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I know next to nothing about this woman, only maybe that I find her attractive.
Neither does she.

I have absolutely no reason to talk to her. Neither does she.

Like, hasn't anybody ever realised how stupid of a concept this is?
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>>34559608
i want to have sex with her
but socially i can't just do that
so i have to get to know her first
only one way to do it
is to talk
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>>34559608
"Finding a girl attractive and asking to get to know her is weird"

Thousands of generations of exactly that happening resulted in you being here, yet your bloodline dies with you because you're too much of a pussy to say hello to a pretty girl.
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A friend once told me that she finds people who do that to be awful and that I should never do it because it just makes girls uncomfortable
A couple weeks later she told me she was approached by this cute guy on the street and so she went out with him the next night

Never EVER let anyone tell you what is and isn't right or moral, because chances are they'd break their own rules simply for a pretty face. And be honest. If a pretty girl approached you, wouldn't you be interested? What do you have to lose?
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>>34559751
but I'm not cute
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>>34559608

Just be honest about it. You think she looks good. Tell her. Ask if she's interested in doing anything with you. Get a phone number. Do it in public but when she's also out of range of nearby nosey people. Eventually you'll at least get a number
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>>34559751
Your friend was talking about average to below average men, not above average men.
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>>34559608
Worked for me and I have autism
Didn't work for me once I got her home tho since I has autism although she was into it and I didn't get the hint
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>>34559726
this is a cope bro
99% of mankind’s history and both your and OPs bloodlines is just arranged marriages one on top of another
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i've been on /adv/ for 10 years
there's no point advising an OP like this
4chan is full of losers, and you don't want losers going outside or fixing their life
anyone here that's worthy of a good life will drive it themselves
let the rest rot themselves out of existence
/adv/ is purely for shitposting and giving bad advice
remember there are no rules against giving bad advice
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>>34560372
This is actually hit me hard.
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>>34560180
No, she said it like it was a principle, that people who do it are bad
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>>34560439
girls love badboys
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You're right, that's why the rate of success is ridiculously low. For the most part its just a desperation strategy for men who don't have the opportunity to meet women organically in their social circle or daily life. And to make it worst you're just an annoyance to most women when you do it.

Cold approach is just shit throwing and hoping it sticks, glamorized by people saying it takes balls.
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>>34560372
>Giving advices on a board meant for advices is stupid
Yeah ok retard.
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>>34559608
>Like, hasn't anybody ever realised how stupid of a concept this is?
Everyone else in the world realised this before you did.
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>>34559726
>say hello to a pretty girl.
Ok, then what Einstein? What is there to say besides expressing attraction?
>introduce yourself and ask for her name
>"I think you're beautiful and I'd like to get to know you more, are you free sometime soon?"
>ask for phone number
I can't think of anything else you could possibly say in that situation that's not slimy and weird.
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>>34561422
then maybe you shouldn't in that case. easier situation would be for you if you saw her having t-shirt with a picture of your favourite anime then you aproach her and say
>omg I love that anime too, let's get fucked
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>>34559608
DONT know what you mean
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>>34559751
Taking advice from women about abything is so dumb but speculation about relationship advice



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