Greetings /adv/. I was wondering on how one acquires a girlfriend when they are 24. Im pretty decent in look I think and have no issue talking to girls but it seems girls have no interest and act weird when I try to initiate any kind of conversation. What are some tricks to get these ladies to loosen up and just get to know me? I am pretty awesome if they give me a chance.
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>>34567015Bunp
Open yourself up to her and say hi.
>>34567015>it seems girls have no interest and act weird when I try to initiate any kind of conversatio"it seems" is doing a lot of work heregive three examples of approaches you used and what her body language/facial/verbal reactions were
>>34567015In what circumstances are you meeting these women
>>34567340>*zzzzzzip*>HI LADIES!
>>34567015I'm wondering how to acquire a gf at 30, not for a lack of trying. Join the club >>34567721HAHAHA I heard that perfectly in my head To op: I use dating apps. They barely work but they do work sometimes. It's a lot of effort and perseverance. I am also going to try speedating in June at comic con, and in July at castle fest. It will be my first two times speed dating, I'm hoping for good results. But Dutch girls want Dutch speaking guys, understandable, but it's not me yet.I'll impart the most important piece of wisdom from my extensive experience: Don't go looking for a woman in your daily irl activities as your main source of girlfriend pursuing activities. Yes you'll make friends, but you'll have to invest a lot of time and get very frustrated when you get rejected due to the amount of time you've invested into a relationship before you decided to ask.Use all 3 methods - have dating apps open. Sign up for dating events irl, and the shittiest method to put the least amount of excitement and betting over: irl activities that involve girls.
>>34567015>I was wondering on how one acquires a girlfriend when they are 24Same way as literally any other age.The two most important things for meeting a gf are>A. proximity to women>B. willingness to engageSo in other words, if you're never around women and also don't do anything else to bring them into your orbit (online, etc) you won't "acquire" a gf. But likewise, and this is where most /adv/ posters like you falter, is that if you are around women but never actually try and never talk or interact with any of them, you will also not get a girlfriend.TL;DR: actually be around women and actually talk with them. That's universal for any age. There's old niggaz in nursing homes that are still dating because they follow these two basic principles. You can certainly do it at 24.
>>34567355For example the other day I held the door for a girl and tried to get a conversation going and it went like this>hey! You're looking strong.. >...yeah>what are you hitting today?>...umm idkThat kind of response happens almost every fucking time. Why do I have to approach with such calculation and all these fucking tricks when chad can come up and say ehhh girl want some fuck and it works every time for him
>>34568655>That kind of response happens almost every fucking timeBecause this was cringe. I assume this happened at a gym (nice detail to leave out kek), but even so it's still cringe.>when chad can come up and say ehhh girl want some fuck and it works every time for himThis is cope. It doesn't happen like that. What really happens is chad just holds the door, she says thanks, and then maybe the next time they bump into each other someone smiles or says hi, then after a while if they keep bumping into each other they'll start talking organically and someone will introduce themselves, and if anything else is going to happen it will snowball naturally from there.I've hooked up with more than one girl at my gym over the years, and never once did I do it with "hurr durr hey baby u want some fuk" or whatever other cope you incels cling to.
>>34567015You know the 24 year old girlfriends in town are basically free? You just pick them up and take them home.
>>34569054Im hyperbolizing the chad interaction but what im saying is chad doest have to go through all these stupid hoops and games
>>34570399And neither do you, in fact what I'm telling you to do is to not do these stupid (self-imposed) hoops and games. Just act like a fucking normal person.
>>34570678Thats what I do.
>>34570678>act like a normal person>nothing ever happens
>>34567015I love these threads because they're fucking useless but guys like OP insist on posting them. Dating is a numbers game at your age. Rejection means nothing. Just keep talking to women. That's the only real advice here since every other reply is just presumptions about what what women do/might think.
>>34570847>act like a normal person>can't hold a door for someone without making a corny/creepy comment>>34571228>>act like a normal personDebatable. And what do you mean by "nothing ever happens"?What do you think is supposed to happen, exactly?
>>34571314I mean acting like a normal person is not good dating advice. A "normal person" is someone concerned about making other people uncomfortable, and making other people uncomfortable is the foundation of having a chance at anything ever happening in dating.
>>34571317>I mean acting like a normal person is not good dating adviceNo? Because normal people date. Furthermore they do it naturally without jumping through hoops and games like you or the other anon was complaining about having to do before. Normal people date and talk to people without thinking about it, awkward dorks like you guys don't.>making other people uncomfortable is the foundation of having a chance at anything ever happening in dating.We clearly come from different schools of thought, so I'll ask at this point just how successful you've been while thinking like this.
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