Having a "thing" with a coworker (we're both married) never ends well does it? It will always end up in utter disaster, right?She's incredible but rationally I know I've only seen her at her best with rose tinted glasses, not like my wife whom I see every day and also during her worst periods. I realize that whatever mask a coworker shows me, it's a better more polished version of themselves, and I try to keep in mind that women are deceitful and prone to ruin men's simple lives.If anyone had something like this going on, and care to offer some advice? Nothing concrete happened yet but she's fiery and I'm a simple (but good looking) guy. Such intense and sexual attention from a polished woman is intoxicating.
>>34568241It never ends well
>>34568243This! Stay with your wife!Also: this probably means you are getting something from your coworker (i.e. attention) you are missing from your wife. So go talk to her about this feeling (without mentioning the other woman of course).
>I try to keep in mind that women are deceitful and prone to ruin men's simple lives.Says the degenerate who is planning to cheat on his wife and ruin another person’s marriage too. It takes two people to engage in an affair. You are scum
These replies are pure reddit but I agree with the other anons, you're begging to ruin your life. Mixing work and sex is already messy but since you're both married the risk is too high, which also feeds into the fantasy as it's forbidden and could potentially break you both. If you don't isolate yourself from this woman you'll end up something you will regret, believe me. Self control can only help for so long and don't think you won't break if you keep flirting because you will.
>>34568241Getting involved with a co-worker is a bad idea, but cheating on your wife is a far worse one.
I dated a colleague for a while. Dicked her down and stopped when she said she wouldn't want kids. I probably could've convinced her, but w/e. I want a woman who's already confident about it.Don't work with her directly but we are in meetings together.We both don't do drama, and I haven't had issuesYour issue is you're both married ffs. Will you serious meet at hotels for each fuck session?
have you considered suicide?
>>34568241>I realize that whatever mask a coworker shows me, it's a better more polished version of themselves, and I try to keep in mind that women are deceitful and prone to ruin men's simple lives.What's funny is you are guilty of the exact same. You wear a mask, the "I'm an honest man" mask to your own wife. You are a deceiver too, prone to ruin your wife's life. Exactly like the slut you are enamored by at work.
>>34568241OP, just go for it. You will be old one day and your dick won't work.
>>34568241Your opsec needs to be absolute. It's gonna be difficult because you work together. Make sure first lf all she's smart enough to not get found out. Don't do it too frequently, don't be greedy, use the opportunities when your wife is actively busy with something. Obviously do not leave anything on your phone, get a burner if you have to. Good like chad, you're finally living life how it's meant to be lived. Obviously wear protection and ideally find out if she has anything like herpes, the worst way to be discovered is bringing an STD or a kid into the mix.Perhaps the single most important thing - do NOT change your behavior. Act the same way as before. Do not treat your wife any different (it would be a piece of shit thing to do anyway), and do not start taking like "extra hours" at work or anything that you haven't before. If you absolutely have to, first spend a while doing that thing for real, so your wife gets used to it and sees there's nothing sus there.Finally, an extension of the above. Give your wife priority. The side hoe might get upset at that - fuck her. Don't get carried away. If she's smart she'll get it.
>>34568241Only do it if you're willing to sacrifice a job and/or a marriage, because that's what you're putting on the line here. Not saying you shouldn't do it, but only go for it you're both smart enough not to get exposed
>>34572805Exactly this.You are the one ruining lives, anon.
