i’ve been talking to this guy since January and we’ve been on 2 dates, planning our 3rd soon, but i’m worried that he’s going to ask to sleep with me. i’m super nervous about ever having sex because i have a severe butter body. my face is decent ig but my boobs and labia need work done before i ever even think about getting naked in front of someone. i feel so guilty like ive led him on and i dont know what to do. he’s the first guy ive ever dated and the most we’ve ever done is hold hands for like 10 seconds. he’s told me he’s had sex with girls before and he knows im a virgin. it’s making me feel so sick and nervous im tempted to break up with him just because of this.
fuck him right in the bussy
i get you. im anxious about intimacy because i hate my body (especially my boobs), i rarely have let people ive dated see me in the nude. although, if he has a problem with your body, then thats on him, and not something you should let bring you down. most of the time men dont care. dont feel pressured into doing something because the way you feel about yourself.
If it makes you feel any better I usually think they same about my own body because I'm skinny and have a small dick and shit posture and won't allow myself to even make eye contact with women before I get my body looking the way I want it to to the point where I look down on women who show interest in me and reject them so they don't get disappointed later down the line.My advice is don't break up, and let him be the judge. Either he likes your body, or he doesn't, but ultimately all you're doing is just snuffing out any chance of a deeper connection because you're scared of the risk of rejection. Worst thing that can happen is he's not into you and then you move on. Better than wondering what could've been.To be fair though, I don't have the balls to take my own advice and will continue to hide my gremlin body from women so do with that information what you will.
I'm pretty sure he's still DTF as long as you're a biological woman. Men aren't as picky about bodies as women are.
>>34569588Seconding this guy... I'd fuck you and enjoy you so freaking much and savor your pussy taste and asshole taste when I push my tongue into it and sniff your armpits and bury myself in them and I don't even know you, but I would absolutely love it. And I'd love you, tooThat's the pretty thing about human nature that I feel is lost on people, we're all just animals, we just want to give love. Now, some of us are selfish or emotionally not right, and we don't attach correctly after sex, but for me - if I have sex with you, you're mine, and that's it. You have my love, and my support, and my enthusiasm, and I'll want you and be there for you for as long as you're there for me. <3And yeah, too bad I live in a country with fucking blond giants and I don't speak the language nor do I look like them.I'd eat your American/euro pussy without even questioning it
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>>34569673WTF dude, you're gross and creepy.
>>34569673>American/euroKEK
>>34569399>my boobs and labia need work done before i ever even think about getting naked in front of someoneThey don't. You're just paranoid.But I suggest you to save yourself for your future husband. Don't have sex with just anyone you held hands for 10 seconds.
>>34569399Complementing what I said, if he truly loves you, he will wait.
>>34569693I wish>>34569731I wishBeing alone does wonders to you mentally, and no one can blame me for this.
>>34569399If he's a decent person, he won't want to fuck you if you don't feel ready; so tell him how you feel. If he has a problem with it, he wasn't worth dating anyway; if he doesn't, you're good. Having said that, you are definitely making a fuss about nothing: no man in history has turned down sex with a woman because of how her labia look; it's simply not something men care about in real life.
thanks for the advice guys. i’m honestly not sure if i should just tell him that i have a butter body or let him find out if anything does happen but it kinda feels like im catfishing him. and i know we watches porn bc all guys watch porn and i’ve never seen girls in porn look the same way that i do down there :,)would you be mad if you pulled a girls panties down and she had crazy roast beef? i’ve never slept with anyone before so im not ran through or anything, it’s literally just my genetics it makes me watch to toaster bath so bad.
>>34569399>I don't like myself so I'm going to break a man's heart
>>34572020idk if i would be breaking his heart, we’ve only been on a few dates and nothings official.
>>34572013I'm crashing on a girl hard rn and I wouldn't care if she did. At most I'd have this feeling of "well, shucks" and just keep going. Maybe post body, nothing too revealing, if it's just booba and pusy then I wouldn't worry about it too much at all.
>>34572013If he’s happy being seen in public with you he won’t care what you look like without clothes on if it means getting laid.It sounds more like you’re not super excited about hooking up with him, which is reasonable - 3 dates over 4 months isn’t a lot.
