>>34565113
>Chat should I do this mundane thing that takes 4 seconds to do on my phone or should I write a whole ass thread about it instead?
Chud

>>34565153
Also to add to this, I'm in eu, I think American dating is easier. Rains l reasons:
1) you have blacks - they fish at the bottom of the barrel
2) you have land whales - being overweight is defined differently over there and I would be seen as perfectly normal
3) you all speak the same common language - this is HUGE.

Here (Netherlands) everyone's sporty and unless you look exceptionally healthy, I'm talking you wear a tank top and look impressive, and have impeccable social skills and texting game, then nothing will happen for you chud. The girls here don't lack choice of hot men and they choose the cream of the crop.

>>34565153
>mundane
I dont wanna give and verify my face to some tinder jews just to find out its all bots and scam

>>34565113
I'll feed the op, Berlin gastarbeiter here

Hooked up with 10s of girls on tinder, bunble is for virgins, autists and cucks, okcupid is for people not fit for bumble, never used hinge. Feeld the kinky app is good if you're in a couple and you want to organise an FFM/swap, for a single man - I'm not sure you'll do well

It's not and never was "easy", you'll have weeks of swiping without matches, you'll have flakes, people ghosting you and so on.
>>34565153
Tldr this thread

>>34565239
Thanks, finally an answer. This retarded board has become more useless than reddit. Its like they migrated here.

>>34565267
you could've googled this. also your results ma vary
You waited 3hrs for an answer you could've figured out in that amount of time.

>>34565113
If you don't have success in clubs where the bar for success is significantly lower you won't have success online

>>34565280
No I couldnt have googled this, retard, what are you talking about. Why are you on this board if all you have to say is "you couldve asked ai for this"? As I said, redditor migrant.
>>34565292
Another imbecile. I said I dont have time or patience to go out and socialize, not that i dont have success there.

Am I the only sentient person here? Everybody on this site is so irreparably retarded and lacks reading comprehension.

Actually that guy has a point, I shouldn't have bothered to ask here because everybody is so damn braindead including him.

>>34565377
The time cost/benefit is significantly worse with dating apps compared to meeting in person unless you're like the top 1% of men (which youre not), if you had an iq of over 80 you'd instantly understand that and not bother with dating apps.

>I think this is relevant info but I'm 190cm/6'3 feet tall and decently toned so having that would put me in some advantage.

You come across as autistic and airheaded dating app whores pick up on this easily, while effortless skinnyfat manlet normies with game will out perform you.

>>34565377
Just try the apps. What do you have to lose? You're so full of yourself that you most likely just severely overestimate your looks.

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>>34565480
>if you had an iq of over 80 you'd instantly understand that and not bother with dating apps.
there's absolutely zero reason why I should understand that if I had no experience with neither. From my perspective, dating apps or snapchat are way less effort. You're so retarded it's hurts talking to you.
>You come across as autistic
Is that what you have to tell yourself because I called you out on your redditor bullshit? Im completely neurotypical and have zero hurdles with socializing when I want to, you're just salty baldhead coping that I mog you. I bet a 100 you wouldnt be talking all this shit if I never listed my stats.
>effortless skinnyfat manlet normies with game will out perform you.
yeah of course a manlet normie will say that
>What do you have to lose
Im really annoyed by mandatory face ID, and I dont wanna do it for nothing because a lot of people in reviews give 1 star and say app is useless and everything is locked behind 15 euros/week paywall which sounds horrendeous.
>you most likely just severely overestimate your looks.
I listed an objective readings on the scale, there is nothing to estimate there.

Idk why is everybody so salty and antagonistic off the rip, y'all act like those retarded catty women when they see someone taller/prettier than them so they instantly cope and/or sabotage.

I shouldve said im a miserable manlet so that everyone would be sympathetic

>>34565587
>>34566023
forgot to tag this reply

>>34565113
I'm in the fucking Netherlands, probably one of toughest dating markets for Europoor men, i still get matches but don't expect any 10/10 baddie(plus they literally would charge money or go for 10/10 Chad). Still i keep my filter quite high and get 8s+.
Still is a nightmare though

>>34565156
True, also I may add I don't speak dutch, so the dutchies are much more reluctant to meet up vs a native.
Brutal market

>>34566051
>i still get matches but don't expect any 10/10 baddie
I don't need anything exotic when it comes to pumping and dumping, I'm cool with that. I find it more important that she isnt braindead, is nice to hang out with and has similar kinks.
>plus they literally would charge money
what the.. women use tinder as an escort app? That's news to me.
>Still is a nightmare though
In what sense exactly? Too long dry seasons? I think situation is a bit better in my place

