I know next to nothing about this woman, only maybe that I find her attractive. Neither does she. I have absolutely no reason to talk to her. Neither does she.Like, hasn't anybody ever realised how stupid of a concept this is?
>>34559608i want to have sex with herbut socially i can't just do thatso i have to get to know her firstonly one way to do itis to talk
>>34559608"Finding a girl attractive and asking to get to know her is weird"Thousands of generations of exactly that happening resulted in you being here, yet your bloodline dies with you because you're too much of a pussy to say hello to a pretty girl.
A friend once told me that she finds people who do that to be awful and that I should never do it because it just makes girls uncomfortableA couple weeks later she told me she was approached by this cute guy on the street and so she went out with him the next nightNever EVER let anyone tell you what is and isn't right or moral, because chances are they'd break their own rules simply for a pretty face. And be honest. If a pretty girl approached you, wouldn't you be interested? What do you have to lose?
>>34559751but I'm not cute
>>34559608Just be honest about it. You think she looks good. Tell her. Ask if she's interested in doing anything with you. Get a phone number. Do it in public but when she's also out of range of nearby nosey people. Eventually you'll at least get a number
>>34559751Your friend was talking about average to below average men, not above average men.
>>34559608Worked for me and I have autismDidn't work for me once I got her home tho since I has autism although she was into it and I didn't get the hint
>>34559726this is a cope bro99% of mankind’s history and both your and OPs bloodlines is just arranged marriages one on top of another
i've been on /adv/ for 10 yearsthere's no point advising an OP like this4chan is full of losers, and you don't want losers going outside or fixing their lifeanyone here that's worthy of a good life will drive it themselveslet the rest rot themselves out of existence/adv/ is purely for shitposting and giving bad adviceremember there are no rules against giving bad advice
>>34560372This is actually hit me hard.
>>34560180No, she said it like it was a principle, that people who do it are bad
>>34560439girls love badboys
You're right, that's why the rate of success is ridiculously low. For the most part its just a desperation strategy for men who don't have the opportunity to meet women organically in their social circle or daily life. And to make it worst you're just an annoyance to most women when you do it. Cold approach is just shit throwing and hoping it sticks, glamorized by people saying it takes balls.
>>34560372>Giving advices on a board meant for advices is stupidYeah ok retard.
>>34559608>Like, hasn't anybody ever realised how stupid of a concept this is?Everyone else in the world realised this before you did.
>>34559726>say hello to a pretty girl.Ok, then what Einstein? What is there to say besides expressing attraction?>introduce yourself and ask for her name>"I think you're beautiful and I'd like to get to know you more, are you free sometime soon?">ask for phone numberI can't think of anything else you could possibly say in that situation that's not slimy and weird.
>>34561422then maybe you shouldn't in that case. easier situation would be for you if you saw her having t-shirt with a picture of your favourite anime then you aproach her and say>omg I love that anime too, let's get fucked
>>34559608DONT know what you mean
>>34559751Taking advice from women about abything is so dumb but speculation about relationship advice