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Matched with a guy on FB Dating. We’re both older. He looks good for his age, which is rare enough on these apps that I swiped.

Everything was going fine until we swapped numbers and got on the phone. His voice was pretty feminine, which caught me off guard. I don’t care if a guy is feminine or bi, but it didn’t match the straight-guy persona he tried to give me. So I casually asked if he’s bi. He denied it hard and got super defensive.

Something still felt off, so I looked up his actual Facebook profile. First unusual thing: there is no Add Friend button on his page. Not proof of anything, since people can change that setting, but still it made me look closer.

I started going through his public photos. Mixed in with normal friends/family comments, there was a lot of back-and-forth flirting with men and him openly giving his number out to dudes. There are at least three guys asking why he suddenly vanished out of their lives after he apparently had some kind of thing with them, and one woman straight up commented saying he’s ‘a lying sack of shit and does this all the time.’

I haven’t confronted him yet because if he’s doing this to multiple people, warning him seems dumb. Meanwhile, we’ve only been talking for a few days and this guy is already telling me he loves me. It’s obviously fake especially when his public photo comments show people asking why he vanished on them.

Cropped screenshot attached. I'm not posting his info here because I enjoy not being banned, but I have the uncropped versions plus several more screenshots.

What’s the least stupid move here? Report him? Ghost? Tell the other people in his comments?

Pic related obviously.

I’m not catching a janny ban for posting a link:
aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cuZmFjZWJvb2suY29tL3NoYXJlLzFKSlNIeXJ4SEcvP21pYmV4dGlkPXd3WElmcg==figure it out.

I’m going to bed, I’ll check this thread in the morning if it hasn’t been deleted.
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bisexuality is very common among men but if you dont like that its ok to not date him, are you just looking for sex or marriage?



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