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How do you guys deal with dreaming about girls from the past?
Theres only been one girl I remotely had a chance with, we went to prom together, but it never went further than that. I was obsessed with her for years, basically stalking her social media's back when she was active on em. She got married a few years ago and that finally gave me the push to forget about her.
Dreaming about her used to really fuck me up, and I still dream about her every few months, but I can usually forget it quickly. But last night I had a super vivid dream where she got divorced and sought me out and we started dating, and I can't get her out of my head again.
How do you guys deal with dreams about girls from the past?
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>>34560757
>How do you guys deal with dreaming about girls from the past?
You fuck ten women who are more attractive than she was. (If you aren't in a position to do this, then *that* is your problem, not your ex).
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I have a better girl. You already peaked at the end of hs?
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>>34560806
HS was the last time I had human interaction. I stayed inside during college
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>>34560815
Do you accept you peaked then or are you going out there again and get a better one?
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>>34560757
>we went to prom together, but it never went further than that.
easy, i don't dream or obsess over girls that didn't fuck me. eat shit if you think you're too good for me. have some self respect
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>>34560757
Perhaps you're blinded by nostalgia and maybe this person isn't the right one for you.
I've been there. And upon reflection, that high school sweetheart was definitely someone who would've given me so many headaches

I'd say find a reasoning why it didn't happen, preferably one that doesn't place this person on a pedestal
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>>34560757
Larp projecting is really quite pathetic bud
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>>34560757
Cast her in your masturbation fantasies. It's much better than relying on porn
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>>34563003
I've jerked off to her a ton in the past and it definitely wasn't healthy. I've stopped in the past 2 years and it's been better for me trying to forget her.
>>34562506
Wtf is even that
>>34561924
I know it wouldn't work out, but I can't control what I dream about
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Do you continue to think about her after jerking off? If not, why not just rub one out and get on with your day?
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>>34564888
I don't but it increases the chance I'll dream about her again soon.
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>>34560757
I still masturbate to her from early highschool. She was so perfect. Now she’s fat and married so even if she ever gives me a chance now it’s ruined forever :( so I only think about her from highschool when her body was perfect.
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>>34565185
I was hoping that would happen to this girl. She was still better looking back then, but she was still pretty fit when she got married. Idk if that's any better or worse.



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