How many times can I talk to her on whatsapp before she thinks I'm needy and a bother?How many times it's too little and she'll think I'm not interested or ghosting her?If I don't talk to her, I get anxious. If I do, I get anxious too
I want to coat her throat with my bacon grease, and fill her holes until it oozes out and rub pancake batter all over her body.
>>34574171I hated this bit about dating as a kid.You have to engage in pointless cordial small talk about nothing every single day, whilst still seeming interesting, funny and novel.Think the last time I made a two-row SMS to my wife was in the 2010s
>>34574188I don't mind talking. I'm lonely. I do care about looking like a harrassing retard though
>>34574171>>34574202Projecting. Stop assuming. It was better when you both communicated freely. Stop making it transactional. That's retarded to do and make up. If whatever makes her see something differently then she's the one who fucked up and lost what matters
>>34574171I know how it is, and that's a doubt almost every guy has at some point, I wager.Generally speaking, things are better when they flow naturally. I don't think that there's a secret and right number of lines or texts per day you should make.You try to talk normally and gauge her interest through the messages: if she is having fun, if it feels like she doesn't really want to talk, if she initiates dialog herself and seems interested in maintaining the conversations, that sort of thing.
Talk on iMessages like a real man first.
>>34574171One time. One sentence. More than this will make you a needy cuckman. Stop entertaining shallow low value women
>>34574284I can't communicate freely because I'm constantly consumed in anxiety. I need some kind of rule, to be able to ease my mind when I'm following it>>34574301I didn't talk to people ever until recently, so gauging what they're thinking instead of what I think they're thinking is difficult for me
>>34574171If she's not obsessed with you by now then she most likely already thinks you're needy and a bother.
>>34574171Doesn't matter. Walls of text are actually fine because it's likely low stakes. You may develop a crush on any girl that engages, but those crushes won't last.
There is no advice here. Only you saying shit to make me do or feel some way. I take what you say and judge you. I'm happy you are being cut out of my life. The ring goes in the toilet with shit and flushed
>>34574171If she’s your girlfriend already no amount of texts will annoy her ever, she probably adores you. If she’s not, as long as she’s asking questions and replying you’re fine. Try making it more about calls than text tho, you can read tone better that way. Send her memes too
>>34574805I lean on ghosting more than oversharing though>>34575339>she probably adores you.source? she would know I'm suicidal sometimes, so maybe she'd stay only because she would feel like a murderer if she didn't>>34575339>Try making it more about calls than text thoJesus bro
>>34574171If she doesn’t respond quick and keep up with the conversation, then she isn’t interested.Women are glued to their phones and slow responses usually means she's just not got the energy for you.
>>34574777>I didn't talk to people ever until recently, so gauging what they're thinking instead of what I think they're thinking is difficult for meI get it. It can be hard to notice that social stuff, specially when ou don't have much experience, and even more so with women.Still, just try your best to perceive if she isn't into it. Stuff like short messages, taking too long to answer or not answering at all, not reacting warmly, that sort of thing.When in doubt, I think it's best to just not push it. Just stop, wait and see.If they do want to keep talking, they'll probably eventually contact you again at some point.
>>34576990when I do this, I just ghost everyone and everything
Send her over to a white man
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