I am a coward who can't close the deal even on tue most basic level. I can speak to girls, but as far as putting my neck on the line i got nothing.It seems like far to much to ask even when I should. What can I even do?
>>34566957>can't close the deal even on tue most basic level.maybe it's just not your day. have you tried closing on weds or thurs
>>34566963Kek.Yeah I'll swing again on Thursday. Thanks anon
>>34566957Just go for it. If you get rejected then you know she doesn't want you and you can stop wasting your time on her and move on to another girl. Looking back I wish I asked more girls out when I was younger.
>>34567415I think the dumb part is I am trying to respect there time, or at least respect that I don't want to make her give me a hard No. I know I'm not being pushy but I feel like that eventually makes me an orbiter by waiting for some perfect moment. I had a chance today but I had that dumb feeling the moment could be better. I am being a pussy but I need to send it, I think she even set me up to ask... Looking back.I'll do better.
>>34567682If you want to try a different strat, don't ask. Some girls like communication so they like if you ask, but other girls respond to subtle physical escalation. If you are walking together and having a nice conversation and feeling like she is having fun you can walk into her a bit and brush arms briefly. If she brushes back you can escalate from there, like hand on the small of her back to guide her when it makes sense. This should eventually lead to you trying to hold her hand. If she lets you do that you're in!
>>34567716Kek.Sweet based and fem pilled. I know that can work, but remember the male prospective on this one. If she doesn't want you bumping into her than this is unwanted contact. Not saying it's a bad idea, but in this situation it won't work.Stay gold star child.
>>34567682>I know I'm not being pushy but I feel like that eventually makes me an orbiter by waiting for some perfect moment.Yeah pretty much, you just have to take a risk and go for it.>I am being a pussy but I need to send itYup, worst thing that can happen is she says no, and if that happens then you know that she's not into you and you can move on.
>>34566957How old are you OP?
>>34566957What are you afraid of? Social stigma? An accusations?Losing your friend group?The worst she can say is "no" right?Enjoy anon, you are fucked if you arnt dumb enough to ignore consequences.
>>34566957Keep hanging around her without saying a damn thing. I'm sure it will work out for ya
