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Someone I thought was a friend disrespected me and Is avoiding responsibility for what he said to me the last time that I called him out on his bullshit.
The behaviours he does are:
>Project a personality onto me
>Try and press me to do things when I am clearly not feeling It
>Boot licking
>Treats me like some kind of weirdo

Mind you I decided to break It off when I came onto him and told him to sort things out on the spot and instead of aknowledging the friendship and me he Just scuffed It off and told me to go and drink with him.
HE DIDNT EVEN TRY AND OPEN A DISCUSSION
I had many Friends in my Life and understand people pretty well, I don't think I am overreacting when I Say that this guy Is some kind of retard.

He said that my getting angry at his massive disrespect towards me isn't friend like After I exploded with rage
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Yeah an asshole will say that you've disrespected them after getting mad about you not wanting to be disrespected. Just proves he's not really listening as you already noticed.

Today I think I'm going to have a serious talk with a girl friend of mine about disrespect. We've been best friends for 12 years but she completely ignores my girlfriend of 5 years. We hooked up once, both went on their respective ways relationship-wise and last year she confessed that all these years she's been thinking about me. Few months back, she said we can't be friends anymore now that she's single and wanting me. I was in the verge of breaking up with my gf for other reasons(she's depressed and I've been feeling neglected) and made the mistake of telling that to my friend, which went to tell out group of friends that proceeded to ship us and block my gf on every social media platform. Worst part is that I went to see this friend alone and we confessed to having feelings for eachother, but since I've not broken up nothing would happen. Told my gf all of this as she started to become suspicious, she forgave me but doesn't want to be friends with this girl anymore. And to be quite honest, I feel disrespected from her trying to invest in me while I was very fragile in this breaking up process, feel disrespected because my friends also ignored that I'm in a relationship and started shipping me and my friend, and feel like I've disrespected myself from allowing all of this to happen.
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>>34552333
checked. Just ghost him, no replies whatsoever. He'll take the hint and maybe even feel grateful. Problem solved
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>>34552333
You dodged a bullet. Find new friend
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>>34552333
You sound like a bitch OP You take things personally like a woman. If you don't like this guy just stop hanging out with him. If you don't want to break off the friendship then put up with his character.
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