How do i find an age gap gf? Pretty much given up and realized that a 18-24 gf is my only shot left at happiness. Am 34, most girls around my age just suck or have multiple kids or expect me to have a house. Dating younger is just easier and less pressure. Its dating on easy mode. Where do i find more girls like this willing to be gaslit and manipulated by a loser 34 year old guy?
>>34259366If you're a 34 year old loser you're still a loser. The 18-25 year olds looking to marry older want stability which it doesn't seem like you can provide. Try not being a loser
>>34260950This might surprise you but online political influencers are not the same as ordinary real-life women no matter how religious they profess to be
>>34263394I already get bitches... the point was that girls in their 30s want too much. Dating girls in 20s is just easier and less pressure. Also sounds like you live in a flyover state where anyone can afford a house but nobody wants to live
>>34263416"looking to marry" lmaaoooooo anon im sorry if you think this is about marriage. so naive.... its about creampieing coochies. literally says gaslit and manipulated in the op
>>34263570>I already get bitchesIf that was true (you) wouldn't be posting or have the desire to post.>the point was that girls in their 30s want too much. Dating girls in 20s is just easier and less pressure.Same shit from 18-28. My motto for a while was fuck'em'n leave 'em mainly because I've been happier single than dating somebody whom I have no interest in.>Also sounds like you live in a flyover state where anyone can afford a house but nobody wants to liveThe gentile calling the Jew a goy lol P a i d off how many of you goys rely on credit and loans.>P.s I live in one of the best states fuck u lol.Also planning on investing in land by Nevada so I'll have property in 2 states.
25yo anon reviewing for SAT/ACT here. So far so good, getting the questions good following the AI-curated curriculum so far. But my problem is my attention span is so fucked and every 10 problem questionnaire feels like a living hell that I have to overcome. My heads hurts so bad everytime I exert effort and I just want to play vidya, watch anime, masturbate to hentai or thread hopping on the chinz. My rule of thumb was, every test I finish, I fap and watch 3 episode of anime then answer again for 3-5 times. I want my life to get better but then I realized I can't live without the internet and being an objective withdrawn loser. How can I enjoy studying, do I force it because studying is so fucking shit there's nothing enjoyable about this except this is the pathway to change and frankly, there's something within me that does not want change. I think I really need help.
>>34262558I got this tip from a studygram influencer that I regularly make cum tributes for. It's also a convenient and free way to make a personalized curriculum that assesses my strengths and weaknesses. Like i'm good in math but dogshit in physics type of way
>>34262638Sure, you can try that. Putting systems in place that make undesired behaviour bothersome is a good idea. But I can't stress enough how important it is to figure out why you're doing what you're doing and what triggers it. Also, if you notice yourself falling into this addictive pattern, don't beat yourself up. Allow yourself to go through with this instance, and only then look at what caused it. There's no shame in being in a bad place, so treat yourself with love and kindness.
>>34262654In high school I lived with my foster family and they were pretty strict with grades and made me do extracurriculars. Anime was my escape during HS and when I graduated and my foster family knew I wasn't planning to go to college they decided to kick me out and that hurt me deeply, the thought of giving the house and room keys and cleaning out my room was painful and I felt a sense of abandonment for the second time in my life (parents were drunks and had caught a DUI when I was young). I was attached to my foster family and I can't really fathom why did they kicked me out if they really loved me or they just thought that having a foster child out of impulse and they grown to regret that. That fucked me up and before I got kicked out I got a job in retail so I was able to rent out a room for 3 years but then my mental state was so bad that I had a mental breakdown at work because of a customer being a karen and I didn't have the patience that day so I yelled at her and that got me fired. With a help of a relative I got into contact with my mother who was living with her sisters home and told my situation and thankfully they were kind enough to let me crash and NEET out. Everytime I masturbate I feel a sense of fulfillment that i'm wanted or something and watching anime allows me to experience stuff that I never had and probably never will in my ripe age of 25. It really sucks to live like this and after watching that ossan isekai anime I was like I need to shoot my shot if I want to atleast make my situation better so I decided that i'm going to take a risk and load up on loans or atleast get a aid scholarship if it goes well but yeah that's pretty much it. Thank you anon I got my thoughts out
>>34262705You're welcome. A last word of encouragement: you can't regain time passed, time will flow on regardless. Where you have agency is in deciding the direction you'll go. You'll one day be 30, and while you won't have a stereotypical teenage love story and career under your belt, it's up to you whether you work towards something fulfilling or stew in misery. Best of luck
>>34262344> and watch 3 episode of anime then answer again for 3-5 times. If you're adhering to this that's actually good. Give yourself set allowances, then return to the mission at hand.
