Advice needed. I have developed a deep desire for my gf's mom, who is essentially my mother in law/my own mom at this point. I've known her for close to 3 years now, longer than I've known my gf. I have wanted her ever since I laid eyes on her. We are very good friends and there's definitely chemistry. She's always been very open with me and very touchy, but she is like that with most men. She does share things with me that she doesn't share with other people, deeply personal things and of course all of the things wrong with her marriage. She does not hesitate to hug me when we're alone, or when it's socially acceptable. She will rub my back at every opportunity, lean on my shoulder while we have our arms around each other. Things like that. I have yet to really make a move but I get the impression she wants to push away, and doesn't want it to happen ultimately. But really I do not know, I am having a hard time reading her. When something goes wrong in her life, more often than not I am the one holding her while she cries and tells me everything that's wrong. Emotional support that she never gets from anyone else in her life, especially her husband.
I get the feeling that sometimes she knowingly teases me. Wears the tightest jeans she can, and occasionally glances over to see if I'm looking. There have been many instances where she is bent over in front of me working on something while we carry a deeply personal conversation, for over a half hour. She has to know I was staring the whole time, right? I know she has caught me multiple times. I have caught her eying my bulge as well. There will be times where we will sit face to face and talk, and I will accentuate my obvious dick print as it sags against my dolphin shorts, and we will sit and talk for hours while taking turns staring at each others body as the other looks away, pretending neither of us notice each others gaze. There's been times where we will hug each other for a few minutes and talk, and I've definitely walked away with half of a boner. There's no way she has never noticed that, right?iMe and my gf live on her property in a different house. I do work for her mom as necessary on the property in leue of rentHere is where it gets more complicated. My gf of two years, the love of my life, has a very low sex drive. We have sex maybe once or twice a month. She is more than happy to take care of me beyond that though, even up to several times a day. My gf is more than okay with my seeing other women to satisfy any urges I may have. She knows it won't affect our relationship. Her mom also is aware of this dynamic, they have spoken about it. Her mom does not care that our relationship is like that and does not care about any potential optics on the family. She told me she doesn't judge me at all if I see other women on the side besides her daughter.
I desperately want to make a move on her mother. I am under the impression we are both capable of keeping a secret, as we have many other secrets already. I'm sure my gf would not mind ultimately, but she would probably rather it didn't happen. I know her husband and family life would definitely suffer if things got out. There are many potential parties that could witness something and throw a wrench in her marriage.The advice I am asking for is, is it possible her mother wants something more with me? We have a common need and could help each other out. We definitely have chemistry. It just seems like she either doesn't pick up on my hints or wants to avoid the situation. Is it entirely possibly I am reading into it to much and she has no desire for anything beyond friendship? Is it possible she is expecting me to make more of a move? Maybe she is just oblivious and nice, and I am reading into things too much? She has said multiple times that I am like a son to her. I am not sure. Any advice is appreciated and I am willing to share more details if needed.
>>34551291Make a move and report back with results.
stop being a bitch and do it. the fact that you are being a little bitch right now asking might mean it's already too late for you.
>>34551306>>34551307real. would it work? What's the worst that could happen? I feel like even if she said no she would be cool about it. But what if she isn't and my gf finds out?
OP is about to ruin his relationship thinking he's the main character in a doujin. L O L.
Go watch "The Graduate"
