We met on tinder, we had our second date a few days ago and yesterday she told me that she thought about what I told her of me looking for something serious and she told me she isn't, which is fine. I told her if she still wanted to hang out as friends and she told me we didn't have the connection she was hoping to have with me and prefers to stop talking to me.Which is all fine but it's confusing because she did tell me she felt frustrated because I was really nice and dadada but she wasn't looking for anything serious but why wouldn't she just be okay with being friends then?
>>34559614girls find guys who want things as disgustingshe was disgusted with you
>>34559614She just wants to fuck and didn't want you catching feelings.You wanted something serious, she's not ready for that; in order to remain "friends" she'd be asking you to compromise your morals.
>>34559614She didn't reject you; she rejected the kind of relationship you offered her
>>34559614she doesn't want a friend, specially with someone that wanted to have a serious relationship with her. She just wants to get fucked.
>>34559614Nigger she's doing you a favor. This is literally the second best thing she could've done in this situation for you, right below liking you back. You could not have a better outcome when being rejected. Move on
>>34559614>why wouldn't she just be okay with being friends then?Because you're a clingy bitch
>>34559614You tried to friend zone her, that's only for male simps and fags.
>>34560255How is she doing me a favor? I'm not arguing against it I just fail to see it
>>34560268>clingythis is probably the case, women are still getting used to men being emotionaly literate, society pretends that weve moved on from traditional masculine aura but the remnants is for the most part still there, if she even detects a hint of desperation, they easily get triggered and dissapear, they want to feel like they need you, not the other way around, its a very tricky balancing act the modern dating market, you have to come off as so many things as once, trying times, but she also proabbly just went in it for what she wanted a quick hook up, it doesnt really seem like a true rejection, anyway, hard to tell from second hand reporting