>>34566066
Tinder is the worst app out there, bumble is very gay as the above anon mentioned and sort of useless but I keep it still (but don't expect much from it) hinge would be the best overall, though I get okay with tinder and hinge as combo.
The nightmare bro is people flaking, ghosting, not replying even if you get their numbers. I've never got ditched irl so there that at least. You just need to know how to navigate and deal with the frustrations. Girls get literally 1000 of matches per week, so you're virtually competing with an infinite pool.
Got the number of one chick to make plans for this weekend texted her at 1pm and she hasn't replied yet and it's 9pm kek, so yeah people are weird overall

>>34566066
Also if you're a complete noobs, there's the Chinese scammer, the attention whores, only fan girls and literal prostitutes, but you'll learn to filter them easily once you're there.
Also the gays and trannies. Fucking hell

>>34566087
whats better about hinge? Hinge is also hookup oriented right?
>people flaking, ghosting, not replying even if you get their numbers. I've never got ditched irl so there that at least. You just need to know how to navigate and deal with the frustrations. Girls get literally 1000 of matches per week, so you're virtually competing with an infinite pool.
Lol I have experience talking to mentally ill nutcases from /soc/, none of this can touch me

>>34566101
Hinge the girls can directly like your pics and you'll see them immediately so you can match at ease instead of being trapped in a paywall (waiting on likes) bumble for example always hide on purpose your likes received (24 hour later they put them on front) and tinder usually set them as the 2nd after the hottest chick ever (as long as it's not filtered by range/ age).
Some strategies for example are paying bumble for a week or the free swipes for a day and just mass spam every profile out there, for tinder platinum works much better than gold/plus because it gives priority boost on normal likes, use a Chinese vendor for cheaper prices make sure it's global or for your area.
And hinge you can also mass spam if you want though it's slower for the like feature.
I'm not paying because I'm being selective and already have some prospects and i don't wanna mess myself up. Also I got a gf that I need to break up with or open the relationship, so we'll see how that goes.
Only pay if you're handsome, else you're throwing cash in the trash kek

>>34566113
Thank you for your effort senpai, appreciate it.

>Also I got a gf that I need to break up with or open the relationship
same here, dry as hell and long distance. I'll try to keep her while having stuff on the side. I feel shitty but this is just stressful and im pent up. Even my dad lowkey nudged me to get something for my uni place and mom didnt say anything listening to that lol. Fuck it.

>>34566138
Of course bro, good luck.

>>34566023
Good luck mindlessly exchanging the same convos with vapid whores on a screen. any chad who has done both knows that irl you typically have higher quality interactions and a higher success rate with less effort, but what do i know when it's your perspective we're dealing with ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

Post your faggot autistic mug here when you're done making a profile. I need a good laugh.

>>34566210
This retard just keeps ignoring everything that is written and just goes on with his schizo tangents and swordfighting windmills. I dont even need to see your retard face, Im already having a good laugh.

>>34566237
You made a thread asking to confirm if you can use dating apps to date.

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>>34566258
thank you for immediately reinforcing my point

>>34565156
You make me cringe Dutchfren.
>I'm in stem
So maybe you should hook up with some uggo from your science class. I read most of the drivel you posted and I can tell the type of person you are. You won't find success on the apps unless you like use ChatGPT to write your replies for you or something Mr. cringelord.
T. Flemish neighbor anon

>>34568206
Hello my hierarchical power hungry neighbor xD I've lived in your country for a couple years, you guys are just mutts ruined by the French and should have just been Dutch

I've had success from the apps, but it's just hard mode because I don't speak the language and that's the first obstacle to overcome. Dutch girls are very patriotic when it comes to dating, they want atleast a Dutch speaking person. It isn't shocking, but yeah it's been difficult.
Also there's not just me in this thread saying Netherlands dating is hard. Actually only that post you replied to was from me, the rest are from another guy/multiple guys in NL

>>34566055
I feel you dude, it's eye opening to see fellow expats in NL who feel the same

>>34566051
Yooo share more about your experience as a fellow expat here.
For me it's like, every match I have with a Dutch girl that goes somewhere it's always a Dutch girl who's an English teacher, or one that has her profile in English. The actual Dutch girls who give me a try always fizzle out on account of having to speak English and they don't feel as comfortable. I even had a date with a Dutch girl who told me I'm perfect but the lack of knowing Dutch means she doesn't want to go further.
Fucking brutal indeed.
On the other end - when I met an expat we hit it off super well and we're still dating, but yeah the experience of dating here really opened my eyes to how, despite being so good at English and so accepting of others, the absolute majority won't date non dutchies because they don't see us as long term.
Share more of your experiences fren

