I’m nervous I could have possibly got my girl pregnant. We’ve had raw sex 4 times now including twice in one night yesterday. I pull out every time but my friend just told me precum can get girls pregnant and now I’m kinda freaked out. Should I make her take a morning after pill to be safe?
>>34570413the chances of a precum pregnancy are extremely low. i've been pulling out perfectly for over 8 years, and nothing's ever happened
>>34570421You don’t even know how much this calmed me down. I’ve been kinda spiraling at work all day cause neither of us can raise a kid right now. Needless to say the condom will be staying on until she starts birth control just for my own peace of mind.
>>34570413Literally how do people like you exist? Hundreds of millions of lives have been derailed by unwanted pregnancies, and you didn't think to do twenty minutes of research before having unprotected sex four times? Wtf? Does a sizable chunk of the population just not possess the ability to model how their present actions could affect the future?Yes, your precum absolutely can get people pregnant. She should take a morning after pill immediately, and you should never do this again.
You should just talk to her about it. Make the decision together. She should probably go on birth control if you're not using condoms. The pull out method isn't very reliable. Maybe in conjunction with tracking her cycle, but even that isn't 100%. Don't stress too much. Just be more careful in the future.Birth control can suck, though. I had the arm implant, which allegedly doesn't have as many side effects as the pill, but even that fucked with my head. And it nuked my sex drive, which is probably a bigger incentive for you to stick to condoms, lmao
>>34570428sure thing but neither me nor my wife have ever used any form of birth control. i'd never make her go on the pill because it generally tanks women's moods and makes them feel like shit. we've been fucking like rabbits for nearly a decade and she's never gotten pregnant. my sperm count is fine.just make sure your pull-out game is perfect. if you're doing it perfectly every time there's only a 4% risk of pregnancy
>>34570431>t. retarded virgingo back to ATOGA faggot
>>34570431Yes I’m a fucking moron. I am generally inexperienced with this stuff and when she said I didn’t need to wear the condom I just went with it like a dumbass. I’m normally a very careful person so idk what the fuck I was thinking. It’s like I’m experiencing a post nut clarity now.
>>34570446Don't listen to that dumbass lmao he has no idea what he's talking about
>>34570441Nice bait, faggot.>Compared with some birth control methods, the pull-out method is not as effective - 22% who report using it become pregnant within 1 year.I personally know someone who got a girl pregnant without cumming. OP, use a condom or prepare to spend the next 18 years being used for child support.
>>34570446You'll probably be fine if you only did it 4 times, just make sure you're disciplined about using protection from now on. >>34570451I can't wait to see the thread you make begging for advice six months from now when you get some stranger pregnant.
obvio , o saldra un hijo con un padre estupido
>>34570467>the pull-out method is not as effective - 22% who report using it become pregnant within 1 year.uh yeah because a lot of men are terrible at pulling outif done correctly, the chances of pregnancy are near zero
>>34570531fuck off
>>34570561No the fuck it is not. 1 in 5 women get pregnant using the pull out method. And while the majority of precum has no sperm in it, there's always a chance. Even more so if you've recently ejaculated. Even if there's a low chance that his gf is pregnant, why are you trying to encourage him increasing the risk? Makes no sense
>>34570561Have you ever actually had sex? Yes, normally you have a pretty good idea of when you're going to cum, but it's not terribly uncommon to move a little or change pace and suddenly finish when you didn't think you were even close. All you need to do is fuck that up one time, and uh oh, eighteen years of child support.
>>34570613Nta, but I have been having sex for 25 years, since I was 12, and I have never once had that happen.
>>34570613when i feel myself cumming i pull out and finish on her ass. it's not that hard. been several years and i've never slipped up. you might be retarded
>>34570583and i'm saying that's an inflated statistic because a lot of men (like >>34570613) are too retarded to pull out correctly
>>34570613NTA but it's alarming how little self-control some of you have, how difficult it is to just pull out when you feel like youre getting close?
>>34570648okay cool well clearly not everyone is an amazingly talented sex god like you. So for the rest of us idiots, there's this awesome thing called condoms
>>34570643>>34570648Okay, let me explain this to you again because you seem to be retarded. Some men always feel a gradual build-up before they finish, others can abruptly finish without a ton of prior stimulation.Some people will always fail at pulling out because they do not always get a reliable signal before they finish. Because of this, recommending people pull out is retarded, because you do not know which category they fall into. Even people who feel they always get a reliable signal should not rely on pulling out, because you don't you can finish without build-up until you do.
OP hereI will be using condoms from now onI’m going to talk to her about it tomorrow and ask if she thinks she should take a plan b(if it’s even effective 3 days after the fact)
>>34570669Lmao faggot
>>34570710Sorry everyone bullied you. Congrats on having a gf!! Just know you're not alone. When I got my birth control implant, my dumbass assumed it would be effective immediately and had unsafe sex right after. It, in fact, took two weeks to start working, I was actively ovulating, and I sat in the anxiety for way too long before finally taking a pregnancy test. You seem young. You just live and you learn.
>>34570721Why am I a faggot
>>34570669aren't you a woman? lol>>34570780nobody bullied him
>>34570794yeah I guess I should've said 'you guys' instead of 'us' but also lemme pretend I know what I'm talking about lmao
>>34570780Thank you. I just kinda went with the flow when she said I didn’t need the condom. In fact it made me happy she trusted me enough to say that. But I wasn’t thinking smart or rationally.
