American bros who have used prostitutes, where do you acquire them? Are any of the sites like listcrawler, tryst, etc reliable? Ive never done it before and im sketched out that im going to get robbed
All the Asian ads are fake
>>34334997I'm in SEA and we have a forum dedicated to rating those services, not sure about America but it might be worth it to ask your nearest homeless guy.
you can look for "escort reviews" using a search engine, and include your state or city.
>>34334997Almost every prostitute I've been with has been at a massage parlor. Rubmaps will let you know which ones do which services. If you're not into Asian girls you can even filter for places with Latinas or white girls (look for "nuru" massage or "relaxation spas"Only time I ordered a prostitute from online was on skip the games, and I got catfished hard. Probably won't do that again since you can't just walk away like if a massage parlor has ugly girls. My city has tons of streetwalkers because it's a shitlib city that doesn't prosecute the hoes, but I'm too scared of catching something so I don't use them (streetwalkers are usually the dirtiest type of working girl even if they use condoms)
>>34337625Thanks for the detailed answer man. Going tomorrow to a massage place. Seems way safer than the sites
As a male, is it better to have a male or female therapist?
female. what I need from a therapist is a view from the other side. It has made me a more understanding person.
Idk, male therapists are fucking braindeadFemale therapists will never truly understand you
>>34338479you sound feminine
>>34338324I only had one therapist but he really sucked. I would suggest not going to therapy to be honest. If you want to try it I guess go for a male therapist because he might be more likely to relate to you
>>34338377>>34338411T. Soulless automatons
Like I don't have any suicidal thoughts but I'm just bored of my life as it is right now. I want to change, but I don't know where to start. Should I see a psychiatrist? Should I go get a blood test and see if something's wrong with my vitamin/mineral levels? Jordan peterson says I should start with small stuff like making my bad every morning or something. What do I do?
>>34331243You say that as if children can magically heal every internal conflict within a person. You can't rely on another human being to establish a legacy or sense of fulfillment for you. YOU need to do that ON YOUR OWN through YOUR OWN ACTIONS. Otherwise, you would be projecting your own desires onto a child who could care less about them.
>>34334015In order to take care of a child it requires taking care of yourself. If you don't take care of yourself, that child is dead. It requires eating right, having energy, sleeping right, being hygienic, cultivating a good routine, going out to make money, it requires checking yourself for character flaws, flaws that could terrify a child. It requires doing away with vices and habits. Etc. Children don't heal the adult parent, correct. But the dynamic that a child brings necessitates and demands self improvement by force. You either self improve or your child gets taken away by child protective services. Having a kid is a very effective boot up the ass for anyone. The only time this is not true is for dumbass parents who had theirs by mistake and didn't plan on it. For those who make the conscious decision to have a child, it changes everything.
>>34331008I don't know. I'm 21. It doesn't get better. Just don't kill yourself. Maybe it does get better I dont know yet. Will get back to you when I'm 70 years old.
>>34331008Read "before you go extinct"It's 6 chapters. If your attention span is too fried for that, and you can't think anymore cause chatGPT fried your critical thinking centers then watch this video about it. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=736iLZavhVIIf you don't catch what he's saying about Christmas, rewind and repeat until you do because it's critical to understanding a lot of things in life. Especially what you're dealing with now.And OP, do NOT seek advice from these online guru wannabe's like Jordan Peterson.Do something that builds discipline now and it'll pay dividends later. Take up a sport, martial art, weightlift or general fitness activity that keeps you active and/or read more non-fiction. Learn how something works. Take apart a bicycle I don't know what your interests are. 19-27 is the time to experiment and sift through these feelings.
