My wife is Japanese (she is real I swear) and as common in Japan she is doing the so called Kakeibo. That means she is doing the finances of our household while raising our kids. I basically don't have access to our bank account and she "pays" me a monthly allowance that I can use as I like. Of course the purpose is to safe money and don't waste anything. Me being more of a submissive men, this is really turning me on. From the moment she suggested it up until today where I feel humiliated in a way. I enjoy it so much, that I would like to propose some more ways for her to take the lead. What makes it really tricky is that it turns me on even more because she doesn't know I have this kink. That way I know she really WANTS that control from her own decision. Not to bring me joy. If I suggest too much of it, she may get a clue that I enjoy it in a kinky way, so I have to be a bit careful. How would you handle it? Any ideas how I can push her indirectly to show more dominance? Anything I can suggest that actually helps HER, brings her joy and is useful? Just asking about an FLR (female led relationship) would probably overwhelm her and in the long run does more damage than good. So I was thinking it more in a step by step way.
You're a cuck.
>>34569589If you try to manipulate her into doing what you want, this will end in disaster. Have the basic decency to be honest with her.
It's likely she will see any attempt for you to relinquish more power outside this strict gender role you've described as weakness and be turned off by it. She's just doing "what women do" as far as her culture is concerned. It's not uncommon for women to manage household finances but most men hide money for personal fun or shopping or drinking or whatever. My dad was a loser toy addict who loved to shop for toys so he was always stashing money away from my mom for GI Joes and rum. That's the reason woman tend to take over bills and food purchases so men don't piss it all away on gambling and stupid shit. It's not really about dominance but about culturally accepted gender roles. You're like the guy who really really really wants to get pegged by his wife, so you talk her into it after a year of work and once she does it she loses all respect for you and leaves you for a large black cock who beats her. >>34569695Basically this.
>>34569959>>34570798I read that sometimes but I can't imagine it being true. As long as I give her the sex she enjoys.. While I thought of pegging some time ago I quickly deleted that thought as I have hemorrhoids, so no butt for me. Also a bit too jealous person to enjoy being cuckold, so that's another no no. For example my granny was also kinda that boss person at home and they were happy until the end. She still misses granpa today. On the other hand, you may also be right.. especially if it turns into fetishized things I want from her.. but like I said i wanna keep it natural and not bdsmish
>>34569589Do you live in Japan? This behavior isn't seen as emasculating so she'll be confused by the connection your making. If so, just leave a copy of Girls ForM lying around.
>>34569589You should read Shogun so that you can learn what the proper Japanese attitude is
