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Are men attractive to women?
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>>34552522
I am.
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>>34552522
Yes :)
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>>34552522
No, take the yellow pill.
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>>34552847
WOT
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>>34552522
Sure, if they have 0.1% qualities and even then things can't change at any moment since women judge, feel and operate like quicksand, ever changing and never providing a stable foundation
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>>34552522
Short answer: No.
Long answer: About 5% of men are physically attractive to women.
Longer answer: Women value other characteristics men exhibit, especially money making ability, also humour etc, but they don't find these men physically attractive. Hence the "orgasm gap" and divorce rates.
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>>34552522
I see a handful of attractive men if I go out. But I only see one that makes me go "wow" like once a month. And just seeing a hot man isn't compelling enough for me to try and talk to him.
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>>34552522
Yes. How else do you think the legs open up?
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>>34553484
money
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>>34552522
A handful, sure
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Absolutely! It depends on our preferences, but we find them quite attractive and desirable; even their scent of the perfume is appealing.
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>>34552522
No. Don't trust what women say; their perception is invalid because they all date the same five guys.
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not in the smartphone era
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The default male body is not attractive. Only when you are skinny, muscular AND have good genetics, you are attractive to women. This even extends to smell. The sweat of athletic men smells nice to women in blind test for example.

So this implies this isn't just hypergamy, but something biological.
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>>34553150
a hole doesn't make you a woman retard
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>>34552522
No woman will ever love you anons, 90% of women out there do not love their man, they don't know how to love anyway; they only tolerate him as long as he provides.
Learn to be stoic and get by without their fake and subpar love therefore about 90% of women should be invisible to you. Rise up above your biological programming.
Take care of your health anons and find distractions to help pass the time, that's all most people do anyway, the difference is they do it with somebody so time spent together flows differently. It's merely an illusion though
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>>34555149
This line of thought pisses off women because you aren't under their control, and pisses of simps because you aren't subjecting yourself to the same shit they are and that makes them mad.
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>>34552522
Most of the time, no, because their libido is low.
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>>34552522
Plenty are. Just not me.
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>>34556969
lol, their libido is much higher than men, but they don't extend it to any men like men do, but they spend all their attention and desire on a very small subset of men that have the elite characteristics. You might think a high libido urges you to fuck anything, but that does not work that way for women, because they usually have access to the best of the best and all of them share and pass the same 0.9 % of the male population.
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>>34552522
Men deifnitely are - unfortunately, incels do not fall under that category.
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The only consistent male physical feature that is consistently correlated with reproductive fitness in humans is muscle mass. There are diminishing returns, of course, but it's a correlate. I lifted for two years. I am now engaged to a woman half my age after a string of awful, and blissfully happy about it.

Protip: once you do it, your body remembers. You only need to lift ~6 weeks to get 90% of your mass back from when you stopped.
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>>34557259
>after a string of awful,
How were you able to overcome your negative experiences. I feel so jaded about dating now bc of them which is why Ive checked out
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>>34557315
I haven't yet, completely. I took a year off of dating to reset my nervous system a bit, and worked on myself a lot.

She helps me. We both have trauma, but we discover what we need from each other as our relationship evolves.

It's ridiculously wholesome, but basically don't give up. It might take a very long time, but if you don't get caught up in an objective-oriented approach to dating, it can work.
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Yes, but only the ones I can't have and won't make me any good
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>>34557381
Fuck you.



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