How can I stop being a pervert and see women as people instead of sexual objects?
>>34569661by stopping watching porn and masturbating /thread
>>34569661Why would you want to? I've never met a woman who got off on a man being nice and respectful. "Nice guys finish last" is a saying for a reason.Do women's erotic novels primarily feature kind, boundary respecting guys, or violent gangsters that will kidnap, rape, and force the female protagonist to have their children?With that being said, I'm going to assume you're not brown, so you still want some sense of decorum obviously, but as long as you have good social skills, you can pretty much do whatever.Also this: >>34569705
>>34569716>I've never met a woman who got off on a man being nice and respectfulNewsflash anon, you're hanging out with terrible people
>>34569716>erotic novels are real life
>>34569661Make friends with women you don't want to fuck. It forces you to recognize that some women are interesting human persons.
>>34569661>instead of sexual objects?They see you as a walking wallet. The quicker you accept that men and women have needs the better. It's how you get a gf. Once you get a gf you will naturally stop look at women as sex toys because she is the one.
>>34569845Being nice and respectful isn't what turns women on. That may be a good trait for a person you spend your time with on a day to day basis, but it certainly won't activate any woman's neurons. Women being primarily attracted to assertive, driven, risk-taking men shouldn't be a grand revelation if you're not a biblically accurate retard. That's why "nice and respectful" guys often still have trouble dating. Meanwhile men who beat women somehow, by pure coincidence seemingly, always have a woman to beat.>>34569854more like>erotic novels have no bearing on real life whatsoever and say nothing about female sexual attractionYeah, porn books catered specifically towards women can't possibly be indicative of women's desires. It's a complete mystery why women read them.
>>34569661>see women as people instead of sexual objects?You mean delusionalcuckmaxxing? Just browse reddit.
>>34569661You have to reduce your testosterone level.It is testosterone which puts women into the objects to acquire state of mind.
Be interesting and well mannered enough to have interesting and well mannered women to talk to. Theres more ways to please a woman than turning her on, guys. Lol.
Try meeting women who are actual people. The whole gender wars thing made them too comfortable with being mediocre, you need a great woman to make you believe and then break your heart and make you hate them all over again.
>>34569661>see women as people instead of sexual objects?There's no such thing as a "sexual object." People have sex. Objects don't have sex.And no, don't bring up sex toys. They have no agency, no sexuality of their own, their use in sex is one we impose on them.
Do you see YOURSELF as a whole person? Or do you see yourSELF as a sexual object? Does anything else even matter to you or are you a depressed waste of a penis
Women inherently value life bc of what a holy mother fucking mountain of effort it is to create and sustain it. If you fail to appreciate anything else abt life that matters other than fucking then what can you even do for her or the community or the world? You can probably just fuck it and fuck it up
>>34569661Quit watching pornography, especially hardcore. Even softcore can be affecting you in a negative light.
women are sexual objects, there is nothing wrong with you
>>34569881>Make friends with women you don't want to fuckI can try but 99% of women want to fuck me which makes it much harder
>>34574757That many? Must be nice.
>>34569705Not him but it doesn't work. I hardly jack off and I pretty much gave up on porn but I still can't help but see tits and ass instead of a full human being, hell most of the time if I see a woman whose even remotely attractive the first thought I'll have is "yeah I'd fuck that". The only women I dont have sexual thoughts about are family, hags, and women I've firmly confirmed I can't fuck (lesbians, co workers, long term friends, etc)
>>34569661Stop watching porn. That's how. And delete all your socials.
>>34569661We're all cumbrained. The difference is that some can actually get laid, others can't.
