How do I introduce the idea of a one-sided open relationship to my partner, where only I get to experience sexual activities with others?
>>34550908BRVTAL mogging
>>34550908You should just surprise her with it.
>>34550908Every open relationship is one-sided. You already have someone in your aim you want to fuck, right? Co-worker? Old friend?
>>34551081Co-worker, yes.
>>34550908You're not going to be able to do it without ruining that relationship. You might as well cheat since you're already devoid of any virtue.
>>34551177Wtf, maybe he can be pivot from this and become better and grow as a person..?
>>34551959That never happens
>>34551959He's asking how he can manipulate his girlfriend into accepting him fucking other women. Not only that, but it will be a special privilege just for him.He's NOT pivoting, anon. Guys like this don't get better.
>>34551177>>34551959>>34552609To give more context: I grew up ultra religious and didnt get to explore my sexuality during college, and it burns me that she has a higher body count than me. I just want to get to her level. I could have already cheated on her, but I am morally opposed to cheating. It’s nigger-tier behavior.
>>34552819Depending on how devout you are, Christians already view thinking about it is halfway there or /as/ bad as cheating.If ur happy with her then thats what should matter.
>>34552819>"Gee whiz, how come my girlfriend got to have so much sex?">"No fair! I should get to fuck more people so we'll be even!">"Everyone else got to be promiscuous, why am I missing out!"Grow the fuck up. None of that shit matters.You already possess the spirit of a cheater. You want to reap the benefits of a relationship without fulfilling the accompanying duties. You want to shirk from your responsibility to be loyal and fuck whoever you want. The "permission" you seek from your partner is an absurd salve designed to soothe whatever guilt you might feel. You clearly want to fuck around. You aren't ready for a committed relationship. Leave and spare this girl from being with someone who cannot offer her fidelity. Go have flings and settle down when you're actually ready for it.
>>34551145>Co-worker, yes.Are you a woman or a man?
>>34550908By apologising and leaving her.
>>34551145Does she know you're trying to fuck her?
>>34553032>You already possess the spirit of a cheater.not to play defense for OP but he clearly is coming at this from a point of insecurity due to his religious background and inexperience. spirit of a cheater implies its malicious, I see it as immature instead.
>>34550908gonna be completely honest with you, leave her. unless she's a cuckqueen you are never going to have this not blow up the relationship. trust me I know the situation and I know how you feel, there is no winning. it being your coworker you want clearly shows that this isnt an experience thing and instead there is more going on here you may or may not even want to admit. leave her or wait for things to fizzle out, you aren't happy and as that unhappiness brews it will begin to infect your behavior until you leave or she gets fed up and leaves. either be communicative and risk things blowing up or get over things. there is no real winning here your brain is the problem, you may want to consider therapy if you want to save this relationship as your mindset is in need of saving.
As a fellow man, I am considering suicide myself
>>34554190Any anons with cuckqueen gf? Ngl the thought of being in a relationship with a broken toy isnt fun. Wheres the thrill?
>>34552819blablabla, cunt
>>34554190>gonna be completely honest with you, leave herEasy to say if you don't have kids and you're unmarried. Splitting up carries costs for a lot of men.
>>34550908>>34551145You'd be better off cheating and trying to apologize after. You're dumb as fuck.
>>34553032100% correct take>>34554183but anon that is the spirit of a cheatercheaters are almost never doing it with the goal of "i want to hurt my partner", they're doing it because "i just need to fulfil X need which my partner isn't doing for some reason, and instead of communicating it to them, i'm going to do it by having sex with another person"that need could be validation, it could be a satisfying sex life, it could be having things bought for them etc.OP has something in the vein of the need "to have fucked a lot of women" which is somewhat biologically rooted but also comes from insecurity and a need for validation. one partner can't realistically fulfil that so to get into a relationship with a non-polyamorous woman and then realise he has that need is somewhat shitty. it's just like a woman who knows she wants to fuck someone with a big dick and marries a guy with a small one, then asks for an open relationship. that said, if you're in OP's place and find you have that need, presenting your partner with it if it's big enough is more honest than hiding it. but asking for an open relationship to be one-sided is like having your cake and eating it too.