(1/2) Almost a decade ago, I discovered that my wife was having an affair with a man. I am not going to go into the details of how I found out, how I confronted my wife, etc. but long story short she kept continuing to see him.My world was falling apart, I was on the cusp of losing my family. In my mind, this man was the reason why. I had found messages from him where he was trying to convince my wife to divorce me and move into his home with my children. I was naively convinced that he was the problem, and if I was able to get rid of him my problems would be solved.This man had a past criminal history. Nothing major but I knew that if I made a tip to the local police department they would investigate considering it was a small town. I devised a plan. I went on the dark-web and bought over $2,000 of fentanyl. It was a shockingly large amount. I placed the package inside a large ziplock bag with a pack of 1000 small baggies and a scale. I broke into this man's work van and put it inside of a box. I wasn't there to witness it but they wound up getting a K9 unit to come out and they found the drugs. He was arrested, obviously. I assumed that he would get a few years in prison at the most.
>>34261078>all this yapping just to admit he secretly has a cuck fetish
>>34260307you did good, you are not going to hell for this
Larp> I had found messages from him where he was trying to convince my wife to divorce me and move into his home with my children. I was naively convinced that he was the problemSo he's a problem of yours >if I was able to get rid of him my problems would be solvedYou got rid of one problem >My wife and I ended up splitting anyway, obviouslyCan't fix everything
>>34261634Totally agree, even if he couldn’t stay with his wife. The guy was intentionally trying to steal his wife. OP did countermeasures, sleazy criminal got what he deserved. I’d understand OP feeling guilty if the guy didn’t know she is married, but he obviously knew so, yeah, don’t fret OP, he was trying to fuck you over, you fucked him over. I’d say job well done. And if this really is real, don’t feel guilty about it, it was some criminal. It’s time to start building a new life and forget some rubbish criminal.
>>34260393If he has no enemies, he's probably come to the logical conclusion that OP is the one who framed him considering he is the man he cuckolded. OP, you should get armed and wait for this eventual showdown.
How do people work 8 hours a day?All the jobs I had were hard and boring and painful.My mom and her partner told me that they simply like it, so I guess that's it, plus the fact that they socialize with people at work.Meanwhile I am an introvert with AuDHD so stuff like this is really hard for me. I have been a neet my entire life with little job experience. I always wanted to be independent so I always seek a job. I've been looking for a job for more time than I have actually worked. I really need a job but I am sure when I will have it I will wish I was unemployed. Everything is so boring and hard and painful to me. I am taking courses to become a mechanic and I am hating it. I get bored, can't focus, and always think about all the bad stuff happening in my life. It's so hard to not let tears fall down from my eyes, I literally cry. I have nothing to live for. Never had a relationship, barely ever got friends. Interacting with people was literally traumatic for me. The only thing that makes me feel good now is videogames, because when I play I live in the moment and think much less about the problems plaguing my life, about the past and the future. If I had a part time job I may really enjoy working but I can't even find a full time gig.Works I may like would involve art, science, history and culture but such things I cannot find. I tried college but had to stop because of taxes, as well as problems with studying because of the boredom and depression that has always defined my life. I went to college mainly to make friends and socialize, and of course I failed in that as I failed in education.
>>34262271you don't have to work 8h a day. simply to appear like you are as productive as someone who would.
>>34262271Have you been to a doctor to address your mental issues? If you legitimately cannot work an eight hour shift, then you need to be on medication.
