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how come everyone always says it's my fault I failed in life and that I just didn't try but anytime I did try and took advantage of my opportunities, I was told it was unfair that I had opportunities others didn't get and that I should feel bad?

I once had an english teacher in high school tell me it wouldn't be fair to the other students for me to come to class early to claim a topic for a report. Imagine shaming your student for showing enthusiasm for school. How was I supposed to be encouraged to persevere through anything when everyone treated me like this for making any sort of effort?

oh well, I guess mom won't get those grandkids she wanted. Should have supported your kids instead of siding against us anytime we got messed with and tried to do something about it. I have no skills or assets to give to you because you made me give it away to the other kids and taught me to self-sabotage anytime I got my way for once.
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Because all of that shit is fake and you should have been selfish
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You clearly did not have enough X chromosomes nor did you have enough melanin
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damn. if only you'd been able to write that essay on that topic. every thing would have gone right after that for sure
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there was also that time I let a kid borrow my glue stick knowing that sharing school supplies was prohibited, and then the one day I forgot mine and asked him to let me borrow his he refused. Couldn't even look at me, just shook his head. That's how I knew he remembered me helping him out.

Or that time I got onto the school bus before everyone else when school let out and the bus driver allowed all of us to sit wherever we wanted that day instead of our assigned seats. So I grabbed a seat in the back, and the black girl who was assigned to that seat tried to tell me assigned seats were still enforced and that I had to move knowing full well no one else was sitting where they normally sat and she was full of shit.
I gave her the seat anyway instead of arguing because her dad returned home from the military that day and the school had an assembly where she was called to the stage and he surprised her. I didn't want to ruin her day, especially after that.

Do you think any of these people give a shit? Do you think they appreciate what I did? They clearly knew they were taking advantage of me and didn't care. They were counting on me to play along and feign ignorance. If anything, they probably feel good that they "finessed" me, like I didn't know the shit they pulled on me.

I can give more examples, but you'll just tell me my experiences don't matter and I should keep giving other people excuses to fuck me over because of their own weaknesses and shortcomings. As if anyone in my life ever tried to look at my life that way or give me excuses.
I unironically get told to let people treat me like shit because "maybe they had a bad day" Well you know what, my life in general was never that good, but I don't make it everyone else's problem



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