How can I be less boring in a relationship?I've been described as boring and dull by a few exes..>work an office job>do music composition as a hobby>play a few instruments but I hate Live shows>prefer to sit in my room and compose.It's not hard for me to match with girls bc I take care of myself but they quickly get bored of my personality A fun weekend to me is one where I get to sit in my room for ~12hrs a day just working on projects.It's fun to me, but boring to my partners. I did take them out on dates but desu I hate going out.I just don't find it enjoyable.I do miss companionship though, so I'm looking to try and be a bit less boring but idk how...
>>34576005Find a girl who's also equally intensely into music/composing so you can hobby together. Find someone who isn't bored by your hobbies if you want to spend the whole day on it when possible. Alternatively find someone who's more into their hobbies than you and you can be avoidant together.You can't have someone who's providing companionship to you but don't get any companionship back from you because you're more into your hobbies than emotionally connecting and building a life together with them, that's selfish and unfair. When they say you're "boring" they mean to say you're detached because of your hobby and don't know how to show care (autism)