>>34331008i personally tried and failed for years to get myself to study or practice a hobby or do anything useful with my life beyond work for a living.i think the reason i kept failing was because i kept trying to motivate myself and push myself beyond what a depressed piece of shit could realistically hope to accomplish, and ended up just tripping myself up.i don't know if it'll help you, but the only thing that ended up working for me was taking it extremely slowly.pick some hobby or something to study, and start doing it for 10 minutes every day. once you're done with those 10 minutes, you're free to do whatever you want. then you just increase it by 10 minutes every 2 months.it might sound too slow. you might want to believe that you can do more than that. but it's supposed to be easy enough that it will require almost zero motivation since, if you want it to really stick, you need to make it into an absolute habit that you're not allowed to miss a single day of no matter what. the only reason for you to miss a day is if you're literally incapacitated and it's physically impossible for you to do it, which isn't always easy if you're feeling down, or life throws something unexpected at you.you're also not allowed to go beyond the amount of time that you set every day.if you're feeling motivated and want to do it anyway, go find some demotivational videos on youtube, or use negative reinforcement. look in the mirror and tell yourself "you're going to fail, you don't have what it takes, you're a fucking loser, etc..." look deep inside you, find the part of you that is motivated, and then KILL IT. remember, motivation is the enemy of discipline.also, if you can, find a part time job and save everything you earn. nothing will give you more peace of mind than having money in the bank.
What's a good way to contiguity plan if that's the case?
Do some cocaine or adderall for some energy to work harder!!!
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Which situations and venues could I use to seduce arthoes with my piano talents? Public pianos are one option, but I need places like coffee shops and shit where I can tickle the ivories. Again, New England is preferred because lots of colleges>thank you in advance
Where else? I could schlep a piano/keyboard to a farmers market or an artwalk (First Friday), but certainly there must be other options
Colleges could work
>>34337584Don't be that guy people are just going to assume you're homeless
>>34335523you picked the wrong instrument. should've learned to play the guitar instead.
>>34338410Fug :DDDDI play guitar and playing in the park or an echoey parking garage is a hoot. Here’s an old one in a parking garage in Olympia, WA:https://voca.ro/1kbxTdyXeElm
What do normies see in Tik-Tok/social media.I deliberately tried to get addicted but nothing clicks, so I just go do some math or poetry instead if I'm bored.
I'd just cut myself open more if I were you . I have a certain world that is a certain thing , but I will like it moves in a certain way around me . I dare say the recognition of it is all it takes
>>34336899>What do normies see in Tik-Tok/social media.I only use it for softcore pornography. It's nice to coom that way sometimes. To clothed women.
>>34336899retarded AI slop cat videos and rehashed 20 year old memes>I deliberately tried to get addicted but nothing clicksto be fair anon you are on 4chan, it might not have infinite scroll and other addictive shit but you are still here instead of doing whatever the fuck was that larping shit you were yapping about
>>34336899>I deliberately tried to get addicted but nothing clicksLmao this but all the "vices" of the modern age the normans hype up >>34336939>I only use it for softcore pornographyIt pretty much is all just softcore porn from validation attention seeking hoes who post thirst traps cuz they're too arrogant and hypocritically pious to just go do actual pornAt this point I respect actual porn-doers than these thirst trap cunts who are no better than them but think they are just cuz it's on normie approved certified platform
>>34336899i love listening and using it for the edits gives me a fake sense of accomplishment and a surge of dopamine also their song choices are the cherry on top
My dumb wife just told me that she didn't know that ants bite. How do I deal with the discovery that I married an imbecile?
>>34336747unforced error
Impregnate
>>34336747Knowing that ants bite is a skill issue. I've lived in close contact with ants for a good portion of my life without worrying about being bitten or stung because they know that I'm the boss, and you don't bite the boss.
>>34337160OP BTFO
>>34336774why is this woman so famous on 4chan
I’m almost skeptical anyone actually does
>>34337514I earn six figures. I started at less than $30k and I’ve been working for 30 years now.
>>34337841Why are you being an asshole just to say something uninteresting? Yes high cost of living places will pay more. I'm sure that's not what he's talking about.
>>34338101And he’s wrong, cities don’t pay six figures, the pay over 50k
I had to change jobs multiple times to advance my career to earn over six figures, work a whole lot more... I make a lot of money now, but I'm miserable. The only thing keeping me going is that I'll actually have enough money to retire if I can keep this up
>>34337903Your fault for getting that worthless finance degree.
