Let’s say I’m a 25 year old virgin who just finished his first year of law school and have a summer job where I’ll have tons of free time. If I wanted to lose my virginity/get my first girlfriend, how would I go about doing that?I’m in a new city for school where I don’t really know anyone, all my friends I made from the first year are working elsewhere this summer too so group social activity is kinda a no go. Also before anyone suggests it no I will not pay for a hooker.
>>34565713If you're not going to pay for a hooker then try dating apps.
>>34565720Something about dating apps just feels deeply, spiritually humiliating. Is there really no other way?
>>34565775It is a humiliation ritual but you'll be increasing your dating pool. Think of it as a secondary source of income, whilst your primary should be whatever you enjoy doing to meet real women(bars, clubs, social events, libraries, etc). You gotta do something though, talk to people, women aren't just gonna knock at your door if you don't put yourself out there somehow.> all my friends I made from the first year are working elsewhereMake other friends then, you do know that there's no limit to how many people you can know right? In my first year of college I joined a group of people that went to a party together and sat on a couch next to me so I started to talk to them(not being a party guy myself) and since we had classes together we started to spend time together, and they became my gang. They'd invite me to frat parties and night outs, fun times.
>>34565713if you haven't lost it by 25 you are honestly kind of cooked if you aren't carefulthe first girl you fuck you will hopelessly latch onto and you will repeat it for the next several womeni would purposely set out to fuck as many women as i could and only do fuck them 1-3x max. do NOT try to get a girlfriend as a 25 year old virgin, you will torpedo the relationship
>>34566294as far as how, get on dating apps, hinge is the best, and get some good photos. no selfies, no hunting/fish photos. photos of you that inspire intrigue/mystery/coolness in interesting places, some alone, some with friends. if you don't have any good photos either pay a photographer or get your buddy to help you take some. good photos are absolutely essential and the reason 99% of men struggle on dating apps is they have horrible photos and think they're too cool to put any effort into them
>>34565775It is.>Is there really no other way?Friends of friends, private parties, clubs , bars. In that order. Also any number of hobby activities, group sports , dancing classes etc. Should be stuff you like , going there only to troll for women is going to give you a weird vibe.
>>34565713Meet people, as many as you can, of all genders. Some among them will become friends. Some of the females among them may attract you.Meet your classmates and neighbors. Look into school events, clubs, gyms, etc.
>>34566355you don't develop romantic relationships from friends, this is reddit-tier advice. you develop them from intentionally talking to attractive women and flirting/asking them out quickly
>>34565713I got added back by a failed date I couldn't even turn friendzone. She asked me for money. I told her well I am a virgin I will give you some money for you to fuck me and she agreed. I specified we will do everything, even hit it raw, she agreed.So my point is that you can always support a struggling poor 20 year old just as I am currently doing now. The problem is that I'm a virgin aswell and now I HAVE to fuck her or I will continue to go on and die as a virgin aswell. My problem always was that I was shy for a girl to see my pathetic 5 inch dick but I might gain an inch till saturday if I stop gooning and start to work out again. The thing that sucks the most is that for some reason I can't fully believe this is actually happening.
>>34565713Ok what type of position?If >Law clerk for court, PIYou'll have time>InsDef or Corporate LawYeah No.Did you or are you trying out for any teams such as trial team, Dispute resolution, or Moot Court? I would also make the suggestion of: DO NOT DATE WITHIN YOUR LAW SCHOOL. I have known 3 couples that did get married after meeting in law school but they:>had one of them that came from moneyor>very conservative or had their heads on straight. Unless you meet a girl who matches very well w/your values, do not do it. You're in law school so arguing with your SO is NOT what you should be doing. Law school years are often way smaller than your average high school graduating class so word WILL spread quick if the situation goes toxic.
>>34565720upvote
>>34567232>Ok what type of position?I'll just be RAing for a professor asynchronously and later in the summer doing a 1 month internship with a local judge.>Did you or are you trying out for any teams such as trial team, Dispute resolution, or Moot Court?I submitted a write-on for Law Review, but how's that relevant?
repent heathen
>>34566355>Look into school eventsDuring the summer?
>random whatever age>virgin>oh woe is me i'll never get laid>i'm going to kms
>>34567738If you've seen the thread category so often, you must know what advice works best too, right?
>>34567013See this is an alpha move actually. I'm impressed. All women are whores. You actually just saved yourself a lot of money.Now fuck her raw. Don't be scared or question whats happening. Just focus on one goal above all else: giving her pussy a giant creampie. But first you should definitely face fuck her a bit, finger her ass, just really go hard on all her holes. Get your money's worth.
>>34565713>Also before anyone suggests it no I will not pay for a hooker.some people dont wanna be helped.We'll check in again when youre 30.
>>34565775>Something about dating apps just feels deeply, spiritually humiliatingWhy do you think I turned to hookers?People look down on me, I look down on them. Tomato Tomato.
>>34565713I’ll marry you anonAs long as you’re cute and not a fatty
try mushrooms
>>34567760She seems like a good sport considering she is the one who brang up the "we do it raw but please don't cum in me, the first fuck you wear a condom because I don't think you'll be able to pull out" It's kinda surreal to even carry this convo with a girl considering I was always an incel but I guess life teaches you neither you nor women are shit and it's really no big thing that a woman lets you stick it in her, and honestly I needed this because my inceldom got to a point where I'd watch porn and crash out that sex is an actual thing, now I am 4 days away from it and feel like it's just some bullshitI wonder if there's a saying about this, wanting something then the moment you get it you're like meh
>>34567994Yeah once you finally do it, kinda loses it's importance and hold it had over you. Doing things you consider impossible sex wise is indeed surreal tho, I lost my virginity at 21 with a tattoo artist that did everything she could so I could bust in on her face and let me fuck her in the ass on our third date, after that everything sex related was just normal, as if it was natural to me. Keep us updated about it, if this thread blows I wanna see the epilogue from your situation on the GIOYC thread.
>>34569223I will reply in any other sex related thread saturday night after the deed is done, if I get a wet dream the day before or get a cold sore I am fucked, just how my luck usually goes is all
>>34567792Are you a biological female in America, my love?
>>34567760Pic unrelated?
