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where can I find a CHUD-like bf? I want a weird, offbeat intellectually obsessive, autism-adjacent guy who is passionate about his values and views. do they use dating apps or is it pointless to try finding them on apps? I don't think I'd bother with their usual online habitats, for obvious reasons.
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Date an ugly guy for higher chances of a chud. Chuds dont have time for self improvement neither
>t.chud
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>>34560969
What's wrong with normies? Why would you want a chud boyfriend when there are so many desperate men on apps, begging for foid attention?
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>>34560969
i'm—right here.
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>>34560969
LARP thread, but
> do they use dating apps or is it pointless to try finding them on apps?
I am viscerally disgusted by apps. They're dehumanizing meat markets, and they select for the superficial, narcissistic, and/or desperate.
I don't think it's hard to find someone not only autistic but self-centered using apps. But whether that's worthwhile is debatable.
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>>34560996
they're intellectually stale, have boring personalities and they don't like me either anyway once they get a glimpse of who I am.
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>>34560969
go over to /lit/
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>>34561021
apps are nasty but I thought I'd give it a try cause I haven't found someone yet and there's just a big quantity of people using them. even my exes I found on forums are just socially awkward normies. idk anymore.
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>>34561049
>socially awkward normies
that sounds like an oxymoron
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>>34561043
half of /lit/'s userbase is one person samefagging about hinduism.

>>34561054
not really, they're socially awkward and self conscious because they were raised by shitty parents, not because they're weird.
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>>34561070
>half of /lit/'s userbase is one person samefagging about hinduism.
that was guenonfag and he's been awol for a while. but if anything he was exactly who you are looking for. prince of the chuds if you will.
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>>34561070
>they're weird because they were raised by shitty parents, not because they're weird.

do you see how retarded you sound?
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>>34561081
well, you're right about that.

>>34561083
no, because it's how they superficially come off, not who they are.
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>>34561096
then what makes someone not superficially wierd then?
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>>34560969
join a philosophy book club. but prepare to be surrounded by thirsty dudes that all want you. obviously you will be the center of all the drama, but it gives you options.

or you could just text me.
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>>34561100
being a strange person, in the sense I'm looking for means having strong views and being oddly, maybe irrationally passionate and autistic about things that seem futile or causes that seem hopeless. these traits don't get enough appreciation. everybody likes playing the role of a rebel but only once it's all history, never in the present.
anyway I suppose someone who believes there are tiny aliens living in their left nostril and starting colonies that spread through boogers would be strange too.
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>>34560969
There was a "weird friendship" thread on >>>/lit/ a few days ago, but it just dropped off the board.
Still alive is an "email friendship" thread. >>>/lit/34892385
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>>34561127
>being a strange person, in the sense I'm looking for means having strong views and being oddly, maybe irrationally passionate and autistic about things that seem futile or causes that seem hopeless.
oh that's esoterik kantanon on /lit/
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>>34561130
Whoops, I'm a retard--/soc/, not /lit/. >>>/soc/34892385
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>>34561106
dunno if there are any in my area, worth a try I suppose, but the local library is always filled with elderly people.
if I were an American I think I would message you or one of the anons here, huh...
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>>34561149
or better yet start your own. leave posters for people interested with time and place. build it and they will come.
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>>34561160
a bit unrealistic, could make sense in a more sane reality. I'll look for existing ones...
sometimes I just want to join a cult or something.
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>>>/soc/
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>>34560969
outside an abortion clinic trying to save lives
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They're the type of people who make sarcastic snide comments while wearing emo clothes. They're a dime a dozen more so than you think.
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>>34560969
Chess club
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>>34561498
that's for finding a male BPDemon and having a long distance pretend relationship on discord with him
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>>34560969
follow me on twitter
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In the kinds of university courses that don't lead to work and aren't popular with girls
t. offbeat weirdo passionate about values no one else seems to share who sees alot of others like that
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>>34562394
jokes on you I'm moving my (F) bpdemon to me! and we've only known each other for one month! we are getting married! :D
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>>34562864
good idea, uni cucks my age mostly took the vax to attend uni >:( but maybe I'll find one that didn't if I'm lucky, I'd have to be lucky regardless... man I live in a warzone too, almost forgot about that, I need someone who won't get drafted either. fuck this shit I need divine intervention, maybe I should save up and travel instead, although ww3 is right around the corner. wtf is this world... whatever, I'll just try a bunch of different strategies and pray it works.

>>34562912
sounds unhealthy, but good luck and best wishes.
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>>34563013
You're in the east, huh. I thought they were infamous for fostering those types you're looking for
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>>34560969
>where can I find a CHUD-like bf?
Here, here, I'm here.
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>>34560969
>do they use dating apps or is it pointless to try finding them on apps?
They don't use them, most Chuds don't even have social media.
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>>34563027
kek. no, it's more akin to collective BPD.
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>>34561049
>exes
whore
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>>34560969
I was on OKCupid for a bit. The site sucks now though.
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>>34563440
I opened a test profile with no name a few days ago and put some random nature photo and got disgusted by this shit. they spam you with too many matches for the first 10 minutes and then spam you with ads to buy premium. but maybe I'll give it a try if non-match group apps don't have enough users here.
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>>34563440
>sign up for okc as a white guy
>100 matches in 1 day
>oh wow, I guess I'll buy the paid to see who likes me!
>its all 3rd world women despite having radius set to like 50 miles
epic, very epic
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>>34561127
haha, that's me, but im a girl. Want an online gf? Platonically. I am way too passionate abt future current life endeavors and i am weird bc my parenes misteated me but also bc i was born that way. Intellectually obsessive and autism adjacent is actually me, i am insufferably trying to find the meaning of life and determined to heal my disability and all disabilities and create a spiritual revolution on earth, or whatever works. Yeah im really annoying. Also lol i could totally start believing theres alien colonies in my boogers lol, catch me on a bad day and i might tell u smth like that. If i only talk abt my theories when im in a good mood, ppl find it endearing. Otherwise its really very offputting
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>>34564790
actually yes, I'd be down for that. can we be online friends/penpals?
I'm afraid I'd develop feelings for a man like this in my current mental state and get depressed if it couldn't become real but you're a woman. were you being genuine?



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