Does never fapping actually make you live a happier life? Should i stop fapping?
>>34333394Not the same as a real person. Dolls are less than a dead person even and I don't condone to necrophilia.
>>34333092no, it's pseudoscience repeated by retards who cite other retards
>>34335461>and I don't condone to necrophilia.what have you seen in your life to say this
>>34333092>>34333207This is true. I actually did 4 months of no fap and thought my dick broke. Stopped getting morning wood, and stopped thinking about women all together. I have a testosterone of 990ng/dl, really high and i felt like i had 0 when i did no fap. I would not recommend no fap unless you want to be celibate. You know the phrase that goes "use it or lose it" this applys to your pecker.
>>34338475if you go no fap for a while ur semen just gets out by "wet dreams" no?cant believe 4 months went without this happening
how do i tell a slut thats sleeping with me that im no longer interested ??? she’s embarrassing bc shes a mom to girls but post’s skanky pics of herself. Shes a bad example to her daughters.
But you’re a slut just like her with a high body count. Both of you are embarrassments to your kids and your parents.
>>34338459he's a tripfag, I've never met a tripfag that isn't a complete failure as a person and has ever even hold a hand
>>34338476Most based reply itt , both should be ashamed in themselves. He’s no better than her.
He went from working at a major tourist attraction to TGI Fridays!!! That’s what u get for sleeping with a skank thatll drain ur good energy. U cheated on ur wife with a downgrade.
>>34338388report her to CPS
so i stopped jerkng off for 2 weeks and today i gooned for abit and UNFORTUNATELY ididnt ejaculate and it usually doesnt matter but whenever i go on these intervals of giving up jerking off my balls and my stomach cant handle not ejaculating should i cum or just wait it out even the slightest touch is painful as fuck is this even normalsorry for posting this here
>>34336592>should i cumYes. Nothing else will make the pain go away.
>>34336625yeah it did lmao felt like i was dying
>>34336717>Just an infection of some sortthe infection is from semen retention and not ejaculating i would guess?>>34336744well desu i didnt wanna take take that chance years ago this happened and i said to myself i should let nature take its course and "cum" instead of edging since i was in pain from the retention i thought i would get reliefbut the opposite happened it was unbearable and now i had no cum left it was humiliatingi just slept this one off and woke up healthy thank god
>>34338296>now i had no cum left itzinc zinc zincits crazy how this helps
>>34338311wait! i have zinc lying around in my house i dont take it tho cause i thought it was another no good mineralwhat dosage do you take and what other supplements u on btw
Lost my job of over 25 years. Currently in the process of starting unemployment for the first time in my life (PITA) and looking for ways to maximize my benefits and intake (ethically or not, but definitely legally). I am not poor, but I am not looking to retire yet. I'm AM tired from life and would like to take advantage of the unemployment while I have it. I am thinking if I have paid into the system for the past 40 years, I deserve some time off, for at least a little bit. Not being lazy, just want a month or two off. What are some ways to maximize my unemployment benifits? Any other programs I should utilize or take advantage of? Do I actually have to apply for jobs regularly to keep my unemployment going, or can I just say I did (I can't imagine the average unemployment taker can nvigate this fucked up system accurately)? Should I just apply for jobs that I know I won't get (CIO's and shit)?
get a job you lazy nigger!
>>34336893Have you considered living in your vehicle on federal land? Check out the videos on Bob Wells’ YouTube channel.The people he interviews are people who are retired or poor or work seasonal jobs. They live a minimalist lifestyle to reduce their cost of living and they are typically people who worked mundane jobs their entire life and are using their vehicle to live a stress free life.
>>34338175I have a family, a house, three cars, plenty in the bank, pantry full f food, two dogs, and I am fairly well off. So I am technically fine. I just want to take advantage of what I can while I am not working for the man. I am cool spending the last decade of my working life working, but would just like to take some time off is all.