>>34262271>How do people work 8 hours a day?Normally it's because the alternative is homelessness
>>34262271>All the jobs I had were hard and boring and painful.old news, shitbag- that's why jobs and work are called that way, because they suck. You wouldn't be compensated with money if it isn't work. It is the human condition and reality.>I am an introvert with AuDHD so stuff like this is really hard for meno, you are just a weakling faggot coward. Stop being a little bitchnigga.>I always wanted to be independentif you were honest, you would be. But you aren't. You don't even want it that badly. Because if you did, you would be there already.>Everything is so boring and hard and painful to me.entitled weakling. The world owes you nothing. Who the fuck are you?>Never had a relationship, barely ever got friendsliterally, no one cares.>I can't even find a full time gig.skill issue. Change your methods or presentation until you achieve success.>Works I may like would involve art, science, history and cultureso do most people, but you aren't some wealthy child of a land baron. You're just a pretentious faggot. How about you get wealthy first and then start pretending like you're too high and mighty for work? You can't even feed yourself with your own hands fucks sake.Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>34263129I hope you're making at least 6 figures to be that much of a deluded drone
You know, I've been thinking alot about how to game the women system of this world. Women tend to look favorably on men that are fathers, even Kim Jong Un is seeing an increase of support because of the videos he has with his daughter. But Kim Jong Un is a dictator, surely whatever woman he impregnated probably wanted nothing to do with him and feared for her life right? So this got me thinking, it doesn't matter how I become a father, as long as I become a father. The rest will take care of itself. Am I onto something?
>>34259948testosterone actually drops a bit when you have children.>>34259608Women provide half of the hereditary character / temperament and intelligence to your child. And they provide most of the nurturing when the child is young. So no, you're not onto something.
>>34259955>t. Not a father.
If you actually appear around your kid and they dont hate you then yes.Kindness towards children by men is so unpreceded that if a woman sees it she instantly forgives you. Female standards for goodness are that damn low
>even Kim Jong Un is seeing an increase of supportWhy the hell have you gone so far deep in the internet to bring this up?>Women tend to look favorably on men that are fathersThat's probably because you're less likely to be a creep. You have an infant child to take care, so that leaves no time to become an incelEver wondered why that "asexual" autistic kid in school is surrounded by girls? Well, that's because he's fucking autistic. He's not going to do anything to them.
>>34259608Kim Jong Un wasn't a autist who spent his years on the internet and consumed anime. He's well educated and clearly understood social dynamics well enough to lead a country with an army comprising of a million standing men and making sure both the population and the military does not sack him and defect to the west. He knows his way with the ladies and most dictators are smooth operators anyways, that's why cult of personalities develop because they got crashouts who'd willingly die for them
About a month ago my girlfriend and I decided to take an indefinite break in our relationship because of some issues we were having regarding our future plans and struggled regarding our recent transition to long distance. We decided to remain exclusive during that time said we’d reconnect in after about four weeks to make sure the other is doing okay.Skip ahead to last night and I’m at a bar, drunk off my ass the night before Valentine’s Day (the day we’re supposed to reconnect) and I end up making out with some random girl for no other reason than I was feeling sorry for myself and wanted to make a bad decision.I woke up this morning to a text from my girl telling me about all the ways she’s missed me this month and I feel like I’m going to throw up. If I told her what happened it might kill her. I feel like a horrible person. The entire situation is hitting me like a two ton bag of bricks and I don’t know what to do.
>>34260125>and I decided to take an indefinite break in our relationship>We decided to remain exclusive during that time said we’d reconnect in after about four weeks to make sure the other is doing okay.It seems like you broke up already then. Who takes an indefinite break from a relationship? And then you say you want to remain exclusive? Can't have your cake and eat it too imo.I think you know what you really want.
>>34260192I shouldn’t have said indefinite. We decided to take a break until I finished up my grad degree in December, effectively a year.We both realized that we needed to be on our own for a while and grow separately, and that it wouldn’t be a good idea for either of us to see other people under that pretense.
I sense that you grew up in a very good household where promises are being kept. When you break them you feel like something inside of you died and that's what you have to deal with. Promises aren't kept as long it's kept under wraps which no one has to find out. That how the world works unfortunately
>>34260125>>34260198>We both realized that we needed to be on our own for a while and grow separatelyno, you realized you wanted to be a cuck and gave your girl greenlight to have her guts rearranged by Tyrone. What's wrong with you? You either stay together, or you don't. You didn't and now you feel guilty? Make it easier on both of you and break it off. Go live your life, that's what you wanted anyway.
>>34263600>bumping and responding to fakeslop.
How many projects can you effectively juggle at once without going insane?
