>be me>be 2 months into a new job>talking with new supervisor about God knows what (damned memory)>asks me if I have a gf>tell her ive never had one in my 20 years of life>asks me if im a virgin>confirm that I am>asks me if ive ever even had a kiss>tell her I had a peck in 6th grade and thats the most ive ever done>shes taken a back at all this information>after some talking about my extreme virginity, she then confides in me that she is a nymphomaniac (i promised not to tell anyone so plz dont tell her)>i asked her if shes a diagnosed nymphomaniac>she tells me shes not because a psychiatrist needs to do that, but her therapist believes she is. and she agrees. >now im the one left speechless>after some digging and her reteling about some of her experiences and kinks with past partners I have reason to belive her>go back to work trying to act normalThis whole scenario posed a question in my mind. What the hell did she mean by that? Did she tell me this information as some sort of courting? Is she asking me if I'd be willing to mate? Or is she just telling me all of this in the same way you tell a close friend what you've been diagnosed with? Because we did seem to trust each other quite early on I feel like, and we have a good relationship, I've told her some of my troubles. So if her intentions were just to open up to me, our relationship is definitely eligible for that. She's an attractive woman, so I definitely would be obliged to having a relationship with those sorts of "perks". But over my many stints of over thinking another question has arisen. Is it a good idea to lose my virginity to a nymphomaniac? What if she sets the bar too high? And alters my perception of relationships and sex, to no fault of her own of course. Of course, I might be overthinking and that won't happen and in 10 years time she'll just be a wild girl I had a fling with. Sorry for the bible. Please let me know what you think and what you think I should do.
Also I believe it is worth mentioning that tomorrow I'll be heading to a reunion with some mates from work and she'll be in attendance.
>>34561617I think she started off flirting (probably wanted to know if you were available to bone b/c she's a nympho), then was genuinely surprised to find out you were a virgin, then felt that sharing that secret had you trustworthy enough to confide in you about her nymphomania.I'd advise you to stay friends. You shouldn't be getting sexually or romantically involved with a nymphomaniac
Its very 50/50 but she may have just been trying to confide back in you as a show of trust for your honesty, because virginity is looked down on like being a nympho is. She may also just be wanting to connect with another human being who has an atypical view of sex (she may not have many opportunities for that)
>>34561742Shouldn't is a strong word. Like...not at all? Maybe it's the lust speaking but, why?
>>34562078Interesting point. I hadn't thought about that. That could be it. She joked about opening a tinder profile for me, so maybe sleeping with me isn't in her future plans. :(
>>34561617That kind of conversation from a supervisor constitutes sexual harassment. Sue.
>>34562124Nymphos are usually unable to form long term relationships. If you are okay with anything but casual sex, it make things awkward at work. I think that this situation is something that you'll find hard to navigate as a virgin without getting your heart broken and making the workplace weird
