and around 5 minutes after the interview started I realized that my nerves had subsided completely.i know my next in person interview will still probably make me nervous, but not vomit eating breakfast nervous. Progress! moral of story is being nervous without alc will suck now but it will get better, so stop drinking to calm your nerves. i believe in you!
>>34912792Nigger, did you get the job? I hope so.
>>34913318sadly not. but not because i was too nervous but because im not that good at solving programming puzzles
I can't say I've really moved on from this girl yet — it'll be 4 years since I started developing feelings for her, 3 years since we fell out, has been more than a year since she's been in a relationship. I still keep searching for their socials and when do I manage to get new pictures of either of them there's a bit of a pang but not as strong as it used to be. My social and emotional needs are filled by my friend circle. On the other hand, as regards my sexual desires, I've developed better ways of jacking off, have good porn stashed when online searches ultimately end up unfulfilling, or people I personally know that I wouldn't mind fantasizing but make no effort to develop feelings for at all. I also have hobbies and post-grad education to keep me occupied.
Just forget about her. You'll never truly stop loving her. But you can easily forget about her to the point where there's months where you don't even think about her anymore
>How am I doing?>3 years since we fell out>I haven't moved onLMFAOOOOO
>>34912343Im not Op but what you are asking is only the case if its not true love. True love only leaves after death.
Ever since I was little, my biggest dream in life was to one day be a father. I'm a young man now, and so much in just the last few months alone has soured my hopes in making my childhood dream come true. There's no way to really ignore that the misandrist culture I've grown up in wants me to fail. That I could be cheated on or divorced, and everyone would side against me automatically if she said I was at fault with no proof. And the Lindsey Clancy trial proves that even if my wife were to take my children away from me due to her own selfishness, there will be people blaming me, or who'll just say I did it instead. The worst part is that despite all that, society still believes that women are at more risk being around me. It's so insulting, and I have no choice but to be resentful for it all.I don't really have a clear answer. I've taken the best steps I can with improving my life. I'm more social, healthy, and active than ever before. But there's this depressive weight that I can't shrug off. I know it's a feeling a lot of people are grappling with right now. And it makes it feel better, knowing I'm not alone in what I'm struggling with. So I and everyone else can take solace in knowing it's not out fault any of this is happening to us.My worst fear, above all else is that I do meet someone who says all the right things. Who comforts me, knows what I need, and who tells me she has the same wants and morals as I do. Only to take everything from me because I was stupid enough to let her in.Maybe it's for the best, since I am still young and will meet many people in the future who could be good to me. That I should wait and really protect what I have to the absolute best of my abilities before I ever risk anything like that. Not just for me anymore, but to my children who she could one day simply decide don't belong to me.Rest in peace to Cora Clancy, aged 5. Dawson Clancy, aged 3. Callan Clancy, aged 8 months.
>>34912994>it's a fact that women initiate divorce substantially more than menNTA, but that's because it's men who do the things that make staying married to them intolerable. Husbands, for example, beat up wives far more often than wives beat up husbands, and the battered wives then binitiate divorce. This is not the slam dunk you seem to think it is.
>>34912926I'm not reading all that. Just going to I've you a reality check:Lindsay Clancy is a lying psychopathic, a child murderer who wasn't even diagnosed with Post Partum Psychosis. Post Partum Psychosis is exceptionally rare, affecting only 1 in 1000 women. That's 0.1% odds. Of those women, only 1 ~ 4% of them commit infanticide. Which means you're looking at a 0.0001% chance this shit will ever happen to you. 1 in ten thousand chance.
>>34913016Nta, but if you count for initiated aggression, (slapping, spitting, throwing objects) women initiate fights and physical escalations more than men statistically. You can look that up.
>>34912926I feel for you and I'm so thankful I never want kids. This world is built to make having kids as fucked up as possible..
>>34912926>>34913457>ContinuedDo not let this Clancy shit demoralise you. Don't let the massive swell of retarded holes who supported her bother you. If your big worry is you fear marrying a cunt who will ruin you or your future kids' lives, then you should be glad the BPD-coded, fatherless, useless sacks of hormonal waste have revealed themselves and masked off publicly. Because it shows you which women you need to avoid. This is a massive learning opportunity where you can identify patterns and red flags from these women without getting burned. Pay close attention to them, when you see them on social media sounding off, study their profiles, their socials, see which type of girl they are, the way they dress the beliefs they hold the shit they say. Lock down a mental pattern of these girls.Then when you see any girl resembling that when you start dating avoid them like the plague. This will naturally steer your mind to look for girls who are the opposite in demeanour and presentation. Leading you right to a woman who won't fuck your life up.