>>3425974027.4
>>34260022Impressive. Why the 0.4?
>>34260027There's a chance you'll fuck up the 28th
>>34260035I see
how to find them irl, if im completly retarded and shy as hellwhen I'm talking to new people irl - my language not understandable at all, because of social axietybut I really need it, I really miss it and I don't know how to bring it backI moved to another country and for 1.5 yrs didn't make any friendsshould I just rope myself, so I don't have to go through it ? also I don't know HOW to go through it except continue isolation and it is disgusting
Are you a guy or a girl? If you're a girl making friends is easy as fuck! You'd be lucky
yeah we can be friends, we'll bump this thread and talk about anything you wantno discord though, that shit are for trannies and literal feds nowadays. did you know discord is used by government employees as a group chat and host meetings and shit?
>>34263374<3
>>34263376GuyIdk, that not feels hard or easy, but that feels more like “you can’t affect it, etc, etc”I had pretty a lot(for me) people in a place where I used to live. But all that meets, chats, etc weren’t started by me, just randomly interested in me people were way more often around, so I didn’t have to worry about it
>>34263378<3Oh, okayIn country where I used to live discord is one of the safest messengers and also blocked without vpn nowadays >_<
I've had five one night stands in the past, four of them fueled by alcohol, coke and meth, and always very casually and never initiated by me. Well, now I have my first GF, at a ripe age of 31. She's my neighbor and a freshman in my college, and just started to cling on me and confessing her love to me last fall. And 11 years younger. We make out all the time and she often sleeps with me.But we haven't had sex. We haven't even talked about it. We haven't even touched each other intimately. Just hugged and kissed. I'm fine with that. She's beautiful and sexy, but I just don't have any sexual urge to fuck her. Her being young, socially anxious and insecure doesn't help it. She doesn't give the impression of being a sexual person at all. I remember feeling horny like an animal back in the day on meth, but only on meth. I feel like I'm just waiting for her direct request to treat me like an amusement park, like my former casual partners. Without any need for it on my part. I also feel like I'm subconsciously avoiding the whole thing altogether. What gives? Are we both asexual or what? Have I ruined my libido with meth? Is it the age difference that makes me insecure?
im delusional and like to pretend i worked for the american military in an adjacent capacity (but wink wink nudge nudge i had to kill people) what is wrong with me and why am i like this
>>34261797Low self-esteem and lack of attention.
>>34261797Most of the armed force as of recent have never killed people, they're stationed somewhere else and have to do bullshit orders from lateral officers
>>34261797You are drowning yourself in your fantasies to avoid acknowledging your shame.
>>34261797You want to be perceived because that stimulates you emotionally.
I spend hours every day just staring at pictures and videos of attractive people online. I'm not sure exactly why I'm looking, but I feel like there's some edification that I'm searching for. To embody that in my life. To become one of "them", to date one of "them", and to live a life of nothing but pure beauty and bliss. Is this achievable? I think I'm pretty good looking, and whenever I've posted my face online that's the feedback I get. So what am I doing wrong?
>>34263539>pov: there's a tin can and a letter in my mailbox>>34261751>nothing but pure beauty and bliss. Don't worry, human relationships are really complex and any ideas of perfection will be immediately thrown out of the windows as soon as you see her lazily doomscrolling on PJ's and smelling like pineapple pizza.
>best friend since 4th grade>smoking za in he momma porch>some dirty nigga pops him with a semiI know he's a drug mule for bigshot trapper but why him? Out of everyone in my block that oldhead pop my youngin, we was out here together and I can't help but feel a certain kind of way. I want to graduate high school but this street shit catching up to a youngblood
>>34263439i dont man, if I do this shit i aint going to juvvie i'm straight in the pens. man fuck this shit. shoulda been born in the burbs and played aau instead
Faggotrons think they can just "Do whatever"Go fuck yourself RAPEAPE
Why don't you Cunt ass BITCH NIGGERS make your OWN Chan...NiggerChan, instead of constantly having to get into YT's shit because you faggots can't into making ANYTHING of value.
>>34263524>>34263535fuck u gon do timmy
fuck timmy gon do
Please help me my fellow 4chan niggers. How do I last longer in bed?My penis in vagina lasting time is just under a minute and my girlfriend needs more!
