This has been going on for years now.-Wends night, cums 4 times 2 clit 2 Vag-Tus night, cums 3 times, 3 clit-Fri night, cums 3 times 1 clit 2 VagThis entire fucking time she didnt make me cum once, she always reaches a point where she is "done and to tired", sometimes she will try to make an effort but its so obvious that she does not want to and just doing it for me, Huge turn off, even said so herself she only offers so I dont bring it up later.What the fuck do I do here? Is this normal? I wana smash my head against the pavement since I committed everything to this girl.
>>34556735LEAVEShe probably only does things "just enough" to turn you on so (You) will do stuff to her... Right?She won't improve and you're just wasting your time no matter what you do, so do yourself a favour and get out before you think of "providing" for this worthless cunt. I solved 4 RETARDED captchas to tell you this, your "GF" wouldn't even do ONE.
>>34556735Are you a lesbian? It's your job to make yourself cum
>>34556768Are you a communist? It's your job to make the dishwasher wash dishes!
>>34556768I want to but im afraid im to ugly to even get what I have. Fml fuck everything. Least If i was alone I could focous on my own life, But i dont wana be alone
>>34556735>sometimes she will try to make an effort but its so obvious that she does not want to and just doing it for meUnder what circumstances would making you cum *not* be just for you?
>>34556854Clearly you've never heard of the family court system, let alone how much women abuse the fuck out of it.
>>34556854Its after she is finished and she puts very low effort in.She gets sore cas im to big, She hates my cum, even precum so she hates blowjobs. It just ends in her being like you do it and she hates it the entire time.She is like a man when she cums.
>>34556866Also I have to act like I like it to boost her ego. I legit am the woman of this relationship. Yes btw my cawk may look small here but its legitimately huge. I hate my fucking life
>>34556735Leave. Leave. Leave.
>>34556819>But i dont wana be aloneThats your entire problem. She sknows, and she knows that means she has you by the balls.Point in case, I've been a Virgin for most of my life, and while now having sex or having a girl over for the weekend is nice, for the life of me I will never understand what is so bad about being alone. Especially so bad that you feel you need to put up with absolute bullshit.Get rid of that fucking attitude and learnt o enjoy your own company, get some male friends to hang out with as well. Otherwise you are destined for dogshit relationships.>>34556869Chill the fuck out a little bit, having a body like this requires a lifestyle that leaves little room to enjoy life, all to please women. It signals extreme neediness unelss you act like a chad, which you clearly aren't.Instead of gymceling, seek out a sports club , get into some kind of team sport or martial arts or whatever, something where you are around people and can either meet women or at least have company.
>>34556735stop jerking off to porn and lasting too long. this honestly seems like a skill issue on your part. why the fuck are you making her come 4 times and then expecting her to STILL take your dick? bro, ease the fucking death grip, quit porn, and come in a reasonable amount of time and you won't have this stupid self made problem. alternatively maybe you have circumcision issues making your penis less sensitive but if that's the case you are just fucked and will have this issue for the rest of your life whether or not you date this particular woman
>>34557198>why the fuck are you making her come 4 times and then expecting her to STILL take your dick?NTA but bitches can somehow expect you to both fuck as much as *they* want and still not give a shit about reciprocating to finish the job>Oh so I have to pound out orgasms for you then fuck another one out for myself afterwards only *after* you've tapped out and lost interest? That's fucking bullshit and I'd literally rather just jack off at that point. Like holy shit that's some fucking cuckold levels of monogamy right there.>As much pussy as you could ever want!!!But it NEVER fucks you backWorthless.>>34557068
>>34557222>Oh so I have to pound out orgasms for you then fuck another one out for myself afterwards only *after* you've tapped out and lost interest?>That's fucking bullshit and I'd literally rather just jack off at that point. Like holy shit that's some fucking cuckold levels of monogamy right there.This pretty much encapsulates my feelings on the matter.
>>34556774No but he's a cummunist, so watch your tongue.
>>34556743>I solved 4 RETARDED captchas to tell you this, your "GF" wouldn't even do ONE.where have you been all my life?
>>34556869You look like this and claim to have a big dick, and you're wasting your time with some woman who won't even give you a handjob? Nigga, just leave and find someone else.
>>34556869Brother how do you look like this and you're in a relationship where you aren't cumming inside a tight pussy 7 times a week minimum lmfaoYou could have another girl within a week. Just move on.
>>34560143Im op, u know whats fucking nutz, i didnt understand this comment in the first place and i always refer to myself as a woman in the relationship, but u thought i was a chick whining because i dont cum.Im a fucking male and this is my life.Btw am i chopped? My ugly face is another reason im fearful to leave my awful gf
>>34560380Black eye was from her btw, and also if leavw this girl and cant find anyone else to fill the void im.as good as dead. If i had a gun id be dead already
>>34556735while she's dazed from orgasming you're supposed to cum in her face
>>34560380I'd go clean shaven if I were you. I think you're good looking enough that you can have virtually any woman you want minus uberstacies as long as you have a good personality and are confident. I have a feeling your confidence is shot though. Please spend a year being irrationally kind to yourself. Make it your #1 goal to have the gentlest internal monologue you can and constantly audit, reframe, negate, etc self loathing thoughts.
