And now more than ever I want my future wife to be a virgin. You guys said it would be the opposite, that I would stop caring, but the thought of another guy thrusting into my lifelong partner disturbs me even more after I experienced sex. But now I am considered a hypocrite because I followed the advice I received here and just did it even though I didn't have feelings for her. My closing thoughts is that some people are built like swans, which mate with one partner for life, while others are like rats, highly promiscuous and indiscriminate with what they mate with. You guys tried to turn a swan into a rat. Shame on you.To make this an actual advice thread, instead of just a blog: How will I explain this incident to my next gf who I will make sure is a virgin?
>>34553717I understand how you feel anon, a lot of people want to feel exclusivity and not be compared to in intimacy in both sexes. While you can't control how your next partner's going to react, it's still best that you be transparent to build trust. Some women would understand and some won't. Some won't judge you that much as you think it is.
>>34553717lower your standards a bit and you'll be fine, anon. Stop caring too much, women are not angels.
>>34553717Retarded degenerate, kys
>>34553717>people want to feel exclusivity and not be compared to in intimacy in both sexesI think sexual exclusivity, particularly concerning the past, is a more male thing.>>34553752Noted.>>34553754You guys literally told me to do this
You're caring about what other men on the internet think. Weak and pathetic. You're neither a swan nor rat. You're a boosted monkey >You guys literally told me to do thisWe're telling you to kys retard
If you're not planning on waiting until marriage you're just kicking the can down the road
>>34553717>How will I explain this incident to my next gf who I will make sure is a virgin?>"You see, i have non-stop fantasies about a bull ramming your cervix and taking you away from me. If you EVER had sex in ANY way, i will be overwhelmed by these fantasies and be forced to leave you. Also, you have to be ok with the fact that i had sex with a stranger once. It's ok because some retards on the internet told me to do it. You see, some people are like swans, and others are like- where are you going? come back!"
>>34554331lel
>>34553717You don't.
She will compare you to other men no matter what.
>>34553717Boobs. I like boobs. Need to find a woman soon whose boobs I can squeeze, etc. Hell yeah. I love boobs.