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Girl that was my gf and I told to fuck off after defending her brother sexually abusing her one day and the next one considering to date him when he asked her to is messaging me to ask how I was after a week, I told her what did she want to tell me after what she did to me and left me on read,
what should I do
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block and move on
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Sometimes I wish these posts were GPT, because god dam can I not read this without having a stroke
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>>32617841
>because god dam can I not read this without having a stroke
why
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Incest?
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>>32618015
yes her actual brother
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>>32617822
Her brother? Like blood brother?
Get the fuck away ASAP. She's obviously a wreck if she's considering that.
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>>32618106
yes her actual brother >>32618038
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how do yall find these crazy bitches
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>>32617822
She’s a victim and needs help. You are already leaving her to get raped by her brother until she kills herself. I dont understand kicking her while she’s down
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>>32618712
I was explaining to her for days what was going on in the nicest way possible what to do and and blew up the last day when I explaining her how her brother is manipulating her and its not good for her to even consider dating himand she kept defending him and saying "how her brother is good because he has money and is tall and she can choose the man she wants"
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>>32618745
I really think that you tried your best. It is just unfortunate that she could not hear you. It will be normal to feel guilt, ‘i could try again’, but she needs to WANT help. This is why the abused stay with their abuser for so so long despite intervention.
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>>32618794
>I really think that you tried your best
Shouldn't say I was trying to kick her while she was down, last message I sent and she left on seen recently was that I was hurt because of what happened and I would like an explanation of things and why she messaged again. I dont also be totally vulnerable and crawl back in case she is actually malicious and wants to fuck me up with what she did
>but she needs to WANT help.
I dont know what to do to make her realize this, I dont want to give up on her at all but it's the best thing to do to not destroy myself completely for someone who doesnt care
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>>32617822

Come back when you can write coherently
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>>32620014
he is mindbroken
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>>32620171
ouch
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>>32617822
Commas. Use them.
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>>32617910
It's because (You) sound illiterate and developmentally stunted, the way the OP wrote this out it was almost as though they were in a rush, think texting on the road or something. Then lo and behold, this entire story after rereading two, or three times is a white trash BPD story. If this story isn't fictitious then it's pretty apparent what OP should do and that's burn the bridge, dodge town and look for red flags in women such as these ones in the future. She was apparently sexually abused by her brother, it's not specified when, but if I were to assume, this all happened in her childhood and so they're probably just trashy people. Everyone involved, parents, family, extended family, friends, etc. If they don't all grow detached in their 30s or 40s, they probably have some very unusual stories to tell and are quite overwhelming because of it. If the story is fabricated then she's BPD as fuck and saying eyebrow raising things to literally test his loyalty and it's not working.
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>>32621210
i think family members should be detatched by their late teens/early 20s seeing ops story
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>>32617822
was she from the midwest
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>>32617822
stay vigilant and keep her at arm's length, possibly just go no contact
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>>32617822
are you that schizo that posts about family members dating or something
take your meds
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>>32623659
no im not your boogeyman im literally asking for help
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>>32623725
your thread reads very similar to a thread that gest posted with some regularity here about a dude wanting to intervene in someone they know dating a family member
you just changed friend to gf so people don't tell you to mind your business
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>>32623778
NTA but if you are friends with anyone and they're fucking their family member you obviously should call them out you retard



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