I need to leave home as soon as possible. I am 21 and in university whilst living at home. My family is entirely dysfunctional, to the point there are heated arguments that last for hours at a time multiple days a week. It's been like this my entire life. It's driving me so insane that I've recently started punching and beating myself in fits of pure autism rage to cope with the frustration. I can't take it anymore.What do I do? I don't have a job. I have nowhere else to go. I have another year of education yet. I have a girlfriend, but they say they're not in a position to move out for another 4 or 5 years.I literally just want to cut all familial ties forever. I want to be completely independent and not have to rely on anyone ever again. But I'm not in a position to and I won't be for years yet. What the hell do I do?
You have a girlfriend so you're doing better than most people already.Go talk to people outside your family. Get a job. Hide money, friends, your outdoor activities etc from your family.
>>34566857For now, get a job, any job that you can do while still in uni, and use that and studying to be home as little as possible. Eventually get enough money saved up to move out
>>34566857Get a job so you can start saving money. Dump all your free time into school and work. Spend as little time as possible at home, ideally you should only be using your house to sleep and bathe. When you graduate in a year you should be in a pretty good position to establish independence. It's really important you get some money saved. Having been in your position, 20,000$ saved is the difference between easily being able to establish independence and being basically fucked.
