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How do I get over the fact that my girlfriend is getting hundreds of horny comments on her ig? She has 15k followers and posts mostly cosplays, sometimes normal photos of herself. It's not something sexual. But every time I look in the comments of her posts there's dozens of horny comments of men basically admitting they're jerking off to her. How do I deal with this?
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>>34577498
be glad that you have such a hot gf. Why is this a problem?
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>>34577498
whats her @ im horny
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>>34577556
Because the thought of some basement dwelling incel "gooning" to her makes me uncomfortable
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>>34577560
so what, she is not cheating for real. You could have a "nun" like gf and some creeps could goon to her in secret. The only difference is that you know, that's it. You can never control these things.
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>>34577560

Maybe instead you can think "All these gooners want my girl so bad, but I'M the one who gets to fuck her"
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>>34577560
Valid feeling OP. You should be able to have a heart to heart convo with gf.
There are men who're uncomfortable with their actress gf kissing another man on screen and thar is valid but gooners and redditors will clown on them. You have to live through this. Talk to her, tell her that you're not comfortable, atleast she should know this.
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>>34577498
Try not dating a whore who flaunts her body on social media. Ever thought of that?
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>>34577498
It probably makes her uncomfortable too. That’s the internet for you. If you write thru your emotion where you feel like you can be chill talking about it, chances are you could either groan or laugh about it together with her and move on after processing it. Welcome to celeb dating. The emotion is legit, the comment section is out of your control and not worth your time.
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>>34577619
This "mindset" is literally the path to full-blown cuckholdry. If you ask cucks to elaborate on what they like about their disgusting fetish, they say its feeling like "all these dudes who are way better looking than me, with bigger dicks, giving her pleasure in ways I never could, yet I get to be the one who she chooses to be married to". Same shit, just further down the line
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>>34577746
damn, what a victim mentality kek
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>>34577498
Would you really feel better about it if she was so unattractive that this never happened?
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>>34577498
Tell her to stop posting sexy photos or cosplays. It’s normal to have boundaries and she should respect yours. I’m glad my girl doesn’t even use instagram cause I’m definitely the jealous and possessive type.
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>>34577640
That's it. Also it's not about your girlfriend having to stop being herself online, but maybe you can find a middle ground, like her toning it down or posting more stuff with you. My gf had many followers when we started dating and lost much of her follow count because it was mostly simps. Also, she can force unfollow on dudes that are creeping in her replies like this and keep the people that reply normally
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>>34577560
>me
dump her and get an uggo who nobody would give a second glance to but you
she'd probably leave you because of your rotten selfish personality
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>>34577498
option A
>tell her she has to quit, because you're uncomfortable
>she'll predictably say "You'll not control me! This is my passion!"
>break up
>you'll live in celibacy
>sucks

option B
>you do not do anything and you'll resent her for it

Either way, it's bad. I'd choose option A, frankly. If you do not put your foot down, it'll only worsen.
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>>34577650
All women do that.
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>>34577619
This. They are all 2nd place to you OP. If you're secure in yourself and your relationship [which it sounds like you're not] this is a non-issue.
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This is a bait thread to create ragebait, none of this is real.
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>>34579256
If OP really was in the 1st place, he could command her to quit.
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>>34579273
Even if it is bait, it's believable. This happens all the time in zoomer relationships.
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>>34577957
Boundaries are when you choose what you do in response to your reaction to things not telling other people what to do to manage your reactions
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>>34579277
Why have her quit? It's a hobby of hers. Who is OP to tell her what she can and can't do? Sounds like you're a control freak.
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>>34579306
>Why have her quit?
I do not like it.
>Who is OP to tell her what she can and can't do?
Apparently not as important as her hobby. So not in the 1st place.
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>>34579318
Dude you gotta get over yourself lmao. If some faceless nameless simps on the internet are affecting you this much maybe you should look into why, not lash out at your girl who isn't doing anything wrong. She's with you for a reason.
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>>34577498
honestly bro? be glad for that sort of comment, you know those guys instantly forget about her once they spooge

when you're actually dating a wholesome pretty girl the guys get obsessed with trying to talk to her and get likes and emoji reacts and sometimes even trying to call her or ring her doorbell when you're over
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>>34579335
Why me? Why not her?
>not lash out at your girl who isn't doing anything wrong
There is no right and wrong.
>She's with you for a reason.
Yes, for a reason. But which. That is the question.
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>>34579341
>>34579348
These are nothing guys who would dream to be in your spot. They 1000% forget about her and move on to the next girl after they're done. Meanwhile you are actually with said girl. This alone should make you feel above them. But it's clear their presence alone is making you insecure. Again she's with you for a reason man, get over yourself.
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>getting hundreds of horny comments on her ig
That's every attractive woman
You could instead get an ugly girl that wishes she were gooned to
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>>34579434
Ugly girls get attention, too.
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>>34577650
>posting cosplay photos makes you a whore!!
Fuck off incel
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>>34577498
>girlfriend
Stop playing pretend.
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>>34583659
Yes.
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>>34577498
I don't understand attention whores be they male or female. Something is wrong with them needing constant affirmation
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>>34583659
Literally every insta and onlyfans whore copes by calling what they do "cosplay". None of them want to own being prostitutes so they pretend that dressing up while shooting porn magically makes it into something else.
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>>34579256
See >>34577746

Fucking cuckhold
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you sound mad insecure dawg just tell your bitch to come here, she needs a real man



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