How do you get good at having conversations? I don't know how to talk to people at all, I have nothing to say all the time and I'm rather sure everyone finds me creepy
Talk about whatever that's appropriate
>>34564980Sounds counter intuitive, but spend more time by your self doing nothing with no distractions. Maybe do something mindless like walking or chores. Your brain will naturally pull things outta thin air to think about, you'll get new ideas and figure out your opinions on things. This translates to better conversation skills.
>>34564980I had no clue how to talk to people. Read this book and practiced. Changed my life.
>>34565012I'm always alone by myself>>34565013Link to free ebook?
>>34565015But do you ever make yourself sit there with just your thoughts? Can't have a conversation with someone else if you can't even have one with yourself
>>34565021Of course I do
>>34565015Invest in ur future bro
>>34565045Nevermind I just asked Gpt to summary the book but for the most is just normalfag advices
>>34565049That is the answer bro, its just application of normalfag advice in daily life. Social skills aren't really learnt through reading. Its through practicing what you read. Theres not some "secret jutsu" that will make you good at socializing... its putting your neck on the fucking guillotine and cold approaching real people in real life. Good luck.
>>34565058Not that I don't spend time with normalfags but whatever
>>34565049>>34565045Just google the book but put pdf at the end of it
>>34565067That's what I did
>>34565063Do the normalfags you spend time with have good conversational skills... what do you think?
>>34565071They talk that's for sure, I just stare and say nothing
>>34565075Okay, so you don't talk to ur friends at all...? Just kind of sit there.... Maybe what you need isn't social skills, but motivation. >Disconnect from all media and sit in a quiet corner irl >Ask yourself- whats the worst possible reality I could be in 5 years from now if I don't develop good social skills?>Imagine the most absurd extreme, the worst possible happening. No sex, no relationship, no friends. >The more painful the visual the stronger it works as a fulcrum>Visualize dying elderly in a hospital with no friends, no family, no one who knows or cares about. Staring at the wall at the age of 81 dying of brain cancer in a quiet dark room... no one around you.... no one to talk to... dont even know how to talk to the nurse...>How would that feel? >Imagine and visualize as intensely as possible. Do you want to feel horror and loneliness at the hour of death?
>>34565168I do not have friends, also I'm khhv, I can try your little exercise though later
>>34564980Focus on discussing topics that genuinely interest the person you want to connect with.
>>34564980100 year old vaudeville joke:Tourist in New York, to passer-by: "How do I get to Carnegie Hall?"New Yorker: "Practice."
look into jaunty.orgit's literally a gym for socializing
