any fellow anons don't have any romantic interests anymore? After being single for almost 4 years and dating again I never wanted to touch another person and life sometimes begins to feel meaningless. I really want to have partner for a life and children, but with this pacing I will become too old for all this.
I had a crush at 11, 17 and then 19. I'm 25 and haven't had on since. None of them wanted me back of course, because fuck this nigger life. I feel like I'd probably get a new crush if I just spent time with a girl that actually gave me attention.
>>34577300Opening up about your experience and insecurities and having them continue to accept you despite everything. It'll be absolutely soul crushing when they decide they don't actually want you in their life though... I don't think I ever want to open up to anyone ever again.
>>34578024I'm sorry man>>34578046true, I've never could open up fully again after a heartbreak... And they are also not asking questions... I'm starting to think that at my age we all are emotionally damaged
>>34578210Well it is impolite to ask super personal questions... You just have to ease vulnerability into the conversation if you want connection. It'll hurt but you gotta do it if you want emotional connection.
>>34577300I get it. Been about 6 years since I last had any sort of romantic feelings for anyone.In a way it's good, I feel less foolish, but on the other hand, it is nice to have something to look forward to, and dream.But similar to what >>34578046 said, it's very toilsome to open up to others and fully invest yourself emotionally, only for things not to work out.But to answer the question, it can be fairly easy, specially if you're the type to fall in love quickly. You just need to interact with someone whose appearance and personality you like for a sufficient amount of time.Best ways to do so are either through a shred group of friends or social group, or a coworker, a colleague, etc.It's usually easy to develop a crush, it just needs a proper spark.