>>34260003i'm a virgin...
What fixed me was simply practice. Banging my wife more, and trying to last longer. First I couldn't cum, because of too much porn and masturbation, then I came too quickly. After like a year of regular sex having I can now stay hard without cumming pretty much indefinitely.
>>34263207Can I bang your wife? Perhaps that will help with my issues...
>>34254614I don't know I never had sex
>>34263503Go have sex then. The hell you waiting for?
Im f 1.61cm and 57 kg so im pretty small and thin. How can i get a good high? Everytime i smoked weed i was on a bad trip .. plus i get high pretty easily like ill take 4 puffs and im gone. So what can i do to get a good relaxed high ?
>>34262225Is that hard to get?
>>34262184Little sl0t
>>34261983have you taken shrooms? pretty good shit right there (kek)
>>34263375Nope
>>34261983I don't know an easy way to get a good trip.However, i know a very, very easy way to get a really bad trip.
>22m>one semester left for bachelors>no internships>no work experience (related to major)>got good grades, but that’s about it>never had sex>never had a gf>never kissed a girl>never went on a date>masturbate every day to porn for hours>friends only reach out to me when they need something>only time friends talk to me is in group settings, and usually it’s to make a joke at my expense>dont have any social media accounts>afraid to make friends or talk to people online>at least 100 pounds overweightComment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>34262672The good news is ALL OF THESE ARE FIXABLE. You can do. So let's map out a plan. First you are going to read Atomic Habits (there is a reason that book gets shilled) and you are also going to make a schedule/log of what you need to do each day. You are going to start small because just like how you can not walk into a gym and immediately deadlift a large amount of weight, you can't unfuck your life overnight. It takes time and small, actionable, consistent steps.>No internships>No work experience (related to major)Good grades are nice, so you at least know the stuff of your major. Go to networking events and start applying for jobs/internships. Talk to professors or anyone to try and hook you up/recommend you.>Never had sex>Never had a gf>Never kissed a girlStart talking to people (not just women) in low stakes environments. Maybe put yourself on the apps (at least try them before writing them off).>Masturbate every day to porn on hoursSlowly wean off the porn. Cold turkey might be too much at once but you need to fix this.Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>34263010>at least 100 pounds overweight>rarely eat in moderation>rarely make smart food choices>tend to oversleep>can’t remember last time i’ve been in bed without a screen>good at taking care of hygiene & body odor, except when it comes to my teeth. the only time i brush my teeth is right before a dentists appointmentStart exercising, even if it's just 10k steps a day or whatever. You can look up a couch to 5k plan or maybe even check the /fit/ sticky. If you need to eat then eat healthy tasty meals, like fruits and veggies. Do not buy sugary stuff or junk food. Keep it out of your house and it will be easier to avoid. Lower your caloric intake. For sleep hygiene do no screens before bed (like 30-min to an hour I think). Also please brush your teeth you only have one set of them.>haven’t lived on my own>parents are in early 60s, and their health has been declining faster as of late>only “hobbies” are playing video games and browsing the internet >passive in all my “hobbies”>contemplate suicide everydayComment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>34262672>i can’t bring myself to right anything. what gives?Because you choose to be a loser, on purpose. You know what you need to do, but don't do it. While your enemies are winning with every small move. Fucking faggot- you are lesser than an Indian. Atleast those dudes are trying, and trying they are everyday with the girls you're supposed to be with. You just gave up and bent over topkek. Utterly pathetic, waste of resources.
>>34262966i think the reason why i can not bring myself to change is because i am comfortable. playing video games, eating junk food, masturbating to porn, and surfing the web feels great in the short term>>34263010pretty sure i own atomic habits by james clear, i'll try to find it. also, it seems like the only way you can meet new people post high-school/college graduation is at work. stupid question, but where else could i really meet new people? (not that i am opposed to work. i would kill to get a job right out of college)>>34263023what drives me nuts is that i already know i should be doing everything you just recommended, but i'm still not doing it>>34263096i understand what you are trying to do, but it's not going to work. sorry, i'm just not a very angry personthank you all for the advice everyone
>>34263462To meet new people try moving near a city and find stuff to do. Could also be good for job opportunities. Also if this all seems intimidating start a little bit at a time and honestly just get outside it will make everything easier.
