I've never had any sort of positive relationship with a non-family woman in my life, and it's really wearing down on me, because I still year for female company, even if only as a friend (I don't care that much about romance or sex, it would just be a bonus for me). The only thing approaching one was a girl who I thought was my friend when we were little kids, but she ended up betraying me, for unknown reasons. I know that I'm not a shitty person, because I don't really have any trouble making male friends and keeping them for a long time. Women, for some reason, just don't like me, and I wish I at least knew why. I think there must be something fundamentally broken about me that just repels them. I'm worried that, even if I found one willing to talk to me, I wouldn't even know what to do anyway, and she would just quickly get bored of me and go back to her other friends. It doesn't help either that I have pretty niche interests that most women don't care about. My only hope is probably to find a woman who is seriously weird and can get along with me. I know it's pretty much impossibly unlikely, and even then I'm worried that if I did, she would eventually just find a husband and no longer have any time to talk to me.
>>32629156"How do I get a gf" is the most common topic posted here. Search the 4plebs /adv/ archive for literally thousands of threads with discussion and advice on the topic.
>>32629277I'm not looking for a gf, though.
>>32629156>>32629279What the hell is your post about? We can't tell.
>>32629156Well at least you are able to socialize within male spaces. I would ask the guy you know with the most woman friends (not partners) what he thinks. Chances are if you’re here, have male friends, but no woman friends you probably are too openly misogynistic and it turns women off. If you dont buy that you can roll your eyes and listen to the incel or the rapist that end up responding to me instead
>>32629302I guess it's just ranting. Normally I just bottle up my feelings and distract myself to ignore them, but lately I've been very bored and it makes me have constant negative thoughts.>>32629305>Well at least you are able to socialize within male spaces.Kind of, but not really. I don't actually know how to make friends. I just get lucky sometimes and a guy happens to talk to me and like me. It's been like this since I was a kid. I never actually made a friend on purpose.>I would ask the guy you know with the most woman friends (not partners) what he thinks. I did, about a year and a half ago. I don't remember what he said, but whatever it was, it couldn't have been very helpful to me. I don't want to ask him again, firstly because I feel embarrassed about these things, and secondly because I don't like complaining to people about things they can't do anything about.>you probably are too openly misogynistic and it turns women off.I'm not even misogynistic, though. Ironically, the woman I've had the longest conversation with in the past decade was an actual misogynist and a tomboy. I thought we were getting along well, but then she just went offline on September 2023 and never came back again. I probably did something wrong, but I couldn't tell you why. It's really a shame, she gave me hope.
>>32629354>I don't remember what he said, but whatever it was, it couldn't have been very helpful to me. I don't want to ask him againWell he’s going to know better than us. I never socialized with you. But you say that you don’t really make friends. That’s probably why you dont have female friends, then. Learn how to make a friend first, then you can be picky about what kind afterwards. > I'm not even misogynistic, though. > woman I've had the longest conversation with in the past decade was an actual misogynistOk, do some reflection as to WHY out of all the women on Earth the only one to speak with you is openly misogynistic…
>>32629447>Learn how to make a friend first, then you can be picky about what kind afterwards.I actually agree with you, and I've genuinely tried doing it, and I'm open to doing it again. The problem is that whenever I try it, I end up failing and it just makes my self-esteem drops even more. It's quite a vicious circle. It doesn't feel like I'm actually learning much. I mean it when I say that I think I'm fundamentally broken.>Ok, do some reflection as to WHY out of all the women on Earth the only one to speak with you is openly misogynistic…Probably because she was a weirdo in the first place, and weirdos are statistically more likely to talk to and like me. I know you're implying that it's because of my misogyny, but as I said, I'm just not a misogynist. I certainly didn't express any hatred towards woman to her or to anyone else.
