There's only one reason why I haven't hired one yet and it's that i'm going to feel like a loser if i hire one. Women are also going to judge me if I purchase an escort at all. That's probably true. But here's my issue: women are attracted to men that are confident and horny. Men can put on a show that they're not horndogs but ultimately this is the reason why we pursue. I don't know what's wrong with me but I've completely lost the desire to pursue women at all. I think it's because I've been rejected too many times. I've had women interested in me but it's clear they were not going to make any moves except giving me vague hints. I just can't be bothered to put in effort anymore because they always lead nowhere. I don't how sex feels so I don't have the drive to pursue that either. Women will say they dont care about you being a virgin, but they absolutely do. It manifests in your desire to pursue women (aka sex) and having confidence in ability to be desired by women (which you get by having girlfriends). Most women in USA are conditioned to be passive so they will never pursue me which is unfortunately the only way i will ever be "fixed"I think the only way I can break this curse is by hiring an GFE escort not just for sex but specifically to teach me ABOUT sex and how to pursue women. If I know how great sex feels I might actually be motivated to pursue women again. Women already expect me to be experienced anyway since I'm 26. They will be more turned off by me not having experience than me hiring an escort (which I can lie about until I fail my first actual relationship)
>>34554317You will feel luke a loser. Every man that has ever paid directly for sex is a loser and this is common knowledge. You should get an autism diagnosis with your money instead but I know you also won't do that either.
>>34554320I don't understand how a diagnosis in mental illness is going to help me. Even if I was ND like autism what would a diagnosis change? i might feel like a loser after sex but i still feel like a loser now. and women can probably sense that. it is a self-fulfilling prophecy.
>>34554320You couldn't be more wrong. Men who have gone to escorts are the successful types who could also get sex for "free".
I've read somewhere that the majority of mongers are married men actually. Bachelors like us still think there is someone out there for us so we hang on to that hope. Married men already found someone but they're either looking for something casual and just wana get away from their spouse and the stress they bring.I did it and I found it beneficial. I like the fact that I can access sex at any time, knowing that it took a lot of the desperation aura I had away from me which helped me actually be interested in women beyond sexual gratification. Second, it helped me get a little less nervous about getting in bed with someone. Alot of the time, these escorts take the lead especially if its obvious you're someone who's not really used to being with someone in that way. You learn a lot from the experience. Third, and this is because I actually booked these escorts for more than three hours, I got to know some of these escorts and some of them are genuinely good nice people who either been taken advantage of at some point or jaded losers like you and me. At some point, I began to believe that an escorts is the only type of woman I deserved but in time I wanted something more, and I knew I had to change to find because no one else was going to give to me. I guess my advice is to try it and see what happens. You're probably not going to have the same experience as me but keep an open mind when it comes to this stuff. Explore yourself in this new activity and get to know what is right for you.
>>34554543Did you ever get into a relationship? I've seriously tried giving women a chance but they always expect me to take the lead. I just don't have that experience so they lose interest. I did have one really aggressive girl interested in me but she eventually defaulted to non-verbal passive aggressiveness instead of communicating like an adult. It is frustrating