I want to go back. To my old life. I find this whole thing extremely tiring, mentally and emotionally. I crave solitude and she just won't let me be by myself. I tried talking to her and explaining that I want to be alone sometimes and not have to respond to her texts every 5 minutes. Doesn't matter, she just gets angry at me.Worst is that she's obsessed with me (for some reason) and keeps talking about getting married. How do I get out of this? I don't really know what to tell her, I don't have a reason to dump her other than the fact that I enjoy being a weird recluse and that i'd rather work on my hobbies. I'm honestly considering throwing my phone into a lake and driving far, far away.I know many of you are desperate for a relationship of any kind. I don't care. It was nice for a bit, but the novelty wore off. I don't want to be this chick's slave and emotional tampoon anymore.
>>34334374unforced error
>>34334374Just tell her she's smothering you
>>34337313WHY DID YOU LET THIS CONTROLLING IDIOT MOVE IN?WHY HAVEN'T YOU KICKED HER OUT AND CHANGED THE LOCKS?WHY ARE YOU A SPINELESS TARD? Holy shit.
>>34337313me againsounds like you've already taught her that her emotional outbursts work, so unless you grow a spine and actually start telling her no and standing by it, you can expect the same dynamic to play out for the rest of this relationship.>I feel like I've been losing the willpower I used to have to actually go against her wishes.just consider where this leads. if you keep capitulating, you will no longer be living your life, you will be living her life. renting a place together will lead to getting married given the way you bend to her, and if she wants to have kids it's a foregone conclusion that she'll get the babies she wants, too. literally sit down for 20-30 minutes and imagine this. does this make you feel good about a future with this person?
>>34334374subtle demotivational thread #553312334
newly homeless in Oregon. how can I get myself inside a psych ward or something? I don't want to sleep outside.
>>34338337NtaAnd you don't have to pay the bill. It'll eventually go to collections and then just don't answer those calls for like 3 years and it disappears.
>>34337885Go to a hospital and tell the employees you want to kill yourself or call the police and tell them the same
>>34338317You're only entitled to 120 days or something like that, after that they'll discharge you but if you have nowhere to go then they'll put you in a homeless shelter with a bunch of rules and stuff.
here's hoping this works.
>>34338420Might depend on where you live. Where I live you can stay up to 6 months but after 6 months they transfer you to the state hospital which is basically a more severe mental hospital with people who are extremely mentally ill who absolutely can't function in the outside world at all. Like I'm talking really stereotypical severe mentally ill people like schizophrenics who scream all the time non-stop for no reason, retards who play with and eat their own shit, others who have taken out their own eyes and permanently blinded themselves because they believe the government was using their eyes to spy on the world or some shit, etc. I've talked to acquaintances who have worked in those types of places before and they said that's what it's like.
How to know if the girl you are about to get married through church arrangements is a virgin or not? I am thinking of going towards arrange marriage, I am a Catholic so I gonna apply in a Catholic Church to find myself a suitable brideI want my wife to be virgin that does not cheat on me with another menAnd I don't care about her race or ancestry and shit, I just want a virgin wife, can anyone tell me how should I know or even if I ask the girl or not and how can I know if she's telling the truth or lying?
>>34336644Dude I just wanna live a good life with a good woman is that too much to ask for?
Hymen check gynecologist.
>>343378061. If she is a virgin she isn't going to want her first sexual experience to be some white coat poking and stretching her holes at her husband's orders. You're probably going to have to marry islamics for them not to see it as a violation or a deal breaker.2. If period blood is making its way out of her cunt there's going to be a hole.
>>34337777Are you actually an observant Catholic? I.e. Have you had your Confirmation? Do you go to Mass every Sunday (and that means EVERY Sunday) and on Holy Days of Obligation? Do you receive Communion only when in a state of grace, that is to say no mortal sin on your soul? Do you pray daily, especially the Rosary? Or were you just baptized and you go to Mass on Ash Wednesday and Easter sometimes, and now you're just looking for an easy way to live the "trad" life? From the way you whine and obsess I'm guessing the latter.>>34337782Just because she's a virgin doesn't mean she'll be good. Married women can and do have affairs all the time, even ones that were virgins at marriage.
>>34334252If you value virginity above everything convert to Islam. I am not kidding you.
