I tend to rehearse a lot to myself and pre-think when I have to do more social things and such. For example, I have a date in like 3 days and I almost never get dates. I have been trying to not rehearse as much because I find it stresses me out very badly. I wish I could just be calm and collected but I feel strange and neurotic. Like it feels like most normal people don't do what I am doing to that extent. I also have trouble just trying to enjoy myself in these situations because my mind is so preoccupied just trying to survive it. So what I would like advice with is:1. How to better enjoy myself in these situations? I feel sick even thinking about my date coming up.2. How can I learn to not rehearse as much? I will make up all the questions I need to ask beforehand in cases like this and I get the feeling most people don't do this. 3. Is there actually something mentally wrong with me or am I just an autistic spastic?
>>34557309Plans cannot survive first contact with reality. You are always winging it, if you want to or not.
>>34557309Surplus enjoyment is the circling of desire in an attempt to guarantee an outcome. The more u attempt to guarantee an outcome the more neurotic it will become this is the start of obsession u need to accept that she doesn't make or break your identity or who you are and then do it anyways knowing you might fail