>>34560380>>34560385Shave your face, let the hair grow to medium size. You'd look stunning, really. You have a nice face, nose, jaw, eyes. You're way above average. Just the black eye, the short hair and beard doesn't help much, but you're not bad looking at all.Gather proof of what she did, it's very possible that she will accuse you of rape and being a women beater after you break up. That happens a lot, more than people would think.
>>34560380Also, go to the gym, not to get roided, but to exercise your neck. A thicker neck will make you look even better, fr
>>34561321>>34561332I'm giving this guy literal looksmaxing advice, I should be paid, lol
>>34560380>>34561321>>34561332>>34561337Look, OP, I edited your face to make your neck thicker, remove the dark eye and eye bags, and of course, the facial hair. Not perfect because I used paint, but you can get a grasp of how much better you would look overall if you shave it, train your neck, take care of the eye bags. Just imagine yourself with long hair, it would be even better buddy. Hope you don't feel creeped out, lol.
>>34561373Idk depending on how his hair is it might make his hairline look worse if it tends to poof out
>>34556735Leave her ass. Don't worry about being alone. Chances are you'll find somebody else eventually, and even if you didn't, having no relationship is way better than having a bad one.I had a similar situation with a selfish gf. I got her off regularly and she had no interest in doing anything I wanted. Hated cum, hated putting effort in for me, complained I didn't get off fast enough the rare times she would do anything. She usually wanted to roll over and sleep after she was finished and leave it at that. It was nothing but take take take with her. Towards the end when I finally wised up and was ready to dump her, she even had the audacity to come to come loiter at my place of work literally asking "well I thought if I came by you'd take me to get some food."Just get out and don't look back. That sort of gf just drains your soul and probably your wallet, not your balls.
Posting because im female in a similar boat. My nearly ex husband has never made me cum once in 4 years, we have 2 kids. I wish that was my only grounds for divorce in itself but alas, not. Your gf is making you have low self esteem. You're an attractive man.I know this because having a partner that doesnt prioritize your fulfillment of the sex experience doesnt love you. It's like a form of control to keep you with them, because they're either too lazy, self absorbed, or EQ dumb to emphasize with you. I thought we didnt have sex a lot because I didnt initiate. I tried initiating but was too "cringe". Gave him a choice to try any kinky stuff, just vanilla lukewarm PIV. Did oral on me once, now that im remember I think he did make me cum then...but he refuses to do it (some idiotic article told him it gives you cancer- yeah if I have HPV which I dont...but you cant force the issue)I give him head.Im petite, average looking face, mother of his kids and he doesn't have interest in having sex with me because he doesnt love me. He is mean to me, calls me names, withholds affection for punishment. Im too emotional, ask for too much and he doesnt like being told what to do.Your gf sounds like she's using you. He says orgasm is my problem to solve. So anyway, all this is to say, there's nothing wrong with you. You will get over this lame lady and find a woman who actually cares about pleasing their partner.Unless this no cum deal is the only gripe, leave her. If it's the only problem you have with her, just have a conversation with her about sex. Pick her brain about what her beliefs about sex are, what is her opinion on trying different positions/activities that are not already on her no's list. Can she give you head with a flavored condom? EtcIf she shuts down the discussion, deflects, blames you, anything- you have your answer and leave her.
>>34556869Maybe its the beard
>>34560380Ya its the beard
>>34556735>What the fuck do I do here?spit in her face
>>34556866my gf is also this kinda masculine-sexuality woman (hot) if i'm eating her out she'll be done after one but it's funny to hold her legs/tie her up and force another few orgasms out of heri'm snipped and cumming inside her every time tho so it doesn't require a lot of effort from her, she's still a princess lolyour cock looks huge here what are you talking aboutanyway having a conversation might work if your gf is an empath and good communicator (unlikely if she's in masculine energy) - what i'd recommend is to first evaluate the entire relationship on a cost-benefit basis and make the conversation which she otherwise wouldn't take seriously about whether you're compatible and should continue the relationshipyou have to ask "what's her motivation here to do things she doesn't seem to naturally enjoy?"and "what do I get out of the relationship which would be hard to replace?""why am I in this relationship?"unlike the other anons, i validate the reason "I don't want to be alone" - it's legit and part of modern society's retarded culture of disposability and avoidance that people bury the idea that it's ok to prefer being in a relationship - HOWEVER - it's just a small weight in the cost-benefit analysis. if she and the relationship is not generally making you happy then you need to be critical here.and like other anons said with that body you can have a new gf very quickly. what other ways does your current gf add value to your life? mine gives me good fashion advice, pays for small things where she can even though she earns less than 1/5th what i earn, lets me cum in her v and mouth, cuddles 24/7 when we're together, encourages me to hit gym and balances me out in all sorts of ways (e.g. i overthink, she's an underthinker)>>34560380not chopped, but mid (like the vast majority of us) - also (depending on who you want to attract) you should work on your hairstyle, i think there's way better options. and train neck.
>>34561455>Idk depending on how his hair is it might make his hairline look worse if it tends to poof outI disagree. He can just take care of his hair. His hair is clearly straight. Short hair is gay.
>she always reaches a point where she is "done and to tired", Stagger the orgasms differently. I've done the same where I've had so intense orgasms there was no way I was going to keep going anymore. You can get her off after you've cum.
