so i played videogames, texted and even had """"esex"""" with this one girl and then we went on a date and she was a lot different than in her pics. her face was specially different and she was fatter, i ended up kissing her and holded hands for a while because i didn't want to make her feel ugly or something. how do i tell her this without feeling like an asshole? my mom and girl friends told me she won't care because women have multiple options available all the time. also i felt like she was too childish, she got mad at random shit, acted like those "angry tsundere girl" animes and didn't know how to kiss properly, she had only one boyfriend before me (she's 22 and i'm 25)
>>34563357Tell her you "didn't feel the spark" and that you don't think you should see each other again
Do the classic "its not you its me"
>>34563357>how do i tell a girl i don't want to talk or see her anymoreYou tell her as you are thinking it and anything different from that will leave you feeling dishonest. You can soften the blow by saying how you don't feel compatible to her at all, and can't see that feeling changing in the future so it's best if you both go your ways instead of wasting time.>without feeling like a monster?Not possible if you're a decent person. You will feel bad as you're doing it but will feel much better after getting it done and freeing yourself from this situation. If that's still not enough, gaslight yourself into believing that you're doing this for her, as she deserves someone that actually wants her.
