For the past three years of my relationship with a beautiful amazing woman I haven’t had any interest in sex.Ever since a nasty situation where I got arrested my brain has been in fight or flight mode ever since and it’s affecting my ability to fuck. She recently told me it’s like I would be ok never having sex again and she’s not entirely wrong. I just think about past incidences and can’t bring myself to be vulnerable in any way. What can I do? I love this woman but I simply cannot relax enough to have sex.
>>34568968Have the two of you actually tried talking to a sex therapist? This is the kind of situation Sensate Focus was invented for. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sensate_focus
>>34569029I pitched this idea we will talk about it tomorrow thank you anon.
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>>34568968>I just think about past incidences and can’t bring myself to be vulnerable in any way.Someone ate your ass? You can tell us.>>34568968>What can I do?Open up to me. Tell me what is really happening.
>>34569766>u gayI'm not OP, but you are a faggot, and a disgusting sub human.
>>34569774What’s happening is I have ocd tier thoughts about the police so I live every day waiting for them to come for me making relaxing and having ax the last thing on my mind. I’m also on antipsychotics that kill sex drive.
>>34569792>I’m also on antipsychotics that kill sex drive.This would have been useful information to mention sooner. It's unlikely you'll ever be able to enjoy sex on antipsychotics.
>>34569930I don’t know what to do. Without those meds I get into trouble but the trade off is my life is dull and empty. Maybe I’ll have to consider other alternatives or willpower to not lose my shit
>>34570099try different meds, not all affect your sex drive the same. if not get trimix or another ed med and just focus on the pleasure of your partner
Hehehe have u tried being tied up :3
