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As a man there are literally 0 benefits to ever crying. So I'd like to know how to prevent this from ever happening
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>>32624483
theres zero drawbacks either, pussy
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>>32624492
With the exception of your mom and maybe your dad, crying in front of anyone just makes you seem like a massive pussy, and god forbid you ever cry in front of a woman you're interested in, her pussy will become as dry as the Sahara while she loses all attraction for you
Maybe you mean crying in private, but even then, if you get too used to crying then you're bound to do it in public
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>>32624501
no crying like a pussy makes you seem like a pussy, just stop pissing yourself when you stub your toe and youll be alright
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>>32624483
Become dead
I think crying isn't consciously controlled. Or at least I can't do it. Something hits my body's eyes with sand or capsaicin and it's BAWW ZONE.
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Not crying is for psychopathic men who rape boys.
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>>32624483
simple, just never encounter serious pain again
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>>32624524
Maybe my eyes start to water if I get something in them, but I don't start bawling. How do you define crying?
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>>32624501
i actually love seeing my bf cry it turns me on but i would never tell him that. i feel like a mother figure and i just want to tell him its all gonna be okay and hes a good boy
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>>32624483
>literally 0 benefits to ever crying.
ya there is retard how do you think you get hot pepper juice or sand out of your eye?
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>>32624504
Not really, even if you just keep a straight face and cry people will lose respect for you
>>32624524
>>32624762
Ok, I'll rephrase
How do I make sure I never cry from emotional distress or sadness?
>>32624621
Male hands wrote this post
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>>32624483
stop caring
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>>32624483
As someone who hasnt been able to cry in years GOD do I miss it. Being able to fully immerse yourself in your sadness is helpful for processing and moving past it.

Now that I can’t cry, it just lingers like an itch at the back of my throat. An itch I cant scratch. It sucks.
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>>32624483
lots of benefits to crying. Retard
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I did the worst thing you can do on a first date according to PUA logic. I cried for the frist time in years after getting drunk with her and talking about my dad. We sat on a bench and she just took my head on her lap and we stayed silent for 30 minutes. We're 7 months together now and yet she still defers to me on the most important decisions. Weird how that works
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>>32624483
>As a man there are literally 0 benefits to ever crying. So I'd like to know how to prevent this from ever happening

You got no idea what you’re talking about. I’m a man who struggles to cry at all. Had spent 10+ years without a drop, and even when my mom died I could only cry for a day. Then I became a stone again.

You do not want this. You think you do because you feel insecure as a man and you think becoming like the sociopaths you saw in your Gosling movies go be some ideal. No fucking idea why, maybe you’re doing it to appease vaginas in your autistic fantasies. But trust me, you crazy Pepe posting bastard, you do not want this problem of being unable to cry. My pain has no fucking outlet and I am drowning on the inside and I feel neither joy or sorrow, just irritable nothingness.

Stop being a faggot and just cry if you want.
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You don’t want this anon. I haven’t been able to cry at hardly anything in years. When I do it feels like I’m taking and I have to force it. I’m always worried people think I’m a psycho because I don’t cry at sad events. It’s not what you want
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>>32624854
I hope you know that those nights where she "came home late" she was getting pounded by BBC
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>>32624899
I hope you know that we all know you masturbate to BBC porn and you can’t help but talk about it, like vomit spilling from your mouth.
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>>32624899
What a hilariously weird response. Your mind immediatly goes to BBC porn when I share a moment of intimacy. You're lost bro
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>>32624868
I can relate as a non crier, having an outlet would be so good. But the thing is it was never my decision, I probably lost the ability to cry over the years. Did you decide yourself to become a stone? Fake till you make it kinda thing?
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>>32625204
>Did you decide yourself to become a stone? >Fake till you make it kinda thing?

No. I learned very early on in my childhood that tears can’t stop imminent and traumatic pain, no matter how hard you cry. I also learned that crying carried a punishment, usually in the form of abuse. I didn’t decide to become a stone, my mind became a stone to protect my sanity growing up. Now that I’m living better and I’m older and I’m away from Hell, I wish to regain my humanity. But I’m stuck as a stone it seems.
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Men crying over pathetic bullshit is my fetish. The way they humiliate themselves by being so fucking weak just gets to me.
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>>32624501
>crying in front of anyone just makes you seem like a massive pussy
You only believe this because you've tricked yourself into believing it. No rational person believes this. Please, get off the internet and go communicate with real people.
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>>32624483
why do you not want to cry? feeling real genuine emotion feels good, faggot
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>>32624899
Mind broken
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>>32624899
touch some grass



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