Women are all about remembering shit and paying attention to whatever they say. This might work for some time but the longer it goes on it could be proven difficult. With ADHD it's hard for me to stay focused or remember everything and then get blamed for it.
>>34560119wish time machine would exist so I could throw every single one of you faggots with advice of "get over it" back to the 1950s so you could thrive in there. fuck off
>>34560145If I could I would, trust me buddy
>>34560113>then get blamed for it.My advice, which you won't follow, is to date someone who isn't an asshole and actually loves you
>>34560212Yeah well that's kind of hard since first year of a relationship can feel like heaven and then there's that point where you notice you don't talk as much but for example in your free time you both are on your phone and once you try getting her attention then she goes back to her phone after few minutes.There's so many factors to a relationship that it's really hard to maintain>being trapped believing you are actually loved>having a good first year which is enough to build deep attachment>spending less time, more fights and trying to make things right because you care>breaking up and having to go through it once again
>>34560113No. You known this already. Move onto another topic already or just master bait all day on adderall
just write down the important things idiot
>>34560222>in your free time you both are on your phoneSucks to be you.
>>34560222So, I'll let you in on a secret : relationships aren't a sprint, they are a long distance marathon. The secret to a long term relationship is endurance. Can you put up with the other person at their worst? Can that person put up with you at your worst? Can you both put up with each other while at your worst? This is what people mean by "commitment."What you are describing is the honeymoon followed by drifting apart. You need to address that explicitly with her, as in "hey, we are drifting apart. I don't want us to do that. Do you want us to do that?"It also helps if you both set up situations where you are together, not just on your phones together.
>>34560113I'll be your wingman in exchange for your adhd pills
>>34560430I take none. They don't "cure" you, there is no easy way out of ADHD, you either adapt or numb yourself with fucking pills all the time.
>>34560434ok then no help for you, no easy way out of being single
your soulmate as an adhd moid is an autistic foid. they tolerate that better than anyone as they don't always recognize when they are being mistreated
>>34560113Don't lean too much on ADHD, that's not only just pathetic, but self-defeatingYou won't get pity points for having a neurological disorder, if anything, you're just playing a "retard card" to excuse your shitty behaviorGet a professional evaluation from a medical profession and discuss treatment plan. Or stop being a cunt
>>34561946>stop being a cuntGreat advice for those with personality disorders but it doesn't work with ADHD because they lack insight
dating adhd men is incredibly traumatic for the majority of women yes. there are literal support groups out there for adhd bf survivors like there are for bpd/npd abuse survivors lol
go on r/adhd_partners. the top response to every post is "if you're not married, leave now. it doesn't get better"
>>34560113>am I even fit to have a girlfriend if I have ADHDNo
no
>>34560113Holy shit yes you can get a gf and you do deserve love even if you have ADHD. It's hard loving people like you it really is but if you fucking try it's appreciated.
No, never
>>34562330What the fuckkk women cant handle anything kek
When a guy has ADHD it completely negates the point of being with someone at all. If you can't remember small things about them or be thoughtful I wonder what's even the point for you? What do you think a relationship is?
men with adhd do not feel love
