I just tunred 21 Im a kissless virgin, I was a shut in for the pest like 5 years due to depression and other mental issues. I finally got over a lot of those issues and also fixed my appearence by clearing up my acne fixing my teeth with braces and etc. I really crave romance in my life but I dont know how to start , should I use apps or go to certain places or what? also Im in europe if that matters
>>34577709start by getting into a social group preferably consisting of extroverts, and go out with your guy friend group. getting a relationship is harder than a friend group so focus on that first, it'll help too.
>>34577709How did you overcome the depression?
>>34577723Improving the way I looked helped for the most part. Being happy with what I see in the mirror or what I see when I pull out my id improved my self esteem and overall mood by a lot
>>34577709Give dating apps a genuine try. Even if you don't see immediate success, they'll help you gain confidence and get more comfortable starting conversations with women.
How are your social skills? If you are a shut in.. maybe first focus on that. Once you get better at that, you could focus on getting girls.
>>34578259>How are your social skills?I would say its decent. Been working part time for like 5-6 months now which helped a lot .
