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Before covid happened I used to go out a lot with this Polish girl. I'm pretty sure she was in love with me and a bit obsessed. We never exchanged numbers for some reason and during covid we didn't really go out anymore and eventually stopped all together. Now recently I was thinking about her and wanted to try and see her again. But I don't even know if she lives in the street anymore and also can't remember her exact hoise number. I know 4 houses where she could possibly live and also I don't want to knock and ask if she lives there and ya know her family answers the door. I have social anxiety. Any tips on what I should do ?
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do you know her parents? maybe just stand around in the streets for a few hrs and observe the people going in and out of the houses. after some time its bound to happen that ppl will look out of their windows and see you. so maybe she will look out of the window and see you, or her parents will see you.
do you have full names of her or pictures or parents? you can always research her name on the internet/fb/social media/ai, yandex.ru ect ect
only under the rocks dwellers like me dont have any social media accounts what so ever, so surely you may find one of her accounts on the net.
else, as you said, as a last resort is to go to the houses and knock and ask for her. maybe its a good test for your confidence and resolution
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>>34576443
I only know her name, and not her surname or anything. But actually I could go around those houses like idk I'm doing a research project for school and if I hear A unsual accent I will know. I must also mention that the last time we saw eachother we were both like in the middle of puberty and I know I changed quite a bit appearance wise.
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Get a fucking life, stop being an incel
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>>34577074
>doing a research project for school
yeah could work. but then, actually have a notepad and a pencil with you and some notes/scribbles as alibi. some psychos may even call bolice on ur ass from behind the curtans. so when they arrive, you have a bloc and pencil and say ur counting people in the street for a school project or someshit.
>changed quite a bit appearance wise
well anon you are really desperate and grasping at straws here then.
you miss all the shots you dont take but the chances are really slim
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>>34580120
>some may call the police on your ass
I doubt that I live next to a crack appartment building.

>you're desperate and grasping at straws here
Yes you are correct, but if I manage to pull this off it would be the best thing that happened this year and also I'm desperate for love and affection.
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>>34580697
>next to a crack appartment building.
no i mean in the streets that you are going to make your "school project". some babushka behind curtains sees a weird looking guy standing around for hours on end and calls bolice
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Small update. I did some recon during the day and I think I found the exact house, I couldn't really look for a bit as it was the middle of the day, guess I'll come back at night. They have nameplates on the houses so I should be able to identify the house
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>>34582329
Well, did you finally get ahold of her? Maybe try sending her flowers with a note and mention something she would remember you by. What are your plans if you do find her? Have her show you around errr what?
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>>34582409
So My night observation didn't go to well. I could not get close as there are too many ring and other camera doorbells around. I did wear all black and a mask but still. As for what I want to do when I see her. Try to get back together maybe or just have a friend. Idk why I'm just desperate for a girl ig. I want to try and get a girl before my bday in a few months and as I explained earlier we didn't really dump eachother so I'm hoping for a chance again. Cuz not trying would garantee no chance.
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>>34582650
You probably aren't desperate but she obviously left a major impression on you. Work on rebuilding the friendship you guys had. Exchange numbers and make a point to text her everyday, let her know you're thinking about her. I dunno.. i'm just some girl with girlie thoughts
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I hate waiting till it's later in the day. But I've come up with a good 'school project', I will ask people if they think the shipping industry is part of our culture because I'm making a project about ships



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