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I'm single and depressed. Is there any point in pursuing a relationship? I feel like if I did I'd still be depressed and I would just drag someone else down with me.
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no there's no point. if you're a man in a relationship you're the leader. i.e. for a woman to even be interested in a relationship she's going to have to like where you're leading her and as a result how you make her feel. being a needy sadsack looking for a relationship to fill a perceived void in your life makes you the opposite of relationship material.

not trying to be harsh, that's just how it is. there's more to life than dating a woman. before you take care of someone else you should be taking care of yourself. figure out what other things may be bothering you and try to fix them. value yourself more. improve your social skills. these things will make you someone that others will naturally want to be around.
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ask yourself “does i need to have attention from another person?” that will be answer for your question
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>>34551386
>there's more to life than dating a woman
No there really isn't. Dating a woman isn't some grand ecstatic pinnacle of human experience but every other thing a man could occupy his life with is equally silly and not terribly meaningful. Life is fucking around until you die, then you die. Your advice amounts to "you need to build your shrigma funnel-shaped marketing empire and G E N E R A T E V A L U E before even looking at women brah" and I can easily point to a thousand slovenly deadend losers with even less coherent outlooks on life than mine who fuck like rabbits all week.
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>>34551647
>>34551647
You can try helping other people. The thankfulness coming back will cure your depression alone
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>>34551669
I might have a depressing-sounding worldview, but I'm not depressed. If I were I'd be making threads crying about no gf like OP
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>>34551647
>Your advice amounts to "you need to build your shrigma funnel-shaped marketing empire and G E N E R A T E V A L U E before even looking at women brah" and I can easily point to a thousand slovenly deadend losers with even less coherent outlooks on life than mine who fuck like rabbits all week.
devastating trvke, there's a lot of pieces of shit out there (and not the abusive kind) who have no problems dating mids or even good looking girls
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>>34551691
The abusive kinds are probably doing even better!
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OP is a closeted homosexual who makes this thread every day.
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>>34551647
they are far more put together than you, you whiny little bitch.
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>>34552575
Least assblasted romantic self-improoooover award
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>>34551647
Equating getting pussy to the greatest accomplishment in your life must be a terribly boring existence
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>>34552832
Illiterate nigger award
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>>34551365
No talk to a therapist and stop being depressed first, only then can a relationship be worth it



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