Used to make threads every other week in my late teens because I was stuck in a loop of wanting to change for the better and wanting to remain a loser with nothing going for me and didn't know how to end it; each time I made a thread I'd have the temporary motivation to get better but nothing came of it. At almost twenty-two, I don't get the desire to be better at all. I used to actively want to make friends, have a boyfriend, go out and experience new things, but felt held back by my ineptness in many areas. I haven't wanted any of that in a long time, making friends/dating would take away from my free time and most people just irritate me, I have no goals outside of my reclusive hobbies and the only outtings I like are going to eat. I'm now in a position where I have money, I look decent and am far more confident but I still feel no inclination. I can't move on from my childhood, let alone move into the world outside of my bedroom. Part of me does still want to remain a loser and hopeless because it is such a strong part of my confidence, identity and it feels like a petty type of vengeance, but a lot of it is from pure disdain and apathy towards having a 'normal' lifestyle. Life is passing me by, I am seeing old peers from school progress and flourish as adults while I stay still. I don't really envy others anymore, but I do regret wasting these years. Has anyone else been in the same situation? What did you do? I do think some people are just pre-dispositioned for failure and can't help shooting themselves in the foot despite the many chances to change and I believe I am one of them so I wonder if there is any point thinking about it instead of just accepting the way I turned out.
Ok so to summarize this niggerbabble from this twin baby:>My life sucks and I feel like I'm rotting away sad uwu>Uh I'm predisposed for failure I guess, genes and shit>HAVE EITHER OF YOU BEEN IN THIS SAME SITUATION? WHAT DID U DO???
>>34558218Read these posts: >>34555394 >>34555927>>34555939It may help you, in some way, to understand what happens when you decide to give up on human interaction.
>>34558218>I am seeing old peers from school progress and flourish as adults while I stay still. I don't really envy others anymore, but I do regret wasting these years.The best time to start was ten years ago. The second best time is now.
>>34558225Yeah. >>34560214Thanks, I'll read through them.>>34560218But my issue is I don't want to start. I know I should but I feel nothing.
>>34561173>But my issue is I don't want to start. I know I should but I feel nothing.Then read what I marked. After you've done that, talk to me. Then maybe we can evaluate whether you should continue down the path you're heading toward or not...
>>34561173>But my issue is I don't want to start. I know I should but I feel nothingSo what's the point of making threads at all? You don't even want advice, you just want to whine, bitch and moan.
>>34561213She said that marking my comment, no need to be this salty, fren.
>>34561221If you can read through all that written vomit in the OP and still think the person who wrote it genuinely wants to change at all, then you must have a heart if gold sir
>>34561213>>34561244I'm asking how I can want to start because I know it's not normal to want some basic cornerstones of life like friendships or a relationship.
OP I think your problem is you haven't met the right person/people yet. If you have never met a single person who you have enjoyed spending time with in your life, you are probably going to end up alone and that's totally fine because it works for you. But if you can recall people who you felt genuine fun or connections with, you should either try to reconnect with them or keep them in mind when searching for new friends. And you have so many years ahead of you, so don't feel like it's "too late" in any respect
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>>34562656Why are you seething? I gave other advices as well. You are acting in an irrational manner. You should seek psychological treatment.
>>34562694Imagine being this triggered. You're not even OP. If you want to improve the board quality why don't you start by giving OP some advice?
>>34562733>I'm giving you adviceI did not ask you for any advice.