>>34568319
Happy to oblige.
So I'm the same dude on the insights on dating apps, a quick rundown:
I am attractive and tall (else you'll be done here). Obviously I could get the lower barrel fish 6-7s and get laid easily. I'm now being very selective on pussy quality so at least an 8+. I'm located in den haag area, unironically it's a small market here so I date from here, Leiden and delft but options are somewhat limited still. Rotterdam has much more abundance but usually time effort kinda sucks (so you'll spend time meeting up and then they flake, so better to date locally). Rotterdam has also a huge Turkish population and they seem to dig me quite a bit (i get along better with southern euros and Brazilians).
I have dated 3 dutch girls here since 4 years, first one was a dutch Thai from haarlem, ended in ons only she was hot but we didn't continue. Then a special kids teacher, full dutch Blondie and tall 1.74 but very skinny, still i should had kept her (i dumped her beginning of January) and current gf which is dutch. But i want to dump. Due to let's call it call, personal reasons.
Before getting with my current gf I was managing a rotation of 3 chicks (polish/Turkish, the dutch teacher and a Portuguese dutch speaker) adding a 4th every once in a while, then current gf came and i dumped everyone else...
Anyway, I'm a sick cunt and I'm already back in the game so slowly I'll start a new harem. Godspeed and ask away fren
And for Amsterdam, yes prime pussy but if you're not located there logistics are rough because a lot of travellers are just available for the night. So you need to be located there, i work over there so every once in a while i would set dates, but yeah usually all people are lazy so it's better to date close to one's hunting area.

>>34568388
Thanks for sharing man, where are you from originally? I'm not tall I'm 170cm, but attractive guy with a unique style and I can't do anything about the height so it's been fine, especially got a bump in matches and dates ever since I lost 20kg, still have about 15 to go though so the potential can be heightened further.
Wish I lived in the hague Rotterdam area, I'm in north Brabant, all dutchies here, had to set my distance on the apps much higher, took me some time to realize that fishing with Dutch girls is hard because I don't fit the majority criteria
Is your profile written in Dutch? Also do you speak it? Do you date in it?
Thanks for sharing your experiences bro. I'm thinking I need to (re) learn Dutch asap, because the selection here is quite limited if you're dating expats. Current girl I'm dating is Italian so southern euros getting along with me checks out. I'm white middle eastern, look Portuguese/argentinian, you cannot tell middle east from looking at me. Thank God for that.
Excited to get into the routine and have a rotation like you now that I've lost weight and reinstalled the apps, but still I feel like Dutch language is a major barrier between me and the majority of girls, I think your answers could help me here. Thanks again

>>34568422
Oh damn, yeah, that area is definitely tougher for sure. You'll need dutch since expats are over Randstad. I'm south American Caucasian, with blue/green eyes so that brings an exotic appeal over general foids that are tired of the same blonde dutch men with the same haircut and dress alike (dutch foids are also always dressing the same, he just be normal culture part). I'm also a racist cunt kek, so i hate Arabs, but you're okay bro, especially the Moroccans here lmao. Plus the Spanish Portuguese aspect helps a lot too.
Good luck

>>34568422
As for the profile is in pure English

>>34568455
Trust me I hate them too, otherwise I wouldn't be here. And yeah I'm exactly Spanish Portuguese haha aside from being middle eastern so that helps.
Yeah the Dutch girls are almost a copy of one another, I order a porn star martini to the table, I love cheese and wine, give me travel tips to Portugal, all the stupid same shit. Can't stand the Moroccans and Arabs either, have had nothing but bad experiences with them, not a single positive one. Turks are a different story as you know, my best friend here is even Turkish. Good funny people. And you can be racist with them so it's even better
Thanks for sharing, the plan remains the same, keep losing weight, keep my dating app search range till Amsterdam, and learn Dutch but that's not a prerequisite to getting a girl here that's just going to help me quite a bit with where I live.
Can't blame them for wanting Dutch but it does piss me off a little.
Thanks for sharing your experiences

>>34568319
Heh fair enough. I really did think you were a Dutch autist (because you mentioned being 190cm rofl) my apologies. Anyways, the dating market is brutal if you're different in any way in general.

>>34568117
Why would my mum be sucking your dick when youre the autist who needs to make a thread asking what dating apps are like in the most vague pointless way possible? You cant even engage with any of the points made earlier without sperging out about reddit or ad hom. please dont even post your aspie profile at this point just show your text exchanges instead, seeing elliot roger reincarnated and messaging girls would make my day